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Practical Chasidus w R' Chaim Dalfin - Purim Maamar 1934 #7
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Practical tips to remove one's Amalek
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got it no but I'm starting to write
about him Wow why do you think about him
now just yet just last item new tonight
right I wrote I put into my writing a
section on the voce now let me have this
Elia everyone let's learn together okay
well learning about how to how to get
rid of Amalek doubts by the way
yesterday we were talking about the
issue of a mullick being hoofer we did
not discuss the idea of a mullick being
doubts throwing doubts into you let's
see if it talks about it now if not
maybe I'll I'll get into it later so
here is my Ken yes Lahab deal but
clipper Bay's Mena goss's the rabbit
says that when it comes to clipper to
the negative husk when it comes to the
energy that is antithetical to God we
call that clipper there are two type of
gah suit and give us the word gospel
means gruff kite you can't buy that word
for a million bucks in English
grab a kite what does grub kite mean
coarseness another word in english that
we use is corporeality Kippur reality
okay and two types he says one is yeah
that's right the same word the word got
gas or gas suit means thick now how you
apply it
there is a behavior that there is a
Bahama docker there is an animal whose
hide is thin and there is an animal a
Bahama agasa
whose hide is thick depending on where
you get the the parts would from either
this type of animal that type of animal
both mean kosher of course as the sofa
here can tell us but but but that's the
difference between darkus filling that
are called packet or tuned are called
gases but the word gaseous means thick
heavy or in yiddish grub
okay grub so the rebus says there are
two types of grub height two types of
thickness and oh I live gossip shall be
are done this is a type of thickness of
the type of grub height that makes sense
Kumari the harem Sedna's go ahead the
muscle someone who really is a wise
person a studied person has lots of
knowledge but that's what he brags with
his knowledge he boasts so he does have
knowledge he went to Harvard to Yale to
punish he has a lot of knowledge but he
shows off everywhere and anywhere
the Zell rock the hawk bought the
Clipper this tuvia is what we call
Hummer of clipper it's the wisdom of
clipper because he has wisdom after all
he has wisdom but it's a wisdom that is
clipper that's negative why are you
showing off who are you to show off the
kedusha area that I've been saying about
so that le cose eyes
in holiness when it comes to kedusha the
more logic and understanding you have
the morning motion causes you what to be
more humble I have a bookkeeper who yes
you Macias knowledge let the expression
of little knowledge is dangerous
we're talking about someone was about
divert the more knowledge the more he
say yes he feels an exist on something
unimportant so that's one example that
he gives of how someone uses logic uses
intelligence and abuses it by boasting
number two the second example
oyoshi someone is wealthy God has
blessed them with wealth
shame is go boss Larry he's ostentatious
he boasts with his wealth he shows off
his wealth Oh commercial Kosova as it
says in the verse for Sheila Yana
Azam and the wealthy one will respond
with a sauce with hutzpah with Austin
being ostentatious or outrageous she's L
mid-may array table volley and why does
he do that because he has a broad heart
in the sense of hey I'm the wealthy guy
I have so much money
God has made me rich shade sleaze by
sucker
he was successful in his business
affairs and therefore he says if it's
good enough for God to make me wealthy
why can I not flaunt my wealth and show
off says that ever the Behrman is
infinitely escape in truth this attitude
of the smart fellow and the wealthy
fellow should not be the way we just
described why not
the hasib emotion is Gorby australasia
relationship declare for eights and yogi
also white-collar Kailasa the person who
does this thinks that the reason why
I was blessed with wealth is because I
myself made my wealth I created
I studied the market and I studied the
investment and I went to school and I
only I understand when the market is
going up the one that's going down and
how to make invest with in other words
collapse with the oats and yogi yeah
it's an expression
it's my own clayey it's my own talent
and therefore who's made as a hile hacer
who's made this mighty warrior this
mighty strong person ie chef a chef
Shama dealer Yoshida's or the wealthy
person says you know who I am I'm the
son of the grandson of Sol Sol
my great-grandfather gave his life for
God and therefore goddess has blessed me
return to me the favor with so much
wealth so I deserve it or you know who
might you know you know saying he goes
back to Jesus his pedigree and he boasts
with his pedigree and he says what do
you expect someone else some Tom Dick
and Harry's you be blessed with wealth
I get the wealth because I come from the
special lineage since there a problem in
her day of market awareness if you would
know and recognize the truth
there are quote hoo-ha a SilverHawk
clear classes for you it is he referring
to God that gives a person KF to do
mighty warrior type of activity and
being the soldier the enzyme eclectic
Lao it has nothing to do with your clear
right yeah Hashem has blessed you why do
some people have better memories than
others when people haven't understand
better because I sham decided for
whatever reason to choose you so is it
because of you
no has nothing to do with you as the
with God choosing you so this was the
case if you would have this attitude
l'homme is going cloud he would not brag
at all hurray
suit therefore we understand that the
grub kind the coarseness her aloo came
out become aa copolymer well we
understand for this entire discussion
Boaz is that the reason for this
person's feeling that he deserves the
wealth and the intelligence and
everything else is because it's logical
in other words you who'd up it's not
like you know it's this you know person
who was in Shabs and broken and and
destroyed it has no gyros has no
dissident all of a sudden he says our
God has blessed me overnight I became a
millionaire no here there is a logical
rational equation to his feeling so what
do we call this clipper right because
boasting bragging and being ostentatious
is cleaver is negative but it's LP conv
das it makes sense I can understand how
this person with the pedigree and their
clothes and and and having studied so
many years in school can conclude it
makes sense that he did he created it I
can understand it
till you said hokum or Yasha good
morning sama the Lisa hug him like oh
about co-op how do you who gasps
Haru Alma's God because he is indeed a a
Hotham you are talking a wise to a wise
person you're not poking or some people
are fakers that's such con artists and
if you put the pin into the bubble into
the balloon it busts and it's full of
air you're not talking about such a dad
you're talking about someone who is a
husband he truly is wise or he truly has
the money in the bank he's not just lip
service opened up the bank account and
you'll see the millions oh
he's a very very wealthy person Oh pearl
clayey and he truly is a man of clayey
but however the problem is how do gas
volume is Goya he is a a fixed period
spiritus thickness grub's course or must
guard brats
so that's one type of negative
experience he goes the second one that
this is pure outrageous hutzpah and
Guyver that makes no sense yes ah social
of my lumina Talmud I mean there is a
type of hootsburgh that transcends logic
completely oh c'mon you shame what you
did basically him someone who has no
knowledge of intelligence for on the
swallow notion he is a pauper of the
lowest kind amongst people who bazoo yet
you know the previous level when he
wanted to describe someone he could
really give you the adjectives but he
says here if the imposition let me
support anger you did beseech with
number one number two the unnie swallow
a notion he's this poor guy lowest of
humanity of people of men and number two
who bazooey
a disposable sous-chef Ibaka su top pik
Huson and he is so shameful buzzer Lee
buzzer Lee disgraced he's amongst the
lowest of the low so he talking about
really someone who is really low the guy
Mubarak some of your day I please for
latest if you say and really this fellow
that were describing now he knows his
loneliness he knows his his his
disgraceful nasubi Calma Calma
nevertheless white middle that did I got
liberation he rises and stands up
against the greatest person that he that
he encounters come on son arrive as we
see but if he has a partner we see the
nature of hootsburgh ox shoebox mama
laughs me if you asked him about himself
he would tell you file that I'm a
low-life Macomb Oakland woman nodded my
god like goodness Olivier sir
nevertheless he has the audacity the
hood spur to oppose someone who's God oh
great varnish birth
be OSA and very respectful she close of
nation eyes
the Gospels said this is because it's so
deep within him that who is this
individual he by nature is a husband
yuck the first guy we described Moshe is
not that way
the first guy is good a regular good guy
however his mind is warped or an
innocent his heart's warped say comes up
with calculations and argumentations why
he deserves everything and he's flaunted
the second guy knows really by himself
I'm a nothing I am such a disgrace but
nevertheless he'll come into shul and
it'll make himself like a big big muscle
and he claps and and argues with real
intelligent and fine people because this
person has ghazal gasp Backson so we
have two terms we have a gas that's not
a gossiper SM and then we have number to
a gas piensan that got grub like that
thickness that coarseness incorpo
reality is really coming from his
essence say no yo ho has those two the
hoods Bodom oh it says the river this
second description of Cooper is really
Tomas what we saw with our Moloch why
God should all give an eco speech his
medallion they saw regardless revealed
when we Jews left Egypt number two right
remember what I told you yesterday
leaving Egypt the garage she says MELAS
crusher muffin crusher the hardest of
places to get out of and the hardest
type of a king the most difficult type
of terror King and yet we succeeded in
beshal of piraeus um he sends us out we
leave Egypt number 2 we read last week
in the partial clear so the splitting of
the Red Sea
you see open miracles in front of your
eyes they behold the whole Agana miss
ballroom oh I got him around all the
non-jews were his follow they were
impacted that Northup a fetish a Malayan
and the fear of God fell upon them and
he said we better not start up with
these Jews
they've got the God their God is really
like stamens helping them if they were
able to get out of here
commercial call serve as it says and we
say this every day and I want you to
think about it tomorrow when you dive in
some oh I'm home dear cousin the
nation's the army in-laws yes I would
say this heard your guzzle there there
the fear they realized we but we better
not start up with these guys comes about
molecules a little missile comes along
another enemy called that Moloch and he
battles with the Jews you just saw open
miracles you saw that girl loves these
people there's no rational reason he
would have taken them out as it says
also the measures we just speak about of
the pace of time we were immersed in
forty nine gates of inter of tumor of
impurity why would you take them out and
make miracles with them because they're
my love I love them I love them to death
they're my love I want them and he
performs the miracles so comes along a
people and says I don't care I still
will stand up to them and we call that
nation a Malik the Zahra but super honey
craze Maha Sabha light Agha this is a
type of culture that's called a kingship
a mountainous royalty regality beloit
Agha that doesn't have a crown meaning
let my limit time with us right there is
the mind Moshe which is thus a whole
right that's then there's the crown that
kept there right you guys learned you
learned a little sorceress there's the
Kesser the crown right so there is the
crown what makes the king the
intelligence no not every every good
lawyer coming from Harvard or Yale
becomes Alan Dershowitz I'm sorry right
I had a excellent lawyer who helped me
win my Chabad House cases and
nineteen ninety eighty nine ninety in
Marin County good Jewish boy was born in
Crown Heights Sandy Rosen he was the
lead lawyer in the 1974 Kent State Ohio
shooting case great guy he was a
classmate of Alan Dershowitz at Yale
good but he's not you know buddy-buddy
with wit with President Trump and
whatever good or bad I'm not believe me
Alan Durst which is not for my favorites
because he wrote a book that basically
supports patrilineal descent which we're
not going to go into now it's a whole
other discussion but at the same time at
the same time not everyone that that
that that is intelligent becomes a crown
only select few so that's what we're
saying here this type of hutzpah is a
hutzpah that's the negative crown it's
such a position of hutzpah
that puts you not just it's not coming
from intelligence the first type that we
discussed earlier but it's the crown
it's the but in the negative sense it's
not the crown in a good sense it's it's
it's cooper below toddler the my limit
canva das next page the ain't no yellow
next page turned the page fight 157 with
not the delhi close the only purpose of
it is one thing to oppose god omekata :
you leaky and what does it do blow us
listen to this show it cools off boom a
career it's like a refrigerator cold and
you know the key you know here you are
your energy strode you come back from
the river you come back from the kotel
you come back from the rush be excited
the someone says to you in shul
what are you getting excited every
person goes every Monday Thursday to the
cry soul what do you what are you how
keep it shining
well you're you're such a holy guy that
you have who are you faking
Macario apathy cools off the godly
feeling that you have towards the
experience
looking you this young English killed a
tilt up
asthma's omit the spell venom Flavius
The Aleph is missing a pay
tilt up kilt means a cold and yet as you
say Moshe it is for a kilt he has a cold
kilt
cold you can hear the word cold CE o LD
killed K coffee or climate s kill that
is for a kilt
he is cooled off he has a cold
what is the cold the cold is that
whatever whatever excitement there is
and passion I say what are you getting
so excited for take it easy when he
jumping all over the place they getting
so excited and carry away you know you
know the many people say oh you have the
BT syndrome about you of a syndrome
you've been from reddit 2013 you've been
through 25 30 years it's enough time
you're not a bt anymore you're ffb by
now FF B's we don't get excited we don't
get excited we take everything
level-headed the pts it's a new
experience and excited at Cal kite
that's cooling off a person who is
excited about a Shen of rootless the zel
Clippers Amber Lee says that ever
that's the clip of a mullet if you want
to know what I mother gives the day in
interruption pay in 2020 in Borough Park
in in Florida and bet Shemesh and
anywhere and everywhere it's the
attitude of clipper some other kids to
cool off someone's passion or your own
passion this is Bay because by a mother
kid says I should care about data what
did I mother do it says he suddenly
attacked us unannounced right we were
going out of tryin on the way there's
this row right all of a sudden it was an
ambush I should clarify but there are
but the word Carla's used which is a
very interesting word to use when you
want to talk about this type of an
attack comes along the casitas and
others forum and says that the word
curse
also means from the word car cold what
was the matter of which a Malik attacked
you in a sudden way by cooling you off
trying to cool you off
said Nakata dabba Denis one sec one sec
let me finish the fourth shame Acharya
but then after Tora Mitzvahs
very importantly guys cuz this is worth
a million bucks he cooled off the death
someone says my darreth is I'm slurred
I'm Moroccan and I love to chant the
shoe slowly the words together that's my
Dara comes along the nos cannot see it
says what are you out of your mind
you're gonna work that infest there's a
cluster of diamonds for a few hours and
since when it's Tyler Shabbos and he
laughs and he cries an important heart
out comes along someone else and says
your wife was waiting for you the Dara
your Dara you decide to choose a Daryl
that you like that you want to grow your
beard you want to grow full beard and
people say yeah what do you need a full
beard it's not stylish you don't look
great
that's the Dare if you chose the idea
where someone can cool off your Daryl or
if you yourself decide to cool off your
Daris that's our mo Lake no one is
allowed to cool off someone's there
Hashem gave every Jew the right to
choose their Dara so we talk about off
the Daris that's a big buzzword right o
t be that's the base buzzword one of the
buzz words in the Jewish community what
does it mean off the dareth means that
you cool off the Dara you're cooling off
the Derick find people that Clippers are
Molokai they came amid system Isis
bejita the helpers cry screaming so the
issue that is you hood up what is the
antidote what is the solution for this
very very vicious problem what is the
issue if your own spouse pools
you're dead and believe me it happens as
much as you spoke your spouse loves you
and likes you and all that but sometimes
you know like what the heck do you need
to do this for right we gotta talk we
gotta talk meeting potatoes otherwise
it's you haven't learned from me in the
morning so if your own spouse is is is
belittling the darreth that you've
chosen says that happened to my Mihir
look what he says don't take my word for
just follow his words he says here the
habit oh the Clippers are malik the way
to a no to destroy to remove this
clipper this bad attitude who are you
taking mistress my sees by doing the
actual mitzvah be he door in the most
beautiful way overhead just cries leave
me with an inner feeling in Yiddish Tana
mitzvah varam to a mitzvah yoni violent
warmly omit 11 the kite and with the
liveliness oka made mrs. trilling let's
see what he says
la had their big Siva parties we have a
sofa motion right here for example the
mid soft feeling don't just buy yourself
a pair till and buy yourself a beautiful
pair villain that the portions were
written by such a beautiful software
like bullsháá
yes it's gonna cost you more and if you
want down terrific South down the rivers
right it's gonna cost even more it's
true but that's but no but but right
right about whatever whatever you the
point is if you could afford it if I
said you can afford it or you try to
make make make it happen you go and buy
yourself the extra Mitzvah I they say
that now look over here Mumbai via
nature mayhem you know you gotta have an
expert cipher and that's not enough
there are many people that can write
calligraphy very nice but he has to be
Eurasian Mayan he shouldn't be listening
to rock and roll when he's writing the
Torah or the trillion or the mezuzah
you know he shouldn't be half undressed
when he's riding because it's hot
outside so he's you know he's riding
with his shorts it doesn't work that way
you're paying for a sofa who is riding
with generation my him and you want to
make sure that his here a shin myeon if
I told you when my father took me as a
little boy to a sofa and Crown Heights I
still have the memory I must have been
seven eight years old in a little dinky
dark we went upstairs and into a room
that looked like I went into a place of
a thousand years ago and the sofa had a
little light over and he was writing he
was a Jew from Russia again you know it
seemed to me this is a Eurasian maíam
you know he's concentrating I'm not
saying you have to write in darkness you
shouldn't you have to see the words one
should have them a nice light and the
bright place it enhances your writing
and but I'm saying the idea is the
Eurasian I am the same particular local
he says be ticking buckets film right in
a few months it's gonna be ello you're
gonna want to check your filling you
want to correct the bottom the bottom
Vaughn the horse and burros and you want
to put them on your head if I stay on
your arm yeah but do they have to be
exact
not that your head trillions to left to
the right and it looks like you have a
you know a scope but back to scope on
your head so the doctor turns it to left
or right depending what he has to see
here it says Baden fo it has to be right
in middle and on your hands it's the
blood pressure the blood pressure gotta
be exactly on the muscle facing the
heart right so in other words these
ideas you know so easy to poopoo this
what's the difference I put on to him
this morning it has to be exactly I have
to take a little mirror or ask my friend
is it in between right so we sometimes
we say what are you so holy that you
have to make yourself it's like you're
pretending you try to show off no you
have a right if that's your dealer and
you want to do the Mitzvah that ever
says here so what is he getting at that
the beautifying of the Mitzvah is the
way to crush our Malik
because what
I'm only trying to do to pull the
details to pooh-pooh Ladera that's the
particular issue we're identifying now
as they are Moloch he says put on
tefillin learn but why must you do it in
a certain way let's continue another
example the same admits instances over
mr. Shabbos same is true regarding the
midst of senses and the bits of Shabbos
busy heinous esata to be very careful of
a sufferer and to increase mikhail
alochol dish don't wait to last minute
to begin Shabbos you have to increase
the hostess come to short a little
earlier begin earlier be moseph don't
have that you know johnny-come-lately i
wait to the last minute to leave my
house and as soon as Shabbos is over I
got to get out there cuz I got a smoke
my cigarette or check my by whatsapp and
my messages jerk it's Shabbos you should
be savoring in the Shabbos keep on
sitting and enjoying Shabbos let that
damn phone go somewhere just continue
with Shabbos know as soon as exactly
what time is my roof exactly that minute
I gotta get out I suffer I suffer IDI
pain from the weekday me hell a lot
kodesh without hunger Shabbos prepare
yourself for Shabbos what did you do
this Friday everyone has to ask himself
what did I do
every week I help my wife in the kitchen
what else am I gonna do this Friday to
prepare myself you know what I'm gonna
do I'm gonna send out a message or
course uh but I say how are you have a
great Chavez or someone else is gonna
buy an extra Holland give it to someone
else I hung up the Shabbos she began my
shoppers craters yeah like I'm able a
Sequoia all of this will create that
your Shabbos will not be just another
weekday the Aspire bussiness how would
that be the case you'll pray you'll dive
in patiently calmly you won't rush your
diving so you can eat the Chung stuff
yourself and they'll earn the cash like
you have dead you won't do that
you'll Davin patiently quietly let me
see note let everyone press and run to
the kiddush and you're still saying till
amor Dominic the Yosef will mine and
you'll increase your time people say oh
what shop is about Shabbos about more
time to sleep more time to gossip idiot
shop is about increasing your connection
to God to learn more you know there were
Jewish they were Jews that didn't sleep
Shabbos they were called shomer Shabbos
what a showman Shabbos mean they guarded
they watched the Shabbos you know the
holidays in the Rambam Tuvia that there
was a guard attack on a tower outside of
the of the base of meat dish to guard
the holy temple right so that no one
comes in that's not supposed to no one
no enemy right we call that a shown
there a guard was that guard awake
absolutely if he was if he fell asleep
he replaced him Seamus Shabbos there
were Jews and still are who don't sleep
Shabbos 24 hours I mean of course if
they fall asleep they fall asleep at
wherever they are but they don't go into
a bed they guard the Shabbos they're
protecting the Shabbos Seamus Shabbos I
mean again we're not there because we
usually you know if we don't sleep we're
a mess the next day but think about it
just think about the idea that's what a
real shomer Shabbos is so the person who
comes to shul and everyone's rushing to
the kiddush and it's a Bar Mitzvah and
it's a bris it's my best the Bar Mitzvah
will be there the bris will be there the
your best friends your sight will be
there
I trust me trust me and if you come
towards the end of the kiddush she'll be
just as happy if he knows that you
learnt and I've an extra for his
father's are some bazzill so so what do
we have from oldest what we have from
all this is the way to eliminate our
Moloch now let me just it's very
interesting he presents a very a very
difficult type of animal ik right
someone and something that poo-poos the
dareth without logic hutzpah the
ultimate hood spell and what does he
says the antidote the antidote is to be
Mahathir and Mitzvahs that's what he
says in this minor not just to do a
mitzvah you don't need to my mirth to
tell you to do a mitzvah the antidote
here is to be Mahadevan in service to
beautify a mitzvah so my question to you
is how is that a way of destroying the
the outrageous mo leak that we presented
earlier in in the minor and the answer
is the answer is that when someone
opposes you in a way that's not logical
just because you're Jewish and just
because you're you're from and just
because you're doing you chose a Darris
the there's no logical explanation to
that person the only thing you could do
and should do is increase your Derek
increase your beauty in other words show
that show the a mullick that opposes you
that wants you to stop your Derek that
you're going to continue and do more and
more of your Derek and a beautifying the
Mitzvah
so I don't need to have the nicest pair
of trilling I don't need to you know how
logically I'm a lot of start Travis when
the at after the 18 minutes and end it
right after when it's when the taste at
the oven 3 stars but I'm going to
beautify the beginning of the end of
shoppers that beautify might fill it in
my mezuzah and much a duck and
everything else because it's not logical
it's I'm going beyond logic and that's
what we need here in other words the
antidote for someone who's attacking you
beyond logic which makes no sense its
reciprocate without logic right you know
in other words the argument that your
spouse says to you why do you have to be
so so fanatical if she considers you a
fanatic well why do you have to do this
why can't you just be killed the answer
is you're right logically I could be
killed
I'm so excited about God and this darest
that I that this is this I love it that
is the response to a mulligan so that's
so we have here that tomorrow will come
to finish the moment what we have here
is a very important piece of advice for
daily common issues that we experience
ourselves our families and our friends
now someone had a question was yaya
someone else or comment now's your time
not tried not trying what what do you
guys say about this idea have a great
day what it's it's it's real this piece
is really review review it it's very
important very very important because
this is so calm especially in the front
community and the right wing from
community where everyone poo-poos the
other ones thereof and all that here you
have this rapper this sadiq looking at
it as a in a real down-to-earth way this
is down-to-earth
this isn't Kabbalah here you really
down-to-earth and he's analyzing what
should be done for this type of an issue
and and and it's very important to think
about it and to find find issues in our
life that we could intensify that's what
he's talking about here he's talking
about not chillin out but intensifying
and and and again again not to hurt
other people you know you're gonna
intensify being shul all day and your
kids need you to do your homework your
excuse me a jerk you'll get home and
help your kids with the homework but
we're talking about when they don't need
you cuz they're now reading a book or
they're watching the video whatever the
case right right now it's your time to
intensify so yoni you have your home
shul over there the carboxyl
share with them this message this is
such an important message to share with
the issue with now we have with air to
throw it's a time now to to intensify
our our love of title mitzvahs and the
Dara and but everyone should respect the
other persons there unless the Daris is
you know fakers who are the name of
Torah are abusing people and things like
that that are going down or stealing
from the government or cheating and that
that's not that's not Torah that's how
Malik that is charlatans we're not
talking about that and unfortunately we
know there is that we're talking about
and again begin with yourself the first
thing is begin with yourself you know
before you worry about your spouse you
didn't marry your spouse you know that
right you guys know you didn't marry
your spouse to be their rabbi if you did
you better check it out again look up to
me yeah you're not your spouse's rabbi
and she ain't your rabbi does that mean
to say you shouldn't discuss things and
you shouldn't you know you know
discussion is great and and arousing
each other to do more and constructive
criticism is as we learnt them into my
mom earlier this year is so important
but it has to be from the right person
at the end of the day it's you it's I
it's us ourselves right so when we talk
about the the Derek and we talked about
the antithesis to mo like we have to
make that choice have a good day
everyone's I doesn't we love you Oh
shallow breath ah yes well you are you
are a Holy Roller
and just disregard them and do what you
have to and you don't you still jump
jump on them and give them a big kiss
and embrace the guy will be what they
don't just do that that's it
believe me he'll never ever say a bad
word against
take care side isn't