Maamar Ze 1929 #3- Be Sincere on Rosh Hashana - Don't fake it - Minimize Talking and Become Real

so I hope everyone had a nice Shabbos my Mercedes isn't just pleasurable reading and even pleasurable understanding the purpose of a minor is to use it in your daily service to God is they didn't see this first they said what we're learning they before it was committed to writing it was said like I told you one of the last classes the history and then they wrote it down and there was a team I didn't mention this last time there was a team of individuals that each step ahead called the word Heiser means to review individuals who had good memories who memorized what the rabbi said and then amongst themselves they would review what the rabbis said what they thought the Reba said and then until our rebber but the other six rep is before they would go to the Rubber and tell the red but what they were what they think they remember of the mimer and the rebel would actually sometimes correct them because they said I did say this I didn't say this things like that okay but they were called or the singular's Jose so in our time rabio Khan was like the chief hoser of the Rebel okay but that's all an intellectual endeavor the purpose is to take this mimer for example that we're learning and to use it foreign so that's a general note that's important to never forget because otherwise it becomes just an exercise of intellect and as wonderful as it might be it doesn't have permanence okay let's go now to page 28 the beginning everything that we said before said before the end of the previous chapter that there's a court case takes takes place and there's one as a court place takes place as a prosecutor and the defense attorney and that ever made a point of saying and this is important to remember that at the end the judge says now you defendant get up yourself and plead your case so as much Shalom as we have AIDS malachim defendants the defense attorneys to defend us what's most impactful important is your own defense and that ever said you might come to the judge and say think unto yourself I don't have a great defense you know that I said you should do you should be malamut's house you should bring you should bring up merits things that you did and appeal to thee to the judge give me another give me another chance yes I did goof up this way I did make a mistake I take responsibility but I'm worthy of another chance why and you and you list your and it's okay it's okay to to do that because we're only human good morning Hillel we're only human and we have weaknesses and therefore it's okay this is what we learned at the end of last chapter so now let's continue so just as we discussed in detail these issues he quoted earlier in the moment was that day is the day that's been organized for judgment and on that day God forbid we know they do come and we've got we need God's mercy give the prosecutors they demand judgment for man's activities you can't just do what you want if you do something we're going to kicks God is keeping score and therefore hey you enjoyed yourself on this and this day and this and this month well tell me give an account justify your Acts as the rabbi say that say just say the good mother of Ambassador the Satan the Sutton he descends he comes down um and he confuses look how he does it good morning [Music] who is a bad angel right the Satan you know it's not the Christian idea of Satan mark it's the Jewish idea of an Angel we have angels we have good angels and we have bad Angels so the devil says the Satan is a bad Angel he descends below um and it confuses people in Yiddish at that time he convinces them mention the person and he makes him go astray in other words you know one of the algates that we're going to say Yom Kippur is what a great Sahara forgive me for allowing the yet Sahara to the evil inclination to make me sin so the question that is asked every Avera every transgression is done by the yatesahara so what is the specific our hate right in other words uh stealing gossiping cheating uh not respecting parents on and on why who's who's behind it all the Yates are hurt so why do I need to have so if I'm already saying forgive me for this sin of not honoring my parents of course it's understood that it's because of the yatesahara so why do we have to have a specific I'll hate for the yatesahara and the explanation brought in the Holy inspironment it's also kind of a tradition that there's certain things that even the Yates or horror wouldn't think of doing this mishagas even the evil Incarnation it would never enter his mind to make you do this it's like out of the pale and nevertheless you do it that's because you have schlepped into a place where in itself wouldn't go now why do I say this because he he leads a straight man is so the AIDS of horror causes a man confusion transgression and then the same Yates Huda ascends to God and says you see what he did see what he did still goes on the on the evil that he does then he he the eightsmite he charges man for his transgression this person deserves a bad judgment foreign hears those that speak positive about the person is okay defend yourself get up and defend yourself Cain who Michelle were middle of a class we'll do this later please foreign so too with the Judgment of the relationships every man is given out of the opportunity to speak positive about himself his family and his friends I want to say everyone knows the famous the story of art from The Prophet's khayyam right self-deprecation is a form of lushanhara self-deprecation means when you speak bad about yourself you're gossiping in a humorous way you're always allowed to make fun you're allowed to that's that's humor you know what I'm saying but if a person comes down hard himself and he says you know why I'm having this issue you know all my kids are having this issue and starts blaming self his past his present it's not a Yiddish way it's not the Jewish way the commander does say Elio I can't see your face do you mind moving into this someone has a headache doesn't feel well he fascist by myself he'll check out yeah check out your actions but that's not a contradiction that means look what needs and proven to be improving but could someone say that this issue that I have or my family has my kids etc etc is because I did this and the sin if someone tells you they could that they say if someone says that they know that's the reason stay far away from them I never heard that ever ever speak that way never yeah that that ever spoke about say you know that if you're involved these transgressions the world will have this issue that's that's gazelle that's the rabbis the sages of the talmud but this idea and I'm for a moment going off on a tangent but it's important that this idea of I don't want to say you know Sparta chemical bowling but you know people out there ah this this happened because this happened you know that in 1948 to 49 the SAT mura of Rebel title bone the original satbaraba he went to see the river ayats the previous Le Bobby and he said to the rebel he said to the previous celebrity that he believes that the Holocaust was a punishment for the secularism in Europe at the time and there was secularism in our own families I can tell you I had many relatives from Poland from Warsaw area and I have pictures of that time and you can see they removed their beards they already you know grew their hair they didn't wear yamakas and these were coming from parents if I showed you a picture you you'll fall down with a father a beard down here holding a good murder I have a picture on my phone because it's such a it shows you what was going on the the ground the the father is this you know what we call Orthodox from involved and and the kids are modern and I understand you know poverty it was rampant I'm not going to go into everything these details the point is the software ever said you know why God sent the Holocaust as retribution as punishment for the secularism that existed in Hungary in Germany in Poland Etc and the Frida Kadabra who was already a stroke patient he said with his holy words don't justify God to the South America in other words we don't understand what happened we don't want to understand what happened we don't need to understand what happened I'm paraphrasing okay but for you to say that you know why Hashem sent the Holocaust I'm going to say in my words it's outrageous he didn't the river didn't say that to him but it's like who are you to say who are you to say that who not I'm saying who are we one second it's not about you or I who are we as Jews as people to say we know that's we know God what God we don't know yes Elio foreign we'll deal with it then even so Michelle didn't have to do it right so it doesn't really how many times with the the programs that was in Poland in the 1600s they said that was because of talking you're sure all said it no problem So when you say they said that means to to us as Toro students nothing you gotta show me the sources and if indeed the rabbis at the time got together not just one Rabbi and they came out with that edict no problem but you know it's not 1600s and it's much later and a hurricane comes or a catastrophe comes and right away people say oh it's because of this because of that because of this in other words to use something to to get you to be better fine but don't tell me you know it's because of this you don't know it's because of this the fact that this is wrong it's wrong secularism is wrong isms are wrong but that's why like you said halo God could have done it another way he chose to ask it this way anyway I'm going to find a tangent I really want to go back to the text all I'm saying is we learned here that um foreign should be should bring him to talk about people in the story I told you last week that they never mentioned that the seam of sukkah medium another point that I didn't mention that's worth mentioning now is that what do we see they never didn't say this but this is I think clear what was it that takes took out Miriam basilda from the gilgore for 2000 years she was reincarnated and in pain what took her out the fact that the Bible 2000 years spoke positive about her instead of the traditional talmudic interpretation that it was negative that that her husband was a sinner and because of that she was punished the rabbit spoke was on her what do we see from that the power of being the llama's horse I wrote this in a book on this on these issues that if when you're in malama's horse you could even schlep out a soul that was 2 000 years in a guilt that's how powerful being Malamute means to be bring merits upon a person to find merits to find merits what good so the rapper says here in the mind will do that and we all have school soon we all have school soon so bring them up let's go okay and this is what's expressed in the trellis in the prayers and throughout the evening you know we talk about saying lots of davening so in a nutshell the reper says that's what we want to do that's what we're doing and we should be doing through the Phyllis is bringing the system so for example when we read in the muse you remember what yitzhab did he gave himself he was ready to bind himself that's that's his course in other words and he's our forefather you know the favorite story about the crazy he had a minute custom that those people came to raise funds in in the town and the shuttle if they were his relatives they got double because they got purple he gave them twice as much he gave a regular the amount of red little fundraiser a certain amount and it gave a relative double don't ask why that's the way it was someone comes and he says to the the he says I'm your relative and it gives them the amount that he gives to a regular amount he says I'm your relative he says you're my relative I never saw you what about you're my relative I'm your father's cousin's cat's relative I'm a fourth cousin six times removed please I'm your relatives just in Hebrew also relative I mean a relative a brother a sister a first cousin you know okay he doesn't he gets him on the regular amount then they Against Time for minha David and the the one lead in the congregation starts doing repeating the amida um the god of Abraham the king is of the god of Isaac the chaotic of the god of Jacob from the back of the shoe someone says also a relative what a woman and the crazy cracked up when he gave him after double in other words of our Patriarchs are we we call attention to them because they are our relatives yeah and if it's good enough for the rabbis and the congregation and thrill and prayer is good enough for you so I'm saying let's say here about the um the the Lambert's horse and through Trina and and sometimes let's say connected to it to a rabbit to a savic the source of the sadak should help you and that's by the way one of the ideas of going to the Iowa and you get a chance to go to the oil when you go to a gravesite of at Sadiq and you have a connection to that Sadiq you're you're asking Hashem look I'm during the lifetime of this Sadiq I was connected I tried learning his Toyota and I tried still learning and I did his his directives so now I'm asking for a good year I'm asking for health and Panasonic whatever the case whatever we need so you you call to those exclusive and I think it's a very something we don't talk about because like especially Chabad everything is about Bittle at least that's the thinking you know what they say right the breast liver speak well about simcha and the most depressed the Gareth speak about Emma's truth and the most um false P false and khabad speaks about the most bitly and the biggest valley Guyver so we have the sense of Bittle and Bittle and Bittle your nullification humility so like I'm gonna ask but by the way the rabbit already toughshind I think was 1958 when Purim when the rabbis said that he spoke a sikha and and he said those that want to be blessed with wealth should raise their hand very few has see them raise their hand only three raise their hand we know who they are they're already one is alive still I think two already passed on they were blessed with a lot of wealth that's a fact okay and then the rabbit gave up then the rabbit said you're foolish hasida your sense of humility and Bittle and you know it's like it's two a thousand people in the room or 300 people whatever and people oh you raised your hand you want money that's if you want money yeah the rapper said there's an opportunity to to be blessed with wealth but it's a passion should not befitting I should raise my hand asking for money that's so coarse yes and asked him and he says then nobody raised his head so from a growner asked it and I said after you spoke for two hours the problems of being wealthy and that they're running after money you are surprised that no one raises that okay okay so it's a dilemma you know it's all it's so it's all the perspective if you if you come to a place where you're going to you know you're going to use your wealth for for Hashem and for Mitzvahs and to duck and all that it's fine okay let's continue and therefore when we dive in and say no we're bringing schools Merit upon ourselves top of 39 for the rain these two days in advance I should see him the heroes listen to this guys besides the fact that you have to be careful the rabbi has the word you say right extra special attention to be careful with issue on these two days it's the day when we accept upon the Yoke of God upon ourselves we need to make precious every hour the Reagan every moment Lee is called um all your time Rosh Hashanah if you dedicated to Dominic the Torah and learning and here too must be said is not a time to talk learn thousand eat sleep and really you should work on yourself with the 48 Hours you minimize talking I try not to talk for the first night it's hard because at the table they need this they need that you know but I'm not I'm just I was praying that it's a very special time so it's not a crime you know people come to a shoe and they see their friends uh how you doing Michelle and what's going on it's not the time for that doesn't mean you should be rude come back you shouldn't be rude being rude is is against Russian be immense but you know acknowledge them and if they want to talk say can this wait for after Rosh Hashanah if it can't wait if it's really very important talk you know if a person comes over to you and says I must speak to you I I feel I have a give him all the time in the world on Rosh Hashanah but if if that's not the case don't do that Russian okay Jose is it's not that you should do it's like some people that they do these type of things but they they're like sour about it it's sour the devil says no you need to do it the highest reddish nimi with with an enthusiasm and an inner feeling kind of of joy and happiness that you have an opportunity to worship Hashem on these two days in the in this way in other words like this a person who loves talking tell him this what am I going to do close the gang the gift of the game a whole time what are we gonna do you hang out with your friends what are you gonna do what are you gonna do yeah say to heal him you learn you're diving you do you go blow Schaefer for other Eden so let's say you're going to blow straight for half an hour away to a hospital nursing home on the way there some people I've seen they say tell them they walk around saying to him but you know many people don't have that don't right so if you can if someone's going with you you speak words of tell you to if not pink I'm just saying make it make it different make it different that this it's noticeable so when you come and you blow the Shafer you're coming from the perspective of Rosh Hashanah it's a very very special perspective and that ever says the highest panini foreign that's not what we're looking for commercials as we see in actuality um something that's relevant to yourself and to your family who a says you do it with depth from your essence when you know that what you're doing now is relevant to the vitality and and and and and life of your family you do it with in the best way for example but someone who has a judgment you're up for a lot of money if you lose this case you're gonna have to pay a big fine Way Beyond what you can afford foreign from your business from your work per measures they have to give class punishment God forbid if there's you shoot it pain Agony associated with this judgment it ever says eat worse because Cain if it's a English mothers if it's death God forbid in other words it's a that type of a case um now he says wait a second I'm going before the judge I did something that I might get a life sentence I might get a death sentence but I can now still try to find an excuse try to find a way out and my family if they put me away what's going to be with my family the person at that moment is ready to say I'll give anything away everything anything to be redeemed as his Cain too tired there's nothing that's too expensive in other words oh I'm not gonna give this you know for if I can get out of this I'm not going to give this that I own or or whatever why because it's too expensive no my life is at stake whatever it takes to gain life I'm going to give and sometimes you feel it's not there's not something that's too much no one has to tell him hey fella you know you got something that is very valuable give it away no he knows himself every moment is dear um and at that time he he looks to gain support from good Advocates please speak well on my behalf [Applause] um so he's totally immersed with an entire heart an entire soul as entire Spirit who makes a community liaise and he finds all kinds of justifications no one needs to urge him a new gym come on come up with a good excuse and a way out and a good argument believe me he's thinking very well himself how to save himself QA symbiately because it is a good day with Vietnam and he does it with great alacrity a great reasons and with great thought Ian love like I'm saying and even though he doesn't know judgment he doesn't he needed huh he comes up with ideas US foreign justifying his position he finds excuses and arguments that the smartest people harif sharp that's sharp Minds shrewd minds they can never come up with such arguments vacoli actually be snaps a good Island by him it's very emotional with truthfulness and sincerity and yet this is very truthful with very truthful very serious with untruthfulness but this is before then when he comes to the he comes to the judge when he talks he he gives his argument he says or he says listen I did make this mistake and he promises he says completely I shall lay yahshua the kiss laid God judge I will never do this again and he pleads with his case and in case of his family with great tears Yates coming from his heart the whole selfish because he knows this is relevant to his soul but the flesh is foreign judgment we'll stop here I think there's still a few minutes before the shokunero time so review either go further or view this now the mimer okay