Stay Young - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

we're learning the third volume of that my modern will cook them that ever that my name is Robby amen yeah yeah beyond it and we are right right so this page 283 let me just recap from this moment that ever thereafter takes the mission of pity of us of Rabbi Eliezer Derek really okay all done what's the path Bansha choose this one that's nice for its feet first adoption service Lee servitors with my mother it brings the Methodist school the measurables question is a very simple everyone knows what path is the path one should be on it's the path of tato mitzvahs so what's the kiddush over here obviously if there mister says it for that be who thought know she says AZ dentistry yo your shutters she ever layer them he means something very significant than special what is that that that that was the rebus basic question which isn't only his question like I mean Nexus not his questions that Metis rules question but that every lab rats on at the preview said I've been here rabbits on it and he goes into the whole idea of first piece in the first place Alif he speaks about free will you know and who free will is given to a white was given and he elaborated on that and he spoke he spoke about the virtue of the neshamah going into a goof compared to the Roma prior to the center to a goof and then in those days in those days yesterday we learned most of us pays he speaks about the three categories of mitzvahs ages who brought them testimony statutes and laws and he really went into detail in explaining those things those three and particularly that the ADA said the hook in the testimonies of the statues really fall into one category because they're logical and I'm sorry I'm sorry a dose and respected fall into one category because they're logical bonus you know a testimony and one is a law and explain that and the other category statue with those who curse a theta it's a Zeta causality and shut made at the Queen that's the way it is but you need to elaborate on it then we went over it at great length yesterday so let's continue now on top of 283 or you on the point towards the bottom of 282 when he speaks about the the hooker he says that it uses a Kabbalistic words and idea and it's the caster sugar cancer in other words the pig did the the the hooker touches the roughs in her Elyan which is associated with this ket the crown was in the crown this is something that he said it there towards the bottom and he mentioned and we spoke about this yesterday too that the Taylor the tailor is the penis Hosmer schipperkes era because caucus tomorrow there is the crowns of the crown and then there is the cuff ma of the crown hospice team oh and he and he says he previous time combos he probably have seems will consider sometimes it says tom comas can comas means a secret an esoteric reason and I told them the story yesterday that that ever they wanted to build a mikvah in the city of La Pavich so when people come to the Babbitt said problem button in 1990 or so they're ever told them they shouldn't and one of the reason he wrote is because they're tom comas Exley this is a Tom comas by me it's a private reason an esoteric reason so you could you could interpret that those words and they never built a mixer is that the XM ideally the idea itself of building a mikvah in the Pavich is kind of from a place of an esoteric place and and and it's not yet ready to come into the you could interpret it that way where he contributed the variable about this away which is that it said the rapper has a private reason but the I just pointed out to the yesterday that the the words used is Tom Thomas so in Cibola I say this when Tom comas is used it means that there's there's it's it's it's esoteric it's spiritually secretive but then there is also the way people use the word in day to day language they use the word they can't you will hear whether it's a time comes in other words don't bother me I'm not gonna explain it to you because it's my secret you know and just leave me alone anyway but here in the mind learn that ever saying that that the level of hospice imitators in hospice team are what is cost esteem our toughest team uh does not mean that the hokhmah that that this that the huffman theta at this level is no is not as noble it's not noble it's it's beyond knowledge it's steam or ie it's time comas okay let's continue now top line the first line of to Avery in middle of the word after the comma Y como claim nevertheless how do be British time como so yes how's that time so that but now goes the other way he says I want anguish be emphasized as we did a moment ago its commerce its esoteric it secretive but mostly you see that the words are calm comas it's a reason that's esoteric it's logic that secretive so that's why they're episodes of Macomb Oakland on the other hand Hardy who will between is time comas she yes shall said Tom it's not that there is no reasoning no logic no time there is time but the time is Commerce is hidden Ellison who a them hot item igloo you there is a time there is a reason but it not amongst the revealed primont the logical explanations that we get to hear in them and think about a no LSU Tom Komal's it's rather a time combos commercial courses as it says comma C mod B it is heavy he muggy with me hustle it's sealed by trace I in my treasures that I know visor shoe comas in addition to the fact that it is Carlos he may have comers who asked Mike awesome this another point the karmis it's I don't know and I don't see a reference here I was wondering myself I don't know it's that it is smoothly you know it sounds to me like it's a initially or careless but I don't know believe now that I'll try to you know look it up if I get to if I have to find the crooked out here with Kovac the you know it's a hard to get to places to find them it's foreign anyway so behind the visor shook almost he made a promise who asked Mike Russell what does that mean that means commas means that the area the arena the domain that this is in is a place of of Secrets it's like you know when you go somewhere and it's a certain atmosphere there you're in the atmosphere there but you are who you are so so there's two things there is a place of atmosphere that is secretive but you're non secretive and you find yourself at the secretive place there's also an experience that not only do you find yourself in an atmosphere of secret of secrets and and and things that are heavy but you yourself that type of person that reminds me of the of the famous saying of the rabble the Freda care but maybe you remember school there with one of the secretaries one of the barbecue turbans told one of his secretaries that there's three types no maybe told one of the see them I forget now there are three types of Bali soit about suddenly someone who can keep a secret what now a Jacobson I think it was I think those are small of it whatever one of those I see them anyway no no no no sorry sorry Simpson because they're the Simpson was really about sir yeah it was Robert Simpson robber Elias Simpson this the story some stories of hurt he said there's a one type of Bowser that really he's not really about sir he's not but he was told to keep a secret she keeps a secret but you could tell on him that he's that he's hit that he likes to talk and he's controlling himself right that's a pretty weak bow suit another type of bow said it's someone that can really keep a secret and you the other person doesn't recognize that he's about that is keeping the secret that's how much he can keep a secret and finally there's a third type of Bowser that in a way he himself doesn't know that he has a secret okay could be so yeah right your money no maybe with Robbie uncle to 1978 after the rapper had a heart attack and it came back to 770 yeah yeah maybe though anyway the point is like this let me that you could be that you can hold a secret but but every told is a secret then there is an experience you can hold a secret and people don't know that you have a secret but you know you have a secret and dad does a third type of personals about sudden he's so secretive that he himself has come to a point Lee doesn't know he has a secret and yet he has a secret why am I thinking of this because the other says here look what he says here the heinel of answers to promise in an economist who acts with hostile very interesting words in addition to the fact that this experience of hospice Timo is Como's is secretive it itself is custom the shield is closed is locked Hilla what do we mean who acts might that itself is is that way what does that mean so I just thought of this as an example that sometimes the experience can be secretive but you're in the arena of Secrets but you yourself in your own world are not secretive so what we're learning here is that the level of hospice team are you're going to come across this and facilities trust me is a level where he says here that not only is the arena the atmosphere there come was hidden but the thing itself is hidden not just because of the atmosphere and this point being that's how secretive esoteric this experiences let's continue who all data and that ever says this would be comparable in young user and have Heda Allah muscle the event excuse me the advantage that a feeder a riddle has over powerful muscle a parable in our food of reserving an intro it too is strange is foreign to the moral I will impose there nevertheless he may who is a governor moving lastly a parable on its own without it being the parable for a moral is understood on its own it makes sense that's a parable of muscle of opinion Paquita but the idea of a riddle who actually arts moldova combos that itself then in its own right is esoteric right of heat the riddle no you know one understand it's a riddle so it's not that it's not understood because we don't understand where the parable is going and unless we have a moral we can reflect back on what the parable means the parable its own right is a parable that that's understood in order to be appreciated more we need we need a moral a lesson dementia what we call an insult right there's a muscle and an intial the initial clarifies more of the muscle but not that the muscle on its own is that understood whereas a feeder a riddle in its own standing on its own I'm sorry either is a riddle be it if you if you present it as a as an example to Clara to explain something it's a riddle it's still a riddle it's always a riddle that's what he says and he so what why does he bring this it's saying that the host must emo so removed from our experience that not only is don't we understand that because it's esoteric and we are exoteric etc but in its own in its own right it is by definition secretive and hidden yes he little as far as I know okay intentionally have you spelled the feedback howdy how do you spell defeat bad that you get you're referring to you don't know what his name was Caillou grip hi my what was heard of it I think I should lie he knew how those lies with you how it's not a hey okay okay thanks but you know maybe everything's possible anyway cancer should be cancer this level of caster sugar castle who should move them a patina sarcoma but it's it's also separate and very removed even from the level of Kozma garment people penis hospice team up so we have three things we have cancer shivakasi we have hospice team oh and we have hot my blue you love my blue you moisture is what the revealed logical reasoning for whatever we're dealing with reveal customer then we have and we have the Clara as it is in Cosmo Haku you yoni cosmic booyah means I can understand the comprehend we have the same terror as it is in cosmos team are in the esoteric realm nevertheless it's comparable to the to be understood through an insult and then we have the third level which is beyond and any form of Revelation and that is the level of terrible kisser the Hui news chane table dosa this level of Casaus efficacy means there is no logic and reason for the will Gavin Lloyd Tom comas lit up see he's explaining here keep the straight of thought he's explaining here this idea of time comas and he says there is a time club moose where you have both things going on right I want to end this promise it's concealed it's a secret but on the other hand there's a calm that there's a reason that if you were to be in that esoteric level and experience you would figure out the reason then there's a level where it by its very definition its secretive and you elif's beyond figuring out that's what I've been saying the old time right so now he sums it up he says the whole engine should aim camera so when you but we want something we have a will rut so yes ask yourself why do I want it and usually could you find an explanation absolutely a thinking person knows why he wants what he whatever he wants or whatever given time so maybe you don't publicize it and it's not written all over you so it's not a Tom goalie it's not a reveal reason but it's what we call a time plumbers there's a third experience which is a time Loretta it's such a will power within me that it transcends the whole realm of reasoning I don't want to say this but maybe you know the infatuation experience in a healthy way would be this that as an example you know it means as you describe me as a discussion and physics you know I was in school and we learned about the atomic level of things and how there are exchanges of electrons and so on and then generation later they're talking about subatomic particles and then - and their generation later they're talking about the quantum realm which which makes no sense to our to our concepts of physics very good no that's the version of mental rules you can meet quantum physics yeah that's very very good very good you put it very nicely very nicely see that's that's the when you learn to see this you get to come up with your Schuller just to bring it down to your understanding that's very very important thank you and now he says the cashier at also he slobbers repeaters hawk mostly mom when the will of a sham the Russell invests itself in this esoteric hokhmah highly open finished Omkar most of copolymer are rotten so at least there is some esoteric reasoning for that will ma shaken conversely kessen shall be cast there the highest level which we called the crown of the crown who am i rushing Tom Crowl come on Tom low Tom combos it's pure will without reasoning the truth is the truth is we in this physical world don't have said don't have this because everything in the world has a pound maybe it's not a time that you and I can relate to or understand but there is a time so what why do i shrimp create the world yoni what's the reason I chef created the world so the zora gives us the atrium gives its reason whether Sherman's kind he wanted to do kindness for the world with our 7 wanted subjects to understand them right comes along the out that ever and he says you know why I shouldn't created the world there is no way it's at IVA Hashem had a spiritual diver he wanted to create the world go argue with him the never die sharp in his famous mind mentally Simon loves the first Naima young personal trainer of the Year 1906 actuals 1905 at the English state there ever a shop talks about this and he elaborates and explains that it's not that there's no that the reason for creating the world is because God had a tither they let the experience of Tiger goes beyond reasoning that's what we mean we're trying to figure out Moshe why did I share create the world so the seller says one reason they find says another reason everyone has a but that's all the realm of reasoning guess what God transcends reasoning and that's Tiger means it's beyond reasoning I'm thinking of this as in regard to what we're learning here the time almost that we're talking about at the level of cancer shall be cancer is transcendence and there's a level of Shannon's reality and his Russell that that's all that matters normally we look for explanations and we look to and identify with data as it is in the realm of time I'll give you an example even Kabbalah soil why should I do I love phasing people why should I do it because I have accepted by myself the yoke of God that itself is a reason because you know I share measure LF your king your father your boss and you want to respect him and you want to do good do you want to have relationship so I'm gonna do what he says that's also a time what we're learning now is that there's something even that's greater which is beyond time it's not about town this is what you want not because I in other words let me say this way even the second level of time crumbles right there's there's a brownie points that you get from doing that in other words I listen to you if I listen to you yeah I'm sure it makes you happy so I do that because it makes you happy yeah it's not about what makes you happy what doesn't make you happy it's you that's the real meaning of a night Movado it's you you tell me you want me here I'm here you want me there I'm there total subservience that's the level of chaos of the castle the there's no calm commerce for the Russell so what we're learning here is that hook him hook him in the very essence statutes the type of mitzvahs plug in and are that experience so it's not as though you know he said like this slay my mother said I searched all over for the reasons and I realized that a fight cognate men though I'm so far I haven't come an iota closer to understanding you I shed although I searched and searched and searched and therefore I'm ready to do it to do it your way that's not the level of the third level of kisser that's the second level the third level of of Tessa said the kiss it is I don't need your searching I don't want you searching just be the way I want you to be and just go with it slay mamela is engaging in a quest his quest is I want to find God and I want to do what God wants hence he says regarding the statutes to hook him I try to understand these statutes and law and mitzvahs that you gave and for the life of me I can't get it doesn't make any sense what does that tell you that tell you tells you that his approach to mitzvahs was at the second level not at the highest level it was at a level of experiencing God Hashem through hospice team uh but hospice team ah has low so time he had that mean this is I'm elaborating cuz this is a minyan that supportive see this and it's relevant also to our avoid desertion toughness team or as as as secretive and esoteric it is it's still yes time combos and that was slain my MELAS quest and at that level it's very important and and and correct but what we're learning in and - is a higher experience it's not about the quest it's about being about being there and you know yes more doesn't actually write it well no it it means usually refers to Hoffman dot sillas it's it's Hoffman of some sort on the highest level of customer what we're learning here is that there's a level of rustling that's beyond hokhmah and that is really the source and by the way the emphasis that here is not on terror amidst us it's it's it's the mistress that expresses and connects to the Russian that's beyond time commerce whereas Clara is kind of limited to the huffman experience cuz it's Tara another small tiny you have to understand the tech tater bytes very inherent nature is an understandable saying that a sham wants so what's the maximum in a sense that that we can relate to Hoffman hospice team are now Kauffman misty ma but like you said it's so I think like I hear what you're a spurts a good question but I think that here that the the worth of Russian and kashish advocacy is is emits was more than Integra whether whether there is that level in Tyra it would seem to be an oxymoron of contradiction I don't know but it's a very good observation and to think about it maybe I'll ask some you know people but it's a good point you make let's continue hello yoni everyone you guys Moshe is it is it clear what we're learning I mean it's it's it's heavy stuff it's heavy stuff what you say okay listen listen it you know see this is a learning that you take it in and you learn it again and again and and you think about it but I think we tried explaining it this nicely okay give the solo I have fish and this is this is the F this is the the the difference between the cell ahead finish bay time it says they this was fought them between the missiles to call Custer body and lower so yesterday in time will travel reasoning or vena Mitzvah Shaniqua hooking and between mixes that are called statutes maitre see a chalet entire meters that are called the reasoning Hayden sort of saying they come from the will the level of will say Miss lavish Mahatma steamer that invests itself in esoteric Hoffman the imager shall Robson in Astana although the will aspect doesn't change viola penis are not saying and it is still will gonca miss lavish the hospice team or even when it invests itself in esoteric wisdom it attains it retains excuse me it retains its will aspect and has not become transformed to be hokhmah Nicole McCann nevertheless yes how's that Tom Columbus he's just repeating in a way what he said earlier was more words nevertheless it's still considered a time comes a secret an esoteric reason over stout shows what happens when from this level motion it progresses in the sense is councils how does a bill and map that comes below the penis time Vikas Bahl oh here you get salt and pepper and you have you have now food for thought you have reasoning and wisdom customer so in other words like this and true even the mistress of a dose and spotting testimonies and laws come from the will of God that's beyond hope hello you might take them off your you think however that's where it comes from however however as it trickles down as it filters down to us it comes through reasoning right that's I'm talking about testimony and and a destructive converse leave out who came when it comes to statutes and the penis cases should be cast said they come from the crown within the ground shizuha Rutzen that's the level of will shed anal of tom cloud that has no reasoning whatsoever he ain't a'no miss lavish gamba feliz hospice team ah because it doesn't invest itself even in the level of esoteric wisdom our cable Amato so basically it comes here on earth to us that he knows who cabal a time they statutes without reasoning in other words it doesn't go through a filtering process notion there is the will of a shed as it comes down and it stops at floor number three and four and two so it goes from the top to the bottom but it make stops and as it makes stops it identifies with the stops that it makes ie it gives reason to the experience of what's going on then there is so that's a dose and miss button when it comes to hook into the statues of a sin it's like it gots an express elevator or an express train that skips all the stops goes from top to the bottom you got it right here the way it is all the way on the top no reason you let you like that much in here that stop some milk stops and the local versus Express fightin Wow say oh my he goes back to what he posted that he brought earlier in the mind of mistake that's right right exactly the ethnic stops and the other with the queue goes limp wristed passes a lot of Brooklyn stations okay I'm out in Boca I tell a hole and this is what said if you will follow in my skin hook it say they are hooking who criticized why did I sham use the word hook and in boohoo Co citing link oh why not invaders tail a who hello MP may spot the tail a home why be who claims I fail in home so he says because it's only through hook him that you really become tail a hoe the penis he'll oh you become a walker or a goer kill yourself who can name the fittest at Simon Robson shame is a time cloud because hukum is the experience on earth which is beyond logic it's pure will how does Ella my limit leaders have Bowl Allah calmly its transcends no limitations okay now your days there through fulfillment of who came who Hilo lover Latinas a versa be home later that's the way you will come to a love of Hashem chef of a whole night with all your might transcendence the honey honey shavanasa smokiness Mahalo like they never shy ballast because the neshamah becomes through hooking a Mahalo but through the nefesh I promise and what time is because this is needs to be explained what's the time now I'll take five minutes okay take the five minutes to explain this first he says that they answer the question is why does it say be who clay site a lake was not been nice bucked him or behaviour too late he doesn't say that openly but that's what is referring to and the answer is because if you want to become a mihalick why are you Mahalo or are you just a nightmare remember we learned about that the difference between standing the maloca my Pacific lame them and the summers of cinema house and that habit teaches from the name and the name of see this cheetah says when do you become a harlot when the summer comes into a body the soul may shed on high is not a mahalik it's like a mela it's limited to its mission only honors when it comes into this physical body and its challenge with the tightest that's when it becomes a Mahalo so the real experience of the who case I is not as the soul is in heaven pre or post being in a body and this is why it's so important to do hook him while we're here you can't do hooking afterwards no sharpness no teaches no para Duma sorry only here that's why people go around you know announcing you want to be Makai in the midst of she Lewis Hakam here's the phone number you know I did it in Tel Aviv in my daughter's apartment building there was a bird and a nest I was able to do the mid so she'll Oaxaca their resale rights every person has to do all mitzvahs know how does everyone get to do all mixes so certain mitzvahs that Africa handing the VM etc does not shy if the girl to tourist role okay you can argue even that this conversation in the ariza about that but a mitzvah she logic on so that's where people they announce listen you you want to try to do all mixes that you're supposed to do shaloo Oaxaca right why am I saying this because the miss lists are Shia only now what and it's the the nefesh abundance that's why I'm explaining here Evan says here the neshamah becomes a Mahalo through the nefesh Obamas and that's what through the hook him so it we need two things one we need to use the nefesh Obamas to be incorporated in the experience and what's the content of that experience not a logical Mitzvah but a transcendent endless Mitzvah aya hookah so when you do a mitzvah that has the hookah element Ricky all over it that Mitzvah is so powerful that it puts you in a Putsch with eruption cast Rebecca sir now I think I'll say later it's naughty cells and elsewhere that that basically all myths of this way in essence but we're talking about big ugly in a revealed way putting on trillion is it's given a reason that's a nice to see Carl and pace off there's a reason don't steal don't kill no there's a reason all those things have reasoning so the approach is his reason and at one more point and the message our bodies how does it relate to those things okay I'll cooperate with you you know why I have you have to respect my parents I have to be a man I shouldn't do things that are so there isn't the connection that's that's identifying with the essence yes [Music] fighting over a city and they each other in each one to post their their will over the roof of a flower so so I'm just curious if you could extrapolate from that to here and say but it says in the diary under shaman Nazis for betweenness Molly are you there an official Bahamas that that the neshamah becomes inefficient Bahamas which is evidence that Mahalo that's evidence that the nefesh Alec Cruz has kind of hardest the body in lieu of the it's kind of in lieu of the net Fisher bombers meaning at that that in that realm were at that moment or in that subject it has it has sort of won the war it's captured the city yes that is correct but again it's captured there's the capturing of the city of eliminating the veterans of Bobby's and then there is transforming another shell bodies in other words there is getting rid of your realm heat no more enemy in the city and then there is not getting rid of the enemy transforming the enemy where he becomes your soldier the old term it Mihalis are you they nefesh a bomb is is that you take him along for the ride and eat and an effort and remember what we've been learning all about the the cleric Ivor that the the power of passion passion is nefesh obamas you don't want to eliminate that you want to transform it it's a much harder Aveda right it's a much harder avoid the to to transform than to subjugate you know but that's what we're learning here okay trevenant we will learn tomorrow Michelle psyche doesn't have a good day everybody