Rabbi Dalfin Yud Tes Kislev 2020 Farbrengen in Toms River NJ

everyone knows that the great film that going the great vilner going was the father figure of lithuanian jewry 250 years ago right there the villain the guy and the villenegoi was was convinced that this balshemptiv holy balshempty who came up with this idea called see this is something that is contrary to tita why that is how that is that's not for now okay it's a lot of conversation because if you think about it you think about it the vilna guy was not excuse me a stupid person right he was a very smart person i'm questioning questions so he brought their nourish kite that that they see them are eating on a tish above i mean come on he couldn't figure out because what was the shabbos that year so so i don't want to talk about that but i'm just i'm just making you a little to think to think that you know you got to use your cup what what was he thinking the bottom line is that he came out with the regiment the excommunication against um the belgentiv against cedar who was his talmud movement who was the vilnigan's second in command he was in a heat named raphael of shklov baklao in russia at the time in ukraine each title each that least little village and city and town was either dominated mostly by hasidah or lit fox although sometimes the love might have been a little would always tell over the story that he was born in caslavich his father was a rav she wasn't born there but actually he was born anyway and he said that most of them there will happen but there are lit [ __ ] and his father was one of the abundant salvation and he would tell the story that when the altar but the the altareb of tonight that was celebrating his day when he left jail when he was you know released because of you know on the alternate left he passed the city of hoslavic and they were running after him and and they protected him now that ever blessed gave up that in this city this little hoslavic with almost has lit for sure upon him even though most of the people there will babaji see them now there's a question on that story because the fact is that dr ebba did not go that way so how again historically that's true some say it's not true i don't want to go into it but that's the myself that goes around that's what every celebration said okay it was that what do we see we see that the cities the little cities were all dominated either backside maxine love which club was considered more of a center which glove was not a little dinky town you could commit the same place i didn't have an entire lakewood compared to tom's river so it was so full over there with you south of the border yeah south of the border right upon him was a very very literature town it was dominated by the liquid fox there was nothing it was and the second person who was closest to the going was a henna of glove i'm just giving you a background to understand what club was about okay so we talk about glove you're talking about real it [ __ ] down an antagonistic tuxedos and who was in charge this repair he had a son by the name of pintus but pinterest became known later some of you learned from the babies you should remember this his name was pinterest and the babies they would call him pinterest but he wasn't really racist he was raises his mother-in-law who left him a nice arusha was called rosa rosa be careful people that's her name so i'm saying if the name is not really a righteous the first great rebbe the name it sounds like what it is it is no i don't know i don't know yes yeah but but but again i'm not i'm not not convinced that that late his name her the mother-in-law's name was rosa pinchus rises and they say faith it becomes princess racist whether that's the same family i don't know anyway okay so this guy pintrest is a son of you know when you meet the balatanya all questions for sight you melt you melt you see you see kadusha front of your eyes there's no there's no debating here and questions of the pull him this is uh a yi that's a topic in a body and he's a halogen person and you just gravitate to him well pinterest pinchus gravitated and became a husset in those days if you became a caution if you were a literature politvac and you became a hostage the the parents the father not everyone but many would literally sit shiver for you you know we hear these stories it's not a story in those days later after changed and the panicked glover sad shiva for his son princess that joined what was called the cut cut means in english the coat this is a cult they changed the nusa from the ashkenaz with the german and all the circles have all kinds of things arose sounds familiar and today when i spoken to steve in the in the show and i said that the place cracked up you know always for steep you don't do it my way get out you see the mine we have a highway out of here otd right anyway all that stuff so alex you left you became a husset you don't belong here he said shiver for him out he doesn't care those days you know if you think today some you know don't care i'm telling you it was much worse than they didn't care today we have brother hashem hashem there's a little seiko coming back to people and they understand that you don't get anywhere with force you you you uh you negotiate and you use love and you use other and you show the beauty of what of what you're doing and you understand what you're doing and then people want to be more involved in what is going on that's another discussion not for now anyway two years go by two years a father ostracizes his son sits shiva for him says bye bye charlie arroyos doesn't see him and the son he's a time big time and he's not changing he became a husset in this case [Music] he's not changing either sounds familiar we have a schism between a father and a son he holds eres he's right and he owns his connect and each are each are hazak each are you know stubborn and person excuse me personalities and and you know they're telling me the comment this is not the you know islam two years go by and pinkers is walking in a park he's a part of the street to get his fresh air he notices on the chair you know he notices an old man who was this old man young was his father oh his wow haven't seen him in two years he goes over with his father's top their father you remember me because you looked a little different than a lit [ __ ] right he looks up he says yeah oh pinterest pinterest that's you you're froom you're religious you have a beard you have a yamaki you look like a fruit person i thought you became part of a coat that doesn't believe and rebels and rejects them but and you know you're all fry and not religious and you don't care and all that are you aren't you what i'm i'm mixed up he says father what you see is what you get this is who i am he says how did this happen to you yeah he's a scheduler how did it happen to you they became a laboratory you know why because he went to the balatanya he went to the alternate and he says his father this is what i became he says let me go home with you he goes home and he goes to washington he offers his father a piece of bread they go to wash and he sees the way he washes you know how i eat a husset washes do you ever see a lobster wash it's not two times it's three times three on each and you use a towel or a napkin to hold and first you fill it up with your right hand you transfer it to your left hand these details are are exact it's not stom hoplop okay it takes him five times and he checks his nails now they clean because you're supposed to wash only and clean if it's not clean you have to clean your hands first and he's meticulous and when he makes the bracha almo means he uplifts his hand over a doubt it brought down over his forehead i'm telling you his details he could become ocd from the details but if it's natural it's natural and he can't believe it he out does him in washington justin washing his son is so much more from and here he is the film the going second in command and my son who became part of this uh cult is washing mamish like like look at sonic sit down come here i'll go upon him one thing after the other one thing after the other he sees that this son of his princess is not just not not not from that he is from but he's more from than he is he's more religious he says what's going on here he says father i learned it all from the balatanya i learned it all from the alternator so he says i have to meet your fa you're you know what that means that means like for the contemporary heavier barn cutler would say they want to meet the laboratory but they want a little bit of it okay everyone's an islam emma's and you know but the idea of someone who opposed hasidis and then wants to meet a rebel and not just meet for chunk you know but for me for to meet foreigners to to understand so pimples tells them listen tata once a year the outer rabbit comes to visit his sea damaged glove because in those days it was difficult to travel yeah everyone right so the rabbits many rabbits would go to their and they would go to places even though it wasn't the baskian of of hasidim it was a bastion of literature but there was a little steamboat in there just like in tom's river there today there was this little steeple of city okay so he went so he says come for that shoppers and you'll meet the alternator you can ask him any question you want that you could challenge him and you could looks like used to look like friday night before cabola shabbos the rebbe says on my mercedes an hour half hour now an hour and a half it's quiet you can't hear a pin drop that was talking about silas and swedish and this and that of course [Music] and 30 40 50 60 70 people whatever were insurance into salmon and then they doubted kabbalah shabbos and it's not scam just dabbing in the zinc from the hearts and they say the words and dr ebba writes joseph was talking to me about it why he says he doesn't understand he says if you ask most liberties they don't know what the alternative says on the last page of tanya which we say on the 18th of kislev which is friday today was the 19th what is i don't know if he's right or he's wrong but the kids sit out there speaks about the importance of dominique and he says three things when he says davening the coil do you know that he says that that doesn't mean like the stone on their screen but it does say you should raise your voice to stand around the cousin which no one really does but it means diving together and three if about two is in a rush because he has to go to work he's not allowed to go to the omit and dr debbie says some very very harsh things about about filo has to rush out he makes the whole congregation rush all there look it up and it's it's very easy to understand so the friday night davening in the steeple the babaji steeple in in the habbaj table over there and then was a real msdk davening okay friday night then they go to the soda travis morning i hate to convert them saying it starts again who knows what kind of midfield they went to the river and they jumped into the ice it was in the winter and then after the mikveh you go there see this how long do you want to see this a few hours a few hours learning about athila sambria and spherus and what's going on here and milan see this and there's havrusas and everyone's together and then they start dabbing and then there's a kiddush of a brengan and no one rushes home to the chong and to the kishke and believe me they didn't have chanting if they had a little piece of herring they were lucky but everyone's there because they want to be there they want to be at the fabregan like you all came tonight because you want to beat you just kiss live this is the govalda kite but my head so you just kiss live the oil the light of you this gizmo shines you come regardless of how long you stay you don't stay you're here so they they come to the fabric and saw the shabbos and then shallow shooters with the negro and then maybe master shabbos his son tells him he says i have to talk to you there because really didn't have a chance to talk to him during shabbos you know the it's everyone's busy diamonds atlanta you know what i'm saying it's not really time to talk to the rabbits he says it's like now people don't privately talk to him go talk to him if you want to talk to him sure i've really never heard the story this is a new story for you the story of my brother who's well read and well learned it didn't know the story so a lot of people don't know a story i heard from religion suddenly yerushalayim or heard it from the terrorist semester who must have heard it from by havilan who said is a relative to the javelin rabbi havlin so this is uh ishmael and muslim bibles don't know the story i never knew it till i heard it from him to go voldemic we haven't finished it he goes into the outer river and he says the following words accept me under your wings i want to be your hostage the second the command to the villain says to the out to that but i want to be your husband it's unheard of but he was so taken by the khadusha and by the van kaite and by the energy by the shabbos that the laboratory see them together with the altar ever created that shabbos that he just was drawn to it and he said i want to be a husset of yours now comes the answer of the altar but you have to take i'm giving i'll give you um a disclaimer before the answer that after you hear dr debbie's answer i want you to think about his answer and i'll give you a little fruitful thought but the rest you're going to have to think about and if you want to follow up with me you can email me fax me whatever you can contact me through all the gadgets by the polish see them and develop natural above the shabbos after schwes usually splashes no sorry they say a a pismo they say a thriller that follows the olive base and the and there's there's a stanza there's a phrase for each letter and this is part of the stanza for the tests listen there's a few other words there is it means a cement a gloom literally there's a type of a glue on cement me meno yard succeeded from there come out the pious ones hola maba meaning when you learn tighter and you glue yourself with tighter you bind yourself with tighter you'll have a little bit that's the literal meaning said the helix said in yiddish there's a word called akiho you heard the word kiku yes right you guys eat sometimes what's the yiddish word [Music] dough there's a little piece of dough manu has seen them come from this dough they're carved out of this dough and he says explode you're not made of this dough what is this now that's the end of the story the way i heard it now i'm going to explain what though are we talking about here we're talking about the siddhis with the heading and the little mosquito little hygiene that we say in the steeple in the morning after chakras when someone has a yard sight you have to be carved out from that you have to appreciate it if you appreciate the stickle kicko with the head angle and the little brother not so much food a little you can be a husset if you can't appreciate that you can't be a hustler so repenter wasn't made he wasn't made for this material so for him i'm i'm just now i'm i'm elaborating and paraphrasing raphael had to make what we call in english in psychology a paradigm shift right you know what a paradigm shift means he had to change his whole mahalaksha in the terminology of yeshiva to to change the whole mahalaka meshava at the age of 75 etc is very hard you could do it you could do it but when you're a young boy like vram what is your name when you're young and you're fresh and you're yeshiva and your mind is open the best time i remember in yeshiva was i was in morristown we were able to think i was 18 19 20 and i asked hard questions don't think that you know became a laboratory just i mean i'm born on the barbecue but but we ask questions who is god why is god who are jews who are non-jews what's going on over here and with that you're allowed to ask and sometimes you get answers you like sometimes you don't get instruments you don't get answers but at least you're involved in the masect in the parsha in the whole experience of understanding so let's go back to what although i said you want to be a host of your soul you bring lukayan to the table you make a series of lava monkey what you did for you tess kislev that's what a cause it is now i'm not going to go into you know the style of hapa the style of the different point of success do it those are all what we call english semantics those are details the kudus and and they're important to goodness i've written extensively my next book is about chabad and the next volume which will come out next year is on bells um bells boviv and bells above um who else that gear and visions so we are studying the relationship between khabar and other citizens you know it's not a full-blown study because i have to write a thousand page book but at least a bissell to look at some issues but that's not what i want to discuss now the idea of oxygen our host uh sorry's uh son of a daughter my wife told me because they're interesting don't worry i'm not going to embarrass anyone okay just just in a couple you know i travel and i i study communities and people that's what i do it's part of my my work i i observe sitting here with you i'm observing you not just talking to you to sharing with you i'm i'm studying you and you're leaving an impression in my brain that one day will be thought about so i studied what i heard today what did i hear look at what i heard that the area they moved and tom's river you know they didn't realize that they thought it was if there was more see them than not to see them there i don't know which chair wherever they live whatever that that and he had a minion for my life and they all came out but he said for example right hello my life night of tonight 4 16 and 5 16 on the dot they were 10 to 15 guys in the house under that hatch time challenge and then out and they died and they dived nicely they didn't have them you know they don't they dive in properly so he said their son-in-law said like you know he grew up in barrow park and above him he said yes you know you speak a little bit before it's happening you speak a little bit after diamond link hopefully you don't speak during the happening and it's a keyboards you know see them hasidim have this innate kind of kibbutzing you know social social comfortable social aspect of you know talking with each other patting each other it's you know it's very hard to describe because you have to live it and really really if someone who's not a husset and wants to become a cousin you need to live this what do you mean you need to just like say aguer a convert truly in my wife's community in melbourne australia the famous convert not going to say who very famous and he's taught today he's already 85 year old man years years he studied and lived in the community before they accepted him for conversion and you see the difference some of you might know who he is but i don't want to say you see the difference he became a leader he became a rabbi he became a teacher a teacher of many bali trooper all right in fact rabbi sachs jonathan sachs studied by him with him did you know that you don't know that now you'll go look it up on the internet you'll find out who it is okay okay rabbi rabbi gaffney rabbi gaffney is his name my wife gave me permission so i said it because her fa her grandfather made him become a jew her grandfather was the one that he became and and he because the best of them didn't want to convert it why they were very tough in their own their own acceptance yeah so so this was not survive them but they were yeah no not because it's fun they were just very tough you talk about i'm talking about in the early in the 50s i'm talking about the end of the 50s you're going way back because they don't know what mother was in a sufi in halakhah this wasn't a very difficult situation you know she has very given the mama i'm a patient with the mom is you know what the mom is it's already half of an issue i'm basically like the mommy is the girl speaks about sufi it's called sufi anyway why am i saying this because you're here in tom's river you know we could talk about alternative all night with govaldigam isis and i'm sure you'd like it but we have to our nation that happens before right something bottom line no no no say look how you you live here you have to get together or even come from lakewood get together more create a see this environment you know you have you have you have hebrew that would come new york from here is it's an hour you know uh you take it they're slu him they're people believe me ashley would love to come of a praying for for you guys here i'm sure it's gonna invite her i have a friend of mine he's a classmate of mine he's a big tomato went through the 770 he's he's he's molly the goddess you just gotta get him to come out he'll come out you'll hear you give him a little muscular and sing a few night and you'll see him you know what i'm saying we did this in boro park with when they started the library well the first library was by us even before yerushalayim i don't know if you know that what did they do they used to invite guest speakers matashabas and usually it was a you know the barbecue and it was and it was very people love to hear stories and sing them again the varan kite so i think a good resolution that we walk away with something concrete to begin the uterus kislif huff kisly is that you have to you have to invest to do this meaning it's not going to come by osmosis it's not going to come just by giving a schmeck once a year you're coming you just kiss live you're trapped you die of nissan let it go you got to invest in something and when you invest you reap the benefits and you'll have the greatest horse i'm speaking to you that you ship and everyone else you'll have the great schools years later when you have alabama to steeple or babies i told him i tell him again that i'm telling you this area is so right to put up a nice laboratory you see you give a good kiddish with a little scotch you have a nice hot tub for a mix and you start face nine to ten you know the lady you see boxing when i tell you the later the better you'll pack the house you'll back the house and people will get to duck and people make it do shim and it will become uh but you gotta gotta get together you know you know if i was if i was younger in my younger career you know this would be for me uh small potatoes this is what i did i put up buildings and shoes and mikvas and yeshiva's in california when i was liquors there you know you take a younger man and and they all okay i said you're you're a younger man if you have the time and energy then but you can you guys have to help enough health and susan now i have a problem with walking because everyone lives they raised 10 miles apart so that's a problem so first of all first of all if there's two or three people that live within walking within walking yes you have to stretch a half an hour why are you giving your shoulder taper i'm trying to tell you ever didn't take him is because he felt there are different explanations that i heard by the way one explanation is he wanted him to be like a clandestine australian like you know missionary he should remain by the by the lead fox and meanwhile he will spread see this there okay this is all you know the bottom line is he definitely told him i cannot accept you the way you are to be a hostage even though you love everything and then you know this answer of the altareb is very interesting if you think about it we were living at a time when brother hashem were able to have a fabulous full you know place and it's all gone the idea of abyssal messiah's nephesh gives a you know making yourself a little uncomfortable this sometimes gets in the way making yourself a little uncomfortable and this was by them this was number one like i told you that [Laughter] the idea of humility in this issue the real advisor see them that i knew from ammo they emulated this they didn't they they mummish my wife reminded me because we're talking about not having a mikveh she says we we had a guest once in marin county california before i built a mix for 1990 or so didn't have a mixer there but uh my aunt who was a survivor and children left some money my father gave it that we had it and then battle weiss and then somebody right you we we put together funds we built the midfield before we didn't have a mixer it was a year dropping out of chevits you know ariel shepherds i'm going to tell you about abilities i i i don't want thank you uh i'll tell you about the show you know him because you you live there but yeah okay and i'm telling you not about him i'm telling you about him this is a russian boy his father by the way if you want to read up about his father as a seifer called a year by the name of emmanuel michelin who lived in moscow from 1922 to 1972 he came through zone 75 he wrote up his memories it is one of a kind book a diary that anyone that wants to know what happened for 50 years in moscow from 22 to 72 you must read this i got it from a library i copied it it is a gold mine so he writes in there sorry he writes there about the bianco elishevitz that's yasiela chabot's father fascinating he was ashamed he wasn't alibabacher yeah i think was maybe a breast liver but you know in blessed those days were they were like one it was that one guy one person is meditates still he's binding us and one person is his body dose isolation and meditation different styles very different styles but nevertheless they will this you know the ace of other shepherds came to us and he was doing for his father-in-law uh rabbit lau all of a sudden vlad went around gathering manuscripts on the bali tasteless and he went to the vatican he got you know you heard it very black you look him up you'll see he found the manuscripts and he published them he was automating a literature then he became a lubavitcher his brother-in-law was the secretary it's a whole other story anyway so so so this uh jacksonville shepherd's son-in-law he comes to us and he's checking me zeus he was a cypher too she says to me who's the maker in the morning where's the mixer i said i don't have get a mixer i i also go to the metro since i'm 13 or 14 so i got to make for every day but i don't have a midfield and to drive to san francisco every day i have work i can't i go into a shower and i have a mind the t-shirt cabin that's my mikvah you know he says okay and he disappears this was the winter i remember like yesterday california winter but it's still a winter and marin county is near san francisco so it's cold northern california so it's colder okay he disappears late i find out i don't even know if he told me because he's so humble so modest he wouldn't he didn't speak this like he's not the ocean we had a creek on the way into our 538 plan community there was a creek i found out that he went into the creek and that was his midfield did he break eyes didn't bring us i don't i don't know but no no it wasn't but but just the idea like he couldn't doubt him without going to the mixer so here i am and i didn't go to the mix today i wanted to go but it was hard for me to walk what but you i compare myself to you several shepherds i'm a nothing accomplished because for him he can't doubt without a midfield if if he had to go seven miles i'm convinced he would walk seven miles to the midfield you understand this is real chabad real hapa giving away yourself completely and the shlokhim i wanted to say they do that you know why sometimes you think well this is living off the fat of the land there's a big building he has a lot of people around him he's getting you don't know what's going on inside you don't know the issues with the answer is kids you don't know you don't know there's so many other issues that are besides buildings and and and the outside veneer it's all a big veneer what's going on inside when i was a bucket in los angeles and yeshiva in los angeles to the story it should make you cry i was going to saw him every friday i would visit people put on someone with them we'll share boulevard if you know los angeles crescent heights and wilshire brother big buildings israeli consulates on top go to a building across the street and i asked someone who wants to plant film no yeah and whenever he was there he put on the film with me this time he says do me a favor close the door what do you want me to close the door for because he wasn't embarrassed even though he had go secretaries know that you know close the door he's closed i closed the door he says let me tell you something before upon film there's a listen to this story he says i'll tell you what i'm telling you ask you to close the door because i'm crushed i'm broken so i say so-and-so why are you broken he was wearing rings diamonds he says you know i have everything i need everything i want i own a yacht i want a house in hawaii i am the baltokai on a gigantic show from a conservative synagogue i have diamonds i have wealth and i'm a criminal lawyer and i've won every single case 19 out of 19. fame success money outs and he says inside i'm crushed i'm not a man i'm going to use an english word manhood i've lost my manhood why have i lost my manhood because my daughter steals from me my silverware to pawn it off for drugs i'm crushed and he started to cry and this to me was like a shock you know i was 19 20 21 still a much younger younger man forming ideas listening and hearing and here's a man who looks so rosy on the outside and so gevaldic and he's inside melted it's broken as we say in yiddish so what you see on the outside is not what you get on the inside okay that's number one number two number two the shliyakh at the end of the day he moves away from a community he moves away from a family and he goes wherever that ever sends him that's a real shliyak if that ever sends him to timbuktu that's where he goes if he sends him to brooklyn heights he's in brooklyn heights no it doesn't make a difference the michelaya the sender the babachireba sends him and he goes he doesn't ask questions because you should know there were people who asked questions joseph another hadith that happened to say this but through he said no thank you we have our answer they were very very white they weren't nice they were mean no schliches is messier snefish you either are in the serious snappish there's a fascinating story to tell you stories upon stories with alternate wizards of the secret 1948 listen he writes over there that the altar is who was given the task of messiness nephesh that schneider's almond for whatever reason that's what they still wanted so that passed on for seven generations you speak about couples speak about the the whole barbecue ethos ethos means the philosophy the whole obamacare you start is messily snappish if you take mercedes nephesh away from alabama chair he's not in the barbecue he might look like a barbie and act like a barbecue but he's not inside of the barbecue and that's fine there's hundreds of thousands such eaten the world needs all eaten but what what is it about the messiness nephesh that's it my wife's father my father-in-law was obamacare's snapfish here's a story what does bomber say sniffish he comes to us for circus we're living in the marine county you're gonna finish the the lawyer what'd you tell the lawyer tell me i started to cry with him what is there something i could tell him i didn't know i you got to listen you built it up you built it up now figure it out listen to this listen to his pain when someone's in pain don't open your mouth feel the pain there's nothing to say anyway what's going to say now what's the story so bud he comes to california to visit us in marin county one circus arose we're in shul in the morning finish yes we're chatting you goodbye i will see you tonight for diving very nice so i say to my shreds and my phone will come give you a ride home wasn't very far but i had a car so he says no no no no go go yourself i said okay i thought he wants to get the fresh air walk you know like five ten minutes whatever so he comes home three hours later and i know that he finished happening he wasn't happening so i say sver where were you where did you get lost listen he says i overheard you speaking to someone who sure one of your balabatam your congregants and he mentioned that he didn't yet put up his sukkah it's arab sukkas so after darwining i just went over to myself let me go over with you he says what do you want to co cause i want to help you put up a super he spent three hours putting up a sucker didn't ask didn't make any waves he and i didn't hear this from him actually i did hear them later but i'm saying at the time i didn't hear it from him he didn't say oh i'm going to put up some sukkot it was natural for him if a yi doesn't have a sukkah i'm out of success i put everything aside before i eat before i smooth before i check my email and i put up a sukkah for him because tonight is that was what we call in hebrew was the ethos the the the philosophy of these years we today can do this and eat especially the young people the young people because we're already you know as we say ak and we'll leave it at that right we're over there over the hill but the young children the teenagers the children the future they the icing your children your girls your boy these are the future they need to be raised in a culture of mercedes netflix and if they seem to see this average by their parents they're going to have mercedes netflix if they don't see it they'll be fine eaten but not parliamentarians so now in khabad you know people ask sometimes why is khabad so successful with with all kinds of people you know why because khabar allows people to think and we want the whole system of laboratories figure it out yourself figure it out yourself i'll give you a taste but you need to use your khaki nadas and that is never going to go away and if you come to the conclusion that you are right now this type of the barbiture so be it as long as you made that decision and choice you'll learn more you'll be around more you want to understand more perhaps wait a minute wait a minute what i thought was right is not exactly it and this together with the varm kite is a very healthy is very healthy for young people you need to get we need to give the young people expression we need to give them opportunity to think and grow at the same time we need to offer and make available and live ourselves like a closet and i'd be one last word before the i have seen and i'm sure you'll see sometimes as parents we have our dreams we have our wishes and we go on a certain course i want to tell you i think and who am i but there are no guarantees in life they're none anyone says otherwise is a big fool but the more simple you live i promise you you'll have better results all around i'm telling you the ostentatious approach in yeah they should use the word the sick it don't work it's gonna work maybe for three of your kids not for the fifth not for the fourth ninth and the sixth without the best thing is to be still to be humble and to live yeah more of a simple lifestyle simple does not mean not look for hashem you have a beautiful house to make a beautiful lava mauka it's not you know it's how you use your gas mias how that's the lakuta and when and and and when sometimes parents they start dressing their kids fancy and they grow their hair and sever cuckoo and kishka of of ghasmis and materialism it's it's fraught for issues telling you live a simple lifestyle you want to say something i don't know yet please please okay i just wanted to see a living living right you know it comes to a shayter you have different types of right what it says that's portioned that's not so roundy says the commander like the commission like this called the push it what's the lotion called the posture mylet fade i think that's the lotion the more simple the schaefer is straight the better it is the more twisted the schaefer is it's not as good as a schaefer as the other schaefers twisted what is twisted me the more sophisticated we are the more spitzerla you know the gemara cup we're all going right we're all either right we have good morning and the taste is the macho you do the same thing in business control the world and just just calm down the abyss that gives padnosa not a penny more not a penny less to what you're gonna get i'm telling you i'm sure you've seen this i've seen this in my life you lose money here you get it here you make it here you lose it here so at the end of the day another thing that i've seen in lebanovich all my years the the the caucus that you know for me the excitement of the assessment yeah gosh nice this wasn't la babbage it's you know they worked hard but everyone knew that amongst all the city who are the biggest notice the national is the biggest sorry the biggest like muslims were baptized why they're learning excuse me they're going through the midfield they're diving for a few hours now they're going to see this time 10 11 12 comes around they're ready to go to work no one's going to accept you for a job take let's say the software see them have you listed taught them go work make a lot of money give a lot of sudden you have to you have to do that and make that lincoln in there the problem has never had that never had that never had that oh in my humble opinion unfortunately it's changed a little bit today because a lot of younger light there you know they're fully used to be in 770 my days in the 70s just see them happening talking see this talking about to 10 o'clock wednesday morning when are you done now of course the person my father my father-in-law they were business people and they worked hard and they my father was up at six o'clock already you know to get ready to go at seven but the toughness you know so here we are there's so much to say and there isn't enough time and it is we have to say it ourselves you have to lean in another with gashnis the gosmius will come i'm telling you the abrasive sees that a yid is wholeheartedly uh evan hashem he opens up telling you the high end is the help that everyone sing along i [Music] hey [Music] ah [Music] a [Music] a [Music] hey [Music] okay now it's your turn a little bit i spoke too much no you should say something now we're here i want to hear some stories from the ultimate so you say something or someone else say something give me a breath breathe it yes please i wanted to ask since you're an expert on gilgalam are we you want to know who you are that's not for sure yeah but uh are we in in our last kill goal is it safe to say are we in our last gilco at this point you know there is there is the part there is the there is the saying that that this generation is the last before meshiach and if we understand that and agree with it then that would that would make sense that the gilgal on the right right because it says that when mashiach comes all the summers from the storage house have will end they'll all come out that's what it's brought down in the sphere did you ever hear that right so which means also that the gilgal of neshamas will finish now what about the there are wicked people that are still around if they've done bad are they what's going to happen to them now if they're they they haven't fulfilled them what are they supposed to be doing and now do they come back again or well again if we if we're looking from the perspective of gilgal it could be that they have they're here and going through this this bed because they need a tickle in one area it's not this isn't like straightforward like well if they need a ticket they should be good is this life it doesn't work that way see the whole the whole sugya the whole discussion of gilgal according to the arizaw is one that really doesn't make sense there's no rhyme or reason i mean i tried when i started to learn this part of tata to synchronize it and find rhyme and reason and my conclusion is there is no rhyme and reason what means no wrong reason so you're saying okay it makes sense if mashiach is coming over ending what they're going to show you so the answer is that it could be that they're showing him the wicked people have one issue that they have to do on earth and that issue they do and that that's a ticking for them and the other part of the shaman gilgamesh has to go through getting the the russia part which according to hazal and sanhedrin and all that they're punished you know an illumina so it's a very it's a very complicated type of area of study where we we if we seek you know rhyme and reason component the way i see it i don't see rhyme and reason what we could learn from it and we need to learn from it is there ever just time from the rabbit because the rabbit in 1985 she was 85 when they came to us they came to california the paper people who lost their daughter i was 84 85 a couple who we knew was a good friend of mine my wife and i and they came for pesach to california and they had one or two children the girl ran across you know about the story blood not laughing no no no no it's berkeley berkeley i never was run over and killed it was terrible my parents were spent six months over there but that was i think they left a couple weeks before it happened she ran into the straight she ran out of the street of hamas on the main street well right from the bottom i was i wasn't a gigantic you know thoroughfare but on the street anyway and there's no shiva arab peso you see it an hour or two and that's it the mother was devastated and she's the type of person that is expressive and needs that and she wrote to the rubber to the rebber i lost my daughter which but i don't have a chance to mourn for her what's that all about she wrote that to the river and the rebber wrote her like a seven eight line answer which was unusual in those years especially on such an issue and there ever basically you it's it's it's found you could read it should be online too whatever basically said that your your daughter miriam had a certain mission to accomplish she accomplished it and she went back because she finished the mission i mean only a rebecca is you know so gilgamesh is a is a very complicated area but it can give people solace if they need solace and the only thing that can for some people you know and i'm talking about that there's fact that certain drastic and other i resharing them don't even agree with gulen that's another discussion is gilgal emma's or not we accept it as truthful but you see there's people coming up with this coming back so that means what does that mean what did you say okay a certain ticket right yeah get good good but that's if you believe it in other words is as in a village gleben that that there's someone in a fish he's not going to believe i just better say of the happening over here with the fish with the with the square market you know go go fly a kite you see a psychiatrist i mean you have to the end of the day that's great what did i do in 2000 2001 and also what as opposed to what gilgamesh is the shaman has been here before so i've never been here a gilgam means that in addition to uranus you have a nakuda of nizos that's from a previous life that needs tikkun that's chopped gilgal i was gonna say something about two thousand words so so here's the story comes out of virginia that a woman in the mona during the pace of saturday the first night the second night the sons come running to the locals fardhim they say our mother is acting crazy and please come tell us what to do you know this father this is part of the culture i'm not saying it has shown to be little i'm just saying it's it's my team it's my team yes there is it's a comfort zone you come over these two kylo young delight together with the the sons and they hear the mother talking very weird and all of a sudden the mother says you you did a sin last night this way you did a sin and they run out of the house they say there's a book over here because we know that a dybbuk reveals secrets because they ran out of the house embarrassed no is it or is it not the contact and uh i met abdullah nazi a very fine person a very special person and they said of david we have what looks like a book and since your grandfather behood the pattaya who wrote the safe haven was known in baghdad to take out gil gulen or asking you this anika who does those ceremonies and that's a tradition that you have to please take out the book of this lady i'm telling you my sister oh yeah whether you believe he don't tell your story that's right and i heard that recording i didn't just jump at it i listened to that recording and i studied that recording wait so i have to give you the background just before the recording the recording you're talking about is at the the the um the what's it called new technology i'm not talking about that i'm talking about forehead the kids are abdullah basically here is about he says okay come down hiroshima so it's up from you know the mona they come all the way down and by the way it's not only recording they used to have a they used to have a video of it i don't know if they you know i think i even saw a video i did see another thing i did see there's a couch there it's just so you know you think of this serious thing you're thinking i'm sitting over there and ha ha and there's a couch and there'll be peanuts and smoky cigarettes and manhattan and there's a hundred people in the room you know it's a real spider lava mauka okay it was so you got to see it it's like for for me as an ashkenazi hussain all that it's just like i saw a video of it i don't know if they still have it today but i did see a video of it and i saw her and so in this hutch plots of what i described to you she's sitting there sandua with uh like a shawl over her and her face was covered i think so i don't know if i saw her face i saw her later at that time i didn't see on the video i didn't see her face and she's sitting over there and he starts mumbling and saying and happening and crying and there's people around and there's another million camarillo rapino she was a big mccouble near lion and he's saying felix and all of a sudden they blow schaefer guess what my friends it's all in the arizo whatever was done there i learned it in the idea in other words it's true they follow the script of what says in the arizona i i checked what they did an excellent job they did they did he did and and all of a sudden she starts shaking starts shaking on the couch shaking shaking and her sons go over to her to try and control her from shaking and she's shaking shaking like i'm sure they're shaking like some of those and all of a sudden she falls onto the floor like a dead person and rabbi patsy says what phil is and then he starts saying in old hebrew of course go out go out go out says also in the gear yeah go out go out go out and all of a sudden there's a shriek it's brought on the arizo it says you know where the dibble goes out of the little toe other states so a little toe is tiny it's how these questions have to go out of a toe you have to squeeze through right you have to push start you make a noise it hurts it's tight that's the shriek that's awesome very interesting does this intrigue me and so right away i called him i called it i go ah baba mice is not true it's baloney it's far the shemises that they're making a film and they're making a movie and they want to make money out of it you know all so i said hi i'm dolphin this is investigative stuff for you and that's what i do for a living i investigate so i investigated and i went there to throw his wife remembers i went there to throw specifically to meet this person where am i going to find her lbi the large bureau of investigation where am i going to find her yeah wait this happened at the moment so i started to look at the morning called la baba just look it's very hard to win the trailer but yeah without rum bear shovel thank you bear shiva she moved to bear chef i got her number somehow i called i was already in the car in a taxi on my way there and i said uh i'd like to talk with you oh her daughter answered the phone like 17 18. she asked her mother so what do you want says i i i heard that it was whole story and um interested understanding i don't know why she agreed but she didn't she first she said go back don't bother me but i said i asked her please i'm already in a car coming to you please let me come see you and she agreed and i saw her i spent with her an hour and 45 minutes with her daughter there and i her daughter was also part of when when she was going through the exorcism in yerushalayim her daughter was there too so i started to ask questions to the daughter a question to her chap you don't understand from allah zeitan from all the sides to see if yesh marshall if it's true or is this uh a game the bottom line do you believe in it i i i heard these stories i'm telling you i met the person so what you know what what you and others could say you could say i met the person and i say it is true now does it mean to say that she had the full dip book this is already invited you know there's a partial of the book and not a practical book and what did she by the way what did she reveal and who's saying when she was in her before the the exorcism that went to when she was in her she was talking about her um ex-husband who was an alcoholic a shaker and she spoke about avedas avedas that she and her husband did and guess what it says that also in the arizo and if you read it you'll jump out of your pants you'll be scared you won't want to read further i'll state and that's what she said that night she spoke about the avedas between her and her husband this is you know the federal is a private to zach the shane the hula hula etc so you know what's the point why am i telling you this tonight you just get slipped what's the point you're answering this question that's what i'm just saying you know you talk about gil gulim it's it's it's a whole parsha and it's it's not something that we you know i've been called over the years you know i got a call one out of shabbos on a winter but my wife remembers it was friday it's four o'clock shabbos is 10 minutes a lady calls hysterical rabbi i heard you're in the couple i need you to help me i said what's the problem what's the problem what's the issue it says my son is possessed my son has been cracked by an idiot i said really what's the issue with your son my tired sheikh allah my dear son he's 25 to 30 years old i love him so much i went through the holocaust he can't do this to me what is he doing to you and i already figured okay the next thing is marrying cuz you know not a joke no he's marrying aheed wow hashem okay good what else is he doing why do you think he's possessed this dear son of mine my only son he's going to have a wedding and there's not going to be kosher food for everyone it's not going to be a kosher wedding because his wife his cow and her parents who are froome who are jewish but they're not religious don't care for so much more if my son can do this to me he must have a dead book in it i'll give you i said to him i said to my dear i think we have an issue called a schism between a future figure already the fights are beginning you want a kosher wedding you don't want to coach your wedding mishloch arguing that you know like this is a book why am i saying this story to you you know there's a lot of michigan out there so when you said you know you don't know if you believe it there is skepticism i'm not you know i believe me i understand what you're saying god's good there is skepticism but if the helicopter is out says that there is there's a little seltzer in the back over there you know i i actually i actually feel that that that it's that it's true i i believe it okay i i i just uh i i it's hard for me to wrap my head around it because i i see sometimes people who i believe are are showing and i'm trying to figure out their place right now uh if they act very immorally and what their role is right now first of all first of all my dear however you have to look at every year not as a russia even someone does something very bad you have to find the good the good spark in the eat even a yid who has gone very far or yid who's a con artist or ponzi scheme artist or a player but every year it has a good thing you know when i was in los angeles i went to the prison for hanukkah to do give about lyft and listen to this i came to a cell in solidarity confinement in downtown los angeles i was a booker i brought my my my sugana my donuts and here i am and and the cell is opened the guard opens up i'm allowed to go in for a few minutes guess what i see you'll never guess try i see a picture of the bob it should have been the cell i saw it myself and then he says to me please pray for me following shabbos i'm going to be young israel spalding spalding on melrose in los angeles i'm giving over toyota challengers we used to go shout out sugars in the shoes and share words of tata i shared this story with the congregation rabbi gruman's congregation and ayid gets up and he says you gave him shalom you know who you gave sholum to the l.a times wrote up this was called the israeli mafia and for diamonds they killed those pleading eden they killed for diamonds that's who you saw and he told me the name of the person and i had no idea i'm a simple booker going to do me with someone in itself and he says and you gave him your hand this is a shallow show that's in front of everybody like a table like this and and and i said you know you're right but you're also wrong i gave his neshama my hand i didn't give his killing murderous hands my hand as i eat he's very far and what the punishment will be will be civil law but it has in the so i'm sharing with you when you talk about it that language baklau you should know and i'm not saying this has gone to school you just you should know the the habota of the laboratory it's not in our lexicon we don't see to show you we only see tabiki i feel like it yeah i they're people that do bad and real bad and they can be punished for their bed there's halal the civil law and then there is soul and then ask yourself another question that's a hard question to ask do we want hashem to look at us as to show you can anyone i mean you know i'll talk to myself but we don't goof up we don't do things that are wrong and maybe we're gonna get more pets because we know better we grew up from we are a certain way and we act sometimes so animalistic and so wrong so the whole misget it of you know russia versus sadiq in la babbage it don't fly what i don't hey what are you mainly bane on them we are potential according to the ballet i'm glad you mentioned it where potential man potential pain in me what does that mean every eid can if they only want to be obeying me they actually have missing lemon of the famous mush be in paris his uh yossi denver to sleep in carl springs is a nephew so they say he asked once he said they say about you you're a bane and even tanya you know someone's perfect and thought speech in action that's like unheard of so he said that his little ain't a little nephew said what's a bane in me someone who's careful in thought speech in action if you're careful for one minute you're a one minute banana if you're careful for two minutes you're a two-minute baby if you're careful for five years you're a five-year beta-knee the perspective the perspective and the attitude is debating the reality so sure there's person who's a bane in the uh you know from the barbacoa so they the children asked that but can we write on his tombstone that he was he was miserable said yes okay that's once in a lifetime you know what i'm saying i mean i don't know what that means you know what i'm saying i know what it means but how can that be like okay the uh yeah when i get asked here in uh liquid questions like you were talking about before um the idea of how do vouchers go out in the middle of nowhere yeah without any any support right right how do they do it and and also you you were mentioning the idea that how are they successful yeah so my answer always is this is this answer all right if you believe if you if you understand the concept that every jew is is a helic yeah then it's then that's the answer right you're gonna go as far as you can and you're going to go anywhere in order to be able to to find the upgrades it doesn't matter who they are really because you're you're going you're right right you're identifying with the highlight yeah right so so you're not making you're not making uh differences differences between whether they're jew or they're in jail right whether this you or they're that you're going for every single jew right you're going for it and that's the that's that's the source of the i think i have someone say i have to say that there was one incident that i i experienced a number of years ago and i was able to intervene in yid's life i believe for the better i recognized that he was with someone who was a a why believe was it was a a russia and i know you okay okay okay continue but i was able i believe that i i hope i would hope that i was mashfiya and i think that he he changed because i i identified this other person as a russian now if i hadn't had that in my lecture how would i have approached him why do you have to identify him as a russian why can you identify i love him so much and i want to help his neshama what do you have to identify as that russia okay why do you have to put the fetch the doubles i didn't say i didn't use the word but i said something because i i recognized that he would this person would be this high heilig would be better off away from this other person i understand such a shock every morning right but i'm saying but the the mindset see this is the difference if i may say so before the fish of mine said i'm not seeing this i'm not not it's not better or worse but the see the sheriffs it's it's not a music it's not a comfort zone you know the russia the bad you see and and and this is what our generation you know you and i are a little older but the young generation they don't want to hear anymore this we're bad they're sick and tired of hearing this uh it's not you know again if you trained in in that mahalak and there's a literature mahal no question about it but even there i think there's been a very big change and and and continues to be because we see what's going on and when you raise children and when you start thinking and this is what i'm um are you just kissing suggesting to you as an older person start thinking like altered you learn tanya a little bit a little bit so learn you know make a shirt or go online there's so many shirt my wife is saying in the car when you're driving there's so many rabbit josh gordon yeshua but yamagarden over shalom has the city back and forth everything and he learns he does with him he says if not for that he wouldn't let him he's learning this would be sure gordon and it's kvaldik my wife puts it on and he makes jokes and it's quick and it's and you're driving you're driving but even if you're not driving i'm saying this start thinking and i want to tell you a story about that you want to hear myself today but what's relevant now is for the younger light and the people here to identify with us can we talk what we talked about last night i was talking about no not yet it turns out that this this young man he was actually a man is also from from a bad family i met a person in 1997. i met his his brother-in-law in california in irvine we had it in chabad we had a telethon barbie who was the head of chabad in california made a yearly telethon i was working when i moved to marin county to los angeles in 92 to 96 i was working for a bike unit part of my job was raising funds through his telephone lists that's right i remind you so that's right yeah yeah i remember now so you were in california until 93. i was in california from 84 to 96 84 to 92 in marin county 92 to 96 in los angeles so i uh i met this so i saw this person gave i think a 500 donation somebody did a 500 validation is worth a phone call right at least a phone call but much more than a phone call i said i'd like to come see you and i wasn't going to listen to them you know just who are you he said sure rabbi wants to come see me i drove an hour you know irvine it's out in in orange county i drove an hour i come in hi rabbi how are you i said fine i started talking to him he knows nothing he doesn't know what film is he doesn't i said here's this it's called tilling these black boxes you know what's a mitzvah i explained what a mitzvah is and he was with the zohar cutter says i took someone who was in a gether in a category of a head that never put on film no he didn't know but and i took him out of that gather by putting on film with him the first time in his life fine person and i thanked him for the donation and i said we should keep in touch and and we did statement till today we stay in touch so many years later his brother-in-law lived in manhattan when i moved in 96 back to new york yeshiva brought me back to new york obama to yeshiva so so i um i contacted his his brother and i asked him a question on the phone and he never forget the question a question no i'm sorry i said to him it's tisha buff coming up i'm going to the rebels oil would you like to come along with me he said sure we're driving to he took the f train from midtown manhattan where he worked to 18th avenue in borough park the f train stops there i live a block and a half away met him and we're driving to the oil and i say you know today is tischevo he says i know it's okay interesting you know what's this book and we're talking and he says you know in fact i didn't put on film this morning i said how do you know you didn't how do you know how to put on film this morning he says i read in the back of the art scroll sitter they have halacha they have laws there and i read the halakhas the laws we get to the oil he's standing next to the free the crab is maseiva i'm standing back you know the front and i observed the way he's dabbing shuckling i was blown away and reading he knows how to read he reads slow he's reading with heart wow very interesting so i saw i had someone said this is uh this is nuts so he tells me on the way back that he grew up in melbourne he went to a base school there that was prominent and he went to base rift as beth rifka as a young boy in kindergarten anyway but he wasn't religious and he opens the door we finish i can say goodbye to him and then i ask him the following question as he's about to walk out and go to the train would you like to learn with me once a week some torah what was his answer what do you think his answer would be rabbi i'll let you know and you all know that me is rap i'll let you know go fire kite okay fife unless we're saying do this so nothing you know i go on he goes two weeks go by and the phone rings rabbi dolphin you asked me a question i'd like to learn with you once a week we learned for 10 years once a week i took the train one hour from borough park to manhattan i got off i walked to 45th street on fifth avenue went up to his office learned for an hour tanya slow and went back for an hour three hours every week my wife remembers like yesterday ten years it took us to finish 53 chapters of tanya because we learned slow he dialogued he belonged to a reformed temple now listen to what happens in the fifth year joseph he calls me on a tuesday or so and he says rabbi i want to thank you for learning with me tanya so i say so so-and-so why are you thanking me today tomorrow i'm scheduled to learn with you like we're doing for five years can't you thank you you want to thank me thank me in person tomorrow he says let me tell you why i'm thank you i'm calling you today even though i know you come again tomorrow i just came out of a business meeting he was in the life insurance business so i just came out of a meeting and there was an ethical question should i do this or should i do that it wasn't so much of a halloween question it was an ethical question is it proper or not and i didn't know what to do and he says rabbi i stopped for a moment i sat back i closed my eyes and i thought what would the bane in me say and that's how i made my decision how did i have the sensitivity to even think of what the banana would say because we learned tanya together and you taught me the alta rebe's idea of a banany learn tanya you will learn tanya i promise you you'll stop talking about it and not that's that's and that's just like a small change of course i'll learn tanya with you on the phone we'll make it i'll let you know the whole you see i didn't say about you though you learn tanya you'll be the happiest person in your life and to have it here i've learned tanya i want to say another interesting thing years ago they came out a book called mavericks it was about chabad girls and crown heights who somehow by the way from tom zuber said he he'd like to get a group together to make it on this year oh and he knows tanya you can live with him he's a good guy and he's a person anyway nobody really knows i know i know it's family anyway definitely very good but make it happen make it happen anyway so so in this book mavericks stephanie well and levine is her name she's the author she went around for a year visiting lobovc homes in particular was focusing on laboratory teenagers and young adults and she met all kinds including some that had made a u-turn for a while and she interviewed them and she wrote about her experiences that's a very interesting book at least but you have to be mature to read it you have to be mature you you can't read it like excuse me i don't you have to read it like you know it's smarts you have to understand the broader picture and when you read it that way it's valuable at least that's my opinion anyway so she says of something that i still remember like now and this i want to share with you he says of all the girls that i interviewed and some were really involved with things that are not great to put it mildly and some had these issues and some had this issue two things that they all said that is positive guess what they are one that they love the rabbit and two they learn and love the tanya you you hear that you're not religious you're upset you're angry you're not involved you've left your family your community and you could tell an interview is not religious so there's no you know uh gimmicks over here i love the la babachera as i am and i love tanya what the altar ever did with the tanya is a lifesaver for yiddington and i told the younger light today at the fabrega rabbi rudiment of yeshiva near throw which wasn't known as to put it mildly right but yemen ruling was a talmud i have a rudiment i interviewed a few people would carry a little tanya in his pocket every day of his life when he was going to go there i'm not going to tell you told me that it's private but if i tell you that i interviewed two people that told me that you should believe me if you read my books i think you would believe me because i document everything as much as i can yeah it's coming out it's coming out i wrote about it but yeah yes there is will really be interested in my book they might not they might want to stone me but they'll know [Laughter] anyway let me finish this thing stay for by rudiment rudiment and by the way rooting the group as a bachelor boy he comes from a laboratory family that's not not like you know he learned to see this 11 12 see this he was a boy and he went to the rashaab in 1911 for the young titan he was in lupovic tishrei 1911 rabbi rudeman with his father his father brought him to the rebel shop a whole month he said he spent there and he heard the and he even repeat it i heard from we have relatives who married into the family he would repeat the minor that the rashaab said he remembered the divre moscow rabbi rudiment he was a genius bucky and shas and many swara so why are you carrying around a time you have a rudiment you went to zlatan you became a lit [ __ ] like italian [Music] i'm just saying the way so he said this is the excuse he gave and then privately he said that tanya you know has large letters if you look at his large letters so as he was getting old it's easy it's a small little safe though it's a small little book with grocery issues which was answered yeah and then he told these people told me he to have says have a tangy with me it's a school is a school it's it's it's life it's kedusha with the blender tanya so that you're willing to learn tanya your age i'm serious and i'm not saying this to they make it i'm saying yeah no but everyone everyone it's that's what this kiss live it's about the safer tanya mama spirit i asked him many times what should i learn with people because i've been ashley has 40 almost 40 years 37 years what should i teach people he said to me tanya i said tanya some problems very hard to teach he says that means you don't know them has like a whole breakdown yeah i yeah i've seen i know you still made a poster out of it yeah yeah yeah so evidence you understand what you're actually doing right the guys that want to love it and learn yeshiva it's time to rekindle the the vanankeit and you rekindle it your kids are going to have it and your family and it's that's it i'm deflating it so rob joseph please make sure to connect guerrari to these guys if everyone's not here it's on the whatsapp there's a whatsapp like what's up what's up you need to call people individually give them a time give them a place give them a hug and say come and they'll be able to hide him you know make it make it a schmuck so you start from the schmack height and and and frankly in the face and if the heather don't like it then you get another teacher i mean you know it's not here you gotta have a good teacher knows how to teach and knows how to how to you know present it and and and then it's schmuck anyway i think it's time to go you you want to hear more stories of the outfit ever right [Music] oh no [Applause] oh [Applause] [Music] oh [Applause] [Music] hello m [Music] the same [Music] is [Applause] [Music] [Applause] hey [Music] hey [Music] [Applause] hey [Applause] doesn't look at it russia i'm gonna kill you i'm gonna give you a chance that's it that's it that's it that's it forgets to show him if you think about ourselves not about him and they will show help maybe she will help hi where's mashiach we don't have mashiach yet no first of all that ever said open your eyes and see mashiach no here my eyes are open i see mashiach where is mashiach open your eyes means really open your eyes open your shaman you help another yid you see moshiach what's mashiach what is my shirt what do you think would be bananas if not banana strawberries what's mashiach is godliness when you help a yield that's godliness i'm telling you when you help with a hell of a when you help a year change attire you help a yid you visit someone who's in a nursing home that is that's godliness that's it that's it we don't have to you know either should we say all right he became the gosvelt right what does that mean turn over the whole world yeah if a state's a hell of a butcher he has to turn over the whole world he has to come in here and put up a big 770 liquid there is one there's a 770 building in lakewood [Music] [Laughter] lakewood you put up a 770 it's like it's not proper okay it of course you know what what is stephanie you know you know that they're that's not what they want to see i heard from it's my book on lakewood which i heard from one of the close students of rupture cutler very close to when the rabbit started in the 75 77 of them if chilean he told me i know he is told me he said he went over to the option and he says you know you know that i'm a hell of aperture he says i want i want to do mr mo lakewood i want to reach out i want to what what do you want to do i want to take a bus and make a bus into a mitzvah mobile and i want to go around to the schools and the places here everything i said please please but do it outside of seder park the bus in the lakewood driveway because i don't want you to appear as a missionary in a clandestine everyone knows who you are you're allowed to do this and we need this done they're not doing it you're volunteering to do it do it and he did it who was this why do you have to know everything who is it it was me it was you it wasn't you know his name i don't touch names why not you know you know that i know shots [Laughter] anyway anyway listen listen uh people you know a lot of people don't want to know be known and you have to respect it i in my books you know i always ask if you're open to you know it's better for the writing and the authenticity of the writing to have the name but if you don't want when i wrote about the yemen um you know and i thank you for your publicly nakamura for giving that wonderful material with the first time ever as far as i know it's come out in such a way in the english-speaking crowd and uh i spoke to le bachcha's grandfather they had no idea that the hecks i said do you know who gave you smith not to them they're they're the members they're grandkids who get or [ __ ] with kids who jj who who gave you father smith i don't know i said smoke koslovsky who's that i said read my book you'll find out he was a a big talmud who was a receiver there and he had a good feeling with the with lubavitch and he probably knew the babbage in russia and i wrote it all up and beyond here hashem uh i met him energy soul and he was kind enough to to give me some information not everything i understand you know so there are things that are private and you just can't say names and then you know you have to respect that but what we can say when i could say believe me i say it in the 70s can you go there i doubt i doubt it anyway anyone else want to say something because we have to head back to borough park um and any questions comments um yeah the bottoms came later right okay snooper they were closer what are they called [Music] carliners hasidim were known as two names carliners and frailessa look it up in the interrogation of the altar this you can find online and because of their because of their probably association not association their you know their emotionalism and they're called convenience yeah oxygen was so now this wasn't just the carolinas the stone and that's a good question you asked me about um when the sheet of altered yosef can when can we identify it's it's a big question the frida krab has one answer and whatever it it it seems like it was really early on the market passed away in 1772 tough coffin giveaway the magnum switch the outer red who took over no no that's wrong no i said it was before when he left there's his role right so then he appointed the balatanya over that that part of the country okay yeah this is a practical tony robert miller a very good safer to learn tanya thank you um so when he took over but that doesn't mean that that he took over as a leader for all hasidim in that region not just right so that's why that's the question when he took over whether you know which is pretty early on did he already have his [ __ ] yes it wasn't labeled and you know you have proof to what you're saying because the way how about lives is based on alderaan yes but forget example but this before patrick's birth i'm talking about okay because it was all cloudy it was in the way that we see them but after the brothers breaks the kim yep but he's asking me when can we identify exactly in other words one second he went to the market right out there went to the market at that time would you say he was a macabre [Music] so when did he develop [Music] a historians ask this question no no no no but it's nageya if you really it's negayam because there's a whole pill there's a whole debate it's not system this is debated by historians the debate is was he as the leader of the entire area supposed to be teaching khabab derek or let's say karli there and what do we know that would have flame and carlina had to run away from i think beshenkovitz from one of the cities because of the lead fox right he was fellow creative so he wanted to move to the altarebes area so he came to the altar because he knew that the altered was appointed by by what's it called by the mendel so he says may i move here salted episodes you can move here but on three conditions i'll tell you one of the conditions is you cannot market the sale of sadiq here here we follow chabad in sita so if you want to see the piece of chong and say look i'm to the river and say i'm a husset it ain't working here that's not what i want that's not what the people need that's what he felt and this is a story that has transmitted cyan carleen and they're upset about it of course and i can understand why exactly used hours about this ah ours what did that what really the doubt ever mean that he meant he felt that since this is a literature area and lit fox are used to a good repayment a good sauce seiko what's going to work here is seiko and just emotions and then the vodka and the shuckling and the ain't gonna work here that was the [ __ ] that it's about it wasn't that he was against absalom it has to show him but instead of slimer you know one of his sons married the chakasa jakassa was from chernobyl and his father almost says yeah his father says what does his father say as well says go become somewhere near what are you running over there for you can you won't be you won't be you know habakkuk they don't relate in a place where they're used to just shuckling up and it's like what are you doing you're going to be a failure and he didn't listen to his father this hey look at sadiq and he opted with his father-in-law because the parnosa was there and said it writes a letter you should read this letter writes a letter it says if it's a matter of paranosa i'll give you money but he says in like it doesn't make any sense why am i saying this you speak about coppers before the the whole the the different [ __ ] is so so for the islamic leader to come into lita to come in and try to sell kagaska see the shuckling and then screaming and dancing and crying and all that it doesn't work with lit fox and that's the area that he was in the literature area but mela i want you to come here but you need to you need to teach the cabado ethan so so that's the question now i mean that's the question so you see how there's an afghan meaning you asked what's the big deal later there's an afghanistan the reason why the man who thinks about being in in his framework of work was because it was lit i'm sorry you could come and i need you and you'll be an asset but the mahala has to be okay my last chance is i i i'm still fascinated when i came across on friday night i was talking about but they don't know about it then now it's not the time for it but anyway glad what what no my point my point is uh the [ __ ] said that he could burn down petersburg with his pipe yeah and it's a famous mice [Music] it was a delegation that was sent off to to uh to production to let the district know what was going on with the boltons so the ditcher they come to the somebody comes through and the predictor said that he's sitting there smoking his pipe long pipe long pipe and basically he's almost laughing on the situation and he says basically i don't know why the altogether chose to go this raft if it was up to me i'm paraphrasing a little bit but if it was up to me this is part of the story i only only saw the details of the story i only saw as of uh last night that he says it was up to me i could have burned down petersburg with my pipe in shorts through through much team i could have taken care of the entire pettinsburg situation there would have been no there would have been no imprisonment altogether the alternate what he was saying is he chose to put himself in prison and he said that the altar and the and the predicament had an argument and you see this the famous mice by by by the zlatan altar and the victory had an argument which was how do you deal with the world do you deal with it with my sim do you deal with the world with uh do do you make got and that the whole whole thing was it was it was mind-blowing to me that the baltania had this this uh realization that this that that what was happening over here that dalton basically chose to go into prison and his reasoning for it was that god wants that his atmosphere god wants his innermost essence in the lowest parts of the world so although you can totally wipe out pethersburg in whatever miraculous way you can you can make uh the whole court case and the whole whole everything disappear in a blink dragon wanted to indulge it and conquer it in a in a practical manner that it would it would actually come to pass uh and that the whole thing would would be in that in a in a natural way not a supernatural way but sing that was digging and then we'll bench or finish my [Music] the [Music] ya [Music] there [Laughter] i [Music] my [Laughter] [Music] i [Music] hey [Music] [Applause] a ah [Music] [Applause] [Music] da [Music] what are you guys waiting for say look i am we no i heard the name so what are you learning now what sector you're learning will come note say hi and give them the higher we heard about it you heard about it you smelled it yeah yeah you know they say see them have a good area well i don't have your name so we hastily yes cats what cats mortal cats aren't cats metal cats and you know what's your sit down and you don't stand by if i bring it this is not a you know baseball game you got to sit down if you want to stay sit down be a mensch relax like a zombie you live here nice to meet you you know the cover you know you know we've been we've been talking for two and a half hours with me and the thing is that how old are you 18 17 19 16 oh young we shouldn't be taking the time i don't i don't want to be arrested but by the police there is what okay are you a father what do i do [Music] is and guess who convince them not to go two people yeah the cdh and the rapper and the repertoire of the hutner and i know the heimbergers don't like to hear it but my research points became there's a lot of mistakes people make how long do you think it was in berlin [Music] a good friend of his said to him you don't belong here you should go back to the binay toyota in varsha he went back to varsity and i have the letters from those years and i printed one of two of those letters in the book showing that he went back to varsha and he writes to his friends about what he's going to do next so he did not learn in the university he did want to and he wanted to hang out and be with they were geniuses besides that had been rubbish elevated the whole culture was haskola right hustler was a very very interested person in a scholar in general that's why he learned maraud he wasn't you know besides his knowledge of gamer but he was a a thinker and berlin at that time was the place right but they never told them you're not married i'm married you shouldn't stay salvation already signed up as a phd student and he was he was already by the way did ever make people mistake the rapper didn't go to university to get a degree he needed he wanted to be an engineer and he got a degree in engineering and in order to do that you need to take certain courses so he took certain courses at the university he never got a degree from the university of berlin like salivation got a phd and robert hookner he told them you know and but and he listened to you know it's not a place for you you know it's talking grace a cat but the environment is very in those days so i um that's what my research points to if someone has other research you know that's my research points that him not being there in fact i spoke to his daughter yeah you can buy it but you have to read it with an open head if you're going to read it like a kind berliner you're going to you're going to get upset you know you got you got you got it you know i write in my introduction you got to sit back and read it objectively then you decide whatever it is i'm not going to tell you you know you're going to decide but read it objectively if you come in reading a book i write this in all of my introductions if you come in reading a book real lifestyle anyway you have to read it objectively any book if you really want to get what the author is writing again you could disagree i write i want you to disagree but first read at least hear what what's being said and then if you read it that way i think you'll be happy you know again and another thing is you have to train yourself and we all train ourselves like almost anything that we hear especially the young bakarim and yeshiva because i was once your age and yeshiva most of it is bubba mysis baloney nonsense it's all bologna unless you could document something or come close to it or have a start talking but all these nourish you know are it's just yeah yeah was ralph cook at that sense and when he went there to stroll you'll see i have a letter i printed the letterhead says rohjavia he he was very close to the cook well so it was the same time barbecue [Music] wait a minute good job by the way it's your site tonight 40 years oh i i i promise you that what i wrote and did i meant that well i meant that i meant it to bring a kid ashanti in the shower [Music] did you know that from 1947 to 1953 years once a week rabbit hutner came to the rebels apartment in crown heights i heard this from rabbi groener and they learned for two three hours maraud and they were very good friends now i'll tell you sincere and since this is your site i'm glad you mentioned it the story that people were floating i don't know if you know this that in the last two three weeks of his life he wasn't well and [Music] he once said that's what i heard over the years you know okay here we go okay yes yes no what what so i did my investigation i called someone at five in the morning i was in there to slow for a year pretty much i'm not going to say who a big rosh hashim a massive talmud a teacher you get a call from someone 5 5 30 in the morning because i heard he was up early like you pick up the phone you know who's calling me this time of the hour and i say you know who i am um so i say listen i'd like to ask you a question would you mind he says what would you like to ask me i said i heard you were in the room whenever you said about is it true or false so he says to me that's not exactly what he said he's an american who made aliyah you know so i said so what did he say he said something to the fact that he that he was a real good friend of mine that's all i needed what do i mean now what do i mean i don't conclude that he said the rebels inside the door but in a way he said even more of that he's a real good friend of mine and that came from someone was very close to him he was standing right there so you see how here is something that people they talk so there there is instead he didn't say exactly that russian that term but the idea the idea that there was a kirov there was a positive relationship that he that this he said in some way you understand so this is how at least i analyze something from different angles to see if there's truth i'll give you another example this is coming out in my book recently about two a month ago they publicized on a website on an israeli website from website that have shock told someone in lakewood you know in the lakewood to ask the baba child shot in a in a kiss verizon so the website publicized it tells someone to go to the babachiri in 1982 wow wow wow the oil who you know the whatsapp they went there true not true the kids are having called me and i i speak once a week on on history and bad history and the literature history that's usually what i speak about so much of shop isn't sunday and some archived so i spoke about this so i got calls said oh you should have not sent it because it's not true it's about myself so i said first of all i was told that i saw the website i saw the letters and the it's but i said you know what i'm gonna do i'm gonna try to find out who the person is i found him he's in lakewood i'm not gonna say what it is he's a rabbi and lego i call them up maybe good luck the rabbi the love i say you're so-and-so he says why are you asking i say because do you know that there was a letter that the rebels sent you they publicized and they say the story through shock with it he says which means not true and he was about to hang up because people have been nudging him but you know part of my business is to engage people and know how to schlep out information so i spent 15 20 minutes with him on the phone and i tell you it's my opinion that the mice is endless what's the proof listen to this he admitted that his his brother is a talmud he admitted that he spoke many times to rashad he admitted that uh he had a question he was doing he was editing a safer of his grandfather who was a bubbler of rottenberg maybe you know rothenberg who lived in i think in schweitzer somewhere before the war and he was editing the tough shin man basement gimbal to put out the safer he admitted that and then he started to attack the rebel the babachiri with college how could i never go to college so i saw right away you see this he's biased it gets even better huh it gets even better bashy don't relax don't worry we'll talk the bucket in there if the women are uncomfortable we're going to the kitchen anyway i'm sure siri likes it anyway you see i know my customers anyway so so so he uh he um then he says to me and i'm listening i'm listening then he says to me um he says i say to him why are you so upset and angry that this letter got out that ever wrote your letter it's your name yes he says you know why because you the barbecues right you the barbecues you the barbecuers want to make the rebel look good and rabbi shach not look good i feel as to emmaus even if it's true and okay okay post the latest in other words that's why you say no because you don't want me or someone else to speak about it and and you know so you hung up no he didn't go he didn't hang up at all you hung up no well it's done it's finished oh yeah yeah have a good day thank you for your time now can you say i'm wrong absolutely i think i have a lot of reason to believe it's right and civil reason is possible yeah and he's telling me no because he wants lubavitch not to do this and what's the a friend of mine was alabama he said to me it comes down to that shock said it but you know he wanted um i don't know shot here in the kitchen can you explain it to me here's this rash shiva go there it's not my cup of tea go there so you can sing that yeah you can sing and fetch says uh the guy said go to this guy's house he always has a light on yeah yeah yeah you're all right yeah that's the money right yeah no i'm i'm just sharing a little bit you asking about stories you know how how you should go gain some icing how do you approach a piece of information i think that's valuable for the bahrain you know and yeshiva just in general you know i can tell you that had some issues with some of the rebbe's ideologies but it wasn't personal was it was a fiery absolutely no question about it but it was uh he had a [ __ ] to a different [ __ ] a baron liquid before you guys were born before i was born in the 1940s he had an issue with the friday could happen who came let him write oh you know i got to raise money for my yoshi not worry about what someone writes in a book they're they're you know you have to study things you have to study things and you're young tell me they don't want to tell me them i'm not saying you should cop some of these things better faces at this age for sure but i'm saying and as you grow older and you hear things you see things study them think about them don't let someone else you know and i was i was i was like you guys probably you know i bought everything also when i was your age you know all the laboratory stories like the literature bible literature stories but now that i've been writing for so long i look at the world in a broader way i look at the whole see this and lit fox in a broader way and then at the end of the day everyone should choose their path see this and see them are varm are warm and you never you know and if you want that in your life you will get it and if you want lubavitch because the babbage has kind of been a dust the understanding right that's why by the way tanya who's celebrating tonight is yamagola he parked himself in lita the bastian the seat of the vilna going of of the literature of them is not them and he and what is he doing there they grew up there oh but it's a place of seiko we discussed it earlier in the family that's why donald trump was leaving there in a and you should know i heard from um people whose parents were from little they were a babbage he says pre-war in litter everyone was together there was no such a thing world war one yeah no people woman took one also yeah but even from 1914 1939 he says they intermarried there was a yid rap margolin i don't know if you know from borough park he divined at the mere minion on 16th avenue he married a barbecue woman and his kids all about it you know so i i asked this like how is he and he was a real mirror no the answer is everyone was intimate with each other on the castle they shopped in the same stores they ate the same bulk as the same potatoes they cry together they laugh together yes so so i'm purim they you know like in in the nerd they have two shows but iran then over there so i was told by from by people from mammal that lived there 150 60 years ago i'm purim from the show that sansa kleisenberg they would run into the bhatti broider from the literature and they would say yes that was a joke once a year they did you know what does that mean that's not the text the the fart there's two different ways the the ashkenaz doesn't say and so they were like you know making you know like trouble they're making trouble big big deal bottom line is you have to learn with your mime i want to tell you a story and then i have to go i'm finishing that's it you have to go fast fast fast 1904 a group of literature get upset something that ashab wrote the [ __ ] fifth with babaji absolutely what did he write in kunta said in an essay that he wrote that learning tater niggler murder without previous attorney see this name is a toyota you won't have girish they they went to the kai moiser they went to the pie and brisker they went to the hailey gerhardt to complain to ostracize to put the rebel shab in a reishi memphis uh robert scheim says i know that i better shop i was with him at community meetings and i sent my shiva that naftali to the babbage for some activity and he went into the basement and he saw the book of him learning good murder with you to share miami says he was blown away and with beards coffee time rolled up safer to fed us all them up wearing a beard and he couldn't get his back on him without him to wear beards and the barbecue doesn't even speak about beards and everyone's bearing beards so he says i'm not going to put my princess you know do me a favor let me have it overnight come back tomorrow i've never seen it they come back tomorrow and he says i went through the countries he is right i can show you this letter it's in the it's printed with the details it's four or five pages i'm telling you very shortly you learn electricity yeah yeah okay okay that's bench yeah i think you could i see you on borrowport no could you i've been around barbara park for a bunch of years but i haven't been there because i've been in and out someone looks just like you who i see in the borough park used to come friday that was interesting to me i didn't know [Music] [Laughter] take a little bit home so we'll have something from lava uh [Music] all right can you end the broadcast yeah press the finish button yes dude