Kissing & Hugging: Difference and their expression in serving G-d - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin #2

okay so emphasizes specifically so is why does he why does he emphasize that all action he's talking about that the M the action you know brings out the the connection of spirit to Spirit so that's why I'm emphasizing it's very nice to do action to put on but that's yourself okay it's myself the point of here being the action that comes from doing for someone else and that's why he puts he says that more specic specifically look at his language says is the right hand of God metaphorically speaking now here he introduces a new word that we haven't had in chapter this is an actual Embrace until now we're speaking about the kiss now says the hug so chapter 45 gives you the hug actually we already had it in chapter 4 what is the hug when you Embrace someone you embrace them from the outside he or she Embraces you from the outside you embrace them from the outside the kiss is a very inner type of a issue it's a kiss coming from your inside to the other person's inside which by the way I don't know if anyone ever told you but by in particular I would say when they when there's a Sim not when they didn't see each other they would like kiss each other you know you know and and I've seen people like back off and say wait wait wait wait a second and it's like they get a little uh grossed out you know you the truth is in many European countries it's natural right and in metal metal many North North North African countries it's normal but I would say that by and and especially by this was a very deep message between the two people you know two friend it's like they gave each other a kiss it was like I love you and I'm one with you we we're we're we're all one you know what I'm saying but he's talking now about the embrace the embrace the Embrace has an advantage too the Embrace is from the outside but it's all of you right it's the embrace you embrace all of the person M action is demonstrative of all of God Torah learning is one part your mind your mouth thought is also one part action is even if I don't have the depth and I don't have the words but I I'm able to do the action I'm embracing you God and you're embracing me so that's what adds here so remember when you do you're bringing you're bringing into the experience the hug it's actual as it says God's right right Embraces me and when you study with with words and thought deep thought thought so adds the word Mish there is in other words there within each of these three things thought speak te an action there is the kiss the kiss aspect of it and there is the hug aspect of it however in torah's study in deor and the emphasis there is the kiss the pus the understanding and in action the emphasis the the hug although there's there is a um an ancillary aspect of of of kiss also in in in in in in in action but what's primarily emphasized is the hug let's finish this is how we can a person could come to this abundant love his Godless Li revealed in his Hearts elsewhere in other words one one point that's important the purpose of the mercy that we spoke about arousing Mercy On The Godly spark that's in you it's in is to invoke the a yob redeems AB but at the end of the day it's a that makes the Mitzvah s on high The Soaring on high as it says in cabala that he quoted in chapter 40 39 and 40 is a now basically is the beginning you know hey you before you can approach God you got to be a servant you got to listen right once you listen now I want to make it go upward I want to make it count for that you need AA chapter 45 says and this is why he concludes that here we're employing ra as a way to trigger a that's why it's um tomorrow if you know if I'm a able I'll let you know I'm up early I would like to have the class if the thing goes late tonight night and you know I'm exhausted or you know so then I'll let you know that we're not okay but right now let's say there is class what what's the what's the's last name wanski w i l a n s k Why will Lansky from Miami uh there are some in Miami yeah but uh no they're from the parents are from Canada from Montreal but again he's a Brooklyn boy she is Rabbi hendel who was the chief RV of kabad in Montreal was passed on he was a Survivor he was one of the nine students that the previous sent to Montreal 1942 to start the LA community in theaba Rabbi hendel this is a daughter of his who now is my M um the's mother yeah anyway I wish I would be there with you to celebrate together but we're we're there is I kiss you and you kiss me and I hug you you hug me have a great day ma only Sim only Sim only Sim byebye byebye