New Story from Yechidus 1979 - What did R Yoel advise abt a Lub becoming Modern? Sukkos is Unity

a good night of shabbos shabbos pasha zazino out of your gimbal tishrei between yam kippur yeh makadesh and sukis today's day is called guts numbin because it's the first of the four letters of the shame youth cave of game the holy tetragrammaton god's name i heard a story last week that's so appropriate for the time sukis is all about actos the unity of the jewish people we sit in one sukkah we celebrate together in 1979 a family friend had a bar mitzvah of their son and they went into this still was giving us the families of bar mitzvahs and they had a neighbor here in borough park and the neighbor was a woman who wasn't fully religious fully from but she knew of the rabbis when she heard that they were going to see the rebbe as a family for yerides she said can you please ask for a bracha for me for a blessing and the parents said sure she is a foreign strange woman but it although that's the literal translation it means she's full she's not fully religious and he was going to say she asks for a bracha a blessing as soon as she said to the rebel aframde yidane framde the rebbe stopped him cut him off and said to him to the husband to the father of the bar mitzvah boy by us there is no such a thing as a strange foreign individual the bar mitzvah boy told me the story he remembers it like yesterday happened to 79 he's now in his 50s and he remembers because it was such a shock to their system how the rabbit like cut them off because he had to you know do the surgery right there and then because it shouldn't go a moment more that there's a concept of a yid of a jew being framed being strange and foreign outside of judaism outside of the jewish people and when i heard this mice i heard the story i've been i've been campaigning with the story i want to hear you say it's simple who doesn't know that [Music] but the way that ebba said it is is very very exact by owens is niche by us there is no such a thing as friend foreign strange so as we as we celebrate here sukis about to celebrate sukkos and we're coming from yay makode yong kippur when we said before we began to be able to pray together with the avarian the transgressors you ask yourself transgressors and your kipper that's right the whole idea of yom kippur is to end the transgressions and the transgressors if there's anything that's transgressions not transgressors how that you know fits in with allah has a different discussion in the same vein i remind myself of a story with rebjo since we're still talking about ebio i had a good friend childhood friend who sometime after his marriage he became a little more moderate and we grew up together and we knew each other you know and it really bothered me because i i knew very well and you know i didn't understand this behavior so i asked rabbi yo i told davio i would like to really give it to him over the head because he's a good friend and because we like we could talk to each other you know i really want to say to him like what are you doing like you know come on cut it out and turned to me and he said zognes came vert don't say a word just be mcativ just bring closer and i'm sharing the story because this isn't about you know someone who didn't know better this is someone who really knew better very well and he deserved a real beating okay a real a real uh scolding he did but rabiot told me not to say a word and he based it on a story that he happened with her mayor pozinski who was learning with someone for years he would always tell over the story and the person didn't budge in iota when it came to shemitah smith wasn't doing mitzvahs and and the mayor wanted to really give it to him and stop learning with him and he wrote to the web and then ebby said don't say a word so that he shared in public and this is shared with me private because i asked him about a private situation so i i take this myself and share it with you that even if you have a best friend and a good friend the avoider that the rebel and and arabia and khabad wants of this generation of now is yamin mikhails the right bring with the right bring forth bring closer the smile with the left push aside is i'm not going to say it's obsolete but it really needs guidance permission when to use it may hashem help that each and every one of us have a good hachana good preparation for the halogen festival of foreign