Practical Chasidus w R' Chaim Dalfin #3 - Mai Mevoreich 1946

I'm gonna cut in 117 let's read the kid sir before we go on to a sign if I add we explained in the previous chapter boy Hank I'm above a yellow so to remember we're right now on this theme of MIDI dose versus simcha or Marino's and simcha in together so naturally normally they're two different what we call caffeine caffeine two different notions two different ideas they don't go hand-in-hand either you're the simpler or you frustrated when you're frustrated you're not happy when you're happy I'm frustrated that evidence said that that's true in the case of sigilian remember the tournament considers what what in clay Sasaki Liu Yin clickers that Gillooly means there are reveal powers and then there's something called Clara socks me because the famous Marshall given a facility like this that a person normally they they their ability is to do so so much as so much but when they're faced with a crisis they're able to reveal from within themselves something much deeper you hear that they're able to reveal something much deeper for example if someone has found pinned under a car you'll be surprised but someone who normally couldn't do it can actually pick the car up to save the prison's life where did he get the flower where did he get the clay off normally you don't see such chaos the answer is that at that moment he is tapping in to what's called Christmas that's me that's me miss for the broke etson essential the essential so powers that is not expressed regularly in on a day-to-day basis and I think today basis we use what's called classes Gilliam classes hobby William so the questions that you know even you know if you're if you can do more bodybuilding and you swim more and you exercise more and you build your muscle you're stronger less you not a stroke but but we find that someone who outwardly doesn't have such clear and one of he's faced with a crisis he does something that we could never believe he could do it dances because it comes from the essence that ever used this idea he just quoted the words it didn't give the example that I gave to explain the possibility of being able to be Bill Murray rose and the simple at the same time to be frustrated and to be happy at the very same time and he quoted Tonya chapter 34 which quotes from isaiah college told Isaiah heads Bucky Billy Boyd uh there's joy on one in one side of the heart right and there is a fear visited ah and tears on the other side and then even in addition to quoting Isaiah the read the quoted of the murder of mr. Scullion bulk of the sahak Yehuda he cries and he laughs make up your mind you crying dear laughing book of this suck smooth as a vulva macabre this sahak there's the verb that is a conjunction that combines the Booker and the sofa it doesn't say buffs are also hoc as his book of Visser [ __ ] he cries any laughs implying at the same time we're having able to do that and the answer is when it comes to the pressure Assad to me so this is what we learnt part of what we learned last time in the in the minor so now on the kid sir I'm sorry HeLa you wanted to say something said the other idea that came to my mind when that was deal of Arad ah that's right perfect yes similar yeah perfect thanks for what it's going to ask I was also asked if this idea the new phrase for Miko facades meme I like it is Everett brothers ever brought in casitas to explain the when when Yaakov removes the stone from the air which seems to be a kind of right i-i'll tell you I I don't recall we would have to look a doll to Ripa in in Torah are talks about speaks about that idea and I don't recall the language there but I would suggest when you have a chance take out the Torah or my mer I'm the parser and see if if he is is that phrase I don't recall right now that language okay so he says but let's go back down to the kid sir you fire he explained I shake my cane so to gamma over you know oh so not just the practicality but oh so the emotions the love feeling in the heart Vienna and the fear feeling in the heart so that's very different by the way then MIDI doses simpler MIDI dose is the result of yireh simcha is the result of a ver so he says god that's why he says I should make ain't God so to in the heart heart emotions of other and you know the gamba is bringing this up IV in the hole lookin bad solution bring y'all know this again we have three things let's let's review we have the practicality which is like more hide huh that's a that's a height you say right the tense mirrors are divided into three sections Chabad hug us and the heat so then he is what it says classier it says it's like the the the need in the air no the kidneys to get that advice comes from Devils and he is oriented towards action so when we talk about Moreno so simcha it's associated more with me here then you have where they come from either you know it's just uh cos and the emotions of the heart right what generates the Avenida the his bundle mister meditation that's the but so that's what you have over here Ivan Gaeta the gamma is balling those also via the reflection the meditation which is the Habad coming via median which leads to either a Vanina McCulloch on the eczema Huson vanunu they're very different in the very essence what I said before I want to make myself clear that it's possible if you're coming from the perspective of clitoris odds being for there to be prevent to be expressed simultaneously that does not mean that they are the same hear what I'm saying that he'll oh yeah you follow even a conscious acts in living together exactly exactly exactly the places ask me means that it's possible for their expression to be at the same time but there's still two different ideas that's what he says here she will you follow right the gamma is bugging us how many V on moo-hoo welcome the eczema Xhosa even to his brothers how do you evoke an aroused Jonassen a feeling of Ava it takes a certain his bugginess and and if you use that is bugging this four-year uh it won't it won't it won't add up if you think about how to conquer this burg who is close to you and in your life and you see old right so then you have a feeling that I want him and I love it it does so much for me and and you know the kirov aspect Kirov is not relook we all aspect how God is awesome have all there is in the world as a mere reflection of a college bar sue after this bar whose energy his are but but I shat himself in his very core is not fathom and moved an iota by the world that shows how could this bar who is Russia distant from the world and therefore so awesome so what does it lead me to feel wow I have to have respect a teacher so way beyond Maya understanding I come into the class and he such ideas and and I tried you know the students are ever salivate [ __ ] they would say there's coming to this year and I mean it's like as much as they prepared and he and he wanted you to prepare and he would challenge you because in the beginning of the class he would call certain people different people every day to say to say over with the goomar and says and and I think I told you he gave three marks one is you know he had a book he was a rapid to write in addition to be the receiver and reverie salivation he was also regular classroom so you have to keep a track of marks so when a student answered and he wrote down knew when a student didn't answer didn't know you wrote down didn't know and if a student would answer and and think he knows everybody sells a check showed him that he doesn't know what he's talking about he would write down he's a liar now he didn't mean it he was a very sharp man he mean to say in other words he didn't mean it that you know he's a liar he's a bad guy he didn't mean that he need to say that he's fooling himself he thinks he understands the Gemara and he doesn't understand the Gemara so you know him he made a mark that hey guy you know you either understand the prompt and the student would say but rebbe reb ii i i i understood it this way salvation would say you didn't use enough your head he says because if he would use your head and you would think properly you wouldn't come to such erroneous conclusion cuz they asked that many times Rebbe how do you come to a different conclusion so he said I think properly I don't allow my mind to go to the right of the left but to think right why am I saying this because we're learning here the kids are that look in the axilla Huson vinculum you can't mix either yet when it comes to his business when it comes to meditation and reflection and thoughtfulness you need to be very clear what is the his bugginess that i'm using now what is the content of the meditation if and and and by the way this is a a issue where lots of students of the Siddhas make a big mistake because the wine between this type of abundance and that type of his bananas is very thin it's not a big difference and you when you train your thought to focus in on the details of the his bananas then you will more succeed in either the a ver or the year at depending on these bundles but be that as it may what do we see from all of this what we see from all this is that there's a difference but XML husam that's the language we who they hear in the in the kids here and the synopsis and I told you many times the previous rebus synopsis I'm sorry this synopsis not from the previous actually I don't know you know I don't have the original Mimer I don't know if this is from the previous rapper or it's their own synopsis in other words the people who put together this safer some of them my mother my know they they wrote their own synopsis I don't know I can't tell you but the synopsis says Moluccan be X and marushin vijnanam the hey my boy you're dumb and now he says what is the result of the his banana Smits Ursus a or Mitsos lo says see the positive Commandments right do this and do that why should I do that because I love God Mitch's law says you're not allowed to do this why don't you how to do that because I fear God so the other gira are the so the his bonus that leads to either in Europe is those are the source for us a in those sa which is mentioned the chapter 4 in Tonya I'm going to say learn it enough next week I think with this we can heat us but closest aurochs Mian now Hillel right here look what it says but when it comes to these same issues in the Coker's axiom namco effort they both go together that's what we discussed earlier so you have a black and white air v8 and he says even more so she may be Isis Zoe as Zoe from the perspective of the just ask him not only honest said do they go together they actually one leads to the other a healthy his bugginess of IVA will lead to a to a healthiest botanist of Europe Ivan era from the perspective of Gillian the outer external places are contradictory either you love or you fear what what are you right but when you look at it deeper and you're looking from the perspective of Christ resides me him not only the snail careful they come together as one but one leads to the other in other words a healthy love will lead to healthy feet and vice versa that's why when you talk about someone who is a Muslim someone who's refined himself where he has flame of completion they go you look at the person you'll see that in in both areas they're very strong and they're very good both in alga and era sometimes you see a person who's very good in one of the two they're good in love but they're bad and fear that good of fear and abettor love and and that's fine that's the norm that's the expectation the non expectation is the clay facade sphere where they're good in both takes XXL them both that's acidic and and and frankly that's not that's very rare very rare do you see someone who find themselves to the point where they're just as strong in the in the element of love of other like others Berg who as they are in the element of fear talk of this birth or [ __ ] of this bar whole you understand that that's a that's a big finish let's go further now that we don't have the ability to deal with both together we should separate them out and have nearest and even heart race and this in credit should be correct correct and that's that that's the Tonya's advice practically speaking you're right oh c'mon better be a Kiva and he concludes the kisser and he brought it in the paragraph he says that if he was ogling of demoys his eyes shed tears what did it she shed tears from from doing the from wanting to make I am the mistress and and even the mistress of of kidded a chef now he quoted earlier and I didn't get a chance to elaborate because the time was here we were rushing a little bit but he quoted the hosel Nicolas Bashar line list especially the yotsuba surely Reb Akiva entered with peace and he exited of peace peace you know that's a reference to the Gomorrah are born if Lucilla parties and her mother says four rabbis went into paradise to the to the orchard of GaN Eden Manasa Akiva etc three had a bad result one one one cracked up one burnt up whatever you know they they they they the energy the light of kedusha was so too intense that it caused a breakdown of nervous breakdown of those three people then the gamora says rebbi akiva business mashaallah Envy exhibition maybe a Kiva entered the power days with peace and he exited peacefully so the Hasidic asks a question not only for students but considers mentions as well why does it say missed especially just right we're looking just for the result the three others who didn't come out and there be a Kiva exited exited peacefully he made it why does it say in the Gemara Anderson and Charlotte that he also went in with peace and if he went in with with a straw angry who cares as long as he came out that's that's the mother's trying to say and it's explained that the reason why he was able to come out peacefully is because his mind said going in was peacefully what does that mean show them your name is show them what is showing me so we say every day and opening a cell in the brain of God makes peace in the heavens whose assets Allah who is a sin making peace between the Angels there is McCoy Oh Sasha Maya Michael the angel of water Gabrielle is Sasha Lee's career as the is the is the is the angel of fire and they're at each other's necks right they're trying to extinguish each other comes along the third angel but it says show and comes on McCulloh burn who who's their superior I said surely he makes them work together you know why cuz he says guys you don't work for yourself you work for me and I tell you what to do and I'm telling you this room for both of you so stop fighting and get that get to get the job done and stop fighting because I have place for both the idea of Selim is to take two opposites and make them one that's the idea of solar so sell them you found out now at the age 50 of your life you found out what your mission of life is to bring peace between people that's your mission cuz your name is solo so maybe yes Hillel what the color rubber brings that is a teaching that when Yaakov said sans Yosef took particular to move a couch Shalom at sone that's sa club that he says at that moment he gave him his mission in life oh very good at that yeah that was his mission that his top key to life and you see that that's the Mitch then that that stood him and in the in the in the tests of his life in the board and so ha ha ha well I guess some I'm on the right track of the total river but Hashem buddy to suggest you to show them that that's his mission of life anyway so so when we now let's go back to the Gemara rebbi akiva is neatness mashaallah vo super shallow why does it have to say he entered with shallow at peace because the only way that he was able to get out of an overwhelming experience is because before he went in he said to himself my purpose of going here is not to flip out and to and to go up on a mountain and leave the world my purpose is to come back here and bring back all the goodies that I actually see from a Shem in the orchard in the park days and to bring it back down into the world so his qivana is intent to begin with was selling to make peace between the upper and the lower the spirits from the mundane etc etc and only he had that in mind that the rep explains of the seekers it's this was a a notion of Rabbi Akiva but now as I didn't have it because each of those rabbis were holy rabbis but they were or single minded or every Akiva was such a rabbi was such a sage said he wasn't single-minded he had dual roles he he understood about himself that he had dual roles so because he himself was that way everything that he did was to combine the two so that's what it means mr. special why does he bring this in a minor because he's saying that Rabbi Akiva on one hand he was ogled Amore's he shed tears he cried he was frustrated but he understood that the purpose of the frustration is to lead to a simple to lead to come in to a joy and that's why a person practically you know sometimes their issues that in our life that touch us and they make us very emotional and they're very hurtful and painful and that's acceptable as long as you know you don't get stuck there if you get stuck in that mode it's not good because you become the spun then depressed angry whatever the emotions that follow but if you use those things as as as as springboards for the the the happiness and the growth it's acceptable and even the wanted and that's without their ever says in chapter 31 and Tanya which I've mentioned the list here that's exactly what he's saying there he says when you see yourself you're upset and down and you're not in a good mood he says take that moment an opportunity to reflect on your issues and weaknesses and and say to yourself I don't want to be this way and I'm going and and then your rebound will be stronger so in other words he says take despondency inand and rejection and frustration as a moment an opportunity for growth so there be a Kiva his tears that he said wasn't that he was stuck into the tears because that's their good because that's that's that sort of breaks you warm orbit what we need to do is to grow let's continue now Chapter seven over say you the mushroom in a sow that I was out saying the amount of her giggle I guess all my tap Zeta ain't masonry she broke him and live best in holy brigade materially we don't communicate the the the Russia procure means the beginning of a of of the of the chapters only to a out best into the head of the best didn't well the whole silly brigade the kid by and only to those that their heart worries very much about the issue and else waiting a moment for each of the army of some say well who shall lead by Dave the killing some say what does it mean we don't we don't share basically sensitive information only with those individuals who take a Syria and their heart is anxious about it in other words they really take it seriously in other words you don't share classified information with with pot with Tom Dick and Harry you know you know only with someone who is very serious and will take it the right way and they're really bothered by and and they'll do something about it with them you invest the time to let them know the intimate information that's the mother says no she broken what's Russia broken again Russia broken literally means the beginning beginning of chapters the headlines kind of but Russia broken has another meaning Russia broken him sister a traitor Russia broken is the esoteric parts of theater shahane Brasi taylor the secrets of taylor you don't share cabbalistic and secret information of torah with people just both general people unless you see the person is wee-bey doing it really bothers him he takes it very seriously then you you tell them the secrets because you know that they're going to take that information and really use it in a proper way the zel my slim and this is why the new mother says Mason Mason as we dedicate we give over we communicate but Lanisha Lieber they'd be kid ablated only to someone who's anxious about it is hard is anxious about it but I've bested and the pneumatosis says in the head of the best who the wiser saved the I've best explains the best in loose in youngnam london appear tater what is the idea of a jewish court moshe the idea of a peasant is to make a judgment to make judgments ventura our potato so now he says verse a new Boveda so it's also in regard to serving i Sharon how Denver misspelled Marcia Odom done calm eyes of the Bulova Asaph what does it mean to make a Best in Show of your own Besner means to judge yourself to judge all your thoughts or your speech and on your action you understand Jameson that's what a best that means you make a best and so - who do you share intimate secrets of Tora to an individual who is it I've best them an individual who makes of his own add in Torah on himself he's judging himself that type of person Moshe he's worthy of Muslim Russia broken secrets because the person is very serious and the person's gonna really say am i worthy of this what's going on in my life Oh such a person is worthy of hearing the secrets and he says further baduk must over this is comparable to have value into a judge have done because become me who judges regarding matters of purity and impurity crush little person something exclosures something that's personal that's invalid for our best in who and the head of the best in he is should there not be a hoof malik is he judges the situation based on his godly wisdom she bought by her serger that way the doctor which comes specifically in an intellectual it comes through his logic through a visa this individual works at himself he really works on his himself is character so then it becomes internalized through his hardens mind and such a person is given sis retailer philippe de eight what that's right that's right and himself he's putting the discipline units in on himself and he's judging himself he's not just saying oh i judge you but to myself i live it up and do whatever I want no way the lead beta a who Indiana Benitez now he says well what is what does the Levi do yet we say his heart is anxious what does the lead by diet consists of it's the idea of marinos frustration her Plinius the deep frustration how now that you mentioned earlier have both Maxima ski boots mif which comes due to the contraction of the brain in other words he thinks about his life where the the mind can't handle anymore because you know it's he realizes there's an area which is so painful that I you know I told you the example of the you know coming from Poland then Warsaw you know the mind can't fathom what took place so if you think about it you start crying it's painful Jews were slaughtered like sheep right so this he would say Maya there's the squashing of the brain kibbles so their ever says that comes from the Merinos from the sensation of feeling in the heart that it bothers you that's what we mean what we mean when we say ly by doing the heart worries the heart is anxious what does that mean it means the heart is frustrated the heart comes to a point where it says I can't it's no good III can't be this way that's what he says the ain my celebrity brought him and will initially be died the killer and the say goes back to the Damara haqiqa the Gemara says we don't convey the russia prepped him only to someone who displays a anxious heart final to subha the flower burrito supreme yes when who gets to know who is given the the russia broken only someone who has of marinas previous a serious inside the despite away this is tremendous advice so many times we share information with the wrong party because they're not serious they don't take they don't take it personally then they don't live through the experience so yeah it's a waste of it you're wasting your time when you want to share something that really bothers you you have to find someone who he himself is such an individual that in his own life he looks at things in a very serious way he judges himself hence when you communicate to him it's a valuable experience I mean this is a hill ileft but this is a recipe for a good therapist that a good social worker anyone who doesn't take things seriously and just to give flip and advice it's a waste of time I don't care how bright they are but it's they're not going through the same experience now I'm not saying you know it's they have to at least work out in their life those issues that that that they have judged themself about let's go further and he says by the way small that that's this would be also an explanation to the story that I think was the River Mirage for the niccola Rebbe I forget now that he came out of your penis and he was full of sweat right so they asked what rebel why he was like sweating so he said a person came in and asked me about a certain tickling for a certain transgression and I couldn't find that that availa within myself in any way shape or form not even in a refined way so I was sweating to try to relate to the petitioner you understand the way you know you know people have a story to those story if that's the news story it's practical if you want to help someone you have to not just sympathize you have to empathize with them put yourself in their shoes and many times it's very hard to find the issue that you've been confronted and told about cause you're far from it so you have to work on yourself to somehow relate to it some and that makes you 6 what the other expedition heard of that is that you have to hold himself and the government said the person he's working with they said you try to take off put on and take off your clothes many times in what our are you gonna Schmidt right right yes thank you sir well that that's that's more precisely the story the way you just said it he's correct but it's the same idea is the same idea okay and he says the early self the aiding serve but a hold the infinite light of a college bar who have plead for which is ad infinitum it's bleep bull has no limitations in an interest labor had for the simpler the like burritos okay the infant infinity of a Shem is not grasped you can't say that you only have God and simple all you only have God in burritos that's a fallacy because then you're limiting that experience of God that's what he says the Russian a man it trusts or very small the word the trust is very important not that it's not there but the Satan need trust in English the word the trust means get hopped get happy but it happens I got you I got you to say that you've got God only some simcha wrong to say you only can you got God only through Medina's wrong you don't have him at all he's infinite and he says the heads of the simpler who cough beautiful words unison hedva and simcha are both a calf what is the calf mean calf literally means Jason right literally covers a line and the main meaning is away but the point is it's only over it's only away it's not everything it's only partial it's a way in so you hooda a way into a sham is either through RINO's or simpler but gone tell someone who's really underrated a sham you don't have God because you said because you didn't do simple or you didn't do Marie Rose he's saying that you know the infinity of a God is is greater than both or in our the language that we normally use is transcendental buffet medieval took off and he says medidas is also a car there's also a way but only a way the whole curve have a tabula beautiful words every curve any and all curve is hot bowler is limited to any clean the oil and sulfur bleed wool which means it's not a vessel for the infinite light you cannot say show them that simpler or marinas are a complete vessel for the eighty self because that itself is beyond a certain carve a certain way it has to be this way no doesn't have to be that way and he says there is a tater hey Molly coos Seba tater what's the Rosie tater the secrets of tater the secrets of trader is the godliness in tater her head gets really key Shelly My Lai massacre it's the godly feeling that transcends logic you see when we talk about the secrets the Rosetta we're not talking about the logical collect your parts were talking about transcendence we're talking about something very different for her saga Yoko leaves because f of the effort in other words you could use your safe hole to understand each thing fine but don't limit I cut this bum hole to your sail I'll go ahead it gets really key that will make you now difference I don't know pick up pick it up over here for guys but this is between Haagen Eliquis understanding godliness and feeling hair dish Hosoda join us in it can be a needs to be for either marito so simple heritage is is Russia pro tip is is Rosie Terra that's a transcendental experience and that's why it says that's only given to someone who me buydig the kid boy whose heart is anxious in him who has that inner feeling that's what he says I will I have to show the kid gotten who got him who out doesn't even if he's a knife Dez then the hole in your nose mouth shut Dibble might say be tacos healer someone who's the head of a bezel and in all of his aspects of thought speech in action and the doctor sorry Louie it's convinced it's it's virtuous it's the ultimate of virtue and labor Lahab marido subpoenas but nevertheless he hasn't still yet come to a deep inner frustration Anna my dear let us it broke him he will not get the secrets now Kahlan is there to mine man when do you get the secrets as the saying goes Cory desire had 50 but compared in ctrader joy is wedged in this side over here Takeo a believer listen to the dough and happiness is wedged on the other side behind the Indian efforts yes by base I'll [ __ ] him one idea one thing that has two opposites half heads of are simcha joy and simpler by August eczema in the tooth Tom and comprehending him very well velu the medieval supreme is it comes through an inner frustration hababam is air which comes from its Ozma Gilliam and he says in kiddush us us and is thus this is who he is Oh - cough cough care in unitless and only in this manner that the person goes depose it himself and there is the panniers premiers does it cause that the issue is now glued to him and he grasped the issue but we'll stop here we'll continue tomorrow mid-show have a good day everyone sign yes our friends are comical to everyone the lights of the relators should be kindled in 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