Nachmu: What did Reb Yoel say abt Tishe B'Av? Chabad Negina: Rebbes Idea

but twice he comforted us for the first temple the bastards in the second temple with the rebuilding of the third temple of the third base amigdas i'll share another vert another short idea i heard from you as we continue to share thoughts of his as they pertain to the parsha as they pertain to the episodes of the week and anything and everything else i'm purim i attended his purim and fabregas many times both as a booker and as a married man and you know purim uh towards the afternoon when the people already have said lots of the hayam and are trying to be makai in the midst of adelaide intoxication on some level uh at the fa brengan there were some fellas and some bakarim and some married people who were quite intoxicated and were a little rowdy and abiol was very normal he said the high amount wine in the early years he said but it took a long time late into the night for him to be intoxicated and like and even that in a most respectful way as i spoke about in an earlier uh clip so sometimes the the guys got out of control and they really were very rowdy and uh maybe it's rude and obnoxious you know they were drunk sheker they did the mitzvah if that's what you call the mitzvah okay and abhiel had the following words for them make yourself foolish and silly and tish above but i'm put and be serious i heard that and i understand it the rebbe look at that he came to the fabrega at 9 30 at night for a night and if i bring for five six hours and only on a set very few occasions i believe 1958 and height of did he drink quite a bit of mushka and it was very very freyler and et cetera but the average year it wasn't that way and everyone at the fabrega was very normal because mr voltaire was that episode we want to know what that ever says we have to be clear we'll be shaking we'll be intoxicated you won't be able to hear but yale's vert was tish above and this is the connection to shabbos nachmu this above you can make yourself silly what's this is fart it's a holy day it's not it's not not a day for for jokes well first of all we have the famous story with derozan who the children and the people that were throwing the babylock and sure on the rulers and said if if if your children don't appreciate your your your day of tisha buff because they're making a mockery out of it by throwing bear bella and things are sure and it's it's a joke and all that then take it away so we we do have a precedent for it in the the the words of rebellion the holy sadiq but in addition to that what's the chabad the khabar take the chabad view rabbi was farting he was alabama he was a habbat khasit he wasn't just a hostage what's the chabad the khabar take is that you will eradicate tish above through simcha you'll eradicate tissue above through knowing that of course i'm being making tissue buff i'm sitting on on the ground and i'm mourning for the base in mig dush and maybe i'll even shed a tear for the base of mikdash but benimi is nafshi inside what's driving me the rats and hashem the will of god that's simbra true simbra is doing the will of hashem if hashem says that they mourn i mourn with full capacity of mourning so rabbi was saying that you want to be silly if if you're gonna if you're going to be silly he's not notice he's not telling you be silly if you're going to be silly then use your silliness to reject fish above use your anemias of simcha to reject tish above when it comes to purim it's a day of seriousness from the word english words it's associated with the english word sirius it's a serious date so rabbi said here we are it's shabbos and for some they think oh now we can just let it all out and there's no we can listen to music and take haircuts and it's a free-for-all yes you're allowed to listen to music and but the question is what type of music are you putting on in the car when you're driving to the catskills and if you're gonna tell me it's either music really does it have that rock and roll uh flavor and taste that ever told someone if you want i think i said it once in a clip if you want the alter ebba to be by your huppah singh dalton ebers digging if you want another jewish composer even a good composer with a beard and pears and everything else of it it's not the altar you want you want him to sing his name because the negan draws the nasham of the of the balamanakin of the one who composed the negan so yes it's after the nine days and yes we're allowed to hear music but it should be the music music is soothing for the soul soothing for the mind soothing for the heart just taste it the oil thoughts just take take five ten minutes and listen but really don't let your cell phone ring no whatsapp no computer no tel phone no children no wife nada goonish focus on that niggin and you'll have a spiritual high as a word in english it'll be a cathartic experience you feel cleansed and so too with all the other things that bar hashem we finished with the morning period of the three weeks now is a time to break out how do you break out over the top and total mitzvahs still the summer shemish or mugging sun and its shield it's hot outside august is a vacation month all over everyone is running and going and traveling to havajitas in your car some have a mezuzah in their car instructions be driving at night to stop every hour there are mechanisms in place to make the vacation a a a a good one a safe one and a holy one may hashem help and through this vertex should come back together with everyone else yummy