Solution for Addiction

okay we're holding warning we're holding the second where we hold we're holding ice gimmel hold on oh he's a dollar one second yeah ice dalid which is on page 41. [Music] this another advantage that there is in to learn to learning the inner aspect of the i said this etc this point that ebba didn't make earlier we know from hazal and we know from from all of their writings earlier writing later writings in in entire sources that the purpose of learning inner at any part of that especially panini satyara is not just to have knowledge but it's to develop what we call love and all for hashem the altar ebba really spends a lot of time on this in tanya and chapter 40 where he brings the zohar akaddish what speaks about the bird not soaring on high because it doesn't have its wings and what are the wings one wing is ava love on the other wing is jira so i refer to that for more clarity but here that ever briefly uh that brings the idea that you need avengira otherwise your avoidance hashem is lacking so he says that there's another advantage to learning anemia that neglected does not have and that is that it's it is a direct conduit to awaken and arouse avenger love and fear within a person and again not by osmosis not just by learning and you have to work with what you're learning you have to develop it let's continue gizelle you should know today and you should make your heart be attentive that the idea so what do we see from the past motion that the idea of your daita the idea of knowing hashem today its purpose is its purposes that you should have your heart should be attentive the purpose of the adaita is she may video she may be a little late it brings to a complete heart a complete heart is one that doesn't have just love for hashem or just all for us the words of that is that holy letter of the altered begins every mime is important to that one in particular which is called bahabir the explanation of olay sashbis there's uh the possibility that every sacrifice must have salt on that ma into the altar has a mimer there where he explains the whole idea of ava and the spheres and all that so that's he says over there the income here in this country is not the place to elaborate and go into more details so that's all he says about ah so he really doesn't get into the the nitty gritty that he expects us to know that from the qut and after and and this type of good sorry the rapper says a fantastic thing he says this is good i'm telling you that this oven here is good stuff and after this good things of avenger you shall be drawn you should follow you should pursue um and this should be one's entire will and desire and this is where you should attain pleasure from pursuing avengida because this good is based on its qualitative good in other words the other yidda is good and therefore you us pursuing this avenger we benefit from the good that naturally ava and jira have love and all and have for hashem so we will benefit from it and when we do that the purpose of which we were created is completed we come to the ultimate sri lanka for which for which this purpose will be created next page 43. conversely when one is drawn after gosmius and bodily matters over not only has he not completed the purpose of which he was created for hari adarable on the contrary who made it he lowers his soul from its essential qualitative advantage the yated madre and his nusrama descends to the level of an animal hagaru upokazeman which is worse and lower than who he than what he is a human being without comparison you can't compare the two species in the two worlds and now the human being is been temporarily lowered into the species of the balchai what did i say did i say anything else oh i i said i i mean you mean i said that the urethra is the difference between adam and bakai that that that's your porsche moon yes let's see let's see how he develops it and then maybe we'll have clarity whether you know it's like you say or i say let's see says this this yorita is in two matters in two ways one kia dua shakol dover shara anything everything and anything that man binds himself to attaches himself to harihou he becomes like the thing he attaches himself to he becomes like moshe which means it's essence and when he attaches his soul and his will his inner will to the inanimate or to the vegetation or to the living lysanic baham to derive pleasure from any of these species he becomes like those species that's the oh now the brackets we in the apprentice if you ate the episodes man becomes lower than them because i think here's what he's talking about man who may kabul mayhem because adam man the human species is now receiving mayhem he's getting pleasure from the animal from the vegetative so he has lowered his status to the status of an animal and a veg a vegetable etc and that ever emphasizes and i think it's important here to point out here we're talking about not that essentially an animal's bed and vegetation's bare of course they're not they're part of creation they're part of the system but the pleasuring oneself with these type of pleasures that's the problem that's what he says you know you could eat you could sleep you could you could ride an animal you could you can do you could we're supposed to use gas mias but not to not to look for the tiny the pleasure that that the bodily you know hedonistic or humanistic pleasure that we derive from the gospels here look listen to these words the man descends he lowers himself from his quality of being a madaba to those levels chazelle this is a great judith because he's a madaba so this is one this he says this is one negative quality one negative aspect coming from the urethra moisture is it clear yeah yeah yeah it's clear okay thank you i heard that heavy sigh i guess it's you're internalizing it well it just it reminds me reminds me about 20 over 20 years ago i remember i said i said what i thought was going to be a nice diverter at the table about something something connected with this i wasn't that i learned learned this but it was a similar message it was basically saying this message about how a person could sort of become low like this like uh yes you know and i remember it happened to be that one of my one of my rebellion from chappelle's their family was at the table we had invited them and i remember he looked at me like i was from outer space meaning that meaning his he understood it perfectly but the point was is that it left everybody at the table on such a downer right and i was i i didn't have any sort of an upper like so that that's why i'm that's why i'm giving okay i i i hear you maybe later we'll talk about it base the second the second problem with this this idea might say milos amidabe and it could be small that the what i said and you said are the two different things we'll see in a second i believe that's the difference the set the second thing is that the advantage of a madaba hades sir the ureth is lower the urethra the descent is greater [Music] when he lowers himself to things that are lower more disgraceful than he is with the ham who makes a tiny nuff and he find and that's where he finds pleasure [Music] he's even worse than an animal the first point was he's like an animal the second point is you're even worse than an animal why shall be hey mainly does an animal doesn't have dust doesn't have real knowledge real understanding then you're there your diasponding island cloud and it has no perception of things that are above itself and greater human hashem is giving you intelligence and knowledge because it might surprise you when we act with in a way of an animalistic way [Music] so the we are worse the person is worse than the animal because the animal the alternative is in tanya yeah that what the animal is doing what it's been created for and it wasn't blessed with das real dust so what do you want from the animal but you men you person were were blessed with us and you act like an animal so you're worse than an animal you're going against what you were given and created for oh when we think he says specifically more specifically if we if we consider what we said earlier in trap to pay the caliph the s to you it refers to sanctifying yourself with things that are permissible says the whom this is so when he does things for his own pleasure the time very important he takes a temporary hiatus it's not that he's permanently damaged and he can't do truva right now and why does it say leficia jonathan because it's our it's not very massive would be permanent foreign therefore the urethra the descent is a temporary one but boy is it attack but boy does it it feels real it is real but it's only temporarily ah until when how long will this last ah i say you're sure until the person will [Music] detour um as we brought earlier in the first chapter of this mimer quoting from tonya chapter 7 [Music] that this that the person indulges in he's worse than even the most contaminated and comedic behamos you understand what's going on here because a pig does its job it's a pig you know what it is you know what you're getting but someone who's a yi or someone who's a man and he acts like a pig he's even worse than he's going against what he was created for um will be explained the incan and if so he concludes his thought yet where is all this coming from all this is coming from the yet sahara that convinces him with all kinds of arguments to indulge in the pleasures [Music] i love the language this is an awesome stupidity that the yatsuhara makes man go astray from the way of truth in the way of proper righteousness enough what does the age of her do he blinds him don't look just indulge don't think too much don't philosophize the medic they justin dolce next page page 45. vikash and messi said layman's is that table of fun of and the yates or herder succeeds in convincing man that this typhoon is good for him this is what he should think about to get out of it here is the answer moshe here is an answer to the problem is this the best for me with him singular i was given a special nisha manifesh and is this is this what i was get is this is this taiva what i was given such an ashama for it's ridiculous he's still in the middle of the thought that will help him vacate the taivor is this the purpose why hashem put me on earth says think for a moment think for a moment that the yeah is telling you here look at it look at this tiger look at it it's delicious the fact that the sahara says look at it that itself should be a pointer and indicator to you run away from it so rather what should be my pursuit my my good should be being your name in ireland spirituals and and elevated matters shaheen cleveland they are truthfully good or the frat basically the special this is all good matters matters of goodness and kindness more specifically basically studying traditions it's the ultimate good and pleasure the truth the most truthful goodness and pleasure of the national capitalist video say that's the way once the sham is it really fulfills and completes the reason why it was created torah whose advantage and essence is avoid hashem to serve god be out of the era with loving hashem and fearing god that's a statement that's a statement [Music] and when man pursues bodily pleasures indulgences made it nafta he descends his soul he lowers his soul he lowers his soul to a realm that's lower than himself the kabul may italy to receive from them so all of a sudden he becomes subservient to the lower realm and the goruwa all of a sudden man is receiving from what from the animals who don't have dust so here you were created with das and that's the real man is dust knowledge understanding and you're acting like an animal by indulging so you're worse than them because they were not giving dust but i the oyster [Music] what does the taivo do the taiwanese move makes that what's permissible it makes it temporarily bad in other words dwarma mutoram permissible matter is permissible it's there for us to elevate that's to hold the terrace of our shelters and falling to the floor don't just walk away oz of tavis tazzawi may help him said that this is talking when you see the yates the the your own your own hammer your own sahara who is there to to make you cut nuts and to damage you rather than leaving it and saying it's it's disgusting and i don't want to have any part of it the torah says help it elevate it extract from it the good qualities and use it for hashem the driver says the same thing the taiwan makes what's really permissible temporarily bad it's really permissible manner eating sleeping and all the other indulgence issues of gashmis but the taiva the taiva the indulgence the lust all of that that's what makes it temporarily bad the whole zebra says he says uh you see we didn't really have the word site though we had the word stus naira here the rabbit puts it uses that word that he begins he began the my makun all of this the eight sahara makes man for a fool the shaytan right [Music] so he brought in the beginning that it is associated with the word sheiter let's continue next yes from here and how i like to feed the karate picked up on this and here's my moral it's like a continuation almost we're right we're in barcelona right that we've been learning right right right maisha pointed out last week after i think the first and second year he says it sounds them so much like basil ligani but yeah yeah yeah okay mimer bay's second mimer perekalov because it's all continuation that ever says everything i've told you till now the problem and the and the thought how to escape the problem and remember this is practical when we're confronted with a tyver if we stop and think that's the issue can we stop and think was i created for this purpose etc it will help us vacate or not do with so much passion the taiva this is all about voting [Music] permissible matter um what's it called yeah it gets you involved in forbidden matter [Music] says the same issue that caused you to fall into taiwa the first time which was waving in front of you you know putting it in front of your eyes and saying look at how delicious this the same issue is the reason why you will fall into dwara masoor and forbidden matter because you put it in front of your eyes by having in front of him and seeing it and smelling it and all that it arouses the spirit of indulgence until he can't control himself it's just beyond control [Music] islam and god forbid he is he becomes um he gets caught and he does the aveira [Music] do this little thing you don't miss a little bit dominion you just cover it outside you know just have it at home and just forget about everybody if you wanna if you're going out if you're going out and just one day just relax just take it easy not that you really you know you're watching and careful therefore that not talking about that um and tomorrow he says to him you know yesterday you made a little breach this way today make another little a little marvel breach the other way until the eighth order tells the person to go serve idols to indulge in permissible matter it's much easier to have this order to make men desecrate things that are permissible right it's kosher it has 75 exchange the best infrared is some safer bells and i oh you and okay so what's the problem it's permissible so come on take a taste indulge a little more and more ah there's a message what does it cause it causes that there is a lining of grub kite there is a lining of coarseness and corporeality and geshem his soul has become ghastness his souls become so acquainted to the gosh means that it it feels god's miss and it's a soul saying this an effort obama is the desires of the nephilim obama has become greater and greater or misrabbin and multiply leadership behold other to want everything i must have everything please [Music] and his desire is very passionate and very powerful he wants all kinds of tyros yes [Music] says since this is all coming from the eights of hurricanes let's analyze the inner makings of the nephesh obama's where it's coming from nephesh obama's is not that strong not that powerful there are things that he desires and there are things he doesn't desire he doesn't turn him on he doesn't care and even god can't have a take of god and even those things that he desires it's not with a passion i must have it i'd like to have it he says i also shouldn't have it you know i'd like to have it but if i don't have it as we say in good old yeah there's not that terrible that's one type of naf let's look at the next one because eat you know yes we shall never shall ever take of god well there's someone else's name it's very powerful that i know called whatever he sees the whole you do allah she has misused overtime and anything that he knows about that exists that's a taiva he doesn't see it right now but he's heard he read it you know et cetera he knows about it he says i must have this tither i must experience this diver and reveal outs in yiddish he wants everything and his want his desire is he he who betrayed him it's very passionate very strong god very take of god besides godela and he's aroused and he tried how am i gonna get it and he's thinking and he's plotting and he's talking and he's scheming i gotta get it i have to have it he won't rest he won't be at peace until actually a milo type of sleep until he gets his tivo [Music] wasn't so passionate in pursuing the tither harihunasai take if guess what there can be a change in the genetics of the nephrogen bombings that it can all of a sudden develop a very strong tiver how this is powerful by immersing yourself constantly in the indulgence right habit makes second nature right practice makes perfect well you start off i have to type it's not if i have it i have it i don't have it but all of a sudden it comes to you so you take it once and second time the third time and it becomes part of who you are where you can't live and exist without it so we call that i want you to underline it uses the words in chapter 23 in tanya riv the multitude of usage right you become one with the item that you keep on using you become an old horse an old car is better than the new ones becomes part of you you're accustomed you know what's going on well so too here doing it once and twice libya shikua being immersed over and over in this taiva although it started off where you didn't you know you know what you weren't so passionate about it it becomes part of you you must have it the addiction the addiction stage with the river rashad but because it came to the river what's going on he said it's no wonder with all the all the breakfasts you've had over all the years it's so truthful it's so so true i all right let's go on did he say brett did he say breakfast yes yeah exactly it's a symbol it's a symbol right anyway i don't want to think about it because it it it's sometimes very depressing and i want to be happy let's go fight it [Music] man becomes coarse and grub but adds him in his very essence and core from just the the the multiplying a multitude and constant repetition of the taivo shimmer yeah may never take and he repeats now what what he said again that although in essence the nephesh obama is his nephew obama's isn't this type of type a kind of personality and he's not someone that must have everything right now nevertheless but through doing it over and over and over that he fulfills his indulgence nasa he strengthens his nephew bombings lisa because of an overtake of myoid to want everything and everything that he wants he wants with a great passion next page 49. if you do have that take if they never so so i have a strong nephew of bombings says you have a strong knife which obama is you know what it's going to do it's going to make a big dent in the enforcer of the kids it's going to make it the overpowering the strength of the goof of the body who said in this muscle it causes a weakness after the shaman the take of is the overpowering desire for gashmi is for humdrus more so more than gosh miss corporeality grub kite gradient khaleesian it causes enough of the silicates to be weaker we wonder sometimes why magnesium is weak why because like said you've been immersing in a tie for so many years kosher not you know non-kosher for sure but even kosher you've become part you've become at the time when you have a holy shoot a weakness you're innocent and officially kissed it causes a breakdown in the excitement of the toyota and especially available which is thriller you don't dab and you don't feel you don't get it you don't you don't identify with the words in davening so you're saying flip service but you don't really get it they desire claustrophe and part of the chabad ethos of davening is to comprehend a godly idea a godly concept not just to say words even if you understand the words it's to understand the name of the abbreviation ex nilo is he with us is he coral is he close is he distant how is he both and it's to try to meditate on these ideas so this becomes impossible look at the words in the cloud it's not it's not that you all of a sudden you have you you're not smart you have you have a smart head but guess what you're so immersed and kashmir is that you're not at all in the realm to to to perceive and understand something that's more intellectual and godly is and the purpose of davening is to meditate and to feel a godly idea but nafsha in one's soul actually you spoil the breed until you'll have his spinal emotionalism you'll really be moved that your left your heart will be drawn to the dove keyboard to cleave the god will the color belly cousin to be incorporated in the godliness [Music] he's not shy at all to why not because he's elsewhere now he's in the title ello she comes even this shane so one second so this is one issue he's now describing the khalisos of the nephilim kiss that's caused by the takif of the nephesh obama's by being so immersed in efficient moments it causes the khaleesha's the first the first khalisos he says is that your governing is is is atrocious you aren't able to meditate you aren't able to understand the word of godliness it's it's just you're elsewhere that's number one number two is [Music] all of a sudden because of this immersion in efficient bombings you lose the fear of god and that's why it doesn't prevent you from doing it even though you know quite well it's against god's will because you don't feel godly when you don't feel godliness then a person can do anything so the next the immersion in the dwarf is and causes you to become so coarse we don't feel godliness and therefore you have no feeling no spilos and therefore you can do whatever you want although are we going to say such a person denies he's a clay for god's forbidden hashem estrada no for your day of chat and this person knows this is forbidden this particular indulgence he doesn't feel the prohibition he knows up here but in the heart where it counts to make a difference it's not near gush it's not felt [Music] so for if it were felt it would prevent him the equal then would up withhold him and he would be able to control this typhus it all begins with immersion in permissible matter hare never shabbat michellein so that that indulgence and permissible matter strengthens the nepheshobamines it's like strong now it's like practice and worked out and it's very strong and that itself in turn causes enough the godly soul to become convinces him and shows them how good this indulgence is so although it's forbidden how could he even go next to it and do it if he falls after it next page and this is how he he makes man inclined to the goodness of the gosmius explain later the effects of this this this downgrade uh we'll stop here because we have to go now but we'll continue tomorrow mr shem uh talking about this so this is uh you could say heavy uh moosa but it's not muslim it's that's it see this let's not kid ourselves it's also about refining yourself and knowing yourself and um it's it's basic tanya that rashaab is just explaining at length you know some basic ideas in tanya so um there's nothing here to be ashamed of and afraid of moshe it's it's uh it's part of a deeper understanding on the contrary which we should be so happy that he articulates for us the issues you know you have that's the beauty of habakkuk this is he gives you a lot of verbiage and a lot of thoughts to work with you know rabbit cuna once told me when i had an issue with the chabados in marin county and the judge ruled against me against us so i was very very upset so i spoke to habituate him and you know like right you know what am i going to do i'm going to be out of a school now the cunes said how many and i told them that the judge wrote a 12-page opinion against chabad you know about usage of khabar house in the residential neighborhood he says that's great i always pray that when my enemy will will go against me should do it in a big way because then i can shoot holes in their argument and cunanan was right because my lawyers they afterwards shot holes in the arguments and we overturned the case and we won so the fact that that is elaborating on these issues which you could say is like so so morbid in a way and you know it's good this way we have what to work with have a great day everyone zai gazoon a good fighter everyone we'll see everyone tomorrow tomorrow we're going to learn moshe will go back to our time tomorrow because of the davening we'll go back to our time at 7 30. i'm sorry just for a week and a half or so i'm sorry but i have to do that okay so i just