Practical aspects of Shabbos Shuva - Go listen to a Drasha on Shabbos Shuva

today uh we're not going to learn from a safer I'm going to continue uh talking about the different customs and preparations for the Yaman nairaim for Yom Kippur and sukis Taylor so this Shabbos is called Shabbat shuva some call it Shabbos tishuva now Shabbos to shuva the reason for that is because it's the Shabbos and it's the one Shoppers within the assets so that's why we call it Shabbos tishuva why do we call it Shabbat shuva because they have Theta of Shabbos chuva Israel starting with the shin without the tough and the hence we have two names for the Shabba see the Shabbos chuva or Shabbos shuva I would say most people call it Shabbos shuva without the tough that's one one point of reference no I'm not making any noise you're innocent sensitive he hears okay now uh lacking lacking the top seems to lack a certain to meas quality uh I uh I got the I I got it anyway since yesterday when he comes back I'll say what I wanted to say because something he mentioned last week anyway another thing that khabar does this Shabbos is not here to tell us if they do it in Boston or another mid-hug him or maybe he'll you know from tone I don't know but in in Chabad this Shabbos we like specifically a candle and it's called a chuvalicht lift means a candle and Yiddish lift so we light Friday for Shabbos a 24-hour candle even Hashem you have your parents and you know it's not for yisker it's a true Village that's bro that's a Chabad custom and I'm not sure anyone else does it but those that follow Chabad should be aware of this I've never heard of that in any other states it sounds like a nice custom okay now you're innocent sister back uh I did have a discussion with Robert paltiel about what you said um in his name of talking to your wife uh or I don't know exactly I don't exactly remember your words but I believe you said something to talk to your wife on Rosh Hashanah because the concept of Russian is being in our mouths to build and a woman is a monkey's royalty so therefore that that idea so you remember I reacted pretty uh um surprise I was very surprised and I I sent her a Portillo note saying that one of my students sent said this in your name and um you know just did you say it and what'd you say you know whatever so he said that he did say something to that effect and he he he he he he he cited he found the rebel said this the rebel said it 1987. [Music] and he sent me a copy of the secret and the number said it on every Rosh Hashanah not Rosh Hashanah that's why I reacted because Rosh Hashanah and Chabad we barely talk and the whole concept should go talk to your wife it just whatever it took me by surprise that the rapper said and this is also a hiddish would say it because we're closer to Messiah we're more bottom line and we need more these type of instructions and he said and then episode he said that his predecessors would make a point to go in to their wives to give to get a broker from them and to give a brother something like that it wasn't to have conversation that's what it says I I don't you know I'm sure they have conversation but the the the Kuda of the of the emphasis was to get a broken to give a brother and then there ever said since I heard this from my father-in-law and he heard it from his father going back to the outer River he knew that I would not control myself and I would spill the beans and then he said if that's the case and we hear it he means all of us including us today so many years later we have the power to give a brother to our wives and day to us and we should do that that is the the history of that so I I just wanted to uh a thank you I really want to thank you for making me aware of it either I knew it and I forgot it or I never knew it so number one after Claire thank you you know it says Michael medai Jason McCullum a a teacher learns more from his students than anyone else so here's an example I learned this from you so anyway the bottom line is yes thank you you've taught you've taught me at us quite a bit over the years with the different insights you've shared but anyway anyway um that that that's that's the record you know and again here I just want to conclude this the one should not make out of this amount you see this is a problem we have today anything any anything couple says we blow it up on the front pages of the New York Times that ever said it and and if you if you're motivated and do it but you know what I'm saying it especially Chabad real Chabad they didn't you know the show the the splash now we understand that but did more of a little bit of the show on the Splash and encourage that because that's the world we live in so that's why his predecessors kept it as a secret within the family and that was the one that spilled the beans what his father-in-law couldn't spill the beings the previous celebrity couldn't share it with everybody the world was not right told Professor Don Street Seaman of Emory University I brought him to the bio for into for an interview and a fact it's in my uh in my book in in one of my latest books I put in a a part of the um the interview anyway so he asked them a question he says where do we find in the outer rabbis Torah in Tanya look at the Tyra and Terror and doctor of his teachings that you should go and stand on the street and put on filling with Jews then he asked another question where do we find that we should go and talk to about the seven no hype laws we don't find such a thing in in in in in so he asked him you know and the rebel was very from and very much did any only what what he felt his ancestors would have prove in a sense so when did they ever get the kind of audacity to do that because it seems to be out of the pale but he asked to step down with their herits except gave him an answer with a personal experience and I share that with you I was there I I brought them together so I was at the interview so he told them like this when I was uh when I was a younger a young younger man when I was a teenager or whatever in the 1940s we went to Allenby you know they lived in Ramadan and Tel Aviv the Bible went to Allenby Street and Allenby Street in those years was already very secular in the sense that they were either system who grew up in Russia and they didn't believe you know Communists and right and there was many of them that was a culture a whole culture okay so today you have the Michigan Tel Aviv today but then you had the the the Clipper of Enlightenment the secularism and laughing at from Yeadon and he said I and my friends went to put on filling with jewels on Adam B that's what he said or maybe talk to them about the keeping Shabbos because they're free to get up and spoke about shmirah Shabbos made a whole campaign in 1943-44 about Shabbos observance so maybe it was about that so he asked the question he said no I'm sorry no no I'm sorry he said no he said we did not do that we didn't ask him to put on film he says why today you go on Allen being the buffer of my out there Friday afternoon putting on film with Eden everyone knows that wherever you go Friday there are Le Papa from the yeshivas because the time wasn't right the time the world wouldn't hear of it at that time things changed and now you could go on now and be you go here and yes there are some people that still make problems that's been reported but overall it's makuba they're absolutely said to the professor Seaman the same is with the seven dog height Campaign which you came out with in 1983 and the same is with other such things at the time before the Revelation that the Sadiq reveals something in the world the world is not a Kaylee the Sonic senses this the the energy that Hashem puts into the world and until a certain time it's not the world is not ready for it for example why the only Mitchells that are born in that Mr Raisa because until Hanukkah happened the energy was not there it's not just they didn't have a war with the Greeks and all that the world was not a vessel for the energy of Hanukkah hence there was no Hanukkah once the world became a vessel for that energy there was a there was a Hanukkah nest and we have Hanukkah and the same in the so the bio said the same as with all these things so this explains why possibly the previous before did not share this minute of talking to your wife Eric Rosh Hashanah and the rabbit did and you asked why because the devil who knew these things because he's a Sadiq and he says that now the world is ready from God says I'm I want this now and therefore the topic it comes out as a revelation for him that is a Chabad belief based on Torah Etc so I just say that there's nothing to be embarrassed with I'm making it very clear nothing to be embarrassed with to put I'm feeling what they eat in the street in fact we see that all the lead organizations and all the other Hasidic organizations are doing the same thing and borrow Hashem as I've told you many times the previous representative came to America I don't have a copyright on either Skype I don't have a copyright it's open to everybody you know led the campaign over the years in those areas great now the bells wants to do that with their people great Gary what gear has a campaign to to give out Shabbos candles I told you my wife is very involved here in borrow Park every Friday a group of women go to Kings Highway in Brooklyn here and they stand and give out black candles that's exactly what the rapper said in 1974-75 when he came out with the myths of the campaign of girls should light candles from the age of three on so maybe Garrett doesn't say from what age you should like candles but the idea of standing on the street not standing next to your shul next to your house standing on King's Highway which is a walk by mostly non-observant Jews and non-jews and and offering Candles there Hashem so so the the idea I'm saying but but but to go you know to go and say and be we're going to put up posters on the street make sure to talk to your wife on that representative make sure to get a blessing for her islamukubao you know in Hebrew we say and give the Hebrew late you know that expression it it it don't go you know it's a little tombolorea you know what I'm saying common sense but did they ever say yes if you want if you feel motivated to do it do it but do it properly that's a general thing I want to go back now to to Shabbos truva we finished with the Shabbos Cuba basically the the only minute that's different than Chabad is what I told you about the candle okay yes my I want to make foreign I want to know in many many killers and Shabbos Cuba it's very common that a Shabbat sugar drusha 12 gets up you know I just wanted to ask about that in general okay I just want to know okay cheers the answer is it's like it's a Jewish tradition it's not supper it's not Spar the lead however however so we considered the Shabbos for bringing as the Shabbos to Russia however if wanted to give a treasure between minhamaire when there was time see that there was a technical thing the river started her brain at one o'clock 1 30 in the afternoon Shabbos afternoon it would go 4 30 to 5 30. no most people didn't need so the Shabbos the buffering for sure now so they would go home to eat by the time you came back I was running my Rift time so there wasn't any time for the Shabba Shu with Russia so most Chabad shoes are saying Crown Heights didn't announce a championship with Russia but let's say outside of clonides if there was a larger Jewish community it's very appropriate that a Chabad Rob should give or you know uh address Russia so so what I'm saying is that it's it's it's a a yiddishizak it's a Jewish tradition but in Chabad it's not emphasized because the river for 40 um for 42 years so we didn't call it a direction we called it a fabrangan is that clear Maisha clarify um I don't remember where I saw this but you see that many aren't very often the Shabbos sugar drop shot is like a pill pull not always but many times meticulas it's a dark it's like a pillow it's like a very you know very deep in terms of sources and but isn't it I I always was under the impression that chapter the roof wants to get up and gives a dry shirt to make give people the you know it's to give people the food what's the service made sure of them yeah yeah yes and I would say that the red bird was on the same page like you and and I think over the years he might have said it that you know it's it's great to begin with different you know different people and divide uh Gamora and all that but there has to be a halachic emphasis that ever always emphasized that there should be a halach emphasis and a more practical you know walk away um but but you know it is in fact it's funny you ask because when I sit there and show in the morning I'm just coming from there right in front of me on the wall was all the Myron mcclainments all the citations for the upcoming sub address of the rough and they're all from the from the gamaran and and then I said Caleb and the commentaries and the slack so right in my face yes that is the tradition that that is the tradition uh why one second why that is you know they I can only surmise that you feel let me say this they feel that because we've progressed this is uh I'm surmising and the Benet Torah you know if you tell them we're gonna talk just bottom line laws or an inspirational to Russia because because they they they you know they consider themselves Elite so they have to hear Hindus I would say that that's that kind of took over so even the Hasidic communities like if you're not giving a Shabba Shubert rush or a Shabbos have goggled Russia that twice a year addresses that has you know meat and potatoes and all that you look like a weak link I I I I believe that's the reason so and we would have to do research and I haven't done it but you're welcome to find out I think in Europe it wasn't that way I think in Europe the market or the rough got up shop he gave Musser big mustard and he made you cry that was the shopping and on the line of what you're saying Maisha but you're saying that because you know but in the literature world I and this can be checked out pretty easily I believe that was the the emphasis it wasn't about a collection Tysons I don't know so I might be wrong but that's my feeling I understand so I guess that um that it was not the Min hug of rabam to speak uh publicly except uh Chavez chuva and Chavez Salgado you told her the two times the Rob would speak and shul you're talking about you're talking you're talking about a rug a rug a rug yeah a rubbing a shoe you know if they were like he didn't who would travel and speak and come go from town to town and and that was more more how Musa got communicated and uh and things uh and that was sort of uh the entertainment the spiritual entertainment of the town but when the but that was the one those were the opportunities for the rub to sort of show the kahila what he was working on and what he oh really where did you you heard this or you read this hello I I um that's my understanding I don't remember where I remember okay it this is something that's good that we're discussing it it's something that you know if you guys come across anything and writing on this I'd like to know because I I haven't research and I tell you the truth and you know I'm saying I grew up in the community and and for example came from Poland he was a big cup and he gave SRI Russia and the rebel encouraged laborers to come out of respect to listen to it and I lived in Borough parks with me was not a big deal right so I remember one time he spoke about the importance of a beard and it was funny because at that time he had a goat's beard but he didn't you know you know did he now he he might have began with a Gamora but it's more to Russia and Agoda versus halacha and pupil okay that's what I remember now that wasn't Shabba shouville it wasn't Shabbos it was Shabbos it was the SRI between but but I hear you I hear you what you're saying is uh very interesting that's why historically you're saying that those are only two times a rough spoke okay I I I don't know I mean you know you're saying that Arab never spoke throughout the year from the bhima that's what you're saying yeah doc I think that um I think that that is much more modern and uh much more of a modern Innovation that the Rob would speak you know regularly a Shabbos to Russia that kind of right before I forget you any what's your grandfather's name I want to dedicate the Liberty to your grandfather um band what Ben what Ryan Lee it's your mother your father's what side my father's father father and he should bring that a full slaver for your father okay Mike any more on this or you're clear yeah just one last question just following up and what we're discussing right now is it very kind of was common in in general in placidious circles that the rabbit so will only speak in terms of a tissue for bringing Etc I'm assuming that that would be a rub you know like like a you know like a more aesthetic Etc you'd be the one to give it to give like address look look let's see without whatever until our ever this idea of speaking every Shabbos didn't exist this by the six previous Le bobbys the previous syllabus started to introduce more speaking you know what they called secrets on a Shabbos or a yamtiv or you test Kiss Live and you know but until then the river are sharp fabbrained only three times a year now what the Bible did is they set a mimer that they set every Friday night that's from the altarebus throughout whatever I would ever didn't do it Friday night he did a travesty afternoon so in khabar the emphasis was the maimer hasida okay now when you talk about other Hasidic movements let's say uh Chernobyl you know and and and and others there well compared to Chabad there's not a lot of trusses and the talks that their rappers Gave Over the history that's you know they at a teach they settle for it so the same in Poland you have six I think six five seven volumes of of his thrush of his they've retire at the Tish you know so it was vertlack verpla short words on the partial very inspirational and very you know then when they wrote it they I think wrote it more elaborately or or more explained or sometimes not depending on their pen and their ability and all that swazem is is a very hard language to understand that's why the institution of gear has opened made like a series but but the the the the rappers didn't like you say now for example Bells now I understand that once a year the belzareba gives address in the middle of the day that's kind of the uh you know the president speak the inauguration speech yeah State of the Union yeah it is it is in a way the State of the Union Bells is that simcostara talk now whether his uncle did that I doubt it knowing a little bit about him I I doubt it and whether his father the the the the SARS show them did it I doubt it I I don't know you know so so you know but just like our River started to bring every Shabbos because he saw otherwise they're gonna we're gonna eat shown to fall asleep but waste our time so he said I'm Gonna Keep he here not every shoppers but I'll keep you here that's it then you'll hear and if I'm speaking you're going to want to come you have to come some came after chosen came before Jones but they tried coming right so uh for example this whole thing I don't know how it's about you guys in there to throw but this you know this thing now I see here let's say above they keep the people to five o'clock Rosh Hashanah I've we finished 1 30 to 2 o'clock both days and we started only nine now does have the shortest stuff in English no we don't say most of the government just we don't it's not part of the mimic it's not that because we're rushing the Davenport they don't do them again right right right that's that yeah that's the minute that's the minute but I'm saying is what I don't I grew up in Borough Park and and Bobby finished at 2 33 5 o'clock so I asked people they said they were in the previous rep he started this because people were just wasting and talking on Rosh Hashanah such a holy days I'll keep you sure another two hours you know so there's a you know there's been also this practical aspect of readjusting even the way the Tish works the fabrangin or the schmooze and and I think this is this is true in all communities Maisha fine but but I I I do want to I want to leave with that Lit it is it is the right thing to go to a Shabbos chuvit Russia if there's one in your community be respectful to the Rove to the or someone else you know what I'm saying it's the right thing to do and it has nothing to do with being a fussy it's not a fussy but baby now if you have multiple dresses and you like hearing it in English or in English you're like in Hebrew Hebrew like this one okay fine but but yeah your kids and grandkids should know that there's a rough saying you know at Russia and anyone that let me say is anyone that that dismisses this is this you know that's for them it's not them you know that's for real it's wrong it's wrong and it's not Yiddish it's not Chabad and it's wrong you know now I myself don't don't run to dresses I tell you the truth I I don't why because I'm used to from the rabbit and I'm wrong also I'm wrong also if there was one that was closer to my house and it was easy for me to walk I would go it's not that I'm against it you know but if someone is able to it's it's the right thing to do to show you know to show that it's the right thing to do but again yeah yeah but but away the fact is the hasidisha world like what you said before the rappers don't make these Shabbos at rushes Russia so for example in in the satellite above of scholes here they'll have even not the rough but someone who is a talmouth they'll ask him to say uh address of people so the hasidim have kind of gone along with this idea of of of sharing people but they'll do you know things like that you know what I'm saying um we have a laboratory here who's World known he's a he's a book in shots right by right Port you took right port and he taught us in our shoe let me Shabbos you know and then we'd be close family friends and really a big time o'clock and he sits and learns all his life God bless them when they're 1974 there's Oil Embargo God blessed him and overnight he became a very wealthy man and um he for the last 40 years I can remember he put He has someone put up posters on the streets and all the shoes that is giving the shabba's sugar dress the Shabbos and God of Russia and and and and and he speaks like a real Russian he's 85 years old so they can name the other you know what I'm saying he keeps the TR and he gives real rambam and and then you know deep insights you know it definitely follows the classic litfish that that's that's his style what yes does he speak in Yeshua no oh oh wait so now sure what I've seen them do now is and they don't want to change that so there's not enough time so what they have him do they have him speak to him in Friday night yes so kind of he gives somewhat of his Russia for us in in on the Shabbos in Friday night that that's been implemented earlier and I think it's the right thing it's covered for him and it's the right thing that you know that the hour youth should know that this is a Judicial tradition he said this is yes so who gives that Josh no no rather right but when he when he announced it was a full page of marmacomas on all the streets of Borough Park no no I didn't know you you said before leaving your shoes oh that that was that was a showman Shabbos what happened during the week the rabbi Tim tear now turn now or he said see the sugar person he's a he succeeded giraffe and and he gives that to Russia with all those Mama Comas yeah so what I'm saying is that the hasidisha world seems to me those that do give that Russia have gone along the literature world and really made that Russia uh you know that now I'm sure they end with a with a with a story or a vert you know look rather who was the master of Russia's for his yard side of his father and his mother he gave what was known as a yardstick Shear twice a year two thousand people packed the auditorium in Washington Heights the Yu Auditorium lampertory touring two thousand people what the rough the rav of the show that Robert Molina was the new rogue what's his name Robin David yeah he he told me he was there many times and he brought others so you can talk to him about it it was incredible and what was the same there the first two hours of his salvation gave people and the next two hours he gave a god four hours no one left four hours no one left and were there ever four hours of operating no one left you know so anyway but so everybody salvation who was a leaked he was a brisker so he definitely showed his kayaking in Toyota in rambam but then he gave two hours of Agoda and was it was because it was beautiful but the rapper the rapper always emphasized you know halacha and Maison always you know you gotta bring it down so what should we do you know the bottom line light a candle if you're following this minute this Shabbos you know I remember uh I told you about that two in the year 2000 with that uh Gathering the Crown Heights against the Colorado shofar Cox you know that uh Warner Esther dressed up uh um you know therapy for for guys that had issues with their father you know in the front community and uh it was getting all all over including Chabad so they called a special meeting December 24th at night little nightly now that I learned there were 2 000 people in the room and their Abuelo and Rabbi from Los Angeles and Rabbi Heller from Crown Heights I love uh or Andreas spoke so after he spoke rabbi shakhat speaks and I'm Ashoka is a great guy but he can go on he can go on like for an hour and after he sat down after speaking for an hour about the oil can't went to the mic um it was you know he wasn't supposed to do that no one asked him to do that and he said for the purpose of not forgetting the bottom line let me repeat the bottom line he meant to say you know after a show got spoke for an hour and he spoke nicely and well and important but the the lengthiness you forget the bottom line so let me repeat what the bottom the rabbit did that if you all did that because the rabbit did that okay however listen I want to um uh I want to talk about circus Monday so let's then then that's it then till after until Hashem we won't resume I mean but if if he can you're up to it Monday we still can um and hopefully uh ushers um moisha's son Usher asked me to fabbrain for his group from the Yeshiva amygdal Amic Sunday night so um I told him I can't take too much time because I gotta teach my students including your father Monday morning he says I understand he asked me what should we get you white Scotch wine I said whatever you get I'm not drinking much because we gotta I gotta be fresh for the Monday morning have a great Shabbos a great job is true with everybody bye-bye