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Practical Chasidus w R" Chaim Dalfin - V'Im Ruah HaMoishel 1924 #9 - R' Chaim Malinowitz z"l
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This discourse. printed in Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn's book of Maamarim, 1924, discusses the idea of Authority, Criticism and Rebuke in spiritual terms. He teaches healthy criteria for giving criticism. This refines character. Rabbi Dalfin teaches the discourse from the text in a user-friendly manner.
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good morning the day were Valder
continued the mine man
the imbrue of emotional 1924 from the
previous rabbit from page 349 and I'm
dedicating today's learning to have time
semolina wits was passed away and the
Thursday and believe Thursday night and
we're middle of a Shiva and just that a
person note like I wrote in the email
that I sent you the to you or the
whatsapp how you doing her he he was
first of all I don't I don't I don't
know if Beth Shemesh knows what type of
Thomas Holcomb did they had there he was
not just a comic Hoffman he was a world
Tom McLoughlin I am I'm convinced he
could probably put any rough and any
rabbi in his little back pocket in his
knowledge he probably was a bookie and
shafts but not only a bookie shots he
knew see this I don't know if he knew
Kabbalah
I don't know that but I see this he
learned and he knew muster
and he knew huh Kiera and you see this
from the shiorin that he gave if you
take a look at the shearing that he gave
both to men and women and I know people
who attended this year and I've spoken
to them when I was there he is listed as
the general as one of the general
editors of the arc scroll Schottenstein
shafts nachos not just for the English
shafts but for the Hebrew shots too now
you you all understand what that means
to be a general editor for Shas means
you have to know shafts and the end and
we could say that he came charities
throughout 17 years ago which equals toe
fire he Yakko Barrett's with sadaham's
Rosh Hashanah Jacko's best years were in
medallion and I believe we could say
that his his dream was to be in there
except a dish he didn't have to come to
entities at all he chose to can't come
he was he had a position in Muncie
as a play sick as a risque lil and he
was already doing anything that believed
for art scroll so you know he it and he
had his entire family and his and and
their abundant so his comfort both
spiritually and materially was in New
York and nevertheless he got up and he
went there too slow that's another point
that I didn't point out in my letter in
addition to that something else I didn't
point out is that he never moved to Beth
Shemesh you know that he traveled he
told me he came and came by bus you know
I don't know nine ten eleven in the
morning or maybe for shoppers and and he
would go back at night I know myself
when I gave the Tongass year it started
at 9:15 I saw him sometimes at you know
at the nine o'clock 9:15 still in in the
base the yonder feel it did the show his
shoe so so he literally was all day
there and he didn't want to move he
wanted to live in Yerushalayim because
the kaduche of yerushalayim for Shabbos
he came naturally but they offered him
you know housing and they would take
care of him and he turned that down and
I think that's a very another very
special insight into a person who comes
to Atticus at all and he decides not
only living in that in Cicero but it
makes the Civic a decision to live in
your shall I him and he can easily be
moved over to another city and he
chooses not to that tells you a lot
about the person so so so his his
knowledge of theta was massive in
addition to that and I think everyone
will will agree anyone that knew him he
was very what we call today open-minded
now what do I mean open-minded I don't
mean open mind in the sense of accepting
all the mishegoss but I used myself and
Chabad as an example the average
literature of would never allow a lab
arbiter to come in into a shul to give
congas year and even to give ad Russia
it's it's highly highly done today in
the 40s and 50s it was much more easy
but today everything is so
compartmentalized and I used the word
unfortunately divided and my sheet
tonight your sheet which is interesting
last night I intended rabbi Jacob Jay JJ
Schachter's lecture on the rough in the
river and the Talmud Torah of Coney of
Flatbush he only you must have big you
know right off Avenue J and Coney Island
Avenue and there were 150 people mostly
elderly people and because I wrote a
book on it so I came and I know rubbish
after I interviewed him for the book so
he spoke about this issue of how the
river and Erebus elevate check in they
didn't allow this you know a difference
in certain shittest
to get in the way of their relationship
anyway rabbi rapid milena wits not only
so I was there I came to pass a bias in
2017 for those that remember and I was
talking to small and to some other
people and they said you know you're
here now once you meet a little bit the
people because we start to speak about a
clay loss it's good to meet people so
they told me that there's this rub in
the shul and and and it's a prominent
shul and he's a prominent love so I
reached out to him and the answer the
answer was not you know should you talk
of course you should talk the question
is when how we gonna figure into this
out scrub Shabbos schedule and he said
to me the the slide I have opened is
between mins and Mira's on shallow
shooters on Shabbos so but he said you
know people go home they don't stay in
sure that's the the minute over there I
don't know why they go home there's no
shower sugar in shul so he said but
don't worry I'll take care of it I
didn't know what he's gonna do so I came
to shew you know I'm the only guy with a
capita and a hat and you know the beard
you see from all
jason labarbera right so they know about
mature is in their soul what's an
apologist doing in a with factual form
inside government code they're so so so
after Mincy as soon as service members
over he runs to the to the podium to the
Bema whatever and he gives a bank and
and and the respect that I saw that they
gave him was tremendous and that's the
way it should be for any love he gives a
bank and he says that by sight I'd like
you to stay and listen to what I'm gonna
say cuz they're all starting to walk
back to the door and every one of them
says don't go everyone stay no one
walked out that door and he starts
telling them and these are words that I
remember and I wrote he said I was
waiting for this day this is what he
said I saw I was waiting for this day
when is a Labov a chair gonna come to me
and asked me to speak in my shoe it
seems like it never happened in in the
15 years that he was there I don't know
why but that left hook he said
especially Alabama sure who's a town
meant of rabb-ul calm and he says I'll
tell you why I'm telling you that
because I had three readies this is what
he says does everyone I had three
readies I think he said to my chief
Reinstein who gave me some me huh
I'm a bear man who had a special yeshiva
in Muncie for suyeon them and he was a
Talmud of Mir a big time across him and
then he says and I I couldn't believe it
grab your I'll come I mean this is a
illiterate of the greatest you know I'm
saying what is the Obama chair ever
Spicer it's like it's I was shocked I
was waiting and he says I used to learn
for several years
Tania in a special Tonia double-concave
for myself and other of other buckram in
in in Muncie while I was at
but bear Maha Shiva and then later
privately told me more about that I'm
not going to now get into the details
there are more details about that cheer
but anyway but he said the same
character and therefore type I say says
rabbi dolphin is here he is gonna say a
few words I want you to stay and listen
and then he quoted a gomorian wait into
the finish there he quoted the marimba
shrewdest you know the Gemara says
monisha entire island lokahi sure they
forsake the everlasting life
for temporary life it means when you go
away from trader learning for not tiring
learning you know so Robin Melinda would
supply it he said here you going home
yes he going you want to go home to the
shuttle should this but the Dolphins
gonna share terror with you and and he
said that the gomorrah and he didn't
mince words he's not alabama sure the
river wouldn't say the negative but he
said what the Damaris says the governor
says very severe thing when you do that
like terrible punishment or death I
don't forget now whatever it is and
basically he threatened them but they
took it they told they took it in a very
positive way cuz they had a love for him
and they knew him in other words he was
very direct rabid Melanie woods wasn't a
rabbi who was a politician I wouldn't
tell you that you know many rebellion
and rabbis are politicians they're
careful what they say rather Molino it's
what he believed he said he didn't mince
words now naturally he was a comic off
him and he was guided by a hollow
physical marrow but but he said what he
believed he wanted everyone to stay and
listen to my Russia that was his
introduction to me the first time I met
the person in my life now you tell you
Ted you tell me another love who would
do that I it's hard to find if you could
find him some like that
everyone protects their little turf you
know what I mean he was open-minded now
so I started to give this year I started
to give this year but not only that give
this year he asked me he wants a course
syllabus because he wants to advertise
it in his bulletin first of all before
that he paid and I don't he paid but he
put he put in yes yeah he had printed
and the cost money you know I don't him
did the Koopa that the congregation he
spent money on advertising the Tongass
year and then there was a point to share
was getting a little shocked and it was
late at night you know and I got up very
early and I was tired than nothi and and
I still I gave this year but I didn't do
the syllabus so he says rabbi dolphin I
need the course syllabus to admin to put
in the journal and he neutrally he nuts
me and he notes me mama schwoz
and I was like oh I couldn't believe
this you know here it's a Tongass year
we have like six to ten people which is
wonderful but they tell you it's very
good but but but it's not you know fifty
people coming to a shear so what if I
don't write the course syllabus you know
he went to the course syllabus and he
notes me about it and that was another
insight into his seriousness and how he
was impacted really but a bit of yokan
so in his host we dedicate the learning
we don't under yes yes yes one of their
children and they had to be put in the
school in special school in the u.s.
very expensive he didn't have the money
this is recently these funds of eleven
and a half thousand dollars dollars a
month I don't know how well it was
eleven half thousand dollars a month
yeah
I didn't see so that's something I
that's an open little thing yeah yes
Malaysia yes one of the few
english-speaking places to go and always
you know made an effort to next to meet
up mothers because connection was that
we were going to do this with our came
to our house I want to come to your
house I don't want to do here he picked
him up he came to our house and he's
done with us he my wife whatever
their self and trying to get therapy he
he offered the tape for a little series
of therapy yeah oh yeah only see when my
son my son my oldest son been on the I
was not easy he was 11 here the props to
agenda but here you got you know all at
Hebrew tomorrow he said as he got older
he wanted to go back to the states and
study she was Berkeley we didn't want to
go rubba listen you do its best for the
child who say you're busy laying though
it was a great yes you want to say
something good yummy oh yeah
about probably about two to three so
nine years ago nineteen years ago I like
my kids so they were sitting next to the
wife and my daughter she points that
I've been going on with Susan they've
got two three and she goes hey you're a
rabbi she's your big brown like so he
said to my they said to my daughter he
goes yeah a lot of people think so
but they don't really know
yeah yeah he was a very fine person a
very fine person
nope Oh themself and talk of a ship
should come and all the people that were
touched by him to continue doing my
Centurion learning and avidin giving
sadaqa and learn English nicely this
Mussoorie and that Yutaka be that that
we don't understand you know his day his
sleepless was finished you know you know
infection infection here and infection
there you know 67 you could cut it any
way you want but the sleepless the
mission was over they wish to said I
need you back here for now so he goes
back we are saddened it's it's it's it's
a it's not just like we said it's a
community issue of a magnitude level and
we don't understand these things don't
try to figure them out because you won't
be able to and just go positive thinking
through things with clay versus mercy
like we're learning now and this week of
Shiva even dismiss a so we're on page
349 and in this paragraph that ever
asked the question in the beginning a
contradiction between two Quezada
between two Casals one cause out of a
deserter the governor says the first
three hours are there but this burglar
sits and learns turn it up and then we
have the other class I would say
whenever an individual juice its and
learns I got this bar who learns right
there and then with him so the question
is is it me the first three hours of the
day or is it an every time any time but
on individual studies that was his
question the beginning and to answer
this he began discussing oh and one
other question he uses the language in
the governor of a deserted show the show
sort of straightness yo shave the ice
sake I chefs it's any studies what's the
the the word of the word the ocean what
is it what does it mean he sits and he
learns why is it necessary and what does
it mean
so that was a second question if they
answer this he starts explaining the
three ideas in Tara but he focuses first
on the first idea of idea Efrain antara
husky not swirl imitator prepare
yourself
shana you do Shilla because this level
of Torah is not an inheritance but
rather comes through effort and then he
brings a prosecutor tied up and the COS
I'll say Vizag tailor sir autumn this is
the Torah of them he almost bit oil and
regarding the laws of the ritual
contamination to Montara and the has
I'll say that we take the word there's a
status of them Kiyomasa
how can you acquire torah if other than
PMS if you man will kill yourself a
Torah will you sacrifice yourself a
Torah and and and and and this and the
explanation is Seamus ah give us my
meaning the person kind of pains himself
by giving away their their will and
desire for gosh means for material and
Kippur real matter for the sake of
learning tighter and that's why it says
may miss Ozma so this is what we learned
last week and from there that everyone
ought to explain how the eight Sahara
again in other words when you look at a
solution you're telling me that the
issue is that I need to sacrifice myself
what is the issue that I need to
sacrifice myself from so that's why he
starts explaining what the issue is
and the issue is the answer harder the
issue is the nefesh obamas and so this
is we're up to in middle of 349 velocity
near a tell you it's it's about 12:30
lives on top in middle of place the
missouri senior HR you to the zero scale
the base matters what is the advice that
cuz i'll give slept the eighths of her
into the shoe into the base mesh with
MacLean cocktail you know to the place
of Salem the basicness is McClay my
fever base amygdala base admit there's
MacLean Mithila
a shrew the place of three lamb and a
base Madras is a place of theta this is
just a hollow Fiat kind of distinction
between the two and by the way
our hello flick differences between the
two but not for now the England I'm
Michelle I'm lying but vote him wet
okay when you speak when you say the
word well must scale the DeMars is
mosque and I told you the root the
etymology of the word Marseilles was
measured must have mentioned Hough right
slept full we translated into Munich
terms as as meaning acquisition acquire
acquire yourself the eight Sahara
through bringing him to the base
measures how do you acquire him that
ever says big voted you have to talk to
him if you don't put the eight Sahara if
you don't talk you know you're not
you're not engaging it's it's it's it's
a fleeting thoughtful wish but you're
not really engaging you have to talk it
out and by the way let me talk it out
necessarily words even in my shovel but
you know if thought but to articulate
the idea this is what you're doing is a
telling what you're doing and this is
why it's not proper and this is what I
want to get the change let's see what he
says but lay Malloy tell d8 Sahara
so I dieted enough shape speak to it
according to your own nefesh your own
soul in other words be honest with
yourself
don't don't fake it good morning
afternoon of you who them don't fake it
say it the way it is because remember
it's to yourself to yourself no one's
listening
no one's know you no no your wife your
kids your friends you rabbi Noah so you
could be honest at least with yourself
the hello ye may eat AutoKey of it
either that I didn't option cortical
socket not that bothers to begin with
what a person does something with his
honesty of his heart his soul he does it
that way to correct as Nephi Shabazz the
other cop he imitates the language from
this month okay so he's twisting here
he's giving a little different twist to
the the kazow listen to what he's saying
he's saying that in other words you say
like this
yes ahora you want me to go and the
place they go to the movies all day and
play golf and sleep support it for 13
hours and waste my time I've got a
problem with that you know why I have to
work for a living so I can have money to
buy food I need to I need to study
because I want to get a degree so when I
get a degree I'll get a better job and
better pay but that's that's not what
small in other words what's the reason
jónasson what's the reason I don't want
the Yates of her to disturb me it's
because why it's because I won't benefit
so this is what we call Hillel because
surely the small bullish mark says that
ever it's okay it's okay to to begin
your dealings with the eighth Sahara
with shillelagh Schmo because from the
shillelagh tomorrow open with your
commerce month the Pater foolish MA what
does it mean was small with shame hot
Ida now this is very important because
they're different meanings of the small
there's a Bryan vulajin in Ephrata
Khayyam has his understanding the author
ever has his understanding of a decade
Tanya but the FAA says the small overall
means I want to learn for the sake of
learning I don't learn so my wife will
say ah my husband such a great guy he's
going to grow a low I don't learn
because my kids to know my their father
is learning I don't learn to get
rabbinic ordination Smith huh those are
all legitimate reasons but it's
shillelaghs small it's not for the sake
of theta it's for something else that
later will immune to sham enhance the
theta but it's still shillelaghs from up
so the
it says we have a rule as I'll say
Mattel shillelagh Sh'ma Berlin Schmo for
you begin learning not for the sake of
purity of just learning tighter cuz it's
a substrate up and that ultimately will
lead that you will learn you will learn
to them for the sake of Taylor are you
here well I'm chip Laden self potato
what does it mean small to learn Plato
too small for the sake of theta and that
ever here without saying it you know
really puts the kind of abide the
emphasis what it needs to learn title is
smart means to draw God into the into
the tater not to draw myself anything
that's about myself
excuse me stinks it's ego okay so when
we talk about learning tighter leash
more that level that idea it's not about
I it's about how code is vertical that
when you learn Taylor Shannon says you
draw them ain't soft which means the
infinite God entertainer that's the
that's the Hasidic classification
Elizabeth I'm tell you clearly not all
the tests and methods of Torah
would define it this way but the way
cabacas´s indices Whismur this is what
genuine Torah learning is and others
like this I I want to just make just
clarify a little more you could learn
tighter you say I'm not learning to be a
rabbi I'm not learning to get a better
job I'm not learning my wife should like
me better and my kids to respect me
better
that's not what I'm learning I'm
learning so I should know more sense
later that who has some ego who are you
I should know who are you no no I'm
learning because God wants this God will
be more present in the world and he
needs me to learn because if I don't
open my mouth and take a safer that's
the way it won't happen
chuckles but now he needs me he wants me
to do this so I become his longhand long
mouth long hooked it's a whole different
orientation versus I'm learning so I
should have more knowledge that is also
not with small according to the Altair
ever and the lubavitcher rebbe a in the
hibakusyas and well and it's a lofty
it's it's it's it's a lofty objective
but if you think about it I think you
know who am i again but it's a really
the real McCoy it's the real McCoy to
learn for the sake of learning because
we want God in the world it's all about
a published vertical never ever lose
that in the CUDA whatever we do it's
about the abus did and that's why you
know but I just went back to her but
minimus is passing it's about God yes we
humans feel a loss and the family feels
a loss and it is a loss absolutely
but it's only a loss because God says
it's a loss and in other words and
because he was a disseminator of theta
and a teacher of theta and a man of
theta so what what what what we are sad
about is that seemingly godliness has
been lessened but that's what hurts us
and the and and and and the process of
severe inflation in the year is such
that we come save
and godliness has not lessened and and
therefore what how because as there ever
said about his own wife episode hiya
mooska raha hai eating Ali by the heart
will pay what maker will be pay
attention and will bring will bring the
the through our good deeds and that was
the rapper's message the whole year I'll
take all your questions give me just one
second or comments the whole year 1988
when there ever since I am mustered up
his wife you you know you saw beginning
specially a sadness on his face and you
know his wife is so many years but what
he spoke from the very first day when he
spoke it was about the following words
raha hai retain a living and the living
retain Libra will make the heart be
attentive in other words what can we do
now what must we do now to make the Dead
be alive how do you make the Dead be
alive
do something name a building after her
learn later for her new Sharma you know
etc etc let's go an order the only first
and then Moshe and then he'll oh that's
the way I saw the question that was
promotion oh okay yes so yoni yo yo you
go first
yeah want to say yeah you're older
you're older Moshe
you're it's a mock-up sorry I don't
accept that it's not a Jewish way of
thinking it's negative and it's
ridiculous I don't want to go into it
now no one no one is in a position
knowing that who-who is at a level that
they know that this is a mocker the
moshe stay away from that type of
thinking cuz it'll only bring your
depression finished
- from me loud and clear not only sports
if I had I still disagree whom I'm
saying it's it's such a we know it's a
loss of course it's a loss but the
ghosts say it's it's a mocker kind of
words is it this is like I don't want to
get into you don't get me started please
I'm writing a book now but abiding
Linfox my next book is gonna be a
best-seller it's about Habad and Linfox
oh but they'll have enough information
forget about citizenship forget about
see it's not a healthy way of thinking
and we finished that we had our mock
already in the holocaust finished the
ending we went we went through what we
had to go through and even then the free
that can ever told us October of the
South were rough came to the red but the
free to Kadapa our author in 48 or 49
and he said what you just said that he
feels that the Holocaust was a
punishment for the assimilation and the
previous never said then don't make
God's right okay and the shot murder was
a big person and the free to kill ever
was also a great person asking what does
that mean what is it what does what mean
in other words I said brother Holocaust
we don't understand it and you're just
and you're finding reasons why you
brought the Holocaust it is not
justified headon were killed
they're all kadesha Ellendale when a
mysterious death wish that some say for
postions anyone that's killed in insane
by the Grahame is accomplished it's a
shock of the kasam safer who wasn't
across it etc and in fact the Satmar of
the sock bird by them that I'm safer is
God himself like they go by the soccer
but some safer so Sam say percent
dependent care didn't say this but their
ever said is a 1985 to regarding the
rabbi shocking in Bnei Brak who was who
said that that that the reason that
there was issues that
Klaas was because of the sinners and i
remember that far brain i heard it while
I was in California that it was storming
and he quoted the shock of the Sam
cipher
so I'm saying to say that the Berlin
Oasis passing is a mocker because of
simulation this is like you know to me
it's like it's what's the word I'm
there's a word in English it's like when
you give up well if the fatalism but
it's a cool you know anyway yeah but
from from from this minor when the
weather is talking about how how what
we've learned that whatever we supposed
to do this for our chemin not for
ourselves and take ourselves out of the
equation I think it's a beautiful thing
but I think that today we see people
today that are so sucked into the low
lachemann where where they want to be
part of a system they want to be part of
the shivoham' scene they worry about
that objective because in 18 years from
now the donors have to get married and
you should overlook about this and so a
few times people are getting sucked into
the things that are wrong that are lowly
schmuck and the Shema goes by the side
of the road meaning people are not doing
oppression think they're maybe doing it
for their children and they be doing it
for their own honor more or they want
the neighbors or they get support
you know the revela helps them the
community helps them right and then they
have you know it's like keeping up with
batteries he finished with the joneses
terminology like that dress like this
dress like that
you're a heavier you're Jones or
whatever there is right right right
right at and and I agree however the
flipside is not to be a pariah and not
to be an outcast that's not the answer
Melinda would still wore a jacket
you know and a hat you know the saying
there is appropriateness you know
there's something goes that accredits
but you're right doing it because of the
Jones it's not with small absolutely and
I mean you're strengthening the point
you're not arguing with the point
because you're not just the Gemara says
betrayed shall it's a camera of
literalists didn't argue with the camera
molecularly small burl is small this
means that there are imposters you
trainer a person as a child you give me
fresh candies today they were given
carrots given push Karis he had no
problem with sweets so he didn't write
carrots he wrote candies you know you're
the right kid but that's what he meant
anyway after that you give him toys and
if the toys you give him honor and after
an or giving something else and final
and that's also a smart says that I'm
bomb that's acceptable because from
daddy will come to the small so what
what we understand anything is that that
if if a person is weak and we are big
week the sense is the question I think
one answer to you if your issue the
issue you mentioned that your issue the
issue you mentioning people want to
belong people want to be long story when
I came to Marin County I had a group of
Bella bottom someone said in the Shabbos
some were not
there was three what a particular was
not fully certain Shabbos he was drives
to shoot at that time to stop later I
mean with avid Inc and everyone's
wearing the guard told these three Bala
button and wait a minute to you know a
Garko
a guard tool is a Hasidic thing to wear
outside you famous Shabbos you wear
Garfield you're not true you're driving
the Shabbos and you wear a guard cool
like at that time in my books coming
from Crown Heights from Borough Park it
doesn't add up
you don't wear a guard pill if you don't
keep Travis and and so one of the other
two guys and it
bothered me really I was very upset
another and he called he said to me and
he called me ascites of listening we are
like a a fraternity a brother a brother
they reformed conserved they have the
brother Brotherhood's you know you know
this is where we're at you know we're
not we're not you know we didn't really
get Eva what coming is for us a sense of
belonging is very important and I saw
that he was right because the guard till
eventually turned in to him keeping
Shabbos people people want to belong
unit you understand and and and the fact
is that that why did they go to the me
receiver you know Ruben has a son and
then in me receiver you know and I
thought okay so of the lit Fox collinear
I understand this 300 I see the Shabbat
current from Borough Park in Warrensburg
and Muncie their fathers which triangles
they have to cross them to pay us with
the everything and the langar ecla and
there are mere what are you doing a
mirror you should be nicer to see Shiva
they all doesn't have you Shiva care
doesn't have a yeshiva about doesn't
have the issue the answer is they want
to be able to say on their resume that
they learned Bhairav Ariely rabbi really
is a most fantastic rough area early at
mere you see Volusia lion Roth Ariely
and if they could write yes that back up
a little cousin flipped out for a boat
why I said that that all these buck
remove 300 Ksyusha buffer and they have
entire huh Boris groups in the mirror
and and and and mirrors illiteracy Shiva
what are they doing there what bells
bother Sat Birla Bhavan
there's not enough of Sheba's both
American and artists wrote no they want
to be able to say on their of their
resume when it comes to that they
learned by robbery le nerevar ele is a
gavel the market share teacher he is now
so you gonna say y'all need they keeping
up with the Jones
I wanted there they are on the other
hand they're learning of oil Tyra and so
said what I'm saying is you have to
really discern what the issue is you
can't put it all in one bag and and I've
seen people who go to the opposite
extreme both in the film world and it
also doesn't lead to good you know
results like I'm gonna show you no I'm
gonna show everybody that I don't I
don't have to belong to a system I could
do it you know the way I want then
that's also not with small if you think
that's the small it's not the small
that's for your ego because you have a
Type A or personality or whatever and
you want to rebel against society you
want to rebel against your parents you
want to rebel against your community so
you say I could dress the way I want to
come to shul and in a Chabad House and
hibachi
no one's gonna throw me out everyone's
accepted it's true everyone's accepted
but don't think for a moment that in a
hibachi shoe you go over to the oven you
go to the Torah dress just the way you
are the pale if someone comes in we we
hug him and we invite him and and we
work with him but is that the way the
the river and the Habad rebus wanted
their shoe to be no they wanted people
to come in respectfully that person
doesn't know we provide yarmulkes we
pride shows and we help you with the
brother and we hug you and if I bring
with you and that were always said and I
heard this from him thousands of times
that when it comes to mate we're talking
about the shuva from the beginning you
have to tell them their 613 mitzvahs I
know you're not there because you got to
do the first Mitzvah number one but you
should know the 613 and I could tell you
that some of us worked in this field 240
years I can tell you that I've been told
by people confided in me they were upset
they weren't told by their rap
with Ashlee up whatever that there's
this and this and this and they found
that only 20 years later and they were
very upset so it's not something just to
you know shove out the window and I'm
convinced Rabbi Melilla whatsoever show
them would have will agree with me I'm
convinced that's not what he meant
because you see from his own life on one
hand he was very open-minded accepting
of others and other systems at the same
time he was steeped in the tradition of
of your disguise and of his you describe
which was basically a literature did he
you know at the end of the day you know
he wasn't he wasn't a faucet he was it
was a little interesting you know and
you know I I have stories with that too
and that's and that's fine that was the
tradition that he chose so so you know
like I I had a few weeks ago on the
clips now boys are fine steam so someone
wrote in spoke so highly of the
relations didn't a bunch of ricin in the
river the summer road and a good friend
of mine car McLaughlin reminds she was
accosted so I wrote back admission was
not a closet it's a fact it's factually
wrong and I cited a story in 1939 with
relation and an alibi but Ravi Jacobsen
that's printed and I didn't write it and
it was the person who was there printed
and I don't want to repeat it now and
the kid says he was not across it
I'm sorry he was not a question he was
involved in two years and I tell the
clutter a basic and everything but but
don't but don't you know all of a sudden
create a new a new reality it's not and
and the same is over here so and
nevertheless this eed was committed
anyway the buy-side way to go Saiga's
onto everyone will put