Gimmel Tammuz Farbrengen 2020 - 3 Stories 3 Life Lessons

Sholem Aleichem it's a few days several days before the uremic odors during my ruler of Rubino of our holy river so I'd like to bring a little bit with you rabbi Herson rabbi moshe Herson was in charge of the shape of the Morristown yeshiva and I flew him in New Jersey told us once Arafat Brendan when I was a booklet there in yeshiva that about havoc of the the rebel secretary clothes the secretary but the radical told them that my Doretta his calendar is from Gujarat Gujarat by many people it's Felicia Charlotte is shown that by others in her page at the pacer in the secular world is from January to December 31st and by others it's tax season tax time by our ever his calendar his year began you trot and enter the following you truck so I think based on that we could say that for us Sid them of their ever our calendar should be from kimmel Thomas to Jammu Thomas meaning on gimel Thomas the upcoming gimel Thomas we make a flood to save his good resolutions discussions connecting to the Sadiq to their ever what is material in actuality not just fantasy haka Lotus ones that that makes sense ones that you could you could break through and ones that give you the kayak and the energy for all year and those last till the upcoming Ghidorah gimel Thomas so I'll begin with few stories and but the stories aren't just another story another miracle story by much be Arab yokan when he would say myself it was a her my sir with her arm myself was a lesson am i sir with a direction I might say was a purpose it wasn't just another miracle story which again there's time for that and there's importance to it that's the rapper you know Road to the Frieda crap I believe in 1932 you know telling you encouraging him to share such things although it wasn't something that Habad they really emphasized over the centuries but nevertheless that ever felt that it was important for the generations and then for the time at time in Europe when there was a great assimilation etc how much more so today the idea of telling kids he put it tsadikim stories of tsadikim that are more of the miraculous nature has its place but nevertheless for Kimmel Thomas when it's a day of reflection a day of it's a serious day it's not a day to waste the opportunities are great and it's only 24 hours although there's always the three days before the three days after and you can always be marshalling but nevertheless the energy the Claire Kazan chemo Thomas that the strongest that ever lived a New York Avenue and president Street the corner building over there before he moved to his house I believe in 1956 or so 55 56 when they purchased their home there eh-eh a couple of front couple moved in on the in via on the floor below the repair in the apartment below right on top was the rebus apartment that have been the deputies apartment and a few days go by and he settles in and he hears at night noise coming from a radio and the noise going on and on and on and he says to himself I guess the Labov it should ever the Rebbetzin are listening to the radio but it's already late at night 10 11 12 whatever it was one was four hours and I can't fall asleep and I don't know what to do to bring it to the attention of my neighbors or bother to never pick Sabich just beat just started his leadership of Chabad in 1950-51 well let me try again he tries again falling asleep another few nights and he can't because there's noise from the radio so decides ain't labraina he has no choice and he goes up to the apartment that episode opens the door and she says I'm sorry to tell you this but I can't fall asleep at night there's noise from a radio going on for hours into the wee hours of the night so she says that's not my department that's my husband's he's in the dining room hear me speak them so now he's really I'm gonna speak to the Father together he you know he was hoping that he could sell this thing with the rabbits in and it'll you know it doesn't have to bring it to the attention of the rabbit but the rabbits it tells him it's not my issue it's his go speak to him and she points him to the dining room well he goes to the dining room he sees that over there and he sees a big of her mother in front of him and he sees him learning out lion out loud I'm gonna I'm gonna buy yeah and and he's catching up and getting shot i buy he deserved and he's saying the words and he's learning and he's talking to himself and he's going on he sees the person he's home away from how can I help you he says you already helped me you really settled I have nothing what to say he thought that it was the radio it wasn't the radio was that ever learning four hours into the night Kamara and uptight King and saying it and get eaten up touching every word and saying it loud and saying with a dish mock as a doctor Lana she killed the mother that's the way you supposed to learn a piece of the mother [Music] the story heard just this week from someone who heard it from the person who whose relative lived there tells us a fascinating thing many things but one thing is that when you learn Taylor you need to learn titova de bolotoff bum say the words of theta the words of theta I hey leader holy and our there but when he learned your mother at least at that time and I'm sure was that way all of his life he said the words out loud he said I'm clear maybe said it with a singsong to on that gallant so we ourselves when we learn sometimes we sit on the couch and say if he doesn't say that I'm bombed with herself mind I would learn a piece of the murder and was it silent that's not that's not read about the bump so we talk about great artists with gimmick damos and ibid rain developed the first thing let us ourselves start with learning learning outloud teaching our children and grandchildren and maccer of him and people that we come in contact with to learn out loud and say the words out loud that's a simple lesson and if you're thinking well what's the connection to give últimos that's Kimball Thomas game Oh Thomas is a sofa potato mr. subliminal theta to increase your trade on mitzvahs and my sentiment good deeds as their ever writes in the letter to you truck for the free decrepit East out cousin Marie Lula to do these things another story with another message I was sitting by a few years ago put him I went in to see the woman scared ever because he was on the way put him on on 48th Street between 16th and 17th Avenue and I was I was visiting different people I decided I'll go in there too to say I got young safety whatever so when I come up he asked me who I am and I tell him about anyway sitting next to him was a cousin of his his name I don't know his first thing but last name was pedal au pair loud girl oh and he sees that malabar virtue and the double Minsker errata was already talking to me a little bit about the baggage together and then I was talking to him about it they hooked her in there because I was writing about that anyway so this cousin says to me I want to tell you a story we lived in Crown Heights and it was sometime in the early 50s 54 53 55 one of those years and my father I was a little boy a young boy or a buckaroo and my father was walking with me and we met the barbecued up in the street and they knew each other and they greeted each other early special emulation I thought the hint about the head it said something and then I heard the way they're ever asks my father so where's your son going for care so he said he's going to visit his camp there were several camps camp the sifter camp Morris you know I'm really not a campaigner but outside the camp there were several Froome camps that that were already in existence at that time so the Rebbe said very nice very nice and the rebus said those words I'm ecology slow and what will be with Halloween slow meaning if I if I understand correctly that they weren't being so careful and having quality slow for the children or all the children I don't know that he didn't say the details I don't know the details as far as you know who did have who didn't have what there was no clothes the implication was there was an issue with all of you snow at the camp and it was very difficult to get at the time so they didn't have hope you slow there ever looked at the the the father he said to him with a great smiling and and and delight he said bowel design a camp was dark them that Bernard drinking call of his throat soon there'll be a camp where one will only drink all of his role milk supervised by a Jew the process center and the production is supervised by a Jew that's called ecology so that that will be the only type of dairy in the camp that's the story that he told me from the early 50s and shortly after that year the year after camp Kanye said all opened up and here this short story points to the min honggi me the customs before we spoke about learning now the story is demonstrative of a mimic accustomed our never taught us the importance of monogamy now what do I mean that he taught us the importance of in hugging I don't want to go into a historical lesson now here but within the babitch within Habad and other groups mean huggy Israel Jewish customs was not an emphasis whether it was because we were under pressure and within Russia and in Poland all the difficult times and we didn't have time to focus and to think but the bottom line is that from their businesses and even earlier we see clearly such a emphasis on min Hagen and everyone knows the famous secret lever why we say in the forklift caches of pacer why we say my feeling the immersion question of the dipping that you know dipping before from matzah while matzah as others do and that explains it's because that's a minik and that will that will alert the child more than the obligatory issue of matzah because you know matzah and Mattson and then bread he sees throughout the year so it's not so different he has a question but it's still something within his realm but the idea of the idea of mobility doesn't see at all car pass what's going on they're not dealing you know him so the rebus says that's why you say it first because you want to keep the attention and and get the child involved in the Seder so the most unusual causes the greatest alertness and awareness and inquisitiveness the story with the the colonies roll and today we need physic in the physic we need we need to talk about it it's like you know in lapavitsas a bad interruption page and talk about Halloween slow yes people are going let's hear Starbucks buying drinks how careful are you with the production of the items you know is there a flavor of Hall of Occam you know and so on other products in other words all of you said oh there is I'm gonna drink a milkshake that's not wholly slow that's an obvious non wholly slow product what about something that maybe years maybe isn't and you take the link inside and easy way out in the early 50s that ever wrote and spoke to mrs. Kaizen Oliver Sheldon and to Rabbi Levin Shapiro about implementing ecology slow in Cleveland and in the tells you Shiva the Heyliger tells you siva it seems like didn't have a hope you said all and again it's like in the can the camps and the Catskills in the 50s they didn't have called you slowly that was very hard to get so they relied on the head today you know you don't need it and the rabbit didn't accept that any any pushed that it should not just be Alabama to think work with the the establishment of tells and divide our bottom of the city to bring Harvey soul into the telescope mia from community well the entire community including different community Mill Hagen Jewish customs and a mimic a mimic has the same ICS as Gehenna so this is not a people Thomas Berke this is more of a moose avert but to me it's brought in swaram that through doing mean hug in mimic customs you avoid purgatory Gehenna so that's a side benefit that's a you know okay I mean that's not the way you see them Exodus we put that as an emphasis but at the same time that's good to have in your in your pocket it's alright you know to avoid a little more of Gehenna Mizzou's dish these tactics design it's not the worst thing but what we're emphasizing is the importance of mimic so the rabbit told mr. parallel he told them bout that Zion attempt first doctor that the Nora huh blue holiday slow there soon will be a camp they'll be a Campbell there will be only holy so and finally the third story was told to me by a year and himself it was 1957 his parents was still energy snow he came to America and he heard about the rabbit and he went for your feeders to the lab before he wanted to he this the door was a little open that he saw someone coming out and it was a Hungarian Jew a Jew from Hungary or so and that ever gave him a brother and he and he heard that you saying to the deliver so the able stay healthy so that I burst and health may God help and then there ever said after he said those words that a bursted health neat and thought outs God doesn't just help her God doesn't help he does everything then he told me that he heard these words as the other person was exiting the if he this room and he was about to go in and he said it to me he said he will never forget those words and I met him probably was already in the 70s but he told me this and this is the issue of a moon and the talk and especially now given Thomas when we it's the day when we reflect on the evade of our holy river and but and and and it's not that the Rebbe passed away 26 years ago and we do his directives and I say yes there was a stylist 26 years ago and we say copies and we light on a nail the shaman and we followed him and hug him and we give sadaqa to the Meister's oldham and hug him that they never wrote for the Frida Kariba follow for him as well but by our rabbit he is alive in the sense of he is our ever height today not yesterday but today and Munna and betoken the ables that took outs you know that means that a college boy who was the one who decided and giggled Thomas 26 years ago to return the Rebbe is the summer today understand that's what he wanted go fight with him go argue with him as we say in good old your opinions so that the goodness healthy it won't help you at all nor less then what's the purpose the purpose is to see as they had to set himself took out slushy cancer brain game Ashiya and I'm leaving it up to you do whatever you can to bring my I'm leaving it up to you 42 years 44 years I've been urging your nursing you and caring you and I continue to do that but now you need to initiate it you need to be my long hands and my lungs are my long feet my mouth my cup so when our yeet and a positive of the lab in particular makes our lot and give up Thomas to do something and to do something that's maybe difficult and that the last year they couldn't do it and they tried and they failed and he makes our altar again that he's going to do it and it's gonna do it with these skulls to the Abel said today it's true there ever that ever gives him today Clara highball Italia Messiaen Lee the Gomorrah says you come to purify yourself from heaven they help you eyeball the tired someone who wants to be more pure and more connected and more doing Taylor Minho key and a moon de Messiaen lay the a burster through the river helps them about the chocolate and the Eber clout because there ever was a veltz lever the lever wasn't just my neighbor our devil about succeed in that but he is a veiled threat but the world's rebel and he still is the world's that ever I overheard the other day here in the Scully show how he says one for success to another says that the chameleon dimension millions of people of all kinds come there now he was exaggerating you know millions I'm sure it's all over millions already now but I mean to say the way he said it was like a little exaggeration but the point that was correct what's the point that the doors are open there for everybody this is the up Shimon bar Yohai that happens care are you asleep shipment by your height of our time keep you tight and even now with the corona and the restrictions but Hashem it's becoming less and less and the doors were always open doesn't mean to say can hang out and then and the three a carpet and Fabray okay so those things is niched right now but the ECOD don't lose sight of the ich it is to be budget seeing to say a few words if you can't make it to the oil sending up on with someone will be retired that sooner than ever and the point is to learn is tighter and to do history meaning the tighter that he taught which is so voluminous in the English tradition that would put the citizen that my mother and in in in so many things Mama's guerrillas Gunners Gorillaz genius and then there is the idea of knowing that the what was there Eva's Drive and mission psi machine as the coil the coming of Messiah in actuality not in fantasy mode but in reality mode and every one of us comes this gimmick Thomas will make a flutter to do another my satelli of another good act of title mitzvos and a moon diamond hug him will be another step closer to be as Messiah and we won't be worried that's not our issue well 26 years and what happened that ever said and that took us up my friend look at yourself first look at the things that this to sue goes up you promised are you fulfilling what you what you said let that have been able to make their husband us we have to just add Maasai continue demanding machine I'm also doing things of a versus royal push it really caring and not stepping other people and not putting down other people not belittling other people who have a different approach than us but truly mean it high base loosen them up him for how to be drunkenly monkey there many smooth him and there are many paths and a real slick and a real labor - em and a real closet that not only tolerates not only accepts but embraces the path of another Jew there's more that can be said but you know I don't want to make this clip too long maybe should help that this host of whom said Heyliger ever gimel Thomas is the yo maalula we know that our mayor Lula is a day which is the the oil the energy of the set of the person that Sadiq illuminates the world there's illumination just open your eyes you'll see the illumination and when it's illuminated there's opportunities for health for partner sir for good she do for happiness for selling bias for for everything but a Burstyn health and that all of this should be should happen Tobias machines at Kano Rubino better Shane know that ever our leader because there's no one better than our effort to be the Messiah so as I'm the core of mamas beautiful I am Iroquois - Bingham based on me gross all main four main high in a highball of Rafah to everyone of us