vyadata #11 - Why and How does G-d create force to Challenge us - Understanding Ourselves

gonna learn we're on page do you have the mimer in front of you good morning of rome how are you sam i'm doing okay okay so let's learn it's pretty hard what okay i said working pretty hard these days okay well it's good to get some acetate in my brain okay let's put some seeds into your brain now um let's go to let's go to the paragraph who begins with um it's like the last it's the second to the last i think paragraph of the mimer i um do you follow that you have that [Music] good morning everyone let's learn um however we must understand we learned that the purpose of the eight to hundred was to transform it but the never asked a very simple question okay no problem but why not give them equal footing why do you forget why does the yet sahara come to a child from birth you know and the yates are tying only comes a borobus mitzvah it's not fair that's his question sade is a sick child and a wise child from an older foolish king this refers to because he doesn't come to a person until the age of 13. there is an attitude that whatever the aids are says you shouldn't listen to um and one shows to himself reasons why we shouldn't listen to the eighth him and that individual finds puts his head and his and his most of his body into excuses and reasons why uh he should be mako lenient and and hetero find the permission to do whatever he wants to do so in other words so so that's why it's called miskin in other words he's old he's weak he's not no one's listening to him right um why is he called why is the other one called because he teaches people how to go on the right path and learn gaining he teaches creatures to go on the right path so [Music] this type of person is better i mean excellent from an old foolish king sahara well i'm a nickname why does the yates of herder call the king maybe because everyone [Applause] [Music] amongst the ones who learn tighter those the funky little unison they find the permission the power of permissibility is more is more superior this is a this is a quote by the way from the gamut when you have the kayak forbidden and the kayak of hatter the it's better to be permissible right it's better to be positive let's put it in in our simple words abraham it's better to be positive than negative the problem is that sometimes we take this and we say i'm going to use the power of of head there to find excuses and my entire judaism is a judaism of excuses oh there's a hectare for this and there's a hectare for this and the hectare for this you know you can always find a rabbi in a ruling to rely on the hain hema says that this is a malady mikhail this opens a wide opening and a wide gate the whole mini to all kinds of disgust you hear that in other words in this issue that you're that you're being lenient you have a good hector you're innocent right the problem is not this issue the problem is that you're you're training yourself to find hetero says that but this is disgusting why what does it show about your your whole attitude to yiddish kite is you don't give it excuse the expression you don't give a damn you don't care and that's why you're always finding excuses so yeah here you found a great excuse a great hector but if there's a pattern in your behavior of excuses and saying you're allowed to do this and this you can like you can almost do anything you know why you always find a rabbi in a rub and a in the gemara and the authorities that follows your give me an example give me an example is 18 minutes right after lifting the candle lighting time that every hour when he would go to the ohil many times janison was there he could attest to it he would come back very late it was dark outside i remember once in the summer time he came back at 10 30 11 at night it was like 8 30 it was like two hours later or so so i i asked some of the people you know what's the rebel was so religious so from is there a source in halacha they said yeah there's a sheet of the rambam according to the opinion of the rambam it's still considered a day it's not considered night now did they ever use this every day absolutely not here he was diving at the oil for claudia's role he was praying to god to help you who wrote to him letters and had all kinds of problems so it was masira's nephesh so he put aside the norm that one that one time or whenever he went to the oil and if and if and if simply there wasn't the time on the amount of time to be able to dive in earlier he he you know he he came late and he used the header of the rambam that is still min time to david because trust me if there wasn't a hector and aloha he would not have a minha so and you know that and you know in the early years in the 50s the 60s when he would go to the earth sometimes it was very late at night he would stop in the middle of the way on atlantic avenue at balsam printing rabbi schusterman rabbi martha schusterman who was the balcore in 770 he had a printing press called balsam printing on atlantic avenue i believe and he stopped and all of a sudden he showed up and he died with mitchell there and once he died i think on the road you know later for whatever reason um i think the bausan moved away i don't know why but he went back to 770. the point i'm making is there is a time when a hectare is is is is justified but if you make a lifestyle of a head there it's not just a fight so that's that's the way i would i would classify the difference between a legitimate header and not a legitimate if it becomes a lifestyle it's not legitimate if it's once in a while as an exception to a rule it's acceptable clear so that's why the rebber writes here the previous lab writes here a very very um harsh language this is an opening for all kinds of bad it's very harsh and it's disgusting and and and vulgar yes avraham you wanted to say something no not you okay let's go find it [Applause] when does he come to us from our youth isaac our old age so he's a real old guy is an expert the isa masayo niga daila and he does his work with great craft based on the person's essence and situation and he knows how to uh manipulate well shames and nikita shay moment that's why in this matrix that we're quoting he's called an omen a craftsman an expert craftsman the yesh nepali of the yeshwaman says that but there's two things there is a worker avraham mentioned to me that is working very hard there is a worker then there is uma what's um we don't mean um although it might be spelled the same way uman means a person who's a worker but he's uh he's an expert right from the word which means he's an expert craftsman who what's the difference between a poet a worker and a woman a parallel worker someone who does work but masha who in yami he does what is his site what his job is however and an expert worker a craftsman doesn't just do work he does meticulous work he does beautiful work like a a a carpenter who who makes um very specific types of carpentry and cabinetry etc that's an uma he's not just someone else how to bank a nail into a piece of wood that's a worker he here you have someone who's able to use his hands in such a way that he could design and make something very very articulate and beautiful and so now he goes back to the media this is why he ate sahara is called the um does his job with tremendous skill and craftsmanship is in things that are not at all age-appropriate this is so this is so you know you don't find this in my mood room you know like like excuse me you're dirty old man like get over it man you're an old man calm down you had your fun already no he's still cooking this is literally fiatically saying this is not appropriate for his age you know you're not a teenager anymore your you know your your passions and hormones are you know calm down already you had your fun go on or with what was anger or with tyver or was coveted with honor you already honored enough in the newspapers when you were 30 and 40 and 50 and you had lots of money they put your name all over enough already but if you gave me my mother matsuva um club and the eighth of her make someone stumble yoni in such a way that really they themselves wouldn't dream of doing this the llama is you now one more term is used in that madness he's called the it's a haraok seal a fool why he teaches a person a bad way a foolish way hence we call him a fool when it comes to the different descriptions of the human species this the speaking species there are many different uh expressions ish person enos three those are three out of the four the enos the word enos which means human is the lowest of the three pirosh this refers to a man who is weak in human qualities this fellow doesn't have the virtue of good character villain and he doesn't have the virtue of strong intellect but nikra and basham and and and and they're called such people are called brios creatures so the word enosh refers to someone who is not strong in intellect not strong in character basically he's just a creature now comes the one above that the torah ish this the notes this denotes someone who's strong in the quality of character amongst people commission says a person with with his strength so what do we see that this person this ish the name ish refers to someone who's dispen displaying a strong character in in that situation so in other words it denotes character this person middles and this person's character is guided by intellect and therefore sin we call them ish because he's able to make his seijo guide his middles so his meters don't go out of control that takes his strength that takes kivura now he goes to the third name bahama hey yo and the advantage of all three who better adam is the description of the human in the word which denotes someone who is an intellectual someone who thinks about everything and before the person acts it's thought out it's meticulous and it's very very disciplined because of the mind although man's advantage is also in such character behavior that's guided by seijo so if so why do i use the the the term um of of what's called of other force mokin for seiko when if you have healthy character that's guided by the intellect why do we use the second cat the term ish instead of the term adam that's his question he answers this question nevertheless it still does not refer to the ultimate completion wholesomeness of the mind in other words yes the mind is there's enough of the mind there to guide the character that's true but you're not going to say that this person is so solid as an intellectual i mean to say as someone who everything he does is is mohammad al-alain right the heart controls the the sorry the mind controls the heart that's not the person there's two there's by the way yes in this two in chapter 12 the altar evan mentions the concept of mind over matter and chapter 17 and tanya but there's a difference between the two in chapter 12 i believe he talks about the very pure mind over the heart and he says be told you're born that way chapter 17 i think don't quote me have to look it up i don't have it in front of me but in chapter 17 he's talking more of a practical intellectual process over the heart which might be the difference between these two terms for a human being adam versus enosh now he brings it back to our discussion of the eights of toys from the eights of hurricane because though i have fish and this is the difference between the yates a child whose wives or malamed games so great that it takes an ordinary person who's only in the third category of enosh briece they don't have strong intellect they don't have great character they're basically existing and the yates are tired educates and or better said he hates has that individual who's just a creature behaved properly that's a great accomplishment the guy melo shane is he now talks out he explains what i just said even though that all they are is just creatures claymore collusion verifying they're weak bedtime vomit in they conduct themselves according to tajira because with carefulness vehicular and mitzvos and they beautify mitzvahs myceos of deed for shame in life when they listen to the age of three to follow in the right path hey these people are milo madre de voyage a much higher level you know why the bottom line is they're doing what god wants they're not no big intellects intellectuals they know they don't have the stellar uh character but when it comes to mrs micias bottom line mitzvahs they beautify the mitts for why because they're told this is the way you should do it they don't ask any questions they don't have they don't have issues and they just do it the way they're told so the evidence says they're a lot higher the energy person who on the outside is lower than other menish but but at the end of the day they're higher why are they higher because they just do what they're told to do and as we see in actuality but come and supporting tata the island the evil but milo's table said they climb rung to rung higher and higher in good qualities their compare this to the opposite [Applause] inaudible what does the hr do he teaches and and makes someone do bad gama michoud but milo southern he takes the person who on his own would be an adam the highest of the three descriptions an intellect and the yatzahara works on that other yeah and he says commissioning i'll give you an example says the rebel look at this he says he takes this great intellect like i told you over and over the story aristotle the man the genius of all people the smartest person and he finds himself in doing something very inappropriate that when they ask him they said at that time i wasn't aristotle so what happened over here the eight zahara got to adam the eight zahara got to someone who epitomized intellect and brought him down to be like an animal that's what he says and he becomes what we call a shaita a fool why a fool if you can if you're so smart and you're so bright and you're so disciplined and now you act this way you're a real fool it says to the opening sin sprouts forth jumps forth dominates a person or human being from the moment you come out of your mother's womb the heart of an inclination of man is fed from its childhood from its youth the isabel xiaomi comes along it says right the word is which means youth the gemara says don't read it as the word youth but read it as another word let's see what it says to shake shake from the moment that he the the fetus so why is that he says why he'd go back he's going back going back to the original question [Music] it's not fair in other words as soon as god shakes the little fetus out of the mother's womb into the world already the exotics there is that fair hey nemesis and it's true foreign to womb action must be nice until you administer an oath it's the beginning of tanya the umayyad what is the ultimate noise we give the oath to the soul be righteous the question is asked on this mama yeah what will an oath helps much being as an efficiently kiss when giving an oath to the godly soul shall never shall it keeps with sadiq never shall kiss his always righteous it doesn't need an oath it's going to act it's going to act good who seeks to bring a person and creatures all to god or muhammad's quran and the yeast is always finding merit on a personal alma the aussie why the person should merit to the world to come go and they inform the heavenly best in the heavenly court hey this guy was bad on earth and therefore he shouldn't have a portion of the world to come so this goes back to this question of him cain mom never shot what will help administering an oath to the nephew bomb is the animal drive hashmash been on efficient [Music] now those like this i'm sorry who gets the oath in the shama right you're innocent that's the necessarily kiss the definition of the kiss doesn't need it one second so one second the difficulties doesn't need it and what what how will the oath to the nephew shall it is help the nebuchadness the two different people two different drives and man it's like you're not talking to the right party i just want to conclude the paragraph what does this will mean it comes to the word is associated with the word satiate surveyor should know them so they have godliness of the kids god satiates with greater amount than efficient against the godly shows that he has the power to overcome the desires from this perspective the yate sahar and it's all of stuff makes no difference keep the whole life him because nevertheless the age of life is given the power and he has the mechanism to overcome [Applause] [Music] um coming into the person uh the baby before the baby the babies later cannot come into the baby before it comes down to the wounds the other one is like a wig that is forced to baby to fight this way out of the mood and hurt the murder the second thing is that how do we steal the need to hurt a baby a baby is such a cute little thing the mother likes the baby the baby is so cute how do we create the heart in the baby [Music] where are you you're in florida yes yes yes i'm a florida yes