Ukraine War - lesson 1 Deal w problem from healthy perspective not morbidly - Mammar Or lArba 1940

so good morning to everyone it's a new day a new beginning and um we're going to dedicate the urim for the safety of all eden and ukraine and russia and we'll also dedicate it to everyone needs to afford shalema and we'll also dedicate it to uh mashiach's coming so if we still had to go through another sign that mashiach is around the corner or is here and we don't see him whatever your version of the machine is um let this be the last of the events you know it's like we just finished the pandemic and look what we get i guess we need the we need we need more we need more to bring moshiach so we have to stay positive and focused and follow i'm telling you the rebels suggestions that ever alluded to these things 30 40 years ago in different vibraniums where he would say the belt chuckle which means the world is shaking and trembling and he and he would say uh malchia is nations are angering at each other fighting with each other and he's referring to various different fights at the time in in the 80s in the you know would be in lebanon and then also with russia ukraine at various times and of course iraq in 1991 and uh they never had us uh you know that ever was unfathomed by the events now you know some will say well of course a man who lived through the 1905 japanese russian war and he lived through the 1914 first world war and he lived through the 1917 revolution and he lived through the 1939 the world war ii so basically that ever in this in the span of 92 years of his life which is basically the entire 19th uh um i'm sorry 20th century right from 1902 when he was born to 1994 when he appeared when he had his he passed away the establish he had almost a hundred years of wars and of needless to say the six day war and the yom kippur of muhammad and how did he had me look at all this he looked at it it was a positive eye he looked at it that every day sends to the world what the world needs at the time we don't understand it we're not happy about it but but if you pay attention carefully you will see for example the entire balcony movement that sprung up in the 60s into the 70s etc which now is like a given began because of the counter-revolution uh in the 60s where where where the kids were unhappy with this the status quo of the 40s and 50s and he said you know go somewhere and we want more and so they you know they didn't know how to express it so they expressed it in very very you know um wild ways but if that led to the opening of the baltic shiva movement and then all these people they asked for yeshiva the khabada shiva the the the the the chappelle's yeshiva as they uh although they it all came from what from a negative it all came from counter-revolution right from the hippie age the drug age the lsds and everything else right so what do you see that the arida is the descent the problem is actually a springboard a springboard for health for growth and that's the same thing now there's no question about it that there's going to be a positive result from now and i'll i'll let i'll let you in on the secret which you could share with others it's no secret that i'm putting this year there's going to be a big revelation i don't know what it is but i'm convinced that purim would pay attention to what's going to happen on purim it will be a big revelation what that is i don't know whether the stock market will jump a thousand points or 000 points or um or uh there'll be a ceasefire or putin will be assassinated or he'll look i can't tell you what it's going to be but purim there's going to be a big gilly because it's purim so that's the secret that rabbi dolphin is giving you a week and a half before pouring but all kidding aside we're learning this mimer 158 and then my mother will cut from the previous rabbit it's a moment that he said actually in america he said it that previously became you know he came uh test other shaming today is valid in five days from now is the anniversary when there ever came in 1940 so how many years is that 82 years five days from today test understanding will be 82 years that the frida kreb arrived in america in 1940 i think was march 9th at that that year i think anyway anyway um he said hasidis because says hasidis where was he moshe where was the river from when he came till uh sometime during listen anyone know in lakewood no in lakewood he was he went i think the week after this mimer was set i think it's the brownstone hotel no it's not called brownsville it's called the gravestone hey stone excuse me the grace tone the gravestone hotel which still exists on broadway in the upper west side of manhattan it's owned by satmar khasidam a friend of mine from shul uh who was part of that family who became the babbage invited me to go see it because although things have changed but he says you know the floor in which the frida kadabra was at is is still there and they redid the room but i think the outside of the room again is also redone but they i believe know where that room is where he where he stayed and downstairs in the lobby or the dining hall is where he had the fabranians from i think a week or so after this mimo or during the same week i'm not sure sometime during missing until uh he stayed there until i believe uh ello when he moved into 770 after they purchased the building that's as far as i remember so this minor was said in um at the grace in in the grace the hotel as far as i know and uh it's very important to reflect back at the time before we begin learning what was the time it was the beginning of the holocaust american jewry didn't really know about the holocaust much at the time okay it wasn't until later 41 42 when they really understood what's going on because it was the very beginning and the philippines of course knew it and in fact in the purim fabregan of that year now those are two weeks before in other words the problem is coming up 82 years ago we have a record of that vibranium we have uh the written record sichus in the safer has 1940 which you could read and you should read and i think it's been translated by secrets in english in in english and it's it's a very heavy secret you got you gotta you know you gotta make sure you've eaten before you read that secret because it talks about the blood being spilled in europe you want to get a first-hand account from someone who just came and survived to read that secret and the rebels says on one hand how can i be talking how can we be talking out of a brainer now when our brethren's yes just interesting uh question the question is interesting to me when the rabbit arrived i don't know the exact dates historically but i'm just curious if anybody knows when the rabbit arrived in the united states in 1940 is it possible that the united states had still not entered the war yeah i believe i think the united states had not get into the war no i mean but that's a google that's easy to find out but i'm almost sure they didn't check it out on google later or now whatever anyway so so that ever the previous spoke and with a heart a heartbroken heart you know he spoke at the same time he said it's put him so how do you balance the two it's exactly what we're doing how do we balance now people being killed and this chaos and this this this destruction and purim's coming okay so you'll say well then it was to our you know brothers and sisters and now it's not so much our brother well first of all look look online all these schluchem and jews that have run it run away i mean i i i don't want to think about it because it's it's so painful a person imagine let's all of us imagine we establish ourselves there to throw all of your nurtures through 20 30 years and all of a sudden you have to run it with with a suitcase to make sure that they don't a bullet doesn't kill you a missile doesn't kill you you run to to the the train station over there but chemist to get out and you run to tel aviv with the train and then you take it imagine with children elderly people it's it's it's really uh it's really sad and it's really it's it's it's it's terrible it's terrible you know and you say with hashem things will calm down and you know over the months and you know i think they'll return at some point i don't i'm not sure that they'll be able to have the exact same kegela communities because people that have gone out to poland and germany and moldova and here there you know once you taste a little freedom you tend to stay there so we'll have to see so the frida kader went through that so when we learned this mimer well even before we begin learning inside the mimer the situation by practice i didn't think about it when i said i want to learn this mime i thought about it space are coming let's learn a nice pace of mimer but if you think about the the connection think about the connection it's very very apropos to learn about it and again i believe that we'll see as we go through the mimer different lessons we could take for the situation so let's pay attention to this and you should know that these type of urim a friend of mine tells me that on chat group somewhere in australia they posted either my uh my clip that i made for the shabbos about the the previous lesson for the war situation based on the mind that we learned before zelkar which we spoke about so um you know hashem that uh you know people who are now trying trying to hang on and find things that they could find in the in the laboratory of ames writing and teachings to give them um is something that we're also contributing towards so bear that in mind okay all right a lot of boss uh the bishop says well based on first with the help of hashem we always read the top line which was written by the rebel himself so it's holy bassam dalit with the help of hashem gimble the word yom is in brackets because it wasn't i believe in the original they think but young gimbals tuesday tough so moshe maybe you're right maybe he was already in the gray stone hotel that day you might be right actually but it's either the great i'm sorry maybe he was already in lakewood you actually might be right gotta have to check there's a there's a human there's a diary of the previous rapper recording and you could you can easily see if it was on custis in in in lakewood or greystone hotel but anyway it's one of the two places tough so this is eighth of nissan tuesday eighth of this in 1940. a lot of us um the night of the 14th late we searched for hummus to the light of a candle it's any place that you don't bring comments there inside of medica the mishna says you don't have to search why because there's no you don't bring comments there so why should you search says [Music] there is a place where you don't bring comets into their their veins over there you don't need to search this asks that the question on the mission name kane you should search those places that you bring comments into maisha look at the language avram baikin is a comet's lawyer nade it doesn't say search the places search for comments lawyer on there why not say it clearly you are obligated to search only those places that have that you brought up you might have brought comments into throughout the year but a place that you know for sure you didn't bring comments into you don't have to search and by the way this is the today technically i have here to the left of me you can't see it a large credanza it's very heavy i tell my wife every year you don't have to search behind there when we have little kids in the house and they were shy of the jump on the couch and to throw candies there you have to search but now we're basically adults in the house no one's jumping on the couch and throwing candies there she wants the search there technically you do not have to search in a place where you know you you basically you did not uh bring comments into really yes did you can you say the same thing for pockets like if you if your kids are not kid you know the kids already outgrown the whole candy and the pockets thing or you have to check all the pockets i heard it's a chabad custom you check all the pockets no matter what i don't know i don't know i would say it's a bad question but the answer is how logically you do not have to you you know but but yay when it comes to pacer people do whatever uh their uh what's the word i'm looking for there no no damn chagas it wants them to go what i'm saying is we have to respect that you know but that's your own there's another word in english uh like your own uh craziness your own you know uh a worry or anxiety and forget the word up they'll come to me you know but but how logically you don't have to like you know what i do i choose before pesach a few clothing items that i'm wearing and that's it and i check them and i don't check anything else as far as i'm concerned it's all off limits i'm not going there during pesach and what's for him too i mean you know and i for years you go through all this farm the truth is i don't use any of this foreign peso so first of all you don't have to even put something over the thing hologram you [Music] [Applause] but remember the the the women they go crazy they mamish like they if they obsess the face of themselves we need to let them do that because it only it only leads to something good um you know yeah it could lead to a fight in the house if the husband you know you know will get in the way but if you would if you adapt the attitude listen this is their turf and their domain and and and we have to respect it because otherwise what happens when you start putting it you could do nothing you could i'm telling you you can make pesach i could make pesach in an hour except for the kitchen i can make pesos in one hour and it'll be hilariously 100 i'm sorry okay but that's not pesa that's that's uh i don't want to say what kind of pesa you know it's it's it's it's a real cheap a cheapo peso you you want to you want to exert yourself you want to work so you know so there needs to be a balance you know the car i'm gonna go to the top in the car you know if anyone thinks that in a car with children there isn't hummus deep down under the seats in between the cracks in the metal pieces you get you got to be kidding you got to be kidding i don't care if you give it to a detailer 65 times because i've done this and they're still little things so what what's the answer you do your best you vacuum as as much as you can you get a small thing and you go into the crap you do whatever it is and the rest your movato ke hef gift card the otto you have it in mind and that's it but let let so the question is why can't i just be my vocal and not take out the car seat because car seats are schlep to take out and it's bothered to put in a ball or take out everyone knows yeah and as a as i get older from it's very hard for me and sometimes i do sometimes i don't you don't have to you don't have to i'll be then mamas you don't have to no one is going to go under a car seat and schlep out the little things that no one so it's it's nevertheless you want to get the sense that you shift to pesach you try to do it if you can afford it you hire someone to do it if it's too much for you i'm just saying so that's why it has to be a it's a sensitive issue and and and the general rule that we're left with in all the communities is what we should allow people there stringencies whether it's ridiculous or it's not it's it's it's honorable to do it for the youngtif and if you can participate fine yeah if if the wife or the or the husband wants the other one to do all the work or or and not be involved that it can become problematic and then that's not good you know but if someone on their own says just get out of the way and let me do my the way i was raised in my parents home to keep pesach i think i told you i met i met someone and surely or several years ago who told me that his daughter is marrying the laboratory so his daughter was already modern or maybe not religious from a square home angela barbacher was either modern or not religious and they were getting married with koopa condition thank god right so then he says oh they were married they got married they came to him for pesach and he said that he didn't eat certain foods and he had this and it's like saying to myself you don't trust my cashews you don't put filling on and you don't trust my cashews are you for real he didn't say those words but that's what he's thinking so he asked him like why aren't you he says in my house we didn't eat these things basically do you understand he's not froome he's not putting tune on and he's keeping certain things that he was raised in childhood that a mesh ship from but it's in his dna in his bloodstream that's pesach yes i'll tell you a story it happened on air and arab shah was about four o'clock we had guests and the particular guests both of them are are uh they grew up both of them the the wife and the husband now they have a child and they came to us with shabbos and i don't know how religious or whatever but as soon as he came in he asks where's your villain so i told him i said my phone's in shul because i dialed in shul every morning so he ran to shul literally they wrote the miracles their shock he put on my medicine but he wasn't embarrassed i was shocked he was not embarrassed so let's go to shul he puts on the film he does very quickly you know he says and he did probably because he came to you and and he felt guilty so he put it on but that's the point it's exact point so you see certain groups will be on vatel and and they'll put down say what is this chilling worth what is he putting on trill five minutes before the skier yes my i just want a rally dolphin forgive me he came to yoni it's not that he felt guilty yoni made him feel comfortable right right right right right okay better yes yes but anyway the nakuda is that when it comes to pesach but the question going back to the my mirror is that the mishna should have said you need to check just those places that you bring in comets not check for how much to the light of a candle implying you have to check always that's the rep is the previous rabbit's first question now or fourth fifth life of the mind name hey man so why does he say boy [Music] when it says you check the comments you not you check i'm sorry we we interpret it as yeah you said check four comments the number says it doesn't say that boykin s ha ha mates check the comments not check for the comments that's that's what he says that the surgeon has to be now what does that mean i have to investigate the cookie that i found oh what does that mean and that's a good question you understand abraham the rebels saying if the mishnah would have said what it should what it should have said based on the interpretation of the mishnah that you're supposed to search for for comets in a place where there's comets then it should have such search to places it doesn't say search the places but search the comments the implication is you have to search the comments itself is this comments maybe it's not comet or maisha sir what type of comets is it is it anger is it guyva is a taiva what type of comets is it i think i'm telling you you take such a just this vert and you share it with the people niche coders they'll flip out i guarantee you people there have never had this question in their life if i'm wrong i give you a hundred bucks i'm telling you because i didn't have this question and we didn't have it in the bandage and here when you learned of mine with a vita carrabba the rabbi asked the question i'm not saying others don't ask good questions i'm just saying this particular question i never saw and and the way he's he's still in the middle of his question but he already gives you the what the answer he's alluding to the answer breaking what type of comments do you have that's what you need to do play aaron pesach is it my anger that's getting in the way is it my guyver is it my taivor is it my covered what is the obstacle in my life now what is what an interpretation let's go on the second question right sorry the second thing we need to understand ombre the mission says check to use the light of a candle should be used for the checking for comets this checking we're talking about requires the light of a candle specifically okay today we know some say use a flashlight but that the point is has to be like since when do we check at night because during the day it's bright you don't need to right see the mother's mind if the halal is you have to check it means at night moving it's understood at night you need light so the question is um what's what is what why does he care why does the me is this what type of light right the mr says check the with the light of a candle why check with a flashlight check with a cell phone's uh flashlight set in space with a torch no torch to come on it says you can't but i'm saying yes so the mission so here the gemara has commentary on this by the way but the rabbit's question is why is it important to specify suge or the cat the type of category of light that should be used for the search which is organ those are the two questions finito actually we'll stop but we'll continue that tomorrow but just continue to explain where the rep is going with this idea i'll give you just a little preface what he's going with the idea is you have to tap into the summer to the light the light means this the light of the soul and it's from that perspective like moshe said very well not the guilt but he was inspired by yani in other words the positive aspect of the soul of the neshomer should leave the search here's the lesson even when you're dealing with guyver and tyver and anger and whatever else don't go about it with negativity go about it with light and brightness yes i have tithe i have guy i have anger big problem but you can go about it in a morbid way in an angry way in a decrepit way you know and then you're just gonna get more uh what's the word english more dirty and sultry and and and and schmutzic and ugly or you can go about dealing with issues from a healthy life perspective and that ebb is suggesting based on the mishnah's halachic words that when you want to search when you need to search the comments itself the issue that i'm played with the character deficiency that i have and i'm looking to correct it and to recognize what that is i'm searching it i'm studying it i'm observing it it should be done from a perspective of brightness and health positivity self-esteem not i oh yeah i'm such a sinner i'm such a loser no you're the you're the you you're god's child you you're you're ever the hashem you have a mission