Ohr lArba 1940 #14- How to keep your Judaism fresh and not reverting back to your old self - Nigun

paige maisha give me the page 166 right [Music] still in the what you know i think we're in the the top paragraph yeah yes [Music] okay the rebbe said something very powerful here which is another thing it's hard to digest but you need we need to and that is that a person can understand concepts godly ideas understand them well but he doesn't feel this is the issue we've been talking about for for a few weeks [Music] and in this miner that ever says the reason why he doesn't feel it is because he is he said because he has he is bound he's bound to to materialism he says clearly to to um eating drinking and anger that's what he those are the three issues that he identifies in this mimer and and it's inside him it's inside him [Music] meaning meaning [Music] even in his subconscious it's there so even when consciously he's not angry but if he has anger in him it's gonna block so that's that's very important sometimes you ask yourself i'm in a good mood i just learned why don't i feel something that ever says the reason is because you have anger inside you and until you get rid of that anger subconsciously he doesn't use those words i'm paraphrasing subconsciously that anger is going to be a blockage and the same is true for the indulgences from food to sleep to all kinds of other pleasures and everything else an indulgence creates a state of being in in in the persona now i i think you know those that know a little about you know the psychoanalysis probably freud would would agree with with some of that or all of it right philip that's that's pretty much it yeah i i think that that's a accepted idea in psychology right so that's you know here you see that amber wasn't a psychologist see this is i always say because it is the best psychology if you learn it properly you think about what he's saying it's it's so much you know there's so many similarities and anyway so that that's the recorder that we learned last week but our objective is it's yesterday because in a week and a half we're walking out of messiah or better said we need to walk out up inside him every day so now we're going to get to now that ever is going to explain that part let's go inside the minor okay oh and one more thing he said that that i didn't emphasize enough last week he says how do you bring what's up here into here he's in this minor he says use coil sound voice music singing and this is also important sometimes as much as you rationalize and you understand it doesn't sometimes most times it doesn't bring to that feeling says that ever go into a mode of singing of music of coyo beginning with the simple idea of video say the words out with your lips when you read them right you could you could just read the text like this scan the text you know like some skin on zohar right you can scan the talmud you can say the words out with your mouth that's one what one simple thing that's hazal teaches then there is what is brought in in siddhis another swarm the idea of coil and here too we see a we see differences in coil from the from the the yeshiva bakar whose there's a coil there's a sound there's a music there's a tone to the one who's singing you look at some hasidic art from that they're singing they're singing the song right in some of the chapad old you'll see they go like this they they i don't know what's the knack with the cannot queen he get it to say knocked middle finger finger cannot go like this whatever the english word for that is snap your finger okay that isn't just a mistake in the in the artist that was the way khabad khasid when they when they identified with with what's called the imus the sweetness of godliness by understanding it they expressed it with a knack of the finger a knock of the finger ah that that ah that's not here that's coil and that's why they think they sang the goodness sometimes a happy [ __ ] some type of meditative ignorant that could sound you know morbid but it's not morbid but you know more vegas so coil coil is a very powerful tool and and there too you know we have to explain that there's there's coil that's healthy and there's coil that's frankly foolish you know has to show them to say that a certain derek of yidden their coil is foolish that's not what i'm saying but i'm saying as an individual come on come on you know know yourself if you really believe that screaming is helpful to you then scream don't scream [ __ ] by disturbing 20 people around you but if that's your voice yeah i i believe me i go to carleen when i need to get a boost when i need some uh what do we call that not gatorade what's that other drink i think red bull yeah yeah so instead of that you're going to carleen no but the point is just in in morning in davao and it was coming from chakras right if i don't raise my voice usually the the the minion is like it's like a cemetery you know what you hardly hear anybody so sometimes especially just having a little louder part of that and then all of a sudden i hear people get it people are starting to dive in a little louder that's all it should feel like we're dabbing with simple not in the cemetery you know all these things are semantics but that ever saying here the individual if you feel so this is an answer one answer to your issue to your issue is that you identify your issue our issue but you brought it out why is it that i understand the pain and i don't feel it so we spoke about possibly why because there are other blockages within your subconscious i don't mean you i don't mean because i mean us us within our subconscious and what's the solution more importantly is in this mimer and his others our answer is nothing my mother he says quail use nagina in khabad you should know that nagina played played and plays a very big role and i don't mean just a good song good music i'm talking about in aveda when davening when especially when davening if you if you get into a good niggin and you allow the niggin to take you to swallow you uh very therapeutic very cathartic so a negan which is coil is another step i would say a step two to the idea of the dibata bomb and that's what the rabbit suggests here and by the way this is very unique you won't find a lot of this indifferent my modern in other words this is a unique uh advice let's imagine a tanya and agarose akaidis but to bring it here in a mimer i think is a very unique thing any question on that okay let's go up whatever says now yes it ever says you know when you talk about leaving egypt there are different great gradations there's barely getting out of the problem you better get out of here bro this place is terrible i have to leave i met sharpest someone because of covert who's living out of potomac maryland and he does it's amazing amazing the world we live in he checks he's a he's a pathologist with a phd from kansas university he checks for cancer online on the screen in s thomas the virgin islands while listening to rabbi gordonhabad.org imagine he's working for that that famous that big pharmaceutical company as their 10k what is it yeah hillel azer azer you know the major company in america that uh azer i forget the name how do you pronounce it i'm not sure which one you mean yeah thank you thank you that's the one that's the one yes sir they made they made one of the vaccines right they were in one of the groups that produced a vaccine i don't know he says yeah he says right so he's sitting he says i'm doing it online what's the difference so he ran when covet came he ran to the to the virgin islands it's gorgeous and beautiful so him and his mother-in-law they bought a villa there and and you know you know they don't have kennels that's an issue there's a schliere there well why am i saying this because you see us from a triumph cove it comes you run away then afterwards you come back what's the next step so that rabbit says here that the first step of is to vacate get away from the problem you'd see us with zeraya then you have to internalize it look further the whooing in the next thing is where it becomes this escape the great escape from egypt an egyptian culture and mindset needs to become the will of your heart this is brought into zara usa is the aramaic for razon the liba is the aramaic for life the will of of the heart is there an implicit distinction here when he's talking about the rats on de liba from from what we normally think of as ratzen which is more associated with the moa absolutely well said oh there's pages and pages on what you just said now considers pages especially in the discourses on rosh hashanah because rosh hashanah it says it's a cult muhammad it's a it's a a sound that comes from very deep within so there are in in it's brought a kabbalah but this really delve into this concept and they say that the the the coil coming from the chauffeur is coming from us so there's a lot a lot of work over there if you if you care to when it comes to the time i can give you some references where to learn but in in a nutshell he said is correct russell liba is not the russian of moa right guys i don't know if you let me you understand what hillary said he said a very important thing there is a will coming from an intellectual understanding that's not what we're talking about here here we're talking about something much deeper in the subconscious which it becomes like from inside yourself and we call that russo the liberals how do you transform doctors to light you have to have rusev and what does this mean yes subjugate yourself control yourself moisture get away from the problem but running away from the problem doesn't solve the problem the problem is still there comes step two which is his topical transformation oh trust in other words internalize what your the escape internalize what you did and why you did it and it should become part of you that you will never do it again that can only come from very deep within which we call it who's in the libra is it clear and that's why he calls it [Applause] when we left egypt we were goofballs we were into the avoid desire you think we changed overnight no god did us a big favor he said get out of here move it is not for you leave and i'm forcing you out so we had no choice we left then came what happens to you we internalized why did god do this hey we had a great life in egypt we have all the comforts oh there's something wrong it's a christian culture it's an egyptian culture there's lots of things that tempt us and their disguise with a mask like someone at the fabregas shabbos says i know you guys some of you guys are going to these peso programs he's talking to the babbages he says but i let me tell you something it would be better if you went to a non-bra to a gabrex program with a weak hatcher so then you know that you're doing something wrong instead of going to the program with 10 hectares and you feel ah oh i'm so holy i'm so religious i can't even keep right he says so the guy who's mentioned this rabbit is stepping from yerushalayim from from mayank he happened to be with us for shabbos too so he was telling them and i thought was great he said to them no you shouldn't feel good about being at the pacer program yeah your wife wanted you there you know whatever you're there but my friend we usually we don't celebrate praise and pesach programs we celebrated the house that's the way we were trained as kids and that's the way the real you know because pay success anyway why am i saying this because we left with slime yeah okay we were we we had it good yes we were slaves but in many other ways you know it was great and and the proof is that we actually worship their culture so that's why comes feeder saliva says it's a big mistake hashem took you out of here because he saw if he doesn't what does it say madrish hillary what does it say there was we were sunk 49 58 yeah yeah we were almost gone and it was beating yeah swept away exactly hashem had mercy think about that when it comes pace at night next friday night just think about the passion how we owe thanks and and gratefulness hashem for for saving us although we wouldn't be here we would not be here okay it's hard to imagine how can you say the jewish people wouldn't be here well when you assimilate and we all know what that means because never you know i'm sure we know people relatives others who married out and all that and what's left i told you in petaluma california north of marin county where i was that it was a conservative shoe and i went into the social hall one time and i saw pictures on the wall black and white large pictures of gatherings in the show from the 1920s and 30s that that should so i asked where are their grandchildren and i was told they're lutherans most of them are lutherans yeah in petaluma they're dead heads okay maybe the dead heads too maybe the dennis that's like that's like the regional flag of petaluma california okay well i i i m my my neighboring town town was petaluma and with the chicken farms i have a lot to tell you about that but not now but anyway so they wanted to start the keyboards movement there you know that the the original settlers were socialists bundes from russia and they were hoping to make there the kibbutzim that they made an urges role not of course anti-religious and all that and what's the result that they're all the grandkids are all going with lutherans not just [ __ ] bachmann islam how you see it so guess what we weren't far from that within science we were not it's it's to me it's like such a scary thought so that ever says what saved us now here's the question god took us out saved us right the answer is we would have gone right back in we would have been lured right back into the michigans what saved us is the next process fear of transformation taking the darkness and converting it to light that's what he says back to the text is the activity of serving god with logic only brings one to subjugation to control i will avoid it but the avoider known as the service of the the will of the heart coming from the very deep subconscious this vacates you from the entire notion of limitations in other words there is a limitation and i need to understand that i'm limited by it and be careful from it and find ways to get out of it but moshe even when you get out of such a limitation the limitation still exists [Applause] and that ebba says that as important as that is to vacate that limitation you have to know it's only a beginning and if you get stuck there you're playing with fire because and we see this we see this today too how many people do not graduate and leave the first step of their truva in everyone from the ffb to the bt makes no difference they fall right back into it i see it today we see this so so much more where people are 50 60 years old they fall back what hap what's going on it used to be that it's teenager and young adults that are having issues with god and all of that in religion what happens a person is 20 30 years religious has a family and all of a sudden he checks out what's going on so it you know and it's happening it's happening and it's not happening he's just dropping his wife and going with another woman or for another woman that's that's also an issue it's in every area from religion the answer is that there was no graduation there was a there was a a coasting on a certain level for many years and kids family and community kept you coasting and then when you're you're a empty nester and and and you're by yourself with your wife i i know someone i'm thinking someone particularly now he just left new york went to florida hanging out on south beach and like my god what what what are you doing what are you doing and i and i asked him because it's a friend i asked him like well i uh my kids are out of the house wow what are you this guy that that that's judy isn't and this is happening in various ways so how do you change that says that ever it comes through adapting an attitude and coming to a point that your yiddish guy your connection to god goes beyond limitations in other words if you want it to be permanent and real it it needs to it needs to you need to come to a point where you're experiencing limitless you're experiencing gurusa deliba in the language of the minor then regardless of where you are and when you are and how old you are it makes no difference you understand so if my rabbi's not around my wife's not around my kids are not around my god is around because he's in me that's what and it's a gomura right uh ain't miss following ella covert roche you don't you're not supposed to get up the damage ministry without the sense of covadrosh heaviness of the head meaning year is your mind what does that mean that feeler is independent of your surroundings you don't need a shoe to be a yiddish mayan so if you're in wyoming or new mexico and you find yourself there and there's no minion you get up and down in the same way like you would have in a big chamber you're on borough park what's the difference for whatever reason that's where you have to be right now and there's no minion and there's no rabbi there's no wife and there's no kids and you're by yourself that's the proof and that can only come when you have inculcated the the the connection where it goes beyond just a you'd see a vacating you'd see at the train it becomes your reality that's what he's saying here let me just finish the two lines two words they say who is happy that's how you cause transformation of darkness to goodness so that's the answer to a very powerful question how do we accomplish moisture how do we accomplish the answer is you have to work on yourself to the point where you've taken the problem and transformed it now hilo probably this is i'm part of the philosophy of of the 12-step program i i'm not you know very well versed in it but only when you hit rock bottom so could we say that the hitting rock bottom would be the moment of transformation would that be fair to say is there hillel would that be fair to say well that that is certainly the way it is the way it's looked at you know and almost uh it needs to be uh it's understood as being an essential component you say what what's your thoughts um it's really not in my uh wheelhouse at that level but but it reminds me of the of the uh comparison of claudia israel leaving the triumph to a seed that decomposes in the ground before it sprouts upward that that if it stays you know if it decomposes one a little just a little bit more it's destroyed but it has to go to that state of right before total loss and then from that sprouts the new plant right right what's that phrase from those um the key the high usa but that are you referring to like the sprout right because it's sprouting brings this analogy in many places right and that's the room try to remember the phrase and that's what he uses right right but this is uh you know you learn them i don't know i learned this it's so real to me this it's like it's happening this is not like you know oh the rebels said this mimer in 1940 in lakewood it's now 9 2022. uh that's um at 72 years later or whatever you know it's it's it's real it's really real and uh it's an avoider it's an avoider so you know yes pesach has about it's here the emphasis is on the seer right abram here with me leaving vacating but we need to know that if you wanted to be permanent you have to make much you have to take that you'd see here and and and inculcate it internalize it otherwise you can fall right back in and it's true from you know from dieting you see it there's so many ways it's it's a constant avoider any final thoughts questions kevin any anyway i want you all to get ready on wednesday we're releasing a wonderful video that i did i interviewed my chef ron here red moisture so um we'll send it out i want you to forward you to everyone a bit chemist i think you'll uh learn a lot and um it's it's uh i want to thank moisha for cooperating you know it's not easy to get yourself on the screen and be interviewed and then have the world see it once it goes online the world sees it but what hashem the interviews that i've done have been received very very well from label wolf last week i did lisa neliez lavuten from australia who i learned with him tanya for 10 years i told you about him and uh very important he talks about mashiach he talks about many things you know and again he's you know he has a he has a medical degree a law degree and he decided to go into insurance very interesting story and um there's a lot to learn from these interviews i feel that's why i'm doing them i'm not doing it you know for myself i'm doing it for people to learn from the messages that we share so we'll do look forward to that see everyone zeitgeist have a good day bye bye take care