What did the Rebbe tell Reb Elye Gross in 1954 about Reb Yoel - New Story in honor of his Shloshim

so in his honor in his memory i'd like to share a few stories some of which is in my latest book that came out and it's available on my website rabbi dolphin d-a-l-f-i-n-dot-com it's 1954 arabio marries the daughter of rabzalman butman rabbits in leia khan i heard this following story from rebnuchi gross of crown heights who told me he heard it from his father directly who was instructed by the rebbe after the oil married to find an apartment for rebjoyal and rabbits and leia khan in crown heights and that ever told him what type of apartment an apartment that has two windows in a manner in which there's good cross ventilation and good lighting it's a short little story but it's an insight into the rebbe's concern and closeness to the khans and i share the story not just because it's something that most of the babies doesn't know about but because it shows on the relationship and the relationship is not to make the khans you know holier than thou and rebuild who was a a husset and a genius and everything else that's not the purpose of the story the purpose is to show that there are being and our ebba had a special interest in this couple to the point where not only does he want elia gross nuki's father to find him an apartment but he wants it to have good ventilation cross ventilation so that you can open the windows and because there's two windows on either side there's a good wind in the summer in those days air conditions were not rampant were not found in apartments and in houses as well it was not yet the days where there was air condition all over and also good lighting so it's bright for this new young couple and this reminds me of another story going back to raphael khan rabio's father and jose that i borrowed showing that the relationship of the rabbi and from the rebel shop and the rebel yachts were also close and looked favorably at this khan family and and i wanna at the end i'll summarize what the point i'm getting at so it's 1929 i believe and it's moscow it's the harold synagogue a beautiful show which still stands today and is open and you can go visit i visited in 2019 and in that show there's a mix in the basement and after stalin came out with his edicts and he closed most of the shoes and the khadora and the haters and and the mikviz and all that this shoe was still open because they're they wanted to show that they still like jews and they like judaism and therefore they they don't mind that older people senior citizens dove and learn but they were against young children because to study and learn they wanted them to be indoctrinated in russian culture which meant the rejection god forbid of a god and all that so the board of the shoe decided they're going to close the mikvah because the mikveh was something that's used by young people uh by women who are of childbirth age and that they were against and the board didn't want to have problems that if they don't close the midfast they were told to that might they the government will close the the show so they closed the mix and a few others but it was led by the baroque show he went to them and he said you better open the mikvah if you don't open the mikvah we're going to we're going to react of course they didn't listen and it was during the yamtiv i believe either of you shall pass force i forget not the exact jumptive then all of a sudden that barak shalom and a few others came into shul and when they were about to take out the safe potato for clear certain for the reign of the traitor they disrupted the whole shul and they made noises and they didn't allow them to take out the trailer and they said we're not moving from here until you all agreed to open that midfield and there was chaos in the show and they had no choice and the board opened the mikvah i was down in the basement there and i saw the mikvah was that the area of the mickville this story is recorded by emmanuel michelin who the rebbe told to print his memories of living in 50 years in moscow from 1922 to 1972 and that have actually gave him i think four thousand dollars to princess safer it's called hagar helles it's a one-of-a-kind safer his memories he was the son-in-law of the love at that time in in the show so it's a first-hand story he told he says he was there when it took place this is what the type of say that grandfather that burial had on one on this paternal side a yi to his mesa fish and then we talk about his his his son and the bjorn's father have fallen s who was they say one of the ten kasitham that was quite his priest who made a pact to feed the kare but do or die for yiddish kite and who helped so many eden and brought eden to siddhis and he was himself a mashipia and a talmud enigla and then he came to crown heights and i happened to develop a close relationship with him and spoke to him quite a bit so on the ginza lubavitch tapes which i pop which i released years ago if you haven't listened to them it's a interview recordings of six hasidam being interviewed about their memories of the babbage they all learned and the one that that's interviewed for about eight hours is risen and he says there when the interview when the interviewer asks him about uh his statement his answer is they're part of the rebels household for the khan they put a full gun that's like you know like a brother and sister to the rabbi and theresa was a very smart clustered an intelligent custard and he was a pikachu clever not a shaytan not a fool and and the way he answers the question is like what are you comparing other hasidan to the khans they have a special place in the chabad leadership of the rabbeim so when i heard this from and i put this and then read the story in in in michelin's book and then i heard the story with with the rebbe asking ella gross to find the oil and his wife an apartment i put them all together and i share this with you to show and this is just a tip in the iceberg that this family stands for humility subservience to the abrasion and to the rabbi so it's only natural that rabbi yo whose slating is tomorrow with tavis dishmaster for the benefit of his soul we we we need to look at the family the history where he comes from he comes from a father and a zether that that by the freedom stayed at times in their apartment in in their apartment in moscow this is written in in in the secrets this is there's no see there's no secret why did he trust them the rebel shot defeated because they were like blood they were like family and up yo is a continuation was a continuation of this but male 1 therefore what's the lesson for us as we're clay the shadow and we're coming to the young tavern the lesson is that those people that are are his students and those people that he he he put them on their feet meaning in the sense of understanding properly siddhis and the ways of hasidis those are people that people should look to learn with and listen to because these people took from them the right hash and the right hadraja they took from they were trained by these by him with his pedigree with which has the sanctioning and backing of the last three rabbi there are shabab there are yachts and however and i i share i say this for another important point many people in the last 30 years think they knew it of yoil they didn't they did not you needed to learn with him and be with him in the 60s and the 70s and a little bit in the 80s but from after gimmel thomas he wasn't the same person i'm sorry i've discussed this with other sydney and they i'm not going to go into it has nothing to do with politics the real nebula okay is the oil of the 50s 60s 70s and maybe early 80s that's it that's it so those tell me them that and and another thing it's not just everyone automatically was installment for example we had a 30 40 50 at this year when he gave the sheer and samavov that my mother of the rashabe only about 5-10 guys were into it although everyone came but a lot of people fell asleep and whatever and maybe didn't understand again i'm not saying this to make one person better than the other that's not the point but the point is that when you when you want to be macabre when you want to receive you need to receive from the right person if that's what you're looking for so therefore rabbi said there are there are serious real students that are all over the world this week they had their fabregans and they had videos pay attention to those individuals to to to share what he taught us and when you'll do that you'll get a little taste of of of his teaching and his and the rebbe in in the years later relied on him both in the sephora er kim the encyclopedia of chabad taraba seven the flaming ace of seven the going who the author of the you know the the main editor of the encyclopedia talmudic he he wrote to the rabbit that it's not coming out and quick enough and also the style he didn't agree with and that ever said to him i've given it over to a very very respectable knowledgeable person and how can i pressure him to do his job quicker i'll be taking away a person's gishmak a person's pleasure and enjoy enjoyment in siddhis and i can't do that that ever writes that to rabbi zeven in the in a letter and sprinted in igris koi dish look it up and then later in the in the late 1980s there was an issue with choosing rabbanim in crown heights and if you got involved because you felt it had to do with the rebels honor and someone wrote to the rebels saying it's not his position you know not his place why is he mixing in and that i be answered he i he has done for me many many things i think the lesson is the i see a sidious tons of things and like i've approved them and i've sanctioned them so don't tell me that he's he has no place in getting involved in this area and and there's many many other things no one's perfect people make mistakes if you don't make mistakes we all make mistakes but as far as the rabbis understanding the rebel and the rebels approach what they ever wanted of them what they ever wanted of jew of the jewish people that ever wanted what they ever wanted of the babbage he was the closest that got it right well dave mr helpful that um this shabbos of elo is 30 days a slating from the time when his nashamah returned to the stood that the god almighty should have mercy on claudius so he and all of the eden will be resurrected with the coming of meshiach and we'll do this with simcha because everything needs simcha without joy without simcha it doesn't it doesn't go it doesn't work we should do it with simcha and sincerity and humility and will be said to the ghoulish lama because of mamesh now may be written described in the book of life for a sweet healthy happy new year amen