Nasa Na 1931 #4- Nightly Account Kris's Shema shel Hamita - 5 points to include - Avoiding Stress

we're in the miner and i want to write bill right away the text because we haven't learned much of the text so we're on page 130 130. we're at um let's say one two three four five six lines for the top the third word with sarah lahaven so this was our question why is mint herself special oh and what is the aspect the role the concept of of in a person's particular avoid the service of god you know to understand this the next step it says there was the evening was the morning one day the passage is not just a posix speaking about creation this posik this posik is all about another aspect what is this what is this about this pussic is about the idea of the idea of a purpose of creation it was evening and it was morning to reveal a the whole idea of a day is to reveal one the unity of hashem in other words and everything that we do throughout those 24 hours which means our entire life because in our entire life it consists of 24 hours each day of our life it should all be you know in a way of one to create one is there unity in our life a person gets up in the morning and he says last night i had this falling out with my spouse or i had with my employer all of my teenagers or my rabbi is this a hug is this one obviously it's not so how am i going to make it a hood you have another day to make it a hood so the whole idea is to bring actors into the world so you're going on a trip you know you're driving somewhere to the place to the to the show up up to the gallery here there you have to ask yourself how am i gonna make this trip to to show my children and grandchildren a nice time echoed that's the question that's the mindset that every one of us has to have every single day of our life obviously teaching people how to protect himself shooting protect himself he has to ask himself how am i going to be teaching them about protecting themselves to bring a hug into the world that is the question let's continue and he says the four sides of the world east west south north desire key of the seven heavens variants of the earth [Applause] we need to bring the aleph which is the master of the universe into hess into the seven heavens and the earth which equals seven and one eight and down the four sides of the world we have to bring the aleph of [Applause] outside the window you guys have a the sun coming in hopefully or at least it's light out there it's bright it's yo yom represents gili what's the famous loved light i always come home when i come home from schulie i say to my wife put the lights on open the curtains i like light i don't like darkness i want the room to be lit up illuminated give me that hood it's not enough to say i'm creating a hug in my bedroom in my private house in like this or that no joey beckham you have to create unity all over somehow i remember that everyone spoke about the knesset he spoke up and he said if they're going to sit down and discuss things that they disagree with they're not going to get anywhere let them first and foremost discuss things that they agree with get peace between the people once you feel good then you're not talking at each other but with each other and that's the whole problem in in relationships when it's not we are with each with each other but at each other and when it's if you begin with at each other you that conversation is going to go nowhere and even worse but if you begin with brotherly love sisterly love abbas we're all in the same boat and we want to figure this out together then you could find the solution let's continue what we have to do is create a revelation of the heart of unity and in order for that to be the revelation of how do you do that through the evening in the morning in order for that to be light in the morning you have to first preface the evening time let's get this through our skulls here heaven in order for the morning to go well you got to begin the night before first comes aerith by ahirif and then comes by morning what's rfg trilos arvis more specifically it's not those five minutes or ten minutes it takes you to darwin but it's the avoidance what we call krishma on your bed as he'll explain in a moment let's see what he says to explain this to the krishna and this is an important chapter we're going to learn aku that's not spoken about much in hasidis as well as another's forum you know krishna is one of these topics that's been shoved under the rug i mean it is not the custom of the average jew to say midnight prayer thinking number two um even those that say it you know they don't normally they don't say it the way it it the way it says it should be said in the swarm up in the holy swarm and number three in in um in hasidic tradition there there's no emphasis on the on on that and the altareb already in his iguana sativa i believe alludes to it when he speaks about not fasting not doing heavy fasts for a ticking for chuva which we understand from that is that it used to be that the way you gained shiva was to fast a lot so the alternate says nevertheless you could you know gain certain basic fast that you need for certain transgressions 84 fasts for uh transgression of wasting of seed for example so he says if in the winter you fast half days till hot sauce and you combine those half days and you get 84 days so it's not as though the altar never throws out the baby with the bath water completely but the idea of excessive fast is something that ever says today and meaning for for hundreds of years it's been substituted through tadaka and i say clearly this is others uh maybe have a different sheet of those that speak about it which are very few but but yes yes hillary just just appropriate that we're learning this the first week of show with him yes uh comment and uh second is there a connection between krishna lemita and fasting i i didn't understand the job um i i i did make a chump and yes there is a connection the connection is the purpose of both is which is for ticking and shuver and and and we're going to learn about this now soon the whole concept of making a fresh banana is to correct yourself to fix yourself to to do a ticket to yourself and the idea of fasting too um i would say that the tickling the ticket through through fasting as it's inscribed in the arizona is more specific to the particular sin you know that certain sins requires a certain amount of fast in krishna shall i meet it's not as though for this sin and this issue do christians shall beat it for 15 minutes for this one do it for a half an hour it doesn't work that way but the overall idea is the idea of tickling absolutely so there's the tikkun party the specific ticket of a particular transgression and then there's the tikkun clawley the overall ticket has done through krishna but but but i do want to finish the point about the the fast because it's important and that's why uh since you mentioned it hilo that's why certain communities come out included there is no emphasis on the chauvet whereas many other communities uh probably most hasidic communities do make an emphasis uh i'll show them but i i do i do have to say that again there from what i've seen in the community um i i must say i don't see it as real show with him i i've been you know again at least around here maybe that just rolls different but around here you know um it's pretty light you know it's pretty light um but you know it's a tradition that they that that people do and but i mean if you look into the swara magnesium you see that it's a very serious uh very serious aveda uh with a lot of virginity and morbidity in a way you know it's sadness and you know and the purpose of which is to do truva for your you feel really bad that you did a certain sin you know it's not just about fasting at half an hour and and going uh to the club later or to a pizza store and and just uh you know being silly it's a whole different albedo but beat that as it may be as it may the altar but the balatanya he's of the sheeta that today we substitute fast uh seducka for fasting and that's why dalton ebba speaks clearly the goddess of chufa on a fast day to give the equivalent amount of suduka of what you would eat so if you eat a each day 15 worth of food if you have those 15 dollars you should give on a fast date 15 dollars to tsudoka 10 five dollars for whatever it's called igra de pirke in the ignorance the the the exchanging the tightness so that's the alternative that's the alternative in himself you should know was a big faster and his father rabbi yitzhak already cautions him in his letters to him not to fast excessively rabbi huckler would say over of higher belin the great the god he would say to the barbecues you don't know you're a rabbit i know him from you know from berlin when i was there and and his teeth were gonna fall out from the excessive fast that he fasted i mean it's an expl you know it's an exaggeration but it means that the rebel was a big faster and the same rabbit sal of ancient i mean salvation tells over the student repeated that that he invited the rebbe for uh coffee or tea you know and in berlin you know you sat outside and he he you know and he wanted to to schmooze with with their friends one second one second so he says that if he invited him i think on monday and thursday he would say i can't come why he figured out later because he was fasting because the shade of him so what a person does themselves be that be it the rebbe or any any any lubavitcher that's an individual thing but as a clown as a rule um chabad was did not use the mode of fasting for truther yes yes because one of the conditions of becoming level was not to have a was doctor have what well i didn't hear what he said what did he say meat please oh yeah right right right right yeah that's why when he ate the the murderer you know you could it was in public you could see how it was uh he didn't have teeth you know it was her heart anyway let's go back to our our discussion of krishna he's supposed to make a heisman an account of whatever happened to me during the day i've run pretty simple right i got up at six seven o'clock what did i do where did i go and as you and you think about your day okay is that clear very clear that and that is words part of that thinking is what should have been of the way i should have behaved or marsha however boyle and how did i actually behave in other words i know that i should have taken out the garbage for my wife and family and instead i said no let them deal with it i know i should have said goodbye to my harbour and shul and i said i abruptly left shul and let him stare left him standing there like a lone dog i know that's the type of thinking okay but marsha rolios how should i have really conducted myself oh marsha bepoyo and how did i actually behave and that happened i was going to lay out for us in graphic terms what i just said let's look how he how he sees it 1931 and lita he's in the heart of lithuanian jewelry and this is what he says almost 100 years ago what was appropriate the way it should have been is that as soon as he gets up from asleep you saw i said by avoiding this about his hala tarima you should separate some of it called khala and it should be a donation the word in the torah you're listening for though is the word is associated with another hebrew word which means crib a bed a crib was shown arisa is that the word by the way that they used today in hebrew for a crib moshe no what is the what is the word um okay you find it you find it while we go out okay so anyway the rabbit says arisa it's that tomology is also the word arisa which means uh a crib a bed what does this mean to take you from a yacht because immediately when you get up in your sleep give god a donation right literally the part the plastic apache slack refers to taking from your dough a part of it separating the fukala right the mitzvah color the you could say the play on words although he the rabbit says here it's actually not a play on words but arisa also means bed the first of your bed should be to serve god as soon as you get up on your bed yes you know it is it's i listen up it's crap crap and google says craig yeah okay google says what chris well you say crib in hebrew yeah arisa arisa is a grip like the coil today in in uh all right okay so what should you do the first donation when you get up in the morning that you give to god is saying psalms number two everyone should study whatever they can number three this is before prayer before twila number three ulis paolo bitsibor to davon with the minion number four uli misharo to then go to your business kefia theta based on the guidelines of toyota business being careful may avac from the dust of deception meaning to steal and cheat is out outright forbidden but there's something called avac like the dust it's like a gray area it says that that the eurasia's that you if you start your day by sayings to heal it and learning something and diving with a minion then when you go to work not only won't you cheat and steal outright but you'll even be careful from a gray area which you could argue is is illegal but what we would call it today would probably be non-ethical avaca no to do kindness with your friend after and during your work think about who needs camilla's cassette says that look at this the jose who are you all of this is what should be able be polio but in actuality oh yeah i should it was it was not that way i should take it all hereby is he took out the garbage he cleaned the pots and he did many other nice things but he did it all before saying kill him learning and dabbing well the problem is sometimes guy made him a spoiler but zebra guess what you don't get it he's so involved in cleaning the pots taking out the garbage and playing looking at his computer and doing business whatever he doesn't end up driving with a minion they go faster we lost it even when he darvens he beheaded his goddamn it's very rushed shane the shame clown with dabber he doesn't hear what's coming out what did you just say i said the words i know the same quickly oh really do you know what you said he doesn't show maya he doesn't hear masha humidabe and his heart is not within him because he has so many concerns and thoughts right he's darkening but he's thinking about i have to drive to baitar i have to drive to yerushalayim i have to take my kids in carpool but you're in the middle of davening now it's irrelevant now afterwards the entire says we said before that what should be you think about how you can help another person instead of that if you if you're on this trajectory of of of doing work before daving and being and doing all of that and not knowing what you're saying you're not going to think about your other the other person you're only thinking about what's good for myself vignon vegas me and my material physical world is who i say and about someone else's benefit or someone else's goodness for their soul they creative clown who doesn't think about it all this is all in the morning but it begins yes moshe says that obviously we shouldn't be thinking about other things during darkening other than the filo we're saying if we're going to think about something think about how no he didn't say that no he did not say that i mean that's not a bad thing but that's not what he said he said later on when you go to you after you you say to him and before david and some till him and you learn some torah before and then you die with a minion and then you go to your business and you act uh proper not only in legal matters but also in ethical matters then what will result is as the day goes on you will be thinking about helping other people what you said is a good thing but frankly that's not the that's also not the time when you sp when you say ashrae yeshua you're supposed to think about how fortunate i am to sit in hashem's house not about helping someone else that's a good thing but it doesn't belong to that time now when you get to another part of david and that does speak about doing hesit for someone else that's when you should think about it in other words as we go along our dobbing and we say the words that we take and we know and we look at the translation and we know that the idea behind the words if the words call for qiblas hassan that's the time to think about it rebecca if you don't mind beauty yourself we appreciate it let's continue by the way i got heard from i got word back from the house in like modern day hebrew in israel say crib you also say the word yeah okay okay thank you thank you let's continue thank you very much now he says so he comes at night okay so remember there was a certain way we were supposed to do if the rebel enumerated five things and there was a certain way and then i didn't do it this way so now it comes at night afro you're sitting at night the day is finished the kids are in bed the internet is shut and it's quiet so you make a husband what did i do today you close your eyes like what did i do today next page 131 you think about everything that happened the day before you see in actuality i should call martial you realize that whatever you thought is absolutely necessary being the islam in world that matters basic in business umass mata what a mistake i rushed and i did this i realized a waste of time [Applause] and i didn't make an extra penny from all of my schemes you realize this when you sit down to make the husband because you know hillary is between you and hashem it's a private husband and a person if they're they're honest you know you could lie to someone else you could try faking someone else but to yourself you know the emmys meme not only didn't you make profit you lost you spun your wheels you tried this you tried that you went you spent so much time and you got had a loss of sibers avi says the rabbit that's if you would have died with dominion chakras so for erev with all kinds of thoughts and extra anxieties over time and all kinds of schemes which are worthless myself not only wouldn't you waste your your power your strength there's an expression in yiddish he loses the health into yiddish idiom you know when a person works so hard and basically they stress themselves out and they become sick so the rabbit says if you wouldn't be on this trajectory that you were on you wouldn't be in in the situation where you would lose your health in the air so he's excuse me additionally that's the whole purpose of serving hashem and the whole purpose of the soul coming into the body and man i placed upon it not what but who the fact that god made man on earth it is for the purp i i did that i made man for the purpose of man um and what's the purpose of man who was filled by russia it's for the word borussia which is an acronym equaling 613. as the sages say that because this biblical god made a condition in my simulations with creation if the eden will receive the traitor muta of great love if not oxen i'll return you jews who i made and created latoya avoided the vote in north to avoid the north why because tactless because the purpose of creation is what i tell you so what's the point the point the rep is saying is that rather than putting your energy your kayak into the shell i love the lotion schemes that are worthless this and this and this thick and dutch all these it's so you know if you're able to stand back and that's the whole idea of the hejman gives you a time to stand back and to look at something more objectively it'll be so clear to us that when we do that that i that it was such a waste of time i think i told you but years ago when i was a marine county or schliches and we have and we were renting an office space in a in an office complex and near the office complex was a a gas station exxon on the way in to our 528 um planned housing community only houses the havdle no churches no synagogues and the only thing for work was this uh office complex and on the road on lucas valley road was a gas station which had what you would call a colette would have a little you could buy something that's it otherwise you have to drive out to the larger stores and then one day i see the sign on the gas station for sale oh i say i gotta get this for the cabaret house this is the lucas valley road the main entrance and we'll have you know a bigger place and people be able to see it and besides there's nothing else commercial in the area my friends i spent a year's time talking to the executives and exxon in in texas and many other places and you probably know when i do research my entire heart and soul goes into it and i don't stop and i and i got very very far and i was at the point of making an offer to buy the property you know and i was raising funds for it and exciting the the community and then came the big day when the notice came to me or the phone call came to me we'd love to sell it but um there's an issue of gas under underground what do they call that a gas spill leakage leakage thank you and we're going to have to do environmental studies and cayenne dolphins said have a good day i don't have time for this a year of my life being a lawyer a broker a fundraiser a schmoozer you know enough enough and i remember saying to myself in hindsight and i'm telling you i like i i put so much characters and okay it was for a good cause but at the same time be honest and you know maybe maybe uh i should have been more forsightful in the beginning and preempted all my questions that i put in by the first issue dealing with the possibility of leakage and verifying that rather than being excited about the opportunity the grandiose opportunity of having the corner lot with a big menorah and a big sign for everyone to be impressed with them for people to come in right and i and and i remember clearly like like i'm learning it now under my monolithics i'm talking about 1987 1988 those years you're talking about almost 40 years ago and i exerted myself exerted really you know and it was in a way a waste of time a pure waste of time nothing came of it now you know everything's going to protest and i'm sure there were certain protests that i don't remember now but they're never saying over here in every day a person if they look at their day and and if they're okay whatsoever gotta tell them to to anyway we're gonna stop here because we're having excessive noise coming and uh we'll continue tomorrow have a great day shalom