Rabbi Dalfin 60th Birthday Farbrengen

thank you thank you very much that's my wonderful son behind me so that gedalia's friend the dahlia small son and mendel were in the same class in los angeles who's older you were and just a lot of fun being together you know and um nice community here we're in hallandale florida that's where my daughter lives he lives in coral springs so um a lot of unknowns right right that's right springs right i remember you mentioned it right so he lives there but my daughter lives here in hallandale which is near hollywood and um that's right that's right and uh it's been a lot of um there's a lot of anastas that moved in here there must have been yesterday's truth 40 uh 47 with capotes so it's uh it's a migration from the from new york to florida i think for yeah that's great now what's i see i i see the families making making it for brandon for you tonight well that you know um i i wanted you know my friends my classmates uh who are all over and uh some local people are not you know to be part of it too so i gave them a chance an opportunity oh yeah yeah but he's still dabbing so um i guess let's start with [Applause] drinking a little too much wine it's i guess it's a little early like okay okay anyway seven o'clock in the morning okay yeah really i want to hear more from you than for me to darshan but i'll just begin and uh i'll begin with with my father would share with with me and my my siblings when we were growing up my father tremendous love for his mashbiya castleman in lud shiva started there in 49 and 50 through 62 before it moved to quran and the mashipiya was accosted a talmud of the rabbi rasha bella bavitch rabbi [ __ ] khayyam castleman and he became probably the strongest mashpiyya as that lubavitch has had maybe since its beginning for surely in the last 100 years so my father was a a very strong talmud of his and he knew how to grab a bucker certain bakram who were more intellectual and learning so he he he approached them with that approach another who were good students and see the shabbat but they were more of emotional side he knew how to grab them that way so for example my father would always say how he would put his arm around my father in a loving way you're talking about a blocker 17 18 years old 19 years old and would call him by his first name and he wouldn't say you know my father's name is a-r-o-n he wouldn't say a-r-o-n he would say a-r-e-l which is a loving way of calling a person with that name so he had this uh you know educational system that was phenomenal and my father would my father would um would uh share so many things that that his maship taught him and the atmosphere of the yeshiva and this is when we were children 10 years old 11 years old 12 years old and it was it was it left a very very powerful impression on on my siblings and myself so he told us that one year it was his birthday so the mashipiya made of habrengan i don't know if he made a specific form it was during the time there was a fabregas anyway made of abrahamian and during the vibranium at some point he said listen if the purpose of a birthday is for your excuse the expression your backside to become bigger then it's a waste of time he said if the purpose of a birthday is to grow in connection then it's worth bringing on your birthday so you know hasidim we don't we don't uh pat ourselves on our bellies you know on a birthday because as much as we've accomplished and every one of us has accomplished quite a bit in our lives there's so much more to accomplish that what you've accomplished is small change and we learned this from the rebbe the rabbi at 50 years old that's 60 years old or 70 year olds made [ __ ] wranglers on your dollar fist you know until the 1970s the rabbit didn't really have praying on his birthday the only time he did was well the first time he called him people into his room and we have a list of people and he said 1952 on udolph nissan then in 1962 it was during the week he said to my muram during the fabregan and then 1972 he had a fabregan and he said the mimer that's known as bayeri master yosseryong which i'm sure some of you have learned it's safe for my mother to look at the very powerful mimer about the mushroom you know with the the deputies and the ministers and following them to the to the the king's the palace at the chamber and not to get lost on the way by the fascinations of the gold and the silver and the treasures that's that muscle from the madrid that they never really spoke about on that day so so uh the rebel for bringing those though you know you dial off this then he started if i bring regularly but from 1952 to 1972 there were only four brainians if it was either i think a shabbos or because then we'll shabbos our goggle or or if it was a 10 year period so we learned from from the rabbit too that what would he say first he would thank everyone so first i thank every one of you some of you left wonderful messages the video that i saw yesterday i'm really appreciative my family saw it we all last night we had lava malcolm my two brothers are here in florida um so they came over and we had a till about 11 30 at night we had a nice blob of malka and reminiscing childhood memories and laughing and it was you know a lot of fun and revisiting you know times in our lives when we grew up with our parents and the messages that we felt they taught us and we shared with our children and grandchildren last night and some of my children said they didn't see certain sides of my siblings that they didn't know because in this fast-paced world it is so difficult at least i find it to be this way i don't know how you do but for everyone to get together for everyone to get together you know i told my children i don't want no fancy things i don't want to go anywhere i just want to be in one house with everyone there and the grandkids running around and making noise and playing and and and that's it i don't need anything you know and um so it was um hi nice to see you thank you anyway so i'm saying that you know there's so much more to do you know i look at my uh 60 years but hashem i was there to to to to be with the rebber and the barbecue see them from my birth i i never learned in any other yeshiva than the babbage i consider myself pure from the stomach the the of lubavitch my father bought hashem contrary to some of his friends he sent me as and my sibling still above yeshiva and he took me to the rebel when i was four or five years old to see the ribbon what did i understand and he said this is the rebbe this is the river and that's how i began my connection you know with uh and then when we we got older we went to morristown we had mushrim and rosh shiva and it was very very um for me a very inspiring time and then we went offline to california and we came to new york it's a it's it's been by hashem i could say a very uh rewarding and and and and connecting time these 60 years but it scales in comparison what needs to be done first we need to bring mashiach until mashiach comes it's all small change but what can we do to bring bashir so every one of us has avoided i want to share with you something i heard this past week that's i think relevant to this fabregan i don't know what year this was but it must have been in the later years when the kinase lucam started right in the in the 80s 83-84 and must have been sometime between then and 92. so rabbi khadakov who is the closest secretary of the available and they were discussing schliches and that nissan mandel he would he would write everything down so his son-in-law recall just spoke recorded and shared this with everyone on a clip which you can hear and he said this is what robert said to my father-in-law he said what is any jew and every jew that wants to do education to be an educator is a and this is coming heaven this is coming from the top man closest to the river so you could say this is coming from the river okay and he's saying clearly that every single yi that dedicates himself to jewish education is then he asked the question if so what's special about the shlokrim and he said that go to arizona and go to south africa and go here there if every jew in brooklyn and i bet she misses a shliyah as long as he wants to he wants to be involved in jewish education so what's so special about the go so he said those look him they pick up they pick themselves up and their family and they have masira's nephesh and they go away from the call of duty let me go away from the pizza stores he didn't say those words those i'm paraphrasing but they go away from the comfort zone and they go somewhere away to help other yidan those are what we call mesiras nefesh luchem so he said we have two categories we have schluchen and we have masiras nepheshloku but his emphasis was according to his son-in-law he spent more time in his conversation with rob mandel that showing that every single year if he's into education and then he said what is the purpose of the kinesthetic the purpose of the kidneys is to revisit the mission and to think about the mission and what needs to be done to augment the mission and the mission is jewish education and i heard this this week and i thought this is a wonderful important the kuda for each and every one of us regardless of where we are in our life and how old we are etc we have the ability if we dedicate ourselves to education to be of the age there and this is why when the rebels spoke to israeli ambassadors and and and generals and statesmen and journalists he always had a message a message of shlikas for them because it's never enough to say i've done it because there's so much more ahead of us so i'm humbled and i'm very happy i told my family too and i share it with you that this year i was scared and not because of covet although i had a very rough bout with covet and i escaped hospitalization because of hashem and i'm very thankful but i did not feel i was dying the hot solar came to my house and they said go to the hospital i said i am not going i said why aren't you going because i said i'm not dying i'm very sick but i'm not dying and i did not go and i bought hashem did not die so why was i scared this year it's a gomorrah i think it's rafa correct me if i have the the tana that the wrong tana but it's a good mother that when the when the tana became 60 years old he made a sudah he made a meal and he celebrated the fact that he survived not covet but chorus courage and i wouldn't have shared this with you and i wouldn't even tell my family this but again this week thursday morning i get somewhat somehow whatsapp from someone actually from one of our tell me that yaakov spiel from chicago so yaakov says to me because he heard there was a fabregan and 60 years old the tells of russia shiva in america who came to cleveland 41 42 was rebellious mayor block now the telsers are not into birthdays the lit fox are not into birthdays parenthetically a talmud came to the yeshiva university dormitory it's called the morgan morgenstern building in washington heights and knocked on the door room 204 you can see a picture of the room in my book robin revvy and the rev robbie sullivan opens the door and he says what do you want he says it's your birthday today i want to celebrate your your birthday and i brought you and shows him a big cake and really salivating says v and brisk don't celebrate birthdays but come in anyway coming anyway and that's when he saw he told me this he saw on his table a taira irishmal of the altar together with a science and a science and mathematics advanced mathematics books those were the books on his table that he was looking reading learning and and which safer terror of dalton so go figure rabbit salvation the skin of of of lit of brisk vlogin the going has unstable his birthday tyroyer anyway so this tells there's also don't celebrate birthdays but when rebellio mayor block was 60 he allowed the students to make a a celebration so they asked him like why did you all of a sudden every year we ask you to make a birthday and you say absolutely not it's not the meaning of tells so he said because of this gemara i became 60 and i survived chorus not i survived covert they have these shirts i survived covet i survived karis and the gomorrah says it's a festive day so i'm bound by the gomorrahs it was a you know literature i was bound by the gemara so the gomorrah says i have to celebrate so i'm making a celebration so that i'm here to talk to you this morning because it's not it's not a joke it's not a joke you know um a person doesn't know what you know what did i do six years ago on wednesday afternoon who knows so hashem and now now we're going into what says in pity of is ben shishen with zigna zikna means being a senior but it also means zesma sagency rabbi dolphin became a sage what does it mean it means that when you're 60 years old you start the altar has a mimer passes kardashians everyone knows this short mimer and there are beams saying we should learn about pen once i did know about almost word for word and that's something that i said to my kids parenthetically what's my one wish my one wish and i really mean this my one wish is that all the tithes that i learned for 60 years and i learned a lot of toyota i i wish hashem would make me remember the trait i learned the mind is such you forget at least i forget i mean i'm not bragging i'm just telling you you know when when shmuel when when shmuel and i met in the early 80s 81 that's when we met originally i was a booker in los angeles you think i was just taking care of others i i and my friends we were learning ourselves and it's then that i memorized 33 chapters of tanya word for word do you think i remember him today no 33 chapters of tanya i knew in this head i would be up to one two in the morning morning and they were asleep my friends and i would be reviewing and reviewing the words and i memorized it what happened i don't have a photographic memory and you forget remember foot of us my wife's son great uncle he would always tell me you better review your learning you better review your tanya or you're going to forget when you're older you know you get married you have children you're on slickest you're taking care of other people you just don't have time to sit again if you have a hamburger i'm a good memory but not a photographic memory so my wish i said to my family is that all the tighter that i learned and and and and even younger in in ocean park in the bhavat yeshiva we were learning i'm not just saying that it was an atmosphere of learning you know and if you don't review and you don't have you're going to forget so my wish is that hashem should somehow restore my memory i really want to remember my learning just you know and then if you want to be a stickler about it the show honor says some heavy statements about forgetting and you know we have to do true for that when we forget our learning but anyway going back to the point that's of of zesha connor so that's why talks about give respect to the zokhan and pierty of the says that you become a zocc and it's 60 years old so where is the respect the respect is because of the terrorists that you have memorized in your mind that's that's why you respect the talmud so you know it's important i hope to start doing this to start reviewing more of the title because see especially when you're a teacher you're teaching you're preparing new classes and do lectures and new rushes and right you don't take the time to review rather hypno show them from berlin would say a talmud is not someone who learns someone who reviews who hazards in hebrew the word is hazards in the yeshiva language that's a talmud so i hope they will still give me the the ability and i will implement it and not find excuses to start hazarding and we're learning counter somalia you think i remember we learned in the fifth mimer and the sixth mimer precisely no so this is an avoider and i'm sharing with you i didn't make it this is that i'm making with with you i tell me the my friends to to to start reviewing my learning from here on and not you know i'm not learning now 33 chapters in time yet by heart i don't think maybe hashem will give give you the time i'll do it but the gemara i mean you know we learned forgot the gamoras gomorrah's pages and pages of gemara so we need to review so they're going back to whatever hay and said actually haim said when it's your birthday it's not about you know growing bigger physically but it's about growing bigger spiritually so i'm gonna turn over the floor to you now and uh have you talk a little bit and then uh i'll continue go ahead who wants to speak yes yeah listen i mentioned about their creative customer that when you when you learned over your choir something that's good it's just something interesting and big i avoid the synthetic 4949 things that you find when it comes to kohanim it says milo certain miles that you get you need a miler you need a four or five miles in order to be according or you need a mileage to become a king when it comes to when it comes to uh to to do 2049 things that were quiet so so i heard that that when you acquire something the way you acquire something by making a shift you make a kicker right so when you acquire them all you do and you know you put it or you hold it you wanted to make a kingdom so the way you make the kingdom on the cover you make the king so it was today that that the way you said how do you know whether you made a kenyan on october when you make it i say this okay when you come up with something that means that you have to have understood the torah that was given to you as a faith as a foundation and your history is important on the foundation thank you very much who was who wanted to say speak next there are many many stories of the phenomenal memories of the rabbis things that people would come to him and he would tell them by the time that they had met or had some kind of contact years and years ago that the peer president himself wouldn't remember who the republicans had an unbelievable unbelievable memory so it says what is it that stops the memory that blocks the memory it's all different so how do you get rid of it for two of us so for all of us for you especially but for all of us that we should begin and use you can't argue with that yes uh hillel you wanted to say something hi sure first of all uh i want to say uh mazeltov on this great day uh i used to be able to remember my 60th birthday but i didn't review enough apparently so i just uh i want to say that you know when uh we're at this moment where we're transitioning in the torah in our reading of the torah our cycle of reading of the torah from uh say vibrations to safer schmos and uh we we make this transition from kind of the personal stories uh the story leading up to yaakov and his family and uh and to the story of the jewish people as a nation and their leaders and our are how we became a nation and uh um one of the things i think uh one of the ways i think about say for gracious is that it's a it's a quest to find to create a table to create a family where everybody has a place at the table and we read it last week sparsha how uh yaakov was able to bless each one of his children not only with their own unique blessing but with the blessing of all the others because when a person truly fulfills their potential then they're really able to receive from other people so in this context i want to i want to bless you and all of us that we continue to be able to fulfill our own uh your own potential uh everything that hashem has brought you into the world to do i was very moved by you were saying that uh about your experience with covet um and uh that in that same way we should all be able to learn from one another and contribute to one another and grow in our abode of hashem so keeps me on my toes moshe and then moshe meyers motion [Music] from the same place i just have to say full disclosure that this past uh um basically 24 hours ago my father actually turned 80. why am i saying that because um i'm very familiar with what we're doing right now except that obviously we're talking 20 years now earlier like okay and i know your father is probably 86 87 no 83 83 83 i'm sorry okay so um i just want to say that um there's a tremendous tremendous amount that each of us could say about our connection with you and about think we value you and i want to say that when i think about um i know that i just was a couple things number one is my time already that this last number of months you were pushing me to really become kabu with the sheer and uh and i did and it was a big step for me in the middle of my day and it's been fantastic i've seen a lot of sim in bracha and i want to say that you said to me once when i reached out to you when i was in the states about a year ago and i had to deal with a family issue you mentioned to me sort of here in ireland to straw that where those of us are thinking this year that we're like troopers and i think that that gave me a lot of physical and i want to say the same to you that really when i think about when i think about all of us i think about you when i think about what we've gained from you so much is about looking forward so much about finding the positive so much is about finding the good in other people finding the good in whatever situation we're in and we're about about being a trooper meaning finding the good and and also this isn't necessarily something that i don't i remember that we touched on at least since i've been in this year but living in this world in this world but at the same time we know like because i think that when i think about when i think about you and what you've been you know since you came you know since you came and and and you know you were here for the new year for the year and since then i think that you you have such a special connection with what's going on here with us with eric's israel and i guess my bra to you is so many things i could say but i heard once um i think i mentioned this once from riverberry lazar i was in happened to be in crown heights when my son was was in kafutsu when he was there for the year so i went to visit him with a huge fat and i heard him for bringing i sat him for bringing her out of the car and he said what's the difference he said what's the difference between an old person and a young person an old person he's always looking back at what he's accomplished a young person he's always looking forward at what still needs what he still needs to do right so my bra to you is that you know you're now in the middle 60 to 120 you've got a whole another 60 years amazing so much more to do there's so much more nice that needs to be done and i think all of us listen all of us i think would probably appreciate that hashem should bench you should grant you the gosh should i send you and we should send you especially you and your family special co-op a major major component nothing's bringing the chef oh man i'm your friend before before we give other people a chance i i want to publicly thank shmuel because shmuel is the one who had this idea of making the kaelu and i'm not saying this to put him on a pedestal but you know this is important and that we that we three and a half years later are still learning even in the situation of colvin both with ripshlomo and the morning the [ __ ] and with myself over the skype here to me this is it's tremendous it it's it's really tremendous and i remember when shmuel and i spoke about starting this and how to start it and where to start it you know there were questions here and there and i must say that the chemist community embraced us and i'm very thankful and at the very same time i said to my family yesterday five years ago i made a plan i you know a person should make establish you're allowed to make make a plan as long as you know that it's your plan and the abrasive decides at the end what was my plan that when i will reach 60 years old hashem which is today all my five all my six six out of seven children will be married my son is my queer my oldest you saw him before management and then i have six girls so two of them the two that are are looking for shidduchim are not didn't find yet their shidduch and i in a way assume by 60 for sure kai and dolphin and his wife we'll and we'll have one daughter 18 and you know we'll be we're in here to throw so chable and i the first year i flew back and forth eight times and it was a tremendous year tremendous and and i'm telling you that that investment of that year set this kayla up not just now let me try for the future there's more good things that are going to happen so was that year and then the year is over and small and i decided this you know this this it can't continue this way it's not not it's not the right way to you know so i said to myself and to be sure when i'm a 60 i'll be in there to throw i'll make aliyah i'm saying i'll be i'll be there with my with my cabinet with my students and and and there's so much more i mean i i think i've told you how many people with ace coldish who came over to me there are people that are learning tanya now in robert millennium with cello showing shul who called me to ask shot and tanya and they're learning kanye because rapper melinda was told them years ago used to say for that rabbit dolphin and brought to the shul to give the sheer i used to give a shear once a week and i've been living with shul at night in tanya so two people i forget i forget who their names now are learning and they don't understand shock in in pedic bays in the hagua which is a very deep you know the the the the chin zoom and with the cosmonaut silas who who would believe that three and a half years later because they want to do something forever with somebody who's told one of the fabric to learn tanya say who does he call he knows that i thought that tanya said cause an ass keep shot so there is such opportunity for tayden see this and that's what shmuel and i picked up on and shmuel was really the one who who you know i was i don't know about that chemist and she almost said he always say still say hi there is opportunity here to teach people see this and learn to see this and and show the beauty of this you know whether it's gimbal or alef or bass and frankly even with the sidimar which i spent time there and i i used to go at nights thursday nights that you wanted me from 11 00 to 1 2 in the morning to fabring and we sang the good name and there was 30 40 guys that this for them you know the night starts at 11 12 at night for them you know so but the image that says it's not yet the time for you so you've talked a 60 very nice snappy at the time otherwise you'd be there so if hashem i should mention you know being in there to throw my heart's there i want to be there but when they're able to will say now it's time for you to be there you will be there because i'm not sitting back on my loins i did effort you all saw the effort slapping eight times back and forth there's a lot of effort it's not it wasn't easy it's not an easy thing i want to come now during this row with the covert restrictions with the airlines it's like i can't do it i want to come i can't do it you know even today to visit to visit my grandchildren in tel aviv my daughter and grandchild and she isn't here all my children are here why isn't she here because she runs a gun you know she started a school in tel aviv for anglos american children not only american and she would have to quarantine for two weeks can't afford it just to be in the guy but he's not here so these are realities that we're going through now and and i wanted like the comfort pace of maybe to be with the grandchildren i don't see it every other day they're closing the border they're closing this they're luck down here it's like it can't maneuver so it's a very hard situation you know uh but it's necessary yeah turn off whoever whoever yourself anyway i would like to give a few other chance because avi abby i would like to hear from avi something avi are you able to talk he's driving i'm sorry no no everyone is just saying they say i'm giving everyone a chance to you know to say whatever they would like you know you have anything you'd like to say what i would like to say is this i love the opportunity to spend time and to learn with you with a group used to learn more lit switch things but at my age feeling feeling my age i had need for more soul but more spirit uh fills that need for me and you are a wonderful mafia and good friend a wonderful person that's busy i feel very fortunate to know you i wish on your birthday the very best you should have a good dessert from your [Music] okay uh reborn gordon a few words when i borrowed gordon an old talmud yeah rabbi i think are you going to say something with yesterday yes okay i i come i'm coming to you from uh the beautiful confines of spot today see the the old world style uh cave that i'm sitting in here i want to make a lakayam to you special organization i was much more proud over at mitzvahs so i thank you for you and schmol for that commitment that you made um and i you know i i just i remember the one time just to tell a quick story you came and actually stayed at my house for shopping yes i did and and it was it was i think if we fast forward to uh today that was maybe uh i don't even know how many years ago maybe three years ago right three three three three and a half years ago i three and three half years ago i remember rabbit dolphin was up at like whatever early early in the morning and i came out and my sons i have a now 13 year old who's 10 and an 11 year old who was then eight they were standing like soldiers stopping the morning blessings and grabbing dolphin like giving them commands you know and and he was singing at the table i remember friday night and it was an extraordinary experience and i really felt like you know they say like you want a house where the rabbit would come in and be happy to come visit right i think the progress we've made from from that shabbos to now you know you would be very proud to come stay for shabbos and see and you know you should have a gaza dear very happy here and you know i feel my age uh myself uh and i i think you're a very young 60 and you know i i think my my beard i think my beard's coming along like you said and hopefully i probably have a similar color in the next uh i'll be there in nine years so uh you know you'll be celebrating you'll be celebrating almost 70 and i'll be 60. so a show continue to be well and uh you know all the wisdom that you have like you said should be retained and be able to be such a part of you uh in your daily life i wish you only good things you know continued strength for the cola thank you so much mice and miles hi moisha any anything i don't hear you i'm mute yourself yeah i i just unmuted okay uh i wasn't doing mime i want to speak properly thank you so much it's great to be a part of this and uh i want to wish you incredible uh good health and success and um i want to thank you as well uh although i haven't been uh able to be in attendance lately um i have you know for a long time been a part of it polo and i do uh monitor quite often on uh when you post on you know different uh facebook and so on i've been able to monitor many of the classes so i've been able to grow greatly through your efforts both personally and through the fascidis that i've learned and continue to learn you've inspired me to grow in many ways and i really appreciate that and i i thanked as well you know wool and the others for their physique and um you know being a part of khabad in general in in ramaphichemish through rabbi um follows uh minion uh in the morning and the learning that goes down there and i've been there most often lately shabbos i i get a lot of a lot of knackers and i'm being it's the connection doesn't see this and see this way of life and everyone that i talk to is it's been a great source of growth for me personally and joy and um real real happiness so i i feel that i i owe you a real better thank you been many ways a mentor and you your your caring and concern is something that i appreciate as well that even when i have not been involved you've reached out to see how i'm doing with certain things going on in my life and i i do appreciate that and i my blessing to you is that you should continue in this in your efforts to grow the koala to be able to come to arizona when you're able to and hashem the sides it's the right time hopefully sooner than later and that you should continue to inspire others and grow yourself because uh you know i know about your connection with the fella because i was very close with rav milinwitz and to me it was amazing that he was a little short on that he was connected to just know where he was and that you two had to catch her in that way he's very special and um i just pledged to do again that you should have great strength and good health and continue to inspire us all i thank you very much is active that everyone should give everyone number one good health better health questions that's the first thing without good health it's very difficult even though i always repeat the vertebr my great uncle mendel that you know if you don't have money you're still a man if you don't have your health you're a half a man and if you don't have your drive you're no man at all so although that's true but we still want and need good health hashem should bench everyone here with their families extended families with gevaldega health better health number two number two everyone should see yiddish from their children grandchildren great grandchildren and nakas means that ultimately everyone should find their shidduch their everyone should find that [ __ ] that the children the grandchildren should find good shidduchim and and and should be happy and and we should be happy with the shidduchim but the main thing is they should find shidduchim even if sometimes we don't uh exactly agree it's their life so they should be happy with the shidduchim okay very important and number three we should have padlocked not just you know a minimum a minimum budget but a big budget a big paranosa so to be able to do glass of sudoku and to help eden and help our families etc so those are the three things right we've been learning about some countries [Applause] very broad very extensive and and the children should be reviewed so those are the three main breakthroughs to everyone and anything in particular that you want that you're thinking about that you need everyone should take a moment to think about what they need what now now in their lives right now on this day you test davis hashem should make it happen the poyo the boiled mamash not just in fantasy world and you know but in actual it should happen before mamish and ultimately what we all need and what we're all waiting for and what we all can contribute to towards is meshiach there's no question about it this isn't just a little game that we've been promising each other for fifth 1900 years and wishing each other it's a reality what's the reality when the yid helps another yid that's mashiach and when more eden will help more eden that's meshia and i include in this you know he's not on probably busy with his father but including this you know looking at what's called the left and the rabbit never when people came to the right and they said kiloni that happened didn't like that there's no hiloni there's only kadusha there's someone who hasn't yet found that kadusha remove that word fellaini from your dictionary don't say it and don't think of it a yeezy yi even the the yi that's furthest distant from the amish there is a yid and he has in the summer and we have to access the mushum and and i'm telling you you go with this attitude you'll see that he's not a fellaini and he and he remembers this and he remembers that and that's what it's all about so we should all have a govaldi today and a devout year and we should be healthy we should continue and we should remain friends the world today is friendship so people are missing friendship friends and friends not just for children or teenagers it's for us adults fifty sixty seventy some we come we come sometimes so lonely with ourselves i don't mean just because of covet i mean stoma we have to we we created one of the things that i see in our clay will learning together is we've created what's called anash brotherliness friendship togetherness we're together you know and and that should remain until till to machias coming and even after you know what i'm saying and salvation says rabbi yahshua there are certain things you can't discuss with your children they're too close he says this is salvation saying only students he felt he could relate certain things to them and i see this you know as as as much as family is family but people that are not technically gener you know genetically family but as friends and students there's a certain other important uh connection that we need that that there's there and we need that and i believe we've we've created this and we need to continue creating it and so even though physically i'm here in america and you're not just roll for now we're together in seoul tomorrow we'll learn again this time of those that are learning to cook this we're gonna learn seven o'clock because and i have to leave zaika zone to all the best have a great day thank you very much