Shabbos Shuva - Rebbetzin Chana's Yahrtzeit: Look up not down - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

foreign I once heard climbing a ladder and you're going up if you look down you fall down never look down always look up Wayside in kippers around the corner we're middle of the assassins and if we look down at ourselves and others we're gonna fall down if we look up we're gonna go up higher and higher Lord Make Me High make me high right yesterday was Mother's yard site a very Pious righteous woman 86 87 years old and much of her life was in difficult situations from the 1880s the program started the Russian Japanese war in 1905. 1914 World War one 1917 the of the revolution the 20 Stalin comes into a situation her husband is taken away in 1939 and passes on in 1944 she's in a DP Camp after and survives together with the other lab comes to America comes to France 47 that ever picks her up brings her to America and she said her best years with were were here in America with her son that ever when you look at a person's life and you're honest you're not in fantasy mode but you're really honest you want to assess your life someone else's life you need to see the whole picture if you only see part of the picture it's not a real assessment the data is not there you need the full data and it's difficult to get full data especially going back to Europe but with enough learning and enough listening and enough reading and especially listening to what the rep has said about his mother during the years of the fabrangians and today we have Hashem her memoirs that she wrote herself at least some of them you get a glimpse into her life and what comes out is that it was difficult say here's a person that could be feel very disappointed very dejected but she always looked at The Greener Side of Things and if that's not an adequate lesson for us I don't know what is it is a lesson especially now as we go into Shabbos and we go into Yom Kippur and it's intense these 10 days are very intense days whether whether your slice it this way or you slice it that way it's days of all right days of you know in the days of simcha and yes the out there ever teaches and all the wonderful things and it's Emma's the question is whether I you we identify with it and if we live it and if we feel it so Sidis gives a beautiful recipe to inculcate and to internalize this more and more and what is that through learning cities through davening with cavana through being focused and through farbraining when ye didn't sit together whether it be at a kiddish or a fabranging and it doesn't become a party of drinking and freshing no it it you can eat chunks and kiss you can cuckoo but in a relaxed way relax and more important than the food is the Titan the content of the fabrangin the gun to sing a Negan 10-15 minutes not to rush oh we're bored we let's go on to another one when you do that and especially when you do it you keep it under your Talus or in a corner and you focus then you go up then you don't go down then these 10 intense days become the greatest Aliyah the greatest growth method growth doesn't come without pain everyone knows that so the a position help that we should be to the ghoulishment to the true Redemption to the ultimate Redemption and in the schools of Rebecca the rapper's mother who gave us our special wonderful red who continues to lead us today not just see them but Claudia slow as you could see from the thousands of people who are not khabar to come to the oil who learns to this in one way or the other wherever they are who are open to Chabad who gives it's no longer just the Chabad party yeah you have people who will argue that but those are people who have an agenda someone doesn't have an agenda knows that the rappers work continues now we have to internalize everyone should have a massive material with honey and sweetness and to fulfill all the pratham all the details kapadas and honey cake and Lady the candles on that of him keeper and Marcus and mcpher and saintilen khabar custom aftermarket say the hotel and whatever and then you go through Yom Kippur but take please take a few minutes of solemn quietness which will bring Solace and peace and Harmony and really and inside inside and if there's an issue that bothers you which there are okay deal with it there are ways of dealing with it many times you you have to avert it push it aside it's not the right time other times it is the right time well they put their health in should all have a maximum and this will bring us to hagasukis chance