Type A and Type B Personalities - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

okay page 281 we're going to begin with the second chapter by space 281 the question that we basically had one large question that took a page that took two and a half pages almost morning but also the question is that mr. says AZ - Robbie remade that she other layout didn't Cauchy satisfy service Reznor them what's the best path to choose something that makes session beautiful it's beautiful - God a beautiful to mankind so the question of measuring small is what's the finish here but the wrapper in typical about Custer this philosophy really opened it up as we learned the last few rooms and now we continue the base offering you know the idea is that he makes Eve it says a little ADIS hooking babish button these are the testimonies the statutes and the laws the flawless have mitzvahs overall generally speaking mitzvahs cool on that luxuries are generally divided the Shelley's car Lukas into three groups shahane and they are number one ADA's testimony missus there are testimonial of the event a historical events such as suitcase pay South etc hukum are statutes there's such bits list that don't have reason and given the Torah ie para Duma sharpness etc and finally the third group of mitzvahs are miss Burton laws which are you know which which which would stand up in a civil court because they're logical was full with with with explanations to understood to justify whatever the law is so we have three groups with had mitzvahs change take a loop is clueless that ever says these two groups can be divided into two general categories hello calacas one division hain hum it's very shake a chilean top we put they are those mitzvahs that have reasoning supporting the Mitzvah the hollow Ksenia that the second division are mr. haynam it's race Shane L AM Tom that they don't have reasoning and explains they this will be spotty in the mixtures that we call testimony a dice image button and more hey Mitzvah a chalet tom their mistress that have reasoning associated with them Verena and elisetta million the difference between the two are only consist only of the reasoning that I mean the reasoning for the Mitzvah so for example why do we celebrate Pesach because hashem took a set of Messiah that's a logical reason right a half goat July 4th or whatever the the historical event that one celebrates in their country right there's a reason for it of a more anniversary so that's a time that's a reason then you have another kind of mixes you know don't steal it's not appropriate don't hurt it's not appropriate that if you hurt what if you damage a woman is pregnant and and what if you're out of work and all of these different ha lovers that we learned impartial about them and elsewhere they are also reasonable so basically the two kinds of mitzvahs ie aiders and this mutton fall into the category of mixes that have reasoning and it continues their a those take the mistress of testimony hey na Mitzvah a time a.m. hang a decisive is occurring these are mitzvahs whose reasoning are testimonial and iswi she coded they signed these economies of memorial welcome oh isn't didn't OSHA the prohibition of the didn't OSHA that and that's the you know the the new hobby secular notion English the what you sign the right even sick did that not sure that's the word I was looking for beside knew that did that part of you're not supposed to eat that part of the animal she never played Tom Davis the tiger gives us a reason why quote another the half year of Yaakov because when the angel wrangled with Yaakov right he touched that part of the body so for whatever reason that part of the body becomes forbidden for us to eat so in other words motion why aren't you allowed to eat it because a sham says in the potato because the angel did this today Yaakov the get and he hurt that part that's why the Giga not sure becomes forbidden let's say Oh Mitchell Asuka what's the reason for super hot time the reason is the man quote among either day to say that so that your generation in the future shall know keep us so please a shaft is beneath know that I settled you Jews in tents but it's eh say missus Ryan when I took them out of Egypt so again there we put up a sucker today as a testimony to what Hashem did for us several thousand years ago it was with by putting up tents in in the desert in right another Mitzvah a mitzvah Shabbos the myths were keeping sharpish a time earlier you saw ice you see memories are three things that the the in there a this ice and zcorum did you guys get that burro the Rebbe is not wasting words he says as a testimony Isis a sign the Korean is a memorial so first it gave us a few examples of a dose of testimony right now it talks about a sign of ice which mitzvot the depict for a nice shoppers admits establish a time earlier ace Shabbos is a sign too much eco-silver that says the Sherman of Bnei you slow the shoppers the Jews will keep the Shabbos lysis of shoppers they'll make the shoppers with David son for generations but in Salem an everlasting covenant yes motion yes we're talking about a doze correct yeah so he says that some says vania vania slow we say you know those that say the shovel rubato has it in the city but we don't say the shabba-doo but the verse is still popular incorrect and important it's an ice so we call the the to sign Baney oh baby the intro between myself and the hidden ice Haley I love ice it's a sign Haitham it's Australian so - let's look at MIT Sicilian satire who here weighs right the reason for children is it's an ice it's also signed that's why you know Shabbos you're not allowed to put on trilling why because since shop is itself is a noise a sign you don't need another I said if you don't need another ice putting on another race like chilling on Shabbos is Musa so you're in violation of Shabbos it's not only that if I want I put on tefillin if I don't want I don't because I have a sign no you're actually for biggie because since it's not necessary because you have ready the ice of Shabbos itself putting on filling is mix up the item becomes not non is for Shabbos so it smokes it's designated for a non-essential use and therefore using it isn't it is not appropriate the same become a mom it's the same ages and that ever says all and so to regarding other mitzvahs which are all under the classification known as testimony acres now he goes Moshe to the next group the yes Mitzvah a time and then there's a group of mitzvahs whose reasoning is miss Parton war not a dose but law and explains I know miss botella say what does miss but didn't mean the dictates of logic in other words celebrating an event that that that's historic or an anniversary or a nice it's logical but it's not the big things of logic in other words it's it makes sense to commemorate an event that was done to you that's important right okay but that's not the what he calls here misfit they are safer there's no there's no logic there's no details of logic and it's let's look for example what what does it mean by but they're saying call so he says okay make your neighbor for example can Ava Gizella stealing robbing or hit see her a murder police I said these are in the missus places they don't do the keyboard over name and then you have respecting your parents the a bastard am and loving friends be mrs. assay those would be two examples of missiles are say the hain comma minimis rates are safe Amitha Verma and so to many other mitzvahs that logic obligates and dictates their correctness and importance and the God in La Jolla NIT not theta these type of Mitzvah see only that are called miss bottom are such that were the traded not to give us those mitzvahs he may are say who messiah Voisin logic would obligate them certainly is gain that there needs to be so respecting parents make sense for high know the time on who has sailed this means that their reasoning is the logic the reasoning for the mitzvah is is is inherent and is because of its sale to my mother same as all as the rabbi say to say to say the more later for the favors good mother quote healing male midnight a tow if theta were not to be given the magnets Gnaeus we would learn modesty mistletoe from us attacked the gazelle and robbery man Imola from the gaza the robbery from an aunt the zoo see miss leave us a solid um this is obligatory obligatory on behalf of man so who sees liebe eczema who say man is as we learnt in the earlier my murder he is by very is very essence of nature is logic to say all right so Vasily he methodically Islamic be cold oven logic and someone who can a man which is by default inherently logic must learn from every experience behind the Makoto vision of Umbria this means from everything that man sees I say maiya or he is solidly Islamic Nazir is engine he needs to learn something from it it's not just happenstance and not essential to a person's life rather there's a lesson in what you hear and what you see Hank the kickin up my Lisbon was colors this is true whether it be in acquiring virtuous under steeper understanding of issues when you hear something and see something and you think about it you now have acquired more saiful and you have more logic to to use let's continue in the next page 282 over Media Studies and the information that you see are here not only does it help you borrow with your say who but it also helps you with your good behavior your good meters and also they hatin by how to focus on a is it also helps you have daya's how close was it helps you distance yourself from the false dalish the false attitudes vaquita submitters have a godless and it helps you remove disgusting and ugly meadows so what he said is that they the sale is so powerful and so important that say who helps you discern between what's good and bad what's ugly and what's nice and in many other areas God cannot bother fighting yes mile Islam a he goes back to a point that we learned a few earlier in different my mother that we could learn from animals because officer Novi if you look at the scolding of the Prophet you say yahoo quote yoga sure you continue an ox knows its master welcome I read a verse be Olaf and the Somali that's in the trough knows the owner who provided the trough for the a donkey to be to eat to drink from nevertheless Israel the Jews the yoga they did not know me they do not know me I mean my nation ladies Brennan didn't meditate upon Hashem the animals that nobody says look how the animals know and are thankful to their master because they know their master gives them water and food and shelter and you Jews who are so superior to the animal nevertheless you do take the time to meditate the reflect on the greatness of a share this is part of the scolding that the beginning of the scolding of the half theta of Shabbos cuisine before Tish above the pay dirt Rashi comes along Gaddafi over there yes I yo and explains the shave yoga cranial miss October hadisha by a how how is it motion that the that the animal the Ox knows its master because the master miss acne the desert sorry sir my urine gives it plowing during the day and why the plows it eats well my office should have given because and since the the the master of customs the Ox to plow yay day oh boy so he knows that there's someone who everyday will give him this opportunity to plow the field I will cover it up to him I take that back then the Ox knows its master just by the fact that it plows not by eating why do I say that cause look aligned further I will fly my it up to it the mine is first upped club jaded just from walking the donkey it won't recognize it as a master ain't amazing bolos the donkey doesn't know you'll need its master ouchy ouchy leno until its master gives its food in the truck and nevertheless the soil leaden lateness park I've laid the cachet they haven't clever themselves they haven't smarter than the self to know Hashem their master like the accidents we have come to Chicago seen on Ibanez and even when I've called them my nation I need their my nation you would think when they eaten here that they called my nation they would jump nevertheless pinellas royal a is banging though they did not think about the samaritaine that's one interpretation says that happen our second interpretation of our paid as I say me the second explanation is that I survived have money that the axe and the donkey in them played can all they don't remove their yoke bye Felicia while they're plowing over massa and while they're carrying the load why if he has a terse it goes and I've got this wonderful egg nickels because of the decree that God decreed upon them you're a tax you play you wear that yoke and do your job and they say yes sir yes boss I am your slave to work and the donkey says I will carry your load heavy packages put them on me so what we emphasize here yoni that they're not played a coil they don't reject the yoke in other words what do they have the opposite Kabbalah soil they accept the yoke let's continue the anger misciagna mr. freedom another Moshe great aspect of these animals and I think all animal lovers implemented scheme' should be learning these things because they'll find out so much more about their animals and maybe instead of having the dog they'll get themself a donkey anyway for anal shonduras tough kid on another quality to these animals is they don't change and divert from their tough kid from that mission and their purpose see it be a biblical is wonderful that God instilled naturally in them sweat sweat they don't say Hashem I'm sick and tired of what you gave me I don't want to sleep anymore I don't want to work hard they don't do that hah Sharia law you the axe is made for the yoke waha by Muhammad and the donkey is made with masa for the load they accept their purpose and their mission nevertheless man is otherwise well the mashanda staff neither man doesn't accept what God placed on him but rather changes his purpose venom a mollusk Aversa and he doesn't fulfill his obligation says that the holes in all of what we just said who masha Alden thought of Islamic gamma qualifier this is included in what man has to derive and learn from animals as well so you see my is a summer walking down the black with a donkey it can remind you that if this donkey it's slipping that the packages and it slepping the packages am i slipping the shrimp's packages and if you see burrows as you take your vote your family for a nice ride out to a kyboots or two to a nice place and he's he hikes and running in the road she's again the way instead you say there's a message that we see a lots here and that's has a joke on it a muzzle so that when it does carry sure it does the plowing and a does it Cibola soil so the neighbor says this is what of them suddenly slaw made gommi belief I say goes back to his overall his general his point vane mr. Patel say who he's all fallen to the dictates of logic by my faith mr. Adam which kind of forced man the kind Mehmet Agha say ho these mitzvahs are dictated by logic and if your logical and we are logical because we are creatures of logic we fulfilled these mitzvahs because it makes sense the cashier intervene Noelle's there and when we even were commended about these mithras hey Mitzvah but the Mitzvah we'll see from the cry mom lyosha Mitzvah and we need to fulfill them because it's a commandment the point is making now is very important so why should I do the Mitzvah that's logical Russia because it's logical no because we were commanded although it also makes a lot of sense that's not the reason we do the mitzvot we do the mitzvot because we were commanded let's look at the words that sleeve him that came on lyosha Mitzvah the only not because it makes sense whether it makes sense or not to you is only desert okay but the essential reason for doing it is because it's God's command Amnon closed am however these two groups of mitzvahs again number war on the ages and number two the miss fourteen Hema Hema misses the ages hey that means the respond to him mitzvot upon Hema they are all full to one category the category being mitzvahs associated with logic and reason why she may yesterday my look him and he just repeating himself again in a way although they their reasoning is different for each I've a limousine nevertheless polish Nahum Bali Tom both are reasons Thomas Capel gamba cycle anew she that's received and understood by the human intellect finished talking about a desirous button now he goes on to the third group yes Mitzvah Sonic rhodium who key then we have of a group of mitzvahs that are called houki statutes Shana Liam Tom they do not have reason to my senses shock neighs Farah Duma Oh commercial cosel's as it says in the data regarding para Duma quote Zoe's hookah cetera this is the statute of the Torah why does it try to say that so that the rabbit rings now from Russia official sultanul Mercer Island because the Satan and the non-jews of the world - is royal amen they say the marmots are such they say that what kind of mix is this there's no logic a person is spiritually defiled put a potion on him and over southern abracadabra and it doesn't make any sense well my Pontius book what the reasoning is therefore this Mitzvah the thick of Kosovo hookah that's where sham introduces the mitzvot of para Duma by first saying Zoe's hookahs hatorah this is the statute of all of Torah all of Torah falls under the category called hookah right what should have been written borough alerted entrusted this in the mind of the author ever it should have been written those who can those who casts hapara right what does it speak about motion in the beginning of of partial Tsukasa speaks about the para edema so the first should have said this is the the statute of the pourer it doesn't say those who casa para it says those who cos hapara why because the poor edema is demonstrative andaman it is an example of all the DS type of mixtures was entertaining not just hoop parody and what and what is it the what type of Mitchell's are we talking about hookah hookah beyond logic and what it tells you is that these are all these mixtures of sharpness senses are similar to para edema in the fact that it's a mitzvah that transcends and is beyond logic and that's why doesn't just say those hookahs hapara which would be limiting it to the para a Duma only but rather those hookah Cepeda that it's something that's for all of the claim continuing inside the fetus Kossoff very hookahs Adu new phone I ham says its decree a Lakota streusel had an affair you have no permission to think about it and argue I said this is the way it is Zelo that's it okay my man so how Yoli do we see this in the midst of peridot he says a not mess but I may remember we quoted this an earlier Meyer and I love the first part of this quote it is not the corpse that defiles the aim a mikvah retire and isn't and it's not the mikveh that purifies right you think you jump into a mikvah you come out hey I'm a Holy Roller you think the mixer did it all we took a corpse you become defiled you think the corpse did it rather it's the God within the corpse and it's the God within the mixer that says get into a mixer or don't touch the corpse and when you listen to a sham in both instances you receive the tumor or you're purified for the tumor Alexandre desire T I made a decree cuca for Cathy a statute I'm a VIP yokel arveladze they see and you're not allowed to desecrate my decrease what time is it now and I'm climbing okay well I know the Koala submits the same hooking this means that the overall category of mitzvahs which we call statutes aina Mafia Tom are not logical rock Kafka's Gosselin determine of Macias belief rather so decreed Hashem in his wisdom will and wisdom via do of the holy submits the st. Peter scottson Lu and it's known that the overall overall mitzvahs are the will of the supernal of the supreme are god's supreme will the high no this means share some of the penis Kesser nitsa Sione are rooted in what we call the crown of a Shem the ket they're just like the crown yoni is on top of the Torah scroll right it's above that that's how high mitzvahs are they touched the crown metaphorically speaking of a shell Muhammad's is saying that it is hooking and the mitzvahs that are called and associated with the group called statutes hook him how to aim the penis cancer sever cancer did you ever hear that the burro they are they touch the ground within the crown right the ground are all missus that's the will the supernal will of God and the group of mitzvahs that doesn't have logic and yet you do them and you because I've sham said so it's called who came there the cat said she'll be cancer the crown within the crime tahini arrived Sam Hoffman office the Torah potato is derived from God's knowledge ends as you finished off module five whoever says that phrase that idea that hora is taken from the knowledge of God does not mean to imply that Torah is limited to knowledge the intrusion of him is a cancer because we just learned well no because Taurus platers is rooted in something that's above knowledge which is the crown I think you be cancer yes ss treatise a little Kabbalah acidosis hanyan in cancer there are 10 and the nation's quote tester should be cast a huff Michelle Burkett Sailor Venus Shiva Care Center octina smugglers of the kisser you know that we just for this fierce element but he didn't say cancer said the coffee we dealt with what and we didn't even do how bad right we did facets of obsessive worshipers has said we took the seven Meadows seven-point-seven did you notice that we didn't do Chabad within each other and surely we didn't do what's above carbide the crown right we didn't but the truth is there is also each of the nine sphero's within Kassar I'm sorry each of the thames virus within cancer as well and within kebabs for sure but it's a different analysis because the purpose of sphere assignment is to refine the character so we were interested in facet said that the Warriors have a facet the the time the 49 days between pace of his force is not about refining your intellect it's about refining your memories so that's why we didn't speak about Chabad at that time did you ever think about it guys you probably never did but now you'll know for the rest of your life remember you learned that this morning I'm not joking it's a very serious thing and it's a serious it's very important to understand what you're doing so yes motion I was gonna say that's good some time ago I noticed that that the 7-meter sweet do we discuss some have to do with the emotional so you did so your heavy percussion or saying image is that there's also these ten in the kisser in the crown the kisser is above the internet so we have three things yaeli we have a crown we have a cup and we have a heart me dose say home and the crown represents what we call Rutsey the willpower and within the willpower there is the willpower as it as as its that's oriented toward success it the willpower as it's oriented towards cavora I mean it's another discussion for another time there is a book by Rabbi Malthus Cantor a phenomenal book the 10 keys to understanding I think I mentioned it in the early days of our kollel which he goes through a psychological study of the 10 sphero's it's a phenomenal work because it really gives you food for thought in in in kind of Western ideas you know endurance sadness all the different emotions and issues so it would be worthwhile if you get a hold of it 10 keys of understanding or 10 keys to understanding and it could be you could get it you know even hateful Menachem I doubt it or maybe in Cohoes or maybe I'm lying you know but it's a it's a very very good product you know I know rather Kanter and he's a very bright man and he wrote a phenomenal work that Kent keys to understanding but again whether he covers the ten Sphero says they are in Kessler I'm not sure you have to look ok let's go back to the text so he says in cancer there are old this cat this if hope specific cancer until birth most of the kisser the change of the hospital yes sweetest just as within Kaufman there ten emanations from the crown may appear said other mouth was took royalty who McCain the kisser in cancer itself yes Tom Kane Isis fear is there ten emanations mark acid are the mouth closed from cancer tomorrow's the heart later now he'll come when we talk about the title he defeated Hospice of the kisser what would Torah be it would be the wisdom the former within cancer Hani class hospice tomorrow this is baroque what we see in in facilities and Kabbalah the an yoni history cosmos steamer the clothes sake the clothes Kozma the heap penis compromise this is the esoteric reason won't say there is in in Kabbalah if I see this you'll see sometimes attend yoni called con comas it's not just there sometimes it's used also in in writing and language what's the reason okay I'll give you an example in the early 90s rabbi Elazar or robert kagan from russia wanted to build a mikvah in the city of Lubavitch motion when you went there to throw with the safer Torah did you go to the Barbary he never made it to the barrage and Ukraine ok ok anyway till the barrage people who don't want to go to as well especially and especially today to fixing it up but even back in the 90s but there was no mixer and you know the before you go into excited cause XM ascetic and there ever maraj tula barbecue rebus number three and number four of the dynasty are very thinner you want to go to the mikveh before and it's a very long trip for my scouts 7-8 hours so they wanted to build a big front probably ahead funding for it because you know people like them you know wanted to support that anyway the rebus said two things what he said is who's going to take responsibility for the contras of the mixer but wake up who's gonna take the Castros and in such a way regulars are told us this this December I was a Moscow and he may - ever broke his Sunday morning in this house is beautiful around the table very nice and and he told us a few things so he said the rabbit said who's gonna take that rice my grepolis I was gonna bring out a proper rub to authorize the mixer that's what the rebus said the second thing the rebus said is macabre almost Exley he used his words an esoteric reason that I have I don't think there should be a mikvah there's no mikvah till today in the Baba's so on the way to the Barbara Jo mitzvah they stopped the smolensk which is 40 minutes outside of Labov which is a mixer there Smith built a mikvah they go to the mick when they go on till abolish so I'm just I just reminded myself when I read the words Tom plum was to put it in a context and I just had that the director said Mekong crumbles it's hot it's an esoteric reason that that actually that I have and that I want to share with you he's saying clearly it's something private so why we learning it over here in the minor because hokhmah steam or when a person experiences this level of hokhmah which he says is cool to Kesser this is the idea of the esoteric reasoning its secretive it's a secret time commerce type of page 283 suzelle the my limit even say to the time tom commerce transcends logic from comas yoni doesn't mean to say that if you probe and probe you'll come to a reason no time comas means it's beyond reason so it's not that the Rebbe was sick the truth is I don't know I don't know if they're ever meant it to paraphrase Tom comers and he meant to say I have a private reason why I don't want to mixer there and I don't want to share with you or does it mean the time cometh Thomas says it says and on top of 283 that inherently it's esoteric here the difference the difference between the two ways of using Tom comas I want you to know this because you will you will hear this and you could use it you someone asks you she might say I have a time comas I don't want to tell you the guy will look at you we come from Mars what are you talking about prom comas they're in a little Hut see this what does it mean so what it really means yogi what it really means is that this reason is beyond understanding and Who am I to say I have such a big shot that I can I don't want to tell you something I'm saying it's beyond understanding you're beyond understanding gets a Drake you mixed up you know but on exotic like that ever says tom comas it's really calm comas again whether they're ever meant it as a figure of speech this is what I'm making my point whether he meant it as a figure of speech which you could use or literally as it says here that this is by by its essence Casa is beyond sait all the time so don't try to explore you're not if a patient did not relegate it to the rain of logic rather its esoteric and secretive ie Tom calls what time is it is it 2:45 okay we'll stop here any questions any comments yes yes yes yes that would be an example of a town compass yes I also wanted to say emotion I was thinking about people in their code that are might the cherish and yawning your shoe this the first part of this minor tilt tilt tilt until we get to the stuff that was early now that's a little cabbalistic it's so important and it's so easy for people to understand that to learn with them I would ask you guys eww muscles how many of your cognitive how many of the congregants in your shul and they're pretty much old friend understand that this freak category of mitzvahs and the details that we learned I'm asking how much percentage would you say and you're sure motion you're through [Applause] [Music] they would know about they'll know very much about the three categories so so you see certain my murim are are they melt in your mouth and they're made for the masses so you know you have a friend you say so come let's sit down and get you know the rebus said many times say it you don't need to say it in my name you don't need to say even the source if you know the person as soon as he hears the words I say this is gonna run the other way but don't tell them if I'm saying I mean I don't think the people that are that way most of the people not that way because the others are not going to want to learn with you where for whatever reason them but the people who are more open you take out a minor like this and you learn the first part it will it that they'll eat it up and and and and it's not that it's not that you're doing that I wanna make it say this it's not that you're doing it because I want to learn with you huh citizen you should understand what the citizens that's the wrong way to go about it I want you to understand the traitor the holy Taylor and I happen to find in this section of nice explanation for this area in traitor now you have another nice area in in in Mesilla see Sharon or in another safer of moosilauke cities or Gomorrah that what's sitting there it should be be you know this versus that because this is where we lose people and it's not it's not Plata this whole idea is it's not Plata I'm going to enforce upon you learning to see this one that have been couraged the told us are ever in 1963 came to see the river in general you know as a principle when the when rebus and rebellion came to the river the you could say that the number that he shared wanted from them as they should share and teach and considers in their moisted now of course more this was with the sicilian rebus so in the total siren read became he spoke them about it so one way of looking at this is though the rebus trying to either hostage is the lab arbitrator from the Abbasid dynasty so there is this issue of and you all know that many non Labov atures and maybe i would say most on the Babbage's feel that the babitch are always trying to make them learn hostages right have you heard that hundreds of times right what what why would I come to a breslav issue I didn't they have suppressive maybe breast lift today so this way but it used to come to bells no one's trying to indoctrinate you with bells again today today's changed you know everyone has their party but but the Barbic everyone felt oh here we go who's trying to teach me Tonya he wants to be theater to the to start thinking like a barbecue and all of that that you've heard this I'm sure most admires a terror from a after their area cetera hundreds of times and that the truth is that the teachers of Casa de s-- though and Andy Andy Andy and the Amida bar the average Bala boss in a yeshiva or in a shul is not sensitive and doesn't have the background and the know how to do in this whole arena I once met at the guy that the guy that is the the robber rush you know kind of of the ADA fairness and uracil I and I was once in that area next there were rock must rifki has it's big bill building and he is yeshiva and in a building adjacent there he had a minion in the Indy apartment building and it was a packed big I met there a a grandson of a rabid chef family and he himself as a business I'm in a very successful business really lives in Manhattan actually and I met him there and I knew that he learned with by my spear why they lived in Crown Heights he learned her sidess with him so he told me so he asked them because I always like to hear about my my spear different things so he said I learned with him he taught me Lakota sickness the rebus surface we learnt the rebbe cities and he enjoyed it so I asked him to tell me so he says I want to tell you something you know what your must feels geniuses and he says I saw this when he learned with me every week it's not in what he said it's in what he didn't say he knew what not to say that's the genius a teacher of cities needs to know what to say well not to say I'm talking about me you're not now I'm teaching you you don't need we're all in the same arena but when you're going outside of your arena and you and you want to share a new idea you got you have to go about it in a in a objective way not in a subjective way and I promise you you'll have so many more people that will ask you teacher because see this tell me these ideas what are they about how discuss it is different than Mooser what's the advantage what's the disadvantage you know etc etc so this minor I'm saying well look at this my mind's eye was teaching it to you lends itself to a format of teaching of learning that's part of in other words if this wasn't in this safer that we're learning from you wouldn't even know it's a scissors that's my point so and so as you know that's why I try to choose my mother that have a broader appeal because like the Rebbe said to professor dmitrov ski who was at the time at the jts and he was Orthodox and he was a literate and he felt like what am I doing here he did part no sir but at the same time they were eliminating parts of small nursery about the carbon arson and and mushiya so you went to the Reverend yeah and I interviewed him and I asked them you're a little why did you go to the Rebbe said listen the boys are fine steam was around but he's a little a place if he's gonna give me a holler a ruling I'm not allowed to be there what am i doing there the satmar rebbe is an extremist well I'm going to go to him the only person that found that would be part of the neutrals Allah by virtue ever because he has a broad vision and you know the repet all the most admires that ever told them you are not to leave jts until professor so lieberman leaves 80s so lieberman was the electro siva and he was Orthodox he was a friend Jill and that ever told them and he told me this don't leave so he said to the rebel why not so he said because you and saw Lieberman and such people who are Seamus Shabbos are the lifeline for the students to hopefully follow and learn the tone of the right way because the other professors are not Seamus Shabbos and they're teaching heresy and you and Lieberman are amongst the only ones who are teaching the Torah the right way so you are not to leave now why am I telling you this story within story because because the students who listened to a sheer are there to take it out to the masses so we choose my mother I choose my mother that lend themselves to share with others in a non-threatening way this is all an advertisement you got it clear who say to be clear right no but no now I'm telling you if you follow up motion if you follow this rationale and approach all these issues I'm not gonna say oh listen if someone is a hater and you know wants to you're not he won't be able to change his opinion and you have I have a guy's been emailing me from Flatbush I I spoke of three four weeks ago on the internet again a clip I do some clips so I spoke about a certain event that I heard and there was a very it was a dirac it was a story that made some of the beds but I didn't position it that way and I I smoothed it out but you know someone with brains could figure out what's going on over here okay so what I heard it and he called me he sent me an email he called me and he says I asked you please take that off he says I'm a maggot and you know the reasoning that you gave for for a B and C can be turned around and we could argue otherwise and I said yes you could so he says if you could why should we take the way you positioned it and walk away with a negative added negative added of something negative that I Russell Seaver did it's just it's just not right I said fine I'll take it off and I took it off you two that's it it's gone because it didn't bring it brought one Jew to feel no good right but since then wait but since then he's been emailing me with negativity with the witless was not this negativity every few days I told them I got it work my friend I don't have any time for this you know get a job get her life and and he said he calls me a friend cuz you know but I say look don't let call ready and he sent me clips of the shot speaking about the Ripper and he sends me this and that all the literature stuff that I've heard for 40 years you know there the rhetoric and everything and he suddenly has it he trying to convince my mother Babaji ain't gonna convince me and your and he says I'm on the Snagit so I'm not convincing you no problem I did what you wanted you asked me to take it off another person would not take it off he will say go somewhere like took it off right because I felt if there's one Jew that's distance because of it it's not worth to be online okay and I took it off but yet you keep on harassing me of sending me emails you know we you know see this clip at that clip and this and that but get over it so so such people you're never gonna win over right until they themselves let that guy but if they themselves have an experience I'll tell you another story I don't want to say you because you'll recognize the name I spoke Sunday to our elf who lived in Yerushalayim an awful for arts Pro a prominent person probably his eighties already and he tells me could you find me more stories with the river and I said I'm listening to this he lives now in Lakewood and I say like rabbi like why he want more stories of the river he says because the Rebbe is such a Sadiq and these stories they help me at my Emunah and it just this an 80 plus year old man who went through the literature system who writes for art scroll and this is his telling him is this Sunday from Lakewood Lakewood New Jersey he left he had to leave because of health he left Erica's role so so I say to him like what what what what happened here that you became a fan of the revival chair ever say says I became in Yerushalayim a hafsat of the toner ever and the toner regular speaks and and there's writings how he lords the river in so many ways that if it's good for my newfound Reber it's good for me and in other words and then he tells me listen to this he tells me his father although I'm not gonna mention what was he one day you'll find all this out if you read it he says his father-in-law was so against Habad that he has a journal of all the negative things said about my body told me this this Sunday he has a notebook that he wrote down because he was so an technoboy which also years ago told me and today is a lover of Labov ik could you imagine how because when a person goes through a personal crisis of sorts or is aspired by someone and that someone looks at another someone as a great person so then you say to yourself like we learned a few days ago last week in the Mimer I've been walking around with a mistake for so many years although I'm a rabbi and in fact and I'm an author and I'm a big man but in this area I'm a fool a big fool and only someone who could say that in their 80s goes into GaN Eden after 120 with a peace and tranquillity and won't need to go through a process to wipe away the animosity and hate that came that that existed in that person's life because he's cleansed it already and again we're talking about spiritual ideas but it's out pakoda because the Torah talks about it when you when you have hate in your heart or animosity or jealousy and you pass on that way you need a very good cleansing because you know Shurmur can't rest until it's cleansed so why wait till it goes into Gehenna before it goes to die Maidan do it now and do truther and the same I would say to Allah by virtue who has hate to amis najat and I want to tell you and I'm telling you this it's on Facebook but I'll say it anyway growing up in yeshiva we had also hate and animosity to mr. Ogden and as I grow and as I write and as I study it's lesson and almost dissipated it doesn't mean to say I I can't have a good joke about it it's not good to look at mrs. Nagin could have a good joke about a corset the choking is fine but there's a time to joke and does the time not to choke you understand in other words to become like her or you know it reminds me I'm just going on here it goes reminds me that poor him and but they rounded Nakhla halt the reception called bucketeer on you guys know the wrong shoe next to it is a shoe called the braid ashore the bread is asking us and Litvak going back way back and Ron goes back a hundred years without mental Ron who was a Hungarian fussing so what was the job that they did I'm pouring I heard some people living there they would run into the British rule the guys from Rhonda's I see them and they would scream out the yaks was predominated part of DC say that was their way of getting back at the lick trucks Emporium that's acceptable that's acceptable store him you know yes we said yes and critically you could also we're laughing at you and you can laugh at us you know there is an acceptable waves of segment with differently at different customs that's fine what exactly so so you know I see in myself and I'm amazed frankly because you know I'm a passionate person and and and you know the knowledge and and I understand that it's not just I understand what a lip suck is it's not that I you know it's not just you know butter you know mayonnaise that butter and mayonnaise in there margarine you know what you're talking about I understand what the out there that the sheet that came to bring to the world and when you understand that you say wow how could it be that the whole world is not following this ideology but nevertheless this people who for whatever reason don't so we have to train ourselves to to feel this and when you do you're able to be a Robert Molina with the shoe asked to give it Tanya's here and to speak from the podium on Kimmel Thomas not once but twice I'll never forget this there was people Thomas Shabbos two or three years ago when I was in bet Shemesh right for the summer in 2018 and I asked rebel little woodsy in memory of the rebel I say a few words is it sure that he calls back this rabbi dolphin not only should I want you to say at the record of the second minion I want you to come early and speak at the first once I told her the little words I take a car it's a problem of it he says you work it out get here I want you to speak by both me yellow and I did and other limits was not a faucet any anybody any penny any trusted and believed I'm sure a bit shocked you know but nevertheless he was mocking the rebels of its advocates day is your site and what he saw me is that I don't have an agenda I don't have an agenda at 11:00 agenda I'm gonna share words at the rapper you know you asked me to share where's the red bull and you know with my full beard and they're all the regalia and everything else you know I'm you can't be can you can't make a mistake thinking that I'm up on the hood said or a lit fire course fire to God you see me guys you know exactly who I am or what I am and he says coming to my show with all the Binet Torah because we develop a relationship that's based on Emmis and when your belt and this my mer is a is a tool to share this with the world okay we fibrate have a great day everybody's Igesund ticket