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How does Negativity Exist?

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what's up good morning we're in the middle of the my mural finishing today the first chapter of the second mimer it's fake page 51 in the over overcoming folly um edition country mayan so the rabbit told us until now that there's two difficulties with uh with acting like a behavior one is that you're a human and not a behemoth and two when you do that you are actually worse than the bahama because the bahama does what it it's god granted the mission being a behemoth it doesn't have das and we have das and we're humans and nevertheless when we act with taiwan's bahamians and all that it's uh it's worse that's what we learned yesterday and now we continue on page 51. [Music] when it comes to being convinced by the yetzer harder to engage there's something else that convinces him even if he does this bad thing imkos are nevertheless listen you're talking doing something very bad but you should know that you're not separating yourself from god he convinces him with such a bubba meister and and the truth is do we do we think when we do in our veda whatever the aveda is here is talking about what i'm assuming do we really think i'm disconnecting myself from god no you ask the average person a person says i'm still of god and i still connected to god i have a type and i have to do it so the rabbit says here but the truth is that you are being lifted you are separating yourself from hashem but the yates are harder to convince them otherwise by nature a yid ain't your helen cannot yoni cannot separate himself from godliness mushroom kiato avinu because you are our father you could jump up and down your father and your mother are the ones who gave birth to you and it's not going to help you change your name change your nose go into meetings badmouth them if that's a goodness healthy the same is true then the some of the neighbors that gave us washer he's our father um israel even someone who's most lenient and most sinful amongst the nation of israel for sanctifying hashem's name the freedom is aware the three kevin wrights and his my mother that he was the bombs were flying and warsaw over his head and he was standing near eden who were not trained to shabbos and all of a sudden they put their their hand on their eyes and they said shema and the rabbi asks where did it come from they're not putting on children they're not keeping shabbos they're smoking the shabbos et cetera et cetera the answer is the pinterest and that when the pinterest is confronted with with either do or die for being a yid right away he goes he goes into his yiddish mode this is what what he means is the khalid even the most lenient of lenient [Music] even if they know we're going to take your soul we're going to kill you because you're a jew lei for example the classical talmudic example the jew will not worship idols even the face of being killed why not because he doesn't want to because he can't look at the words he cannot be separated from god's unity and oneness you only hear this deep point even if he were to want right it won't help him he can't he has only somebody so hourly maybe months ago or a year ago you cited a name that was a jewish anti-semite right outwardly maybe he's a jewish anti-semite but if he's a yidd a real eid he has an insurmount it cannot a few years ago the last thing he said before he wasn't religious is that i'm a jew yeah he said he said i'm a jew he said i'm a jew my father was a jew or is a jew and i will die as a jew something like that yes yes and i think even ed koch who wrote his own uh might save a tombstone you know he he also put i am a jew and he was very far from traditional yiddish this is the argument if the jew would have really known not he knows by osmosis by growing up in a in in a trace talmud torah going to sunday school but he really would know that by doing my he uh an evil act motion nasa nifrit become separated from godliness as zoe my friend he would never do it no one's going to commit suicide to themselves and if you do you know there's something mentally wrong you need help with but a normal person will not do that the yeah convinces him and and and talks to him and drinks him a cup she hey guy you just indulged in this prohibited issue and i'm telling you ain't nothing for really course you don't become separated from godliness and he convinces him with this argument the argument and that's how he ends up doing it but if he were to really know he would tell to the agent or go fly a kite you're so wrong you have the wrong information continues to convince the person what he wants when he wants him to do and aveda a prohibition he says you're like every other jew ha nemen emelikov every other jew that's trusted and believed with godliness you're in the ballpark you're still a yead now i want to make it clear crystal clear even a jew who commits an aveda is always a yid contrary to a certain [ __ ] in the community that is and was where they said it you was not religious isn't like isn't a jew maybe you're not a good jew you know you're doing available and all that you know to learn a jew but a jew you always are fighting this is more of the the conversation of the yate sahara convincing man to do an aveda he promises him you know it will be good for you you're going to get some mileage out of it commission kosovo as it says in the tata is he will bless his inside his heart and say to himself for uh by my heart i will go i will go by the dictators of my heart and it's going to be good whatever my heart wants i'm going for it should come in yellow because he even follows the dictates of the heart in kosair he'll have peace so he convinces him live it up do whatever you want enjoy yourself and show them you'll have peace for him and this is how he ends up falling into many pitfalls many problems obama's yeshua the nephesh maybe uh it may be feeble maybe yeshua but ever take it and there's some type of nephesh bombings that's very very aggressive and passionate so you have different types i said called var type the one that has a very uh aggressive nephesh obama is he must have any type of taiva that he knows of he will do everything it takes to pursue and get it he won't stop for anything see someone who has a weak nephesh obama's yelling okay i'd like to have it but if i don't it's not the end of the world but someone has you could say it's a type of type b whatever he must have it and he says rafilla type even permissible types indulgences many times it makes the person course shayna pacquiao kim [ __ ] enough causing the person to to lack the fear of god not yet so hard i missed his sight the yeats of her goes even further to convince the person even indulging in prohibited ish matters yes yes sure so okay so what you were talking about actually yes so you're talking about how it is a year right regardless of whatever decision that you've made he's still he is and that even though he does the worse than nervous you still use okay i i hear that no but but but yup yummy but the point of the shop here was he's saying i i i that's not what he's emphasizing i emphasize that what he's emphasizing is how it could be that you could go so long and do an altera and and and and sever the relationship because the aids of her convinces you otherwise so so so you understand that this point is is explaining how the sahara succeeds in convincing the the jew to sin right so my question is like this i mean maybe it's a little bit on your pirush and also on roshab's uh you know explanation the question is like this in specifically discussing today's problems especially united states with intermarriage where yiddish people are into marriage isn't that the intermarriage and then the children from the intermarriage isn't that considered karus because he's cutting himself that that man is cutting himself off from the generation so his children are not really even his children so he doesn't have to that's karis right okay well uh you know again kari is spiritually for sure courageously we need to look at carefully but that's not the only availability there's chorus there's plenty of sins in the title where there's courage for yeah yeah for sure but i'm saying like because in the mind or the way that the red the rabbit he he termed the terminology is where you are disconnecting from a kurdish vehicle like you you're you're trying you're trying to disconnect so i'm saying it doesn't have to be it's just an example an international example could be an annie of error but i'm saying specifically let's say we're talking into marriage with a person he's mama's disconnecting it's not the aveira because the aveira is perpetua it's a perpetuating a bearer it's like okay he got married and now he's married a year two years he has a child and meaning it's a lifestyle it's not just an average it's not like okay he he had a cheeseburger today and he feels bad about it tomorrow he's not getting divorced he married her 20 years he has kids it's mommish that he is separating himself from from all again and i'm saying you're you're putting an emphasis on on intermarriage what if you do another aveda the terrorist says you get chorus you're also separating yourself here you have the added fact that you will you won't have jewish children if it's so if it's the the wife the women the female you know which is another you know another uh issue but but the idea of currys is for many elevators so what's your question i'm not fine what is your question okay so my question is is that the fact that if it is something that you disconnect yourself because yeah you because the rather just mentioned he said you do any kind of lavera that's the kiddish right he's saying you're doing any kind of you're you're you're that's right that's right that's correct exactly and and i hear the emphasis and i appreciate the emphasis because that's very very important and very important to kuda but i'm saying that you know intermarriage is one of the things but i'm saying any kind of avira where you you separate yourself doesn't have to be into marriage it could be something else could be you you move to timbuktu and you have nothing to do with yiddish you know i'm saying like where a person is separating himself from you know the cloud like he said he's separating himself from the club no that's not that's not what we're talking about separating yourself from cloud is not against god's will what and it's it's maybe you know every other suggests you be you live in a jewish fruit community with other people but that's not an aveda we're talking about an aveda let's say hey i don't want to go into details but uh there's my vedas in the theater which there's courage for i mean the specific are various we're not talking about just but but but i still don't hear what is the question i'm not following what your question is right so my question is in in a case where a person does do that where a person does yeah yeah or something yeah so the fact that he he is i mean it's an average that your hive car is for right yes yes okay so i'm saying that that if the person is high of course is is that person i mean obviously i'm sure the rep is going to say he's still yi there's no question he's still eaten but what is there [Music] the last part of the section of the chapter there and it gives you details of average and true before them and what can't be done true but i don't want to spend time on that but the there is chuva yes absolutely let's continue paired base well the ms all of this comes from the stupidity of the eight sahara shema which conceals the truth may god guard us from this the fact of the year shows him and convinces him that this thing is good truthfully speaking since his prohibited matter is forbidden it's death and evil actually [Music] that he puts it so low into the realm of of bed of no good and he places his soul into the into the realm albeit temporarily bro but in the realm of the negat negative forces known as clippers clippers which which at the time of the aveda those are associated with the three uh uh contaminated clippers completely in other words it's an it's in a place of bad no good and the rabbit heads even so let's see what he says in other words he says that when you do the aveda you lower your neshama but also into scholars clippers at mayors the three contaminated clippers and he says even work even lower than them and he explains i think in what manner in a concealed way in other words the highest the vitality [ __ ] of godliness the sense lower and lower and lower until it it it isn't felt any longer that it's godly but that non-felt godly highest which is now lowered in the skies and concealed it sustains the clippers that's why we call clippers we call it other gods metaphorically speaking god's countenance god's face ella it comes with it comes from the other side is the back side of holiness for example one who gives his friend he gives his enemy something he really doesn't want to give it to him but he needs to give it to him so he throws it to him behind his back here's your paycheck and he walks away he does work for him he doesn't care for him he's against it but he needs him yeah you're right or ki max he turns his face away from him when he gives it to him he said because he hates him he doesn't like him so so talk of this but who hates the clipper but he needs clip in the world for free will and other things so therefore he has to give him sustenance what kind of sustenance does he give the clipper a sustenance that's been diluted very diluted this is the muscle also look at the nymph when we talk about god's face continents who panic is that god desires to give vitality to all those that are close to him next page 54 coming from the side of dusha that's peneus i enjoy giving to you i want to give it to you i like you why because you're involved with kedusha but the other side the extraneous forces and the spiritual impurity side it is the despicable of of god that he hates i hate this i despise it hashem does not give the clippers vitality from its in from his inner will that have to meet in his true desire which he which he wants which they want that you can't get that clippers you're bad guys you're not getting that kim rather came on the shoulder buster cosplay it's like someone who throws something behind his back listening to his to his enemy shirley but it's saying they could not willingly is not happy about it the reason he does it he brings for peer to others is what to punish the wicked felician sadiq and to give good will to give reward good rewards who who subjugate their uh the negative side but mela therefore hashem says i'm going to show a great difference between assad and russia you russia are getting the bare bones you know the bones are even sucked out that's what you're getting and the producer is getting from my premiums and since hashem's face his inner will doesn't dwell at all on the negative side and the back side of god's will doesn't is not infested in the pneumous element of all of my love it hovers over it it's like buzzing around and say give me give me give me you can't come in stand outside and wait until i throw you a few bones so the can come in so it's makif it surrounds the paneemias the place of clippers is a place of death and contamination may god watch us from it because true vitality its godliness before that is the level of the living god commission of hashem kim amos who alike the truthful god is the living god pedus since this experiences the god of truth therefore who elohim he's also the god of the living god the hine so now he mentioned this this idea of emmaus so now that ebb is going to explain a little bit about what is emis it's important the hine ms hussein lipstick ms is something that has no interruption it never ceases have sick something that does cease to be nikhra kazuth is called false and he brings the mystery it talks about the rivers that are water that's needed for mayam khayyam for living water to purify a a someone to touch the corpse so the mission discusses various options and it says about certain rivers that the waters coming from these rivers are muchas they're false waters what are you should the aquarium cause of because these rivers once in a while every seven years they dry up ki ms hudava next page because truth is something and if that never stops never ceases it never dries up what do we see that what's called which we need for tohara of the of the tumor to purify the contaminated we need living water and these waters coming from the these rivers in this particular case even though it's only once in seven years you hear that avi it's flow it's flowing the whole time but since once in seven years it dries up we don't the mystery says it's not maya it's called cause of mine this is also the meaning of the of the the word and the idea of life living therefore the mission says those rivers that dry up are considered false soon the kids they're invalid for the sanctification needed for the waters of purification mercatus because they're not called living waters specifically something that is truthful which means shaina and it never sees it never interrupts it never stops this is called living you hear that that's what khai is are we alive after our passing if we were alive during our passing we're alive after our best thing hi of course your body is in the earth but your message on your mission and you have all your good deeds and you could are continued by your by your offspring and and others then you're high enough continuing this is also the meaning the truthful god who elicit him he before he is the living god surely ms because he is the truthful god she aimed hillary and vegeta meaning that there is no cessation and without atsumori from in his own right the time god it's not that we make hashem hashem himself is a liver is an embassy god is the god of truth hence is the living god in independent of our our involvement we say in the morning blessed who is forever the whole haddad clearly cools says that whoever cleaves and attaches himself to godliness who come camping we call that person a living person he's high course because godliness illuminates him in a revealed way and unites with him so we call that person who has this level of vegas of attachment a high a living person the who the way it manifests itself is that he is subservient his bottle telecast which invests itself in him the david bowie and is now attached to him as we'll explain [Music] there are ten that are he is the living god so we see that hashem which is called haiyan number two is called life we say it eight's high in he it's a tree of the living tree for those that hold it delivered the living life live or you are all today so what do we see that we get the yidden are called because they attach themselves to hashem because they are medubik they are attached they have vegas their shame they're called [Music] holiness and good receives its vitality from the inner will of hashem conversely visited the negative forces they have received vitality otherwise they wouldn't exist but from where from hashem's external habit mislab is behind and that amount of energy is not invested in them it hovers over them you hear that it's not the penis in other words even the amount of vitality that's not the premiums it's just the superficial the kid signias even that doesn't enter in a pedemius way in an inner way to the clipper it stands outside of them metaphorically speaking hovering over them and it it gives them some vitality similar to someone who gives to their enemy something not looking at them but throwing it behind their back that's how forbidden matter receives vitality from the clippers you hear that even how is it that things that are against hashem here is a very philosophical question i hope you've asked yourself this question how can the forbidden matter things that are against god exist isn't that an oxymoron isn't that a contradiction if god doesn't want it god doesn't give it highest if god doesn't give it highest it shouldn't exist moisha have you ever asked yourself that question so i guess the answer the only answer that i think of is gorgeous created created those things simply for us to distance ourselves from them for us to not partake that's and perhaps that's true that's the purpose but the question is how does it even exist and okay we don't hear him we don't need him for some reason we don't hear you avi okay next time so the answer is that the highest god gives them highest but in a market way god does give them vitality if hashem would not give them highest they cannot exist you're talking you're talking moshe about the purpose which you're right i'm not the question wasn't about the purpose the question is how does it even exist and the answer is it gets highest from god but in an encompassing way in a superficial way and the example given is like throwing the something to your enemy behind your back we call that makif can you hear me now yes what did you want to say well my thought was that maybe as we say everything that comes from hashem is good is that certain things could be neutral a knife is neutral it could be used to butter the bread or could be used to stamp a person it's in the kevana and the usage that could turn it from something good to something bad that yes that's true about neutrality we're talking about forbidden matter it's not neutral something that is forbidden how can that exist that's the question we have to perhaps learn to dream that some sense and to discipline ourselves to uh it's like no no i understand the thought but um i'm sorry but you're not you're not following the question or at least i don't unders see that you're following the question the eight sadasa was neutral neutrality i have no problem with we're talking about something that's forbidden so once it becomes forbidden the question is how can it exist if it's if if if i say i don't want you to have glasses i'm against you having glasses would i give you glasses no it's a it's an oxymoron it's a contradiction i'm against you having glasses how does the existence of glasses exist on you if i'm against it i would not make it possible for you to have glasses so if hashem is against the clippers hashem is against the tumor how does he even give them a uh a passageway to confront man and challenge man and bring out the best of man as moshe and you said and the answer is this answer the answer is because they do also get high can you turn off your mute yourself avi now please the answer is because they get highest that's the answer they do get highest what kind of highs do you get making superficial the hashem giving them highest allows them to exist that's the answer to my question small small small are you with us small you followed you have something to say yes yes it's part of the system hashem set up a system that people need to be tempted and tested so therefore there had to be this evil to tempt him not that hashem likes the evil but he had created that to test people to be part of the system okay let's continue the kit sir so he says that's why i was making my point and the forbidden matter you see avi we're talking about forbidden matter not neutrality forbidden matter mccoblin receive hayusam their vitality mayhem from them what does the mayhem go on out at yoni what does it go on on the clippers the clippers give nourishment to evil and to anything that's against hashem now he goes to the last point of this chapter attaching ourselves to godliness this is living this is high ki amis ain't i have because ms doesn't have a cessation and this is a just we'll finish with this with just one word this idea of emis is interesting that italian chapter 13 and tanya the altar speaks about emmaus and dalton says there is emmaus and there's take a look in tanya chapter 13. there is one level of ms that's ms in the situation that it's it's in but that's not the ultimate premise ultimate damas is not only is it ms in this particular situation it's always amnesty it was a mess it is them as it will be and regardless of the situation so let's just for a moment let let's let's make that more practical a person can be inspired in a certain school in a certain community in a certain home but when they leave that community in that show in that home the inspiration is gone are you going to say that the inspiration where they were in their home and community was not true it was it's ms but guess what it's not ms lamito ms la mita does not depend on your environment and that we learned it earlier here that ashab said it quickly he said hashem in his own right as emma's and i i said independent of anything else meaning even creation creation doesn't make hashem emes by default that's what god is truth the fact that creation substantiates ms wonderful and what if creation does not substantiate ms is there an iota of less ms in god absolutely not and this is a lesson for us that we need to work on ourselves and refine ourselves and and and be if the hashem to the point that wherever we are we're emis you know so whether it's corona or no corona whether it's such israel or america or china or asia wherever you are you are emis and if you live that way and that's who you are you'll be that way so this is the lesson that to be high to really be alive and you look at a person when you look at a person say this person is alive but the person might have a white beard or not even a white hair and he's an old altar you know guy and he's and he and he's retired but he's full of life you know what i'm saying he's full of life i doesn't have the kayakers but gosh meet him okay that's gosh me but the being is high is living and this is a lesson for us to take in our vegas hashem to come to a point where we are highly oil so we talk about you know high and highly oiled and all that it's it's it's a mindset i i've said it to you many times and and i just i just came from shul right i eat with with us you know you know and somehow he says to me you know that book positivity bias he says it's unbelievable everyone needs to read it and i was shocked and i said how do you know about the book it's the borough park girl you know what he says i'll tell you another time he says you know i'm my head spinning from this like you know here someone had a supposed to write the rebbe's ideas in a way and i think the only ones commented about it too about the book i'm just saying that tata is ms and that that was able to communicate this level of ms as someone was able to put it in english for english readers it it it has no borders it goes all over all over anywhere you know from the non-religious jew to the have the [ __ ] to the hasidic jew baron park it's have a great day we'll see everyone tomorrow meet hashem zaikazo take him yeah yeah the rabbit touched upon but it didn't elaborate he said when the yid goes against hashem's will he comes lower than the citra for lower than the clippers and that was that the clippers are fulfilling a job that they have there's a purpose for them when he goes against hashem's will he's not fulfilling his purpose he's thinking below that correct he's really holding himself from his purpose right right thank you shmuel for uh for reminding me i meant to summarize that because that was the point so thank you yes that's why that's the explanation to the words that he's lower than than the clippers so i guess unto everyone have a great day bye