Tanya #3 7 Zohar's Prostitute parable is daily inspiration - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

uh yesterday we learned quite a bit uh full page page your dollars pretty much yeah just to recap briefly Route 11 chapter 10. discusses where the location of the nephe chabamis and the nephesh pelicus is at so the beginning of chapter nine it teaches that the location is either in the heart or in the mind the officially kisses in the mind is in the heart and he said that each extends itself to the rest of the body so the the brain the the the definition of the kiss is a spiral ride downward to the heart and to the body and the nevertheless is from the heart going up to the to the actually to the body to the rest of the body and particularly into that to the head and we discussed that uh in our first year in chapter nine yesterday we learned what okay now that we know where they're seated where they're lodged what's what's going on so he introduces the concept of that there's a battle going on between the two and each one desires to conquer the irctana the small City referring to the Goof the body and ultimate said that the body should a practically carry out too what the drive wants the Yates are hard or the definition Obama's once number two it wants it not just to to fulfill their this their missions practically but also Insight they're rats in their will their pleasure should be totally subservient to the will of the Soul and the third at the third thing he said so much so should be in subservience where it becomes like uh merkova to a rashif a chariot to a rider a car to a driver where there is no independent ego at all rather as soon as the writer decides to go here or there The Chariot goes there and that's the deepest level of what we call Bittle of humility has exploited us at Great length so those three things are the desire of each so now understandably the souls are not going to allow each other just to go and do the scot-free you know if if if if if the deficit bomb is once a person to indulge and to act like a behema and everything else and the necessarily kiss doesn't they're gonna fight with each other they're gonna argue they're gonna debate and that's what goes on every day that's what Deltona discusses on page 14 on your dollar page you dial it in chapter nine natanya and he discusses the feelings that come along with the debate and the argumentation oh and love and different aspects that he that we we discussed yesterday towards the end of the uh year yesterday we we read rather a little fast that there's two types of Ava a police too one is called avocaish excuse me a love of fire of passion where The Godly Soul has this Burning Love for God and wants to express godliness in any way shape or form then there's another type of Love called avakamai a love like water water is cold it's cool it's calm compared to a fire Draper says is actually a greater level of love he calls it here in Tanya and also a love of delights and later from chapters 43 to chapter 51 the altered elaborates extensively about different levels of love and Mr sheb will talk about that when we get there at length but for now he briefly touches upon it and he touched upon it because it's relevant to the to what the necessary case want it needs to do and down to that is alluding to the fact that the necessarily kiss just being a Godly soul and being a good boy has only the maximum it can have is a a passionate love very good but it won't have a love of delights in other words the necessary case will thrive on passion and excitement right but when it when it when the situation is that it corresponds to its dictates and its beliefs but when something is kind of you know silent quiet it doesn't really relate to it that's why Dr never says oh it can even have that type of a pleasure if it attains the love what's called avakamaiah it's more of the impulsive it's kind of like the impulsive arrest type of thing yes yes yes so as much as the regish and passion in this case being holy is wonderful there's something greater that even in a calm State you feel you completely are in love I gave you the example yesterday of which says you know I've rum which is you know you look at it you say what what a love story what you know I mean wow this this King Schleich wow he must have really uh had a had a lot a good understanding of of love and all of its details the truth is describing the relationship between benay Israel the Jews and I cut the sparkle and he and he uses imagery and poetry and his wording to describe this so there's a verse there which says my my lover and he gives attributes adjectives to the love between Hashem and Israel describing how there's a relationship now foreign you would think that the symbolism of of of an Embrace of a hug and the symbolism of a kiss and the symbolism of an intimate moment is the deepest right and that's what we find people first they embrace then they engage in in the chicken kissing and then they engage in intimacy explains this and look what they tell you the wonderfully that there's even something higher and that's just the piercing the the the the the the the the the the the peering the looking the gazing between the lovers and each other and he uses the words of the dove that the two doves the male and the female dove they look at each other and that is even greater there's no hugging there's no kissing there's no intimacy and that's even greater how could that be and you think about it it's true why because all of those three are activities the activity of an Embrace a Cancer and intimate moment so it's it's you as you are in a position and in a mindset in a heartfelt feeling leaving in a way your own very core self and performing you're performing what they call today the act of love right there's something deeper you're not performing you are who you are all you do is looking but in that look there's everything there drab explains this very very beautiful important moment I'm using that to explain the idea the difference between this passionate fiery love that you spoke about a moment ago the avocaish and the avakamaiah the Avoca mine doesn't mean to say you're a cold sob the Avoca mind doesn't mean you're you know you're uh you don't care I mean let's call it spade a spade plenty of people are cold in their relationship that's what we're talking about you're totally there but you're there in a way that is my not ace we call that tainook kainuk is not happiness has the elements of what we experience at the Karl bakshou with dancing and sinking and it's all similar kind of doesn't kind of pleasure doesn't require that I'm not saying it cannot be through that but usually it's it doesn't require I don't know if usually it doesn't require that is where a person could stand and just gaze at the at the people singing and the person realizes what's going on why he's here what's the purpose and he has this penetrating pleasure that you can't budge him an example that that must be in Chabad would give is the difference between two people come to a table I've told you this over the years one is a poor a poor person who'd been eaten a long time one is a wealthy person who has you know well he has whatever he needs but he's on the road it comes into a market so you look to a host and they they put down a plate of food before him and before the poor person who do you think is all immersed more in the food the poor person who hasn't eaten in two days or the or the wealthier person who has whatever it is it's the it's the wealthier person why the poor oh I'm sorry sorry I forgot then summer comes and before they can start eating pulls away their plates who gets more upset the poor person or the wealthy person the wealthy person the person who always has food why because he's so ingrained that food has become part of who he is by the poor person the food is not him the food you need is outside of him because he never has it so here is about to eat someone takes it away okay another day without food in other words you can't say that the food is the person by the wealthy person the indulgences the pleasures the kashmias that's who they are and if they don't have it one day as we're saying yeah there's they're ice Mensch you know what ice makes me ice Mensch means uh ice Mensch means that they are totally totally totally bereft of being a human being they've lost their Humanity you know why because by then food is their Humanity I'm from you got it so therefore in the same way using that as an example the fact that someone who's jumping around and singing around and it's all ecstatic and it's all fiery and all that doesn't yet mean that's who they are it means they've acquired something that they use now for a good thing but it's not who they are and my friends you all know that this is daily people who are what they call in Love full out of love if because if if they're in love with this fiery love you could fall out of love if you're in love with with with avakamai the the love of delights the pleasure if you fall out of love you're falling out of yourself it's like you killing yourself you're hurting yourself means there is I who has a love for something else and it's fiery and it's passionate and all that very nice but it's not you avakamaya means it became you so if and if if from the position of abacamaim you you you you lose it you're not losing something else you're losing yourself and who wants to lose themself it's like self-destructive this is something that we learned yesterday I didn't elaborate so I wanted to just elaborate more and this is what the necessary kiss seeks to accomplish within the nephew promise and how is that done through transforming the nepheus to be on its side so let's go now to page 28 and let's read again from [Music] a commercial Customs is the third line the third word okay the gimbal as we learned over there that the bed is converted is transformed to be complete good morning as though it's actual Yates how the hustle have got him hat Sawyer by removing the filthy garments that it put on itself is not filthy it puts filthy garments on itself so when your husband when you remove the filthy garments which are not that episode which referred to the pleasures of this world like I told you yesterday they're all a bunch of garbage a bunch of Tire feces I can't tell you how important it is to say this to ourselves every day but I don't mean in a you know muscle way either you know I'm just saying like laugh at yourself stop and think this is you know any Specialties brought up many times how people are indulging I remember the question issue of the shank left of the barbecue women with the shape left laugh at it it's like five thousand dollars worth of feces on your head laughing you know oh a little more feces on your head another few bucks and that that you know when you when you when you when you understand this and you live it it becomes a joke and like hey you want to have more feces God bless you I don't want to be next to you you're smelling dirty so anyway says here you have to but again from Tanaka supposedly then officially kiss seeks to remove the disgusting garments that are full of soya feces that's what he says just quoting the verse my wife is objecting the women's Gallery here we give equal access in our to women and my wife is objecting to the shankles um so we'll leave it for another time we'll have a a debate whether the five thousand dollar chaito's fall into the ataya or not but not now what were you saying Daniel what was your question I didn't get it what was your question garments right no no no no no he means spit no any any kind yeah he means anything it doesn't mean physically clothing any kind any kind of indulgence you know I must have the nicest China that cost 25 times the regular piece of china right because when someone comes into my house they should say oh this is luxury this is a gear now if they're doing it because someone will come in and become closer to Hashem it's a different story and that by the way Jane is the answer to the sheikhlach that these laboratory Robinsons believe that wearing a five thousand dollar Shake tool will make her look as cool and even better than anyone in their community and therefore they'll be able to say okay be a from woman go to the Midfield Castle your home you know I'm not Antiquated okay whether it is this way or not we can argue to get become blue in our face but the point is the never Shirley kiss is constantly seeking to remove these ugly soil garments by the way I there's a letter from that ever that I translated once in my book The Rabbit's advice when someone asks to them about buying a new vehicle right and the devil says buy a new vehicle of last year's model you don't need a new vehicle from this model because buying from this model usually is because you want to be cool you want to be with the times you want to show your hey you're a knocker I got the the latest Tesla whatever you know you want a Tesla You're Gonna Save money on gas if that's really your belief why don't you buy one from two three years ago or an iPhone I tell my daughter here she's Hocking me for an iPhone I said I'll get you an iPhone but one that's from three years ago not the latest model iPhone 16 or 14 whatever they're up to oh no I have to answer why because the Jones have the model that's what we mean removing the the what's it called let's continue all other emotions within the heart r for God and God only the whole clue an old speech within the mouth and the thought was in the mind should be filled of the garments of thoughts and speech of The Godly soul itself without any interv intervention and mixing in from the nephews Hashem this of course refers to thinking about God and his title once conversation all day having to get ready for this one like you don't stop your lips do not stop from reciting and your hands are involved in the activity by the steering wheel that moisture is driving now is coming and is imbued with a Mitzvah so he's you know his hands are doing something he has to he's not yet driving the Tesla I think with that that doesn't need a spirit hands so the hands are used are being used exactly what he's doing now is what the alternator says see here he is driving on the road over there and we're learning to stickle Tanya that identifies what he's doing now and the other 248 limbs of the person yeah but myself should be only dedicated to Mitzvah Mitzvah man who is avram I'm from bechamish he's the Mitzvah man you know like you have in the shul a lollipop man who gives the kids the lollipops of shoppers someone asks you know I've run yo I'm from he's the Mitzvah man that's without the devil says it but myself the person becomes so one with Hashem that is known as the Mitzvah man now the last next two lines are so brief two lines but there's such a heavy lesson in the next two lines that it's it's it's it's a half uh it's it's powerful look at it ah now fish I bought me my Clipper so until now we discuss what the Netflix of the kiss wants to do or needs to do hey we're talking about a war we're talking about Waging War over a city so what is the other side you want to do what is the nephew about this one who says foreign has another way to to display God and that is the nephew Bible says I'm going to make it so hard for you because I want to see if you really mean it so I'm going to challenge you and I'm going to trick you but the really you know what I want I want one thing beat me beat me conquer me with type Assad she is for the benefit of man to overpower Death Wish Obama be victorious over it and the last three words of this Panic are Monumental commercial as the muscle of the Zion of the Zona of the prostitute in the Holy Zion oh hey go say this in the basement in bed Brock or yorosha lion they'll they'll throw you out what are you bringing in prostitutes from desire what does it say in the Zaya there was a king who had an only son and he and he didn't know as he grew up if he was faithful to him and dedicated and all that so he sends them away far away then he goes the King goes to a prostitute and says listen I need you to entice my son and I want to see if it can withstand the challenge so she says okay you got a deal but guess what she heard from the king the plan so she knows that really she's not there to do a faithful job she just did a challenge him and really the king doesn't want her him his son to engage with her so she cannot make the proper pitch okay if you don't believe in your product Kevin you're in business all of you right you know I mean you gotta believe in your product whether you're in the rabbi business or in the art business or the real estate business or the music business or the meditation business or the psych it's like so so Social Work business you have to believe in your product you don't believe in your product you ain't making sales okay it's a prostitute didn't believe in a product why because the king who hired it didn't bring it believe in the product he wasn't interested that his son should really live with her he just wanted to challenge and see the strength of the Sun what does she do she goes and talks to another prostitute and and and and and tells the second process to this is the plan the processing processor says hey I still you're hiring me to do a a fake job I don't mean right and so desire says there's one after the other and the tenth prostitute doesn't know the plan of the king the 10th prostitute knows hey my job is to make money and to entice people I'm really and there is this this there is this fellow this Jewish fellow walking around there I'm gonna try to entice them because I really want to have relations with him oh this is the mushroom desire I caught this nose Hashem Hashem wants of it to make the Jews stronger not weaker but the way to get to that is to make a trick and the trick is to challenge and to pretend I don't like you and I want to get get at you and I want to make you sin so that nothing shall bomb is is like that prostitute that does all kinds of ploys one after the other so that at the end the person is really challenged because the the person really thinks this this is an Indulgence and this is this is what God wants well this is my sleepers you have to understand that the purpose is to overcome this is what beneficently kiss comes to understand about the nephew promise that Universe Obama's you know very well that you're an agent of God and that your purpose is to challenge the Jew to make the Jews stronger not weaker so when we understand this then we take the virtue of the nepheus to use for Hashem that's what the outcome says with those three words at the end commercial as the known parable of the prostitute of the Zayed up condition the holy Zaya and and it connects to what he said before that the the real desire of the nephilis Obama is of the Clipper is is the opposite of what seems to be which is to get the Jew into trouble rather it's to bring out the best in the jewel yes yes yes master has to wait that would have so the healthy muscle will help the history Wings helped me to hold my muscles so now I'm gonna hit me up you need to move my muscle muscle excellent I like it it's a good Marshall so they have to do all kind of crazy the ex muscles do it uh-huh uh-huh interesting interesting I like it very good Michelle and guys you listen said some very good muscles we're getting ready to listen so make it a great Shabbos it's Shabbos will work him as well so please Focus join if I bring in say hello and um what's the message I share with you to share with the other with everyone of Shabbos you have to be no regardless of our white beards regardless of our you know already uh older we gotta be new and if you not know you become old and stale very fast and that's why I told you many times the secret is hang around young people you stay younger for a long time whether it's a shoe I'm serious you know going to school with all AKs you know uh you're gonna become an AK very very quickly but you stay around younger people with children and Afraid him and teenagers and and you sit together if I bring together and you talk together you laugh together you argue together and you cry together it's happening now today not to happen thousands of years ago have a great job as everyone see everyone Monday and make a chef take care that's love of the Champions bye