Lag Bomer Farbrengen 5780-2020 w Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

okay everyone please turn off your mute your computers so a Fralick about going mad the happy like violet to everyone it's a special special day special powers are in the world their crisis of rapture Mumbai you Holly and all of those who act in his way that said he came are very very present today I made a clip for her eyes that info that's in general my clips are seen on that website if you go to Crown Heights not info so I made a clip before that boiler a short clip in which I read my nest about my days in the 1960s late 1960s and early 70s I'm not going but it was a very very the memories of very warm like rabbi Twersky dr. Avram torski told me when he did you know hypnosis on people he brought who had who cancer patients who are very sick and a lot of pain through hypnosis he was able to bring them back to their childhood with a remembered playing ball on the green grass and then the nice air well I have that same horror and feeling of a lot blame her we went to your she but this is one lap later was during the week Chabad Lubavitch didn't make a parade in those days only if it came out on Sunday so they brought public schools children and other yeshiva children to Crown Heights of 77 there that ever came out and spoke and it was a beautiful event as you know but during the week there was no parade in those days so we had to Shiva we actually went to yeshiva dressed up you know like like um if it's a special day and we dive and and we learned a little bit and then they took us on buses I think through parks you know we went to different parks in the area and I still have all this memory of my fifth grade Rebbe Rabbi Barnett ski who you know was playing baseball with us and took the bat and was swinging just very warm memories so so like very matter both spiritually is the day of an opinion and his and it's also that and and that comes together with with a very warm feeling and a very good feeling so it's in that context that I share some ideas today and some of it will be a little bit in the title world and that is why do we call it Lag Ba'Omer really it in Hebrew grammar and it should be lab law under the 33rd to the I'm better right that's what we're doing not lab boy I've met the 33rd in the ointment and their ever someone asked the Rebbe of this question and they're ever answered in a letter to this person that it's brought in in in polish and polish Hasidic sworen that Lag Ba'Omer with the base equals 345 who what where do we find a komatsuna 345 in the in in in the is a terabyte with someone's name its moisture mansion hey it's 3:45 so if it would have said while glory man it wouldn't equal 345 and since we wanted to equal 345 because of much that's why they say it's better they if they think they made it lock bummer but that itself is problematic you know like I've told you the best the mattress is not pulling out you know straw from a hat you know it's it's is there an inherent connection between my sharavino alive behavior and so they're ever explained that same letter that there are resolve rights I think that but should I bathe that the adapted Ashby was a gilgul of my shut up baby he had a number of mishra baby but mainly there is a connection between my Shara Bengal and rush B that's from the Devas letter and that's why it makes sense to to say that it's love bit I'm and not locked by a man Lachlan lamer because of the 345 so it's not just the kamati again but rather it's an inherent game that they were one of the same person in the sense they had to save the some more elements of the Sherman century that's one part another thing that I came across is a question about that Osby being in the mire of twelve and thirty years ago mother says of Shabbos in the soldier of arras be the good mother says that he was together with Anna velocity son thirty twelve years they hit we're in the minor in the cave but as soon as he came out of the cave so he saw people that were plowing and sowing the field so that's be said money from Kanye I love Ohio show there there there say they're for safety they're going away from eternal life for for temporary life and the governor says a very harsh thing but he said afterwards about you know like kinda should burn up it a very very harsh harsh curve but the recipe was very very adamant he was very disappointed when he came out of the mine up here he's felt what he spent 12 months hiding and learning doesn't tell you to the secrets of tight and everything else and he comes out the expects that everyone is doing the same thing and what does he see people are interested in their blood in their fields right so so the governor said so that's why he he used a very sharp term and idea to that they should they should cease to be that was when he came out of the minor in the 12th to 12 years then the governor continues the says so he decided it's not time for him to come out what is he coming out for if people are not learning observing a Seminole that they're worried about the paranoia their business someone's someone Lucas this echo Hillel someone someone are on someone has their neutral okay thank you so the new mother says that he went back into the minor he said if this is the case I don't need it and it went back he's in the minor and then he decides a year later you know what let me let me try to the maybe things changed the mother says he came back out and Cole he said that are below said ma filled up Shimon Massey forever never lost the kind of an illness in other words those problems that Shipman right away Massey he cured the situation and then at the end of the block the mother pager the Kabbalah the mother says that Shimon were every sore problem because you know there was they work like Haman that were there were the people buried and there were no markers where they were buried so clay Harlan when they would walk over they would become plumbing so this wasn't good so the de mother says that have shipmen Co hazel itself didn't wherever he was a Sadiq and he sensed that there was a body buried in this piece of earth under this piece of Earth but mainly was Misaki and he made markers and that clay Hong should not go there that's at the end ended a page of the Quran shadows so so the question is what happened that the 13th year all of a sudden and if Shipman doesn't return any longer to the minor right he doesn't return to the game and he's comfortable what what took place over here in other words what's the difference between the 12 years and the 13th year so I saw for there ever a nice explanation rebus says that 12 represents the like we've been learning Satanist ouchless the progression the average the normal the twelfth for example the twelve months of the year so everything is missile dad everything is organized thirteen what's thirteen thirteen reminds us of the you give will be the Seraphim in the thirteen attributes of mercy here were talking about the myeloma Satanist ouchless the number thirteen is representative of the myeloma calculus transcendence so Shimon came out after twelve years when things were still organized and everything had its compartment and box he basically said he he at that time was at a place of 12 of his councils he had not yet experienced with my lineage thousands so from the perspective of each specialist the perspective of organization and the palace II know that you know why aren't you learning why you why you why you just doing you know I've laid the plowing the field so he took a very stern act in other words from this each thousands perspective there is you know punishment and this precedent Evora came out the thirteenth year he went through a transcendence in other words it's not about it's not about the world began anew interruption that Shimon went through a transcendence and he in that 13th year accomplished when my lemme specialist and therefore it was all rough for me so he's added to changed I think it's a phenomenal insight full of blame and all of these all of the year that if it is the cup half full or half empty the same idea do you look at the world with a right eye positive with a left side negative do you look at the corona plague as only negative whether you look at it that they try to find the positive in it etc etc and that's why the de mother says that there was a difference in his attitude the 12 between 12 to 13 this also explains an overall question that is asked is there a connection between the tongue neither the students of rebbi akiva the mother says the school of mustard stop dyeing on them a lot blamin right until then like novel covers ever said they didn't they did not respect each other since they didn't respect each other therefore they died came along like boa and it stopped so the question is what happened my blaming someone to say what happened is that they well they started to respect each other thank you but what took place not buying but that made them make that change so there ever has his his his idea on this it's and many his Cephas but I want to connect it to what was said earlier and that is that I'm not blaming you know that as B was one of the five comida five students prominent students of Rabbi Akiva but before we answer the question how there's another question which you all have you know the question how could you say we noble puppets represent how he saved these great rabbis and said he could didn't respect each other and you know so the explanation that they're ever gives in his talks is that that they were all they all had maecenas nefesh for their Rebbe Rabbi Akiva each one said I am brother yet kiba's man I'm holding his flag what's his flat love ABBA the other one said Laura and the third one said Rafa me and because they were real students they said not only am I going to carry the flag of whatever whatever approach I believe is my readies approach I'm gonna try to convince the other person because real Messina Snapfish means it's you like we've been learning in the memorandum it's you becomes you if it becomes you you you you share it with you like you you can't control yourself it's you so you go to someone else that you say you know your approach of cavora is not where it's at because our Rebbe is about alva and the other student says sorry my friend I'm a student of rebbi akiva too and I seek Laura and this is how they got in heads and how they got into fights and how they didn't like each other like never covered Zabuza so it's because of their mysterious nefesh but at the end of the day at the end of the day this was no good and they died because of it why because if you really have to see the snappers for your Rebbe you understand just as with Hakodesh birth hole he has room for different approaches the rebbi akiva our read the osha has room for different approaches you know and don't tell me that either keepers only tested or only before and only rifleman and that was their mistake so basically what is it that that bahama reminds us of what what is about the the students are really key for the mistake they made and the realization that they came to at a certain point is that there's a sense of synthesis of all their approaches and that there's understand you should tolerate all approaches and not just tolerated but all approaches are as long as within Tyra they were all acceptable with so now comes that must be who is what a student and a primary student of Rabbi Akiva he realized that he realized that staying in a minor being in a cave for 12 years and coming out and coming out and burning up the world because there is a a divisive this is a breakdown in other words when it when Sydney came out of the cave of the cave the first time after 12 years he was like the students of Rabi Akiva prelab boiler where he couldn't put the two together and this is nurse B that's B I mean it's a phenomenal insight that even a person like that has B nevertheless was in a certain box a very holy box they don't see no C could you imagine Plato's same they'll say his work is his job but all of a sudden he says my tiger everyone has to be tailored NOSSA NOSSA tika mother says they tried and they failed and they told them sorry had they tried it that doesn't work you're an exception that's why I went back the thirteenth year he reached he reached transcendence and it realized that impractical words what did he realize he realized that that's not the Mahalo that's not the approach extremism to exclude anything else is wrong and dangerous and unhealthy etc so he brought them together and that's why specifically I'll have but laymen when there's the kedusha and I know that you might be thinking became after the the the the the stopping of the dying of the students first of all I we have to look at it I don't know historically if that's the case it might be the case of the years but even if it is the de la primer at the represent when you discuss live when it's called are you sure a good day of good news it's not that it became good news 500 years ago the day you test kissless from creation was a day of good news and when was it revealed the revelation of it was 500 years ago but the essence the essence of the day is is is what support has been defecation and the same idea the same that CUDA is with life bahama because the energy of black diamond is the simple be the yummy Lula and what is the rush be represent bringing together the two coven and that's how he came out in the thirteenth year white came out in the thirteenth year so this air was realized by the talmud arabic eva a lot women that's why they specifically possible levels they didn't stop dying I love whatever this is based on the way I believe he understands this whole issue okay so turn off turn off mute your the things basically the literature world by and large celebrates and on the stands must be to be you know title title no see so the way to celebrate Ida is to learn more tied to be the simplified Pater so that's why there is overall overall as a generality no doggish no emphasis on you know raise the bonfire jumping and singing but I want to tell you I was telling this to my wife you should know in Chabad in years ago not today when I was growing up I don't remember any I don't remember any bonfires only like blame a day like blame atanga we went to the park maybe there was a bonfire but at night nothing and the river on the middle of the week he would go to the oil and him come back and makeup up rain gonna say a Miami casitas and it was very you know was an animated spirited time but it wasn't anything one of them okay so in fact I heard that when they were Bobby jealousy them of Tel Aviv afar Chabad going back to the 50s would go they would rent a bus and they would go up to to me wrong it was various a very prostitution serious atmosphere it was no jumping and no shifting glance and that wasn't part of the job you know but but Hasidic the polish Hungarian Hasidic were always more animated because as you know the overall notion of what we quote I see their car gas I see them of classic words which means Polish citizen Hungarian fussing if the other brother for Citigroup they're all more into the emotions so the emotion is calls for dancing and singing so that's just on a philosophical idea which which played itself out in the real world does you identified earlier but I must tell you that today you just put on the screen and watch these zooms the different things everyone okay maybe maybe hardcore Luther fish are not there but you know everyone else's everyone is else is and I was thinking actually about this yesterday you'll need to you that you know this corona like we spoke about earlier what positive think that we have from it you know so everyone has their answer but one of the thoughts I had was it's brought together a lot of people it's brought together a lot of opposites and really you know to have a sock burr and and and and Flatbush yesterday there was a hot seller thong I don't know if you saw it or you gonna see it today it was actually run out of crumb Heights and you know they raised several million dollars and you know it was a you know Tula Baba jurors who and a flat was guy and and and everyone was together and the singers and the performers and then it was just it felt very very optimistic it really did it really did and I think that you know you talk about you know the width which take for example the politic you know at the end me us a frog over there simple story vignettes eras they sing the ballot on isn't again and they said some wonderful now she I mean I mean you know the high coefficient is because yeah the Rebbe is digging some local now she I mean in 1980 if you sent some of or not she in politics they beat you up or threw you out I mean that's that's that's reality okay I'm telling you reality so and here the whole dais of kanasu Shiva are singing the lebara cherub is making everyone knows that some of the Phenom she is not the outer embers and they get enough to free the crab isn't again but who's naked hi boss yet whoever has the commute you make your my please they they so what do we see there is office and I write about this and you know it really it's really interesting to see because as a student of history so many things have changed again I don't know panini Asst you know previous what's going on in the heart is another discussion you know I think you know I spoke to this group of Marius wrote of students a few weeks ago they asked me the book that about the Chabad of the yeshiva world so one of the master following and I thought it was an interesting observation it's an obvious observation but that he voiced it and we discussed it he says do you think it's right for people speak negative against Habad to benefit from them when they travel by eating him their about houses and restaurants and if they need a bed he says isn't that hypocrisy that was the question so outwardly it is hypocrisy it is about to see you go and stab someone in the back and then you smile at them you look I mean that's like such a terrible terrible neither terrible but but the flip side is what's the flip side the flip side is that issues that are in sight you know plea Mia's that's between them and the a burster between them in a shed and this was the Revis attitude it's not believer and it's a day of he name I tell you whom I know you Michelle visage we've got nothing how good it is to sit together and be or one it really the rep it was this way you can't imagine you can't imagine how many people behind the back of Labov each and their ever spoke negative I'm talking about years ago and outwardly they smiled and they even came to the red but to be Menachem Evelyn I mean I know names and I know fast and I'm not gonna tell you okay but I could document what I'm saying I'm not just throwing it out there I could tell you which rabbi in which rob and what he said and when he said okay but that's that's not relevant that's not relevant what's relevant is that he's here now he st. Sholem Aleichem and he's acting like a mensch and he's being friendly Alvis is wrong the fact that behind the back he has other feelings that's between him our show and they're ever I we know because it was it was a it was like a a question by us this and this person who has told his students to act in this way and not to go to God cam Conyers row or not to go to afar bringin and we know that he said it because we were told by students who heard it and and you greet him and you smile at him and you accept them that was our ever a person of a bus you saw that's real ours is low and that's what there's be accomplished on the 13th year that's what I mean with transcendence transcendence means that even your enemy your foe your you know the person who is bad-mouthing you you you respond with Alva Cicero and that's what the alternate assessment beta gamma base and Tonya little myth Miguel said vehicle to learn to know so with his brothers that's what it means here the brothers were so terrible to him and what does Joseph do as mothers so that's the very very well and it was so beautiful those beautiful yes yes yes so there's you know there there is a very different and also one of the things that you mentioned you know the literature and Omer yummy so at the same group a few of the boys a few these students for the intro asked me about what do I think about neo have citizen so I thought he's referring to you know Chester's the Alpha citizens of the 70s and 80s it was referring to have moisture Weinberger who who you know had this debate with this literature of whether you know why you stood this Modern Orthodox you know getting involved with with H coalition Moshe Weinberger and other groups you know and being kind of the shivers lit finish a modern but yet benefiting from Hasidic and these guys were asked to be seriously about it and you could I could see them and they were exactly the types that I would be with you know say you know we're not ready to become a full closet but we love the facility of warmth and we want even learned some considers that them some other in some Tonya's some breslav considers to the point being that there there really is there really is the change and I want to make another important point even about the hardcore let's folks let me tell you something you can't imagine how many of them have learned the Rebbe Cephas I don't mean all the sickness they've you know that tell me the phenomena they've seriously looked into the sickness and Tania and guess what some of them say over things from Tanya and and Cephas to the Tammy do without mention your name rabbi gift her oversaw her monthly gifts different Cleveland tells tow told his students and and and we know it several times that he used to get the Labov accent the the booty sickness when it came out as pamphlets every week to our above him and Russia Shiva in the United States all over maybe worldwide too and he got him in Cleveland and he was Linda and he said it's Kaval the Catena rabbi gift there if he tells who later you know was known that as a friend of Labov ik nevertheless he learned seriously you know sickness of the rabbit does that mean that it became a closet no okay this does not mean that he you know he sided with them rush after in the eighties and nineties yes but that's not the point the point is and it's not just the package today was another Bitterman you know popular the Torah brother be terminus trust me a lot of hardcore the trucks are doing that so we have to emphasize only a lot blamer the after she throw that were all that work one people and not allow you know the the differences to to be you know to to impact us you know I recall that everyone said this was about the Israeli Parliament that politics and then I remember the other second said when you come to the table but he's talking about to those that have that had a tone of you don't discuss issues that you know you have major differences about because you have arguments you won't get anywhere talk about the things you have in common the things you have in common you could you can make make a lot a lot of office and this is happening today today Moshe she a lot that his banana Shiva group has eight hundred probably now more taking you know get take it learning classless and getting taking tests and getting prizes and getting money you know and you know what happens you dismiss live I mean I'm telling you it's it's reaching Popovich its fishings slop Orca it's reaching near now is it you know is it out there is it obvious probably not unless you come to thee the ilis a frog in Pune like I told you before at the end you know accomplished me yes but overall there's an onion of Alice I want to work for a few minutes you still have some time talk about the bomber before we spoke about but there ever when he went boom it was during the week you know what he did he went to the oil that he came in Maine if I bring it and it was pretty quiet otherwise in in Crown Heights but when there was a lot going a parade it was on Sundays I believe the first parade was a night 43 in the 40s there were several parades who ran those parades the Frieda canoe you know wasn't well enough to run those parades it was there ever he appointed our Dever who you know spoke English you know a better English than others and he had him kind of be in charge and then he worked with Rabbi Yaakov you who the health and health and Rabbi Goldstein Yossi Goldstein the father of the goal team of San Diego that was shot you know they were like the leaders of the parade and at the parade in those days you could see so many children from public schools that attended and that really was the gist of the of the parade was to show leadership hinder Jewish children who hadn't didn't go yet to talk to the Jewish day schools or yeshivas the beauty of of Yiddish kite and I know I believe I heard from from someone you know shall I'm actually a few years ago and I was there that he and his brother became from not because of the parade but because of a release time releas time was Wednesday afternoons were these the city allowed the Jewish children to be take taking out a class for an hour that's why I was called released time they were released and to study you describe and who taught them the LaBarbara buffer although you should know that in the 40s and 50s when this started crime Berlin turvy das is she the university jakob Yosef all the Shiva's dozer ships not all the achievers but those achievers sent had representatives rabbi Hef was very smart he didn't want it to be and will defeat the could ever that ever it shouldn't be a lebarge thing and those days they wanted it to be quale everyone together how do you do that you get representatives from eg Siva so we have the names and we have pictures and I put it into one of my books of you know the representative form for why you you know difficult other than find the linen and and they had meetings and they brought children and they were involved so one of them told me that Rabbi Moshe fellows owns a consultant of Minnesota the Apple is there a motion you know took him and his brother out in release time and they learnt in a in either in an intern of Abbas in Williamsburg and went back to the 50s 57 58 56 and and they learned together and that's how they became true that's what he told me and right right so so the idea of the lab under parade was to bring all these children that throughout the year and you know I mean you know the children in the 40s attended release time 10,000 but has the lists it's not above myself 10,000 because most of many most Jewish children attended public schools 40s and 50s so the you know the release time program was a very powerful one once a year they made once a year they had the Alamo Lucas gathering where they came and the rebus spoke to them and then when la bomba came out on Sunday they made a parade and that's why if you see any old pictures you'll see the children look at them and the signs and you could pick up you know I know successful dish that is you again it wasn't only and then listed in the 60s and 70s there was more from your cheapness and all that so they also became part of the life moment experience so once at one of the 1940s La Cueva parades the feeder could ever said like this he said we know that Friday night Labov ichabod our new circus we don't save a some room and the almost everyone else says rashaam bro and this is you know you know like in the front world in the tower world is like you don't save a shrub rule it's like outrageous it's such a powerful important Fela and here you go you love averages well first of all they don't know but I believe if the check I think it's minute that girl if anyone knows tell me I think the minute that garage also not to say the show me Friday night well Babbage is not the only ones okay so but but so you know it's a few but but by and large most even to save the shuttle so they they they asked out that ever why did you put it into the siddur right it's in the city it's in the lebar but you said to the after that business up but we don't say it so there's a reason for it I think has to do with that I believe it was about ditch the of it no small do you remember the the story right so I think I'll today because of that the after ever put it into the city but but but what what you know what right because really if the prediction he was his wooden butt perhaps it right okay yeah all right okay yeah smooth right but the reason that what that ever says now that ever says you shouldn't say it if it's the citadel of interruption between the end of the brush even though much monitoring so doctoral but others disagree it's just the shock of the out there ever so he puts it in but we don't say it and then dr. ever said but they said that lady it's luck your makhotin the great solid he said it and what he didn't think so they also the out that ever said nice stuff yet that you need chemin concen one cannot dance at each and every marketplace so you need like a marketplace sometimes you can make it to a marketplace and sometimes you can't even though it's a great marketplace so the three that can ever said listen to this about the parade in the 1940s that they never let he said he saw how that ever was was so beautifully leading the parade and how special it was he says the out that ever said nice stuff yet they give heed Kenneth Townsend and the Freda could ever said of daddy and he Kenan Thompson but for this marketplace ie the legume a parade we can all dance that that's how touched he was by the by the beautiful parade at the parade later on they started to make floats and I myself was a few times on these floats because you needed people on the floats and the floats would go by the service lane right in front of 770 what they did is they built a a bhima platform coming down from the steps of 770 with red carpet and they would they would stay with romaine would introduce the rabbit before it the rabbit came out then they would sing Ali Mahmoud I think they would sing on him I'm in a very touching soothing you know not Imam and then one - lady the old anima an imam in on that that honey mommy and then the rebel all of a sudden started to comment totally you know uh unassuming and he just walked straight to his place he spoke to her behalf a few words and and the program started so after they said the twelve it's okay you know the Rebbe initiated the saying of the twelve looking for children and others not just children adults also but primarily children after that and you could see by the way when the children said that sukham you could see the rebus lips movie he would say that cooking with them and after that after that the floats started to go by and it brought a lot of smiles to the river why me some floats were you know dis myths for this myths for this idea but I remember I was on one float I forget what the female float was but one of the people on the float is shy but a foolish Elena is not presumed he's in the hospital today he was you know quite quite heavy but he was a character and a likable character at 770 everyone know about him and he was the Baker I forget maybe Meg was matzo I think maybe was rolling the matzo and I remember he was it was rolling the matzo and I read the smile so much to him into anyone but it it brought out you know it was very real very human what we saw was like the human part of their ever with you you know many times you didn't see it you saw a holiness and you're so tired and everything else but this was it was such a the sun is shining it's spring it's not too hot it's not too cold everyone's chilled everyone's relaxed everyone's happy time you know and and the Reverend self is laughing and clapping and waving then when children went by on the float who had their up Sharon right what button would do up Sharon they're able to go about this with hands like this in other words he he participated with the children and then another thing that I that I just realized the other day once for everybody have and so and after and after the whole all the floats and the marching bands and which was also beautiful and they had the fire department come with the fire trucks it was all production it was a two-hour production or so so at the end rabbie half with you know again you know speak about this but by the age of the Reverend you know any I mean he had a certain way Fela treat if you heard right behalf he had a a way of flattery but it was done with I believe taste then and and and and and and smart and a smart way so anyway so he's thanking everyone he's thanking this person that person this organization for all it was a massive production weeks before they were ma few months setting all of this up she's thanking everyone which is proper after you finishes their ever the mic is in front of them and he says and a special thank you to the children that the kid that the boys and their girdles and a behalfs didn't faith the boys and the girls and to me the way I heard it is that ever was saying rabbi heft it was a good friend you know the represent us it he said don't forget yes the floats are important and the firemen are important and the councilmen are important but the EK the primary thing about blamed by the either she kinder and they deserve the face so he didn't he didn't tell her heck what you saying this wrong it he just made that comment that I just shared with you and and and and then he left and then he did anyone back to to this office see with update you know the carpet and he went into the 770 and that was that was that then after this segment of the parade finished the buses took us to a stadium small stadium which the in the back of a public school on Kingston Avenue towards Kings County Hospital and I remember this who childhood there we have lunch and we you know and they have and they had clowns and they had a show and it was a very light mint and the red was go to the oil like I told you so the river he went the Reber went on the weight that oily would stop at the car would come into the to the grounds of the stadium and he would look around if I'm inside the car he didn't get out he drove around looked around and he spoke there of a half then and then he went to the oh hell so this is a synopsis of the the special day of lock Vollmer the way was celebrated the last 4050 years in in in 770 in Crown Heights with the river when we had the lap-band parades and it was it was very very special then I one one one last thing in 1973 or so I think okay there was supposed to be a parade and for some reason they had invited politicians and the river didn't want that and they had done it already and the rebus said shabbos before Sunday's the parade the river for brain Chavez and he said I cannot come out to the parade I cannot be part of the Simca of the rush be and we were devastated it was like tisha but for us for some reason I don't know the I don't know what was going on there but at that year he didn't want he didn't want like politician I can understand you know when you want to be in a culture of openness and easy and chilled and relaxed you don't need politicians coming and each one positioning himself to show his face you know but for whatever reason they already invited them and the politicians were planning on coming you know and it would be too late I think to not to invite them so there are basically said you could do whatever you want but I cannot participate so that too is a lesson what's the lesson that when there is when there is a godliness that's apparent and what going there today is that there you should know for breakfast especially associated with children and marriage and should do them today is the day there are people that can tell you that gay got breakfast from Siddiq if not just the by the church but to other to be throughout the generations on a day like this especially in kebab because the story of the myth of rabbits not getting behind that he gave breakfast and all that so today is a very special day 2000 Fela for again children if one wants more children on have children yet or should do him today's the day today's day and kadai desimilus behold you can rely on up shinmin you can lie on that ever you can find it's a deacon today they're going to give you the brother so um it's still you know the middle of the day it doesn't get dark too late really think about this and and and saying that you kept it until him and learn something give some extra sadaqa for this host and also those people if even we have children we have to do them other people don't it's it's it's a day of tila a story that i just heard from a friend of mine is that the 1984 the the they decided their couples that want the children instead of them waiting at 770 that when the rabbit came they would they would ask that should do it at the rebus house so this friend of mine was a point that he was a coin dealer mom to keep orders of the people enough you know running over and falling over each other and all that anyway their ever gets into his car it comes out of his house it gets into his car and the entire way from his door to the car to 20 minutes because people were asking for breakfast people know and I'm not talking about just the Babbage's you know Cassie them and whoever whoever knew and and had respect for their Eva's brother Kane anyway rather get finally at this car one guy see this guy like a Satmar pushed himself into the towards the window and I think the rapper rolls the window down he sees oh no he pushed himself into the door not allowing the door to close and my friend was afraid that it might crush him because the pressure was great so he held the door right that's right I did out the book it's when I grab a book it's a brother he's a friend of mine anyway so so he's standing there and he's holding the door and the sacrifice it says that ever a brother in debate the brother in there I asked her blessings to have children he had the children was married for several years so he the reticence gives a brother and he's about to go away that ever says again I don't remember exact words but he says no he needs a someone to play with or to talk to it forget exactly smoother delude Olustee but and out the book it says that he didn't get it but remember it was a lot of pressure and a lot of trouble right so he you know he got the UM me he got the brush on his foot you back up go away and go on and then I would then said to him he'll need someone he'll need someone can play with ya a playmate right yeah yeah so so so finally if rather repeating it two or three times he says that was the same on me at the Sukkot joke on me never systems up on me say on me so finally says oh my woman you know the southern Oman and a year to two later wait that's the 1984 then 13 years later is 94 97 book it was that without the book was at the i/o and it see the Sackler and that very few people are there so he has the courage to go over to me says you know like I'm expect you to be what are you doing here you know like what are you doing here you know even go to the Sackler ever in Monroe escaping what are you doing here say he stopped and he saw she saw he saw that at the oil in the oil by the rebus seein he tells us to boys to take out of mind the Mimer the bar mitzva my mer and say the permits of my mer add the idol of front of the rebels caver and they did it so they came out he says you know this is very interesting what are you you know what's going on say tell and ome says anything that he takes a look at him it says wait a minute were you by any chance in my 1984 black blamer by the car the rep asked before Broadway says yes and he says this is the result of my brother and it's a book it says and I was the person holding the door city crush you they took a look at so yeah it's you it's you it's you so he 30 he had two boys two twins and they came to the oil he said these are the rebels kinder that's not boiler so everyone here you have to understand that the day is a great great day in this whole engine it's real behind a bizarre help that we should have talked to can I touch it man listen the color that the mother says that Shimon is worthy to rely on him and he's going to bring Michelle because after 13 years in the Myra he came out to be the second to correct the world to heal the world which should be so in our life in a judicial way in a good way in a healthy way and when she talked to SEMA she off the cotton Amish