Practical Chasidus w Rabbi Chaim Dalfin - Maamar B'Sha Shekdimu 1949 #2

I'm a philosophic demo from 1949 it's written to 1949 the heading is 1949 where the bottom of the page the second line from the bottom the last four words will come okay who about Thomas nice Alicia I'll just briefly recap we he we learned the hazael said that when the even preface not said before in this map the angels came and the crown the year there were two crowns one for NASA one Phoenicia the rebus question is from the first part of the fossil it implies that the crown the crowns were given for the preface inc for the fact that they were able and willing to preface we will do before we will understand and the last Clause of the hosel implies that independent of their you know courageous act of professing NASA if on this map they got a crown for NASA and this man even if they would have not prefaced that's the implication so he says it seems like a contradiction and then he also said and if it if indeed the crown is for the preface Singh of NASA before this rod that should have gotten one crown it's one issue why to so those were his two questions at the beginning say and to understand this he starts explaining what's the whole idea of NASA Venetia and he says that the that there's a concept called a cabal of soil accepting the yoke everyone has heard of that knows about it and it's a real it's a real important but yet you know it takes a lot of work and he explains that the the would the kabbalah circle is the khloe's it's the overall commitment before you go into the details the details are already as he brings the example from SMAW and VII and familiar volumes for Maya the hosel say the Mario Brothers is caballes mitzvahs the details this that not me but its mother however Hofstra is about the cloud acceptance of a sense Maya's relish and okay now share my food without knowing how that plays itself out so the Rebbe that's where we're at now and he also said that the Baja Alice doesn't enumerate when he enumerates all the 613 mitzvot so you know you can actually read them and actually in pickin write the ticket Leigh Lewis we we enumerate though I think we enumerate all the mitzvahs it's either that knows her Shanna raba by the way since we speak excuse me speaking about ticking a person should endeavor to say it in Hebrew or English and if you can't and you could say it through the two days there's too much to say it all at one time say an hour to one time and say an hour to another time and I'm saying and even if you have to go after to us but it's important within the seven days of course the house Lama did with he brought the car bonus you have seven days from the the this aluminum of flue is to say tick and what Babbage knows that you know only Lubavitch but the Shabbat was very the Rebbe in a shop was very particular about that and it says that when he traveled after Lewis he was say tikani because he said it I think both nights we say only one night so the point is that every one of you should say ticking and this pen and and you know the late Fox learned the night and and of course we should also learn after we finish so before ticking but it's a short night usually three four o'clock you're ready can you go to the mikveh or go to sleep whatever so you know by the time you finish in America for sure it's an hour before but whatever it's not too a long night so by the time you sit down and just a piece of advice said if the show is open if your feels not open by then but if it's opens better to go to the shul to say tikki because in the house you fall asleep on the couch so first of all it doesn't say it anywhere it doesn't say it anywhere I'm sure that were great robotics both an American I just rode a vendetta nades I'm convinced but but the overall idea is a tavern should be calm and thoughtful and and meditative and just to rush one two three is it's like it's not it's not diving if you just you know so it's better to go to sleep for three four or five hours three four hours a few hours again you can go to sleep as early I think like four o'clock 4 to 4:30 and if you get up and you get up a to 8:30 you get four hours of sleep you say you still make smile you know and you go to shul yeah that's the idea but it's not written the only anywhere it's not written and in demand of them so if a person knows that if they lay down to sleep they're not gonna get up to ten eleven and maybe miss Saprissa that they should do it in the morning you understand I mean but if you have a choice then we go that route and and it's not you've seen the community some jewels it's not a bad thing you know some shoes go this way some people do it this way whatever you do is is kosher but let's go back the more important thing is to to say the ticket and I was saying that the lid Fox they learn or they learn at night and they don't say ticket Hasidim and far them say ticking so um you know do what you you know what your mini gives but if you do so you know if it's difficult sometimes so I'm very I fall asleep at night I have like my eye shut down I can you know not to quit just I fall asleep so what I do is I get it you know I get it very early and I finish ticking in the morning and I I get up usually at 4:00 4:30 for 4:30 and I go to the McRib and then I finish ticking because supposed according to cabal he's supposed to go to the mcfadden at dawn show us not because that's their moment that was caballes a traitor and the saying he was the best thing is to get up all night and and he you see if you could do it you should do that if you can't do it even if you sleep maybe try to get up early go to the mixer if you'd and if the mixers are open okay let's go to the minor polka maintain the bottom of 3/16 so I'm saying the Battle of the Davis does not enumerate the midst of an atheist emilich FIA Michelle your God as one of the 613 mitzvahs other I think the Rambam does the other other so number eight the midst of Du Bois he doesn't why cuz his argument is Hillel it's a mitzvah close it's a general Mitzvah a mitzvah that's enumerators put on trail and build a soccer get married don't do this thing don't do that soon right that transgression it's a prat it's a detail so that I enumerate but I don't know myrrh eight a generality so his argument is that it's not it that's why he doesn't enumerate it and Moshe what does he say he says but what gives us the clayey to do the 613 details it's a nice yes Ramallah Kevlar the overall acceptance that I am God to God and that's what he calls a mitzvah clothes so the pre the Cadabra here brings that as a support to his idea of understanding how important couple of sailors now let's continue come again so to who about demas nozzle Elisha is regarding the matter of pressing we shall act NASA Lanisha before we shall understand the niche Mahabharata mitzvahs this man deals with the details the patroness ma what is this rumor is type of 3:17 who I'll Dennis Mara okay we say listen hero is loose - know what I mean here just over here with your ears more so they be sure who has served if I have honor I'll get they are Cephas Vicki pizza classes Sh'ma has three men meat meanings listen to this yo usin mommy's here mommy's understand if money is gathered three meanings based on the huncles I look at them based on them cooking so here he brings the touch he connects the two or the three here by understanding and gathering all your soul powers all of yourself gather it together while you recite smile think about it understand it and then and then you will really hear it did you ever hear someone explain smile that way that's what it says in considers Chabad again Sh'ma means here listen from a means understand and smile means gathered I see far less off so about to see the says they're all connected when you gather all of your soul powers your avid your love your guru your recommen all of the talents all of you you gather it together in one place and then you understand it yoni and you focus on it that you think about it through meditation through sport then smile you really hear it and that's why as a parenthetical note in Lubavitch they were Hassidim because sitting about from my yard people who are doing a saw and others when they said smile there was a date they paused for a long time 10-15 minutes a half an hour they were they went into meditation it's not just you know my you saw a sermon okay I'll share my frog Gong goodbye next or the yet assess my desertion okay I said I cook faster ina minuta took me one minute and that's also good but that's not the smiles about these bonuses the real smarts about this bundle this is the three things coming together that's a lot of work that's got a gather all yourself we're out my I'm scattered I'm here when I eat I'm here when I work I'm there when I learn we're at my you got to bring it all together and then when you bring it together you have to understand what am i bringing together and once you bring it together then and you understand that then you hear it so two whole different smile and this takes a lot of my mind work so the rector says here this one line type of 317 two who has survived under my means the comprehension and understanding of the idea a legacy faced with keep a circus through gathering and and and bringing together the cleavers making a cannabis misma says that ever just as this is true for smile so it's true for what Felicia we shall listen said yacht early before not sorry it means you show you should incline your heart and your soul wish may our Hawks is to listen to pay attention evil Maharajah million abruptly Exodus how and worth is God's divine will in his detailed decrease listen in other words my son of Shem says we bicker Halen what is behind visiting the sick is it just a good act and a proper ethical act of visiting someone was not well for that you don't need to Taylor listen and pay attention to the deeper message within each Mitzvah or yell me when you put on till in the morning brought down a circle Nora just the place of her modest ideas with Shah bait however mother with Shah babe she boot means up a mortgage right to mortgage your heart and your mind every one of us knows who and when we our mortgage were committed until we pay that mortgage the bank owns the house or the apartment we shall bathe Halevi Amaya you're live your heart then Yemaya is mortgaged to assume he owns it I don't own it but it's my heart that it's my brain ha ha he have it all wrong it's his and he loaned it to you and if you do what you're supposed to it becomes yours you know what I'm saying spiritually speaking continue so that's what the neighbor says this is something you have to be uses the words say yatta liebelei did not say 'la Hoxie there is worse Maya to listen Halil hula Hawk shift to pay attention how many times do we hear something but we're not touch ova we're not paying attention so that ever says misma implies not only that they understood they're learning not only did they said listen I said you want us to keep Travis NASA for keeping Shabbos then they said let's understand Shabbos this my they learned about Shabbos here did ever say the family they learned about Shabbos they pay attention to Shabbos that's much more than just learning about Travis and understanding shoppers it's getting it you know focusing hot Chava that's what he adds over here and the same is true for all mitzvahs and all he calls them visitors all the trees were shed the behold mr. Mitzvah he products an alien each Mitzvah is a detail of God's will but who blesses leaves above that need to receive that has come down specifically in a measured way where some Kostov can such a way four corners of killing and not five exactly two black strap straps and not green otherwise you're not putting on chillin you're not you're doing something that makes you feel good but you're not doing his will said the in NASA to Theodore sueschubert Mitzvah zoo if we do they and the will as Hashem planted them in this Mitzvah cause honey may rupture the element mitzvah he then a Shem illuminates that mitzvah very important point here fellas many people many people get excited about mitzvahs and do and right and all of a sudden they add a little twist to the right and a twist to the left and all of a sudden it's not the Mitzvah in its pure form there's horns to the mitzvah and fringes to the hitter and and all kinds of things to the mixture that's what God is Malin Bat Mitzvah let's face it Vevey sigma Parkin infamous Devoran donate and don't detract you want you want to do other things to enhance yourself and and and and no problem but keep it clear know what the midst is and know what the your only thing is so I'm not saying there's no room for individual expressing now let me just finish but we have to be careful to know what is the Mitzvah and the ruts in a sham you see the language here in the mind where it is only there when you do the Mitzvah misra means the commander's commandment not your commandment not my commandment my commandment doesn't throw it down the rocks not share it grows down a great feeling I don't want to go into it but in 1960s with Clinton literacy with LSD so there were there were people not just one person there were people who started to say that let's take LSD can get a higher this great experience where you you know and if like you could meditate and you couldn't and that ever said that ever wrote about this you know there's a letter from than ever but LSD and their ever writes it's not the data factor you know it's it's interesting that ever did not say and I don't know about this field may pepperhill knows a lot more infamous difference knowledge you know and studies it could be you could you could reach a certain tremendous experience be passively but it's not that asafetida you see so if it's not that if I Taylor don't turn it into tater say it's my thing I need it no problem because there were those that were suggesting to the river to take LSD for babbling and learning yet you laughing you know this was there was a different time you know so that ever said it's not that if society that that's the point it the Ruksana sham is only in that effect area that that's something we have to always remember and you know one more point I know you guys want to comment and I left you in a moment so there were people over you know last 100 years not just in America and not just met you sir oh but also you know elsewhere that that had a great ideas and and but at the end of the day didn't go anywhere be quite because it wasn't the data fashion yes it was something that turned on people and it spoke to people and that's all very good but that's not covet that doesn't set the holy agenda give me a second my phone I'm a Facebook here and the phone over here needs to be recharged give me a second to get the plug please okay [Music] okay let's let's go one by one Yoda you wanted to say something that my son Daniel oh go ahead okay I'll give you a it's a fair question it's a fair question but you know today there's a new thing called kiddush clubs it's not new but it's the come very popular then there's something else called Danish muscles you know about Danish mushes I don't know if it's in the lipstick world or the achievers world or the Carlebach world that's before before okay so here they call it pretty Shabbos chill and I heard of it in in the in America as bailiffs moshus what is that that before a couple before Friday before Shabbos he cut the shul a little early or between the my opinion and take a few shots of an uncle and then okay so that is that that I'm not even aware of actually I am aware of it from the 1980s in Marin County I told you I had Frenchie lives there to stroll and today but she in a group you know Coppa they they smoke up before couple of shoppers anyway so now this is there something wrong how logically to kind of have left the hylians before couple of Shabbos know but it's not it's not that effect either so you know my my daughter had and my daughter Sunderland Tel Aviv they have that for those that want then I see I've been there so I'm sitting on my sitter and they go over and their day they're saying Ohio it's not terrible it's not a sin but you know it's not the dead it's not the dead of Hashem that we lived with and Dappy with for the last 100 years so that's who I'm saying you know so here he talks about Eddie Moshe to a mitzvah or subtracting and he says it's not the will of God so God is not in that Mitzvah right in the example I'm giving you it's not a sin to have a few a few shots before before couple of Shabbos okay or or let's say okay another example recently a professor I don't want to say his name I think he might be Orthodox but he's very bitter against Orthodox people I don't know why he must have had some bad experience could be grew up of acidic years ago and he's very popular and very knowledgeable so with the zoom he decided to make a zoom seder and and and he publicized and it raised money and it was prescient so he's not true my guess it maybe is he was killed Shabbos and he said because of corona I can do a zoom Seder now I'm not past canning and to saying you know are you God a you know do you have a best in to make such a ruling that you're allowed to make a zoom seder in other words in other words people some people by themselves singles it's very only space at night so his idea was that in this situation its muttered to have you put on your computer and do a zoom Seder he's the Ruxin I send there the answer is if there's a logic if there's a helluva kick back ink color cover and if not no because you decide or let's motion let's take the classical example driving to shoeless Elvis knew someone wants to be a shoe but he's not showing the Shabbos and he wants to drive the shoe it is that Roxanna shell his back toggling considered the wheel of a shell we know the answer is of snap Lapointe when he died bees eat almonds but you can say a shame would rather you be home and not arrive to shul then come to the show miserable failure right but most people don't know any better and that's why you know but I'm poking out in if you think about it if you know better don't you know there yes Moshe what [Music] oh yes yes okay so you know so the burka ladies are like to me it's like drinking shots of alcohol before before doubling is the life is it a sin to dress that way is it a sin I mean you're gonna say what you're gonna say so he'll wash em it's definitely not excuse the expression normal it's not the man for him but he were talking about I won't be clear we're talking here about a something that is low so syphilis it rots in our Veda you have to make a distinction between what's a Nevada and what's just mishegoss one second Hill oh he loved that you know I want to tell you when I you know I had still have you know a museum a small Museum of clothing and I researched a lot about clothing do you know that some of our dress in various communities might be because the way we learnt from the how they dressed in that community fashion yeah yeah but not only that the North African it's very it seems very clear the North African dress it came from the Muslim countries no was they never them it was adapted by claudius role or a significant part with a pair of acting of running etc so it became so we transformed it just like the dead but in 1974 I believe he said you should put the room RCA from the French national anthem the words of our ascent moving so he transformed his exotic so whether it's a topic whether it should I burn them in the best and who so if these people have you know abundant if that say that you're a lot of dress that way and I today you can get abundant forehead for everything that I'm not sure would be hookah civilian but it's still add here Jana do you want to say something wrong okay okay okay okay and I'm gonna say something that I don't mean you you know please so you know you know the way I talk can I teach so let's talk about the inion I really don't mean you a beard a beard is according to halakha strict our foot you you you don't it's not a violation a 100 million percent of our love if you don't have a beard I points to the Kabbalah it's the biggest violation or better said not a violation you're missing a tremendous amount of kedusha that the beard brings to a person that's what it says in desire of college so that's a comprar right it's a corporal it's a homra but it's a horner yes but in the gun it has strong basis and then those are today you know and with even the winter shed today live from the hinds oh he's the toughest guy and all the ones that I wrote about it in this book oh they were so much for the beard and again I'm not talking about now how to shave because that could be how logic violations of the shaver and all that but I'm talking about there's the beard itself so that's an example a person has to you know look himself do I want this do I you know or I'm not up to that yet so that's an example to answer your question and there are many such enjoyment and and if we learn that's why it's so important to learn and learn yourself not what others tell you I just told you this Elliot I cut this you know here interest in this topic then you should go get a sellout find where it says it learn it think about it and they then make your decision that's you understand that's cold I agree but most people don't do that they listen to a rap I can listen to a shear they grew up a certain way and they you know decide in their life you know and we know many people didn't have beards during the younger years and as that odor is more about 120 that grew beards and color covered you don't say Melo it's been principal they believed with they believed the beard they wanted but for whatever reason for whatever weather their wives didn't want them to have it whether they felt it said goodbye no sir and I'm not justifying those reasons I'm just saying for whatever reason so so and the same is true with Columbus what time is it okay we have another few minutes let's go back to the text okay mishegoss a bad woman is moisture wants always practical things so I'm gonna give a practical thing but it's maybe it's too it's too practical young people get married some of them were very religious they act in holy itself holiness denying the conjugal rights that their wives are entitled to and Halawa supports not maybe completely but again maybe today this example so citizen everyone does what they want but it used to be because the governor says that Tom Coughlin should just be whether it was wife just Friday night you know the Komodo well so but I'm a newly married man etc so he's homered his hundred Yanni leads to a cooler and I don't know if you're aware but there's one car Civic community today two already been they suffered a lot from this issue the gare if I see them I don't know if you're aware of it the Garrick I see them a very big in this area they Vinnie but they don't walk in the street talking about the real garre's they don't walk in the street with their wives and they're very strange in this area that I think there might be a month or maybe well I'm not sure that they abstained from each other so there's some very heavy Hummers and it led we have stats from the comparing that Gareth has hidden to other groups there was more divorce in there than other groups this again the list there they're red but now and maybe the one before made a change and that's why he told them to dress very nicely and pretty too to the woman to to entice their husbands okay I'm not saying he said it openly but there is this underlying current this was a counter to the other extreme because he saw that there was a real problem in the community in this area I mean I know Gary here in Brooklyn you know in Borough Park very nice people divorced divorced divorced and I was told I didn't do a study so I was told that it has to do because of this area so here you have the only Cumbre you want to be so Froome and it leads to the breakers another area the show you know the pre-show is right you guys know what the be show is in the Hasidic community the parents the parents of shopton the parents match up to people and then the they think it's a good match and before they announced the engagement they have them meet it used to be one time since the pair is on the same page they're hopeful and usually they this they say they see eye to eye in one time meeting each other just pretty difficult to understand but that's the way it's been and it's worked for thousands of thousands of people so I'm not in a position to belittle it now and we have neighbors little or apart now there's this real there's been a real change they're they're meeting they have that to show but it's not just one time and you're gonna laugh it's four times it's five times and they actually go they actually go out the pre-show used to be that the the boy and the girl came to the house of one of the parents I think they would be in another room and then and then they and then and they allowed the the boy and the girl to meet on their own now that there's a change again by the very facility it's not that way because they're seeing that you know the breakups of engagements are divorce so these are all examples