Recap of Kuntres Umaayan Rashab's answer to Today's Struggles by youth and adults

start learning uh let's see where we up to yeah we're i think we're on page 385 with the last last paragraph okay morning guys everyone else hello okay 385 last paragraph for zelda kosovo remember the miami began with the possible mayan and a wellspring me based hashem you know a house encompasses the person so a house represents what we call in kabbalah masha kosov c regarded the concept of a house bilikuti toyorov of the altareb petrucha literally means a sermon but in this sense in the hasidic world of khabad it means [Music] over there it says that the level of bias which is makif is actually the inner aspect the inner aspect of kessar remember we discussed there's two aspects of kessar there is ma there's panimi sakes the inner aspect of the crown and there's the hitsonius so over there the altareb explains that the bias represents the panemias of cancer i'm not going to go into it now i'll just we'll go on the zoo indian and this is the concept um yet say that a wellspring from the home of hashem exits high noon penis when we talk about the wellspring coming out we're talking about wisdom that comes out from the home from the un under the ground right so so in other words it's the wellspring itself that exits there so there is by the way wisdom intelligence is is already a format is already formatted which is comes later then there is within its source and from there it exits so that's what the posik is saying that this wellspring exits but it's the wellspring that exits by the way that's what the rebel always or the rebel always quoted the posse the youfutsu right there ever said that the belchemtov when your wellsprings will will it will extend themselves outwardly you futsu the rebbe explained in the early years in particular and later on as well that it's the mayan itself that reaches the outside it's not that you're getting something from the mayan but it's not the mayan the episode that's not the that's not the understanding of the of the of the concept your wellspring whatever that wellspring is it itself will reach hutze and the rebbe emphasized that teachers that we need to share the very depth of hasidis of the kabbalah in other words don't don't sell them short understandably you know there's ways of explaining it and and and and you know and but but it's the mayan itself not something other than the mayan so here the rabbit says here that ashab that's if you look over there under the topic wellspring you'll see where this explained better [Music] remember to refresh our memories we learned it last week that is two aspects of this is the way khakim is already what's the word in english or per generator i believe it's it's already a a forecast what's going to be later so the association healer of that is with the it it already adapts the situation outside of then there is not thinking about what's going to be later but the way is thinking about where it came from and the word look at the word is comprised of what does ma mean what what is it i don't know what it is so the rep is saying there are shops saying that the level of mayan is that is that aspect of the ma within the focus on where it came from not where it's going let's continue um and this maya itself will water the valley of it will the very folly and silliness and stupidity of negativity will be transformed to holy silliness an experience that's called holy foolishness that transcends logic and makes no sense and where does it come from it comes from the very mayan it comes to the very very depth of the person because deep down a jew a yid not wants to do what hashem wants right and the yi will go to the end of the world to do what god even if it means defying logic and even what's contrary to logic and that's called the name the idea that transcends logic zero by void so here it is to encapsulate what is the avoider that's transcendent it's called it's called mayan so again generally speaking in in in in in hasidis when we talk about the level of mayan we're talking about the level of transcendence again if you see in a mimer otherwise it's basic it's because the context is different over there but usually this is the this is what he says right what how can you transcend if if if if law and order tells you that this is the situation well let's put it let's put it in in practical terms if customers show them someone's not well doctors tell you so and so is the situation and this is going to be the situation new so it's nature the answer is if you connect with examiner and you experience it that level of experience transcends what the doctor says and it could bring you the miracle in the bra and it's no contradiction the doctors are talking about nature what medical science says and the mayan is is a lacus okay so most of us most of the time we're not functioning with transcendence we're functioning with new whatever you gotta you gotta have a lockdown for three days no one can go in and out of the country that's teva because there's a there's a knesset and they take a vote whether you like it or not sorry to say chaps but your prisoners you could do nothing try up and down make protests they got you locked in that's the way it is i this uh what it is a bit of a gilded cage i mean we do have caduceus to console ourselves oh yes anyway [Music] it says yoni the well will make the valley of shitem it will make it wet uh avi by the way do we know roughly where is this nachos [Music] this means that the animals drive shouldn't all practical matters because act with holy stupidity holy silliness hey basic muscle in business nothing will prevent him from serving hashem i don't care how busy he is how much property he owns and how he has to he's a ceo from this and the ceo from dad and up cfo with all these c c's all the c's it makes no difference it comes time to dive and it down it comes time to learn he learns but they're no genetic calling you wait i'm diving now oh come on right remember i told you the story i'm walking up from mayor sharon over there in rehab bahrain you know the street over there from walking up from from may asharam up to uh over there so there's a street called bahram it's like a shortcut so i used to walk that when i was a you know doing some work in irushalayim i walked i had a friend there probably alphorovich a very good friend he invited me and i used to go whatever so i'm walking up that street and i i was very hot one day i wanted a little uh a drink a soda something or seltzer it would have water so the kiosks i go in and i and someone's talking the owner is talking to someone and learning and i'm waiting i'm waiting and he doesn't stop and it's hot and i want to drink and i gotta go and it's like i'm not there so i finally say to him i'm after all i'm a new yorker i say to him nothing else exists now we're middle of learning if you don't like that go somewhere else it was it was it was it was just the middle you know like in the middle of the day there's nothing going on and he and he you know she wasn't being rude i didn't feel he was being rude he was really immersed and engrossed in talking tighter to someone else and the business makes no difference he makes the shackle he doesn't make the shackle anyway let's go further gives a person the kayak to overcome the indulgences and the pleasures and when this is actualized it causes a subjugation in the animal derived of in the general animal drive you see the first thing we have to do is get our nepheshabamas to cool down this explained in muslims foreign boiling blood is a very boiling type of animal and the first thing you have to do is you have to say calm down calm down time out relax chill that's what the rapper says here so the first thing that the mayan impacts the netherlands obama's is to be chilled and not to be so cuckoo and crazy for the gosmius he still wants gospelius he still has that desire but it's with less passion let's continue [Music] once that happens you have the revelation of the intellectual and the emotional godly aspect that kicks in once that kicks in then you say hey behema you're an animal you have your place and your place is not here because i'm a yid and i got a dove and learn now and be a mensch and then you conduct yourself based on the level of dostig ducha now moshe so again we're talking here remember i want to recap what we've been saying the last few weeks in the memorial we have stus we have kedusha and we have lamyla mikidusha right in other words the first step is to go from to kedusha stop doing what you're not supposed to and start doing what you're supposed to but that's normal that that's that's what we do the idea of transcendence is a very very uh different aveda and once you're already in the norm you can go for transcendence now it happens to be that some people they they somehow they go for broke to begin with they they come to their chuva they come to their potential through doing something that's totally totally out of character and that's true so i'm not that ashab is not excluding that it's not possible to experience that but by most people most times that's not the way it happens you could say it's you know the gradual way the balchuva comes into chuva and then there is the exception to the rule but from the kitchen [Music] explains what is it's from the mayan from the wellspring that gives a yi the kayak to overcome and to stay have be ready to do kid hashem and and and but and and and deal with missionaries tests it's not easy it's not easy to face a test a trial where does it come from how do you have the clay to overcome a test [Music] says you see how it's in with the dittos it's the kayak the potential that it can extend itself to the next experience which we call analysis understanding and then he conducts himself in all matters in holiness let's continue next might must be 89. yes uh i watched the story about it was the israeli airline no there was a klm airline going flat hmm how to put on the safety belts and then and how to put on the safety jacket so see i get stuff and start cooking people and everybody's listening and meanwhile meanwhile but he was doing this he was doing this at the same time that's that she was explaining the safety rules no no no no in the beginning right and he was supposed to translate it and instead of questioning it he maybe but i'm not sure if it's it's right whatever okay listen whatever that's it's it's funny yeah let's continue yeah rabbit dolphins yeah yeah before we go on before we go on just wanna i just want to clarify what we mean when we so that to me you just you said you go from kadu to kadusha then above kedusha so to me stopping in the middle of the day going to minsk etc that sounds like kedusha yes that sounds like normal like right no you know not easy but normal now so so what what would be what would be is that right after you sit and learn with someone else because you want to teach them and even though you know that you're losing business you're not you're not obligated to do that what you have no obligation to sit and learn right you have to go back to your work and you decide someone wants to learn you want to learn someone you know you're going to do it even though you know that you're taking time from work and you could and you'll be losing money or business that's a new official that's correct and that that that that yeah that's the example that gomorrah gives the huda barilohe that you know he didn't have to go he made himself look like a fool you know you imagine a big rush of shiva big rabbi who's you know proper and you know and all of a sudden he comes in and he acts you know so silly and it's not purim it's not simple as torah it's a wedding and he did it because he wanted to bring cinco de cross on the color so he he he he goes out of character you're kind of humiliating himself for the purpose of making simcha so that's another example thank you for bringing it to our attention of course we just learned that let's continue you know if we wherever you have to go go okay my majesty the last mimer of the safer thanks everybody see you see you tomorrow have a good day so this this mimer is what we call ahref chapter 28 and it's so bad is that it's kawaki so this chapter is the kayak of the whole countries of the whole we've been learning for several months about hashem and we're now going to make a cm when we finish this hashem himself seems like it nazi is summarizing what he said all this time those are the shops words the content of the words that i've shared with you throughout in regard to a wellspring leaving the home exit of god uh home of hashem and and and and and watering the the valley of sheepdom who what is let's see someone who's already been exposed to pituitary tahrara to the nonsense of the eta hero may echo may echo in one of the ways that the eight sahara gets to us whether in battalions retinol gilliam has it whether it be indulges in worldly pleasures [Music] that one is drawn after the natural animalistic good binyan in the physical matter and why is he drawn there because he's so corporeal so of course so grub that he feels this as margis so he feels the the the schmuck the pleasure the delight in the gas mias and this makes him cuckoo crazy is another word for saying the sugar he will go to all ends to get this pleasure he must have this pleasure this and he goes beyond logic even though he knows that really it's not good for him but he is addicted this is addiction this is with permissible matter and more specifically when it comes to prohibited matter god forbid even regarding prohibited matter the spirit of folly of nonsense of the aids of utter sheila the love dominates over him it convinces him listen you don't become separated from hashem from doing a little of era it's only a little available you got so many bigger things hashem has many bigger things to think about you think you think so these are the type of arguments the yates sahara the neferesh obama's throws of the person and he says you're concerned you're going to be nifrat you're not going to be near separated and he convinces him you're still a jew for his buddhist bill of avila quoting the first moshe that we spoke about in the beginning my man devouring him he blesses his he blesses himself he justifies himself in his heart to say shalom yearly peace will beat them we'll meet you then and who will see my little sin or me they is in your neo myself who will know what i do behind closed doors and etc all these are false fantasies the shekel mukhlet complete lies commercials and is is part of his experience because he's claimer because he's coarse and corrupt so he falls into the trap of this argument oh he says for example basic muscle mutton when it comes to business but he brings high schools he's he he's so engrossed in work remember we spoke about this he's like um so much business and so much headaches tear downs with boilers and deception to the point that prevents them from setting side times to learn and diving properly and because a person is so immersed so sunk into one of these things [Music] to make him lean away from the path of truth the aim behold oil is gobbing or love and the person cannot have doesn't have the kayak to overpower the aids based on the right type of logic that we mentioned earlier when they take off today because the eight sahara is so powerful and and says it gets it gets i'm learning now um the the the the the mesha's mom as time goes on the yetzer howard doesn't take a hiatus notification he becomes stronger and stronger with his [Music] as time progresses should astonish by using it much by having the eight sahara be used more and more next page 391 eating and drinking and all other matters of the physical world here ends the quote from tanya chapter 13. so the the rashaba is saying don't think that he ate sahara he nudges you one day makes you gets you to do what he wants and the next day he's asleep and all that and he's tired he works so hard no if you're eating and drinking the next day and we do three times a day and unfortunately sometimes with snacks here snacks there snacks everywhere so we've we we've created that the eight sahara is being used the entire time because we're you know so what happens he becomes stronger not weaker he becomes so he's active the entire time that's what the altitude says [Music] so therefore when the person who's governed at this point by the yates sahara and then encounters something that really talks to him that he's immersed that he's sunk he's addicted to he's very impacted with a natural sense of of of of of animalistic tendency and he loses his mind the sickler and his intelligence and automatically he goes to the to the he he goes he inclines himself to the wrong side side via his race and more so sharia is enough hillary keys guess what happens as well that the power of his nephew shall accuse because of this tendency and addictions and all that hallucinature becomes weak and he quotes a piece of tsar that's very important listen to this the overpowering of the body who should the nishmasa makes the soul weak and the opposite is also true when you highlight and you have your solo be overpowered be in control it weakens the body and sometimes you see attack of people who are tabitha meme and things like that and all that they're pretty strong right and took for the but took for the goofer he was talking about the opposite the negative that when you have the toe cave the passion of body of bodily needs and indulgences be the the control and be very passionate automatically it makes a khalif a weakness in the muscle um and this situation makes it so that the person isn't able to be proper because he's a slave to gosnius a so i taught you in the countries i gave you advice i know the problem for aids are you sir the advice of all advices this gobbler who chose to be able to overpower the spirit of falling that's the concept of the the valley of with sometimes you just gotta go to the other extreme to get out of this if you see that moshe said you know there's the average i gotta go to minha that means that you're not so sunk if you're able to say and say i'm stopping now i have to go david obviously you're not addicted to the work in a that's in a negative way you you have your limits but someone who doesn't and can't tear himself away from his work and his computer and his toys and everything else so that our shop taught us at that time you have to implement sos and the slds is going for broke go to the other extreme and that's the only way you'll come out of it you know what are they saying the aaa you got to hit the 12th step rock bottom only if you hit rock bottom and you can you realize that you know you're not in control can you can your can your recovery begin but until that moment it it can't begin so in a way that's distusted okay let's continue for who she is you should be powerful as a lion but to do the opposite of leash from titan without argumentation who believes without accountability but thank you just with great passion jumping out and doing what you need to do and don't argue and don't they don't say don't think you can smarter than yet sahara just leave all that alone just get out of it regarding the matter in which you're so immersed may echo in one of the mentioned previously mentioned ideas of the foolishness of foolish ideas you should do the opposite of it completely and don't say wait if let's say someone has a tendency to sleep in in the morning and he misses minion so he decides he's going to be up all night now that's because you'll be tired later on but he doesn't make a hedge but he says i have to break my pattern i'm this is just an example i'm giving so he knows that that's not the normal way and ultimately he wants to get up at a normal time and not sleep you know much during the day but he has to break a pattern so he decides to go to the opposite stream that's that's another example where you go to the other extreme and you don't make a husband that's what he says what's going to be with me well let me tell you another thing that the rebels spoke about in 1950s yani you'll see the rebecca's in the 50s he speaks a lot about what's called tacrus because the europeans that came over many of our parents and grandparents you know they came to this country and they said taco is what it's going to be you're sitting in europe most kids did not sit in yeshiva to 1718. my father at 15 already my grandfather wanted him out of yeshiva and anyway and my grandfather was a a vision succussed and an and a talmud but in romania you know at 15 you were helping your parents bring parnosa it was so difficult they come to eretz's role the poverty is immense 49.50 beginning in living in the in the mabarot in the transit camps in natanya and then ending up in in in in in in ramla um because the arabs after all ran away so the government gave them housing with with um uh you know uh broken down huts and all that as you probably know and my grandpa and it goes into yeshiva and that's the whole story how he got to yeshiva but he got to yeshiva and after a few years my grandfather says enough yeshiva we need you to have me help us make surprise obstacles it was very hard for my grandparents so along came a bucker who never later was murdered in 1955 in the winter rebels the buffalo he slowed the blue skin he was walking on the fish between tel aviv and the old fish in yerushalayim and the father yin grabbed them they were hiding in the in the pardesim and they grabbed him and they murdered him over there and and a while before he visited he was an older butler in yeshiva he came to my grandparents home in tel aviv and and he said to them what are you doing to your son he's just beginning to learn so my grandparents were sincere they said you know it's great to learn but we need you know in europe you learned to 15 and then you went on so he says i know but now we're in eric's role and we're building the country and we meet torah as well and we need to meet him and he was so sincere that he convinced them i don't know if he convinced them but they they yeah i guess he convinced them could they let him go back to yeshiva and he stayed to the yeshiva until he was like 20. you know so he got another three four years of learning and those he always says with his best years that made him into a mensch you know and then he went and you know he worked and all that why do i say that because if you if you think about it at that time my grandparents were right the the way was in europe is you didn't in yeshiva long it was the exception you all know right most boys didn't sit in yeshiva you know today if you say that oy vey you're the worst father i think i told you um when my son was 15 i had a rough time with him in yeshiva i had a lot of you know it was rough you know different issues so so i didn't know what to do so the embargo park we have uh atorsky i think ben c and twersky a very psychologist and you know and i hust it and learn it anyway and i'll never forget i think was him made with someone else i had a conversation i was actually laying in my bed i remember and he said to me like he said to me and who says he has to learn in yeshiva the rest of his teenage years if he's not gravitating toward that maybe he needs to work get an apprentice and this or that and like for me i i was like shocked i wasn't trained this way and and this is coming from a a real yeshiva man you know what i mean a real talmud you know uh atorsky that's not coming from you know so today you know in a way we're maybe going back 100 years you know the way it was in europe where there's there is more acceptance to to understand that not all boys and girls are cut out for yeshiva but the tradition for the last you know from post holocaust till recently is otherwise and if you don't go to yeshiva you're an outcast you know so anyway um we'll continue tomorrow to finish the mimer but uh i'm just saying we learned here about this idea of yakshev don't think don't make a husband you emotionally you asked about douchea this is douche if the norm is to get out of yeshiva at 15 and you continue till you're 20 that's still deductions because in europe we didn't do it that way so over that's the way my grandparents looked at it they weren't bad people they were good people and fruit people but like what you know it was a whole new introduction in 1950s are you kidding to learning to sustain a yeshiva it was a whole it was so if i'm just showing you how every situation you have the norm and you have what transcends the norm which from that perspective it's those deductions so i hope that's a helpful example and you know it's relevant today too with with kids going to the army or working you know all that not staying what they call in the system you know there's a lot to talk about which everyone i'm sure knows you know and understands is this as well you know it it's hard it's hard to change it's hard to be willing to hear and especially when it's relevant to you to your family and your own kids and your own situation you know it's a very hard thing and and in a way we shouldn't be tested you know what i'm saying it's it's a difficult thing i don't want to go into more details of negativity of you know you know if a son or a daughter brings home some someone as a potential marriage partner who is not jewish what are you going to do i'm just saying that's an extreme yeah but it happens it happens every day you know i'm just saying it you know or today i don't want to say it even with all the michigan if if someone says that they're you know they're into these alternative lifestyles and they're your own kid i mean you like want to bury yourself and these are very hard situations and this is the shyness it's tests and and this is the world we live in today i remember my daughter was a social worker she said to me this is a few years ago sitting at a table shabbos he said to me in 10 years from now we're gonna have these situations you're not gonna know who's male who's female who can get malia who can't get an alia and it's gonna be normal okay in a moment anyway kevin i gotta go zeitgeist have a good day we'll talk more tomorrow take care bye-bye thank you