Practical Chasidus w Rabbi Chaim Dalfin - Maamar Choviv 1940 #4

page 275 my modem will cut them with the previous 11 chapter gimel 3 and we learned yesterday the that the the the names there are four names remember how a human being is quote Adam East gather and NH and the previous 11 put other monition one category representing more of the intelligence of the character which is more on the sophisticated side versus gathering is represent the lower parts of man and the lower parts of behavior and inter and weak intelligence and their ever said that however other Domitian he began to mindler the bishop impurity of his father mother should never have been sellin the love of this man was created in the image of a Shem and then the second Clause of the mission is cough even yourself said Nikola but on the mahkum beloved are you eatin who I call the children of a shell and although the literal meaning of the verse of the Mishnah is that hobby father refers to any human being including the Gentile agree and believe in yourself refers to Eden the previous that I've been here the Minor says another interpretation that covers other refers to a Jew too but what aspect of the Jew the human rational intellectual soul or drive which is which is which represents humanity but so that's why it's called hub if other because that's something that a non Jew borough phosphor has an F it's our cities and we introduced the concept about not only inefficient bodies and unofficially kids which were very familiar from Tanya a local tailor and the different writings of the Bible should obey Him he introduced the nefesh a sickness and we discussed at length and very assuring the importance of methods of syphilis and that's where Free Will exists and that's where were you say the person who is the person so you'll say oh the non-jew woodson f tu sabes and the jew is now officially kiss that's not true that's not true why though is that not true because the person when you talk about the person a person must have free will otherwise there's no person if you don't have free will there's no person right there's an animal an animal doesn't have free will it's instinct sure it's pre-programmed a person has free will so if you talk about free will the person has to be unbiased parathe neutral neutral now they look Natalie kiss and not Bahamas so if you tell me that a non Jew is Bahamas and a Jewish ello kiss so who is the person so you strip so therefore City says you're right the person is the necessities and that's power that's in between that can go either direction do you take your safe hole and use it for Hashem or do you take your cycle and use it for bahama let's continue now chapter 3 yeah very question but there are certain animals we know that they have faithful like you know the monkeys and but we learned yet the river the river address the - but it's not secure safe we'll say huh Haneke no it's not it's maybe it's a it's a required adopted pre-programmed saiful it's there to justify the behavior to begin with it's created that way it's not pure safe where you can make a real objective decision impossible and the proof is there the proof is when when when an animal sees you know a fire it it can have hope the cycle of the world and it either runs away or or if it's attracted it run it it runs - it would say well you wouldn't run into a fire but the answer is that the meter the meter is instinctual and instinctual dominates over anything else so this proves to us that it's a film is not authentic but not of course you know you said the the monkey the camera says we learn you know things about sneers from from the mother from Anton and and and other issues other good behavior and meters from Adams that's at the murder so of course it's all true but it doesn't mean that it's safe hope it's not pure sale we're talking about pure unadulterated seho which is objective and it could make a real decision which is the which is which expresses freewill an animal doesn't have that an animal does not have that have continued on the Murphy's am the father of them calm official series rabbit now asks on his own self this idea that Javed other the first section of the mission refers to the necessities and the second section of Aviva stroke we have officially keys in the Lama Magnum father for them the Habibi is run so he says why does the Mishnah place it in that order first coffee for them and then have even Israel the not you would think the nefesh ah hello kiss is superior to the nether shall simply since godliness within the Jew so shouldn't that be placed first in the mister should have said have even yes royal who are called children to touch them and then love other this is his question in you know the idea is why did with the Domitian ur place it in the order that it did he makes Eve it says and the altar never brings this to this verse in chapter 2 and Tonya when he discusses the methods of the case it says only summaries a near CC Hashem says and souls plural not so as so you L but sou LS some ways I need a CC I have made the plurals represents you ain't staying the forces these are two souls unofficial bodies one is the animals soul animal Drive and number two behind officially kids the godly soul Shane half of him the eczema Xhosa they are contrary to the very essence of each other so officially key is eco recycle okay what what aspect what tool does the net fish of the kids used primarily to express and experience its godliness sagal and I want you to make the mistake here and think that the necessary kiss is sable that's wrong we just said it's not right because we have three Bahamas hello Kelly kiss and in the middle what syphilis so the nefesh allah kiss is ever goose but what to doesn't use to implement its Ilocos primarily safely okay is that clear to you is the clear or you need me to explain more okay ahaha and right away the Ripper addresses what we're thinking about the rhetorical point become say yes by me discounting and although the necessary kiss also has a set of character a set of me please I will who sickly the eczema Hussein here to yummy he says but then the never Shelley kiss is say ho the XML who say in its very core the cool and instrument that the net facilities uses is saiful that is primary to its operation whereas neither is for the necessary kiss is secondary now now here too I have to explain we don't mean to say that you could be godly and not be a mensch it's not what we're saying right because what are we saying the morning low Lemieux hey Adam Jeremiah what's the famous vert first you need to be another a mensch and only afterwards a god-fearing person now of course there's the interpretation that how do you become a real Mensch through being a god-fearing person but simply speaking mental if tight decency precedes everything else okay the same is true for the issues that we we grapple with today with mental health issues and I've been approached you know types of parents and they say hey my son my daughter is not putting on tefillin is not being sneers is not keeping Shabbos and they're also of using their body that taking drugs or they're drinking alcohol what should they do first put on filling or stop abusing their body you should stop up using their body why because obviously that there's an issue with mental health and we need to take them back on track to be healthy mentally once they'll be healthy mentally shortly thereafter there will be a reconnection to spirituality trailer mitzvahs I'm not saying that what kind of jump to put on there tilling or put on long dresses I'm not saying that but there will be a an openness and a willingness to listen more so of course being a godly person requires being a mesh if you're not a mention you're real nasty your whole godliness is worth as we say yeah there's a fight you know what if I guess we used to go like that a fight not not laughter not meaning the you know the vulgar a fight was a sign of a fight a fig your worth of thing it worth nothing all of your casitas and all of you muster and all you can Maura and all your chuckling and all its guns it's nothing because you're not a decent person become a mensch but they're ever here say something else you know we're not talking about that that's basic Judaism basic Torah 101 we learned Sidis it's not a book of Moosa okay I've said this and I have to say it over and over this isn't just telling you to behave better and to be you know more clean that's in Silesia Sheridan and that's others for overall Mooser deals with those is citizen about shem tov came to brick to talk about divinity if someone asks you in one line of rabbi emanuel Shafa writes it in his book what is the siddhis so he says bacillus is the study of divinity now what I mean Kimura is divine Musa is divine Rambam is divine Orihime is divine and it is divine it's data of course what we're talking about the application and method and methodology and instrument that you use to learn Torah to experience that divine the practice of each particular field of learning has another style and method to learn to learn Tara and that is what classifies it Musa has its particular approach to tailor the Baal Shem Tov had his method and he and he and that that was the finish of the Baal Shem Tov that there is within Torah a method called divinity and to study divinity and to feel divinity so the Baal Shem Tov taught divinity more through the a versus royal and the simpler and you know those type of more ethical applications the ballot on Adele forever he came and he introduced to that the intellectual component to the percent of study of divinity so when you talk about a study of divinity we're not talking about you know take the garbage out because be a mensch you know or clean up after yourself or don't hit your children everything else you know that you don't need considers for that what the class it has come but what does it want look at the percent of world he wanted you to be able to say I have a relationship with the divine I hear the divine I feel the divine and hopefully I'm a little bit of the divine that's a whole different experience so what did ever sense why am I saying this because that ever says here that the nefesh really kids don't think the net for show that kids doesn't express itself in me days of course it does and it needs to but that's not it's a primary applicant of operation its primary mode is sable so you're here so you have a very interesting thing here listen I want to make one make sure you understand we have a drive that's hello kiss that's godly birth you follow its godly and nevertheless it requires it it's necessary to experience that godliness within you safely and if you don't use your seho and the al-khattab assessor radiant Tanya everyone has my Maya pickup cadre which means brains in their head there's no such a thing that a person doesn't have brains doesn't have intellect some are stronger some a weaker but everyone has seho so down so what we're learning here is that the necessarily get the only way to to to access shouldn't say only way the normal way to access the nefesh early kids is through safely why did I change the only way to be to the ordinary the regular way because we do find that a person can have a real divine experience and he skips Salem the story I avoid - always told you that you know the guy is escaping from Las Vegas from you know from some guy who thought that he stole his girlfriend or something like that and he wants to kill him and and he and it's 2:00 in the morning and he so he comes into LA I'm a Brea Avenue in Los Angeles and he sees a she's a Russian Habad Russians rule and he any so he decides I'm but he knew that he's a Jew that's all he knew when I'm synagogues surely new so he he goes in and rabbi Naftali are stolen the Shriya firstly are four Russian Jews probably in America he went out he came out to California in 1971 or so or 72 anyway he was there so he says like yeah what are you doing here at this hour he says it does him you know I'm scared for my life and he says you're Jewish says yes so he says okay come with me and it brings him to us I was there this must have been 1980 81 or so he brings him to the yeshiva it was a Thursday night when we're up all night learning of a bringing and he says guys make him into a Jew and we did for a while he sat in you she'd be learned that no what happened to him but that's a person falls he falls out of nowhere he comes into you know those are those are divine experiences that you cannot explain and you don't see safe hole and even there you see some saiful he was escaping for his life so he took shelter in the shul that's a little say he used this a hole right he used his logic but we need to say that then the shuttle Endeavour between they're going to you know to the sheep and it's like you know that's a divine experience and people have that and people have it and we can have it and we do have it once in a while hopefully more often than not where there's something that overtakes us and it's really uncharacteristic of who we are and yet we experience it but what we're talking about generally speaking is there is a se hole that the nefesh of the kiss uses to access its divinity just like I told you several shiron ago that the nefesh obamas uses cycle to justify it I think I thought it emotion - that the initially famous uses logic to justify its animalistic tendencies and indulgences so too does the necessary kiss use logic and rationale and say who to justify its divinity it's like a student says father and mother I want to go learn in this yeshiva but I want to go tear at your throat or I want to go to India say like what do you want if I want to find God there you want to find God there okay but but you're almost out of the blue yes I need I need I needed that I need that break I need that experience I I'm not getting it here that's a rationale that the son of the daughter came to it might not be what the parents want but it's what what what what he came to so that's the justification for the divinity if it's a divine experience that the son or daughter uses let's continue the Hamidah is hey flameless are safe and the rebus says the meters are the completion of Satan the perfection of Safehold right again what we said earlier where we you see that say hold that the sale that you're using is proper in behavior and character and if it's not experienced in neither's it shows there's a whole there is something lacking in the safety the high no the eggs a slave must have mentioned it's not the perfection the completion of my friend of intellect the flame is due by making knives like they have made a shara my son this slimmest of my fin happens through the meter said emotion give me a second I want to make sure the garbage my hair excuse me takes the items one second please no need to wear did you see where did you see that about George Soros on this curious okay thank you so what he says now is like this look at the language the sleigh masu this sleigh was late shut up flameless in the money thing not sell you they have neither civilization there is a distance between my frenemy dose as much as we say that intellect reads to me those right but there are two separate worlds like I told you yesterday that professors absent-minded he's in a different world so for him wearing short pants that you tell him the floods over it doesn't register his understanding of parents and a flood and being immense is a mathematical equation he's a different different he's elsewhere someone who is very much faster ina minuta exactly to the minute why did you stop thousand exactly except at ten o'clock world 9:30 why did you start at 9:30 one he has such people as jewels most Moshe to tell you they go crazy if it's not 9:30 it's 9:30 and five seconds trust that I am them and looking right that's not only yet you see that it definitely to get to trade but I don't know if you you know today we have to be careful everything's racist at you but they say you have to trade I'm a racist but anyway it it's you know the personality calm OCD without whatever you want so the meat meters meters is in another world so you have my friend and you have meters Seungho and M and meters intellect and character and behavior and really they're two different worlds and that's why sometimes when we talk to someone with using say hole they don't get us you know why cuz they're in the meadows mold and vice versa sometimes someone is in the meadows mode and you're in the sacral mode again there's a generation gap and a breakdown so the question is now how do I bring them together says that every year it's through what we call me dice Sheva Mason Hillel did you ever have that though that idea and considers me those seven boys and what does that mean it means that was in my vision there is the notion of a meter for example a meter in practicality okay thank you in practicality amoeba is a behavior before the behavior there is the idea of the behavior so for example let's take a Cantillon but without malice sense tear us hello Kim Lee Toth the closeness of a sham leave for me Ford of it Toth is good I want to be close to you since considers we have here three ideas listen to this there is ello Kim God there is Kiev our seller Kim closest to God that's a second concept and I'm gonna explain a moment and then we have the closest of a goddess Lee for me good there is the idea of under stuff relate of thinking of about God and just God nothing else the idea which has stripped from any feelings whatsoever God I have then there is in your mind you go to the next step God is either close or distant mm Allah says close so is that yet a bit of feeling in the heart no if a notion I use the word notion it's the notion of closeness as it is within intellect it's the intellectual intellectual application within the mind not within the heart of closeness then cups then come step three Lee oh this third step Lee that's already in your heart I want to be close to a shell and if you think that this is some you know intellectual jargon it's very real every one of us goes through these three steps can't go through it in our lives we understand something and we look at it just as purely intellectual I'm not moved emotionally at all even in my mind that I would like to do this in other words I would like to do it no you don't yet have the feeling I would like to do it then there is not the feeling the understanding then there is the understanding not only do you understand this I would like to do something with it that's in this case of the Buddha mellow I'd like to be close to people meet each other and I use the word meet parenthetically I'm still old-fashioned I don't like the word dating I think it has a very secular connotation in Hebrew we say a padishah in English I use the word meet two souls meet each other two souls don't they each other so tuning summits meet each other a male and a female the first thing they they talk to each other they want to hear you know what are your what what are you about what am I about it's the intellect it's like you know they come back from that meeting and I've had with my own daughters you know I ask them they say tah it's only our first they use the word date hits on our first date it's all me our first meeting the second time it's on our second meeting what do you want just you know I'm just finding out about the person then comes the second then comes the second stage where it moves from just an informational experience I eat an intellectual experience to an emotional experience within the intellect I II I'd like to get to know you better why because I heard things that I like that I understand that might be very good for me and for you and possibly we can make a life together but if that's not enough because if it remains at that stage we don't have an actual hookup the third and final stages it's good for me and I don't mean me in a narcissistic way I need to say it's what I Shem wants that this should that we should build a home together it becomes emotional becomes in the kiss kiss it becomes part of the emotions so that ever says here that ever says here that how is it that you get the Satan the muffin - to identify with with Amita it begins by having the notion of an immediate the notion of an emotion the notion of an emotion in the brain in the head this is a good idea this is a bad idea I don't feel yet why it's bad how it's bad especially enough for me but I know it doesn't it doesn't feel right or it feels give out the inion let's look into the moment now the Indian Army days so if this is the middle said emotion now what about the leaders themselves the Indian Army those who Marcia hey my slim assume I am taster submission so these middles within the mission they complete from anthos comes from the word MS you see Aleph mem tuff is the root word of Bianco's they make a mess that's amazing how do you know whether what you're thinking about and what you intellectualize the battle what you understand is ms maybe it's false how do you know samus the answer is you need the meters within the my friend to approve of your intellect be amiss or false so it's over there in the middle within the my friend that determines whether what you understood is a lie true or false good or bad right just go back to the example if you just you hear the two people meet and they talk and they understand but there is no there is no sensation it was an intellect that I'd like more of this for it like less of this then there's something lacking in the company in the Commerce in in the authenticity and in the in your understanding whether you understand correctly or guess what you're a wannabe meaning to say you've convinced yourself this is the way it is and you're totally wrong the misguided and this is a dissipation this is a very big issue of not just in in in you know seduction but in business employer employer and in every aspect of life there is that question is my understanding right or is my understanding totally wrong first of all we know how hard it is to face the truth and say the way I understood this I'm wrong imagine you 45 years old or 35 or 65 and you realize something that I thought about all these years I was right I was dead wrong excuse the expression I was wrong it said so it's a it's a it's a very hard pill to swallow but but but but but but we know that healthy therapy you know being a healthy person is facing up to issues regardless of your age and making a change that's why the governor says that the economic guy until his last day on earth did he trust himself was shot in the governor he didn't know who he was he was exotic remember the Yeats of her is so strong like I told you yesterday to be 94 and 95 and he's pulling at you like you're a teenager and the same was true with with Hashem the the seho the clipper the secularism can creep into you at any moment at any moment and and we see it today we have another I'm talking about the several years ago another phenomenon where people have been through for 20 34 years over sudden are taking hiatus and backing out and chilling out what's going on but because we she is not here yet that's why you're not a Jew because you never passed away that's why you're not huset if if you believed in having a full beard if that was your belief what does it have to do with that ever be but physically alive or not what does one have to do the other but what is what is what is believing in Hashem until you have to do the fact that the shift that Hashem is not sent me she kept in a revealed way send them an email if that's not good enough send them a fax if that's not good enough said them an email Phenix like what's your what's your problem what what you know but we're finding that the people are just dropping out and if they're not dropping out completely they're chilling out there's a whole movement of chilling out what's this chill what I'm saying is if you always were a chiller your children no problem but if you were not a chiller and all of a sudden you because you know it didn't go my way so I'm going to the highway and I'm chilling out that shows that the way you understood it was really really narcissistic your whole you know Scott was narcissistic and and a real and and someone who's under the shed who wants to be a servant of God is able to face that and not be despondent and depressed but to pick himself up by his loins take a good look how him give a good dance get together with some chevre cry your heart out and say go beyond okay I made a mistake why should I pay the sex and the garages has played the villain bush my shadow Bane they'll admit it and he wasn't embarrassed and you can't admit that you made a mistake that's the beauty of life it's the beauty is that every day is a new a new experience including renewing yourself renewing yourself take a look at yourself yes some of you had the points you want to make yes hello yeah I said I said that you didn't hear me I said that the word my optos the Ruth is endless look at the Aleph mem puffs right in the middle of the word yes [Music] please you're wrong or admitting something the Icicle commander writes that his Rebbe was was see her should see the choice did the cheeseburgers and the kumara came to him our certain point and had said that he had learned deaf Jewish night not to learn mission IIST and yet it goes with all these Kabbalistic reasons and there's each other said I've never heard like that and so at the twenty thirty years later the Xena never comes to me and says you were right you were right near the admitted so so just right right right right no no no even even though even such a sad they could say you're right okay Yanni you want to say something yeah because you brought up you said about seduce women and and people meeting and going out for marriage shouldn't it be a nephesh not not necessary in ephesus Italy's decision should it be a nephesh a little kiss decision well I'm getting pretty looking for your soul mate right right how you you're right but weird when we say Neff it's a syphilis we mean that the necklace of syphilis of the Jews should be impacted by the necessarily kiss so that intellectually - one can experience that divine truth so in the it's not that you're hunting right now I'm choosing her him because it adds up he has a great job huh I'm gonna have a partner I'm gonna be taking care of she looks great I'm gonna have my attraction needs those are all those are intellectual reasons and maybe good ones but as you say that's not the ultimate of the Jewish experience of two people getting together at the end of the day there has to be V what the neshamah like you said but initially there needs to be some of these other issues the rabbit told it to me the rebel wrote told us to me when I was going out I said you know I never I never met a girl before and you know I said it feels it feels good but I feel good with my might have a room that's what I wrote to the rebus like so the river answered me mouth she will his anger continue interested yourself which basically meant the way we shall see them take such an answer is you should work towards make making the and you'll go out again and again you you you'll shift from just being in a comfort zone with your friends to being with a woman you know and he didn't mean having heart palpitations you know poundings health of love and all that that's not what he meant but he meant that you there won't be a difference you're not just sitting with her with a guy learning to my mother a piece of Gomorrah you know he's sitting with someone's a potential wife for you you know a mother so it's so I'm just saying but you need that tool that's a yoga you can't you can't say well you know I didn't experience with her the divine what does it say that's if ken he brought her home and then he loved her right only after he brought her home that means he married her without having the value vo that he loved her that means he does not have the value the air at the time when he married her that's my argument to all those that say if I don't feel the love at the I didn't I shouldn't marry it's not what the tailor says you want to follow what the tailor says in its pure form it says he brought her home which means he married her and only afterwards he loved her the real love is created after at the same time to be a cold fish and have no feelings you shouldn't go that in that direction that's you know that's that's not good okay let me just finish one line and then that's it Tim my man as the saying goes the ain't wholesome cobalamin so yeah there is no type you can't be a real farm unless you have the Messiah and you have the test but well less you're tested and you have this experience you're not a real couple because it's all lip service but when you're tested then then and you and you pass the test then you're in a position of building of being a real spokesman and a real hustle the first must say I'm the Loyalists suck and double betrayal by promise me dice upon the gossip the prisons customer stands for him is applicable to him to correct anything in actuality and improvement of meadows and and behavior will stop here so the last thing that ever was saying is that as much as we say that there's the leadership emotion as we elaborated on then there is the reciprocal that the same hole a healthy seho guides a person in improving their Midler's so this is the his response through the idea of of what of the nefesh has syphilis requiring needles to implement its sample and this ended and the mythos and and the seho requires the leaders to show that the seho is in line with hashem and and and correct will continue the thought tomorrow have a great day everyone's ID isn't