What did Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka say when Hendel Lieberman showed her a painting he drew of the Rebbe

i reflect on two things that i want to share with you one is a statement something that i've been told the dove heiken he's a local politician here in brooklyn he was for many years and a very fine person his his parents were survivors and he stands up for yiddish and from kite in many ways and he and he says the way he is he doesn't miss words he's not scared i give him a lot of credit because there are a lot of cowards out there he's not a coward so he went by that as we all did to console the comfort that ever during shiva and he said to the dead yo yo i'm paraphrasing it's online you could see the exact words but something that affected a special wife and and that stopped him like cold right right there and then ever said yes she was very much misunderstood or underestimated i don't recall now the exact wording but something to that effect and then he went on and i thought about this from i'm still thinking about it what did it ever mean to say that his wife that ebbinson was misunderstood or underestimated i don't know and no one really knows because then i didn't say however what we could say is that the rabbit since was a very private person and because of her privacy hasidim didn't really know her in fact most of us it was most of us since the 1960s and on 70s for sure only saw her one time like the aimer i believe 1980 at the window of the library we could see her at the window you could you know you could just see and if you saw it clearly but everyone said that's her in the early years in the 50s 60s i think she sometimes came to the car and she picked up the rebel to go home but but even that so what do you know about a person so we know stories and people have shared and then it's all wonderful but we still didn't know the person there ever did we know that ever we but we knew him more because if he brained and he spoke in public as abuel said the rapper revealed himself doing fabregas he want that's when he spoke to the public but she didn't so this privacy led some people to i'm not going to say discount her but not feel that she's really part of the entire movement of everything that's happening and that's totally erroneous and this is what i believe that ebba was alluding to that she specifically was the backbone of the khabad labanche movement from 1951 on and what we see today because she was that amber's backbone we also know her famous statement to nat lewin during the um forum case where they deposed her and she he asked her to who did these books belong to uh to your father or to see them as she said they belong to hasidim because my father belonged to hasidim tremendous answer and truth amis exactly right on finally i heard just this week this story that blew my mind and it goes along with what we're saying in the early 1950s sierreefkin who was married to the motlifkin asked her cousin to handle lieberman handle foot of us and mendel's older brother who changed his name to lieberman he was a hasidic artist the first classic artist so she asked him to paint uh to draw an art to do a picture of the rebbe and he said fine and that's the picture where you see that everybody walking like we're holding the sydney because that's what they never did and then they uh the pendle brought it to the rebbe's house and there but somehow mushkil was there and he spoke to her in russian she loved speaking in russian that handled new russian and they also i think knew each other from way back and he shows it a picture of her husband of the river and he asks her so what do you think so listen to what she answered she said i heard this from family members so you drew a picture of your debut of his knit my man but he is not my husband what and they had a relationship where you know she could say it the way it is and he could take it the way it is she left he left the picture there overnight i assumed that she showed it to the weapon the next day she gave back the picture what does this mean it was the malt diner you painted you drew your rabbit oh but it is nick my mom but he's not my husband when i when i first heard it i was startled what do you mean you could say it's not a nice picture and again some want to interpret this very simply it was a bad drawing first of all it wasn't a bedroom you could still see it it's out there there's a book of his drawings you could check it over there i believe i believe i think what she was saying is there is the uh the rebbe as every horse that takes that ever from his perspective from his vision his mind and heart decides who and what the rabbi is to him and she was saying to the pendulum to us rabbi ladies and the gentlemen is greater than what you understand and perceive of him it is nick my mind meaning that's not my husband the rebel that's you rabbit but i see him as a continuation of my father that i believe it could happen today but i shot my grandfather that obey him till the altar ever and he's something very different that's my interpretation take it or leave it but the words themselves are powerful and let's repeat them again to us however he is not my husband now boys when we have a york site of such a tsardaekis that ebberson a person who was completely dedicated to the mission of khabad labach to the mission of her parents and ancestors and more most importantly to her husband alan ebba that itself is it you don't need more you don't need her to come out in public you don't need her to make uh tea parties you don't need it to raise funds many things which other rabbitsons do in today's hasidic rebbe world and i'm not poo pooing the classic show them that's their style color covert but our rabbitson was a lady a woman at sardacas who completely was subservient to her husband and didn't want anything to get in the way of that and she was supportive of him we know that she didn't go to sleep till he came home three four five in the morning six in the morning she was up all night waiting for him because she had such terrible credits for him and we also remember what she told the rabbi krinsky the night of shamini when the rabbi had a heart attack initially by mayrev and then he had a more most a more severe heart attack about 3am and the doctors wanted to take him to the hospital to sedate him and he didn't want to go and just at that time when they decided they're going to do that she came down the steps and she asked robert krinsky how is that ever doing and he said the doctors wanted to date him take him to the hospital so she and he asked her her opinion and for permission because she she she's she gives the permission so she said in all my life i i never saw him do anything that out of that wasn't within his control that he that he didn't he wasn't exact with what he thought and uh if he says he doesn't want to go to the hospital he should not go to the hospital even though he's not well he's very ill and the doctors you know say he should go but he's in control of his destiny she said that robert crinsky said publicly it's online that at that moment it was between life and death he didn't say those words i'm paraphrasing and she had the courage because she knew her husband you understand because she know that he's this isn't just a painting of your perception of what he is and therefore he's not well he's sick he might die take him to the hospital no she saw him as a hamster as a continuation of the six other obey him and she said if he as a tsatix says he doesn't want to go that's the will of god whatever happens is between god and him and that's it and he didn't go my boys say ladies gentlemen people friends think about these things and you have inspiration to serve hashem better and to learn siddhis and connect to the rabbayam and our rebel and we should be and also certified should merit the trio and all eaten immediately and she rabbits and joseph yitzhak should be together with us in jerusalem