Practical Chasidus w Rabbi Chaim Dalfin - Maaamar Vata 1934 #7

but afternoon please mute your mute your screams or whatever it's making some noise page 162 in in the minor so just to recap learning here about the concept of ill overall cause and effect and how how it works the the the association between the illa and the OO and he used the words earlier 161 the ascaris the closeness is the the affection that the ELA shows to the owl and the other shows to the ELA puts them together yesterday we learned that not only is it a general connection but it really becomes part of who you are and that's what I was just reading to moshe asked me to repeat those few lines which I did but basically the last few words if you take a look at the previous paragraph on page 162 he says Kim shall say hoo ha hoo migaila those words give us a description of what he means there is a person who understands very well with their mind the subject matter however however it's not relevant to him it's not only is so he understands that he can philosophize and he can teach and he can expound and give a good russia but it's not who he is it ever says that the proper the healthiest olavo is when the say who leads to a Amida and the metre is so much part of you that it is you as he says you give this business vet sign aza it's you own it it's no longer an accent to who you are but rather it is you it is who you are and that's the best and most correct ela Vogel situation when we talk about safe limits let's continue now 162 than okay if and when we get there today which will probably I'll have to do that but my my camera now is is recording could anyone over there take a picture of 163 you have the safer and whatsapp it to the group as we learn do it now and as we learned this way we'll have one 603 thank you there that was there to further elaborate on this idea my Sean O'Reilly in the Mukesh we see this episode see the cadaver says in actuality the Li mode via dear sateda when we learn and we have knowledge of theta cos shared effort leymah days ER so give the eora when some individual learns of su via a section in taylor the even derive with great concentration of focus called eel depth analysis the data called proteins on their sojourn and he knows all the details in the sugar in time may have sports he knows the reasoning for Oishi why Rashi says his app is opinion he knows my places disagrees with Rashi he understands how place was approach is different than Rashi and why traceless doesn't say look Rashi why Roger doesn't say that tasteless stasis so this means that tiny ice waters he understands he has the logic and reasoning to each one's approach govern the governed of hood I finally each thing artists matter he um he understands each individual piece of logic that he studied that a piece of information he studied your daily eating a booty early again that was just using verbage to make his point clear and he knows the subject matter our board again means clear thorough or mad a bit about some gear or without the boy and he speaks about the Soviet about the section that he's learning or Mahfoud whoa boy and he's simple he engages in extensive conversation and back to forth and upwards of downwards with the grub of finger with this finger back of course facerig marks his body moves have you ever seen the way there's a YouTube you guys should see of to tell me cuz I come in with the surest receivers sitting at a wedding and they add a table and they start talking about some sugah and you can't believe love a wedding it's sitting at dinner and they're tearing each other apart I need a learning their entire body that you know they forgot the dad wedding and the screen each other its size it's very cute to see but it's called by the way this was a cheetah in the literature world in Europe especially certain you see this within certain literacy achievers because it was medium there was classic and it was then and then a button you know tells sews not all have this sheet navarre dick but some had the sheet that weirds called this could that I sir I heard this from someone who you know came from mere his family and he was all into Mir and Thomas Holcomb is and he told me that in in their model if you don't tried to tell the other kind of party learning you're a nobody and he said that's why their style was that in public has here if you felt that the mothers here saying something foolish you were supposed to voice your objection in public and sometimes they used insulting terms but what you're saying this is foolish and stupid and embarrassing like that I mean it's it's hard food you know for me coming from Alabama to background and learning you know we never never never did that there never were taught to do that but he told me that this was a cheetah cheetah so when you'll see this video if you ever look it up it's rabbi bear mountain of Mir the Russell Shiva an Ocean Parkway he's really lame animus and rabbi boxed bak st he was I think Osiris receiver there I think and they go at each other it's it's it's amazing it's called the Lister the horizon the passion of theta and the more passionate you are in scolding the other one in Taylor if you feel he's saying Stuart you let him know so so that's I say this because that ever says here o Madhava Maharaja he talks about the suger on the powerful God he has people but again temple doesn't mean you have to embarrass the person that you're but it means to get involved so it's called Gilbert just be aware and I think that maybe a certain with disease even still today this is considered a virtue where if you can get you so so passionate so excited about learning where you knock out someone I it reminds me I heard from some rubber salivation abusive bear salivated the rub of university twice a year give a major public fear in the labyrinth auditorium at University on Amsterdam Avenue over there in the Washington Heights one was for his father was mother his father's I believe wasn't shocked I think it was shocked anyway there were 2,000 people in the auditorium packed Stansbury moment and it was like 8 hours here sometimes four hours six hours half of it was Gomorrah Hoffa and half was gross God and people came from all over for sure the tri-state area but people even came from Boston anyone who had an appreciation or ever salivate she was there for the ship because it was twice a year so someone told me that he was called by an old comic awesome from Europe who came to America I think he lived in Brooklyn in the in Brownsville which was the in the 40s into the 30s for was Jerusalem was the lion's share America was called the Jerusalem of America was Brownsville Brooklyn and today I was there about three four months ago because I wanted to check something out an old shoe my Babbage's shoe and during the day I felt I felt very uncomfortable although there was his police Anila Street they said yeah it's all right there's nothing to worry about during during the day but boy was it scary anyway at night you wouldn't walk there woke up I'd now said they have a cop out of Brownsville so go figure you can go to Iraq you can go to Brownsville right anyway so he called this fellow's told me the story he was a young man 17 18 19 he drove a car he had a letter he knew him some analysis can you pick me up and take me turn up its elevated Russia he said sure absolutely and he drove any to any brought him you know to go down at that in that if yet in that auditorium you go all the way down you start on top and the slow going bald way down you know anybody he parks himself the front row knowing that rabbit elevation is going to be on the dais over there and and and he's right in front and Robert Sullivan chick spoke and gave up the Russian he gave up everyone is only listening him all the savvy he says in Gibby's hot out salivate chick and I don't know if he was older than it could be resolvable harness elevate seek mercy result is soos what you're saying is stupidity two thousand people are in the room yet the pink rabbit it was so quiet and this man and salvation they each other that looks like every Freddy's now solve a she says if head was you fret this is mrs. Gibbons with rocks I hear what you're asking but that lost my advocate wait let me finish you're cutting off my tongue and he starts getting angry I forget this Rose name and passionate and and he said he tells him why what he's saying is stupidity and why it makes no sense anyway he calms down salivating says please you gotta you gotta hear me out why I think this funny the ideas this way anyway he got so angry upset then a middle he just jumped up he took the young guy by his hand he says come we're leaving I can't stand this anymore and the guy told me the shoe he said he was a young young spoke he was embarrassed he's being walked out forced out from all the way down in the first truth up the you know the Smeal to go out he said he was turning purple and blue and black and everyone's looking at him and and this old man tau forces them out he will not stand the hero by salvations stability when they come into the corridor outside of the auditorium doors and he's about to leave to walk out he sees a poor guy with a girl probably boyfriend a girlfriend whatever brother-sister I don't know whatever but he sees them standing there and talking and he hears the old man who's this European give the speaker he hears the boy saying to the girl oh did you hear what J what JB said today did you hear what JB said he called I was elevated by his English initial initials Joseph bear JB and it became in the Shiva world and in the Tara world a derogatory way of addressing him because the right wing all the years shunts elevates everything a lot about this all about it in my book so and I want to get into it now and all the details but basically they they felt you know he's going to the left while you and all that Modern Orthodoxy so he said and he wasn't this big savage this guy out there but he said yeah I guess that's the way he was used to hearing JB JB JB this little man I he told me he was a little short guy disrobe from from from Brownsville and it was a rough maybe just about a bus but he was such a good be going he went over to him and he said and he looks up to this tall guy he says what did you say force us to gives up that English Yiddish and he says I said that JB said so and so he took us yeah and he gave him a slap in his face in front of his girlfriend a slap in his face this little shorty and he says that hurts their offense you know what kind of line you're talking about kind of a genius he took the bed guy by the hand and he went back into the auditorium and he went all the way back down and except somehow next to him the lecture finished shortly thereafter and he went up to every cell eventually said I doubt salivate check their men's this person her fashion advice given he embarrassed you and he needs to ask my ceiling needs to ask for forgiveness of a celibate she was calm and he understood already how he embarrassed him and he said it's all right that's all right that's all right that's the story great story great story but I bring out the point of the wrister there I said in front of 2,000 people to say that what you're saying is stupidity terrible elevate sick is unheard of but in their world that's the accepted norm so I just want I think the story really highlights in other words he didn't need to embarrass elevates it he had a duty and obligation from where he was coming from from his Whitlock view and and upbringing and everything else this is the way later yes motion what's the connection between [Music] if we're talking about what we're speaking about something should permeate to us the position it should permeate to us it should permeate how we act so help us maybe just understand no no no no the connection was there says here it's not connection not connected to ela vole he says over here that you should learn the subject managed so well speak about the subject that you know that this figure over Fargo bar form I found Oba do people in it so I was giving you just a story an example of various different forms of pimple that that's that's the only reason I mentioned it and maybe it should have not been mentioned but I thought it would be worthwhile anyways is that you would not you would not in front the two thousand people embarrassed about embarrass anyone but even one-on-one you know it's not the style to to scream at at the other person in public even a learning it's it's the whole the whole Mahalo you know comedy approach is a very different one and it's not just by the way I want to make the clips not just kebab love Babbage's it's really most other styles of learning whether it being the Pope let's take let's say the gehrer the gerotor are big tell me there's a from them and learn the Gareth I see them and you know and bells this is not as far as I know and tell me from if anyone knows otherwise but this is not their style of public humiliation within within learning it's just not it's not done so the pimple is you and I are sitting at a fastener or a bar mitzvah or whatever and and you know we talked idea and we are animated but you know it's not a mid fat an obligation the if I scream at you more and call you more of an idiot or Satan that you're in saying is stupid I don't get any more credit for learning plainer whereas in in this particular lippisch model you do that's that's a hitch to meet the finish and it's a style that they use again they meant well they didn't mean like how can you say such a foolish thing and I want to tell you something girl calm atmosphere told us a story always in yeshiva that I think it was I think it was late with going back to the 50s or 60s there was a situation where a buzzer he didn't want America sidess but he was you felt he was very strong he was like the Erie of the achieve of the genius and he enjoyed talking with you're cognizant of genius so they would chat before an answer after the sheer but he didn't attend this year and one guy making this very brief one day he went to that safety set that up Yardley it's an issue he wants to speak to the Rebbe about it and basically the rebel showed him that unless he starts learning her scissors and which will bring humility to him he's gonna have issues and he said he got very upset he walked out of 77 he slammed the door you want to talk to anybody because they're ever put him into a corner intellectually they never proved to him that only through Gemara his issue which was guided properly he felt you know ego cuz he was and whoever set him demons you're gonna go back to the yeshiva you're gonna say a pillow for my father but you're gonna say it dissertation you gonna say what works and you're the genius of the achiever and it's gonna be terrible terrible cities everyone's gonna laugh for you and it was the how could you have said such a stupidity you know so don't think that this it has different forms in other words has different forms of expression that's what I'm saying but blend open attention let's get back to the text but but practically in in in the about policy you see this they don't learn that way and even in I'm saying they don't they don't engage in in in yeah okay so it's a good good source they quote their smooth you're right but practically we don't do that you know in most receivers but there is such a Mahalo even today probably in most literacy shiva's they're more more careful to going them you know they're to go and embarrass her another person that's it's probably not not done but the old-style in Europe this is what he was telling me this mirror grandson and this is what you see between these old mirrors by the bast and rather barren bomb were old mirrors from Europe and this was a certain style okay como claim a nearly abuse if we survive that ever says nevertheless although what although you know the subject matters so well that you talk about it and you're again you're passionate about it nevertheless it's only intellectual knowledge avocado iya now who watched when they gallery that ever says however if it leaves the full of the domain of intellectualism and becomes you become a cursor to what you become bound to it through concentration and focus then it becomes who you are and it's Magali us who believe in Allah domine then the knowledge that you know very well is it's not it's not knowledge it's you it's real life it's not I have a lot of knowledge in me this is who I am the how people shall labor you know home so that when he speak about the knowledge that he has the highest have with tremendous vitality fires Kamiya the depakote this is beautiful Nitish the hearts red the heart speaks here it's not the cup speaking it's not the mind burrow it's not the mind that have speaking but your heart is speaking though though your mouth is speaking and your and you're speaking with you understand but you're so one with it that it's it's who you are it's your heart that you're passionate you mean that now that it's muscles take for example misha layman tough so here someone who learns a sugar a section that made the may said Sade o mas mas penis he sells his feel due to his he's consumed and he's forced oh my said of my guru Bickler smooth you know what this key butters talked about this this example correct right correct it's called Mason made up with a they are called Proteus tsukete he knows all the details in her anus for you beside establish at the zoo was this transaction that he was forced into wasn't a regular field or was this any field or it was this particular one / - couple of summers and how was the transaction of the of the money the fame buddy finally me sit aside my book and then there are details how did he notified in bout there how did he make his Mossad his protest did he do it orally a bit South the whole broadcasts what is your daily Simba kinda and he knows all the arguments and reasoning in great / followed by hand by her monk at the day look and he he engages in pupil with great depth Kaffee Hamas corner ha'la'tha coming to a conclusion borrow and the Halawa right the Gemara game he has this were and that swara and then he's my foul ball and he says this is the way Hillel we should pasta the shorter dinner commercial who Mithila Dina came atonal a compromise is Dina its did is like a sail and Mithila and when you pardon and you forgive Dina came eternal is been is like a gift of my father's a cause of all her anus no fussing delicate a gift let's get that's written as Christ the caution which means I think doesn't mean swarthy the mortgage mortgage properties is that pathways right okay these are committed that's also the law its business like the same with the site it's a solid as a sale but I'm sure they're it disorders eats just examples but Garcia dad calling young the abrupt in Chiapas there although he knows all that all the details without book and he gets involved and engaged in the details of the count of the sugar coma family icicles there nevertheless after all said and done Angelia dears it was revived it's only intellectual logic and knowledge that he has I will be fanatical a nominee who conversely it is totally friend kasi who ice moly mr. D's learning in I hope and again Leila my sir that he knows that this subject matter that I'm studying is relevant motion to my bottom line my view in other words it's not just intellectual idea and engaging in the pupil and the arguments but the information that I'm learning and discussing thoroughly will be relevant to how I behave and how I act and what's going to be with my properties and finances so it's not just yoni theoretical it's practical we're on top of 163 oz he may house for a saw a low ice mom hang Exley because now when you know that the subject matter you're learning will is relevant to your behavior the learning of it is much more animated but we were sinners if it's just about knowledge okay I hear you but if we understand how the details of what we're learning will make a difference in our behavior this way that way our learnings very different why because it's bottom line it's my son's behavior telephone behind know the violation dictates them acts lady bees for his Bahama so is caduceus in addition to the fact that when you learn knowing that will be relevant that adds a multitude of of Rd of Soares vomits be him being so is caduceus creative ideas come to you when you know it's relevant right mushers draw he's he knows that someone commissioned him and he only knows is gonna be in an art gallery it's a whole different way of looking at her what would I write if I write to myself I just jot down some notes well like what I know that I'm gonna publish this it's a whole different writing it's a whole different understanding of a subject matter that's the point before up they have Suki ahi so in addition to him finding new innovative and creative ideas in this subject matter that he didn't have before what he didn't realize it was going to be relevant but now that he realizes what it's gonna be relevant so he has so much so much more creativity and understanding he'll advisors in addition to that being true howdy miss a durable woven deeply tightness of - beep boop beep oh sauce that's money he arouses in his heart many kindness are complaints or - - OH - you've read that expression right - I now with I am is a complaint mine now was an iron as an answer so it arouses many complaints Pro and and answers pro and con back-and-forth be he precisely what does be precisely mean people to turn over to to change to doesn't mean school here besides me that he finds it to be beneficial for his position or just the opposite oh so so the hippo is going on himself is that it so be hippo suicides money although it's against his position but he sees the truth the argument proves to him sorry you are wrong and he's honest enough to say that the holes they who live cook why because it's relevant if that's the clothes they loo if you say a neither gay i lo hee it's because it's relevant to him so here most is a concrete example of just learning for the sake of learning and understanding it well and being able to discuss it and all that but you wouldn't come to a point where you could say I'm wrong to say the I'm wrong it has to be legal early enough you know those have to be so honest that I want to be honest but I want to be honest and to be honest the argument is against me I'm wrong what time is it now I don't have the watch but I'm okay okay I should be a mercy they be goofy accent you dear sub scholars are eating you know who the truth is knowing the subject matter with its details a shrimp fritters Dublin are mushy your tequila there's no real widows to what he knew earlier the gods healer yarders have shook your body even before he knew the Sookie reception very well fed out his conscious who the only novelty was bizarre the Tina Yothers of sick leave about initially only knew the logic the God should give advice to the appeal but I was de llano though he spoke about the Silvia great people and great South kite the sharpness and you know clarity the spineless and emotional he was he was a passion and excited about it of who dock his spine was a sample of odd that ever says that excitement was only an intellectual excitement it was driven by the cup by the mind actor but now kahshanna in you know gaya Louie when the subject matter is relevant to himself to him in those customers who by being in his connection to the subject pour of the gorram it causes his sainted is with lovely permissible if it's not just an intellectual passion and excitement it awakens the heart the neither should live with an emotion in the heart if you feel bicycle ie based on the intellectual obligation of what he understands he feels that's the ill of all emotion that's the elbow right the same hole he understands very well so and it's and it's not just the understand it goes from from just understanding very well to it becoming who he is and the result is am either so I just point out when does it become yoni who he is in the heart or the mind anyone when when at what position does it become yours know in in das in dust and thus is an element in the mind focus and concentration that's if that's where it becomes yours and it results itself in the heart okay the proof is in the pudding the pudding is the heart is the expression the leadership a left but at what point does it become who you are does like we've discussed many times the important of das what's kebab does I don't care who you are when you are kebab ethos is dust like LF I am Karl Barth told me and I repeated it many times you either got das you don't have to us and the worst thing in the Babbage was when you stepped into the Babbage not to be a fool toss toss toss and it's not you got a working gas you could be brilliant and we've seen geniuses but there's missing does having the only common sense sometimes but the these cashless it's a very different position but it's part I point out you it's part of the cup it's the huffman Pina dance it's the focus and concentration to the point this is who you are and of course everyone knows the good mother supports that regarding you know relations intimacy know that and kiss really das you must have doubts you don't have das you have nothing you could have entertainment you have an excitement you can have many other things but you don't got a result of us you know it section let's go further hey who Gandhi inna saw this l ET's so to regarding understanding how colors vertical godliness Ryan but movies we see in actuality catch Elena Daisy in you know Medina if he played when you learn a subject matter and you understand it well the open up here with all the details on who with all those details miles billiards million and you explain to yourself Hillel and and and and and and Boris alerting over this Villa same an instant Venice and they explain to each other debut in the diabetic lifetime and they talk about it before the smack in a good way and the spoiled brats money and the person learning is miss Farley's impact that is easy geeky gets excited of the emails I'm muscular ho-oh that logic that idea is so sweet it's spread flavors sweetness it's sweet shove a sweet it's the greatest into what an idea of smooth out to be an idea the other day what what a mighty abortion nicole monkey nevertheless it was divine intellectual idea yes it turns you on intellectually and you're excited about it but it's knowledge still the eczema in your name you get annoyed and the thing itself outside of the intellectual excitement does not touch you sure you filet is visibly brain that it should arouse some emotion in the heart in other words what's triggering the excitement my understanding strip the understanding I have broken no no issue is that I don't care for it but when we're talking about something becoming who who you are even if you were to strip the intellectual seasoning you know of supporting the feeling even if you were to remove that you still be just as excited and and they'll be meaningful to you because it's now in your heart it's a meter or have you said earlier those beautiful sweet words that's design that as I it's yours it's not just your heads it's yours God's yes with high opinion and although who's still saying he's still poking about if someone only has it but in his mind although you have much say who moon isn't damn true part another beautiful Yiddish word to means to cook to cockneys how do you say to God in this in this in this instance it means and you're all excited about it you're all cooked up what yeah right - cost of a Brent right and but this yeah usually they say for Brent but but this took off from cooking it soaked it's cooked so well and what how does that express itself be his by gustave with great emotion so you would think that this guy who's so into it and easy he's easy fiver it's him says that ever he knew that it's not to selectively odd that ever says still not his heart it's a rebound or a response to an intellectual excitement but yeah what was saying here you know saying here this is so this is classic Habad in its purity you can see a person who's all electrified and that ever says it's still not who he is the famous story was recycle that Raikou me don't forget his last game with the out with the red swim it was down to that but hosted at the altar never went for shoppers to Woodmere and he saw the chef michael governing and he came back and he and he said to the Hasidim out to the outer never see them maybe she will remember the details that I remember exactly we said it but he said it wow I was their sharpest it was fired the suckling industry and the subject was unbelievable and the response was there Brent you said the word Brent who's on fire and he I'm sorry and disgusted got so turned on that he started to beat Scott and and and Arvin and he was shaking and baking and the fiery face new breasts or heiko versus India Brent are you on fire or is the cycle been transformed into you transferred into you there's a piece of haiku it's you that's causing you to be on fire but it's not who you are it's it's an old line that's been shared to survive for 200 years but it's a it's a powerful one I heard this refugio many times it's a brain it's a cycle ship indeed was Brent yeah the subject is on fire you're a hostage are you a fire because he's he's tough to link to you and he's helping you go on fire which by the way cover fire however or the Chabad model in avoidance of shame is you have to be on fire and if you're not on fire I don't care if the Hyksos I'm firing you but it's not you and and I conclude this that ever you know before give all Thomas what did he say if to outsource it can't to bring to bring atmosphere what does that mean to me it means guys I've done a full year for 42 years your big boys now beat yourself put yourself I'll give you breakfast I'll give you eight says I'll help you got a Do It Yourself no one can do it for you and I think this is part of this message have a great day everyone see everyone tomorrow as I presumed by yes