How do you avoid having a child who rebels against Judaism? Listen to child's cry - RC Dalfin

So yesterday someone sent me a clip that uh that really disturbed me. I'm going to say a few words. In the 1800s there lived a Rabbi Weiss in Galitian. Anybody was you know wrote saw him and his there's a picture of him online very inspiring. I think he wrote the something like that on the for parts of the and then he sent me a picture of his grandson and his name is Muhammad Assad I almost fell fell through my chair and there was a clip there someone interviewed him he became a Muslim and uh and I'm asking myself the question, how is that possible? The grandson of a of a Jew of Arav, what happened over here? So, I listened a little bit to what he said and he had he says, I was born Jewish, but I always had issues with two things. And one of the things is that the Jews believe that everything goes through them. The whole world depends on them. And I'm not going to go into the philosophical arguments and positions about that, but I want to share the following. I believe that there's something that was wrong in his education as a child, as a teenager. I haven't researched that and I don't know if I will, but it's ballet. It's impossible, impossible logically that someone who comes from a solid Jewish education in a normal way with normal parents in a normal environment should come away with those feelings and convert to Islam and become a a mover and shaker in the world of Islam. Something went wrong. And I think for us parents, grandparents, you have to listen to the cry of the child. And if you can't help them, and not always can a parent help them, find someone that can, a friend, a mentor, someone else, a rabbi, a rebby, etc. That's one thing. The other thing there's something that Abdul Khan told me years ago that we see that amongst the the leaders and the people involved cults a large percentage of them were Jews and Abel said you know why because only the nephema which a Jew has can fall so low can go so low a non-Jew who has a soul of But not a Jewish soul, not an notis. I'm not talking now about the I'm talking about standard non-Jew can't go so low because he doesn't have that mechanism in him to go so high or zu to go so low. So when you see someone like this who comes from a Jewish family and and and and Rabonim and fall so low to become a a Muslim and a leader amongst them, Muhammad Assad, whose name was Lepled Weiss, that was his original name, Lepled Weiss. You can look him up. It's because he has a nish and it's because he is a yeid. He is a Jew. So my message to you is my dear friends, get in touch with your soul. Get in touch with your nishama. And when you get in touch with your nishama, you'll be able to break through and not fall into traps deviating from the basic tenants of Judaism and Torah. And simultaneously, you us parents and grandparents and teachers, please listen to your child, listen to your teenager, listen to the pain, listen to what's going on, and try to help them. I'm not putting the blame on the parent, on the teacher. I'm not doing that. That's not my intent. But I am saying that we could be helpful. At the end of the day, everyone has free will. That's the hardest thing for a parent is to accept that about their children, right? They make choices that are different than ours. And it bothers us. Well, they're independent. You had a chance to grow and to be independent. Give them that chance. So, I understand that. But simultaneously give them the right tools. Give them the right tools. The right tools of coming close to Hashem. And when we give the youth the right tools, they will make the right decisions. Sometimes it'll take a rebound, but at the end they will rebound. May Hashem help that the Nishama of Lepid Weiss who outwardly converted to Islam should do Chuva. And he has done chuva because he's already passed many years. And we should learn from this the above mentioned lessons and a will help that will have only simas and happiness and we will be stronger and stronger. Amen. V amen. Thank you.