Practical Chasidus w R' Chaim Dalfin - Purim Maamar 1934 #7

got it no but I'm starting to write about him Wow why do you think about him now just yet just last item new tonight right I wrote I put into my writing a section on the voce now let me have this Elia everyone let's learn together okay well learning about how to how to get rid of Amalek doubts by the way yesterday we were talking about the issue of a mullick being hoofer we did not discuss the idea of a mullick being doubts throwing doubts into you let's see if it talks about it now if not maybe I'll I'll get into it later so here is my Ken yes Lahab deal but clipper Bay's Mena goss's the rabbit says that when it comes to clipper to the negative husk when it comes to the energy that is antithetical to God we call that clipper there are two type of gah suit and give us the word gospel means gruff kite you can't buy that word for a million bucks in English grab a kite what does grub kite mean coarseness another word in english that we use is corporeality Kippur reality okay and two types he says one is yeah that's right the same word the word got gas or gas suit means thick now how you apply it there is a behavior that there is a Bahama docker there is an animal whose hide is thin and there is an animal a Bahama agasa whose hide is thick depending on where you get the the parts would from either this type of animal that type of animal both mean kosher of course as the sofa here can tell us but but but that's the difference between darkus filling that are called packet or tuned are called gases but the word gaseous means thick heavy or in yiddish grub okay grub so the rebus says there are two types of grub height two types of thickness and oh I live gossip shall be are done this is a type of thickness of the type of grub height that makes sense Kumari the harem Sedna's go ahead the muscle someone who really is a wise person a studied person has lots of knowledge but that's what he brags with his knowledge he boasts so he does have knowledge he went to Harvard to Yale to punish he has a lot of knowledge but he shows off everywhere and anywhere the Zell rock the hawk bought the Clipper this tuvia is what we call Hummer of clipper it's the wisdom of clipper because he has wisdom after all he has wisdom but it's a wisdom that is clipper that's negative why are you showing off who are you to show off the kedusha area that I've been saying about so that le cose eyes in holiness when it comes to kedusha the more logic and understanding you have the morning motion causes you what to be more humble I have a bookkeeper who yes you Macias knowledge let the expression of little knowledge is dangerous we're talking about someone was about divert the more knowledge the more he say yes he feels an exist on something unimportant so that's one example that he gives of how someone uses logic uses intelligence and abuses it by boasting number two the second example oyoshi someone is wealthy God has blessed them with wealth shame is go boss Larry he's ostentatious he boasts with his wealth he shows off his wealth Oh commercial Kosova as it says in the verse for Sheila Yana Azam and the wealthy one will respond with a sauce with hutzpah with Austin being ostentatious or outrageous she's L mid-may array table volley and why does he do that because he has a broad heart in the sense of hey I'm the wealthy guy I have so much money God has made me rich shade sleaze by sucker he was successful in his business affairs and therefore he says if it's good enough for God to make me wealthy why can I not flaunt my wealth and show off says that ever the Behrman is infinitely escape in truth this attitude of the smart fellow and the wealthy fellow should not be the way we just described why not the hasib emotion is Gorby australasia relationship declare for eights and yogi also white-collar Kailasa the person who does this thinks that the reason why I was blessed with wealth is because I myself made my wealth I created I studied the market and I studied the investment and I went to school and I only I understand when the market is going up the one that's going down and how to make invest with in other words collapse with the oats and yogi yeah it's an expression it's my own clayey it's my own talent and therefore who's made as a hile hacer who's made this mighty warrior this mighty strong person ie chef a chef Shama dealer Yoshida's or the wealthy person says you know who I am I'm the son of the grandson of Sol Sol my great-grandfather gave his life for God and therefore goddess has blessed me return to me the favor with so much wealth so I deserve it or you know who might you know you know saying he goes back to Jesus his pedigree and he boasts with his pedigree and he says what do you expect someone else some Tom Dick and Harry's you be blessed with wealth I get the wealth because I come from the special lineage since there a problem in her day of market awareness if you would know and recognize the truth there are quote hoo-ha a SilverHawk clear classes for you it is he referring to God that gives a person KF to do mighty warrior type of activity and being the soldier the enzyme eclectic Lao it has nothing to do with your clear right yeah Hashem has blessed you why do some people have better memories than others when people haven't understand better because I sham decided for whatever reason to choose you so is it because of you no has nothing to do with you as the with God choosing you so this was the case if you would have this attitude l'homme is going cloud he would not brag at all hurray suit therefore we understand that the grub kind the coarseness her aloo came out become aa copolymer well we understand for this entire discussion Boaz is that the reason for this person's feeling that he deserves the wealth and the intelligence and everything else is because it's logical in other words you who'd up it's not like you know it's this you know person who was in Shabs and broken and and destroyed it has no gyros has no dissident all of a sudden he says our God has blessed me overnight I became a millionaire no here there is a logical rational equation to his feeling so what do we call this clipper right because boasting bragging and being ostentatious is cleaver is negative but it's LP conv das it makes sense I can understand how this person with the pedigree and their clothes and and and having studied so many years in school can conclude it makes sense that he did he created it I can understand it till you said hokum or Yasha good morning sama the Lisa hug him like oh about co-op how do you who gasps Haru Alma's God because he is indeed a a Hotham you are talking a wise to a wise person you're not poking or some people are fakers that's such con artists and if you put the pin into the bubble into the balloon it busts and it's full of air you're not talking about such a dad you're talking about someone who is a husband he truly is wise or he truly has the money in the bank he's not just lip service opened up the bank account and you'll see the millions oh he's a very very wealthy person Oh pearl clayey and he truly is a man of clayey but however the problem is how do gas volume is Goya he is a a fixed period spiritus thickness grub's course or must guard brats so that's one type of negative experience he goes the second one that this is pure outrageous hutzpah and Guyver that makes no sense yes ah social of my lumina Talmud I mean there is a type of hootsburgh that transcends logic completely oh c'mon you shame what you did basically him someone who has no knowledge of intelligence for on the swallow notion he is a pauper of the lowest kind amongst people who bazoo yet you know the previous level when he wanted to describe someone he could really give you the adjectives but he says here if the imposition let me support anger you did beseech with number one number two the unnie swallow a notion he's this poor guy lowest of humanity of people of men and number two who bazooey a disposable sous-chef Ibaka su top pik Huson and he is so shameful buzzer Lee buzzer Lee disgraced he's amongst the lowest of the low so he talking about really someone who is really low the guy Mubarak some of your day I please for latest if you say and really this fellow that were describing now he knows his loneliness he knows his his his disgraceful nasubi Calma Calma nevertheless white middle that did I got liberation he rises and stands up against the greatest person that he that he encounters come on son arrive as we see but if he has a partner we see the nature of hootsburgh ox shoebox mama laughs me if you asked him about himself he would tell you file that I'm a low-life Macomb Oakland woman nodded my god like goodness Olivier sir nevertheless he has the audacity the hood spur to oppose someone who's God oh great varnish birth be OSA and very respectful she close of nation eyes the Gospels said this is because it's so deep within him that who is this individual he by nature is a husband yuck the first guy we described Moshe is not that way the first guy is good a regular good guy however his mind is warped or an innocent his heart's warped say comes up with calculations and argumentations why he deserves everything and he's flaunted the second guy knows really by himself I'm a nothing I am such a disgrace but nevertheless he'll come into shul and it'll make himself like a big big muscle and he claps and and argues with real intelligent and fine people because this person has ghazal gasp Backson so we have two terms we have a gas that's not a gossiper SM and then we have number to a gas piensan that got grub like that thickness that coarseness incorpo reality is really coming from his essence say no yo ho has those two the hoods Bodom oh it says the river this second description of Cooper is really Tomas what we saw with our Moloch why God should all give an eco speech his medallion they saw regardless revealed when we Jews left Egypt number two right remember what I told you yesterday leaving Egypt the garage she says MELAS crusher muffin crusher the hardest of places to get out of and the hardest type of a king the most difficult type of terror King and yet we succeeded in beshal of piraeus um he sends us out we leave Egypt number 2 we read last week in the partial clear so the splitting of the Red Sea you see open miracles in front of your eyes they behold the whole Agana miss ballroom oh I got him around all the non-jews were his follow they were impacted that Northup a fetish a Malayan and the fear of God fell upon them and he said we better not start up with these Jews they've got the God their God is really like stamens helping them if they were able to get out of here commercial call serve as it says and we say this every day and I want you to think about it tomorrow when you dive in some oh I'm home dear cousin the nation's the army in-laws yes I would say this heard your guzzle there there the fear they realized we but we better not start up with these guys comes about molecules a little missile comes along another enemy called that Moloch and he battles with the Jews you just saw open miracles you saw that girl loves these people there's no rational reason he would have taken them out as it says also the measures we just speak about of the pace of time we were immersed in forty nine gates of inter of tumor of impurity why would you take them out and make miracles with them because they're my love I love them I love them to death they're my love I want them and he performs the miracles so comes along a people and says I don't care I still will stand up to them and we call that nation a Malik the Zahra but super honey craze Maha Sabha light Agha this is a type of culture that's called a kingship a mountainous royalty regality beloit Agha that doesn't have a crown meaning let my limit time with us right there is the mind Moshe which is thus a whole right that's then there's the crown that kept there right you guys learned you learned a little sorceress there's the Kesser the crown right so there is the crown what makes the king the intelligence no not every every good lawyer coming from Harvard or Yale becomes Alan Dershowitz I'm sorry right I had a excellent lawyer who helped me win my Chabad House cases and nineteen ninety eighty nine ninety in Marin County good Jewish boy was born in Crown Heights Sandy Rosen he was the lead lawyer in the 1974 Kent State Ohio shooting case great guy he was a classmate of Alan Dershowitz at Yale good but he's not you know buddy-buddy with wit with President Trump and whatever good or bad I'm not believe me Alan Durst which is not for my favorites because he wrote a book that basically supports patrilineal descent which we're not going to go into now it's a whole other discussion but at the same time at the same time not everyone that that that that is intelligent becomes a crown only select few so that's what we're saying here this type of hutzpah is a hutzpah that's the negative crown it's such a position of hutzpah that puts you not just it's not coming from intelligence the first type that we discussed earlier but it's the crown it's the but in the negative sense it's not the crown in a good sense it's it's it's cooper below toddler the my limit canva das next page the ain't no yellow next page turned the page fight 157 with not the delhi close the only purpose of it is one thing to oppose god omekata : you leaky and what does it do blow us listen to this show it cools off boom a career it's like a refrigerator cold and you know the key you know here you are your energy strode you come back from the river you come back from the kotel you come back from the rush be excited the someone says to you in shul what are you getting excited every person goes every Monday Thursday to the cry soul what do you what are you how keep it shining well you're you're such a holy guy that you have who are you faking Macario apathy cools off the godly feeling that you have towards the experience looking you this young English killed a tilt up asthma's omit the spell venom Flavius The Aleph is missing a pay tilt up kilt means a cold and yet as you say Moshe it is for a kilt he has a cold kilt cold you can hear the word cold CE o LD killed K coffee or climate s kill that is for a kilt he is cooled off he has a cold what is the cold the cold is that whatever whatever excitement there is and passion I say what are you getting so excited for take it easy when he jumping all over the place they getting so excited and carry away you know you know the many people say oh you have the BT syndrome about you of a syndrome you've been from reddit 2013 you've been through 25 30 years it's enough time you're not a bt anymore you're ffb by now FF B's we don't get excited we don't get excited we take everything level-headed the pts it's a new experience and excited at Cal kite that's cooling off a person who is excited about a Shen of rootless the zel Clippers Amber Lee says that ever that's the clip of a mullet if you want to know what I mother gives the day in interruption pay in 2020 in Borough Park in in Florida and bet Shemesh and anywhere and everywhere it's the attitude of clipper some other kids to cool off someone's passion or your own passion this is Bay because by a mother kid says I should care about data what did I mother do it says he suddenly attacked us unannounced right we were going out of tryin on the way there's this row right all of a sudden it was an ambush I should clarify but there are but the word Carla's used which is a very interesting word to use when you want to talk about this type of an attack comes along the casitas and others forum and says that the word curse also means from the word car cold what was the matter of which a Malik attacked you in a sudden way by cooling you off trying to cool you off said Nakata dabba Denis one sec one sec let me finish the fourth shame Acharya but then after Tora Mitzvahs very importantly guys cuz this is worth a million bucks he cooled off the death someone says my darreth is I'm slurred I'm Moroccan and I love to chant the shoe slowly the words together that's my Dara comes along the nos cannot see it says what are you out of your mind you're gonna work that infest there's a cluster of diamonds for a few hours and since when it's Tyler Shabbos and he laughs and he cries an important heart out comes along someone else and says your wife was waiting for you the Dara your Dara you decide to choose a Daryl that you like that you want to grow your beard you want to grow full beard and people say yeah what do you need a full beard it's not stylish you don't look great that's the Dare if you chose the idea where someone can cool off your Daryl or if you yourself decide to cool off your Daris that's our mo Lake no one is allowed to cool off someone's there Hashem gave every Jew the right to choose their Dara so we talk about off the Daris that's a big buzzword right o t be that's the base buzzword one of the buzz words in the Jewish community what does it mean off the dareth means that you cool off the Dara you're cooling off the Derick find people that Clippers are Molokai they came amid system Isis bejita the helpers cry screaming so the issue that is you hood up what is the antidote what is the solution for this very very vicious problem what is the issue if your own spouse pools you're dead and believe me it happens as much as you spoke your spouse loves you and likes you and all that but sometimes you know like what the heck do you need to do this for right we gotta talk we gotta talk meeting potatoes otherwise it's you haven't learned from me in the morning so if your own spouse is is is belittling the darreth that you've chosen says that happened to my Mihir look what he says don't take my word for just follow his words he says here the habit oh the Clippers are malik the way to a no to destroy to remove this clipper this bad attitude who are you taking mistress my sees by doing the actual mitzvah be he door in the most beautiful way overhead just cries leave me with an inner feeling in Yiddish Tana mitzvah varam to a mitzvah yoni violent warmly omit 11 the kite and with the liveliness oka made mrs. trilling let's see what he says la had their big Siva parties we have a sofa motion right here for example the mid soft feeling don't just buy yourself a pair till and buy yourself a beautiful pair villain that the portions were written by such a beautiful software like bullsháá yes it's gonna cost you more and if you want down terrific South down the rivers right it's gonna cost even more it's true but that's but no but but right right about whatever whatever you the point is if you could afford it if I said you can afford it or you try to make make make it happen you go and buy yourself the extra Mitzvah I they say that now look over here Mumbai via nature mayhem you know you gotta have an expert cipher and that's not enough there are many people that can write calligraphy very nice but he has to be Eurasian Mayan he shouldn't be listening to rock and roll when he's writing the Torah or the trillion or the mezuzah you know he shouldn't be half undressed when he's riding because it's hot outside so he's you know he's riding with his shorts it doesn't work that way you're paying for a sofa who is riding with generation my him and you want to make sure that his here a shin myeon if I told you when my father took me as a little boy to a sofa and Crown Heights I still have the memory I must have been seven eight years old in a little dinky dark we went upstairs and into a room that looked like I went into a place of a thousand years ago and the sofa had a little light over and he was writing he was a Jew from Russia again you know it seemed to me this is a Eurasian maíam you know he's concentrating I'm not saying you have to write in darkness you shouldn't you have to see the words one should have them a nice light and the bright place it enhances your writing and but I'm saying the idea is the Eurasian I am the same particular local he says be ticking buckets film right in a few months it's gonna be ello you're gonna want to check your filling you want to correct the bottom the bottom Vaughn the horse and burros and you want to put them on your head if I stay on your arm yeah but do they have to be exact not that your head trillions to left to the right and it looks like you have a you know a scope but back to scope on your head so the doctor turns it to left or right depending what he has to see here it says Baden fo it has to be right in middle and on your hands it's the blood pressure the blood pressure gotta be exactly on the muscle facing the heart right so in other words these ideas you know so easy to poopoo this what's the difference I put on to him this morning it has to be exactly I have to take a little mirror or ask my friend is it in between right so we sometimes we say what are you so holy that you have to make yourself it's like you're pretending you try to show off no you have a right if that's your dealer and you want to do the Mitzvah that ever says here so what is he getting at that the beautifying of the Mitzvah is the way to crush our Malik because what I'm only trying to do to pull the details to pooh-pooh Ladera that's the particular issue we're identifying now as they are Moloch he says put on tefillin learn but why must you do it in a certain way let's continue another example the same admits instances over mr. Shabbos same is true regarding the midst of senses and the bits of Shabbos busy heinous esata to be very careful of a sufferer and to increase mikhail alochol dish don't wait to last minute to begin Shabbos you have to increase the hostess come to short a little earlier begin earlier be moseph don't have that you know johnny-come-lately i wait to the last minute to leave my house and as soon as Shabbos is over I got to get out there cuz I got a smoke my cigarette or check my by whatsapp and my messages jerk it's Shabbos you should be savoring in the Shabbos keep on sitting and enjoying Shabbos let that damn phone go somewhere just continue with Shabbos know as soon as exactly what time is my roof exactly that minute I gotta get out I suffer I suffer IDI pain from the weekday me hell a lot kodesh without hunger Shabbos prepare yourself for Shabbos what did you do this Friday everyone has to ask himself what did I do every week I help my wife in the kitchen what else am I gonna do this Friday to prepare myself you know what I'm gonna do I'm gonna send out a message or course uh but I say how are you have a great Chavez or someone else is gonna buy an extra Holland give it to someone else I hung up the Shabbos she began my shoppers craters yeah like I'm able a Sequoia all of this will create that your Shabbos will not be just another weekday the Aspire bussiness how would that be the case you'll pray you'll dive in patiently calmly you won't rush your diving so you can eat the Chung stuff yourself and they'll earn the cash like you have dead you won't do that you'll Davin patiently quietly let me see note let everyone press and run to the kiddush and you're still saying till amor Dominic the Yosef will mine and you'll increase your time people say oh what shop is about Shabbos about more time to sleep more time to gossip idiot shop is about increasing your connection to God to learn more you know there were Jewish they were Jews that didn't sleep Shabbos they were called shomer Shabbos what a showman Shabbos mean they guarded they watched the Shabbos you know the holidays in the Rambam Tuvia that there was a guard attack on a tower outside of the of the base of meat dish to guard the holy temple right so that no one comes in that's not supposed to no one no enemy right we call that a shown there a guard was that guard awake absolutely if he was if he fell asleep he replaced him Seamus Shabbos there were Jews and still are who don't sleep Shabbos 24 hours I mean of course if they fall asleep they fall asleep at wherever they are but they don't go into a bed they guard the Shabbos they're protecting the Shabbos Seamus Shabbos I mean again we're not there because we usually you know if we don't sleep we're a mess the next day but think about it just think about the idea that's what a real shomer Shabbos is so the person who comes to shul and everyone's rushing to the kiddush and it's a Bar Mitzvah and it's a bris it's my best the Bar Mitzvah will be there the bris will be there the your best friends your sight will be there I trust me trust me and if you come towards the end of the kiddush she'll be just as happy if he knows that you learnt and I've an extra for his father's are some bazzill so so what do we have from oldest what we have from all this is the way to eliminate our Moloch now let me just it's very interesting he presents a very a very difficult type of animal ik right someone and something that poo-poos the dareth without logic hutzpah the ultimate hood spell and what does he says the antidote the antidote is to be Mahathir and Mitzvahs that's what he says in this minor not just to do a mitzvah you don't need to my mirth to tell you to do a mitzvah the antidote here is to be Mahadevan in service to beautify a mitzvah so my question to you is how is that a way of destroying the the outrageous mo leak that we presented earlier in in the minor and the answer is the answer is that when someone opposes you in a way that's not logical just because you're Jewish and just because you're you're from and just because you're doing you chose a Darris the there's no logical explanation to that person the only thing you could do and should do is increase your Derek increase your beauty in other words show that show the a mullick that opposes you that wants you to stop your Derek that you're going to continue and do more and more of your Derek and a beautifying the Mitzvah so I don't need to have the nicest pair of trilling I don't need to you know how logically I'm a lot of start Travis when the at after the 18 minutes and end it right after when it's when the taste at the oven 3 stars but I'm going to beautify the beginning of the end of shoppers that beautify might fill it in my mezuzah and much a duck and everything else because it's not logical it's I'm going beyond logic and that's what we need here in other words the antidote for someone who's attacking you beyond logic which makes no sense its reciprocate without logic right you know in other words the argument that your spouse says to you why do you have to be so so fanatical if she considers you a fanatic well why do you have to do this why can't you just be killed the answer is you're right logically I could be killed I'm so excited about God and this darest that I that this is this I love it that is the response to a mulligan so that's so we have here that tomorrow will come to finish the moment what we have here is a very important piece of advice for daily common issues that we experience ourselves our families and our friends now someone had a question was yaya someone else or comment now's your time not tried not trying what what do you guys say about this idea have a great day what it's it's it's real this piece is really review review it it's very important very very important because this is so calm especially in the front community and the right wing from community where everyone poo-poos the other ones thereof and all that here you have this rapper this sadiq looking at it as a in a real down-to-earth way this is down-to-earth this isn't Kabbalah here you really down-to-earth and he's analyzing what should be done for this type of an issue and and and it's very important to think about it and to find find issues in our life that we could intensify that's what he's talking about here he's talking about not chillin out but intensifying and and and again again not to hurt other people you know you're gonna intensify being shul all day and your kids need you to do your homework your excuse me a jerk you'll get home and help your kids with the homework but we're talking about when they don't need you cuz they're now reading a book or they're watching the video whatever the case right right now it's your time to intensify so yoni you have your home shul over there the carboxyl share with them this message this is such an important message to share with the issue with now we have with air to throw it's a time now to to intensify our our love of title mitzvahs and the Dara and but everyone should respect the other persons there unless the Daris is you know fakers who are the name of Torah are abusing people and things like that that are going down or stealing from the government or cheating and that that's not that's not Torah that's how Malik that is charlatans we're not talking about that and unfortunately we know there is that we're talking about and again begin with yourself the first thing is begin with yourself you know before you worry about your spouse you didn't marry your spouse you know that right you guys know you didn't marry your spouse to be their rabbi if you did you better check it out again look up to me yeah you're not your spouse's rabbi and she ain't your rabbi does that mean to say you shouldn't discuss things and you shouldn't you know you know discussion is great and and arousing each other to do more and constructive criticism is as we learnt them into my mom earlier this year is so important but it has to be from the right person at the end of the day it's you it's I it's us ourselves right so when we talk about the the Derek and we talked about the antithesis to mo like we have to make that choice have a good day everyone's I doesn't we love you Oh shallow breath ah yes well you are you are a Holy Roller and just disregard them and do what you have to and you don't you still jump jump on them and give them a big kiss and embrace the guy will be what they don't just do that that's it believe me he'll never ever say a bad word against take care side isn't