Practical Chasidus w R' Chaim Dalfin - Purim Maamar 1934 #6

okay good day good morning we're in this might not cold what's the name the my mother the Holocaust your embrace your day the governor you Smallville possible Charlotte well my sure lifted his hands the Yeadon were victorious over I'm awake this was said during the poem sudha which coming up very rapidly in less than a month they started dollar 1934 in Riga and I told you in one of the shield him about the atmosphere of Riga it wasn't very Hassidim friendly but nevertheless the wrapper had a a small but strong group of huh sedan that were there the popliteal I see them and they made it possible for him to to say these my Morin and we are learning one of them so we're talking here about the idea of the two things one is making a dent in the nefesh obamas how do you make a dent by doing what's called the scuff here you know subjugating and controlling your tire your indulgence and then there is a higher moderating a higher level higher experience which is called in his hopko transformation and we spoke about that yesterday so let's continue now I'm dumb Koza who benefits rule for the summer the clip is all of this is when we talk about the nephesh this soul throughout the spirit and neshama the of the soul the three levels again I want you to remember this when we say those words were referring to the intellect the emotions and the and the action those three behaviors of man but the clipper on the negative side say miss Botwin the gobby-o you know the key to the shaman who are subdued who are an old morning Hooda they're an old when the godly light of the neshamah is active and those three ways of foolishness of clipper fall to the side the crusher made penis naranja neshama NASA Bahama beard when the level of nefesh or the shimmer of the positive side shines it makes a beater of me it refines the nephron of the charm of clipper so remember the rule that we spoke about a few classes ago Zell umas el acento Kim right one opposed of opposite the other does God make God makes one a Papa's the other so that ever says that if you activate your nefesh ruthless Rama boom you hit the nefesh button in other words you start thinking about a sham how it creates the world purpose of creation and all these things called meditation which is the then the Summa aspect of your of your of your soul then if you motivate your emotional aspect or your practical aspect those will counter and refine what the word for refiners beer or it will be Navarre ER it'll be Navarre refine the negative aspects of the soul evoke lipice am awake but show them here we have a certain type of a clipper called a malik aina moll like giving around in the shuttle guess what if you apply only your nephew of the Shama intellect emotions and actions of your godly soul to this type of a problem that this type of an opponent of it it won't help you won't succeed in overcoming my mother yes you pillow this morning in it's a furnace eva shalom yes the a comes this idea in connection with israel was he says that but you schmeyer show you saw heard and Rashi famously said when he here you heard about the christian so and they'll have a some holiday so the way then to see the shallow lords that what's the connection between the two thing and then it's stuff that he that when you saw heard that even that after the revelation of christian ship which is the greatest revelation of the gospel in creation there could still be a cleveland like the Moloch there could still be somebody who would doubt the oneness of a sham that's what cause you sort of come in single shell himself because he says look I arrived at my at my emunah in a sham through Akira through my own intellectual process but but but that could but if but but that's a vulnerable that would be vulnerable to the clip of a Malik because the complete other Malik is here because it could cause doubt even at that level so I need they an unshakable of munis and Haman that's why he came beautiful very good excellent so let's see how that ever develops it so the rebel says therefore for a male this rational approach you know use your mind use your heart do something doesn't help he who clip percussion look at those words you only clean percussion it said it's a term sometimes we use when we're talking about someone we say oh he's a CLE percussion he's a hard shell you know you heard that you have a soft shell not exactly but in Hebrew in the terminology of kebab casitas we use a third clip percussion sure who are the OMA said the higher what is that in the discussion that we're having here this is the opposing force of higher jahida right because we have five levels never dr. Sharma hi and yet either now wrong hi the rapper says if you're suffering from the higher you heeded that of the negativity then you need to deal with it in a very different way and let's see what he says what that means okay my shot - ow come on - ow I'm more like your day yesterday binary macabre limited play you know what i'm malik is boys it's someone who knew his master who knows his master and nevertheless must have an intense limited boy to rebel against him I know you're great I know you're special and I am going against you I don't care but you know this is a real real educated person a knowledgeable person a respectful person a special person and you still oppose him that's what i'm malik is you'll die yesterday buddy you know there are people that are not your day asleep buddy they don't know God they haven't learned they haven't thought right they don't know you you look someone that's your day yes anybody know if you knew your master you would be you should be humble no no day asleep by night and nevertheless on the heavenly bread but yes you know i believe it's it's a isn't it with them not with nimrod I think it could be some meddra sh on Nimrod in beret shoes I don't recall I'll try I'll try if I have a chance I'll try to look it up sure ain't no me spoiled me dearly I really key and this means practically that ammo lake is not impacted me tal from the garden light he said you see God in your life and you still say I don't care that's how Malik that if you see a shed wouldn't you naturally desire being with one with God you know wouldn't you gravitate to a Shem nevertheless this person who's been impacted by a flu the flu in this case is called I'm a lake flu it's not corn a virus i'm malik flu and this mo leg flu is very dangerous because it's hutzpah with hoods but you can argue because a hood spin yak someone who is someone who has permeated through and throw in his kiss kiss like I told you the other day this discus with hood spot right hi Moshe so someone else those pervy aids with hoods for throwing for now doesn't care about a rational intellectual argument you could you could Dawson and prove to him or her from today till tomorrow that he or she is wrong and logically he cannot refute you and he still does what he wants that's what spur says that ever that this is what we're talking about here in regard to a Moloch and he says for added Albert I made the naked literally naked on the contrary the more he sees and understands your greatness come to the table motion right the more he sees and understands your greatness he opposes you more it's not that it's not that you know you see someone who is another crush of someone who was you know a fine person you're humbled by them you keep your mouth quiet you know no on the contrary you know sometimes you come into a class some to a meeting and there's one guy that's always talking Roy's joking and always hacking and and this fellow doesn't for a moment stop why not because he has what my eighth grade teacher in the Bible Shiva told me when I was rambling stop with tips and excuse the expression stop with your verbal diarrhea right it's not because he has verbal diarrhea it's because the person is a hoofer yak you know there's one thing the person's rambling and loves to talk and can't stand talking you know that's not what we're talking about here we're talking about here someone was talking with a hutzpah it's a very different type of talk it's a very different type of an opponent since they're there but this is what I'm Malik is you know someone who's a Anuj you know you know you get over it why because when you'll tell them listen you've spoken love please be quiet I can't help it anymore go to a corner or you leave if there's a way out of it but sometimes a hotspur yak if he doesn't get you here is gonna get you here it doesn't get you here is gonna get you here like you know if he may won't work they'll be text if text don't work will be what's that of whatsapp it won't work will be Twitter like our dear president from all sides he shoots right you can never get rid of him because he really is a coach booyah I'm not saying I mean you know he is a Hamish he's using it in many ways in a good way but hutzpah is an issue that a mullick represents and what i'm mollie did to us when we left Egypt so therefore he says but either let me just yes don't it continue please let me read a few lines and I'll get back either about a middle decades woohoo rapid penis oz oz the hootsburgh shale a mile of meat on the das where I 155 I believe motion a few lines down show show motion a place in other words this is a person who has a Zeus you know now the word Isis what is the world Isis mean you who tosses as commemorate as a leopard but so this person is very strong right this person is inside he has a strong backbone but but he uses it for hutzpah the hood special a Myna Mutombo das that's above logic it makes no sense that you should you should do this because they just saw God performed miracles for the Jewish people he split the Red Sea he takes them out of Egypt we know what kind of culture Egypt was or take for example Russia you know my father-in-law grew up in in Kharkov with all of that generation if you ask them while they were there if they ever thought they would get out rationally they will tell you impossible because just like Rashi says with its Ryan melih Scotia Egypt had a a difficult King Pharaoh pirate Malcolm kasha and a difficult place right Stalin may they be erased was a very very evil ruler the country was a bad place so both geographically and logistically location wise you were stuck and the leader and his and his comrades were very bad people so they didn't think that they'll ever see a day they had faith and they dove and then they learned and they did what their ever wanted of them and they knew that their life is on the line Edna moment right how are they able to overcome only one way they had to do things above logic if you turn to logic in a situation which is highly negative of and what type of negativity not rational negativity but hooks for negativity the only saving grace is transcendence jump in with your feet into the hot water and don't look back because if you're going to negotiate if you're going to try convincing that type of a enemy ie I'm awake you will never win because it's not rational well someone is rational you can debate and dialogue and bribe someone was not rational none of that will work that's why it's a real fallacy to think that the our enemies are surround the energy throw our are going to actually feel in their heart of hearts that the Jewish people belong where they belong in our and they are who they are you know this is it's such a fallacy such a nonsense you know you could make concessions from today to tomorrow it's never it's never going to change the person inside cuz it's a Malik Malik is not logical I don't like you cuz I just don't like your nose but what do you want God gave me this knows his this head this beard this face this Torah and I'm born as a Jew what what what what do you want well too bad I don't like you what did I do to you that you don't like me you did nothing I still hate you I don't want you to be around god forbid this is a bully this is very very vicious and there's only one answer to this the answer is do what you need to do disregarded and ignore them and know that their only solution is their destruction that's what the Torah says I'm only quoting the Torah the Torah says raises amalek I Carissa are the Ovid the only enemy of the Jews out of all the nations where Shem says AHA we say are the Ovid its end is ever testing destruction is about a mullick and logically you ask the question how can God was compassionate and so kind and so holy call for a destruction of a nation of a people the answer is they these people this group and this people represents the seed of of anti godliness this is not just an enemy who the you know continues to to oppose God but can be can be dealt with and and rationalized with and and come to a place where they can understand the importance of Torah god of Jews but this is an enemy that all of that doesn't make sense and that's why and well so what do we call this in human psychological terms that have becuase of the year ozs votes per eye always raised my children I don't know if I succeed or not but I had a line clicks bah won't be tolerated here's the son who I would tell this to hutzpah won't be tolerated everything else can be tolerated but hutzpah won't be tolerated because if you tolerate hutzpah the problem is you have to have the action part you have to actually not tolerate it so if you why not because you could tolerate something that you know the at the end of the day there's a way to dialogue and and and and the person and people you die aligned would they listen but if you know that in the heart of hearts you could say whatever it is they're still gonna try to get you and oppose you why you wasting your time it's a waste of time maybe you should go my friends my students and this is true and they didn't daily life to between ourselves if you know that someone it's just being a hood spring out to you don't waste your time with them just do what you have to one go on and I saw this with their ever there are many people who threw darts at the river I'm not gonna go into it now you got a my books for this if you want all the secrets but there are people who wrote who who who threw darts and in him and you know he never ever waste the time responding yes when it came to a torah issue well let's say land for peace we're certain rabbis in there to throw without mentioning Minister you probably know who they are anyway opposed his approach the Rebbe felt compelled and he spoke about it publicly without mentioning their names but he spoke about how it's forbidden to give away land for peace right so that was a torah matter but let's not give you an example matzah Shabbos I was speaking to an 80 year old man who's here in Deerfield Beach in century village and his father was a teacher of ours in yeshiva and I knew his father I had a relationship with him and he taught me Torah and he was a massive scholar from the old country he made his way to America and he says to me my father didn't like the Red Baron Labov ouch I almost fell through the floor I said I said what are you talking about your father came to differ brain Ian's sat behind the river had private audience was the red book did missions for the river and you and I don't want to go on and on and on you're telling me he didn't like the Reverend didn't like what bothers he said that's right as bizarre as it sounds he was jealous because you know he had a little shul the Queen's he was a rabbi of a shul and Ben probably had a small minion and he was a Torah genius he was and he wanted his kids to emulate that and they didn't you know how it is and and and people didn't you know follow him and here is the Obama to rebel who was in a sense you know so so much more modest in his youth and humble and unknown and all of a sudden he's put on a pedestal and he has hundreds of thousands of people who follow and desire to know his teachings so I would say to my so I was thinking and I and I asked him over and over I said are you sure you know what you say I said what I saw with my own eyes contradicts what you're telling me he says he says listen I know from the house inside the house I know what was discussed and what was said and what was done and and he gave me some examples he says and I he says I know it's bizarre but when it comes to something that's bizarre there's no rationale that's also a form of hutzpah you see you know and this is very close to home so I want to point out that although we talk about enemies stalin's and then Hitler's your maximum and I'm Oleg's it this idea goes deep inside our own community and our own selves and sometimes you meet you you know you you have someone who's just being the foots Pagac don't waste your time really because you're really just gonna get yourself very worked up very upset very angry and you're gonna waste all this time and you're gonna come out with a big zero you're not gonna make it a one dent in the person not one dent so the answer is just go on and I'm telling you you make so much you accomplish so much more because at the end of the day those people that want to learn from you and respect you will and those that still feel you're you're wrong and and and outrageous or whatever they will remain with their opinion and what we're learning is that you shouldn't be concerned because if someone is anomaly or acting a Moloch like the answer is transcendence okay so I think this is an important lesson for us as we raise families and have relationships both in the community and at work so you continue saying the change in producer unity this kyushu Peter's talk about how do I beat the lahul in myeloma convict das have mousou canal just as we said in holiness in the in the side of holiness there is an experience called higher right higher is the fourth of the five levels of the soul which is the level of hokhmah wisdom what's wisdom the creative naquadah where what is the position of your mind when it comes to an idea your mind is humbled right your mind is not expansive Moshe in the mode of hustla in the mode of Kozma your mind is on hold your mind allows something greater than itself to inspire you we call that an idea Bena is the development of the idea meaning your mind you use your mind to control the situation Kozma is where your mind is in the background and what's in the foreground is the idea and the idea submerges you okay listen to this difference healer I think you'll like it the difference because Mabini is hokhmah is the idea submerges you and bina is you submerge the idea hello guys I just gave you an iced tea I just gave you an Einstein idea think about it all day okay madam I'm just saying it's it's it's not my original but I heard it girl you know learning Farsi this but it's a I think a very very beautiful short way of identifying the difference between Mabini what does it have to do with what we're learning now kaya the fourth level of the soul kaya is an experience where you allow God to submerge you let's say in a simple English you hooda don't get in the way there is I will remove myself right that's that's an act that's a proactive thing I will remove myself the the other idea is I won't get in the way I'll just put myself aside and let the idea go flow through that's a more it's a passive activity it's not a proactive activity it's a passive activity this is the position of kya the position of kya is with the person that part of the person's neshama hiya it impacts the person where the person allows Hashem to flow through and he says come I can be Lumas so2 in the negative side who clipless are Mullica gases of the house allah by allah baton baton Tomba das the opposing force in the negative side to this feeling of allowing hashem to do what he needs to and you get out of the way in the opposite side is we don't allow that to happen which is it there's two things one thing is before we identify any person regardless of their name and position as an our Malik we have to be very careful in other words who identified our Malika's our Malik guarded not you and that I so even someone who's a self-hating Jew to say to say that he or she isn't our Malik is still a far stretch okay that doesn't mean there are something you know if they've had been identified by God or by the Cohanim and the sages and they're abundant as in I'm awake so they're in Torah compels us and says that that's the case you remind me of a story of a story with the previous rather our author exactly on that on that idea where someone came to him and said something similar to what you just said about some individual during is his lifetime and the rebus said are you God that you know that he is that bad so so we have seen yoni people who in their youth or even later they they might be very outrageous but but to say that they're in our Malik that's that needs a you need to be a a god to to do that oh and I think the story the example that the rabbit gave was from the akkada right we're only a sham could can can call - for the slow ring of a son oh that what happened was they wanted the Rebbe I remind myself now they wanted the rabbit to sign some kind of document that's communicating someone and the rebus said only God can excommunicate someone I nor you connects communicate and I'm not gonna sign this document so it's that there's a difference between someone who is a troublemaker and someone who is you know outrages and all that so yes we tend to use the word all the persons acting in animal o'clock way and things like that but it doesn't get me and they are from on high and I'm Olli that's number one and number at number two and number two unless you know there are Malik twitch we don't usually then you have to try and try and try rabbi Hector but JJ heft all of a sudden he would do he would do he would work a lot with people showing bias and also with with stop stopping trying to prove stop assimilation once a parents came to here and they cried their heart out and he couldn't take it anymore because the their son was going to want to marry a non Jew and he went to the red but you had like an open door with the red buddy and he just cried to the red is River I'm overwhelmed with all these sores especially with assimilation and I don't know what to do and their ever said your job is just to keep on talking keep on talking keep on to keep on comfort and keep on whatever comes into your mind about the idea and Hashem will make the rest happen so so the same is here before we to rule out a anyone that they're in a Malik that's not something that we are Habad we do not have this approach we have opponents and and the rebel was vocal if it was against terror against the schita you know against the philosophy Nadya ecology but but never give up on a person and look the proof is in the pudding we know people that were you know raving feminists or you know outrageous people who were against the Torah in one way the other and today they are Bali chufa with family grandpa I know myself she was not here he knows who I'm talking about because it's we we knew we knew him we know I'm someone who came to a class in the valley there was a chef who's ready remembers rabbi Yeshua board Josh Gordon he teaches fetus on about that org I was a great person I knew him I know it was a very special person anyway so in the 70s he came to California to the valley and you know the valley of the 70s was you know you know the valley girl that whole simple you know culture indulgence you know I was a whole symbol of Judaism and Americanism and and Josh Gordon started to teach and a whole group twenty thirty people young adults husband and wife came around the couch the couch is in the living room and they were talking about Torah and God and asking and you know for a rabbi when you're young and you have a terrible sin you have an active audience it's a million bucks that's what you came for right that's that's why you're not getting out on Wall Street and you rather teaching Torah and the valley right because this is an idiot and there's one guy sitting on the floor wearing sweat pants you know jogging pants the rabbi says yes he says no the rabbi says why he says black yes he says no and everything rabbi Gorda said he said we call this a darkening it's a love is like you know just the opposite like if I'm awake like in a mullet you know that he definitely had the emilich like attitude and and and and Gordon and Gordon sanctum himself would you get out of here I wish you wouldn't be here you're ruining it here we have thirty thirty thirty souls who are hungry and are impressionable okay and I wanted they don't know anything about God and tow-ready I'm teaching them and he's a potential Bali chuva this is why they represent me to the valley instead of being in in Brooklyn right or yerushalayim he sent me to deal with all the nourishment and I got a captive audience and you're ruining it and pulling everything guess what that person became more from amorphous in ik and is that way today then almost everyone else in that room right so yoni here was someone who seemed to be in our mullick and I'm giving you the situation and to put yourself in that situation right what would be what would be our regular responses get out of here get out of here now you know shut up and just leave you don't like it go somewhere else and no he put up with him and the end and he became about the chuva with children and grandchildren I know I know the family you know I was involved in certain aspects of the family so what what I'm saying is that that one the other thing and that there was a teacher a very good educator and he said I always cherished a a student who was a ville desire motion you know to fill the Chi is a real desire is a wild beast why yeah because of ill desire got life and if you got life you got potential but if your adornment you know the you know passive kids and everything the teacher says you shake your head the potential of the ville de kya becoming a leader is someone special and later on life is much greater than the change the tame student so this educator said when I'm challenged with a ville de higher I don't throw them out I look at it as an opportunity a few months ago they had online so in America there was a kid who was a rebel in a public school the principal and he was riding everyone else the principal came in and saw that this kid was making noise play taking sticks and banging and the principal says come here says I see you enjoy making these noises can I show you something and he says like sure he's gonna show the good and the principal starts showing him how to drum and the rhythm of drumming today I don't know the name and forget now he's a world-known drummer because the principal saw that his ville kite his ville de Hyannis his coolness his his disrupt was really so much energy that's there that's waiting just to be used in the right way and that's the way to look at a Jew and a child and and a friend not to dismiss them as as as troublemakers they are troublemakers and boy when you have to go through the trouble it's it's real troubles it's real trouble there's no question about it you know and and it it wears you out but you have to never lose sight of the ultimate goal and the ultimate goal is to harness them in a way where they will use their Vil kite there there they're creative wild side for Hashem and for mankind for Jews and Torah and when you do that you have the biggest Nahas you know it's a it's a known it's a known fact that most of Gedaliah saw many many great jewish leaders over the centuries when they were young they were filled the highest I had such a Rebbe I had a Rebbe who would take a hose when he was in the Shiva and put it into a cat and the cat exploded I mean I I mean crazy crazy and he became he became one of the leading rebel name of the labovitz community by crazy he became and and I saw the man learn Friday night till 11:00 at night it wouldn't leave shul before he went home he changed over a changed but he was such a wild young man at fifteen sixteen seventeen he had a fetus with the Reber and their ever said to him I want you to be a rough like the the rub on them were a Europe old I want you to learn so much and know so much to lead the Jewish people like they knew in Europe and somehow he walked out of that you see this an overnight he just started to learn and he learned and he learned and never stopped learning till his dying day so a ville de hi so I'm saying talking about our Malik as much as we say that we have to get rid of our mullick there are different ways of getting rid of something one way is obliteration of destruction another way is check channel them in a healthy way get them to do their they're built kite than a healthy way you know I've seen this to students in yeshiva who don't have does its place they don't have the wherewithal to sit all day and as we say in the achieve a world catch a bunch you don't fetch a bike means press a bench she wrote six in English it doesn't mean fetch a bank right so I saw how some of these same guys got involved in in Konica programs important programs stayed up all night packing packages in Morristown when we were you Shiva so that we can distribute which lost mothers to people all over New Jersey right or building suka sand coming once I remember we got stuck in the Brooklyn Battery Tunnel because the car the car you can't have you didn't have reception in the tunnel because you can't hear the radio and it was minutes before Circus and why cuz we were helping Jews put up circus in New Jersey who's that Micah's crazy it's Arabs sook is what are you doing in New Jersey an hour before Yom Tov and we ended up walking from the middle of the tunnel because we just walked out of the car we didn't trust ourselves mate it's already Shabbos let me get to stop and the police came into the tunnel walk this out drove the car we told him here the keys we cannot drive and it was a tremendous downpour of rain and it saved our lives because this was in 1980 or so and the neighborhood was so dangerous that if it would have been anything less than a downpour we would have had people out there with knives and guns and it was three four of us walking so I Shan made a downpour I'm never coming to Crown Heights my hat was dripping with with black from the rain it was such a downpour but meanwhile we walked an hour 45 minutes to an hour from there from the Kratt Heights and no one bothered us right but if you think you think now this is 40 years of I'm talking about you think about the the the wild behavior that we displayed for purpose of Torah and helping Eden and and and circus this this was actually a very special experience so this is what we need to do with our children and grandchildren and Friends we have to really really see carefully how and what they that they could contribute and and and then they'll be very successful in everything and those educators and principals and yeshivas that accept this and allow this will have better results those that only want the goody-goodies and the excellent ones okay so be it you know it's not well what I was taught and what Chabad teaches you no we're not into this just a yeshiva for the excellent once if she burned my yeshiva growing up we were all in one pot the good the bad and the ugly the strong the medium and the weak everyone was there and we all were together and we all grew and yes there were guys that were talking to girls and the guys that were smoking and guys that were goofing off and the guys that are up here for night learning every one one pot scientist some guys have a great day we'll see everyone tomorrow