Practical Chasidus w Rabbi Chaim Dalfin - V"Im Ruach HaMoishel 1924 #7: Effort-Inheritance-Gift

we are on the 347 in the middle of the mind man the Umbro have my show for the Year 1924 in this paragraph that is explaining to us the first interpretation of the verse that he brings at the beginning of the mind map from the targum garrison Targa says that in Brewer Michele refers to the Yeats at her that the 8th Sahara tries covering governing over the person who controls the person to do things that are wrong and bad for the person so V so V like my melon in his great wisdom understands that there's way my mother says therefore don't forsake your Torah because and an emergence of internal when you have a feeling in a urge of something that's hurtful to you spiritually and even emotionally and Slade my mother caution says that the result of that involvement an emergent will be my pain the effort am that I am it will be a cure to alleviate all kinds of sins so this interpretation Hillel is very different than what we've been learning till now which is that the rule Carmichael refers to who hello know this that this interpretation what was the previous one that we spent much time on who does the rule commercial refer to oh the ruler very good the ruler the people the person who's in a position of authority right he's a ruler right so then they advise that's way my mother has given given given to him is don't forsake your another your humility and we spoke all about that so in in a way in a certain way that interpretation small is but in a sense doesn't apply to each and every one of us because if we're not enough if we're not a ruler if without a mother if we're not a governor and all that so what's the wise are relevant to us and he explained what everybody has some people that they have I understand truly I understand but you know it the interpretation lends itself more easily to to someone who is in that a position of authority whereas according to the the Targum Unison's interpretation it's very obvious that it applies to every one of us because we have a Yates Uhuru who who tries controlling us and therefore that ever starts in this paragraph to deal with that issue so since he mentions that what is the what is the cure that your is tighter so now he starts speaking about what is plater and what type of theta are we talking about that will help us alleviate the the issues so from a mystic and and and and he said that not only is it just something that the nefesh Atticus will will overcome the nefesh obamas but he explained that since there is a slap shows and when we use the word Hyslop just means there's an investment that the nefesh Atticus invests itself in the nefesh our bomb is so it's not that it gets rid of the neffenger bombers it actually benefits from what the bed from from the from the virtue that the nefesh obamas has it which which is the virtue of passion Hashem is Liam agita so when you learn Taylor you accomplished not only that your godly soul the gates of tariffs is it a good place but it gets more energy and we explained that yesterday as well so and and and that's on YouTube for those that means to see here yes this year it's sheer number six on the that you can look for okay so now we continue on 300 D so and one more point and he said entitled there's two there's three aspects there's the idea that taters are yourself and he quotes the pulsatile achieve a lot of moisture Geils Yaakov it's an inheritance for every Jew he also explains that theta is yogya yet you come to title 3 Adia and he asked the question well as contradictory fits of inheritance you don't need to put effort forth if it's a through effort you don't it's not an inheritance so he even spoke about that too and and and he just he alluded to that he he mentioned it and he didn't get clarify everything and he mentioned is a third level of theta which is the level of maternal gift and that's why he Lily said Boris butterfly touch heaven will make the brush on Tate it's nice and retainer show them we don't make the brush a butterfly a sham Yuri cetera we don't make the brother but o'clockish and yo got potato why you could have said blessed are You Hashem who has given us the ability to have he gear effort a butterfly plush and blesses a sham who's giving us a eurocent inheritance no we go to the tail you know you quote the retainer what brother do you make the shuttle border facto a sham nice st. I tell you know so it's the idea of my tongue that's where we're at in the mind let's go into the mine now and he elucidates on this third point of my turner it's about the 12 lines from the top he said is blocking the line begins full of hate on the methodical Millea nation arteaga hey on the Movado Cemal a whole nation up theta that is why we make the brother nation i tell you he gives us the theta Hashem gives the theta the title penis Matata because theta is a Meccano gift who could easily make this robber as it says in the marriage slave shot 14 maternally a look there are three gifts that our son gives to the world hot IRA my race the sudden the tail you know the luminaries the Sun the moon will have the Sherman Burroughs and the rain deflation you anime though these three things Chabot later came surely schmuck Vegas car Lucas bets opinion they are three distinct levels in the very core in essence don't mix the three the three aspects of Taylor and explains Marcia of new Hosking are after the whole imitate or the statement that the hazael say prepare yourself to study tater in other words put forth must much diligence to learn later he the no violation people say hot corner Milosh and he clean the class of the careful in addition to the interpretation of the word thought of the word Hosking to mean haha ah prepare yourself coming from the pro circuit always quote he claimed the crowds a la queja prepare yourself towards Hashem batata game and the targum says is Kasia the Cibola often the ricin which means prepare yourself to receive the study of theta so we see that the idea of husking how do you prepare yourself alerted Kato by making a preparation in the oil Zoe so in addition to this meaning sort of avoid the Vidya the dialer in addition to the meaning that you need to put forth lots of effort and work lots of work and effort great amount of work and effort for the study of theater commercial papers not banal llena and as a rebellion the comments on this and this and this mission empathy office he says Hostin October called The Meters place yeah II mean how are you today yourself to Lynn Taylor summer pastures we said what to put forth to learn at the heart of it right to try to understand the shop Yunus says look hosta nonsmoker that meters tables the way of a fair self understanding Taylor's by having good Meadows good behavior promote character today should kill murders are played so that you should you should learn the trade of the Sakia and reach l- ha casinos to the milah to the benefit of casitas it doesn't mean by the way the facilities of the Baal Shem Tov a baby Gator lived many hundreds of years before the Baal Shem Tov right it means a minister facility means kind benevolent character okay so the debate again is saying that you want to succeed in your learning of theta that the effort you put into learning should be successful work on your character that's the bravado Uranus interpretation of that mister empirically others and he continues by saying before she ain't no anusha law why do you have to put forth such effort because this level of theta is not an inheritance to you the a nerd a man can my being in a leadership below debilitated will be deal there is a level of tighter that's an inheritance that comes to the person the light relatively ADEA without effort and and and bothersome it caused by the very fact that you are moisture Myers and you have a bris and you're born to Jewish parents or you had a proper conversion whatever the case the taint is yours that's it you do you don't you do like it don't like it I'm sorry you have a gift it's by the way one of the arguments that I've always suggested me you talk to people or not from yet not religious yet they say what he want from me what he what he want me to be from what he want me to believe this what do you want me to learn to tell you them you said I don't want anything it's what you have you were given that you were given out your new son inheritance so use your inheritance you're not a fool if you give them money as an inheritance boy to your user then you invest it and you hold it and you think and you look at it right well the title is your inheritance so this comes to the person below K that we again but that's one level of theta the second level of theta Atlas inside of your gear that does require your gear effort the he may miss this limit I played a leadership potato now that ever set introduces hear a howl of the concept the mitzvah of learning tater you know we have a mitzvah of learning it's to not to have knowledge you dear potato Valhalla dear Bobby gear doctor your gear comes with effort and this is important because because we all fall into a trap we come to a shear we come to a class we hear a lecture we hear shear and we don't exert effort ourselves to make it be to understand with our own mind in a way it's missing part of the idea because it's missing the idea so and at all those that just read words of Taylor and they don't understand what they're saying you see when you quote to the trader it's it says that your yater the brother even just by reading the words of the tate or listening to the Barclay de right Taylor said itself but that's not the middle of your dear sateda your dear sir theta is specifically a mitzvah that requires understanding you should understand with your sample if you're just a parakeet mimicking what you heard and you don't understand it in that detail you haven't done the Mitzvah that's what we're learning here and how do you come to you do be again Africa you gotta Smiths you got a heart of it you got a toilet the Yas element little cocktail OE that this yogya it it makes a difference to those that hope for it and work for it the east of Isaiah the man the mad I agree merely the hospice oh those those that that are bad iuck they emphasize in the words of the Cohanim of the trader they they benefit from it and they and and it gives them that extra extra mitzvah idea de la havana Omaha City be our trader in order to understand the depths of the trader while today I eight years through your deal come i'ma your guide to you mother see because I'll say York IT boom Excel C so what are the times I'll say if you say I worked so hard and understanding and I didn't figure it out the good mother says borrow out timing don't trust the person sure the printer says oh I just read it and I understand it I'll time and don't trust the person your guide to you my saucy time in the person says I put forth effort and I found the answer time and do believe him because he put a forth effort so by the way that was one of the 12th silk'n that the rebus suggested all children memorize and if it's true for children is true for US adults true too and why did that ever want every child to know that because it should be embedded in the child as the child grows up and continues developing the importance of effort if you work hard you will succeed if you sit back on your loins you have a big zero let's go further but remind me of the item associated the below your gear yes sure love it was that without yogya you'll never come to this for the hey Nisha if someone was very sharp very witty my god should have had you for your day or massive because he's so sharp and witty he understands the comprehends he has a good a good cup as we said good head when we como can exhibit of cloud to make sure who to my Misha who I'm pulling you can't compare the head of a Horus to the head of an uncle so we've introduced now two types of minds one is called a cordis sharp and once called uncle deep since the dead you can't compare the two the sharp guy yes he gets it right away sharp but it because he doesn't have the advantage of Uncas uncle's coming for the word amok depth the deepness he doesn't ultimately know it as strong as good so what this is what he's saying ends at the end of cloud there's no comparison at all between the forest come on Misha who I'm come to the other person who's an uncle who takes everything in a deep way my course of mitosis appears Yakov so now he goes he start here dresses the question right but we but there is a verse that says made of safety healers Yakov it's an inheritance so what's that level of Clara she says the yes Pina McGregor potato there is an additional idea and level of Tina say the previous solution that is a year Lucia and that regarding that you don't need to exert effort it's yours it's yours but guess what just because you inherited a treasure if you don't use your brains and you don't know how to take those funds and it invested you could end up losing it all or it just stays there and it goes on to the next generation because you did not learn how to take the inheritance you got and use it properly and we know so many people who get inheritance of let's say find out of money and they aren't they aren't trained in them investing they ultimately lose their money now some people go to an a financial advisor and you hope that they don't rip you off and all that but the point is even that if you're not on top of your financial adviser and you just trust them with everything you can make some very serious mistakes so in other words this is to separate this is the answer to the question how to reconcile both things there is one aspect of theatre that is a you do show and there's another aspect that's you give and it's very practical this if I gave you the example you go to a seed and you hear it either see a rooster you want to understand that are you you have to reveal this year you have to reveal it and you have to you have to study it and and you have to come up with your own words and to in that shows that you understand it in other words you just mimic what you heard you could be a good parakeet and they're people you have a good good memory but that's it if someone will start questioning you you wouldn't be able to answer them but but you know all this information well that's because you have a good memory so there is the idea of idea of you gear which the episodes earlier that's the midst of your dear cetera the midst the idea of tired of being the Arusha is not the part of the midst of Udyr Udyr is with effort with your gear let's go further the yes Peter Maivia solutions level of you sure the Arusha honey next page top of the 3:48 he believes some courtesy dear cloud there's no effort whatsoever that's one one one kind of deficiency of Jerusalem it's given the Jerusha but it's good for the lazy ones VOCs and more so the whole her urine stream I'll be a traitor him shove it we have a lover if therefore brothers for right all inherent all inherit excuse me all inherit according to the tailor they're all equal all the inheritors the gaim beauty between us I'm a dish so ok he's mentioning here DUP so number one write it down number one a you do sure is without effort inheritance is without your effort number two all inheritors are the same in other words in other words the father the mother can legislate I give him 50 $50 have 125 dollars but as far as the inheritance part you know the same the fact that one person has a big nose or a small nose or a good heads or a good job doesn't make a difference the inheritance inheritance what yeah okay fine I'm not talking about the amount of what each one gets we're talking about the notion of inheritance the idea of rights everyone's the same when it comes to the idea of rights the amount right you said you only very good that a car gets double number three three god that's number three boroughs the gun built a beauty that he bussiness I made a guess what he doesn't have a choice here you don't have a choice you can scream up and down if your father and left you over Yahoo sure you I don't want anything for you I hate you your bed you stole the money you're a goddess ba-ba-ba-ba-ba we had a terrible Asian ship I don't need your inheritance well too bad he left it over for you it's yours you cannot take the money throw it out and there in the ocean you can do whatever you want with it but it's yours it's not totally but he does have Moorish there's no bashira involved inheritance is that clear ok Oklahoma and as the governor says Oh amen explain II banila leaders of among in fo if someone says each plane is a certain person my son he shouldn't inherit together with his brothers lay on the clue she who master I'm Asha Casas potato because he's making a condition that violates trader rule that's the mother in bubble bath sir are you familiar with that commercial and I believe that I'm but the Ramban brings you to that when you make up tonight when you make a what yeah okay so you do sure built a penis on my dish right so the sub so now this ends this ends the the two levels of Taita the the level of Arusha that he explained and the level of your gear and he answered the question how they're not a contradiction now he goes to the third level third level is my ghastly she's a potato you know my tongue the third level of theta is the idea of why the state of my tongue of a gift then I thought no in the Bastille I've read the Vidya a gift is not for the purpose of work and effort the Earth's have it's called kala for Vega if I'm getting something for the work and my effort then what is it you need so scar it's a reward hey left off either in exchange for my work you work you get paid maternal anus suffer and my partner is not sorry it's not a reward so what is this Matunga so the rebus says the como can nevertheless and then the bull beliefs from avoid the cloud you won't get a mite owner if you do no work at all become a very famous cuz I'll you guys should remember this it's very me quote II loved the of it night it was not sure if he hadn't done a pleasure for his soul if he hadn't done something nice well have a yard lay he wouldn't give it to him in other words you don't give gifts to your enemies you don't give gifts to people who are neutral you give gifts to people who you like but it doesn't mean to say that you're giving him the gifts now specifically because he did something for you he did nothing for you now but you have an overall relationship so comes Hanukkah you sent the muhammad to give it comes poor him you something should laugh - why do we send people who else - it says because my plot you're giving you want to be nice you want to show reyes friendship so on my Tomasello a gift on one hand it's it's like in between are you Russa and you give it's that level of theta it's not that I must give it to you I don't must give it to you when you work for someone works for something you must pay right you work for an employer the employer has an obligation to that going to theta so that's called scart that's called payment reward right a you do shell is totally just like we said whether you deserve it or not you inherited it the Matunga is in between if there would be no relationship whatsoever between the two people he wouldn't get the gift he wouldn't give him the gift but because there is an overall relationship in a good positive way he gives him a gift so the level of my plumber is like an intermediary level between Jerusalem and yogya clear Moshe my sir Meyers did you hear me good I want to make sure you understand my share remember when we learn we have to understand it's not just papapapapapap I like a parakeet you have to understand okay later and he says now then he says now the totally between us a nation of a cait of dye to Jamie says when you do when the person gives a gift it's up to the the free will the player of the giver did no say over Kade of diketon how see how close he feels to the person who is giving it to the harder I improve yes he looked in Billy Kincaid of a vast nation I'm I thought no we see that there's a difference in the way the giver gives the gift of commotion it of a militia their episodes we fight see this in actuality the aim that during a mission way cyclically rasullullah it you can't compare some who does a pleasure he makes clay this rock music makes the spirit happy in who is or they should be no you're crazy if it's a stranger or it's a son or a relative or when someone does something nice to me there's a big difference between if it's my son doing it my curve or a stranger did is there Harvey hello that disproves the Levada play the swath Maxima cover that in addition to the very fact that something nice was done for me had a yes killer for das there is my own feeling towards the person the totally the Peter Sunde scene and that does depend on the choice of the giver in other words in a sense you're biased right in other words it's true right we help and we give but most of the times we help forgive those that are our children and close to blessed more than two others that's that's like a its nature in a way you know in other words it's it's because the pleasantry over here is more natural when it's your own child or your own cut off right but when it comes to a stranger will give them but not not with the same in the same way so we see from all this that the idea of giving a gift of a Matunga it is has been it's been is dependent upon freed the free will of the individual the giver and now he sums it up then Cain gave on my Vegas a low so therefore these three levels came Caloocan but exiting youngnam they're very different getting me in the very essence that totally different three ways of an aspects of play de hollywood up the body shine any recaps the bodies in the first one who wrapped by the way the Voskhod it comes only through work and reward payment effort for your work for sanely the second one being and are you sure that regarding the inheritance she bore shall a big year it comes without effort number two all the Hawaiian see me suffer and all the inheritors are equal and three built a machinist elitist without the choice of Hira given to the - vastly she and the third aspect of Tara's maternal a gift the truly above hallucination that is dependent on the Peter of the giver and this reminds me will conclude with this of nice story of the phrase of the Bleak phrase of the bleeding was a very big topic and in the bleedin and the phrase of Lublin had a certain custom that when people came to ask him for sadaqa and it was always muscle of him coming to the bleeding he he gave everyone but when a relative came he gave them more don't ask me why and how and is that you know the ultimate way of giving sadaqa that's that's another discussion and we could argue it either way but that's not the point I just want to play this story the punchline so so uh he came into the basement dish and he goes over to the bed and he had heard that the face of the bleeding will give him more to Dhaka if he lets the place and know that he's a relative of his show Malaysia how are you what's your name what are you doing and the schmooze and have a drink so he says the masuleh sets to the to the phrase of the Rebbe says rather you know I'm a relative of yours he looks up he says really I've never seen you before you're a relative of mine he says yeah what you're cousins cousins cousins aunts Bubba's cat somehow was you know I'm a seven cousin he says wow wow wow wow wow so the laser puts his head into his pocket he takes out and the person's expecting now an amount that's more than what he usually gives that the only gift is really relatives and he gives me the same amount and and he looks at the fisa this is an effort but we're relatives they never said they'd ever said to him and I be eight when I what I mean relatives I need my very close relatives you know because whatever you know it's a different that's a different thing but you know a seventh cause he threw through the world through a cat and a dog and and and we have and we ate and has rain together at the table doesn't make you my relative come on get over it and the person goes away disappointed well before he leaves Lube lean to the next place he has the talent in her like I just told you in Warsaw and Lublin Poland it's 3:30 already it's already getting back she runs into the shoe tada them in her and the phrases the everything also with Dominion so amid lachemann s ray oh and and the laser I'm sorry the phrase of Davin for the unlit so he starts small nursery you know the story right he starts small nest rate and it says borrow jato Russian McCain the little kerosene ok Avraham the God of Abraham and the cake it's called for the K Yaakov and the guy from the back of the shoe screams out Iceman I cutters which means oh we're related to uh from intricate Yakov oh really that's me and the K of Rome but if my god jaco's worth of Rome's mine yeah I love you see Yakov Iseman I cut off and he said he was saying to the face of the plane if I run you through Yaakov are our relatives that you're surely my relatives F this one that's right he gave him more money so so what we're talking about you know relatives and you should know this is it's so true it's so true because I'll tell you my father when he came from marriages row he came penniless because on the boat I think I told you once they so might say that my grandfather gave him money they stole his money and if not forget so Berger the famous sacre-coeur said who saw this lavalla to buckler diverting and learning he was so impressed he gave him some money and he gave him a coca-cola and he said that he has one request that when it comes to Brooklyn he says go see the sock forever which he didn't go but he happened to be he worked in the sacrum at Mozza bakery and Williamsburg in the sapphir ever walked in so he fulfills the condition of Kessel burger but but then like my father came was penniless right that he's trying to start a life so he had all of our relatives most of our relatives cept my grandfather came to Canada the thousand families very big in Canada so he went up to Canada and the same thing happened all of a sudden he goes to this rail of that relative and he says I need help I have nothing I have nothing you know and they weren't so forthcoming because who are you Oh our grandfathers and great-grandfather's were brothers Romania one hundred and fifty years ago no so big deal so this story is not just a bubble mindset it's very real in daily life and we have to remember I think the punch life in the place the bling is that every year relative hi the place that had another another Mahalo I don't understand the frankly whenever I say the story I'm kind of I I don't understand it it's a good story I want hand but I don't understand that then especially such exotic why he had that there must have been some spiritual reason that I don't know about and it's not my business but but I was trained and we were trained that every single year does you're cut off and that you should look at every year like he's your own brother and sister have a good day everyone's Igesund it's not horrible