Tzedaka saves you from problems & negativity - Tanya Igeres HaKodesh 4c- Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

today we're here [Music] learning um chapter 4 We're on page 3 210 and we are in middle of the page after the words call says here that there is two activities when it comes to a bris a circumcision one is called Mila the circumcised cut to cut and then there is Pria the forkin to pull us to pull away the foreskin from covering the ma he explains that the first part the says you shall circumcise we have the ability to not only the ability and we must alone ourselves do the C circumcision process of cutting away the bad habits and the indulgences and things like that that are coarse and Corporal what about those indulgences that are very refined or not very refined we find and in the sense of you know we we we still have cravings and urges that Al says God will do when mhia comes that not something that we can accomplish do you hear that you hear that so bar I know you're hoping to be a a sadic where all of your urges will go away well let me not break the you bust the bubble it ain't happening okay unless you're sadic and you are a sadic um generally speaking freely speaking you're a sadic but outside of sadik ab everyone has an urge we learned that in Tanya already remember in chapter 12 so the idea of the lightweight indulgences that's not something that's possible to actually accomplish during our life time and during the lifetime of everyone before msia comes and it's important to to really understand this CU people especially people Ville who are learning and Ding and growing and want to become more Rus right more spiritual you could get very frustrated and you could say I'm learning I'm ding giving Seda I'm helping people I'm being good I I threw away all of my foolish things that I didn't that I knew about or didn't know about in my youth I've done chuva and I still have cravings and I still have urges for unhealthy things spiritually and physically so we already learned in Tanya chapter 27 the AL says if you have such a thought you're a Bala you're ego an ego Maniac you have you have the whole equation wrong completely wrong you expect to be a because a sadic doesn't have those urges a sadic ver too the highest level of sadic sadic G but outside of the sad gmer the four other categories everyone has urges so for you to have this expectation is not only erroneous it's not only a mistake on your part it shows you you think of yourself that you're you're so much better than who you really are you're miscalculating you're Mis assessing who you really are and this is a key element in AEM but I also want to say that at the same time not to work and not to Endeavor is also not an answer we are Tau we're supposed to strive we're supposed to work and then spoke about this in his early years of leadership in 1952 on M in a very famous Discord called from the Torah verse and the was actually very emotional when he said this and he said basically and it's printed both in Hebrew and English and I do encourage you to learn the M it's a classic the re says there that taking a moment and thinking about what's with my love for God my fear for God and my pleasure for God and my will for God taking time during your lifetime when you're supposed to be working and thinking about your own levels is contrary to your your mission on Earth you need to do but when it came it came the night before the day before the day of his passing he stopped for a moment and he said where am I going am I going to Paradise or the opposite why because he never took the time to think about where he's going cuz he wasn't relevant it was all about God not about him the here talks about the two ideas of mil and Priya circumcision and removal of foreskin and he says both are necessary but one must realize that the ultimate of Priya of removing forkin meaning removing any type of cover up and hindrance in service of God the ultimate will come a Mah comes there are certain things it's not within your ability to remove move so don't waste your time again he doesn't say those words don't waste your time but that's the implication don't waste your time okay be focused on what you need to do when you when you're focused on your mission everything falls into place and let God worry about it don't play God so let's go now to page 1 210 um it's about TW 10 12 lines from the bottom after the period called said that when mhia comes Hashem will circumcise the heart giving you a love for God with all your heart and all your soul for the for the purpose of your life and then he says clar this is like a line before what is he saying with these words he just says God's going to give you's going to give you when Mia comes and what what is what is missing here Mas what is missing in the in the understanding of the AL words that he adds the words clar you know what clar means CL means I I mean to say let me explain it to you what is lacking that we need explanation and the answer is that there is the mindset is I am God's servant but I there's an I first and then there's God's servant God imposes and puts gives me the ability to be a servant that's not you know what is means this is your life you get up in the morning you're alive what's the first thing you do you say you woke up that's not I I woke up that's life that's breathing I told you the story I think it was RAB Castel one of the older he moved to May and a friend of mine here one of the sl's grandchildren told me he was supervising him in Mayar where he lived he he he lived with him for a while so cuz he was an older man to to give him help him with his basic needs so he remembers one morning he he heard a noise coming from his bed I'm alive and he jumps off from the you know the kitchen chair where this young yel was was was sitting and he says everything all right everything all right he says yeah he says I woke up I realized I'm alive that's is not life is not good life bad life this type of life that type of Life all of that is not life that's an adjunct to life so the AL says when messia will come when the foreskin of refined indulgences will be removed the feeling will be God is my life just like breathing the only way I can live is by breathing we will have the same Sensation that the only way I can live is to have Hashem in my life Hashem is life my life there isn't my life and then there's AEM in my life this is life let's look at the words because so beautifully said for God himself and Only God who he is my entire life in actuality this is what we're going to sense when Messiah comes and you know we can't really understand it now and feel it for sure because it's PR's time but we could we could talk about it we could understand it on some level that's why I gave you the the mush the parable of waking up and realizing I'm alive okay I go back and we have Dr velvel here I go back to you know when before I got my sleep acting machine I was miserable I was drooling I had headaches and I couldn't figure it out and somehow Hashem sent the right um this friend from from Russia two two brothers who I knew and had a relationship with and and they one of them became a pulmonologist and he said let me come to me I want to check you out he checked me out he gave me a sleep test and he found that boy did I have sleep apnea bad and uh he put He put on and gave me the machine and overnight everything went away I M felt I always say I've already had the resurrection of the Dead once in my life when I put that sleep back the machine on my drooling stopped my headache stopped I stopped falling asleep I'm fresh throughout the day and and this isn't the real the real is Way Way Beyond that but what's the word in English an epiphany you know when you have an epiphany that I I like that word The Epiphany the realization the realization that God is everything that's what the says here and that will be accomplished only when M comes so probably you're going to ask me you're going to ask so you mean I can't experience this level by learning like a good which it says we should study during very nice but if you think and they have to learn you're going to have not have urges and savings think again that's not why you learn you learn so that you do one less A what that's why you learn you don't learn because after I learned for 20 days it's like the fellow said you want to see mashia you want to see him for 40 days fast or 40 days go to the Cil 40 days he goes to the k y and he realizes he's the same old joeo with the same old Cravings with the same old tias what happened and what's the answer the answer is the way you went about the 40 days of of of going to the kisel was so egotistical and therefore the result is your ego is stronger cuzz now you could say I went 40 days to the K you understand when we talk about going 40 days to the C if that seula is a true seula and I have no problem with it being a true seula it's if you do the seula in a in in a bit way in a in a in a humble way not if you you know that's the problem today with many of these things is we go about them not with humility we go about them with I'm going to get this I'm going to prove this in in other words the mindset is you understand and that might be a difference just for another moment between when sikim of old gave a a keha an amulet or or or wrote an amulet or gave aula the intent was be humble and just have it with you and and let and let it do what it needs to [Laughter] do just like the beepers did what they had to do to explode and kill these MIM so too let the holy beeper of a seula and an amulet just do what it has to do and you forget about it don't go around saying you know what I went to this Reba I went to this mle and they gave me a a a keha an amulet and they gave me a recipe and they gave me a secret and therefore ABCD it's not going to work cuz you're contradicting the energy of the amulet you're contradicting what the rebba gave you the rebba gave you an opportunity beyond the norm if you're a mench and you're normal and you understand that you're a nothing and if you have that feeling whatever he gave you will kind of explode in you and take you to another level in a positive way but if you interfere with your own yes your own ego you ain't getting anything from any remedies and sigas and fasting 40 days and going to the C 40 days and jumping up and down nothing 0 * 0 equals 0 and that's a guarantee and I people don't like to hear it but that's the truth that is the EM why because you're not in the world of suula you're contradicting skoa amulets bras you're all about yourself so the says here in these few words here in if you want the Messiah experience to impact you then you have to be totally a no to God to the point of there all the your life is God and that's the answer B to the question can we experience this today Masha yeah that's what the said if you live mas if you live today with the same energy that CL we will live with when mhia comes then you will have mashia today in your life of course we want the real mashia the real b m we know that but we're talking about I don't know to me this is like the my understanding of the Reb's words open your eyes and see mashia I open my eyes I don't see mashiah I see beepers exploding I see War I see famine I see jealousy I see my own stick yeah because we're not living Mia but if you adapt the mindset and you really refine yourself on that level and you live mashia dick then you will experience msia like feelings anyway let's go into the text the love generated by that God is your life create comes from the depth of your heart m comes from the very inner deep self transcending the level of Das of knowledge which is a composed experience right you know say when will M come when knowledge will be removed unknowingly surprise Mr mhia Rabbi m walks into a into your house on a Wednesday afternoon hey you gave me the warning say this Masia will come when we're most unprepared again lail October 7th we were unprepared and we had the tragedy how much more so a messiah will come we will be unprepared because we're busy with all the silly things in the world and it comes how do you like that that's what it says sidus takes it on a deeper level not that it means we're unprepared literally we have to prepare ourselves by becoming more mashiah di but msia will transcend Das h means to remove Das you to the the level of mesia that we're talking about here is Transcendental transcending d no Das no legitimate figured out composed boxed in knowledge will bring this m only when you go beyond it let's continue will come in such a way to all of [Music] Israel this is meaning means the revelation of the quintessential point of in inwardness the general one and at that time the Divine present will exit the over from the Exile captivity for eternity this is regarding what will happen on a global level to all of us [Music] every Divine spark that's found within every Jew that's in captivity will exit from its Exile it captivity temporarily during the time that's called temporary life prayer the says in Shas T is considered Eternal and is temporary because is generated by man depending on man to comes from a God so it's it's it's Eternal says the AL that you can experience the exiting of daily through prayer while you pray while you D the service of the heart that comes from the depth of the heart is from quintessential which is revealed May coming out of its forkin ascends upward with a mighty desire next page top of the page experiencing this idea of for God is your life for who got just like will come it will be with transcending knowledge so to this experience of of releasing your your from within yourself within your Cravings will come when you remove your approach to Hashem which is with Das only right for this level needed to experience the exiting of the from it has it transcends of of the person and when he meditates on God even the meditation a even the meditation and contemplation on God's greatness is nevertheless a limitation it's your meditation a meditation a contemplation on God has a description has a definition and we're talking about experiencing when you remove that you begin with that you begin with his bonus but then you allow his bonness to submerge you where you are not in control IE you've gone beyond D let's continue says the what is it called a a gift it's a [Music] gift from the level which is called theal Contin it says hasem will illuminate his face his countenance you wow God is shining his face on me who will do the circumcision then not you not we but God will do the circumcision because when we vacate his bonness and d and limitation and conditions and boxes and restrictions we open open ourselves up to experience God in God's pure form finish it's known the arousal that comes from God who above he it requires this is what I just said to you velv it requires first an arousal from below and that's what B did he bought to learn specifically you have to elevate the feminine Waters a drop of water doesn't come from above till there's a call from the clouds from below right so in other words Masha you need to invest and you need to bring that those you have to sew and plow and work and then God lowers the rain onto your your your sewing and plowing and and the crop grows therefore a person has to First do this circumcision to remove the forkin of the heart the Clippers haasa and the and the coarse husk and [Music] shell and even the the the thinner the more refined Clipper you still have to try to remove it as much as you can all this coming from your inner heart this is he repeats the that he said before the level of this is my life which in the that we in the beautiful Point says just like we spoke about before Experiencing God is life not God is just good life and this life God is life the the god equals life you can't separate the two guess what we're so angulos and we indulge so much y that the tiers become who we are remember that mus I gave you you bring the plate of food someone hasn't eaten days and you invite him over to your house and then you have someone over who has but right now he's traveling and you put down the plate of food in front of them and then someone comes and snatches the the plates from each who's going to be more upset the wealthy person that always has or the poor person that never has the wealthy person the poor person that never has so again he thought he had a plate of food it was taken away right but the the wealthy person expects it I'm a wealthy person I'm traveling now so thank you for bringing a play I don't have it he goes crazy why AB why because the pl of food and the wealthy person became one when you talk about him you're talking about indulging that's who he is he can't live without it he's truly addicted really addicted this is addiction the poor person is not addicted to the food he's hungry he would love to eat but he hasn't eaten in a long time so it'll be another day because he and the food are not one the wealthy person that's who he is says the since we in our tyus have gone so low where tyus Indulgence become who we are and we must have him it's an addiction otherwise we can't function so the only way to get out of that is by bringing into your life the opposite Z that God is our life God is life excuse me God is life is the antidote to Tia's life you hear that I want you to take those words and and put them on into your head think about it over shabas the antidote to tius is life is God Is Life T's Life mashia Is Life re is life all of that is the an to the addiction and by the way if you don't come to that point the tyer will always bother you and and and and and drive you and ultimately many times you fail you fall into the Ty let's [Music] go this answers your question that you asked me yesterday on the WhatsApp how do I accomplish this here the AL says by giving from your money which is your life force you worked so hard youit you're not interested in this work and you work around the clock you're not home with your kids and your wife and your friends and the sh all to bring home money parosa and you take that money that that you work so hard which means it's you and you give it away someone else and specifically someone whose livelihood is very is very meager and the the time presses in other words he's he's really under stress where he needs to pay the bills he needs to pay tuition he needs to pay for the car payment and if not he doesn't have a car and the doctor doesn't want to see him and Yesa says sorry you can't bring your kids here but that's the situation and he gives away this money that he could use to pay any of these bills he's not giving extra money masas that he has somewhere stashed away he's giving away his piece of bread that's is giving away his life if someone enjoys the work that he does and he gets paid for it too it's the person worked hard and he enjoyed it but he worked very hard so his entire Gish his entire pleasure his entire life is in the work that he did similar now when he splurges and he gives s from his hard earned effort and he gives this to mean gives with happiness and gladness of the heart you hear what the say here you have here the answer for Life giving away your money to you redeem your soul M that's a heavy language heavy word AB what does it mean from destruction that's what it says essential part of his aspect of his was in Exile in captivity more refined from all hidden watch my heart Mish Mish means not just a place of watching you can't get out it's a jail you're was in jail and now you released it and now your is redeemed from the extru forces through this we'll continue and finish the chapter tomorrow makes AEM but this is an incredible in go basically it's basically saying the T this is the T for for for for what what he's discussing this is M for for yeah but but yeah but in you don't see using the word ti so in breast they use the word TI in doesn't see it as a TI but that's true in other words this is the is a work this this is the the work that's necessary this isn't y read you know the 10 want to make it this isn't the cotton and this isn't the tick those are different they're very holy and very good but this is not without he wants your work and he wants you to to work on yourself with where where you understand that when you give from your money and your life force that you need and you work so hard and you give it away to someone else or to Hashem through to a cause you're actually you're actually causing your Nish that was in Exile and in captivity to be freed because your sh you put yourself in this prison through indulging in tiis so you need to do something that's the the the exact opposite in a positive way to release yourself so just as you've made tus your life give away what's your life your money is your life that's your life cuz you work so hard have a great day we'll see tomorrow beautiful very very beautiful thought everyone tomorrow take care byebye byebye take care