Rosh Chodesh Adar 2023 Farbrengen - Getting into Simcha - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

I wanna for a few minutes now talk about others since it's uh so the idea of other is a few ideas the master of the universe Dar dwells so the one one of the ideas is that in this month of Friday clearly the name of the month denotes how God dwells within the world and that when we begin and of course everyone knows so we hear it says and I've told you in the past and to repeat it again how if if you get involved means go in you stand on the outside you're not going to have simcha you have to go in you know there was there's an expression foreign people are dancing in a circle you stand on the outside and you look like this and you smile it's a limited experience you start dancing with them and your feet start dancing your hands your shoulders your body the simplest starts emanating more I'm not saying you can't have simple otherwise but the concept means you got to get involved and you know today it's it's harder sometimes because of all of the communication gadgets which but Hashem it's it's a bracha and it's part of the experience nevertheless there's something to be said about seeing each other face to face talking to each other dancing with each other holding hands you know making with their hands when you get you go into other not you stand on the outside to say other Turn Me On make me happy it's not gonna happen that way but when your knee is not slaughtered or you get involved in other Marvel and here too look at the language Marvin simcha Martin means to increase your joy and it reminds reminds us of what it says in picky others how are they tell me them it's not enough to create one student you have to create tell meeting that will create tell me them the multiplicity the rebui becomes not just a a verb it becomes a noun create a notion called Marvin in other words when you get involved when your nicknas the other you will create a simcha that will be contagious oh that's a very different experience than than that and and the truth is the truth is that when a person allows themselves to to get involved the results are much more palpable and and eternal where if it's just you know listen to a good talk and and speaking it has its limitations so that's why hazal say foreign and this month of course is the Prelude to pesachar to Nissan and the mother says it's it's directly connected Nissan is Nissan from the it is and everything else and right before we had the nest of the opponent now put him as a abundant is a rabbinic a mix of it and pesaches are there is a Biblical mitzvah and this is also important because it shows us that one should not think of Mitzvahs that abundant of rabbinic midst was any less than Mr ISO like in other words why are we making such a big deal of Buddha there have been other times in our history that Jews have been saved okay they have been but not compared to this so see this touches upon this and he says the reason is because Putin was the time when Jews stood the Messina's nephesh all year round you know took took a while it wasn't the story The mcgilla didn't just happen in one day so to have Messina Snapfish in all different all four different seasons that's a hiddish you can have to see the Snapfish in the summer or the spring or in the winter on the fall but the alteneba says they stood up to Messina cooler oh if you can have to see the Snapfish in this situation that situation then that's worthwhile of establishing a yamta and in our lives too I think it's a very important lesson the idea of the idea of where you know they're things that excite us and turn us on and we're in the mood of learning in the mood of doing and they're things that are not you know well disjunctive like this one I don't I don't like but this day you know or this piece of gamada forget it now this piece of see this forget it so the idea of Messina Snapfish in every aspect what does that show that shows that your involvement with EV with Toyota isn't because of your eye I like it it's because your bottle learned in Italian chapter six today that your bubble you have humility to God Almighty you have to see the sniffers that's what Messina snuffish is not doing it what turns me on and this is a fundamental important teaching when we learn Taylor that tell it is about God not about ourselves and this was put him that's why sidist says Avi that's why we made a big deal and we make a big deal about Putin it's just one day and you know put him what we accomplish on Yom Kippur with fasting and crying and truth and all that we accomplish with simcha and eating and pudding why because pudding is a one day a year just like him kippers one day once a year and it denotes the the total dedication to the aposter of Messina snafish and and and and that is is is what we should be celebrating as we dance and Asthma by simcha you know and and this is enough either you know it you know we could say these words look there's other simchon and you're still sad you're still not happy we look outside we look in our own families and friends and families Community this illness there's issues I don't have to everyone knows the answer is you need to connect with the ain't so you have to connect with the infinite with God Almighty with Hashem you need to you need to know that Hashem runs the world and Hashem knows much better than we know about illness and about family and about problems he knows for sure obviously there's a reason for it whether we understand that we don't so when we when we come to terms with that and not in a way that we're forced I I you know like they used to say in the old country no it's not difficult to be a Jew it's great to be a Jew it's it's confounded to be a Jew welcome to the world wake up the smell of coffee you're born on Earth you're gonna have problems and if you think not you're out of your mind you're totally wrong this world is challenges and it's opportunities and problems yes and we we have to go out and embrace them we have to go out and grab them as we learn from Tanya also this week the hug and the same as with the working on the work now you know with the Bali children movement in the 60s and 70s that came out of it the hug the the grad you know taking the yield and bringing them in not you know asking uh did you watch Nettles yet you can't come into the shoe because you're wearing shorts and you smell and you have a ponytail I guess they eat he doesn't know any better what do you want believe me he'll know better he'll dress more accordingly the love the other and today although it's much 50 years later it's not the 60s but nevertheless kids come in and and into shoe and and they don't seem to be you know the way most people in the shoe are and bright and Shula embrace them talk to them and and genuinely you know I remember once in h kodish remind me now it was early in the morning and a kid came in I and and he smelled from alcohol you know and and I could see that maybe he took drugs you know and you know you could you could you know my heart went out to him you don't you don't you know what I'm saying a good boy you know he's lost he's lost and if you take that boy and you show him love and you Embrace him he bring them to your house and you know understandably in in the right way you know and it's near Sway and in a way that's safe and not suggesting you know just doing everything and making more issues but in a way that's clever it's intelligent that's right and and you wash them up and you give them food and you give him a hug and you invite him again and you invite him again and it becomes a confident and you could save a kid that's what putum's about so let us go with the kayaka put in the valtica months the mostly our Muslim it says you have a judgment the court case with with a non-jew with someone who's bothering you whatever the case this is the month Mosley gave it it's a good muzzle because Hashem made Haman fall and Mark High Nestor win and and it's given to him Yiddish guy jewishness over guyeskite over secularism and and and and and this is the month so the high into everybody we should only have simple in our families and good things and we'll see everyone tomorrow Mr um thank you