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What's Special about Yud Alef Nissan 1902 being a Friday? The Rebbe Gave the Answer.
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we're entering the hundred and twentieth
year
the valdic of the rebels
yama lettuce that was born april 18 1902
the dollar of nissan toughray summer
base and nicolaev and he was born on a
friday
why is that significant that he was born
on a friday
so the rapper once told his
his he he didn't tell him he's
his aide shalom bear
gansberg who would help in the rebbe's
house
with different chores and he helped
somehow
and once he was with the rebbe
and that ebb was pacing back and forth
and he was like talking out loud to
himself
and he overheard the rabbis saying
i'm always delayed
the button i'm not i'm not paraphrasing
the exact
words i'm sorry i'm not quoting the
words
exactly but paraphrasing them
in the book i was born on a friday
um
miss alamo you know in a rush
for shabbos is coming so friday the
nature of friday
is everyone's rushing even whether
friday is a short friday or a long
friday the winter the summer
makes no difference you'll see people
always rushing and nervous it's it's
shabbos shabbos is coming but was
lamenting the fact
that things are delayed
and he went on to and he continued
speaking about
saying the things that robert gunsberg
didn't
didn't want to hear and didn't agree in
a way and any and he commented to the
rebel
in a respectful way and he said
they feel that accomplished so much with
the younger light with with with
him and her bad houses and
and the number said
really really is good
if so it's good in other words
gansberg's words
appease the red this is recorded
in in his safer bakudesh padiba
and i was told by another one of the
shamoshim
of the rebbe's aides that gonz berg's re
words and recording and saying over the
stories are the most
accurate out of all the others this was
told
over by another aide
in the rebbe's house so i
think it's something we could believe
and what what's what's the meaning of
this
it's it's time for reflection
that's what the rabbit says in the imam
at the time of his
his body you know khabar is not into his
body this
isolation meditative isolation that's
the avoid of breslif
as you'll get a chance to read in my
new upcoming book called breast lift and
chabad
but the void of the approach is his bond
in this meditation
nevertheless that ebba says on you now
of nissan on his own yemen led this his
own birthday there's a time
for his bite of this a person should
take time to reflect
how his year was and what could he do
to make it better in the future the
upcoming year
so if there ever writes about himself
surely his hasidim
it's a lesson for us to do the same
thing because we
live with the rebels so we need to make
a hashbrish
of what we did from last year of listen
to the issue
of this and and what more we can do in
an improved way
for the upcoming year till udall of
nissan
one of the other great
lessons that we learned from the rebbe
in a human personal way is his respect
that he had for his parents
and in particular we saw this with his
mother
the rabbitson hannah that his mother
came here
in the mid-1950s she passed away in 1964
and the rebel would visit her every day
and there are many stories told of the
great
respect that he showed for her he would
never turn his back on her he would walk
out of the apartment 14 18 president
street from her apartment
backwards when his brother label passed
away in 1952
he arranged for letters to be sent to
her
that seemed to be from label although he
already passed away and that ever wrote
the letters
so that she would not think that her
that her that her son passed on
and he did many things throughout the
years for the honor of his mother of
course
the famous the fabregas tishrei's
mother's yard site
from that year from 64 on
and what we what we understand from this
is how how much a person a son
a daughter should respect a parent
kibadah aim it's not an easy mitzvah
it's probably
one of the hardest mitzvahs why
because it's a it's a mitzvah being adam
it's not a mitzvah being adam lamokin
it's not a mitzvah between man and god
but man and
and man and it requires the humanity
and the humanity is frail
and the humanity is selfish and the
humanity
is such that as much as you love your
your parents your mother your father you
have a wife you have children
you have work your friends and all kinds
of reasons and excuses
end up being the priority
that ebba did not let that be
trebu i think we all would say was
busier than we are
and definitely busier with more
important things than we
are the whole world was on his shoulders
kipchute
literally not just figuratively
but that ever worried about every eid
as we see from his letters and his
fabregans
and and and the videos and the dollars
when he spoke to people
it's it's public information if you're
just interested and open to knowing the
truth
it's the it's the facts and this
whose birthday is on udalif nissan what
does he highlight
kibbut avo and i say this because
my mother of blessed memory miriam
baskhaim yakov
passed on 15 years ago on the same day
your dollars listen
and i saw this with my mother how she
honored her mother
they were survivors they came from
poland
they miraculously survived the wars many
details last
december i had a chance to visit
the place of her birth uh it was a
little
a little place called uh makko of a
little city and then a little village
called costa schiltz
it's about 25 minutes or so out of
warsaw
and it was a an eye-opening experience
and i actually found the original birth
certificate
and my grandmother's marriage
certificate and she was married by
rabbi zilberberg who was the son-in-law
of
don plusky
and i actually saw the shul that
survived the nazi
bombardment and crosstalk shields and
that was very very moving
when my grandmother was in her older age
and she wasn't well she would lie on the
couch in this house here in borough park
where i live today and my mother and she
fell asleep
and my mother didn't want that her
mother should roll off the couch and
onto the floor and maybe hurt herself so
my mother would
lay down at night
right by the edge of the couch so in
case her mother falls
she'll fall on my mother
that's quebec let's keep it
aim
that's great respect
so on a day like udall of nissan which
of course for us
siddhim it's the yoim habbo here
with the hay it's the day of brilliance
the day of illumination the day of
radiance
of light when hakodesh barhu
blessed his nation by sending such a
holiness
into the world of nissan tough
base february 18th sorry april 18
1902 and today
entering a hundred and twenty years
later
we have to know that the significance of
a hundred and twenty
is a milestone we wish everyone so slept
is a hunting sponsor you should lift 120
right
it's not just a number it represents a
cycle it represents a cycle that we've
gone through
every possible situation and now begins
a new cycle what's the new cycle the
mashiach cycle
and this indeed was the rebbe's
objective and his goal and his desire
and it hasn't finished and that's why i
tell my friends and i tell everyone
that ebb is alive what do you mean that
was alive
of course they never passed away
physically gimbal thomas
1994 but his mission is alive and if his
mission is alive
he is alive what's his mission to bring
mashiach is
here yet not yet
so bama therefore it's up to us
to continue that mission and we do
continue that mission
another thing that the rabbis showed all
the years during
having yehides and this also i heard
from my mother my mother went into
yahidis once with the rebel and she had
an issue that she discussed with him and
by the way
my mother was raised in costa rica after
the war they came to costa rica
and she spoke spanish and there ever
told you can speak to me in spanish i
understand
he answered her in yiddish which she
understood
and she spoke but she spoke spanish
better she can express herself better
and she had an issue it happened to be
with me when i was a young boy
and she was concerned and it was an
issue that
that frankly wasn't uh
it wasn't so not respectable meaning it
wasn't so
nice it was it was something you know
that was not such a
pleasant issue and
and she spoke to that and then i had to
listen to her
like a mother
today rabbi sai we need
and we could and we should communicate
with
our rabbi our tata our father our
sadiq on all issues
and talk to him the way it is
yeah he wants to hear from you he wants
to hear from us
he doesn't want us to mince words and to
dress them up
and cut this way and cut that way say it
the way it is
talk from your heart what am i yates in
my left nipples in my left words from
the heart
penetrate the heart the other's heart
if you speak from the heart if you speak
from the cup
from the mind it doesn't penetrate the
heart
like that famous siddhis avert says the
beginning of
you says
right get up in the morning early like a
lion
roaring and excited so
see them would say if you go to sleep
like a lion you'll get up a lot like a
lime but if you go to sleep like a fed
like a horse you ain't getting up like a
lion
if you talk to the rabbit from your cup
you're not getting his heart
if you talk to the rabbit from your
heart you'll get
his heart because
specially distributing matzah making
sure everyone has a pace
for them and and the funds for for
pesach
physical eyes and hear them with our
physical ears to
hear now not tomorrow but now so that
when it comes the time of the pesach
will eat from the sacrifices
of