Maamar Choviv 1940 #11 - Begin w Order and infuse it w Passion - Healthy Love

okay so we're learning on page 277 cover vaudev this will be the last year mr sham and we'll finish the mimer and tomorrow hashem's help we'll start the new contras in your saxidis i'm very excited about the teaching and learning it i should say learning it and teaching it and um i hope um you'll encourage other people to join whether they can be online or offline whatever somehow to to learn the mimer it's a it's a fundamental contrast that uh that we must learn and tomorrow i'll tell you a little bit about its history i'll tell you what salvation said about it it's a it's a very special opportunity and it all came from malicious question but she asked me what's the difference between the cycle and efforts of the case and say honestly so for that i told him he asked me that i think last thursday and i said hold your horses i want to i recall there's a footnote in the english version and over shabbos i got a hold of it and then we learned it together on monday part of the footnote and from there we decided i think it's a good countries to learn for our next uh segment and it'll probably take us i think till the summer it's it's it's long i don't want to rush it i really want to go slow and methodically over it uh so that we get the most out of it it's like once once in a once in a lifetime opportunity you know i mean i learned it with the oil khan when i was a booker and uh i might have taught it you know years ago to balabatin but the time that i learned it was one time you know and and uh so it's you know if you learn it well one time you know you could always go back and polish up on ideas but anyway let's go back to this mimer here with the rabbit speaking about the nephews of the kitchen and again this mimer is also what we call a usaid it's a foundational mimer in regard to the three souls and particularly the nephew so from here on if someone will ask you is there do you know of a place where the chabad rabbi him talk about this never sequence you would point to this as this mimer has one of one reference there are a few others but here it's in in detail okay um it came to a friend of mine reminding me that the rabbit has a secret in the 15th volume look with the secrets where he talks about it which i didn't get to look at yet i will admit hashem and one other place but anyway so what are we learning here we learned about a very interesting concept that there has there's taiyo and ticking there's the world avoiding the world of chaos and the world of void is very exciting um creativity and uh you know chaos is very exciting because you know it's it's exciting but it's chaotic tickling is very boring same same same routine day in day out get up put on your pants go to work or show gojo go to work come home make supper uh take care of the kids with homework go go to my room go back to sleep all day in day out you get pretty pretty bored let's take we need both we need a world of correction of of normalcy but what we need to do is inject inject in to the world of normalcy a passion that's chaotic so then what we have is a chaos coming from within the confines of order so the order he speaks excitement you know just one second just like with with um dating and you know this is on my mind your daughter's finding shidduchim it's like you meet a guy and he's not exciting and and or or he's exciting and she's not exciting whatever is it right away an x is it right away what they call them today in the world of orthodox haredi uh dating it's not shy here you ever heard do you guys use it in israel here in brooklyn those it's not shy it's what a shiat i mean it's not a possibility it makes no sense there's no assault relevant it's not relevant it could be lo shayach you're right and it could be it's the ultimate of shaikhus why because it's no trick to be exciting outside the confines of the malaysia because then you end up messed in many ways in different ways and life can become very very very difficult but when you're able to to infiltrate order that order itself be speaks chaos liveliness excitement thrill then then you've accomplished a great deal and this isn't this isn't easy this is an aveda and this is what we're learning here in the mimer the rabbit says that that um what the nephew seeks is to take the energy of the nepheshabami's which is for milo matteo and to infiltrate it with a normalcy that brings the upper and efficiently kisses energy into the lower nephesh obama's energy and in talking with a friend about this whole discussion he gave me i think i think a pretty good muscle to help understand the two ideas that we've been talking about say you're home you have a house you have an apartment you have a place and say someone breaks in someone breaks it and you come to school your friends ask you what happened oh you had a break-in i said what happened you can give two answers the lock on my door was not a strong lock it wasn't from the better locks i forget what they would they call them an extra throw but here in america we used to have the double bolts we still have the double bolts and you know what like that yeah yeah say i didn't have that i didn't have that so the gun if the the robber the thief was able to break it so what's the and and and indeed you didn't have such a lock so if that's the case the the seiko the single tells you you know why the guy broke in you know how he broke in because you had a poor lock if you had a better luck he wouldn't be able to get in come that's the nefesha sikholis's response the never shall it kiss his response is you know why the luck the guy was able to break in because you don't have kosher mezuzah's oh wait a minute or one of the mezuzis is not on the right side or what have we learned in pastas behind the first rash what's the relevance between shemitah and mount sinai and the expression that saying as a colloquialism means what does one have to do with the other what is the gun of breaking into my house have to do with my messages between god and myself and what's the answer that's the way they never surely kiss things the never silly kiss doesn't say the reason he was able to get in was because of the lock the reason he was able to get is because my mezuzah something's wrong with my messages and and the way it filtered itself down here below is because i got a poor lock but the poor lock was only kind of a facade of the guys a disguise for the real reason which is the mezuzah something's wrong with zuza and by the way that ever always told people on all kinds of issues check your messages and check your villain you come to the barbecue there but with a problem whether it be health wealth children whatever it is and what does he tell you and that's the answer there's the perspective of the trainer there's perspective of a rabbit there's the perspective of elokus of nephili kiss it begins with your mezuzahs it doesn't begin with the lock the lock is only a vessel to facilitate the lacus moisture is that a good a good muscle is it clear that's the difference between the mindset of the nefesh elite kiss and the mindset abraham of the nephesha cichlids you wanted to say something yeah so i was talking about a friend of mine today you know he's a builder developer he said that he can't he can't um he cannot sit and learn all day you know torah and things like that he said if he starts to sit he needs chaos he doesn't have chaos he becomes depressed right he said i thought i said okay do you have adhd and add he said yeah i said i have also the same thing i also very hard for me just to sit you know okay okay that so we were like talking about this and it's interesting that you brought this up now about the right idea this concept well but but you realize but you see but you see as difficult as it is for you to sit you've been sitting at this year for four or five years why why because there's something that you like and it touches you then and it inspires you so that that would be the the the the chaos filtering itself through the normality the half an hour that we sit and learn which is your anchor for the day you know maybe you have other anchors but that that's a i'm glad you brought it up that's a good nakuda because you know yoni tells us you know it's hard for him to sit and i can i can relate to it you know there are those of us that have that issue and yet when you're able to anchor yourself and you enjoy it because because you've allowed yourself to see how in how you become better how how the sitting the normalcy the order is is helpful to your chaos so you see what your friend was expressing to me is yeah this is who i am and i must have it now the question is if you must know what that's what i'm saying not that you shouldn't have it you should have it but find an area in your life to it that would be expressed through order one area and it doesn't mean all day it doesn't mean all night but one whether it be sitting at a job for two three hours in one place whether it be sitting in a shear whether it be you know every day you have tea time with your wife you know that what did dr weiss tell us that the rabbit told him and we always repeat this because it's so powerful that those 15 minutes to half an hour that i have tea with my wife every day is as important as putting on filling or something like that right something like that in other words the the the the order can be an expression to make the chaos uh better pure and and and more legitimate in the stand so not to take away passion and that's what siddha says says that the nephesh abomination we learned in here also is most important for its passion just we want the passion to be used for godly things are good things let's continue now the bottom of 2770 otherwise you won't finish the monument okay so we are on um five lines from the bottom the ultimate purpose is to draw the vessels the energy of toyo into the vessels of tikkun which we just explained at that time learning david and doing mitzvahs it's the nephili case that's very active la mata but at the same time source is the world of chaos what happened is it got the bad rap and it fell below and it cracked and shattered although but it sources from boy to the world of void but never really it only comes from the world of ticket you hear that in other words outwardly enough for sure the case is great bombings but if you look at the source never bomb is is really higher than its source and that's why it falls further away the cashier on that top of 1278 goes through the activity of refining the bombings the toyo became the ticket this is what i just said this is the idea of bringing the energies the lights of the world of toyo the world of void through the k into the kingdom of taken into the kingdom of correction and the only way that's possible is like they aimed sawyers never shall exist through the intermediary which is called an efficacy and it goes back to the beginning of the mimer pikiavist chapter 3. beloved is man that god created in the image of hashem so who is this referring to says that who never says ill a secrets man is beloved we're talking about a jew we're talking about a person i'm sorry we're talking about god gave every human being what we call a human intellectual drive though the primary issue for us is that the next stanza in the mishnah beloved is israel shahu hanefesh which is clearly a reference to the special neshama that only you can get which is called nefer shaliki's avalaskola but we must know that it begins with javi verdum the red what was his question uh israel at the beginning of why is javi of adam say before have israel beloved is man and then beloved is israel you say beloved is israel that beloved is man it says that according to this and everything that we learned here no in order for the there to be an appreciation for have the beginning you hear the words very important words the beginning of avoid us and afterwards we can appreciate and it draws down the the essential energies of toyo shalom island which transcend the vessels um but caleb hamilton the ticket in an abundance of vessels of ticket so in other words what he's saying is you can't jump for most people jumping doesn't work you have to take steps and the steps are necessary and and practically right if you don't explain things and you don't give the logic to things right especially americans you know you you know but forget it you know we're we're not sorry not saying far them a more and even there abravadia joseph already opened up the whole cradle of learning to the svardic world where he said no no no you got to understand what you're doing not just you know uh it feels good yosef i think we could say was is credited with opening seijo within the whole spartak world i'm just i'm saying as a generality before you had individuals the cafe you know um what the baba sally but it was all very very immunic you know yes my i just want to show you a dolphin you said about a person has to take steps yes they could take it one step at a time so it reminds me when we lived in harnauf so um i've told some of you this that we dabbing in the show of the bust in the redder um for two years two and a half years and um one time my wife and i went to meet with the son of the buster of mayor who's now one of the boston rebellion we spoke to him about a certain issue in the home and he um he said those words he said you know he said my father taught or teaches very very important you go from step a to b not from a to c because i wanted to take something on in the house that was and he he was very very like you know like do things like like in a very very careful like um what's the word like a like a healthy way right they're very healthy right so i'm just meant i'm just right that that and and that that uh conversation with him it always made a big impression he had made a big impression on me right ever since then i i hear you it's just that this flight this shabbos i was sitting with a yid here is a bubble reclassit and he has a he's a talmud hochum but he also has such a knack for history and details and you know he he grew up in brownsville new york and then crown heights and now boro park and so i i sat for an hour listening to him and it's like i needed a tape recorder he was just shooting details and you're not about kappa just about you know bothered and the bubble rabbits which i'm always interested in hearing about other other uh hasidam and all the groups and all that so anyway one of the things he said to me was i think it was 1962 he said and the someone came to see the bubba rubber of shleiman the old bubba forever and the man said to the rebel like do you know that and and the person either i don't know if he was religious or if he was he was modern and he's and bob rebbe said something to him and he said to him don't you know that we went through the holocaust like he he he shot back he said like i mean you know like what's you know you you want me to do this and and god did this to us that that's what he was saying and and he told me that the bubba river cried broke out crying and he said listen you're telling me i lost my whole family his first family was all wiped out he says my beard he says my beard oh yeah i think he told him he wants him to grow a beard i i think he told me she grew a beard so he was orthodox he was from but he didn't so he says i should grow a beard after the holocaust he said the nazis imagine you know cut cut my beard five times on five places because you know when he came when he came to america he didn't have a beard you know the ball can see them have eliminated all the pictures you know because you know they don't want the youth to know this you know it's not my covenant and i understand you know and it's not his doing he didn't shave his beard the nazis you know and and whatever that's the way it came so he told him i i went to the nazis and i had and i was forced to shave my beard and you have an opportunity here in america in 1962 to grow a beard and and and he says and you're telling me the holocaust i know the holocaust better than you i lost my whole family the word got out in the little baseball dish at that time was you know it was still in crown heights it was in crown heights when they lived on the other side of eastern parkway moshe on the other side going towards williamsburg not towards east flatbush kings county so some of some of his friends of this man's friends heard oh and you know when this was this was the night of the seder this was a discussion that they had i guess when he went over to give shulim you know the the way it works at the rebels you give them shulam he gave him shulim and the rabbit told them this his friends heard one of them said come oh he calls over yanko come here yanko was the the destroymo macher he says i'm we're going now to your house he says it's dark in my house where i have my striables yes i don't care he grabs the person he takes yankel i forget who he was telling you about a certain kid how was an activist above and he went up to a block away uh in crown heights he he took out of his dark closet some stripes he put it on his head and he said look in this little mirror and he said it looks good the guy didn't know what hit him and he said yeah that's how he put on his triangle and that's how he grew his beard now why am i telling you that that's toilet dick that's not tickling there's a time for that too you know especially if you're if assad tells you you know don't try to rationalize because if a sonic tells you something listen it's for your own good i don't want to get into it now but there have been people who have not listened to sadiq and there are no good results i heard there's some people who would happen to who told me on their own without me soliciting them i didn't know i i was sitting with someone who told me that he believes the reason why and his family i think all of his kids wait someone told me he heard from this cousin who was a a hostage of the rashad and the and the rashad told him something about a shidduch and he didn't listen and he said that's why he believes all of his kids got divorced now no one can prove it right the the fact that they all got divorced that's a that's a fact but to say it's because he didn't listen to the rashaad's suggestion for a you know but and and there are other stories i know someone else who went into the rep he says he has no prognosis i told you this once and the rebbe said go out and ask a certain clustered what to do he said okay he comes to the closet in the closet tells him you should sell shoes he says everyone need shoes start selling shoes he says he says i don't know anything about the shoe business i'm a plumber i know about plumbing he went back to the rabbit and he says rabbi i'm sorry i i mean the rapper i could tell you that this person's personal life went downhill i i i i so i i'm not you know no i was told this you know you got to be very careful you got to be very careful that what if if a if you ask a rebber b if you if your rabbit tells you then you know you know put your tick on the side and do the toyo because it's for your own good it really is but again this is argumentative i'm sure someone could say it's all made up and you could disagree and prove it like you can't prove it you could just look at the facts and say what happened over here and who knows we're not god we don't know why they got divorced or he had a problem with parnosa but at the same time there is a concept in this forum that that the words of assadic are are are special let me just finish the mimer then he says he says and if you want in the summer to attain what we call being a walker we spoke about this earlier in the mimer therefore you go through the process with an efficient cyclist you begin after cyclists and then and then it impacts and efficiently kills and never should accuse because it went through an evidence gets that great aliyah okay this is the moment we will learn tomorrow okay um i i think everyone has a safer hilo has a save for two does anyone know it hello hill is traveling right now he's in the north so he's going to come back i don't know maybe tomorrow wednesday but it's by us sir okay okay so you have it i'm yeah i'm supposed to fly tonight so i may not be here i may not be able to be in the sheer tomorrow but in magician okay well you'll just you listen listen to the to the i'll give the history which i know you love so listen to the youtube of it okay anyway have a safe trip and everyone else have a good a good day and we'll see everyone tomorrow as i give them bye-bye thank you