Practical Chasidus w R' Chaim Dalfin - Btach b'Hashem 1942 #5

the minor which we're learning out the top Russian bus 8 8 1942 and we are on on top of page 152 in which that ever says over here in the Mimer that there's another cause all to view Schuller it says it's stock your persuasive voted gaze at three things they're a lot to bully their Veda if you will gauge if you will look at these three things and you'll think about it you'll never do a sin really well before I can analyze what the three things are why does it say stock ale that's very unusual language in Hebrew what should have said today row air right through yeah that's the conventional word for looking at something observe these three things and you will avoid sin it doesn't say impurity of OHS a but I I today rather it says what it says it says he stuck out his stock he'll gays so there ever says because this goes in unison with what we just said the interpretation of a xel-há camara is an island and so hakama as milk means focus on the the idea the hockey is a hakama the ear that's a particular focused gazing means mind focus that's what gazing means mind focus and when you have the mind focus then things will be crystal clear to you let's continue our 152 on top of the page the symbol of the line Theo's he may wish my god Miriam well if you mean by Serena because from this is for sure so much happen alia hello okay okay okay okay we gotta get back to the text because you screw me off okay but the someone should have Analia the Somerset hide behind something Trevor Dahlia through our learning it would dedicate it to her to show us he may he ever like be show my friend when a person Moshe is is at this level when a person engages in this activity I don't want it to sound like this is only for you know fleeting Keaton great subdeacon he's talking to us when we lurk I said this it's talking to bus in Beth Shemesh in 2020 you got it it's talking to us today so he says for us he me he absently be shooting from the hustle of my shaft when you are in this mode to view of gazing at God and godliness and creation and create Torah it is impossible EF Schad it is impossible but you might fit in any way shape or form LaHood said Markov study to remove your thought you call her meadows and all the emotions me you know actors from the idea of actors what does that mean that means I guess that means like this now isn't listen listen with your mind lifted this is a very important idea the outer that bin chapter 18 and Tanya talks about an individual who he labels cows typically the most lenient of all lenient people meaning someone who really in excuse the expression but just as simple he was just to make the point he don't give a damn about anything okay nothing favish them he just wants the best what he wants to do I want to indulge I indulge I want to be holy I'm holy you know there's no discipline in his life we call such an individual Carl Shepard Kali right what's a cowboy's someone who's Ling he's always looking for the heckler he's looking for a way out you know it's Kyle Judaism it's Hector you disguise you know how can I get a hectare to leave the television on so I can see the Superbowl game how can I get a hectare for my company to be open a Shabbos and make them and make money how can I get a headache how can I get a hectare how can I get a hectare to eat something that I really should be more careful about not eating it's all about Hector the Hector game and unfortunately we have a lot of people that are into the Hector game I don't care how long the period is or our short debaters there their mindset is had their orientation okay so the color in cuz I'll call an individual like this a cow and that's why you should know they were abundant I had I knew a rough like that in San Francisco when I was there and then in Los Angeles they do shots they knew the Talmud they came from Sobotka they came you know they they were proficient but there was such a cow they were so lenient and they made gave him and and getting and and and and gettin that that no normal Road would accept and do okay and for whatever reason good or bad people use them because they weren't gonna take these responsibility of making someone a gare when they didn't feel they're really ready to be a gare but this rabbi was taking the responsibility and he's officially an Orthodox rabbi and he has officially you know and he's part of the RCA or this organization so I I'm not going to say that the the more Markman rabbis and all of these towns didn't rely on the more cow rabbis that's a whole other story if you're so from how can you rely on more Kyle rabbi oh he's good for you when you need him he's good for you when you need them what is what you don't need is the worst charlatan a fakir and and it's outrageous and thrown out of town but when you need to convert someone you don't want to do it because you're gonna feel so guilty cuz you know that they're not ready for converging yet you don't believe they're really Jewish right so what do you do you say go to such a such rabbi and he'll take care you he'll help you and for a few bucks and a few hours you get it certainly get a note you're Jewish and a Duncan the mikveh out to come you're Jewish right a cow a linear person yeah right a cow says the out says the out there but listen to this look at what kind of special listen to a kind of special revered this was special Judy Alton ever was and why hypocrisy this for 200 years is is not just surviving to thriving why because of its principles values and philosophy it's not because of the cake it eats and the signs of caries it's not because of that it's a because of philosophy of Lubavitch of Caban as the outer Deborah said it as the founder is rich and genuine and important for the continuation of gibbous kite Torah Judaism color Judaism sly babka Judaism politics Judaism Waco Judaism Muir Judaism okay what is Delta diverse a chapter xviii you guys learn to feed us what does he say he says there that a cow said the column EF surely live buoyed by sin he cannot deny the the oneness of God he can't deny God and his language there is e f-sharp before he cannot deny he doesn't say he does not deny he says even if he wanted to deny he can't that is a most fascinating statement that only a person Miguel to that but could make about a Jew why because it's the truth if you dig down deep deep deep down in the Jews heart you will find that golden precious the summer who says I am yours God yeah but before you dig down out outwardly there's a lot of smokes and a lot of stand a lot of stones until you get to the treasure wait down in the in the ground it's a lot a lot of work but at the end of the day that's who the person is the person isn't the cover-up the sands the rocks this woods the real jewel is the drama that that's in there which we called by meeting by name Amina says the altar every chapter you press even at you here even a Jews a couch at the college he's so lightweight in his attitude towards God and Tori mitzvahs that other Kali that other lightweights say about him you're a cow that's how lightweight he is for for a heavyweight to say about a lightweight you're a lightweight is no big deal but imagine they're a bunch of lightweights in the room and they all turn around to one particular light when they say you're such a cow wait a minute but you guys were saying in our oh so lightweight Colin yeah but not as much as you you're beyond the pale you know you are what you're doing is we would we wouldn't do it that's what kind of cow cow shabby Colin and notwithstanding what type of cow if this is a this is interpretation I heard from one of my teachers I never heard otherwise and I'm sure you never did it's a beautiful interpretation cow sermon Colin says the out that have been trapped in your chest and pay too high and Tania trifle highest life even a culture the Colin has in the summer that an EF that cannot even if he wanted to deny God now when you think about this and when we learn here why am I saying this because the top line says when you have the ear when you have the gazing experience of godliness look at the words motion II have family it is impossible to for this individual pursue my friend in any way shape or form lajas in my shaft to remove his thoughts the follow me this and all of his emotions the actors from the topic of unity you can't help yourself wherever you go and whatever you do regardless one thing that only one thing is on your mind after success do I find unity so he logos through Mexico he's going for a conference is going for there he's on top of a mountain he's down in the low Valley someone else is going to to the Grand Canyon and another person is going to Dubai wherever you are there's only one thing that's in your mind Aster's can I find Astor's here or better said how do I find after session here everything is about octaves that that's the answer that's the Chabad answer in kebab language and saba the Chabad languages it's about Altos and if we cannot point to after session and what we're doing and where we're doing it we better check ourselves out and get and get and get a get moving so you could go to the Grand Canyon and you can go to New Mexico and you can go to China and you can go here and there and everywhere but make it an active experience spiritualize the experience when you do that when you do that it's it's impossible for you to deny God you don't think so it's not only shelling I don't deny God because I learnt in Halawa so I had a rabbi or said so that's all being imposed on you on your mind your hurt on your behavior and that's wonderful and important right because the bottom line is that you put killer on say in the morning or not I don't want to know about whether what come under you had I need to know did you put the pillow not you put them on get the demonstra now let's see how you did the mix for how you can prove it how you can handsome yes boss god yes yes yes now the river I'm the Reverend the 1943-44 wrote a long essay on this idea and how you reconcile this idea with the many states across all that says someone who doesn't do this doesn't have a halo can Olam haba so I encourage you you know if you want to really pursue it to read that essay and it's I think today might even be in English as well but but yes the Alpharetta doubt that ever believes that the real the real heat the real jus not only not never like this can he logically right but Boas listen what the outfit ever sayings like this that whether or not consciously illogically the person can deny God the answer is yes but the truth and deep down is that really who the Jew is cannot deny God because it's an oxymoron the sold in the Shoah is Kayla Kayla come out Yehuda the soul is a divine part of a shell so if if the soul motion is a divine part of a shed how can a divine part of a ship go against the Shem it's it's it's tantamount to the same idea to God create a rock that he himself can pick up you've heard that philosophical idea and the answer is the answer is it makes no sense if he's God he could do anything if he's not God then what's the question so you can't you can't say I have two gods that that's got to be heresy there's only one God so what didn't he can he make a rock that he himself can't pick up if he makes it he can pick it up and if he can't pick it up he's not God so it's a contradiction it's an ox we call that an oxymoron so two is one second if you say that the new summer is a sailor get a copy Malik we learn to chapter two and Tanya from eel right from job it's not out to rebus novelty it says it really earlier especially cibola swaram right so if you accept that and the Torah does accept that and that's who the Jew is how can you say that my soul so go against what it is if it's a soul it's God and if it's not if it's not if it's not God it's not so that's why the Boas I hope you hear this so that's what our ever says that a couch of a column cannot deny existence of God because guess what that's the inherent makeup of every Jew including a culture but Alan are you say but outwardly he does deny God sometimes through his activity and behavior and feelings and beliefs and all that that's only the outer part of the person the mind the heart but not the essence yes yoni pause this question but to expound on this question what about I mean we know that in the tire there's certain exceptions like Yoshi is an exception you know today you could say George Soros may be an exception I mean there are given I mean nobody suggested he wasn't a hit except for the Christians but it was the end right so does he still have a feeling you know yes even even your skill your skin and anybody else everyone has a sale no one no one isn't the business and able to pull out a Jews soul does we we did not put it there and we can't take it out and anyone thinks they can the Rebbe already in the 1980s stormed stormed against certain rabbis in not far from where you guys live who tried out ste certain Jews from the Jewish community and said that the reason the Holocaust came is because there was great assimilation in Europe and the spoke and I heard it from his own mouth he was adamant that he brought sources in some Sofer in the right in the earlier writings where it says contrary to that but I'm going back to the ball Italia and I'm telling you the ball of time he goes back to earlier writings so the answer is yoni yes the person who who is a trouble maker needs reward will get reward and Punishment will get punishment I'm not no one is contradicting that but that's not the essence another so in other words and others like this it's like you know for your misbehavior you go to jail you get you know you get you get a punishment but it doesn't mean to say that you are not a Jew it doesn't mean to say that you have no hope on the deepest level if we could reach that deepest level of the Jew and-and-and the Jew will do such a jouvert which is called from great love as he says in Chapter 7 and Tonja and blends what that means then there's atonement for everything but torment for everything from God's perspective in human behavior and on earth you gotta be locked up and you will be locked up so two different things but you're addressing yoni is the human side and I agree with you there what I'm addressing and what we're learning as I see this is the godly side and to say that the unis side overrides the godly side I'm sorry to say is also heresy who who are we to say that in a philosophically it's wrong because if the essence of the person is the neshamah again if you don't accept that the essence of the person is the soul like Plato and Aristotle didn't accept it and then no problem then it's only body you're here for a certain amount of years you may have a certain way you get a reward you behave another way you get a punishment and life goes on and finish next let's be the piece of meat one piece of meat another piece of meat and we go on comes along comes along citizen says it's not about Sumeet this is Ana Shama this is something entirely different and look let's look at the facts we look around the world I don't care if it's lit Fox farted Hasidic how many Valley chuhwa it's not for this attitude of the outer Reber wouldn't be here today wouldn't have children grandchildren great-grandchildren I mean it so so the facts on the ground are like what the outside have the saying it's only because the guy at a chitara I don't care he's not a faucet but a guy a shutaura who was brought in better Weinberg and his people and he came because of 48 reasons of happiness or he came because of some other reason right and he comes or the the the the dare the don't Garrett's right Tula Baba giguère who was was dating the ugliest a girl in Australia and and wanted to marry her and she turns and a Jewish girl a Jewish girl and says to him I can't marry you I'm a Jew and you're not he says what is what does that mean so he starts finding out what it means to be a Jew and he learns he's bright that he studies oh and then she says I'm sorry we have to break up but this is not it's not going in a good direction and he shook up about the break-up he loves her he likes her he wants to marry her sorry I'm a Jew and you're not he goes back and he says what does it mean to be a Jew and he discovers that his mother was actually on a Sufi and a Sufi means someone who was left at a doorstep and no one knows who the parents are and how logically it's a very complicated schuyler of moms iris maybe they're Jewish maybe they're not so we have a law following the REA of the majority and then out in the out in Australia at that time for the 30s afford is whatever it was 20s 30s or whatever he didn't have many Jews in those areas so the rabbi's rule that it could be Jewish but she the conversion and he needs a conversion so she's not interested so she remains a guy he now wants to become a Jew he becomes a Jew and he becomes a real lead then he becomes a town of Holcomb and he converts after seven years because they put him they put him through hell to prove that his really wants to be a Jew it's not a mama pop sears-roebuck you know conversion gare you buy it for few bucks this this is this is real stuff seven years of learning and governing and proofing you really want to be a Jew you need this big attic Shabbos you don't turn on lights and this and that and he says yes and he learns and he becomes a star he's a maybe no Shas and you'll see the signals Cibola he's a teacher and he was he led about through via Shiva for many years right all of that is only because of one thing because we believed in the neshamah if you wouldn't believe in that Hashem but you wouldn't give the person a second chance any time of the day and this is what the out there that is saying over here let's say that the Vedic Rev is saying here the FLI Basu my from the hustle my shaft at home is reenactors so when you're visiting you're going to vacation somewhere and you think you're going you have to ask yourself am i exploring and finding afters here if not I gotta do it in other words I can't I can't feel comfortable in my vacation or in my you know you who the said if you were months but what if it was in New York he went to New York he went to the Rebbe he went to 770 great you have to ask yourself is 770 do I find octaves here am I not my guide next door and not the people dancing out the people who Dominic do I find asked us now today we're in Clairol today the Sunday will be back into Shem every experience is a new experience and the barometer is one idea as Hashem that's what it says here overall I see a civilian Abdullah by his body and someone who is in the mode of Actos all of his action and his ideas Davo are attached by his birth to God Almighty but vacancy Florida yesterday Isabella Boehner with tremendous vehicles Hillier will look if it vehicles and when yes Wendy when do you get the Vegas when you see the king with your eyes it's so crystal clear to you that you see with your eyes again mind's eye that that's what you have two acres and the vehicles is not you know is not chuckling it's not screaming is not talking Draco's is a very deep inner feeling where I'm glued I can't decide I can't disobey I'm stuck I've stuck to God not stuck in a negative way I have this such a love for em that I do back I am glue touch them that's a very different experience and that only comes when after you meditate you understand you meditate you think and you come you say it's clear to me that this is a cottage borough and this is something we need to work on this doesn't come again from pizza and ice cream and popcorn and the Super Bowl it doesn't it never has and it never will and never it never will and beer and beer it never will okay I don't care how old the beard is and how shots you know and die for you me it doesn't come from that it comes from switz it comes from effort it comes from a lot of work a lot of hardship and then when you experience that I don't mean God forbid to look for negativity and look for you know problems no but work work working on yourself and refining yourself then you can come to Draco's where you feel without coming to shul I feel empty psyche I didn't put on my pants in the morning it's like I didn't need today I'm starving a faster you're starving right one day not being a shoe if you're able to go to school you're feeling fine and one day not learning when that day visiting something we're not there helping I'm making a phone call how can I help you how you feeling you say my day is not the same that's the ef5 remember this idea EF shall I be sure I think the hustler my shaft the first line we learned today impasse it is impossible for me in any way shape or form to remove my mind and my heart from the unity of God that's the barometer if you want to know if you're a loving God with God if you really are in trinkles that's the question you have to ask yourself can I can i really say to myself I cannot separate you God or I could say I could separate myself from you God but I like you make me comfortable so I'll hang out with you slide my mouth talks about lovesickness in in if share sharing right what's the lovesickness the demands can have he can't be sick because he doesn't have his his lover that deep feeling of of love overwhelms the person but healthy not not you know an infatuated crazy unhealthy relationship that is horrible horrible for who you are and what you can't be and what you won't be if you engage in this narcissistic so-called false love its nourish tight okay it's only temporary and sometimes people and sometimes they're not there yet and they only see what they in front what's in front of their eyes their narcissistic they're there though ego-driven they're infatuated and on and on and on that's why they have mental health issues that are so rampant today in our own communities that we could probably use a psychiatrist psychologist a social worker on every block at least one because it's bankers what's what what why you know you said well my grandmother and grandparents came from the shtetl in Europe you don't think they had you should go you don't think they had issues you know but somehow I don't know I don't know how but it you know it all they went together and the world you know today today it's gone to areas which is causing a lot of problems yes hello let's go back yes they're just trying to comment that I saw in the Nasima Shalom this morning a piece where he uses a very similar idea to explain the fuss of the case the first case in purchase momentum of the evident in three and at the end of seven years he says seven seven is a patina of Shabbos which is a patina Vava which is the quality of love that's supposed to raise you up so that that you have love of God and you see that all love is greater related to God but if he still says I need a heaviness i I don't need I live I loved my master but I also love my wife and I also love all these other things he still hasn't really gotten to the mucker of love and where Chavez can take him so that's why he that's why he asked to have yet another round but he says if it says slowly I'll become a he'll be a slave Lola but it's not really low alum its Tilly oval because the oval is the next deeper quality of child is that he abused you know the restraining say you can't have olim Haza and Olam haba together you may you gotta make a choice you want this world you want that world now so how do you reconcile that with Torah do loadable Kemal if it says having greatness in Torah and having the doula meaning you know wealth in one place how do you reconcile these two ideas the answer is it's not about the quantity it's the quality in other words what's your mindset if your mindset is worldly matter that's your mindset if your mindset is godly matter that's your mindset so it's not about what you have what you don't have it's the attitude and what's behind what you have you don't have let's continue another few minutes so he says well the same number we stock hilltop get that's why the rabbi same picky of us gays the penis Leah you should look and see if Ozzy out the balladeer Veda and if you'll have that KZ and clarity of God you will not come to do a sin vena cava logistical zoo beginner bye - Leo vehicle available pearl mommy's and he says like this the purpose the intent of this castle is not that only that this gazing will protect you that you won't come to do a sin and will shame that bull Avila training his brothers he says here a much deeper thing you know there is bottom-line don't need your sin just like I told you before by the lines you put on tuned today or not now to talk about it in the in the other way not doing the sin I didn't do the sin because I was paid I was bribed I didn't do sin because my kids are gonna say ABBA you're such a faker you're a hypocrite so I didn't do it that's the bottom line the bottom line is I didn't do it says there ever if you really betray us and God some of you this if you really love a ship and you're really bound to a ship and you really connected to a shammy not only don't you do the sin bottom line you don't even desecrate God's will the spirit of the sin that's why it says for ain't October Moshe Lidia Vera what I mean the handles of Anna Vera it should have said you who'd uh they ain't out the ball la Vera right pinky of us Moshe you learn pinky of us hey stockin persuasion thought it look at three things where you come from were you going to and the freshmen you'll have to give and if you those three things you won't commit a sin it doesn't say that it says you won't commit the handle lead a you're dying the handle of a sin what is that referring to so we have we have the interpretation of the commentators but the way hasidic sees it again is that it means we what you won't come you won't come to to violate the spirit of the law but it's only yes but it it's you know it's fashionable today yoni to you know to do what's right because there are cameras all over it used to be when the kebab dish went into Williamsburg they can beat them and they can throw them and they can throw exit them but no longer because we got cameras shooting down at you from the right and left in the center and you gonna be caught next day you're gonna be in jail so you're gonna be trouble so watch your head to life watch those hands keep it to yourself just watch what you say everything's recorded I can be recording you you could be recording me now and the next day goes out rabbi dolphin said this and you who just said that and Moses said this and and and it's a free-for-all it's a whole different world they ain't not to bully they Aveda says that every here is that not only don't you do the actual violation but you watch yourself from the spirit of the violation you know I've run Twersky The Stepfather of the rabbi the shul has a famous line I always love repeating it he writes at missiles one of his early books he says that when he grew up his father who was a Hasidic rabbi known as the Honda stipple Reba the father taught him and he said when he was doing something that was you know not appropriate he would say as possible it that's he - it's possible it's not befitting in English it's not befitting you know what family you come from you know what you are it's just not it thought you know now I'm not gonna go in now because this is you know pillows and yes no some but the idea as positive as pasta means the spirit this it's not about you know have evaluated or have I not violated again again bottom line as far as the breath at the chart with the brownie points check or X it's about that you put on film but that you could not and could not commit a sin that's but the spirit of the law is weird vehicles comes in so if you have a question I'm Dominic and I'm learning and I'm not doing that various and I still don't have this Vegas you have to look at a different area not look at bottom line the bottom line is not going to give you the Draco's that Vegas comes from their spirit the the the what's beyond the the the observable the deeper aspect of your being what's that the will the rustling we're Who am I Who am I that that's what was learning over here will continuum it's a sham on yes yes yes you have a new an hour before jump on Soviets and buy yourself a five-dollar seven you know it's breaking the bulletin all your whole set our meter or you can fight for Marco bottom okay if if if you have those funds yes you know but you know sometimes people don't have those funds and they need but so you're right it's the spirit in the spirit are you trying to get away with doing a mitzvah or not doing Anna Vera in a you know in a very easy way or are you looking for deeper and that's what he says over here that this is the dear did Vegas and I think Hillel if you think about this as you dive in and learn and you grow and you look you know you'll see we see that this is really what determines what level of persons add and who is the person and who disrespect you know is the spirit there guys have a great chaves chaves move our camp i think it's childish spelling and and and get ready for poram because we're gonna rock rock and roll down with a messiah behind behind