Students, Children who misbehave & Rambunctious are greater potential for good - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

or on page llama dalit which is the opposite side of 66 we're middle of chapter 27 and Tanya and we're at the words like about 15 lines at the top full of rain in middle of the set line algipe Adam it follows a period that's where we're at and we'll get right to it Dr Pepper is encouraging us not to be discouraged by thoughts bad thoughts that come to us and I don't mean bad thoughts like you know I want to kill I want to kill someone we're talking about inappropriate thoughts sexual thoughts Etc those type of thoughts that's the that's the context of Olaf I can't hear you what well uh if you can mute yourself appreciate it follows a person shouldn't be down that's an expression man should not man's heart should not fall upon him but what it means is don't feel bad what shouldn't you feel bad about and your heart shouldn't feel very bad so you notice the word a little bad you can feel but not very bad if gum in here came koyama if your entire life you'll be engaged in this war or pushing aside the the inappropriate thoughts the Muhammad Zoo and here are the the the bomb words of the altered perhaps just perhaps shiny maybe you were created to fight you know we think that we're this and that maybe we're boxers our job is to eat boxers in a rink and make sure the guy doesn't smash Us in the face and knock us down we have to fight with this yet set of hours with this perhaps maybe why God created you and brought you to Earth upon Earth is not because you are uh you know God's gift to humanity but Hashem wants to see you fight the word devil is created look at the words emphasize those words underline those words and this is your job to constantly subjugate the negative extraneous forces called the citric Atomic constantly what does it saying I love this this Rashi yaakov wanted to sit peacefully Joseph the wrath of Joseph of Joseph sprang upon him what does that mean you Jew you want to sit peaceful God says no way Jose I didn't put you on Earth to sit and play golf and bake in the sun on the beach of California and Florida I put you here to deal with the anger the problems of yasuf politics and especially reading last night and I helped myself back from forwarding it to all of you the of the terrible Shonda how they uh destroyed and wanted to beat up and hurt the mayor of bechamish and they they burnt their car and by the flat tires Barbarian acts right your neighbors five minutes when you are that's also that's also Joseph if I hear about it here in Brooklyn and Borough part that means it's relevant to me otherwise I wouldn't hear about it or you say well don't go on the internet and look at the the website you will know about it so I didn't have a so God will have another reason to spank me I'll have another reason to do I hate than you give her but the point is it came to my ear came to my attention and I share with you now that's the anger of Joseph we're learning Tanya we're trying to climb the ladder in the Montebello to have a sort of tables etc etc and all of a sudden we hear the stuss coming right out of your neighbors that's that's the Avada that's their father not the effect there is I'm gonna lock myself up in a mountain or or may assure him and and not have and not know what's going on and and and all of that that's not enough either that you haven't done eating before you came down and it made to show me after you go back up you'll have plenty of time to sleep I told you Kevin when I come there to slow the people ask me so did you rest I said no and I'm happy about it I don't want to rest there this road resting like a rest here United States and everything slow I want to get every moment that to be awake as much as possible you know so the idea is we're here to fight let's continue now down today answers of Rome a question that he asked in chapter one remember he quoted job e of or Eve says about God in other words you didn't give a person you didn't take away a person's free will to be righteous and be Wicked but yet the verse says you created the righteous you created the wicked implying that whether we're going to be good or bad is predestined that was the question of the earth now to them and now in chapter 27 answers Zelma but also to show you and that's why Eve says God from your perspective you can create a category called The Wicked Felicia that's that does not mean that God wants us to be actual Wicked myself God wants us to be beaten in here you see clearly Delta represent his philosophy God wants us to be beaten him but by the name fall under the category from God's perspective I'm going to show you so here I want to make a point Hillel that's important because I don't know if it was clear when you guys have been learning Tanya on your own we talk about Sadiq Russian three types right how many categories did Hashem create the answer is two from God's perspective you're either you either at a point in your life where you're at Sadiq I'm sorry that the room for hashem's perspective he can see he could created certain Souls that are Sadiq like souls and you cannot be such a Sadiq in chapter 14 we learned you can be spiritually impregnated and have a temporary exotic-like feeling but but by Nature inherently you're not exotic Soul you're a regular soul and the other soul is guess what Maisha A Rush of Soul why is that Russia because Russia means they act you act upon the the bed abandon me has the urge over Russia and controls the urge but by and large debating me is closer to a Russia than to assadic people make this mistake always they ask you on the Steep Street moisture abandon the according to the top balatanya is closer to the Russia or to the subject you would the first answer that you would think is because he controls his thoughts his speech his action his behavior so it's more like a Sadiq now that every here says just the opposite wrong he's closer to a Russia because his essence has the urge and if you have the urge from when God created your soul you are a Russia in the category of Russia but God wants you to refine yourself and not commit the sin I.E be the bathing but there is no category covenanty there's either and that's why Eve says he'll it doesn't say in in Eve but us obeying them why doesn't it say but also abandon them in in Eve because there is no category from God's perspective as being a knee it's either you're you have exotic Soul or you have a rush of soul now God says even if you have a Russian Soul which most of us form to the category but the objective is to be benini so the the the the the pain in the as outstanding it's a phenomenal thought as outstanding as abandoned he is could you imagine someone who is complete Showman not just show me the gear show them myself and as soon as the inappropriate thought or something bad comes he says out of here speak closes his mouth we're going to learn a little later and doesn't speak the Lord and the negativity and in action surely doesn't hurt someone else so we think he's exotic no he's addict you have an urge and guess what your urge is fiery if you don't stand on guards every moment your urge is going to get a hold of you so let's go back into the Tanya so that's what he says here that's a question yes yes sir I don't remember which class it was it which safer but I remember I think it was what we learned a couple of years ago and it said that we should strive to be a better name that's that that I I think it was the creator was talking about it that we should be that's what we should try we shouldn't even strive to be in Sonic We should strive to be amazing yeah I know it's the Tanya it's a Tanya it's not the difference Dr Emma says it throughout these chapters that's so it's not I'm not how am I I'm not contradicting that I'm saying exactly that but what I'm saying yes we just strive to be abandoning meaning to refine ourselves but who are we strive to be who are we I say to you Yani uh you should go get a job to do this and this right now you have another job so as you are now with your current job go try to get another job the same thing the pain in the type which is the objective of man from God that Hashem wants us to become a complete and thought speech in action who is he who is he until he reaches that point he's a Russia rush of a timely that's what the Tanya teaches us let's continue and it says so they the category I'm gonna show him should constantly battle let's see if Guyton to avert their mind from the inappropriate thoughts but you should know down to them it says you will never be able the category of resilient potential banging him to eradicate completely the urge and again as we said at the top of page 34 if you think you can you know excuse the expression you're a damn fool and the alternative is what you're about Guyver you don't get that's not your mechanism that's not your nashama let's continue he said because eradication to eradicate completely the bad Abraham who can do that only the righteous one now that ever says there's two ways of eradicating Ben verse name Hashem has two ways of deriving pleasure from our work alephitos from completely annulling and eradicating the negative forces and transforming bitterness to sweetness and darkness to light who does this activity this is the first category done by Sadiq but Hashem is the second way that God derives pleasure from our activity is not through eradication and obliteration completely of the evil as done by the sadikian but it's through us when we just subjugate the sitarakra we don't transform it you hear the difference is in its potency and strength it's the the hurricane uh ideela Adelia that's hitting Tampa and all that right it's powerful it's roaring and as we said yesterday it rises like a eagle to soar high high high in a negative way omishan and from that position God sees how you subjugate and get and avert the thought and say as here I don't want to think about it because of that God descends makes it push it pushes it down he makes that ego four business turned to page 67 68 through our activity Hashem pushes down the city because he sees that we are initiating the activity of refinement are you there abandoned it you see he says clearly the third word on page 68 through the activity of us painting him so yayni here you see clearly Dr Rebel says the job is for us who are by Nature Souls of Russia with Tove Lo to refine ourselves and work on ourselves to the point where we we we we we become banging it possession and this is the meaning in the verse quote this is by Jacob and esoph age made for me make for me matamin Delicacies it's ugly forgive the question but I have to ask yes you know do we have any references at all to someone actually being pointed out according to during the definition of the observative is exotic in other words we're obviously speaking here about this is the safe result abandoning and I completely get that question is this definition of decided according to the alternator is there anyone ever that they're actually all in their category yes the answer is for sure but doesn't write those names but if you learn chapter two well and Tanya and he says clearly in every generation there are Russia Israel leaders of the generation now if they follow that that script of of the governor who killed this Yates of her the Tinus in other words that was the method that he used but anyone then in in retrospect we know that that's a topic so if you're asking me does the outer ramp is saying Tanya he and he is a Sadiq the answer is no because the whole style of cities is not the spoon feed you this the whole style of habocacy this is you gotta come to it yourself you want spoon-fed stuff there's plenty of other Hasidic movements who do that from blip from what okay [Music] we know that when you say that you want it you get a good and you're saying if you wanted you you better get it yourself well we know the currency of the river we can work very hard and maybe we'll attain the level of enemy but it's sadic that's like has there even is there even something that would be um available to us if we worked at it no so so again as a Norm the answer is no because we don't we're not made of that DNA we could temporarily be what is he called earlier spiritually impregnated that real you know where you have exotic Soul come into you and you uh do something that is subject-like but that's an exception and only a temporary thing so the answer is no for the average person and that's why the book this say for Tanya is a book of bathing the book that he wrote with Sadiq was burnt it went up on fire you know why because it's not for the average person so it's like a waste it was it was a waste in a way and and God from unhide is the tradition God on high said it doesn't belong on Earth it's not a safer that they are the world needs but Maisha Maisha how do you know someone asked you how do you know David King governor was exotic how do you know someone could take out a Tanakh and point the stories that clearly would show that he wasn't outside right right well the McPherson the ratak the ramban and the Ultima first should believe 500 000 years ago had the same question and do the same thing about the Malik as we do because they didn't live during double times but they lived closer to double demilox times that means their masora was closer in time to double the middle of the hours and they explained all of the events including the big one of them marrying basheva right and sending her husband to the front and he's killed which seems like like you know an affair and infidelity and and on and on and on comes along the gamarrus in I think attracting chapters and the gemara says whoever says the dovet committed a sin is making the mistake that kayem dolphin didn't say it the balatah didn't say it so the question now is do you believe that I don't mean you do does one belief the Gamora see it all boils down to you if a person I don't care how long this beard is not be it from not from does he believe everywhere in the Gamora and you'll be surprised some don't people who are striking in tomorrow don't believe in every word in the tomorrow they have a different interpretation Bill come on it's a clear line in the Gomorrah call me David say that because as the professional explained where David was coming from so let me ask you if you and I live during the time of the Malik what we have said Governor you are a Russia and you are not a good Jewish King and we shouldn't follow you but let me plenty people said that then there were others who understood where David was coming from the religious Jewish perspective whatever that is I don't want to go into that right now whatever that is that you look into the first time how they explained of its act and his reason and all that you see Tucker he was King David who fasted so many days to kill his Yates Sahara so the Yates shouldn't bother him so when are there sadikim in every generation absolutely that's the answer now it's up to us to find them if we want so for so that should answer your question I feel clearly the question was we are not Sadiq that is correct maybe very few in every generation and if we want to find them search research that's it you know and I'm sure I I would hope I'm sure that if you ask every question will tell you that about his red book every little fact I'll tell you about his goggle every person tell you about his qaham and that's the way the Jewish Community works if you don't trust anybody which you're entitled to do a little research yourself but you can't just sit back and say oh well the altareva says this I can't imagine anyone that doesn't have an urge you can't imagine so why don't you find out and it doesn't mean that you weren't born without with an urge it means that you have a type of a soul that can come to a point where you eliminate urge we can't do it we cannot do it we don't have that type of Soul if I may say so you and I but a person like or another bit Sadiq or emotionabino or a balcantov they were given blessed by God a gift which is called a nashama that had the potential at a certain point to reveal itself in a way where all it's concerned about is Hashem and Torah without the urge let's continue I gotta continue says Top Line it says in the verse that yaakov says to to ASAP he made for me Delicacies like I love the question is I'm from why does it say matamim plural Russian rabbit it should say he made for me a delicacy a good soup it says that Ace of made for Yakov of matamim and therefore I love him says the altareba because the spiritual meaning of the verses that asaph made for yaakov two types of pleasure pleasurable foods and he continues and this is the saying of the sriner lebanel to its children to the Jews closed Israel to all Jews as explained in the tikku name of the zoa in other words there's one pleasure coming from Total obliteration and destruction and eradication of evil done by Kim and there's just on the same level another type of pleasure which is through the pain in the knee which means there is an issue and there is an urge and I divert my attention I subjugate the evil I don't transform it because I don't have to cut up the ability to transform it or I could do is subjugate and Hashem says that's also a delicacy I have pleasure from that too from seeing that although you're not exotic you're only a potential being you're doing this type of activity of subjugating the urge most of the time and now he explains just as in physical Delicacies instead of muscle for example there are two types of Delicacies one is delicacy coming from sweet and tasty food by Shani the second one is vinegar type of food you know spicy food you take the the bitter spices and you sweeten them you make them taste better until they become actually Delicacies they're so powerful that they can do something even that the first type of food cannot do you eat nice sugary food right and you feel faint you're still going to feel faint not like not as much but you'll still feel faint it doesn't accomplish what sharp food does for the soul when the soul feels faint it gives you a jolt and that jolt restores your soul you no longer faint that's why Abram look how the altareba added the words to restore the soul specifically by the second type of delicacy which comes through the transformation of of bitter food making it into sweet food that type of food can restore your soul but the first type that to begin with is sweet and tasty and all that as much as it's good it doesn't create the restoration of the Soul what is that in the moral that the way of Sadiq came as great as it is doesn't restore the soul it's all good very nice I'm a good boy pat pat my back wow you're an a student but take an F student a d student take someone who's rambunctious and turn him around and make him into a better student that's special that's restoration of soul restoration of Soul Malaysia is not the goody goody ask any educator who brings them more happiness the goody goody the excellent student wants to sit up front next to the teacher or the one who sits in the back and is is throwing spitballs at the teacher that's what they used to do in my days you know or the one is trying to put say a cup of water as his door swings open we used to do that in Yeshiva cup of water falls down onto the head of the teacher or Stuffs the lock with glue yeah I'm bringing back some some memories I'm trying to get you to be safer while you drive over there hey those are the fish market on 16th Avenue and asking for the rotten finish and I used to put it into steam in the heaters of the school that's a new one that I never heard oh my gosh that's mean but that's exactly it you take such a student and such a you know and you turn them around you make them into a mensch that teacher has earned gun Aiden that teacher is so happy you can't bring right he's restored a soul that's nothing ever says here so taking good easy food and sweet food and tasting through this a delicious steak thank you very much but take a rotten apple and make out of a rotten apples oh yeah he says a stinking fish and somehow as long as it doesn't you know damage your body it's you know it's still a healthy and and you somehow are able to make it a sweet fish a good fish that's an accomplishment possession closer because of Coppola Hashem the verse says oh activity for God are for God the god Russia even the wicked to the day it means that the Russia will return from his weakness from some from his wickedness and he will transform and convert his bed to yoemaila youngboy he will make it into light day and light because and that will cause the subjugation of the negative side and the revelation of the most precious part of God oh we'll stop here and tomorrow and Sham will continue and finish the painting so this is uh I'm not yes so I just don't everyone have a great day bye see you bye