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Rabbi Dalfin Yud Tes Kislev 2020 Farbrengen in Toms River NJ
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everyone knows that
the great film that going
the great vilner going
was
the father figure of lithuanian jewry
250 years ago right
there the villain the guy
and the villenegoi
was
was convinced
that this balshemptiv holy balshempty
who came up with this idea called see
this
is something that is contrary to
tita
why that is how that is
that's not for now okay
it's a lot of conversation
because if you think about it you think
about it
the vilna guy was not excuse me a stupid
person right he was a very smart person
i'm questioning questions so he brought
their nourish kite that that they see
them are eating on a tish above i mean
come on he couldn't figure out because
what was the shabbos that year
so so i don't want to talk about that
but i'm just i'm just
making you a little to think to think
that you know you got to use your cup
what what was he thinking the bottom
line is
that
he came out with the regiment the
excommunication against
um the belgentiv against cedar
who was his talmud movement who was the
vilnigan's second in command
he was in a heat named raphael of shklov
baklao in russia at the time in ukraine
each title each that least little
village and city and town
was either dominated mostly by hasidah
or lit fox
although sometimes the love might have
been a little
would always tell over the story that he
was born in
caslavich his father was a rav
she wasn't born there but actually
he was
born
anyway and he said that most of them
there will happen
but there are lit [ __ ]
and his father was one of the abundant
salvation
and he would tell the story that when
the altar but
the the altareb of tonight that was
celebrating his day when he left jail
when he was you know released because of
you know
on the alternate
left
he passed the city of hoslavic and they
were running after him and and they
protected him now that ever blessed gave
up
that in this city this little hoslavic
with almost has lit for sure upon him
even though most of the people there
will babaji see them
now there's a question on that story
because the fact is that dr ebba did not
go that way so how again historically
that's true some say it's not true i
don't want to go into it but
that's the myself that goes around
that's what every celebration said okay
it was that what do we see we see that
the cities the little cities were all
dominated either backside maxine love
which club was considered more of a
center which glove was not a little
dinky town you could commit the same
place i didn't have an entire lakewood
compared to tom's river so it was so
full over there with you
south of the border yeah south of the
border right
upon him
was a very very literature town it was
dominated by the liquid fox there was
nothing it was
and the second person who was
closest to the going was a henna of
glove i'm just giving you a background
to understand what club was about okay
so we talk about glove
you're talking about real it [ __ ] down
an antagonistic tuxedos
and who was in charge this repair
he had a son by the name of pintus
but pinterest became known later some of
you learned from the babies you should
remember this his name was pinterest and
the babies they would call him pinterest
but he wasn't really racist he was
raises
his mother-in-law who left him a nice
arusha was called rosa
rosa be careful people that's her name
so i'm saying if the name is not really
a righteous the first great rebbe
the name it sounds like what it is
it is
no i don't know
i don't know yes
yeah but but but again i'm not i'm not
not convinced that that late his name
her the mother-in-law's name was rosa
pinchus rises
and they say faith it becomes princess
racist whether that's the same family i
don't know anyway okay so this guy
pintrest is a son of
you know when you meet the balatanya all
questions for sight
you melt you melt you see
you see kadusha front of your eyes
there's no there's no debating here and
questions of the pull him
this is
uh a yi that's a topic in a body and
he's a halogen person and you just
gravitate to him
well pinterest
pinchus gravitated and became a husset
in those days
if you became a caution if you were a
literature politvac
and you became a hostage the the parents
the father not everyone but many would
literally sit shiver for you
you know we hear these stories
it's not a story in those days later
after changed and the panicked glover
sad shiva for his son princess that
joined what was called the cut
cut means in english the coat
this is a cult
they changed the nusa from the ashkenaz
with the german and all the circles have
all kinds of things
arose
sounds familiar
and today when i spoken to steve in the
in the show and i said that the place
cracked up you know always for steep you
don't do it my way get out you see the
mine we have a highway out of here otd
right
anyway all that stuff
so alex
you left
you became a husset you don't belong
here he said shiver for him
out he doesn't care those days you know
if you think today
some you know don't care i'm telling you
it was much worse than they didn't care
today we have brother hashem
hashem there's a little seiko coming
back to people and they understand that
you don't get anywhere with force
you you you uh you negotiate
and you use love and you use other
and you show the beauty of what
of what you're doing and you understand
what you're doing
and then people want to
be more involved in what is going on
that's another discussion not for now
anyway
two years go by two years
a father ostracizes his son
sits shiva for him says bye bye charlie
arroyos doesn't see him and the son
he's a time
big time
and he's not changing he became a husset
in this case
[Music]
he's not changing either
sounds familiar we have a schism between
a father and a son
he holds eres
he's right and he owns his connect
and each are
each are hazak each are you know
stubborn and person
excuse me personalities and and you know
they're telling me the comment this is
not the you know
islam
two years go by and pinkers is walking
in a park he's a part of the street to
get his fresh air
he notices on the chair
you know he notices an old man who was
this old man young was his father
oh
his wow haven't seen him in two years
he goes over with his father's
top their father you remember me
because you looked a little different
than a lit [ __ ] right
he looks up he says yeah
oh
pinterest
pinterest that's you
you're froom
you're religious
you have a beard
you have a yamaki
you look like a
fruit person i thought you became part
of a coat that doesn't believe and
rebels and rejects them but and you know
you're all fry and not religious and you
don't care and all that
are you aren't you what
i'm i'm mixed up
he says father
what you see is what you get
this is who i am
he says how did this happen to you yeah
he's a scheduler
how did it happen to you they became a
laboratory
you know why because
he went to the balatanya
he went to the alternate and he says his
father this is what i became
he says let me go home with you
he goes home
and he goes to washington he offers his
father a piece of bread they go to wash
and he sees the way he washes
you know how i eat a husset washes do
you ever see a lobster wash
it's not two times it's three times
three on each
and you use a towel or a napkin to hold
and first you fill it up with your right
hand you transfer it to your left hand
these details are are exact it's not
stom hoplop
okay
it takes him five times and he checks
his nails now they clean because you're
supposed to wash only and clean if it's
not clean you have to clean your hands
first and he's meticulous
and when he makes the bracha almo
means he uplifts his hand over a doubt
it brought down
over his forehead
i'm telling you his details
he could become ocd from the details
but if it's natural it's natural
and he can't believe it
he out does him in washington
justin washing
his son is so much more from and here he
is the film the going second in command
and my son who became part of this uh
cult
is washing mamish
like like look at sonic sit down come
here
i'll go upon him
one thing after the other one thing
after the other
he sees that this son of his princess
is not just not
not
not from that he is from but he's more
from than he is he's more religious he
says what's going on here
he says father
i learned it all from the balatanya
i learned it all from the alternator
so he says i have to meet your fa you're
you know what that means
that means like for the contemporary
heavier barn cutler
would say they want to meet the
laboratory but they want a little bit of
it okay everyone's an islam emma's and
you know
but the idea of someone who opposed
hasidis and then wants to meet a rebel
and not just meet for chunk you know
but for me for to meet foreigners to to
understand
so pimples tells them listen
tata once a year
the outer rabbit comes to visit his sea
damaged glove
because in those days it was difficult
to travel yeah everyone right so the
rabbits many rabbits would go to their
and they would go to places even though
it wasn't the baskian of of hasidim it
was a bastion of
literature but there was a little
steamboat in there just like in tom's
river there today there was this little
steeple of city okay
so he went so he says come for that
shoppers
and you'll meet
the alternator you can ask him any
question you want that you could
challenge him and you could
looks like used to look like
friday night before cabola shabbos the
rebbe says on my mercedes
an hour half hour now an hour and a half
it's quiet you can't hear a pin drop
that was talking about silas and swedish
and this and that
of course
[Music]
and 30 40 50 60 70 people whatever were
insurance into salmon
and then they doubted kabbalah shabbos
and it's not scam just dabbing in
the zinc from the hearts and they say
the words and dr ebba writes joseph was
talking to me about it why he says he
doesn't understand he says if you ask
most liberties they don't know what the
alternative says on the last page of
tanya which we say on the 18th of kislev
which is friday today was the 19th
what is i don't know if he's right or
he's wrong but the kids sit out there
speaks about the importance of dominique
and he says three things
when he says davening the coil do you
know that he says that that doesn't mean
like the stone on their screen
but it does say you should raise your
voice
to stand around the cousin
which no one really does but it means
diving
together and three
if about two is in a rush because he has
to go to work he's not allowed to go to
the omit
and dr debbie says some very very harsh
things about about filo has to rush out
he makes the whole congregation rush
all there look it up and it's it's very
easy to understand
so the friday night davening
in the steeple the babaji steeple in in
the habbaj table over there and then
was a real
msdk
davening
okay friday night then they go to the
soda
travis morning i hate to convert them
saying it starts again
who knows what kind of midfield they
went to the river and they jumped into
the ice
it was in the winter and then after the
mikveh you go there see this how long do
you want to see this a few hours
a few hours learning about athila
sambria and spherus and
what's going on here and milan see this
and there's havrusas and everyone's
together
and then they start dabbing and then
there's a kiddush of a brengan and no
one rushes home to the chong and to the
kishke and believe me they didn't have
chanting
if they had a little piece of herring
they were lucky
but everyone's there because they want
to be there
they want to be at the fabregan like you
all came tonight because you want to
beat you just kiss live this is the
govalda kite but my head so you just
kiss live the oil the light of you this
gizmo shines you come
regardless of how long you stay you
don't stay
you're here
so they they come to the fabric and saw
the shabbos and then shallow shooters
with the negro
and then
maybe
master shabbos his son tells him
he says i have to talk to you there
because really didn't have a chance to
talk to him during shabbos you know the
it's everyone's busy
diamonds atlanta you know what i'm
saying it's not really time to talk
to the rabbits
he says
it's like now
people don't privately talk to him
go talk to him if you want to talk to
him sure
i've really never heard the story
this is a new story for you the story of
my brother who's
well read and well learned it didn't
know the story so a lot of people don't
know a story i heard from religion
suddenly yerushalayim or heard it from
the terrorist semester
who must have heard it from by havilan
who said is a relative to the javelin
rabbi havlin so this is uh
ishmael
and muslim bibles don't know the story i
never knew it till i heard it from him
to go voldemic we haven't finished it
he goes into the outer river
and he says the following words
accept me under your wings
i want to be your hostage
the second the command to the villain
says to the out to that but i want to be
your husband
it's unheard of
but he was so taken
by the khadusha and by the van kaite and
by the energy by the shabbos that the
laboratory see them together with the
altar ever created that shabbos that he
just was drawn to it and he said i want
to be a husset of yours
now comes the answer of the altar but
you have to take i'm giving i'll give
you
um a
disclaimer before the answer
that after you hear dr debbie's answer i
want you to think about his answer and
i'll give you a little fruitful thought
but the rest you're going to have to
think about and if you want to follow up
with me you can email me fax me whatever
you can contact me through all the
gadgets
by the polish see them and develop
natural above the shabbos after
schwes
usually splashes no sorry they say a
a pismo they say
a thriller
that follows the olive base
and the and there's there's a stanza
there's a phrase for each letter
and this is part of the stanza for the
tests
listen
there's a few other words
there is it means a cement a gloom
literally
there's a type of a glue on cement
me meno yard succeeded from there come
out the pious ones
hola maba meaning when you learn tighter
and you glue yourself with tighter you
bind yourself with tighter you'll have a
little bit that's the literal meaning
said the helix
said
in yiddish
there's a word called
akiho
you heard the word kiku yes right you
guys eat sometimes
what's the yiddish word
[Music]
dough there's a little piece of dough
manu
has seen them come from this
dough
they're carved out of this dough
and he says explode you're not made of
this dough
what is this now that's the end of the
story the way i heard it
now i'm going to explain
what though are we talking about
here we're talking about the siddhis
with the heading and the little mosquito
little hygiene that we say in the
steeple
in the morning after chakras when
someone has a yard sight
you have to be carved out from that you
have to appreciate it
if you appreciate the stickle kicko with
the head angle and the little brother
not so much food
a little
you can be a husset
if you can't appreciate that
you can't be a hustler
so repenter
wasn't made he wasn't made for this
material
so for him i'm i'm just now i'm i'm
elaborating and paraphrasing raphael
had to make what we call in english in
psychology a paradigm shift
right you know what a paradigm shift
means he had to change his whole
mahalaksha in the terminology of yeshiva
to to change the whole mahalaka meshava
at the age of 75 etc is very hard you
could do it
you could do it
but when you're a young boy like vram
what is your name
when you're young and you're fresh
and you're yeshiva
and your mind is open the best time i
remember
in yeshiva was i was in morristown we
were able to think
i was 18 19 20 and i asked hard
questions don't think that you know
became a laboratory just i mean i'm born
on the barbecue but
but we ask questions
who is god why is god who are jews who
are non-jews what's going on over here
and
with that
you're allowed to ask
and sometimes you get answers you like
sometimes you don't get instruments you
don't get answers but at least you're
involved in the masect in the parsha in
the whole experience of understanding so
let's go back to what although i said
you want to be a host of your soul
you bring lukayan to the table you make
a series of lava monkey what you did for
you tess kislev that's what a cause it
is
now
i'm not going to go into you know the
style of hapa the style of
the different point of success
do it those are all what we call english
semantics
those are details the kudus and and
they're important to goodness i've
written extensively my next book is
about chabad
and the next volume which will come out
next year is on
bells
um bells boviv
and bells above
um
who else that gear and visions
so
we are studying the relationship between
khabar and other citizens
you know it's not a full-blown study
because i have to write a thousand page
book but at least a bissell to look at
some issues but that's not what i want
to discuss now
the idea of oxygen
our host uh sorry's uh
son of a daughter my wife told me
because they're interesting
don't worry i'm not going to embarrass
anyone okay
just just in a couple
you know i travel and i i study
communities and people that's what i do
it's part of my
my work i i observe sitting here with
you i'm observing you not just talking
to you to sharing with you i'm i'm
studying you
and you're leaving an impression in my
brain that one day will be thought about
so i studied what i heard today what did
i hear look at what i heard
that the area they moved and tom's river
you know
they didn't realize that they thought it
was if there was more see them than not
to see them there
i don't know which chair wherever they
live
whatever that that and he had a minion
for my life and they all came
out but he said for example
right
hello my life
night of tonight
4 16 and 5 16 on the dot they were 10 to
15 guys in the house under that
hatch time challenge
and then out and they died and they
dived nicely they didn't have them you
know they don't
they dive in properly
so he said
their son-in-law said like you know he
grew up in barrow park and above him he
said
yes you know
you speak a little bit before it's
happening you speak a little bit after
diamond link hopefully you don't speak
during the happening and it's a
keyboards you know
see them hasidim
have this
innate
kind of kibbutzing
you know social
social
comfortable social aspect of you know
talking with each other
patting each other it's
you know
it's very hard to describe because you
have to live it
and really
really if someone who's not a husset and
wants to become a cousin you need to
live
this what do you mean you need to just
like
say
aguer a convert
truly
in my wife's community in melbourne
australia
the famous convert not going to say who
very famous and he's taught today
he's already 85 year old man
years
years he studied and lived in the
community
before they accepted him for conversion
and you see the difference
some of you might know who he is but i
don't want to say
you see the difference
he became a leader he became a rabbi he
became a teacher a teacher of many bali
trooper
all right in fact rabbi sachs jonathan
sachs studied by him
with him
did you know that you don't know that
now you'll go look it up on the internet
you'll find out who it is
okay
okay rabbi rabbi gaffney
rabbi gaffney is his name my wife gave
me permission so i said it because her
fa her grandfather
made him become a jew
her grandfather was the one that he
became
and and he because the best of them
didn't want to convert it
why they were very tough
in their own their own acceptance yeah
so so this was not survive them but they
were
yeah no not because it's fun they were
just very tough you talk about i'm
talking about in the early in the 50s
i'm talking about the end of the 50s
you're going way back
because they don't know what mother was
in a sufi in halakhah
this wasn't a very difficult situation
you know
she has very given the mama i'm a
patient with the mom is you know what
the mom is it's already half of an issue
i'm basically like the mommy is the girl
speaks about sufi it's called sufi
anyway
why am i saying this
because
you're here in tom's river you know we
could talk about alternative all night
with govaldigam isis and i'm sure you'd
like it
but we have to our nation that happens
before right
something bottom line
no no no
say look how you
you live here you have to get together
or even come from lakewood get together
more create a see this environment
you know you have you have you have
hebrew that would come new york from
here is it's an hour you know uh you
take it they're slu him they're people
believe me ashley would love to come of
a praying for for you guys here i'm sure
it's gonna invite her i have a friend of
mine
he's a classmate of mine
he's a big
tomato went through the 770 he's he's
he's molly the goddess you just gotta
get him to come out he'll come out
you'll hear you give him a little
muscular and sing a few night and you'll
see him you know what i'm saying we did
this in boro park with
when they started the library well the
first library
was by us
even before yerushalayim i don't know if
you know that
what did they do
they used to invite
guest speakers matashabas
and usually it was a you know the
barbecue
and it was
and it was very people love to hear
stories and sing them again
the varan kite so
i think
a good resolution that we walk away with
something concrete
to begin the uterus kislif huff kisly
is that you have to you have to invest
to do this meaning
it's not going to come by osmosis
it's not going to come just by giving a
schmeck once a year you're coming you
just kiss live you're trapped you die of
nissan let it go you got to invest in
something and when you invest you reap
the benefits and you'll have the
greatest horse i'm speaking to you that
you ship and everyone else you'll have
the great schools
years later when you have alabama to
steeple or babies
i told him i tell him again
that i'm telling you this area is so
right to put up a nice laboratory
you see
you give a good kiddish with a little
scotch
you have a nice hot tub for a mix
and you start face nine to ten
you know
the lady you see boxing when i tell you
the later the better you'll pack the
house
you'll back the house and people will
get to duck and people make it do shim
and it will become uh
but you gotta gotta get together you
know you know if i was if i was younger
in my younger career you know this would
be for me uh small potatoes this is what
i did i put up buildings and shoes and
mikvas and yeshiva's in california when
i was liquors there
you know you take a younger man
and
and they all okay i said you're you're a
younger man if you have the time and
energy then but you can you guys have to
help enough health and susan
now i have a problem with
walking because everyone lives they
raised 10 miles apart
so that's a problem so first of all
first of all if there's two or three
people that live within walking within
walking yes you have to stretch a half
an hour
why are you giving your shoulder taper
i'm trying to tell you
ever didn't take him is because he felt
there are different explanations that i
heard by the way
one explanation is he wanted him to be
like
a clandestine australian like you know
missionary
he should remain by the by the lead fox
and meanwhile he will spread see this
there okay this is all you know
the bottom line is he definitely told
him
i cannot accept you the way you are to
be a hostage even though you love
everything and then you know this answer
of the altareb is very interesting if
you think about it
we
were living at a time
when
brother hashem
were able to have a fabulous
full you know
place and
it's all gone
the idea of abyssal messiah's nephesh
gives a
you know making yourself a little
uncomfortable
this sometimes gets in the way
making yourself a little uncomfortable
and this was by them
this was number one like i told you that
[Laughter]
the idea of
humility in this issue the real advisor
see them
that i knew
from ammo
they emulated this
they didn't they they mummish
my wife reminded me because we're
talking about not having a mikveh she
says we we had a guest once in marin
county california before i built a mix
for 1990 or so
didn't have a mixer there but uh
my aunt who was a survivor and children
left some money my father gave it that
we had it and then battle weiss and then
somebody right you we we put together
funds we built the midfield before we
didn't have a mixer
it was a year dropping out of chevits
you know ariel shepherds
i'm going to tell you about abilities
i i i don't want thank you uh
i'll tell you about the show
you know him because you you live there
but
yeah okay and i'm telling you not about
him
i'm telling you about him
this is a russian boy
his father by the way if you want to
read up about his father as a seifer
called
a year by the name of emmanuel
michelin who lived in moscow from 1922
to 1972 he came through zone 75 he wrote
up his memories it is one of a kind book
a diary that anyone that wants to know
what happened for 50 years in moscow
from 22 to 72 you must read this i got
it from a library i copied it it is a
gold mine
so he writes in there sorry he writes
there about
the bianco elishevitz that's yasiela
chabot's father
fascinating he was ashamed he wasn't
alibabacher
yeah i think was maybe a breast liver
but you know in
blessed
those days were
they were like one it was that
one guy one person is meditates still
he's binding us and one person is his
body dose isolation and meditation
different styles very different styles
but nevertheless they will
this you know the ace of other shepherds
came to us and he was doing for his
father-in-law
uh rabbit lau all of a sudden
vlad went around gathering manuscripts
on the bali tasteless and he went to the
vatican he got you know you heard it
very black you look him up you'll see
he found the manuscripts and he
published them he was automating
a literature then he became a
lubavitcher his brother-in-law was
the secretary it's a whole other story
anyway so so so this
uh jacksonville shepherd's son-in-law he
comes to us
and he's checking me zeus he was a
cypher too
she says to me
who's the maker
in the morning where's the mixer
i said
i don't have get a mixer
i i also go to the metro since i'm 13 or
14 so i got to make for every day but i
don't have a midfield and to drive to
san francisco every day i have work i
can't
i go into a shower and i have a mind the
t-shirt cabin that's my mikvah you know
he says okay
and he disappears this was the winter
i remember like yesterday
california winter but it's still a
winter
and marin county is near san francisco
so it's cold northern california so it's
colder okay
he disappears
late i find out i don't even know if he
told me because he's so humble so modest
he wouldn't he didn't speak this like
he's not the ocean we had a creek on the
way into our 538 plan community there
was a creek
i found out that he went into the creek
and that was his midfield did he break
eyes didn't bring us i don't i don't
know but no no it wasn't but but
just the idea like he couldn't doubt him
without going to the mixer so here i am
and i didn't go to the mix today i
wanted to go but it was hard for me to
walk what
but you i compare myself to you several
shepherds i'm a nothing accomplished
because for him he can't doubt without a
midfield
if if he had to go seven miles i'm
convinced he would walk seven miles to
the midfield
you understand
this is real chabad real hapa
giving away yourself completely and the
shlokhim
i wanted to say
they do that you know why
sometimes you think well this is living
off the fat of the land there's a big
building he has a lot of people around
him he's getting
you don't know what's going on inside
you don't know the issues with the
answer is kids you don't know
you don't know
there's so many other issues that are
besides buildings and and and the
outside veneer it's all a big veneer
what's going on inside
when i was a bucket in los angeles and
yeshiva in los angeles
to the story
it should make you cry
i was going to saw him every friday i
would visit people put on someone with
them
we'll share boulevard if you know los
angeles
crescent heights and wilshire brother
big buildings israeli consulates on top
go to a building across the street
and i asked someone who wants to plant
film no yeah and whenever he was there
he put on the film with me
this time he says do me a favor close
the door
what do you want me to close the door
for
because he wasn't embarrassed even
though he had go secretaries know that
you know
close the door
he's closed i closed the door he says
let me tell you something before upon
film
there's a listen to this story
he says
i'll tell you what i'm telling you ask
you to close the door
because i'm crushed
i'm broken
so i say so-and-so why are you broken
he was wearing
rings
diamonds he says you know
i have everything i need everything i
want i own a yacht i want a house in
hawaii
i am the baltokai on a gigantic show
from a conservative synagogue
i have diamonds i have wealth and i'm a
criminal lawyer and i've won every
single case 19 out of 19.
fame
success
money outs
and he says
inside i'm crushed
i'm not a man
i'm going to use an english word manhood
i've lost my manhood
why have i lost my manhood
because my daughter steals from me
my silverware
to pawn it off for drugs
i'm crushed
and he started to cry
and this to me was like a shock
you know i was 19 20 21 still a much
younger younger man
forming ideas listening and hearing
and here's a man who looks so rosy on
the outside and so gevaldic and he's
inside
melted it's broken as we say in yiddish
so what you see on the outside is not
what you get on the inside okay that's
number one
number two
number two the shliyakh at the end of
the day he moves away from a community
he moves away from a family
and he goes wherever that ever sends him
that's a real shliyak
if that ever sends him to timbuktu
that's where he goes if he sends him to
brooklyn heights he's in brooklyn
heights no it doesn't make a difference
the michelaya
the sender the babachireba sends him
and he goes
he doesn't ask questions because you
should know
there were people
who asked questions joseph
another hadith
that happened to say this but through
he said no thank you
we have our answer
they were very very white
they weren't nice
they were mean no
schliches is messier snefish you either
are in the serious snappish
there's a fascinating story to tell you
stories upon stories with alternate
wizards
of the secret 1948
listen he writes over there
that the altar
is
who was given the task of messiness
nephesh that schneider's almond for
whatever reason that's what they still
wanted
so that passed on for seven generations
you speak about couples speak about the
the whole barbecue
ethos ethos means the philosophy the
whole obamacare you start
is messily snappish if you take mercedes
nephesh away from alabama chair he's not
in the barbecue
he might look like a barbie and act like
a barbecue but he's not inside of the
barbecue
and that's fine
there's hundreds of thousands such eaten
the world needs all eaten
but what what is it about the messiness
nephesh that's it
my wife's father my father-in-law was
obamacare's snapfish
here's a story what does bomber say
sniffish he comes to us for circus we're
living in the marine county you're gonna
finish the the lawyer what'd you tell
the lawyer
tell me i started to cry with him
what is there something i could tell him
i didn't know i you got to listen you
built it up you built it up now figure
it out listen to this listen to his pain
when someone's in pain don't open your
mouth
feel the pain
there's nothing to say
anyway
what's going to say now what's the story
so bud
he comes to california to visit us in
marin county one circus
arose we're in shul in the morning
finish
yes we're chatting you goodbye i will
see you tonight for diving very nice
so i say to my shreds and my phone will
come give you a ride home
wasn't very far but i had a car
so he says no no no no go go yourself
i said okay
i thought he wants to get the fresh air
walk you know like five ten minutes
whatever
so
he comes home three hours later and i
know that he finished happening he
wasn't happening
so i say sver
where were you
where did you get lost
listen
he says
i overheard you speaking to someone who
sure one of your balabatam your
congregants
and he mentioned that he didn't yet put
up his sukkah
it's arab sukkas
so after darwining i just went over to
myself let me go over with you he says
what do you want to co cause i want to
help you put up a super he spent three
hours putting up a sucker
didn't ask didn't make any waves he and
i didn't hear this from him
actually i did hear them later but i'm
saying at the time i didn't hear it from
him he didn't say oh i'm going to put up
some sukkot
it was natural for him if a yi doesn't
have a sukkah i'm out of success i put
everything aside before i eat before i
smooth before i check my email and i put
up a sukkah for him because tonight is
that was what we call in hebrew
was the ethos the the the philosophy
of these years
we today can do this and eat especially
the young people the young people
because we're already you know
as we say ak and we'll leave it at that
right we're over there over the hill
but the young children the teenagers the
children
the future
they the icing your children
your girls
your boy
these are the future
they need to be raised in a culture of
mercedes netflix and if they seem to see
this average by their parents they're
going to have mercedes netflix if they
don't see it
they'll be fine eaten
but not parliamentarians so now in
khabad you know
people ask sometimes why is khabad so
successful with with all kinds of people
you know why
because khabar allows people to think
and we want the whole system of
laboratories
figure it out yourself figure it out
yourself
i'll give you a taste
but you need to use your khaki nadas and
that is never going to go away and if
you come to the conclusion that you are
right now this type of the barbiture
so be it
as long as you made that decision and
choice
you'll learn more you'll be around more
you want to understand more
perhaps
wait a minute wait a minute what i
thought was right is not exactly it
and this together with the varm kite
is a very healthy
is very healthy for young people
you need to get we need to give the
young people
expression
we need to give them opportunity to
think and grow
at the same time
we need to
offer
and make available and live ourselves
like a closet and i'd be one last word
before the
i have seen and i'm sure you'll see
sometimes as parents
we have our dreams
we have our wishes
and we go on a certain course
i want to tell you
i think and who am i but
there are no guarantees in life they're
none anyone says otherwise is a big fool
but
the more simple you live i promise you
you'll have
better results all around
i'm telling you
the ostentatious
approach
in yeah they should use the word the
sick
it don't work
it's gonna work maybe for three of your
kids not for the fifth not for the
fourth ninth and the sixth
without
the best thing is to be
still
to be humble
and to live yeah more of a simple
lifestyle
simple does not mean
not
look for hashem you have a beautiful
house to make a beautiful lava mauka
it's not you know it's how you use your
gas mias
how
that's the lakuta
and when and and and when sometimes
parents
they start dressing their kids fancy and
they grow their hair
and sever
cuckoo and kishka of of ghasmis and
materialism
it's it's fraught for
issues telling you
live a simple lifestyle
you want to say something i don't know
yet please please
okay
i just wanted to see a living living
right
you know it comes to a shayter you have
different types of right
what it says
that's portioned
that's not so roundy
says the commander like the commission
like this
called the push it
what's the lotion
called the posture mylet fade
i think that's the lotion
the more simple the schaefer is straight
the better it is
the more twisted the schaefer is
it's not as good as a schaefer as the
other schaefers
twisted what is twisted me the more
sophisticated we are the more spitzerla
you know the gemara cup we're all going
right we're all either right we have
good morning
and the
taste is the macho you do the same thing
in business
control the world and just
just
calm down
the abyss that gives padnosa
not a penny more not a penny less to
what you're gonna get i'm telling you
i'm sure you've seen this i've seen this
in my life you lose money here you get
it here you make it here you lose it
here
so at the end of the day
another thing that i've seen in
lebanovich all my years
the the the caucus that you know for me
the excitement of the assessment yeah
gosh nice
this wasn't la babbage
it's you know they worked hard
but everyone knew that amongst all the
city who are the biggest notice the
national is the biggest sorry
the biggest
like muslims
were baptized
why
they're learning excuse me they're going
through the midfield they're diving for
a few hours now they're going to see
this
time 10 11 12 comes around they're ready
to go to work no one's going to accept
you for a job
take let's say the software see them
have you listed
taught them go work make a lot of money
give a lot of sudden
you have to you have to do that and make
that lincoln in there the problem has
never had that never had that never had
that
oh in my humble opinion unfortunately
it's changed a little bit today because
a lot of younger light there
you know
they're fully
used to be in 770 my days in the 70s
just see them
happening
talking see this
talking about to
10 o'clock
wednesday morning
when are you done
now of course the person my father
my father-in-law they were business
people and they worked hard and they my
father was up at six o'clock already you
know to get ready to go at seven
but
the toughness
you know so here we are
there's so much to say and there isn't
enough time and it is we have to say it
ourselves
you have to lean in
another with gashnis
the gosmius will come
i'm telling you the abrasive sees that a
yid is wholeheartedly uh evan hashem
he opens up
telling you the high end is the help
that everyone
sing along
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okay now it's your turn a little bit i
spoke too much no you should say
something now we're here i want to hear
some stories from the ultimate so
you say something or someone else say
something give me a breath breathe it
yes please i wanted to ask since you're
an expert on gilgalam are we
you want to know who you are
that's not for sure yeah but uh are we
in in our last kill goal is it safe to
say
are we in our last gilco at this point
you know there is there is the part
there is the
there is the saying
that that this generation is the last
before meshiach
and if we
understand that and agree with it
then that would
that would make sense
that the gilgal on the right right
because it says
that when mashiach comes all the summers
from the storage house
have will end they'll all come out
that's what it's brought down in the
sphere did you ever hear that
right so
which means also that the gilgal of
neshamas will finish
now what about the there are wicked
people that are still around if they've
done bad are they what's going to happen
to them now if they're
they they haven't fulfilled them
what are they
supposed to be doing and now do they
come back again or
well again if we if we're looking from
the perspective of gilgal
it could be that
they have
they're here and going through this
this
bed
because they need a tickle in one area
it's not this isn't like straightforward
like well if they need a ticket they
should be good is this life it doesn't
work that way
see the whole the whole sugya the whole
discussion of gilgal according to the
arizaw
is one that really doesn't make sense
there's no rhyme or reason i mean i
tried when i started to learn this
part of tata
to synchronize it and find rhyme and
reason and my conclusion is there is no
rhyme and reason
what means no wrong reason so you're
saying
okay it makes sense if mashiach is
coming over ending what they're going to
show you so the answer is that it could
be that they're showing him the wicked
people have one issue that they have to
do on earth
and that issue they do and that that's a
ticking for them
and the other part of the shaman
gilgamesh has to go through getting the
the russia part which according to hazal
and sanhedrin and all that they're
punished you know an illumina
so
it's a very it's a very
complicated
type of
area of study where we we if we seek you
know rhyme and reason component the way
i see it i don't see rhyme and reason
what we could learn from it and we need
to learn from it is
there ever just time from the rabbit
because the rabbit
in 1985 she was 85 when they came to us
they came to california the paper people
who lost their daughter i was 84 85
a couple who we knew was a good friend
of mine
my wife and i
and
they came for pesach to california
and they had one or two children
the girl
ran across
you know about the story blood
not laughing
no no no no it's berkeley
berkeley i never was run over and killed
it was terrible
my parents were
spent six months over there but that was
i think they left
a couple weeks before it happened
she ran into the straight she ran out of
the street of hamas on the main street
well right from the bottom i was i
wasn't a gigantic you know thoroughfare
but on the street anyway
and there's no shiva arab peso
you see it an hour or two and that's it
the mother was devastated and she's the
type of person that
is expressive and needs that and she
wrote to the rubber
to the rebber
i lost my daughter which
but i don't have a chance to mourn for
her
what's that all about she wrote that to
the river and the rebber wrote her like
a
seven eight line answer which was
unusual in those years especially on
such an issue
and there ever basically
you it's it's it's found you could read
it should be online too whatever
basically said that
your your daughter miriam
had a certain mission to accomplish
she accomplished it
and she went back because she finished
the mission
i mean only a rebecca
is
you know
so gilgamesh
is a is a very complicated area but
it can give people solace
if they need solace and the only thing
that can
for some people
you know and i'm talking about that
there's fact that
certain drastic and other i resharing
them don't even agree with gulen that's
another discussion is gilgal emma's or
not
we accept it as truthful but you see
there's people coming up with this
coming back so that means what does that
mean what did you say okay
a certain ticket right
yeah
get good good but that's if you believe
it in other words is as in a village
gleben that that there's someone in a
fish he's not going to believe i just
better say of the happening over here
with the fish with the with the square
market you know go go fly a kite you see
a psychiatrist i mean
you have to the end of the day that's
great
what did i do in 2000 2001
and also
what as opposed to what gilgamesh is the
shaman has been here before
so
i've never been here
a gilgam means that in addition to
uranus you have a nakuda of nizos
that's from a previous life that needs
tikkun
that's chopped gilgal
i was gonna say something about two
thousand words
so
so here's the story comes out of
virginia that a woman
in
the mona
during the pace of saturday the first
night the second night
the sons come running to the locals
fardhim they say
our mother is acting crazy
and
please come tell us what to do you know
this father this is
part of the culture
i'm not saying it has shown to be little
i'm just saying it's
it's my team it's my team
yes there is it's a comfort zone
you come over
these two kylo young delight
together with the the sons and they hear
the mother
talking very weird
and all of a sudden the mother says
you you did a sin last night this way
you did a sin and they run out of the
house
they say there's a book over here
because we know that a dybbuk reveals
secrets
because they ran out of the house
embarrassed
no is it or is it not
the contact
and uh i met abdullah nazi a very fine
person a very special person
and they said of david we have what
looks like a book
and since your grandfather behood the
pattaya who wrote the safe haven
was known in baghdad
to take out gil gulen
or asking you this anika who does those
ceremonies
and that's a tradition that you have to
please take out the book of this
lady
i'm telling you my sister oh yeah
whether you believe he don't tell your
story
that's right and i heard that recording
i didn't just jump at it i listened to
that recording and i studied that
recording wait
so
i have to give you the background just
before the recording the recording
you're talking about is at the the the
um
the what's it called new technology
i'm not talking about that
i'm talking about forehead the kids are
abdullah basically here is about he says
okay come down hiroshima
so it's up from you know the mona they
come all the way down
and by the way it's not only recording
they used to have a they used to have a
video of it i don't know if they you
know i think i even saw a video i did
see another thing i did see
there's a couch there it's just so you
know
you think of this serious thing you're
thinking i'm sitting over there and ha
ha
and there's a couch and there'll be
peanuts and smoky cigarettes and
manhattan
and there's a hundred people in the room
you know it's a real spider lava mauka
okay
it was so you got to see it it's like
for for me as an ashkenazi hussain all
that
it's just like
i saw a video of it i don't know if they
still have it today but i did see a
video of it
and i saw her
and so in this hutch plots of what i
described to you she's sitting there
sandua with uh like a shawl over her
and her face was covered i think so i
don't know if i saw her face i saw her
later at that time i didn't see on the
video i didn't see her face
and she's sitting over there
and he starts mumbling and saying and
happening and crying and there's people
around and there's another
million camarillo rapino she was a big
mccouble near lion and he's saying felix
and all of a sudden
they blow schaefer
guess what my friends it's all in the
arizo whatever was done there i learned
it in the idea in other words it's true
they follow the script of what says in
the arizona i i checked
what they did an excellent job they did
they did he did
and and
all of a sudden
she starts shaking
starts shaking on the couch shaking
shaking
and her sons go over to her to try and
control her from shaking and she's
shaking shaking like i'm sure they're
shaking like some of those
and all of a sudden she falls onto the
floor
like a dead person
and rabbi patsy says what phil is and
then he starts saying in old hebrew of
course go out go out go out
says also in the gear yeah go out go out
go out and all of a sudden there's a
shriek
it's brought on the arizo it says you
know where the dibble goes out of the
little toe
other states
so a little toe is tiny it's how these
questions have to go out of a toe you
have to squeeze through right you have
to
push start
you make a noise it hurts it's tight
that's the shriek
that's awesome
very interesting
does this intrigue me
and so right away i called him i called
it i go ah baba mice is not true it's
baloney it's far the shemises that
they're making a film and they're making
a movie and they want to make money out
of it you know all
so i said hi i'm dolphin this is
investigative stuff for you
and that's what i do for a living i
investigate so i investigated
and i went there to throw his wife
remembers i went there to throw
specifically
to meet this person where am i going to
find her lbi the large bureau of
investigation
where am i going to find her
yeah
wait
this happened at the moment
so i started to look at the morning
called la baba just look
it's very hard to win the trailer but
yeah without rum
bear shovel thank you
bear shiva she moved to bear chef
i got her number somehow
i called i was already in the car in a
taxi on my way there
and
i said uh
i'd like to talk with you oh her
daughter answered the phone like 17 18.
she asked her mother so what do you want
says i i i heard that it was whole story
and um interested understanding
i don't know why she agreed
but she didn't she first she said go
back don't bother me
but i
said
i asked her please i'm already in a car
coming to you please let me come see you
and she agreed
and i saw her
i spent with her an hour and 45 minutes
with her daughter there and i
her daughter was also part of when when
she was going through the exorcism in
yerushalayim her daughter was there too
so i started to ask questions to the
daughter a question to her chap you
don't understand from allah zeitan from
all the sides to see
if yesh marshall if it's true or is this
uh
a game
the bottom line do you believe in it i i
i heard these stories
i'm telling you i met the person so what
you know what what you and others could
say you could say
i met the person
and i say it is true
now does it mean to say that she had the
full dip book this is already invited
you know there's a partial of the book
and not a practical book and what did
she by the way what did she reveal and
who's saying when she was in her before
the the exorcism that went to when she
was in her she was talking about her
um ex-husband
who was an alcoholic a shaker
and she spoke about avedas avedas that
she and her husband did
and guess what it says that also in the
arizo
and if you read it you'll jump out of
your pants
you'll be scared you won't want to read
further
i'll state
and that's what she said that night
she spoke about the avedas between her
and her husband
this is you know the federal is a
private to zach
the shane the hula hula etc
so
you know
what's the point why am i telling you
this tonight you just get slipped
what's the point you're answering this
question
that's what i'm just saying you know you
talk about gil gulim it's it's it's a
whole parsha and it's
it's not something that we you know i've
been called over the years you know
i got a call one out of shabbos on a
winter but my wife remembers it was
friday it's four o'clock shabbos is 10
minutes
a lady calls hysterical
rabbi i heard you're in the couple
i need you to help me i said what's the
problem
what's the problem what's the issue it
says
my son is possessed
my son has been cracked by an idiot i
said really what's the issue with your
son
my tired sheikh allah
my dear son he's 25 to 30 years old
i love him so much i went through the
holocaust
he can't do this to me what is he doing
to you
and i already figured okay the next
thing is marrying cuz you know not a
joke no
he's marrying aheed wow
hashem okay good what else is he doing
why do you think he's possessed
this dear son of mine my only son
he's going to have a wedding and there's
not going to be kosher food
for everyone it's not going to be a
kosher wedding because his wife his cow
and her parents who are froome who are
jewish but they're not religious don't
care for so much more
if my son can do this to me he must have
a dead book in it
i'll give you i said to him i said to my
dear
i think we have an issue called a schism
between
a future figure
already the fights are beginning you
want a kosher wedding you don't want to
coach your wedding mishloch arguing that
you know like
this is a book why am i saying this
story to you you know there's a lot of
michigan out there so
when you said you know you don't know if
you believe it
there is skepticism i'm not you know i
believe me i understand what you're
saying god's good
there is skepticism
but if the helicopter is out says that
there is
there's a little seltzer in the back
over there
you know i i actually i actually feel
that that that it's
that it's true i i believe it okay i i i
just uh i i
it's hard for me to wrap my head around
it because i i see
sometimes
people who i believe are are showing and
i'm trying to figure out their place
right now
uh if they act very immorally and what
their role is right now
first of all first of all my dear
however
you have to look at every year not as a
russia even someone does something very
bad
you have to find the good the good spark
in the eat
even a yid who has gone very far
or yid who's a con artist or ponzi
scheme artist
or a player but
every year it has a good thing
you know when i was in los angeles
i went to the prison for hanukkah to do
give about lyft and
listen to this
i came to a cell in solidarity
confinement
in downtown los angeles i was a booker
i brought my my my sugana my donuts
and here i am
and and the cell is opened the guard
opens up i'm allowed to go in for a few
minutes guess what i see
you'll never guess try
i see a picture of the bob it should
have been the cell
i saw it myself
and then he says to me
please pray for me
following shabbos
i'm going to be young israel spalding
spalding on melrose in los angeles i'm
giving over toyota challengers we used
to go shout out sugars in the shoes and
share words of tata
i shared this story with the
congregation rabbi gruman's congregation
and ayid gets up and he says
you gave him shalom
you know who you gave sholum to
the l.a times wrote up this was called
the israeli mafia
and for diamonds they killed those
pleading eden they killed for diamonds
that's who you saw
and he told me the name of the person
and i had no idea i'm a simple booker
going to do me with someone in itself
and he says and you gave him your hand
this is a shallow show that's in front
of everybody like a table like this
and and and i said you know you're right
but you're also wrong
i gave his neshama my hand i didn't give
his killing murderous hands my hand
as i eat
he's very
far and what the punishment will be will
be
civil law
but it has in the
so i'm sharing with you when you talk
about it
that language baklau you should know and
i'm not saying this has gone to school
you just you should know the the habota
of the laboratory
it's not in our lexicon
we don't see to show you
we only see tabiki
i feel like it
yeah
i
they're people that do bad and real bad
and they can be punished for their bed
there's halal
the civil law
and then there is soul
and then ask yourself another question
that's a hard question to ask
do we want hashem to look at us as to
show you
can anyone i mean you know i'll talk to
myself but
we don't goof up we don't do things that
are wrong
and maybe we're gonna get more pets
because we know better
we grew up from
we are a certain way and we act
sometimes so animalistic
and so
wrong
so
the whole misget it
of
you know russia versus sadiq in la
babbage
it don't fly
what
i don't hey what
are you mainly bane on them
we are potential
according to the ballet i'm glad you
mentioned it
where potential man potential pain in me
what does that mean
every eid can if they only want to be
obeying me they actually have missing
lemon of the famous mush be in paris
his uh yossi denver to sleep in carl
springs is a nephew so they say he asked
once he said
they say about you you're a bane and
even tanya you know
someone's perfect and thought speech in
action that's like unheard of
so he said that his little ain't a
little nephew said what's a bane in me
someone who's careful in thought speech
in action if you're careful for one
minute you're a one minute banana
if you're careful for two minutes you're
a two-minute baby if you're careful for
five years you're a five-year beta-knee
the perspective
the perspective and the attitude
is debating the
reality so sure
there's person who's a bane in the uh
you know
from the barbacoa
so they the children asked that but can
we write on his tombstone that he was
he was miserable
said yes okay
that's once in a lifetime you know what
i'm saying
i mean i don't know what that means you
know what i'm saying i know what it
means but how can that be like
okay
the uh yeah when i get asked here in uh
liquid
questions like you were talking about
before
um the idea of how do vouchers go out in
the middle of nowhere yeah
without any
any support right right how do they do
it
and and also you you were mentioning the
idea that how are they successful yeah
so my answer always is this is this
answer all right if you believe
if you if you understand the concept
that every jew
is is a helic yeah then it's then that's
the answer right you're gonna go as far
as you can and you're going to go
anywhere in order to be able to to find
the upgrades
it doesn't matter who they are really
because you're you're going you're right
right you're identifying with the
highlight yeah right so so you're not
making
you're not making uh differences
differences between whether they're
jew or they're in jail right whether
this you or they're that you're going
for every single jew right
you're going for it
and that's the that's that's the source
of the i think i have someone say
i have to say that there was one
incident that i i experienced a number
of years ago
and i was able to intervene in yid's
life i believe for the better
i recognized that he was with someone
who was a a
why believe was it was a a russia and i
know
you okay okay okay continue
but i was able i believe that i
i hope i would hope that i was mashfiya
and i think that he he changed
because i i identified this other person
as a russian now if i hadn't had that in
my lecture how would i have approached
him why do you have to identify him as a
russian why can you identify i love him
so much and i want to help his neshama
what do you have to identify as that
russia okay why do you have to put the
fetch the doubles
i didn't say i didn't use the word
but i said something because i i
recognized that he would this person
would be this high heilig would be
better off
away from this other person i understand
such a shock
every morning right but i'm saying
but the the mindset
see this is the difference if i may say
so before the fish of mine said i'm not
seeing this i'm not not it's not better
or worse but the see the sheriffs
it's it's not a music it's not a comfort
zone you know
the russia the bad
you see and and and this is what our
generation you know you and i are a
little older but the young generation
they don't want to hear anymore this
we're bad
they're sick and tired of hearing this
uh it's not you know again if you
trained in in that mahalak and there's a
literature mahal no question about it
but even there i think there's been a
very big change
and and and continues to be because we
see what's going on
and when you raise children and when you
start thinking and this is what i'm um
are you just kissing suggesting to you
as an older person
start thinking like altered
you learn tanya a little bit a little
bit
so learn you know make a shirt or go
online there's so many shirt my wife is
saying in the car when you're driving
there's so many rabbit josh gordon
yeshua but yamagarden over shalom has
the city back and forth everything and
he learns he does with him he says if
not for that he wouldn't let him he's
learning this would be sure gordon and
it's kvaldik my wife puts it on and he
makes jokes and it's quick and it's and
you're driving you're driving but even
if you're not driving i'm saying this
start thinking and i want to tell you a
story about that
you want to hear myself today but what's
relevant now is for the younger light
and the people here to identify with us
can we talk what we talked about last
night i was talking about no not yet
it turns out that this this young man he
was actually a man is also from from a
bad family
i met a person
in 1997.
i met his his brother-in-law in
california in irvine
we had it in chabad we had a telethon
barbie
who was the head of chabad in california
made a yearly telethon
i was working when i moved to marin
county to los angeles in 92 to 96
i was working for a bike unit
part of my job was raising funds through
his telephone lists
that's right i remind you so that's
right
yeah yeah i remember now so you were in
california until 93.
i was in california from 84 to 96 84 to
92 in marin county 92 to 96 in los
angeles so
i uh
i met this so i saw this person gave i
think a 500 donation somebody did a 500
validation is worth a phone call right
at least a phone call but much more than
a phone call i said i'd like to come see
you and i wasn't going to listen to them
you know just who are you
he said sure
rabbi wants to come see me i drove an
hour you know irvine it's out in in
orange county
i drove an hour i come
in
hi rabbi how are you i said fine i
started talking to him he knows nothing
he doesn't know what film is he doesn't
i said here's this it's called tilling
these black boxes you know
what's a mitzvah
i explained what a mitzvah is
and he was with the zohar cutter says
i took someone who was in a gether in a
category of a head that never put on
film
no he didn't know
but
and i took him out of that gather by
putting on film with him the first time
in his life
fine person and i thanked him for the
donation and i said we should keep in
touch and and we did statement till
today we stay in touch so many years
later
his brother-in-law lived in manhattan
when i moved in 96 back to new york
yeshiva brought me back to new york
obama to yeshiva
so
so i um
i contacted his his brother
and i asked him a question on the phone
and he never forget the question
a question no i'm sorry
i said to him it's tisha buff coming up
i'm going to the rebels oil would you
like to come along with me he said sure
we're driving to he took the f train
from midtown manhattan where he worked
to 18th avenue in borough park the f
train stops there i live a block and a
half away
met him and we're driving to the oil
and i say you know today is tischevo
he says i know it's okay interesting you
know what's this book and we're talking
and he says you know in fact i didn't
put on film this morning
i said how do you know you didn't
how do you know how to put on film this
morning
he says i read in the back of the art
scroll sitter they have halacha they
have laws there and i read the halakhas
the laws
we get to the oil
he's standing next to the free the crab
is maseiva i'm standing back you know
the front
and i observed the way he's dabbing
shuckling i was blown away
and reading
he knows how to read
he reads slow he's reading with heart
wow very interesting so i saw i had
someone said this is uh this is nuts
so he tells me on the way back that he
grew up in melbourne he went to a base
school there that
was prominent and he went to base rift
as beth rifka as a young
boy in kindergarten
anyway
but he wasn't religious
and
he opens the door we finish i can say
goodbye to him and then i ask him the
following question
as he's about to walk out and go to the
train
would you like to learn with me once a
week some torah
what was his answer
what do you think his answer would be
rabbi i'll let you know
and you all know that me is rap i'll let
you know
go fire kite
okay fife unless we're saying do this
so
nothing you know i go on he goes
two weeks go by and the phone rings
rabbi dolphin
you asked me a question
i'd like to learn with you once a week
we learned for 10 years
once a week i took the train one hour
from borough park
to manhattan
i got off
i walked to 45th street on fifth avenue
went up to his office
learned for an hour tanya slow
and went back for an hour three hours
every week my wife remembers like
yesterday
ten years it took us to finish 53
chapters of tanya
because we learned slow
he dialogued
he belonged to a reformed temple now
listen to what happens
in the fifth year
joseph
he calls me on a tuesday or so and he
says rabbi
i want to thank you for learning with me
tanya so i say
so so-and-so
why
are you thanking me today
tomorrow i'm scheduled to learn with you
like we're doing for five years
can't you thank you you want to thank me
thank me in person tomorrow
he says let me tell you why i'm thank
you i'm calling you today even though i
know you come again tomorrow
i just came out of a business meeting he
was in the life insurance business
so i just came out of a meeting
and there was an ethical question should
i do this or should i do that
it wasn't so much of a halloween
question it was an ethical question
is it proper or not
and i didn't know what to do and he says
rabbi
i stopped for a moment i sat back
i closed my eyes and i thought
what would the bane in me say
and that's how i made my decision
how did i have the sensitivity to even
think
of what the banana would say because we
learned tanya together and you taught me
the alta rebe's idea of a banany
learn tanya
you will learn tanya
i promise you
you'll stop talking about it
and not that's that's and that's just
like a small change
of course i'll learn tanya with you on
the phone we'll make it
i'll let you know the whole
you see i didn't say about you though
you learn tanya
you'll be the happiest person in your
life and to have it here i've learned
tanya
i want to say another interesting thing
years ago they came out a book called
mavericks
it was about
chabad girls and crown heights
who somehow by the way
from tom zuber said he he'd like to get
a group together to make it on this year
oh and he knows tanya you can live with
him he's a good guy
and he's a person
anyway nobody really knows i know i know
it's family anyway
definitely very good but make it happen
make it happen
anyway so so in this book mavericks
stephanie well and levine is her name
she's the author
she went around for a year visiting
lobovc homes in particular was focusing
on laboratory teenagers and young adults
and she met all kinds including some
that
had made a u-turn for a while
and she interviewed them
and she wrote about her experiences
that's a very interesting book at least
but you have to be mature to read it you
have to be mature you you can't read it
like excuse me i don't you have to read
it like you know it's smarts you have to
understand the broader picture and when
you read it that way it's valuable at
least that's my opinion anyway
so
she
says
of something that i still remember like
now and this i want to share with you he
says
of all the girls that i interviewed
and some were
really involved with things that are not
great to put it mildly and some had
these issues and some had this issue
two things that they all said
that is positive guess what they are
one that they love the rabbit
and two they learn and love the tanya
you
you hear that
you're not religious
you're upset you're angry
you're not involved you've left your
family your community
and you could tell an interview is not
religious so there's no you know uh
gimmicks over here i love the la
babachera as i am
and i
love tanya
what the altar ever did with the tanya
is a lifesaver for yiddington
and i told the younger light today
at the fabrega
rabbi rudiment of yeshiva near throw
which wasn't known as
to put it mildly right but yemen
ruling was a talmud
i have a rudiment i interviewed a few
people
would carry a little tanya in his pocket
every day of his life when he was going
to go there i'm not going to tell you
told me that
it's private but if i tell you that i
interviewed
two people that told me that you should
believe me if you read my books i think
you would believe me
because i document everything as much as
i can yeah
it's coming out
it's coming out i wrote about it but
yeah
yes there is will really be interested
in my book they might not they might
want to stone me but they'll know
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anyway let me finish this thing
stay for by rudiment rudiment and by the
way rooting the group as a bachelor boy
he comes from a laboratory family that's
not not like you know
he learned to see this 11 12 see this he
was a boy and he went to the rashaab
in 1911 for the young titan he was in
lupovic
tishrei 1911 rabbi rudeman with his
father his father brought him to the
rebel shop
a whole month he said he spent there
and he heard the and he even repeat it i
heard from we have relatives who married
into the family he would repeat the
minor that the rashaab said he
remembered the divre moscow
rabbi rudiment he was a genius
bucky and shas
and many swara
so
why are you carrying around a time you
have a rudiment you went to zlatan you
became a lit [ __ ] like
italian
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i'm just saying the way so he said
this is the excuse he gave and then
privately he said
that tanya you know has large letters if
you look at his large letters so as he
was getting old it's easy it's a small
little safe though it's a small little
book with grocery issues which was
answered yeah
and then he told these people told me he
to have says have a tangy with me it's a
school is a school it's it's it's life
it's kedusha
with the blender tanya so that you're
willing to learn tanya your age
i'm serious
and i'm not saying this to they make it
i'm saying
yeah no but everyone everyone
it's that's what this kiss live it's
about the safer tanya
mama spirit
i asked him many times what should i
learn with people because i've been
ashley has 40 almost 40 years 37 years
what should i teach people he said to me
tanya
i said
tanya some problems very hard to teach
he says that means you don't know them
has like a whole breakdown
yeah i yeah i've seen i know you still
made a poster out of it yeah yeah yeah
so evidence you understand what you're
actually doing right
the guys that want to love it and learn
yeshiva it's time to rekindle the the
vanankeit
and you rekindle it your kids are going
to have it and your family and it's
that's it i'm deflating it
so rob joseph please make sure
to connect guerrari to these guys
if everyone's not here it's on the
whatsapp there's a whatsapp
like what's up what's up you need to
call people individually give them a
time give them a place give them a hug
and say come and they'll be able to hide
him you know make it make it
a schmuck
so you start from the schmack height
and and and frankly in the face and if
the heather don't like it then you get
another teacher i mean you know it's not
here you gotta have a good teacher knows
how to teach
and knows how to how to you know present
it
and and and then it's schmuck
anyway
i think it's time to go
you you want to hear more stories of the
outfit ever right
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no
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oh
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oh
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hello
m
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the same
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is
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hey
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hey
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hey
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doesn't look at it russia i'm gonna kill
you i'm gonna give you a chance
that's it that's it that's it
that's it forgets
to show him
if you think about ourselves not about
him
and they will show help
maybe she will help
hi where's mashiach we don't have
mashiach yet no
first of all that ever said open your
eyes and see mashiach
no here my eyes are open i see mashiach
where is mashiach
open your eyes means really open your
eyes open your shaman you help another
yid you see moshiach what's mashiach
what is my shirt what do you think would
be bananas if not banana strawberries
what's mashiach
is
godliness
when you help a yield that's godliness
i'm telling you when you help
with a hell of a
when you help a year change attire
you help a yid
you visit someone who's in a nursing
home
that is
that's godliness
that's it that's it
we don't have to you know
either should we say
all right he became the gosvelt
right what does that mean turn over the
whole world
yeah if a state's a hell of a butcher he
has to turn over the whole world he has
to come in here and put up a big 770
liquid
there is one there's a 770 building in
lakewood
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lakewood you put up a 770 it's like it's
not proper okay it of course
you know what what is stephanie you know
you know that they're that's not what
they want to see
i heard from it's my book on lakewood
which i heard from one of the
close
students of rupture cutler
very close to
when the rabbit started in the 75 77 of
them if chilean he told me i know he is
told me he
said he went over to the option and he
says you know you know that i'm a
hell of aperture
he says i want i want to do mr mo
lakewood i want to reach out i want to
what what do you want to do
i want to take a bus
and make a bus into a mitzvah mobile
and i want to go around to the schools
and the places here everything i said
please
please but
do it outside of seder
park the bus in the lakewood
driveway
because i don't want you to
appear as a missionary in a clandestine
everyone knows who you are you're
allowed to do this and we need this done
they're not doing it you're volunteering
to do it do it
and he did it
who was this
why do you have to know everything who
is it
it was me it was you it wasn't you know
his name i don't touch names
why not
you know
you know that i know shots
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anyway anyway listen listen
uh people you know a lot of people don't
want to know be known and you have to
respect it i in my books you know i
always ask if you're open to you know
it's better for the writing and the
authenticity of the writing to have the
name but if you don't want when i wrote
about the yemen
um you know
and i thank you for your publicly
nakamura for giving that wonderful
material with the first time ever as far
as i know it's come out in such a way in
the english-speaking crowd and uh i
spoke to le bachcha's grandfather they
had no idea that the hecks
i said do you know who gave you smith
not to them they're they're the members
they're grandkids who get or [ __ ] with
kids who jj who who gave you father
smith i don't know
i said
smoke koslovsky
who's that
i said read my book you'll find out he
was a a big talmud
who was a receiver there and he had a
good feeling with the with lubavitch and
he probably knew the babbage in russia
and i wrote it all up and beyond here
hashem uh i met him energy soul and he
was kind enough to to give me some
information not everything i understand
you know so there are things that are
private and you just can't say names and
then you know you have to respect that
but what we can say when i could say
believe me i say it
in the 70s
can you go there
i doubt i doubt it
anyway
anyone else want to say something
because we have to head back to borough
park um and any questions comments
um
yeah the bottoms came later right okay
snooper they were closer what are they
called
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carliners
hasidim were known as two names
carliners and frailessa
look it up in the interrogation of the
altar this you can find online
and because of their
because of their probably
association not association their you
know their emotionalism and they're
called convenience yeah
oxygen was so now this wasn't just the
carolinas the stone
and that's a good question you asked me
about um
when the sheet of altered yosef
can when can we identify it's it's a big
question the frida krab has one answer
and whatever it it it seems like it was
really early on the market passed away
in
1772 tough coffin giveaway
the magnum switch
the outer red who took over
no
no that's wrong
no i said it was before
when he left there's his role
right
so then he appointed the balatanya
over that that part of the country
okay
yeah this is a practical tony robert
miller a very good safer to learn tanya
thank you
um
so when he took
over but that doesn't mean that that he
took over as a leader for all hasidim in
that region
not just
right so that's why that's the question
when he took over whether you know which
is pretty early on did he already have
his [ __ ]
yes
it wasn't labeled
and you know you have proof to what
you're saying
because
the way how about lives is based on
alderaan
yes but forget example
but this before patrick's birth i'm
talking about okay because it was all
cloudy
it was in the way that we see them but
after the brothers breaks the kim
yep
but he's asking me when can we identify
exactly
in other words
one second he went to the market right
out there went to the market
at that time would you say
he was a macabre
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so
when did he develop
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a historians ask this question
no no no no
but it's nageya if you really it's
negayam because there's a whole pill
there's a whole debate it's not system
this is debated by historians
the debate is
was he as the leader of the entire area
supposed to be teaching khabab derek
or let's say karli there
and what do we know
that would have flame and carlina
had to run away from
i think beshenkovitz from one of the
cities because of the lead fox right he
was fellow creative
so he wanted to move to the altarebes
area so he came to the altar because he
knew that the altered was appointed by
by what's it called by the mendel
so he says may i move here salted
episodes you can move here but on three
conditions
i'll tell you one of the conditions is
you cannot market
the sale of sadiq
here
here we follow chabad in sita
so if you want to see the piece of chong
and say look i'm to the river and say
i'm a husset it ain't working here
that's not what i want that's not what
the people need that's what he felt and
this is a story that has transmitted
cyan carleen
and they're upset about it of course and
i can understand why exactly
used
hours about this ah
ours
what did that what really the doubt ever
mean that he meant
he felt that since this is a literature
area
and lit fox are used to a good repayment
a good sauce
seiko
what's going to work here is seiko
and just emotions and then the vodka and
the shuckling and the ain't gonna work
here
that was the [ __ ] that it's about it
wasn't that he was against absalom it
has to show him but instead of slimer
you know
one of his sons
married the chakasa
jakassa was from chernobyl
and his father almost says yeah his
father says what does his father say as
well says
go become
somewhere near
what are you running over there for you
can you won't be you won't be you know
habakkuk
they don't relate
in a place where they're used to just
shuckling up and
it's like what are you doing you're
going to be a failure
and he didn't listen to his father
this
hey look at sadiq
and he opted with his father-in-law
because
the parnosa was there and said it writes
a letter you should read this letter
writes a letter it says if it's a matter
of paranosa i'll give you money but he
says in like it doesn't make any sense
why am i saying this you speak about
coppers before
the the whole the the different [ __ ] is
so so for the islamic leader to come
into lita
to come in and try to sell kagaska see
the shuckling and then screaming and
dancing and crying and all that it
doesn't work with lit fox
and that's the area that he was in the
literature area
but mela
i want you to come here
but you need to you need to
teach the cabado ethan
so
so that's the question now i mean that's
the question
so you see how there's an afghan meaning
you asked what's the big deal later
there's an afghanistan
the reason why the man who thinks about
being in
in his framework of work was because it
was lit
i'm sorry you could come
and i need you and you'll be an asset
but the mahala has to be okay
my last chance is i i i'm still
fascinated when i came across on friday
night i was talking about
but they don't know about it then now
it's not the time for it but anyway glad
what what no my point my point is uh the
[ __ ] said
that he could burn down petersburg with
his pipe yeah and it's a famous mice
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it was a delegation that was sent off to
to uh
to production
to let the district know what was going
on with the
boltons
so the ditcher they come to the somebody
comes through
and the predictor said that he's sitting
there smoking his pipe long pipe long
pipe
and basically he's almost laughing on
the situation
and he says
basically i don't know why the
altogether chose to go this raft
if it was up to me i'm paraphrasing a
little bit but if it was up to me this
is part of the story i only only saw
the details of the story i only saw as
of uh last night
that
he says it was up to me
i could have burned down petersburg with
my pipe
in shorts
through through much team i could have
taken care of the entire pettinsburg
situation
there would have been no there would
have been no imprisonment altogether
the alternate what he was saying is he
chose to put himself in prison and he
said that the altar and the and the
predicament had an argument and you see
this the famous mice by by by the zlatan
altar and the victory had an argument
which was how do you deal with the world
do you deal with it with my sim
do you deal with the world with uh
do do you make got and that the whole
whole thing was it was it was
mind-blowing to me that the baltania
had this this
uh realization that this that that what
was happening over here that dalton
basically chose to go into prison
and his reasoning for it was
that god wants
that his atmosphere
god wants his innermost essence in the
lowest parts of the world
so although you can totally wipe out
pethersburg in whatever miraculous way
you can you can make uh the whole court
case and the whole whole everything
disappear in a blink
dragon wanted to indulge it
and conquer it
in a in a practical manner that it would
it would actually come to pass
uh
and that the whole thing would would be
in that in a in a natural way not a
supernatural way but sing that was
digging and then we'll bench or finish
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what are you guys waiting for say look i
am we
no
i heard the name
so what are you learning now what sector
you're learning
will come
note say hi and give them the higher
we heard about it you heard about it you
smelled it yeah yeah you know they say
see them have a good area
well i don't have your name so we
hastily yes cats
what cats mortal cats aren't cats
metal cats and you
know what's your sit down and you don't
stand by if i bring it this is not a you
know baseball game you got to sit down
if you want to stay sit down be a mensch
relax
like a zombie you live here
nice to meet you
you know the cover you know
you know we've been we've been talking
for two and a half hours with me
and
the thing is that
how old are you
18 17 19 16 oh young we shouldn't be
taking the time
i don't i don't want to be arrested
but by the police there is
what
okay
are you a father
what do i do
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is
and guess who convince them not to go
two people
yeah
the cdh
and the rapper
and the repertoire of the hutner and i
know the heimbergers don't like to hear
it but my research points
became there's a lot of mistakes people
make
how long do you think it was in berlin
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a good friend of his said to him you
don't belong here you should
go back
to the binay toyota in varsha he went
back to varsity and i have the letters
from those years
and i printed one of two of those
letters in the book
showing that he went back to varsha
and he writes to his friends
about what he's going to do next
so he did not learn in the university
he did want to and he wanted to hang out
and be with
they were geniuses besides that had been
rubbish elevated the whole culture was
haskola
right hustler was a very very
interested person in a scholar in
general that's why he learned maraud
he wasn't you know besides his knowledge
of gamer but
he was a
a thinker
and berlin at that time was the place
right but they never told them you're
not married
i'm married
you shouldn't stay salvation already
signed up as a phd student
and
he was
he was already
by the way did ever make people mistake
the rapper didn't go to university to
get a degree
he needed
he wanted to be an engineer and he got a
degree in
engineering and in order to do that you
need to take certain courses so he took
certain courses at the university
he never got a degree from the
university of berlin like salivation got
a phd and robert hookner he told them
you know and but and he listened to you
know it's not a place for you you know
it's talking grace a cat but the
environment is very in those days
so
i um that's what my research points to
if someone has other research you know
that's my research points that him not
being there in fact i spoke to his
daughter
yeah you can buy it
but you have to read it
with an open head
if you're going to read it like a kind
berliner you're going to you're going to
get upset you know
you got you got you got it you know i
write in my introduction you got to sit
back
and read it objectively then you decide
whatever it is i'm not going to tell you
you know you're going to decide but read
it objectively
if you come in reading a book i write
this in all of my introductions if you
come in reading a book
real lifestyle
anyway
you have to read it objectively any book
if you really want to get what the
author is writing again you could
disagree
i write i want you to disagree but first
read at least hear what what's being
said and then if you read it that way
i think you'll be happy
you know again
and another thing is
you have to train yourself and we all
train ourselves
like
almost anything that we hear especially
the young bakarim and yeshiva because i
was once your age and yeshiva
most of it is bubba mysis baloney
nonsense
it's all bologna
unless you could document something or
come close to it or have a
start talking but all these nourish
you know are it's just
yeah yeah was ralph cook
at that sense
and when he went there to stroll you'll
see i have a letter i printed the
letterhead says rohjavia
he he was very close to the cook well so
it was the same time
barbecue
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wait a minute good job
by the way it's
your site tonight
40 years
oh
i i i promise you that what i wrote and
did i meant that well
i meant that i meant it to bring a kid
ashanti in the shower
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did you know that
from 1947 to 1953 years once a week
rabbit hutner came to the rebels
apartment in crown heights
i heard this from rabbi groener and they
learned for two three hours maraud
and they were very good friends now i'll
tell you sincere and since this is your
site i'm glad you mentioned it
the story that people were floating i
don't know if you know this
that in the last two three weeks of his
life he wasn't well
and
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he once said
that's what i heard over the years
you know okay here we go okay
yes yes no what what
so i did my investigation
i called someone at five in the morning
i was in there to slow for a year pretty
much
i'm not going to say who a big rosh
hashim
a massive talmud
a teacher
you get a call from someone 5 5 30 in
the morning because i heard he was up
early like you pick up the phone you
know who's calling me this time of the
hour
and i say you know who i am um so i say
listen i'd like to ask you a question
would you mind
he says what would you like to ask me i
said i heard you were in the room
whenever you said about
is it true or false
so he says to me
that's not exactly what he said he's an
american who made aliyah you know
so i said so what did he say
he said something to the fact that he
that he was a real good friend of mine
that's all i needed what do i mean now
what do i mean
i don't conclude that he said the rebels
inside the door
but in a way he said even more of that
he's a real good friend of mine and that
came
from someone was very close to him he
was standing right there
so you see how here is something that
people they talk
so there there is instead he didn't say
exactly that russian that term
but the idea the idea that there was a
kirov there was a positive relationship
that he that this
he said in some way you understand so
this is how at least i analyze something
from different angles to see
if there's truth i'll give you another
example this is coming out in my book
recently about two a month ago they
publicized on a website
on an israeli website from website
that have shock
told someone in lakewood you know in the
lakewood
to ask the baba child shot in a in a
kiss verizon
so the website publicized it
tells someone to go to the babachiri in
1982 wow wow wow
the oil who you know the whatsapp
they went there true not true the kids
are
having called me and i i speak once a
week on on history and
bad history and the literature history
that's usually what i speak about
so
much of shop isn't sunday and some
archived so i spoke about this
so i got calls said oh you should have
not sent it because it's not true it's
about myself
so i said first of all i was told that i
saw the website i saw the letters
and the it's
but i said you know what i'm gonna do
i'm gonna try to find out who the person
is i found him he's in lakewood i'm not
gonna say what it is
he's a rabbi and lego
i call them up maybe good luck
the rabbi the love i say you're
so-and-so he says why are you asking
i say because do you know that there was
a letter that the rebels sent you they
publicized
and they say the story through shock
with it
he says
which means not true
and he was about to hang up because
people have been nudging him but you
know part of my business is to engage
people and know how to schlep out
information
so i spent 15 20 minutes with him on the
phone
and i tell you
it's my opinion
that the mice is endless
what's the proof listen to this
he admitted that his his brother is a
talmud
he admitted that he spoke many times to
rashad
he admitted that uh he had a question he
was doing he was editing a safer of his
grandfather who was a bubbler
of rottenberg maybe you know rothenberg
who lived in i think in
schweitzer somewhere before the war and
he was editing the tough shin man
basement gimbal to put out the safer
he admitted that
and then he started to attack the rebel
the babachiri with college how could i
never go to
college so i saw right away
you see
this
he's biased
it gets even better huh it gets even
better
bashy don't relax don't worry we'll talk
the bucket in there
if the women are uncomfortable we're
going to the kitchen
anyway
i'm sure siri likes it anyway
you see
i know my customers anyway so so
so he uh he um
then he says to me and i'm listening i'm
listening
then he says to me
um
he says
i say to him why are you so upset and
angry that this letter got out
that ever wrote your letter it's your
name
yes
he says you know why because you the
barbecues right you the barbecues
you the barbecuers want to make the
rebel look good and rabbi shach not look
good
i feel as to emmaus even if it's true
and okay okay
post the latest in other words
that's why you say no
because you don't want me
or someone else to speak about it
and and you know so you hung up no he
didn't go
he didn't hang up at all you hung up no
well it's done it's finished oh yeah
yeah have a good day
thank you for your time
now
can you say i'm wrong absolutely
i think i have a lot of reason to
believe it's right and civil reason is
possible
yeah and he's telling me no because he
wants lubavitch not to do this
and what's the a friend of mine was
alabama
he said to me it comes down to that
shock said it but you know
he wanted
um i don't know shot here in the kitchen
can you explain it to me here's this
rash shiva
go there
it's not my cup of tea go there
so you can sing that yeah
you can sing and fetch
says uh the guy said go to this guy's
house he always has a light on yeah yeah
yeah you're all right yeah that's the
money right
yeah no i'm i'm just sharing a little
bit you asking about stories
you know how how you should go
gain some icing how do you approach a
piece of information i think that's
valuable for the bahrain
you know and yeshiva just in general you
know
i can tell you that
had some issues with some of the rebbe's
ideologies
but it wasn't personal
was it was a fiery absolutely
no question about it
but it was uh
he had a [ __ ] to a different [ __ ]
a baron liquid
before you guys were born before i was
born in the 1940s he had an issue with
the friday could happen
who came
let him write oh you know i got to raise
money for my yoshi
not worry about what someone writes in a
book
they're they're you know
you have to study things you have to
study things and you're young tell me
they don't want to tell me them
i'm not saying you should cop some of
these things better
faces at this age for sure
but i'm saying
and as you grow older and you hear
things you see things
study them think about them don't let
someone else
you know and i was i was i was like you
guys probably you know i bought
everything also when i was your age you
know all the laboratory stories like the
literature bible literature stories
but
now that i've been writing for so long
i look at the world in a broader way i
look at the whole see this and lit fox
in a broader way
and then at the end of the day everyone
should choose their path
see this and see them are varm are warm
and you never you know and if you want
that in your life you will get it
and if you want lubavitch because the
babbage has kind of
been a dust the understanding right
that's why by the way tanya who's
celebrating tonight is yamagola
he parked himself in lita
the bastian the seat of the vilna going
of of the literature of them is not them
and he and
what is he doing there
they grew up there
oh but it's a place of seiko we
discussed it earlier in the family
that's why donald trump was leaving
there in a
and you should know i heard from um
people whose parents were from little
they were a babbage he says
pre-war in litter everyone was together
there was no such a thing
world war one yeah no people woman took
one also yeah but even from 1914 1939 he
says
they intermarried
there was a yid rap margolin i don't
know if you know from borough park he
divined at the mere minion on 16th
avenue
he married a barbecue woman and his kids
all about it you know
so i i asked this like
how is he and he was a real mirror no
the answer is everyone was intimate with
each other on the castle they shopped in
the same stores they ate the same bulk
as the same potatoes they cry together
they laugh together yes so so
i'm purim they you know like in in
the nerd
they have two shows but
iran then
over there so i was told by from by
people from mammal that lived there 150
60 years ago i'm purim
from the show that sansa kleisenberg
they would run into the bhatti broider
from the literature
and they would say yes
that was a joke once a year they did you
know
what does that mean
that's not the text the the fart there's
two different ways the the ashkenaz
doesn't say
and
so they were like you know making you
know like
trouble they're making trouble
big big deal
bottom line is you have to learn with
your mime i want to tell you a story and
then i have to go i'm finishing
that's it
you have to go
fast fast fast 1904
a group of literature
get upset something that ashab wrote the
[ __ ] fifth with babaji absolutely
what did he write in kunta said in an
essay that he wrote
that learning tater niggler
murder
without previous attorney see this name
is a toyota
you won't have girish
they they went to the kai moiser
they went to the pie and brisker
they went to the hailey gerhardt
to complain to ostracize to put the
rebel shab
in a reishi memphis uh
robert scheim says
i know that i better shop i was with him
at
community meetings and i sent my shiva
that naftali
to the babbage
for some activity and he went into the
basement
and he saw the book of him
learning good murder with you to share
miami says he was blown away
and with beards
coffee time rolled up safer to fed us
all them up wearing a beard and he
couldn't get his back on him without him
to wear beards
and the barbecue
doesn't even speak about beards and
everyone's bearing beards
so he says i'm not going to put my
princess
you know do me a favor let me have it
overnight come back tomorrow i've never
seen it
they come back tomorrow and he says
i went through the countries he is
right
i can show you this letter
it's in the it's printed with the
details it's four or five pages i'm
telling you very shortly
you learn electricity
yeah yeah
okay okay
that's bench
yeah
i think you could i see you on
borrowport no
could you i've been around barbara park
for a bunch of years but i haven't been
there because
i've been in and out someone looks just
like you who i see in the borough park
used to come friday that was interesting
to me i didn't know
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take a little bit home so we'll have
something from lava
uh
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all right can you end the broadcast yeah
press the finish button yes dude