Order is key to success - Rebbe explains importance of Davening w Minyan - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

so where Tanya now uh chapter test Zion 16. and we're on page Huff Bays where three four five six seven lines from the bottom after the brackets the words start with the Visa refers to the concept that a a cold love in the heart which we call which the alternative calls here within the recesses of the heart is the type of love which is kind of more of a rational though for Hashem that's why it's called tivuno from the word understanding Libre within the heart and we explained that is the the the the the the the feeling that it's right to do so and so is several times in the Panic doubt that ever used the word Olive soft hey he also means so it's appropriate and he employs this word several times in the chapter because this is the type of love that we're talking about it's not a heartfelt love of heart palpitations where you you feel Hashem in every fiber of your body rather it's more of a calculated love in other words what's what's what's fueling this love is the Seiko but normally normally when the Seiko when the intellect fuels love once it enters the Heart of Love it's full of passion and the Seiko takes a back seat and the Seiko is it's as though the sacral is not there the cycle has to be there because otherwise we have a wild type of Love which we've discussed you know beginning with uh the Hasidic movement remember 1770 which caused uh the villanue going uh and and to come out it was part of the reason why he came out against hasidim was because of this humiliation that this Hasidic group did to the Miss nothing to the at the time and they were very upset so that's that's wild love that's that's yeah it's unbridled love but it's it's cuckoo it's crazy it's very unhealthy right and just as a point of reference it just it just hit me just as you know the psychedelics and the drug and LSD and everything else of the 60s was in hindsight you know uh uplifting on one hand but very wild and very dangerous and you know very unbridled and you know so too 200 years earlier you had a different type of drug called casidam who belittled them you know you don't think of it as a drug but it was a drug it was a drug of making fun of of of of making fun of Segal we want to we want to eradicate intellect we the Judaism of intellect uh the Western Europe Judaism and uh you know uh Judaism and and lit [ __ ] Judaism and ask Judaism they felt his Abomination to to God then we're going to destroy it that's a drug yes he will serious talk but in Hebrew talk is tough love it and if you reverse the letters you get tough kuf lamid which equals in the English counter 1770. right the year tough llama 1770. which means it has no purpose I mean purpose talk means there's a purpose this purpose the the the the idea of talk means that they they have no purpose that yeah the purpose was one thing was to destroy the Muslim and it was unbridled and it was wild and it was a Loose Cannon and and it caused chaos like this and I don't want to go into it because we got to finish the third chapter the I the idea that the belshantive came and he taught that intellect is not what establishes a Jew that's correct but the application of that at the time at the time was very very wrong and it caused upheaval and it caused the groin and the Stockton to issue one of you know their their excommunication their hair so why I'm saying this over here is the word also has meaning in the drug culture oh really yeah okay amazing yeah okay I I I I'm not amazing at this so I'll have to uh look it up what's the word tolka okay anyway saying here is that intellect is necessary for an emotion to be a healthy emotion but usually say usually but you the no yeah the norm is that the Seiko once it creates the feeling it backs off it guides it and it keeps it on a straight path but it but it allows the emotion to float but what if a person doesn't have that flow of emotion it just doesn't come he's like a stone right we know what that means you know you know a person feels like they want to cry it's not coming they want to laugh and smile and be happy and it's not coming you know there's a blockage so when it comes to avoid this Hashem if there's a blockage and we're talking about someone who's abandoning it was an overdelet came and he has a blockage so how's he how is he able to serve god with this important feeling of urban Europe and the zaira Qatar says that unless you have Ava in the era Le parties are not ascending are not flying to Heaven they're not getting in sorry chap could you imagine a person's davening and learning and it's not going to the right place it's like you know I I I'm working so hard you know you work on something at the end you realize it was a waste of time so this is very very depressing for anyone especially abandon me who's an active servant an active worker so the outdone says don't worry Hashem has mercy on you and he will take your activity that's that that that you've worked so hard and although you don't have a block you have a blockage you don't have that free that feeling of love for Hashem and it'll consider it as it it as though it does have it and that's only God can do and he does it for the active servant and so this is what he said till now now he needs support for that so now the alternator is going to bring support from the Gomorrah look in the looks inside now please seven launch the bottom page cloth base and this idea that I just shared with you that the Elton ever shares our sages alluded to when a person has a good thought about doing a mitzvahum god combines it to action God considers it as though you did it you had a thought of putting on filling but you didn't put on the Thriller because I'll say there's a time when Missouri that doesn't mean you shouldn't put on film but it means for whatever reason you didn't get a chance but you really wanted to do it you get the credit with Sarah full of myself assault should have said I'm sorry it should have said my level of acrossov the verse considers it God considers it as though you put on the trillion what's this language if I have a good thought about doing the Mitzvah the word syrup God combines it Lamesa it's very very peculiar God considers this though you did it that's the balitanya's question here it's a rhetorical question and he answers the concept is based on we just what we explained until now we will understand the language of the khazal and he explains the idea of awe and love for God that's revealed in a palpable way in your heart hey Mama slouching by myself when you have that if you're lucky you have that if you're lucky if you work to the point where you created that they invest themselves in your actions to enliven the misters so that they fly the parka Ayla this is a reference to the zohab why it's very important Point says please know that as wonderful as your heart is it's still material foreign like any other organ of your body Shane claim Isa which are considered by the vessels of action you need your hands to put on filling your knee your hand to give to the doctor you need your feet to walk the shoe and you need your heart to express emotion so that the mystery you do is an animated one it's not just I put on film this morning because I do it every morning I can do it in my sleep and I'm from Jew and this is the way no when you put on two in the morning there's an animation and a feeling like you're you're bursting with love and awe for God as you put on film says that's so when you have that feeling if and when you have that feeling that feeling is transmitted it in the act in the actual Act so therefore your heart which is also humri it's also material the heart is not spiritual right and we know that if a god person has issues with their heart they need a valve replacement they need this you need a new heart so it's homry so you have to make the material heart be inspired the difference is the heart is inside it's deep the highest and it gives Vitality to the rest of the rest of the body that's next page by him on top of 44. we used to him that's why the heart militia can specifically invest itself into in Mitzvahs and make the Mitzvahs fly to Heaven Ascend upward why although the heart is also humbly yes sir it's also material but it's the premium material it's kind of the most refined of all the physical organs and I don't know if the most refined but one of the more refined organs of the pr of the human body is the heart right the heart and the Brain so because it's a panini icer when the heart is excited and electrified it is able to bring a a a a liveliness into Torah mid-swiss and that makes the terror and mitzvah's flag tashem and like I told you yesterday because to get into the realm of God you got to be rookie you ain't getting in if you're not Rook me you can be a bystander you know it's like I don't have to you can sit out in the in the Outfield in the bleachers or you can have box seats and see everything up close well the the the the the other organs are more gas and they're like on the outside the heart although it's material it's kashmias but it's the roofness kind of the goshni so therefore it's able to to cause arrogenius in the Torah Mitzvahs and your mitzvah kind of leaves your state of geshen of humri of Corporal reality and the Mitzvah takes on a spiritual form and when it takes on a spiritual form it meshes with God who's spiritual transcends spirituality but the realm of spirituality and then you get in then your tournaments gets in it's the right place it's not a waste let's continue ah this is true when you have heart palpitations of love for God but when you only have the type of love the cold love that we're talking about in this chapter which we call funness they are they don't seem to have any ability to get into action or to make the behavior your behavior spiritual it's cold when you're when you have a warm the general you generated a feeling of love and it's warm it has it's so powerful that it can push itself into action and make your act electrified but if you're if your love is is only kind of a secondary love what we called earlier a cold love an intellectual love it's right to do so and so but I don't really feel it that it can't tourism can it cannot transmit a spirituality to to to the action so that the action now is electrified to be able to be spiritual to ascend in in into heaven that's what he's saying right now and it's impossible the Hamilton is for them to be Wings to make it go upwards soar upward unless we have God's help s God single-handedly combines action to your cold love and he puts them together he says it's good that's what hazal says let's continue he says unless God combines and joins up foreign so drama says what does it mean that you have a good thought that means that you invested at least in the tavonus liby to ruin this Libre in this cold love myself doesn't mean you're sitting on your couch and thinking I would like to do that no it means that you exerted effort and you came to a place you said you know the right thing is for me to to to follow God to learn with Hashem to be intellectually stimulated about Hashem and then that feeling trickles itself down and it makes some kind of feeling what's the feeling the feeling is that it's right for me to have a love it's right to to write you know let's see further the this feeling is an actual palatable or a love for God because Godless Libre revealed in the heart it's in the understanding of the mind and in the uh recesses of the heart Canal as we mentioned earlier I want to finish and maybe go back to the footnote afterwards now when Hashem does this hello when Hashem does this Seraph he combines your intellectual cold love with your action where does that Ascend to right it says in the desire in a sense Maisha what is a sentence with a little Kabbalah now there's four worlds here depending on how animated your tournamentsis is that's where it gets to says he says he says that okay basically the difference between one in this regard the world of Bria creation and the world of insida formation is you'd see that you'd see that is the medus and Bria is Seiko so when you're when you're tired Mitzvahs is a result of your Seiko and it and that gets communicated to your behavior to what you do this the Ascension of that player and mitzvah's inspired by in that type of intellect flies right into in a sense right into Bria why because Prius the world of intellectualism the spiritual world of intellectualism so because you you created a a love for God using your Seiko you get rewarded that it goes into Bria what if you didn't you only created an emotional response and you laughed intellectually it goes into the world of yet that's the doubt that episode nevertheless this will Ascend to the world of Encina through the more uh natural res the latent inherent love that's found in the heart of every Jew from birth much because of a common body because as Dalton will explain later on I think chapter 19 at length what's the point that I'm saying over here is you know what's the connect why does he have to say all this where it goes to he wants the baby to know that the dev is finding Solace constantly because when you work hard when we work hard we want to see results right even if it's not ego driven the nature of the human being is results so here's a question here's a man called baloney and he's an Ovid as we discussed the last few days right he's really working to overcome his nature and now you're telling him that what he does doesn't go to the right place it's very depressing it's doubt that ever says it goes to the right place there's two places one is the world that but yeah one is the world of Encina so even if it doesn't get to at this point because it didn't have the fuel of intellect in its top form it had the fuel of a natural love that you could that you that you developed vis-a-vis your Aveda and it goes to the world of yitzina I'm sorry I didn't mean before chapter 19 chapter 39 and Tanya now tarab explains this concept much more at length so of course we'll leave it for them but for now the banyani must know that all good work and all effort even if he doesn't succeed in creating a palpable heartfelt love that's caused by deep deep understanding of God but it only because it only creates this cold love you should know that God is with Sonic takes that love combines it to your action even though without God there's no connection between that love and God that would that with that the cold love and and and and and being able to ascend into the world of spirituality see the world of spirituality the world is very defined you just can't you know you just can't get in there with soiled garments you know when we talk about a story like you know um Kipper and the student you know the person crying cockle doodle doo and saying the other face and the the reviews of it says oh he broke all the gazeras and such stories that's an anomaly that's an exception to a rule and it's true but that's not the average yeah the norm is there is a room and there is a a situation and then here these are the rules if you meet the qualifications you get in and if not you don't get in until you you work harder and and that's a very healthy way of living life because it's necessary what's not healthy is when you when you say oh if that's the case I I don't have a chance of being better of being greater of accomplishing more that's very stifling and very limiting and that's what the boxemptive brought to the to Tyra is never be stifled and that's what is bringing here in the chapter um to explain the pain in the he's saying banani you can reach and the you if you keep on working and you keep on breaking your nature you will reach the goal of getting getting into God and being and that your mistress are more spiritual why because God is going to do your favor my shoulders so so here it is Maisha in other words if you don't have this concept this is very important if you don't have this concept you say how do I know my film my putting until in the morning really you know gets to the right place you know this morning I I woke up I was tired and I was grouchy and I have worries and then and then I come to shoe and this guy gives me the right hook and he gives me the left hook he gives me the eyes he screams at me and it's like from all sides and with all this I'm playing trillion and I'm diving it's like and yeah and you you take off your film you go home to eat something or go to work whatever and you ask yourself did my darling this morning get anywhere or was just a waste of time yeah so you know according to uh the the robotic Judaism I did what's right I went to a meeting there's nothing greater than going with that minion I just read yesterday to my wife and daughter here from the the rabbit's conversation maybe one day I should read it to you with Rabbi guess the former uh Rabbi of the castle he had yegridas with the Reba and a middle he asked the rep they spoke about davening because the question everyone comes to thousand and they're ever told them that for me this is very interesting because I I never saw there ever speak so much about davening with a minion that ever said the key to success is dominant with a minion in the morning chakras over here again he's talking to Robert gets who's dealing with in all kinds of eating at the castle and there have been very emphatic words says that if you start your day without having a minion it creates Seder in your life and and when you have say there you have success order organized then did have been said then he asks something says oh he says and what about my shopping you know what about foreign thoughts that enter your mind what's for supper frankfurters or hamburgers right in middle level Nursery with a minion is different and better and less of an issue than the mahabazarus of an individual and it gives an example the mashabazarus of Southern Darwin with a million is is going too fast going too slow should I wait for should I the rapper says this if I show you it's so funny that this is coming from you know foreign um okay well yeah compared to ugly disgusting uh inappropriate thoughts that enter someone who's dominating himself the rapper says these are kind of acceptables in other words of course you shouldn't you should push those away as well but but the difference is it's it's a different you know it's not forbidden thoughts and the river says that comes from diving with a minion and why am I saying this because the Bengali can feel lost my diving today was you know terrible was just lousy first of all when you double minion you're already in the ballpark the cabin well you must your trellis won't be despised many many accolades and and and uh praise for Davin with a minion order it creates in your life you'll have a better day but more so is that with the what the out that ever saying can chapter 16 of Tanya is that those Titans was created by your davening if you if you if you at least have enough intellect to fuel a feeling that it's right to be proper I don't feel it yet in my heart but it I'm not it's right what I'm doing it's right to do this for God God likes that and he says I'm going to combine that and give it the the spiritual uh ingredient that it can make your Torah Mitzvahs Ascend to heaven to the right place and it's a very that's very um comforting for the beginning think about it because it's good stuff here the health is teaching us it's also a good word for purchase by those Club what's the lifting up the lights lifting up the lights Malaysia every one of us we should lift up the lights you guys us NASA you know we began a difference in parsis now for a while because and and go and go with simcha and go with with good governing and learning that I've always considered the Shabbos afterwards um a continuation to show us so Maisha shared the wonderful news I think Israel maybe a few others learned four hours a mime or so or learned to out I mean I didn't do that so I'm jealous at least my students did it well and uh continue that continue moisture my should continue it doesn't have to be only it doesn't have to be only fullest night you know and if there's a few have Reformation code this and others that want to learn some see this seriously more seriously create you know because are we going to learn this haga um many people will learn it uh you want to learn it now quickly I can learn it now quickly because right okay so he brings a source for what he's saying his interpretation he brings the source so page 44. it says the letters comprise make up the word tavuna right we learned to chapter three in Tanya Avi that of the Son and the daughter are the emotions coming from the parents who's wisdom and understanding create the the Son and the daughter which is the emotions sometimes descends to become the the brain the intellect of Marcus of the middles which means the letters the words of Terra mitzvas is inspired with the tavuna so he's just using kabbalistic words that sometimes that funa will impacts of midos so malcols is action right bottom line sometimes when you have this experience where you you you invest in at least and create the cold love the intellectual love God will then make that Inspire your your ICS your words of terrorism that'll be accepted and it'll go to the right place okay have a great job Mr everyone's we'll see everyone Monday bye bye Shalom bye thank you