Finding a Rebbe for Yourself

what is your what does your gps say where are we at good question i'm trying to figure out myself we're at the kids sir we spoke about that mentioned the prosecutor that you know six days a week shall you work so what did he say she's just young and the six days in yanum bisfires their application as they are in the emanations and the spheros and their application in real life uber what is man's activity what's man's malacha job to join to join together time and place well the yacht on bellicose and to unite time and place with godliness in other words spiritualize time and place that it's spiritual godly the whole you aim to fear my loss and you can and each day has its virtue you can't say i did that yesterday well it's not a regular day it's a new a new day besides in the soy das virus in in in the in the in the esoteric idea of this fetus one second please okay so each day has its nuance of a sweda so therefore each day requires a re-evaluation how to unite our godliness with with time and space and this activity is the judgment the influence that was designated on rosh hashanah through young kipper yover badass should materialize itself in the physical world or to remain only in the spiritual world this kitzer is a clear recipe for what happens daily the number two the m and whether or not the blessing that's been given to you even if it were to be materialized the physical world should it be in all three matters of children health and sustenance or only in one of them and that mentioned the famous idea for eff cliff it is possible through a sadist fila to change from one to the other now you see if you believe this if you understand that a and b you believe it many things fall into place many many things in life fall into place if you don't understand it or you do understand it but you don't believe it then then you then whatever then you're you know and you have questions you have more questions but if you understand it and you understand what exotic is that he's a an intermediary between beneath the sadiq is a conduit and it saw that the abrasive says i give that sadiq what does it say the gemura not a hasidis not a kabbalah what does the gomer say decrees and god fulfills i mean that's a piece of gemara which means that and metaphorically speaking must fulfill what the tsar the decrees that's what the gemara is saying and why is that because hashem himself god himself wants and gives that saddek such kayak to to make a difference and make a change and if you understand this you understand another thing which people have a problem with but didn't have a problem with rebellion and partial strength writes one may bow down towards sadiq tell that to many many jews around you they'll say that's a dollar tree well the question is not a high-end dolphin all the barbecues it's a question that i believe and you can look it up yourself read it and you'll see what it says and by the way it's not the only statement look into the zaya you'll see many other such statements but what's the shot so thank you i've cited you sources the question is so the question is not on you the questions on the sources what's the answer what's explanation avi the answer is you're not bowing to that sadiq yeah physically maybe you are according to the oblivious hook but you're bowing to the god within the to the godliness within the tsadik every person is that way you're right and every person doesn't access it because every person has a lot of stus and foolishness and and and schmutz covering up the car and the sadiq is one that has worked it refined himself and this person is living with the helicopter so what are you bowing down to the helicopter the godly energy in the person to god that's fine so i say this because he says you know what that means a person god forbid is ill he goes towards he asks for and and and with either with saying it without saying it the story that about champion of belgium said it clearly to the people you want children or you want wealth choose you choose make your choice you're not getting both and they said we've had a wealth all our life we haven't had a child here is the money well and he said he says you're gonna become poor i don't care we don't care we want a child he prays for him and the child comes this idea of making a change in hakodo's barcode i mean this is a very very philosophical a very very profound idea how can one make a change in god if god is non-changeable and the answer is you're not making a change in god you're accessing another deeper part of hashem that in that area in that place there's room for children or there's room for pardon so there's room for health so until now you haven't tapped into that energy and there so therefore the hasn't been materialized even if you have it in your storage bank it hasn't been cashed in this is what we learned yesterday i don't want to go into it but yesterday's chapter made it maybe out of all the chapters that we learned through yet so far and kunta samayam i think might be the most uh uh important one or us or you know uh one that that really makes us think and and should give us a deeper understanding of what a tradic is etcetera how about shrimp let me just finish the line and i'll take your question he exchanged well for children for a couple yes yes yeah just everything you just mentioned how i was saying the i was saying the monolation connected to this when you go to the the same the mana lotion is a is uh moshe is referring to what you say the the rabbis oil or maybe other people's alizard but we say that the at the oil of the the rabbit the previous it had been the rabbi basically it's a it's treeless combined of tehelim zayhar and then some general treloys and all of those thrillers are to awaken a person's connection to a code vis-a-vis standing by their particular tsaddik's cavern i hear someone's radio in the background maybe some of them close their yoni ari ahri yes yeah i hear background noise please mute yourself thank you maya mchuff page 287 was starting the new minder it's not necessarily it's not connected specifically to what we just learned in a general way not specifically in a general way it's generally it's feel it's prayers thrillers that are said in other if you're asking me are we saying minor lesson to change god god's mind vis-a-vis that's that's laying there the answer is no that's not we're saying fearless consisting of verses of praise and and and so uh hurricane passages in zayar and then some other individual prayers that talk more about the people lying there that you're praying that you're praying to hashem to standing in front of them but to say that this passage and this passage specifically alludes to that there is i i should say in the in the in desire in some of the zoya that you read in the minor lesson it does speak directly about this that's my recollection but i can't tell you right now which part you follow i'm saying but overall the minor lotion is not geared to oh i'm gonna say this now i'm changing god's will that's not that's not that's not the case got it okay okay 20287 my microphone [Music] is if you look into the gemara there it's the opinion of rabbi in a bryce attracted rajashono however there's another opinion there which means you test him each moment let it reggae for the word you if that's the case what's the difference between rosh hashanah on an ordinary day throughout the year both are you're being judged as far as judgment is concerned why are we making such a big deal about [Music] the verse that is used to to underscore the specialty of rosh hashanah which is it's a statute for israel judgment to the god of jacob from the hillary the queen so the the question of the rush of the gemara hey you seem to make small changes rosh hashanah because man is judged either every day or every moment the eyes of a god are on it referring to her throat from the beginning of the year to the end of the year the mother derives over the sun that rosh hashanah is the rosh hashanah for judgment so his second question of the gomorrah is you're telling me that there's judgment daily and and and every moment so again this seems to contradict the verse in in the forum which implies that judgment is rosh hashanah and that's it and that's why we we have a day rosh hashanah that's question two question three why are we spending so much time in shul hungry and tired and bored with saying versus of mafia's kingship the greatness recollection and memory the shy why should this be distinguished from every day day and day and two days every day and every day there's judgment so what's this emphasis on rosh hashanah we spend so much time here you're saying that [Music] they don't believe there is any novelty rosh hashanah overall other days god forbid to think that way of course there is but we need to understand their position but surely there's no disagreement at all they also know that young keepers and specifically the day of judgment is when one's um budget is established for every creature and that's why we say verses of malcolm in order to crown god as king and to access hashem and say hashem give me panason give me more and i need more etc etc from when do we begin building the royal royalty from our ad next page to 1989 through yom kippur the kingship which we're building god's kingdom receives from the five powers of judgment from attic the who and this is in other words gets then a source of strength to be the source of vitality the brilliancy is here for the entire year the there's another thing that happens and that is that the amount that hashem gives hesitant to the world for the entire world the entire year's amount of is [Music] for every individual specifically and everyone agrees with this so if this is the case the question is still what do you see why why they're making a point that judgment is daily or that every day there is individualized complete judgment on illnesses sicknesses and health for life [Music] someone who who had a certain budget of hazard designated for him through those 10 under 10 days after him although it was already that budget was given to the budgetary committee aimed by against it's still aloof you hear that it's still in the realm of the senate and the continent the kind of senator the congress the house republicans in other words it has nothing to do with your bank account here it's exactly what's happening now there's a budget now in america how much stimulus money they're giving and they're debating whether it should be 600 a week a 600 or 2 000 whatever the decision will be but it's all now it has nothing to do with me only once it will become passed as as law and decided to the final decision what the amount is and it'll be put into my bank account or someone will you know you know ask for it and get it then it's yours that's what they say you can't compare my share the spiritual world of asia to the spiritual world of achilles okay therefore after yo although all influence to the physical world is there in this in a seed form in an idea form me in those days it doesn't the judgment isn't this facet of the budget means that i'm going to give it to you in in in this way in the physical world that's not decided those days what's decided then is that there is a budget that has been passed whether we will release the funds in this way or whether we will give you this this way that is a daily and momentarily uh decision that's the way rashad sees it continuing [Music] or whether you get the influence of hashem in children or in health or in sustenance it will remain aloof and spiritual matters that's not decided in the those 10 days [Music] it's a budget of hassett that's drawn to the world in general every individual specifically how much of the kindness is designated for him this is the primary judgment to avoid all that coil everything's dependent on this killer fee boy because based on the the the the multitude of the budget for hazard [Music] so [Music] and to exclude that god forbid you get very little so in other words in your treasure in your treasure the question is has how much how much will hashem fill your treasure up that's the side of the shrine through your kipper how much will you get in actuality that's decided daily and momentarily okay that it should be clear i mean it's not i'm not talking french i hope well commission is what yes so so basically you're talking about is like rosh hashanah is the gross amount and then then the the allowance is kind of like a monthly or a weekly depending on no he said he says daily he says daily one opinion is daily only one opinion is every moment yeah but but but but good good good analogy the gross versus the actual allowance and and and by the way he says another nakuda it could be the allowance would be a zero because it remains aloof and guess what it happens sometimes happened with my great aunt my mother's my father's aunt didn't have kids i asked the rubber for a bracha got a bracha the rabbit said review of the laws of tarzan did that six months went by nothing happened asked the rebel again for abraham didn't answer my father went to the masjid and his yeshiva and asked what's going on at the first time the answer the second time he didn't ashby said possibly the altered says in the garrosh okay there's 14 every year on new energy a new light comes into the world the rebbe saw last year there was a blessing for it these six months that went by went into the new year he didn't see a blessing for whatever reason he didn't see a blessing that it can be materialized and why only god knows debbie doesn't know but he couldn't give you a blessing for that to materialize because it wasn't in the it wasn't in the cards so these these these are unknown things at the end of the day you know and this by the way shouldn't stop us from daving and learning and asking and asking exotic to intervene atradic has attic has kaya we have to call upon the sadiq i know over the years people didn't have children for example they in a way nudes the rebbe and when by fabregans they would hold up their cup every vibranium and and make i am and have a mind bless me i should have a child i knew someone who had illness in the family i saw this myself for years at fabregas he would go over to the river towards between the first and second talk of shabbos and no one stopped him because he was a very sincere man and he asked the rebbe every single shabbos vibranium for years i saw this your initial probably sword i don't know if he remembers but he should have seen it too and he asked her before brooklyn people so we asked what is he what first of you know what is he asking or why is he being allowed to do it no one else is allowed to do it and he was asking for brother because his his wife was ill and you know and wanted her to be be cured so that's the job of a tradic the job of assadic is to not to have mercy on him but to nutrient to to access the broker from hashem okay you know you have to know when when not to nudge and who not to nudge and then you have to know who to nudge it's a very important lesson because sometimes we nudge the wrong people you lose the wrong people you ain't getting anywhere you just you just remain a big nudge but if you notice the right people and the right person you ultimately score you you make the right yes motion so okay so how are you supposed to know who's the right person who's the one for that you have to learn a lot of see this and say a lot of the high-end and and and say krishna and with tears and and become and you'll know you do all those three things guaranteed you will know but it doesn't come from chocolate and potato chips or sleeping night hours and playing golf and watching good sports and all that you ain't gonna know from that you know sports you know stocks and you know many good things and it's great but you're not going to know what you're asking but when you when you refine yourself you know they say an expression in the yeshiva world you're on the right path you know you know when you're in the in the gemara mode you meet each other you know when you're in the hasidis mode you meet each other when you're in the spiritual holy mode you're gonna meet each other and trust me so just keep on doing right things and you will see it's gonna fall into your lap and don't allow anyone or anything to persuade you otherwise if it's in your gut and you feel it you have an intuition go with it anyway we have to bring about that if i bring about that because it's an important point what you said a very important point regarding his casualties towards any sadiq like i told you for the third time that story would take the litvak who meets the the rebbe in jerusalem and all of a sudden he becomes his custard what are you going to say he became his husband because he heard such great torah for him no no that's possible you know it's more of a a deep heart emotional thing that touches him and it just grows on you and when it grows on you you go with it if you don't go with it then you're you're your own worst enemy you know there's a point where a person has to leave intellect and jump into faith a lot of people have a problem with this they can't leave the intellect and they get stuck there and they never make the leap of faith anyway we should discuss it out of our brain let's continue inside commercial as we learned earlier crested and everything children health and panoso well the problem and sometimes it's not possible to get it in everything kim schneiderman only two of them even if the blessing is for all three matters there's a difference whether you get a little or but symptom or you get a little tally but next page and that depends on what's in your treasure house which is the budget has been established under 10 days nevertheless notwithstanding all of the above we have judgment every day what will be come of this acid that's in my storage house for example will it be possible that this question that i've been allotted to on the 10 days is a base bottom you you're getting two out of three which two in bonneville explained earlier so that you know is is decided everything and and that's why it makes sense yoni whites every day and every moment because every day changes the one day you're getting it in health one day you're getting into the primonosa and one day you're getting it in in in in children and hospital one day you're not getting anything of the part of the court case of the judgment is maybe it's going to remain aloof in the spiritual in the world to come but here in this world i'm not going to have it you'll say well it's kovaldi you have it for the world to come i want it here what's the expression we live one time i mean which is not a jewish attitude but you know no hashem says sorry this issue you have to wait for islam let's continue because in the budget of rosh hashanah it wasn't recognizable yet what will take place aims from teresa because over there it's not the domain to the side the allowance as you only said use that word earlier the allowance is only later and the budgetary committee remains in the budgetary committee kim said totally but business milo that depends every day on the heavenly court the zelda v myself and that's up to us our behavior okay so is the judgment in the chambers of brielle vanessa he wraps it up summarizes it here so both are true this is the final reconciliation of of the two contradictory talmudic statements the ikea the the primary judgment regarding the budget of uber putin nevertheless the daily statement that you judge daily or momentarily every moment yes there is a complete judgment every day he will continue now going into more details but in the next chapter but we'll stop here and uh it's uh it's interesting it's an interesting uh way one thing's for sure this analysis and this explanation keeps a a jew on their feet because if you know that every day at every moment you have an opportunity to make the the more into your life in the various ways you're more attentive if you think for example listen hashem decided on rosh hashanah so whatever i do today on tuesday the 14th of davis doesn't really make a difference so why should i really invest it's not going to make a difference this this this thing that this section this idea that we're learning says no it makes a difference look at the rashaab's last words luffy myself the judgment today is based on my micem and i really believe this and who am i i mean the torah says it but i'm saying it it's it's true it's true if you pay attention you you you should be able to feel sense see observe understand that there is a difference trevor have a great day we'll see everyone tomorrow segason bye bye