Maamar v'Im Ruach HaMoishel 1924 #2 - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin - Healing through Humilty

top of the page let's in the my memory module commercial for the year 1924 authored by the previous reputable age of youth hook so top of ratio tests you got that the kid sir I want to read the kids are of what we learned the last few days you guys have that racial class yeah kid sir your vaio we explained the rural commercial whom inshallah the power of domination of control is meant rola governing leadership dominion theatre and we questioned the father I surely deletion deep in lignin solar someone who has been given authority from on high God has given someone a position of authority huzzah the coop al Qaeda he's definitely righteous is a Sadiq and he's a pal taters a man of theta an owner of theta so if that's the case VF shy if by England I hate how is it possible for him to have an issue of transgression which is the next half of the verse form are pay miss acclaim the daily so it implies that this person who is in a position of the Dominion and control and governing which is a gift and a blessing seemingly from God yet it seems like he's a viable transgression how did the two go together that was the basic question on the verse in the Mimer yes mark pea dying at the hands weekend yes yes look at the root word of Marky's race pay Alice right and and he loved that he brought those he said that in in the minor earlier the first chapter that the word mark pay is associated with refer refer in reviewing and before and today's talk more about that okay okay the italics and what is the answer to this question the Mart a lawsuit if Orion bar pay number one refers the cuff is associated with the word really loosening up letting go via via dyad a horn over and he explains that through having humility and an interest of another one won't be captured in the sin of the generation the moisture vro notion are you - is ma they were totally subservient to a shambles in Kabbalah called the level of men a ma what is it I can't tell you what it is because there's no ego there so there's no definition and form and description it's not what is it and as well though yoshua Nicola Machaerus one mom woman please your shoe is called a servant right motion that means that he was a perpetual servant before during and after Moses lifetime you're sure was a perpetual servant which is bit tell her ask me the Talmud Arabic the essential humility and subservience of a student to a teacher and like we discussed yesterday how you know to be a real excuse me to be a real Makabe to be a real recipient of teaching from a teacher one needs to be subservient to him with a bit philosophy yes hello I was wondering if you might expand a little on relation to the teaching from the tanya that the spirit hokhmah co-opted mom yes very good so that's the chapter xxx xxx chapter 3 and elaborated in chapter 35 in Tanya it's one of the few places the Alta Deborah says I heard this from my teacher referring to the maggot I think there's only twice and Tanya with the out there actually says some mighty mighty heard from my master referring to the market and one of them one of the places in chapter 35 regarding this issue that Huffman's comprised of the two by Diaz coops ma the power of what is what is it which is the idea of bittle the laughter never says that he heard that from that and that art himself that the infinite light of a sham invests itself specifically in in hokhmah in other words bina is not the abode of the aim self why because benas already once interpretation and of the information so when it's when you're when when there is your own interpretation it's already a step down there's not as much bittle as the position of Kozma which is totally in the receiving mode and like I've been telling you the idea of the it's the concept of an idea where a person has a dilemma of problem and all of a sudden a a flash of light that goes on in the de menthe in his mind and he could see it on his face for his face smiles and lights up and you ask him what happened that he says I just ate solved the problem that I was thinking about for four years or months or whatever and and it hit me now the answer and you say what is the answer I don't know but meanwhile you're smiling and you're all happy why because because because the inspiration was there the flash of inspiration so the Altair never going back to your question he'll of the out that have been chapter 35 and Tonya says this is what customer is and you can actually see it by us in the words Huff no Huff miss class ma those four letters chaos tough tests and mem hey when you reverse it you get hustler the cliff means the power the potential Mao of something what is it I don't know what it is yet so the position of hokhmah in the mind right is the position of the bittle the the humility and millions of the mind and so too when it comes to the creation of the world when I cut this bar who creates the world the beginning of creation begins with the world being in a position of what of Bittle right because if at the time of creation the world would have ego and would and would in any sort any way shape or form then it would embarrass be able to receive you can't receive at the same time that you're being much SPEA remember what we learned yesterday it doesn't work and I gave you a very practical example and if you think about I think you'll see it's true when you re a real student who gathers information has to shut off and turn off completely the idea that I want to I want to understand didn't I have questions our end if you listen to information that way you're not really receiving because you're already in a position of of commenting and that's what happens many times in a classroom with students and you know every one of us here have seen this or even with the parenting you start sharing something with your children and all of a sudden they're ready but they're ready commenting a questioning and thinking they're not really receiving so if you're not really receiving you don't have it so when when you comment before you have it that's foolishness you don't really know what I'm saying listen completely just take it all in take it all in and don't even think about I'm going to comment and think about what I'm being told that even that is already a non receiving mode when you listen you have to be totally in the mode of Cibola of receiving and that's the position of Koffler and that's why one second you only one moment let me finish the thought exactly please don't do that cuz you're not listening you gotta listen for so the rebus a the first thing is customer hokhmah means go into the mode of receiving I'm here I just want to hear and receive once I hear and I receive then I can I can already think about it process it and then comment yes you need this rather like one of the the issues facing the Jewish world where a lot of these homers have come into play you know things them necessarily let's say a hundred years ago like I remember my grandfather telling me that if you saw a guy you know not working it was a very strange thing like you have very few people sitting and learning well and you have very few people like the homeless situation is a new thing and like people are taking upon themselves were culturally you know the bush and and and things that are not necessarily Allah or even a scuffle it's like cultural it's like added to you describe that have really nothing well look when you say it has nothing to do with you this guy I can't I can't agree with that last part in it it depends what it is some things you're right are totally stupidity and self made up and and ridiculous but there are things that have been introduced because of the times that are very healthy and important and the fact is that you described has grown exponentially since your grandfather's right that's a fact that's not you know above of myself okay now hundreds of thousands of more people are keeping sharpest than during the 1920s in in in in Philadelphia and Boston Chicago and and then Manhattan when there was a a wave of secularism to leave fruit pie can you describe and that's changed so so you know to say at that the increase of homeless has led to a lessening of Torah a bit Swiss is not true nevertheless nevertheless some of the homeless and some of these things are just extra pressure that is not necessary but you know you know in life if they come together it's a package deal it's a package deal because we aren't perfect our teachers aren't perfect the rabbi's aren't perfect we aren't perfect so therefore we have you have to put up with it you have to put up with it and a person was connected and who has a rough when has a much spear and he has a good friend and he checks with them and he discusses it knows had a balance everything and that's it that and but but to go and say that that the homeless has led to a disaster the community no I wouldn't say that I would say those that abuse the homeless and there plenty will do that like you said you know your grandfather's time everyone worked so those that are City and and and mooching off others and they are able to work like I told you the bells irreverent 10 15 years ago announced to his Kassadin down I'm simplest hours a day when he gives his mission statements for the year you know it's it's it's that time so the Belzer Rebbe said the bells are ever said ladies and gentlemen our boys i we have their clay low and we're paying you but until now you were learning all day now you're only gonna learn a half a day if you want to get paid by us the other half you're going to go to school you're going to get an accounting degree you're gonna get a bookkeeping degree you gather the computer degree and you're gonna work a half a day and he implemented that and thousands of bells of Hassidim now have have jobs and they're bringing in a producer a half a day okay so so there was a major shift in in their culture and their culture is one that is very very rigid you know and very disciplined in in in in in the Hasidic lifestyle and he blew the whistle he was a whistleblower he was the whistleblower and he wasn't ashamed to say that he was the whistleblower and guess what it's now 15 years later and thousands and and there's a Shasha at the beginning there was such a rash you know there's such noise and an uproar how can a Hasidic Rebbe push going to work when we would need to learn more in coal oil and on and on and the same you have in in other issues now with with the enrollment in the army and and I don't know enough to take a position but what I see what I see is that you know there are those that are warming up to it you know what is a better to put boys and girls to be on the streets or is the better for them to get there you know excuse the expression their backside kicked in become a mensch get out there take a gun protect the country and come back and be a strong civilian and a mensch and morph room and morph room now I'm not saying it happens to everybody you know I'm not foolish it doesn't but for many and I know some and you know some it does happen so so that was those so that's also revolution who thought of you know in the nineteen forties when there was the giraffe and the 50s in the 60s all you see the Buckner in America were looking for an exemption and then he signed up to study and officially get rabbinic ordination Suika just as a way out so I was sitting with someone a shoe is a big beard and it was wearing a big Sputnik the the you know the Garrett way and not just as Flymo but a Sputnik a large fur hat tall and I'm looking at him he's 75 years old and he has a very interesting history I'm not gonna go into it but very interesting so he told me that in 1963 he was drafted so his grandfather who was known as the Pittsburgher Rebbe he was a Hasidic Rebbe in Pittsburgh in there even before the war after whatever and it was a very specific and he can he moved to Crown Heights later and he told him I want you to consult with the lebara chair ever whether you should even seek an exemption you know do a trade will do a spit so do a stick you know and he went into the rabbit and the rabbit told them he should not do it he should him roll this way he won't make a hill or sham and the rebus but there ever gave him a Brooklyn and there ever said you will come back unhurt you'll come back and he fought in Vietnam not only did he fight in Vietnam but he provided you know he helped with the kosher food and Dominion and he was like a smear fan emissary in Vietnam and here sitting across me in Borough Park with his long beard and his public who would think that he was in Vietnam okay and that's only because he went to the barber chair ever who told him he shouldn't try to get out of the draft but we know that the culture of the time was to get out of the draft today in there to stroll you know there's the the issue and it's a constant fight whether you should or you shouldn't and it's a very big political issue and you know from the have goodness the protests and down a bit Shemesh over there they they burnt the tires and they burned the buses and they make bread they stopped the traffic that's all part of its and I'm not taking sides I don't know enough you're yes no but the idea is that we find this is all response to you yogi that that the the the Jewish community different community is together with its religiosity and through kite and homers is is looking at at things that government and and others are expecting and demanding and wanting as a way to go further okay we have to go further now page relationship rest where the second paragraph the lone pair if we begin now Vahine a Bahama cure said more deeply to understand this tomorrow Payoneer happended Island the verse in Kahala says like my mother says for healing will alleviate great sin yuvan the Peter sub a so Hillel here is going to focus on the second meaning of the word mark pain which you asked about earlier the email is that my philosophy if you're in although until now we've really focused on mark pay of being associated with the word with you letting go loosening up how the ikura that ever says but the the primary interpretation of the word mark pay who love Sandra for it's the associate with the word refer healing OB - Tamar pay the girdle have buried I said a fool with Leroy Shatto in the diamond solitaire the healing of the leader of the generation causes healing for all of the generation saving them from great sin what does that mean even though the idea is being a neither sought nor voted on catch over the attribute yes yes okay the attribute of another of humility is a way is from the the dress in the ways of truth a-- and he brings the romba for measure Kosovar Amba the truth Azul in other words for chuhwa a person needs to have humility has to have another the truth Azul and this type of chuhwa heed a fool item this brings healing to the world the I love the word world but in Hebrew I'll um who Helen is associated with the word Helen concealment to hide in other words the world hides God if the skies got the truth a heated floor and chuva is a healing l Helen to this concealment you see what he's doing here the previous River he's taking the kazow the true bazoo here the fool alum and he's and he's giving it a Hasidic interpretation that since the world eylem the word alum also is associated with the word Helen Helen means to conceal and hide referring to the hiding of God's God's presence God's presence is hidden in the world so when you do to ver you bring healing to that concealment okay - ow and as the rabbi's teach us to say to say g'day la trouve ah shame Avira fool eylem great is true ver that leads that brings healing to the universe to the world like David who was who the children through this reform with which in itself is true though she sleeps us Ave knows this is the pardoning of transgression of sins Jonnie F fact William did a limb it alleviates great sin so basically what he's saying here just did not to lose the point that another that humility is in an integral part of Judah if a person does true ver and the person is full of arrogance that chuva is is weak it's not worthless because that album says the Rambam says Maimonides writes that in order for chuva to be healthy and powerful and correct you need it to be centered based on Innova humility and that's when Hillel it accomplishes Refaeli alone with four la Helen it heals the concealment what is in the skies and blocked and and not apparent through this type of chuhwa it becomes clear and obvious and healthy to us our safety gum and when that takes place we also receive pardon links we have our Italian detailing for greater sins and transgressions why miss you are never Michael I will be know someone who's modest and he forgives he pardons I will bring a his set when he was ashamed when he became when someone embarrassed him right Nicola ich cos I'll say based on versus the traitor Antonov he's called a man and a cop I am of lengthening is a up I am anger in other words if you are able to pardon and forgive someone who embarrasses you and all that that shows that you really have a lot of humility sure loves Emma Slade my mother says initially tell you and if I buy in it's better to lengthen your anger meaning to control your anger McGee burn then someone that is a bodybuilder and lift weights and a big macho keeper bowl a wrestler a boxer strong the muscles of Pepe so slay my mother says toys Anakapalle you if you're able to control your anger and if you're able to display humility that all those someone embarrasses you and you're about to clobber them and you're about to wipe them away with your mouth and you keep quiet and you swallow it if you're able to do that say my mother says you're stronger then AB deeper than someone who has big muscles 504 what right is better thank you if I had a fool all my other company now throws on a piece of Cibola here it says in Cibola that before where does the food come from you guys were always asking for a nice chain but they don't say me chaparral roofing Misha vena cava seitan Misha Beira we're always talking about and ask you for healing where does it come from so it says that the food comes from what's called Irish company other companies long faces sure who penis cancer that's the Kratt one second that's the crown of a Shem the shovel who muck in my another so the gate gives us here laser and logistical information that we should know we're one second where does where does a fool come from a place of another that's the point is making that healing that rapport is associated with another and where is our numbers where is another's abode we're in the crown of God called Kessler yes we live you could find this room for two commercial costs of bodacious customer now he brings the say fallacious Cosmo which is from the early slurring of masseur shadow another the portal of another pay the caller what does it say over there rangers customer quote that you yes I can't hear what thank you I didn't know that where is it buried as I've grown in the old cemetery okay we have a deal thank you very much we got a date laser not have a date good but of a let's go further so he says over there the agimo meters hurrah Samim might him [Music] the 13 attributes of mercy are associated with humility we just came through Yom Kippur and played the cello and we know that there was a shine of you get of 13 attributes of of of raqqa me of mercy that came to the world so what we're learning now is they are all based look at the words more in they denote our another you can have wrath on him without another and this is what he said earlier in the mind if you recall that I'm never that humility and modesty is a mainstay of everything else without another nothing else flows why not because that because there's always the eye that stuck there and if the eye is stuck there the eyes messed up there's no there's no perfection the eye is not perfect humility the opposite of the eye that is that you said earlier helo from chapter 35 and Tanya we're a sham rest ain't self the infinite God for the name of the Maggie the author ever says weirdest ain't software is infinity of God rest in Hosmer let's go further well oh hey night they should goggle or dead who are no therefore if the leader of the generation is one who isn't on earth was modest who marked they have attained good things so day he accomplishes healing of all sinned a great sin of the generation there were feverish I met this robber who based on the method Shaba that we quoted in the first chapter whom a dark a ha Musa it's part of the way of ethics I said the daily Israel that listen to this yoni that leaders could alias throw lowest a to do a lot see bird they should be overpower with their authority the congregation the community lamely by saying wait on he made us say alpha Israel you know who I am I am the leaders of the generation and he and the rebus says just learned from Sahara too hard the Zakaria he quoted earlier in Chapter 1 Zakaria oh I summon gorgonic along he saw himself greater then the rest of the people with Fischer her you why he was Cassandra Mellon number one let's go back he was a son-in-law of the king number two the clan goggle what a big matter he's the high priest number three the Navi of prophet number four Diane a judge do you need any more look at the look at the accolades look who he was he was a big man and yet it's a grace immense and we say Osiris kabah hawk you know sometimes you have a title before a rabbi or ask to be hot which means race shell but Bonet have gala he's the head of all the Jews in the Guru you know so he's this man the society was really big stuff he was a heavyweight this isn't a lightweight fighter in the boxing ring this is a heavyweight in the boxing ring that his skill adopted to duelist but guess what with all of his accolades and his greatness he started to speak a pompous and he started to speak big big talk like a big shot and what did he say lo Mart or even Mitchell's Hashem he spoke to the Jews and he said why are you guys desecrating God's will the lake of legal and he said to them you're not gonna succeed you think you're gonna have won over God it ain't gonna work but she humble of the silliness what he used to get his message across as he emphasized the punishment you've been a burn you're gonna suffer you're gonna fail is that the way we educate a child educate a student you're no good for nothing if you think is you've gotta fall if you that you know the negativity well he did it a big time to the Jews his sneagle they have loved us for English he sorry hey Humber fluffiness he criticized them by emphasizing the city punishment and this is why he was ultimately killed and this is why he's considered a leader that failed and did not take leadership and authority in the right way because he blew and his own horn too big the horn was blown too big you weren't supposed to emphasize the negativity of naam sort of Lahav Ian Holloway attained who in unity hustle and here begins the treatise Hillel of the previous rebus on criticism so from here from Imam you can make a note begins the previous level schita his view of constructive criticism but he first begins it was a rhetorical question however seemingly hallelujah Kano in unity Hoffer this is the makeup of criticism and he quotes the possible vehicle of commercial Asif they say after he f SI me sakha scold shall you scold so you give Musa to your friend vámanos ow I feel mayor put me in the house I'll say that the bottle but let's see it even a hundred times you see if doing something wrong once twice - a lot of times over ELQ in the cupboard American says he said I hate a how much are you obligated to scold the other rather when you seem doing something no good however Morrell says I darker until hitting Oh Peter Shashi what does that mean I think a northern climate here is conveyed how much does a person have to score this friend either cold I say it saves a the Yaquis and we're here until the one you're scolding get so upset and angry and gives you a slug he can't take anymore the boo he hits you shut up be quiet enough already I heard you but he doesn't just say verbally he uses his hint that's what Rob says going back now him came in Ken Kaenel mr. Smith this seems to be the Mitzvah of scolding of the cosmos early yesterday but Musa Dagh to to give him heavy muster now this parenthesis votes in a parenthesis is worth a million bucks because it gives us a the conditions of the one condition that's maybe that not maybe that is the most important condition of giving haha for that look what he says for that shall I leave a ship arrived to via when one we're saying over here that one is obligated to give Mooser right says the rapper but you're not allowed to do that by wrapping in public if you see someone doing wrong and you're in shul Ruffini summer comes to the Torah and makes a mistake or not makes a mistake that's something that you know he knows better and he's intentionally doing it in a way that's contrary to what the halacha says and therefore you scream at them and you embarrassed them they robbed him that's contrary to proper giving takaka giving scolding of all they know you've been nicely between four eyes in a private setting y'all a male you could tell him Sharad darkly your ways are dead all the Vice Reba's air and to privately embarrass him sir I'm a loyal Ms he tells him the truth and he means embarrassing mean he calls him on it he says hey guy you went to yeshiva you know you're a free guy you know what you're doing cut cut the nonsense stop it you're you know and it's wrong and and but this is a private setting this is not in front of anyone else and sometimes were on the phone and we're in a heated conversation and we have other people who if every members listening that's also wrong go to your room go to your office speak in private and he says further and he and you tell this person she myself in Kumasi Bahama your activity is like the activity of an animal believe who bleed ask of them cloud without human intelligence you're acting like an animal the in pain Loman emphases their love-hate was the karyesh we also cannot sing why was the carrier punished now I when I read this question I said he was promised because he did it in public the answer is that it looks it looks to be that the public setting of Zakaria was was an acceptable public setting in other words it I have to check the sorry I didn't get a chance to check it but sicarios prophesizing could be was prophesizing in his room and the word would get out so I don't believe this Acharya was embarrassing them in public he starved the same prophecy and it was and and and that itself was already acting with a bit shot list you know that I am Zakaria and have all these four accolades and I'm a challenge and this and that and and that already wasn't acceptable so there's no contradiction between what we said in the parenthesis that to embarrass someone as sorry to scold someone in public is an embarrassment we'll stop here and we'll continue tomorrow mr. Shin everyone have a good day thank you