King during Elul wants to Hear from Us

okay so we're uh good morning on page 15 uh the last page of this mimer malibi the last nakuda from this is from the previous level the last point that ever made in yesterday's uh share was that the middle that are prevalent during the month of elul are to arouse a person to do key roof to himself and also to those that are distant so last night my wife said to me at the during dinner say i did say it say something or something so i shared that this this nakuda and said that i never you know learned it and heard it said the way the previous rapper says in this mimer so it was a new a new twist and a very interesting and important one so this is what we learned yesterday and now we're gonna that ebb is going to bring the famous muscle of mel basilda the king of the field to support his nakuda his point let's see what he says so this is uh three six seven lines from the top in the middle of the page [Music] seven lines from the top and it's the word middle of the line it says how muscle bizet the muscle for the to explain better the idea that we just discussed the hamilah question here before the king comes to the city here the people of the city leave the city lacrosse towards him they hear that the king is coming today to the field so they leave their homes which is in the city and they go out to the field to greet him cobbling part of the soda and where do they receive the free king not in this ear rather in the field those and when that takes place they are able i'm sorry they're permitted and all not only are they permitted via them they're able to in other words the permission given by the king for them to make their request that itself gives them the kayak to be able to make the request if the king would not would say you cannot make a request even if they had kayak to make a request the request would not be great would not be looked at because the king says it's the wrong time i'm not accepting and not accepting requests that's why you need both things that's number one the king says now is the time when you can make a request but the king could say that my but if you don't have the kayak to make the request so nothing will come from the fact that the king says you can make a request that's why the rebbe adds the achilles the fact that the king says you can make your request now that gives the the petitioner the ability to make the request this is a very important point and and points this out because this is the dish of the friday i think i believe the island is not in the original muscle i think if you look into the altered ebb as mimer anili deity on page 32 of the cutie taylor and pasha sir a and you look at the muscle i don't think you'll see the achilles and the frida kahler when he's reviewed these my mother he adds the word vichailen and i'm explaining now what is the hidden of adding the word via limb and here's another way of thinking of it even say even if you had clef to make a request but it would be your request based on who you are and if that's the case we're in trouble but when the king says now is the time to make a request and then you make a request so you're going on the shoulders of the king jonasson please turn jonathan please mute you're down you're innocent please mute [Music] [Applause] oh i did i did okay i think if you press it i got it okay i'll cope on him uh so what are we learning here that the the the petitioners request has been created because of the king so now when i make a request it's not tom dick and harry making a request because if i'm going to make a request and yesterday i was tom dick and harry and tomorrow i'm going to be tom dickineri so it's it's it's it's pathetic so and we want our request should be a strong request that's why the rabbit says the fact that the king says now is the time to make a request and then you make a request you're making a request because the of the king and then your request is a king's request which leads us to another thought don't waste your request and this sometimes a very big issue an important issue where we have the right moment right it's an ace lesson but we squander it we make a request for nothing and stupidities and we had an opportunity at that moment to make the best and deepest requests and we wasted it asking for ice cream the famous marshall brought in the medusa's the king has a son and the son is spoiled and the king says this son needs a kick in his pants he has to become a mensch he sends them away far away and one day and years go by and he hasn't seen his father he forgets about his father and years go by and wherever he's living they notify the people the king from the city is coming anyone that has a request of the king now is the time and everyone goes and writes their requests and there and you have to throw it into the wagon of the king and the king will read it and grant your requests to this fellow the son who didn't know that it's his father because he was so far and so distant so he goes also and he makes a request and he writes in the request i'm a shepherd with sheep and it's very hot outside many times do me a favor make for me a hut if you can build me a little hut so that i can go in and get some shade and cool off and then continue going out and leading the sheep king i'll i'll be thankful to you and the king picks up this piece of paper and he starts reading and he starts crying and crying and crying because he realizes that the handwriting is his son's handwriting and why is he crying he should be happy his son made a request but his son didn't know that he's the father so what's the request he makes of the king build me a little dinky hut instead of saying king reunite me with my father who i haven't seen in years that's the muscle the nimshil is make sure that when you make your request you make the right request don't waste your request because if you have ways to request one second if you waste your request class for show them you'll have to wait another year till the king comes to make your request so don't waste your requests on ask the king that you want to be reunited with him if you want if you're going to be reunited with the king you're going to get your ice cream you're going to get your hut you're going to get everything because he's your father yes in the in the short x-ray right by before modem right there's there's a place to put in a personal request right so is that supposed to be the same you're supposed to ask for the same thing let's say hospital someone needs that is it okay to do the same request over and over again or it's better in the three two lists to ask for different things because what you're saying now is be careful of your request so i don't know well but i understand you're saying first of all what you're mentioning is not something to be flaunted and done left and right every prayer that's not what what what the sages had in mind okay it doesn't mean i have to stick in something when it comes to schmackaleno that's not what it means what it means is that if you are under the gun and under pressure and and and you're really broken and you want to talk to the abrasive that's the place in chabad we don't do that we don't do that not because it's forbidden in halal it's not but it's not not done so and not just but again if a person feels about that they need to talk that would be the place so that answers your question it's not something you have to do three times every three seven days a week but once in a while if you if you know what i'm saying and what's the reason the monastery itself is the best is the best prayers for requesting health partners and like what everything's incorporated so rather why not just stick to to the words of the sages the the answer who were misakin tvilla who established the prayers okay i want to go back to the text i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i know you want to i know you want to go back to the text maybe maybe this is not the time to ask i'm curious let me know this question why why is it but and this is not a criticism there's not an attack question i'm asking for information careful about not changing the text and language of hazal of of yeah of hazal and including the answer that they had a special kedusha that they put into every word of the of davening and hence we we put our thoughts into their words but again if someone feels that they have to talk out with their own mouth in their own words caller kavod you know so it's not it's not a violation of okay i'm saying it clearly it's not a violation but generally speaking this answers your question or addresses it at least the overall mahalik is the key state to the words of the answer the same issue and jonathan might know more from his days into ferriss and morristown but my understanding i think tell me if i'm wrong you said is that the bacharam the balchuva bakarim were encouraged to davan in hebrew understandably till in the beginning probably not but the the the mahalak the shifa the the the derek that we were going at was not the dhaba in english but the darwin hebrew and you'll say but why i don't understand what i'm davening because the words themselves are are accurate and yeah this is an expression the vertex zen and zees the words themselves are sweet so what you have in makshava you should have in your maksha when you thought whatever you think whatever is on your mind but go through the filter of the words of answer now there are certain trilos for example hatharis nadarim and i've mentioned this over the years to you where you're doing not just the thriller you're doing kind of you're doing the mitzvah you're doing an element of vowels if you don't understand what you're saying you happen to know the vowels so over there and i've seen this i've been where people will get up and read it in english and they sometimes can read hebrew but they want to understand what they're saying they have a besden whether it be three or ten we custom ourselves with ten many others only do three but regardless you want the best then to unknow your vowels and you don't understand what you're saying so at that time it's very important to say in a language that you do understand it but most other times when you don't have that requirement holiday it's best to keep to the language now if a person you know i again it was very funny i think i told you two weeks ago this person who decided to sit next to me by the way minion where i'm coming from now and he was continuously speaking to himself in english and in hebrew it's going on and on and on whatever that's the way he dives i mean you know happened to be next to me drove me mad because he was good he was buzzing in my ear the whole time but i don't know again you know i didn't do i didn't do a study uh on a test whether he's psychologically say insane or insane but i'm not i'm just saying you know i'm just saying that uh that if a person feels that they need to talk it out talk it out but overall we we we use that feeler and that's why moshe's all the it points to to the importance of of knowing what what you're doing in other words if you know what you're davening if you know the meaning of what you're daving i promise you you will find in the words of of governing the deepest feelings of the heart that are bothering you at that time i'm telling you let's say let's say hallelujah man you know has their thoughts and god laughs and says oh really right rabbits mushroom is blevish you know how much you can put into that line you know how much thought and feeling and emotions that one line talks to us just you gotta you gotta be you have to slow down and think about it belevish in thought remember i told you it's the thought after saying it much thought what am i thinking all day i'm thinking there's something convincing this and at the end of the day i make the krishna meet and i say look how god basically laughed at me with all my thinking and everything it went the other way so what that i'm saying and and so you you have the words themselves are the best tool to express so you need to talk about reform stop and think but and you in other words if you don't verbalize then or later the name of the person you still have made the request for the foreshalema for whoever is ill now we know when it comes to uh there is the misha beta the misha beta and here's i'm glad you brought it up and especially so i don't know if you guys are the ones in charge of the misha betas but regardless the misha beta sometimes becomes a a party it becomes a party it's like a half an hour for misha betas you know you know every day every monday thursday in shabbos you know everything has to be again that's a congregational thing between the rabbi the god by the the congregants but you know i saw with there ever there were certain times he wanted a mission better to be made so misha beta has a serious time and it's the right time to make the request for the fool for a person by the tater so you so you only going back to your question it's not that the rabbit could have done it during schmonastery macaleno and again i don't know what he did about schmuck linda but i don't think because you know we saw him diving and it seemed like he just went you know from one brother to the other and again in chabad we don't generally do that so he probably did not do that but when it came to when it came to ki satya there was a time for misha veda there was a time for me shabbat and amisha beta is is is a very important time especially to answer our main and that's why the god that we're making sure better say it with a a tone that people the other end of the show can hear because you want the yid who's sitting all the way in the back and age kodash to be able to say a main to the misha beta that's made by the bhima and if you say it quietly the person doesn't hear so that person doesn't get domain for the refusal aim from that person and maybe and maybe just maybe that's the person who we need to answer a main for the reverse layman because we don't know so there are times when it's it's expressive and it's important to have the machine are we frozen no we're back okay let's go back into the text um did i did i dress your thing well yeah thank you appreciate it okay thank you okay so now he says that the melody is by soda and he greets everyone but upon him your face he receives everyone with a happy countenance um and he smiles to everyone this is also an important point smile greet someone even if you're in a crummy mood smile and sometimes it's hard and i have to talk to myself you know you're not in the mood you know if you're there to greet someone you better smile otherwise don't come out stay in your bedroom stay in your bathroom stay home you're going outside you're a gabai you're a shamish you're a rabbi you're a congregant la smile again you don't have to make it into you know kissing and hugging and dancing you know if you want to do that and that's fine but be a mensch smile and be warm you know let's continue oh the lester hair now he's been in the field we've made our requests it's time to say goodbye charlie uh he goes back to the city [Music] why first he's the king there are ferrets number two they want to get into the palace they don't want to remain in the field you know why because they are on here we are on shahir very important hillel where do we come from when we talk about melaka the only thing right but who are we we're not southern people you guys yeah this is very important to realize from the marshall we are ear people we are here we're city people we went temporarily into the field to greet the king in in a venue which is open and welcoming for this meeting but then we have to go back home to our city so the king goes back to his palace and we follow him because we want to get into [Music] you can't get into the palace to the king only with big preparation and permission of afghans voice and even after preparing yourself and going to the mikvah and doing this your exercise and putting on your tie and making your hair rock people get to go in to the king's palace even though you've prepared yourself nevertheless nevertheless you need permission from the king and who gets permission you might we might if we are you understand doesn't mean to say you have to be someone who learns shocks to get into the king that's that's the simple way of interpreting it you know special people chosen people we mean to say we have to make ourselves into yehides gula and if we make ourselves into privileged people then we'll get into the king but you have to have gone and to and become the status of yahidis shalom thirteen attributes of mercy illuminate everyone you have to arouse first the acceptance of hashem's yoke similar to going out to the field to receive the king so listen to this covenant what we have a muscle going out to the field to greet the king what is the nimsho for that part of the muscle you understand that ever says the nimshil is the kabbalah soil the the willingness to accept and to submit to hashem is analogous to us willing to go out to the field to greet the king so that's the marshall and that's the name show well the ms in nicolo avoided the hello truthfully speaking the entire avoid of this month of ello ayno ella [Music] right when is the day of kabbalah the day of judgment when is the day of young kipper you can hell from today till tomorrow and greet the king in the field and dance and sing but when is there a decision rosh this was the beginning this is the name of this mimer hashem my heart says search for the face as in their avoiderly keys but darth man zuch and dipnemius in these yiddish words there ever wraps up the the bottom line when looking for god you have to look for pneumous if you're looking for the superficial you don't have hashem you have uh emanations of hashem you have forms descriptions but if you want hashem for nai you have to search for the panemius means my face and also means the panemias how can yes could you just translate the industries as in their avoidality that in the service in the godly service badarthman we must zuchin search the pneumous the inner aspect of hashem and this search who i avoided when is the time to search during davening which is called the service of the heart lee is feeling because the heart is made to make the the world we're in abode a dwelling for hashem so in other words when you darven we're talking about in not a preparation to doubling but in davening in average the avoider is to get the heart to search for the ponemias of hashem so you need to dabble with heart so again i want to make sure it's clear we discussed in the minor not only this minor but many times the importance of his bonniness and absolutely but his bonanus is in the cup in the mind in the head right you think with your brain with your intellect with your mind but that's that's his bonus that's remember we learned this one thing is bonanus and then there is that his bond and those triggers should trigger if it's proper his bonnie knows it to trigger feelings where are those feelings expressed in during davening through the words of davening and for some this is a very emotional experience be it through through um you know tears even though i told you yesterday mr sims i don't mean tears of that you're a sinner tears of joy but you know some people they become emotional and they express himself through tears others do through a symbol so the venue depends on who you are you can't say well you have to govern in such a manner what do you mean it's talking if you're talking about avoiding what's inside every one of us has a different insight so for one of us saying evokes elation another person evokes um regret uh frustration he said that that you know there's no script i recall zom shafter telling me that he he was in the babachi achievement and now in thailand in the early in the 40s and he was taught for the first time in his life what it means to davin and you know it was almond his big thing was governing davening he wrote about davening so he he saw these older hasidim of the rebel shab of the previous rabbis father yet knew who better would know about the avenue than these veterans from the babbage you know and he told me that each of them most of them brushed them off they would not share with him what they feel because zalman asked and point blank what am i supposed to feel here or what do you feel you know like he went he went right for the heart and they didn't tell and it upset him finally he said he got to this casa de abba vrom paris and abram paris he said was willing to tell him so he walked him through feelings from the beginning tilschmann yesterday and then he said when it came to productivity he said i can't anymore hilo did you ever hear this from him he told me this i've heard you tell us right yeah but it's good to be reminding you yeah yeah it's good to repeat it he said so when it came to schweinsteiger he said about rum said i can't take you in to absolutely i can't i can't uh i think there was another reason they didn't share with him the feelings but i'm not going to get into that right now you know he was a young he was a you know he was a not a young man but you know he was still a student he just came to khabad and here are these venerable hasidim who spent you know years davening and learning and being around the shop and khasid and this uh he was an american but this you know bright young man who's like beginning a path and wants to find god you know i could see them saying hey guy you got to humble yourself first and they wanted to break him i think that's what they really want to do they wanted to break him in the sense of causing the humility and and then they would they would they would that that he didn't say and and i didn't find this written anywhere but i think that was their thinking but what's the point why am i saying this because you know avoid the sugar left tell me what you're feeling let me tell you what you're feeling like if you you know there's there's a gemara let's go to agamura tavna the industry like us [Music] the chords of the heart man cannot write down this is regarding the edus for hakira you know when you need to have witnesses so you say witness yoni write down what you saw what you felt it says the gemara tavern of the libra the chords of the heart lois man cannot write down i can't tell you it's like yo khan i remember him once saying i cannot tell you the aura and feeling that there was during the fabregan hey rabiot khan you were the rabbi from from 1950 till the end what if you can't there's just certain things that either you were there and saw it or not right so this is i go back here when he says the hippos is through the avada sheba lev and the point of the heart is to make a dwelling for hashem on earth absolutely but that's individual and that's what paneemia says you see you'll listen paneemia is is not something that you can learn from the other person it doesn't work that way anemia says you whoever you are and the way you define and what you come to that's your opinions and that's a very important point to remember so sure we could look at someone else's dab and then we could look at a rabbi arov and a tsadec and arab and all that but at the end of the day avoid the shabbat is your own let's continue he brings in the beginning of the maya marashi on this posture came to him for you for your mission in other words search for me for you and for your mission rashford says my heart comes to me in your place saying search for me and we have the questions where what what is rashi adding with those words so the rabbit now briefly answers this refers to the quintessential pinta layit the essence of every jew that is bound naturally to the essence of hashem by you become a pure vessel the kabbalah shafa to receive the hashball the influence from hashem bracha of blessing for the entire year now you see this is one of the issues we struggle with or i struggle with is how do the last three lines address the question what does it mean it's enigmatic it's like very very esoteric so possibly and possibly what the rep is saying is we all have a mission we have and when we do this that hashem places upon us on us then we are hashem we're in the embodiment of hashem because we're doing his mission there is a sender and there is the one who sent when the does what the wants even in halachic terms the gomorrah says he becomes he becomes like the long outstretched hand of the mashallah so possibly what the rep is saying is here that when you do chuva moon kadaliba and you express it through davening that arouses your essence and then is pure and when you're pure the blessing is very happy to rest in a pure vessel and then the blessing one second and then the blessing is is then spread throughout the year if the nakayli if the vessel has dirt in it schmutz or rust so sometimes it comes out with a different color sometimes it comes out with a different smell if you want it to be pure make yourself pure how do i make myself pure i'm not pure arouse your nakutas your essence how do i do that chuva myunka deliba real truth how do i do that davin what do i do during davening you first begin with his boldness and before that you begin with krishna as we learned earlier so we got krishna the night before his abundance before we doubted davon with heart and then you're a clay tahora and you have and and and then that's premiums that's what premiums is yeah so anemia is in english because we have to sum everything up in practical words anemia's in english means be real know yourself and know that your real self is good and this is a message that we have to share with ourselves and others every person even the person who is really really down and really broken and really having issues we have to keep on banging this nakuda into them you are good because hashem is good we just have to find the goodness in you and sometimes if you've meet someone who's so lost and so broken help them find their goodness do your best and if chasm sholum it doesn't work so be it because at the end of the day there is hashem and he has his hajj bonus but from our perspective we have to find the premiums in everyone and the only way to find the preemies and everyone wants to find the opinions in yourself yes yeleni what did you want to say uh no just just by by taking a look you know from from the mimer so the way that he sums it up at the end the rep sums it up with the last six lines so this is what i understand from what you're saying and also from the minor itself from the words itself is where you have phonemium connecting the phonemes and the optimus see this i see now that you're a student of citizens yes hillel and i can testify that when yoni says america you can hear it in the corners that please send out if you have a chance is the mimer hayom hara salam which is um on page 28. it's a mind of rosh hashanah so mr shem will start sunday and hopefully hopefully we'll finish it by rosh hashanah so then we can learn a different reminder for yom kippur and have a great shabbos and remember tomorrow is the day the tomorrow's the day when time is founded so it's a great auspicious day and hashem should help we should all have symptoms and health and online should come zeitgeist this should all you're right it's never too late and if we're not tamim our children should be commitment if not our children our grandchildren zaikazu bye bye good job