Ohr lArba #16- What's your chofetz? Will you do proper Biur Chofetz? Practical Meaning

okay so on page one sixty seven if we finish the day we can have a sticker for brendan tomorrow in honor of the rabbis uh yoma lettuce coming up on next tuesday you don't have listen so we learned yesterday that a very important idea to summarize that the there's badika's comments on the night of the 14th and there's beer comments on the day of the 14th and the mystery says or larva or sir the bishop calls the pedica or light and you do it now to the candle to the light of a candle so he explained that that's the avoid of a scaffia subjugation controlling but not total elimination and trump and transformation and that's why the night of the 14th the avoid is associated with your dalit with 14 because it says you need to fill the pauper with his needs they means only his needs you don't have to give him more than his needs so from this we understand that your dollar which is the reversed uh is the reverse of day of day dollar youth is an aspect of 14 which is associated with the night of the 14th the avodah of the honey the pauper why avraham is a is a davoda of iscafia considered oni because kafka means that inside you haven't really changed it's an outer change it's it's it's a you know it's a hard one and it takes a lot of work and the altar eva i was telling my wife yesterday at dinner while we said advantage that that the tanya is is is written for the average person in the painting now if you ask what is the message of the altaremba that every one of us is a potential benin knee and every one of us can control ourselves what about his transformation that's not that's not the focus of tanya dalton episode clearly says that's the avodah of atsadik and yes to eat sadiq and you'll be impregnated but that's not the norm that's the exception the norm is scaffia so if you think about it this is a i didn't say this yesterday but in talking last night and it hit me that the avodah of badika is more relevant to us and more possible the avodah then beer yeah because beerus is hakha beer is already a glimpse of the 15th the uk and yes he says here that we have that opportunity and all that but in other words which is easier to control yourself or to transform something to control if you compare the two transformation is the hardest thing to say that after i go on a diet and after i have a bariatric operation or whatever i go to therapy i don't have the tithe anymore i mean there's a whole school of thought hillel right there's one position that the cravings indulgences of the person that are deep within stay with the person always it's just a matter of tempering them harnessing them controlling them right you know i mean you know the rambam siddhis muslim you know have various ways of dealing with this but just our people according to the simple text and simple approach is kafka means as it says in tanya chapter 12 and 13. that during davening or sometime that feels like daviding there is a a position where it's as though you've eliminated and transformed the entire taiva but outside of that those special moments you're back to your school to yourself you are yourself so yes go ahead so it's is coffee coffee equivalents to the idea that the tanya emphasizes that the you know you control the the raw in the left chamber of the heart and it kind of gets subdued it goes to sleep some but it's still there capable of being re-aroused 100 as opposed to the vote of the tsadic which transforms it into into good yes precisely precisely so that's why i say hillel that that the the the badika's comments is easier than the beer i know you might be thinking well beer just takes a fire lion to get rid of it we're not talking about except except i'll accept we live with fear getting burned right abraham are you following this concept that bidica the bedica process is a harder process than the beer but because it's a harder process it's closer to us to transform delta rabbit teaches in natanya is not our mission no one should be looking to transform we should be looking to control and it seems because as well from a practical point of view the idea of transformation is a very one that lends itself to self-deception oh absolutely absolutely uh that was well said you betcha i see this this was a mainstay at fabregas was what you just said that where hasidim you know the older hostage and with it kind of chastised the younger consider you think you you've made a change that is permanent that you know they would they they would say you're you're deceiving yourself it was a very big topic maybe the biggest topic at fabregas was don't fool yourself or the way you said it don't deceive yourself you know you still have the taivo and you're doing a nice job controlling it but that and and that's what god wants of you well that's what hashem wants of you and this would and and if we really understand this and relate to it and and see it in our lives we wouldn't have any issues we wouldn't have any uh any depression and melancholy that i i darven again and again and again i learned i doubt then and and and and i still have the same taiva what else ch tanya chapter 27 the cosmic sartre that's the way god created you ups and downs you control yourself you get the award you're in the club let's continue now the bottom 167. the the new paragraph yes the new paragraph shame should be matzah this refers to right because we needed to get out of egypt we couldn't stay anymore so we had to pay quickly volcanic grass decreased therefore this type of matzo of before hot sauce is called poor bread bread of a pauper of an onion this matzah needs to if you're not on guard it'll come back to haunt you it will rise said nemo and it's regarding this master that taylor says hamas page 168 top of the page you shall watch the matches in other words i've run these moxes you have to guard and watch so don't let it get out of check then there is a second level of mats this is the matzah that's referred to as after midnight in regard to this level and experience of moss that says kilohumates if it doesn't it doesn't become sour comets actually he speaks it doesn't have a chance to become sour to become comets what is that in in in our service practically speaking this refers to the transformation of darkness to light throughout the wave and then we say matsuzu this monster oh no that we eat i'll show mo why do we eat it i'll show them because actually it's because the dough of our ancestors did not get a chance to rise actually until god revealed himself or gollum prior to midnight and when did god take us out it was after midnight how did we say in the haggadah before midnight and what are we saying about our shame shall we speak like athletes the most we're eating is because it didn't we're we're commemorating the masses that didn't get a chance to rise she said that was the matzah after but yet we're doing it before katsas so it doesn't it doesn't equal it doesn't make sense so the rap explains who the idea is when were they two levels of matzah before martin torah hoyas madregis and today starting with montana even after hot sauce even before katsos before midnight the revelations of after midnight are drawn into before midnight in other words before martin tata everything was confined to its time and its place after magenta after montana at the mountain tata a great thing happened many great things but then it could have happened that whatever was experienced back in egypt after midnight is now felt and real even before midnight volcano no already back to the text and therefore we say allah regarding the amounts of pre-midnight shield shameful historical hospitals it's because we're eating it because our ancestors didn't get a chair random ran out of egypt and the master didn't get a chance to rise in today's eating of matzah we have both levels [Music] regarding the eliminate the elimination of dough that rises although the beer of course the destruction and elimination of comets [Applause] we learned earlier this is through the level called the first to reshon hini carde primarily what is this experience to beyond tesla it's on the day of the 15th we call malcolm nevertheless the traitor includes that also the 14th by day is associated with beer in other words technically the beer level in other words the hisopka level is when it's already jumped if it's the 15th the 15th is uk it's the higher level the topic level and that day you can connect to that right but on the 14th it's error yumtif seemingly it's only 14. so the ghazal say that the rishon the name rishon given to the 15th ie of pesach is also given to the 14th by day not at night so from this that ever deduces that just as the mass of after hazos is now experienced once we had mountain torah is experienced prehensiles so too the energy of the 15th is now experienced also on the 14th by day [Applause] yes through the torah establishing this idea we also have now on the 14th by day the revelation of rishi kosovo as it says on the first the 14th so clearly this verse hillel and and and and abram says barisho by our boss now we make up your mind which is richo the 14th and 15th one verse says the 15th here it says the 14th so this is what ghazal saying that technically it's the 50th but say that the 15th of nissan which is pesach the day we were actually taken out of egypt the energy is now inserted into the 14th by day and how do we know that because we call it reshape is uh it's almost sounds like we're describing the he is young that the day itself goes through his heart it's yes yes good well said yes interesting um thinking yeah [Music] and this is referring back to the opening la line of the mimer the quote from the mishnah the light of the fourteenth referring to the night of the fourteenth next thursday night mr sham breaking us our comments we do predicas comments we search for comments we have we have to search to know what is comics remember remember that vertile it doesn't say boy como's search the places it's as breaking as haha mates search the comments itself now wait a minute what is comments if you don't know what's the ingredients that make some of the comments then you're you're searching in the wrong you're not searching for the right thing so before worrying about the places where comets is you have to know that this what promises the search requirements in those places and what are we told the is of having any comments is a draft any amount of value and the prohibition is do not see it and it should not be found [Music] and how am i how are we to search our homemakes we need the light of a candle that made hashem the candle of hashem of god is the soul of man you have to search with your soul now of course you need a feather and a candle and a bag and then and pieces and everything else and you have to make a bracha you have to apply and bring your family around and all that but where is it coming from the soul and that's why it's brought i think that the altar ever spent all night searching one room my gosh how how long do you need how much how much time do you need to search one room for comments the answer is if you're just looking at fulham with your physical eyes and physical walls and and and and flooring and everything else in the room you don't need you don't need a knight but if you're looking with the soul and you're looking at yourself and saying what type of comments do i have in myself at least one night you need for that that's a very important thing because it seems like it's also really an analogy to what we're learning in these brushes of uh nagayam yes you know so we're searching there the cohen needs to be the one to to search to examine to have the vision of where it's coming from right the rather comes out and the client is the one that's ultimately makes the ruling in that case you know uh it's not any tom dick and harry you could say you're tardy your tummy you know but that takes a coin but that's another point yeah avoid the discard says the rebel this avoider of searching and searching from a soul perspective it's only it's disgusting we're not talking about transformation we're talking about identifying clearly what the issue is and that's that's why many times our assessment is not done well hence the results are very weak shallow and wrong because we didn't assess well the problem if you recall we learned the contrast from the previous rabbit and he talked so much about that when it comes to a student an ies a child how the educator not a teacher can teach well but the educator was there to make a difference in the lifestyle of the student needs to assess the student what background does he come from was it a small a large community was a wealthy or poor community what type of parents all these goes into a proper assessment and then you have an understanding of the student better and you can make the appropriate recommendations the same things he's saying over here the aim must speak let's continue but sort of here is beer yet it's not adequate it's not enough just to search there needs to be the next stage which is the elimination and destruction obliteration of muhammad's i.e called hummus but this is the service which we mentioned several times the mimer the will of the heart in her heart leosis to accomplish the total transformation so yes hillary we do both so in other words i don't see there's a contradiction to what i said before the fact is we do pedicure and we charge to do beer what i was saying is that it's without this charge of of doing beer what's closer to us is badika more on our you know we could talk about it but nevertheless the title says once a year i want you to burn the comments in other words i do want you to engage in this hapka like feeling and like you said you know the day itself is like this what he says down here is i think like what you just said a moment ago which was very nice the way you said it i see it like now in these words here that the the the hashem says once a year i'm i'm charging you to do sabra and the day itself is a his day because rishon really goes on the 15th and now we bring it into the 14th so the day itself is apt and has power to accomplish and accomplish his samples tell everyone if you see anybody it will be for brain tomorrow so please to join us have a great day shalom and uh it's so rich yeah well moshe you're all right you're wearing gloves everything all right um cleaning cleaning oh ah you're cleaning for comments because the the way things fell out the ladder and the the last 24 hours we wanted to be earlier but i had no choice it's all right worship it's all right and uh so get ready to everyone i want you to watch the the interview with maisha today you'll enjoy and share it with other people please have a great day everyone see one tomorrow for brain and tomorrow this bye