Farbrengen Sukkos w Postville yeshiva students - Truth: The Rebbe, know the prayers -RC Dalfin #4

Come. Why did I agree to He's not even here. >> Sure. >> Why did Milo? Why did I agree to to come here? >> I was supposed to be in bed now sleeping. We I did a big Ala supposed to be dancing on Kingston Avenue. >> Anyway, so why am I here? So Schnea saw me yesterday walking in the alleyway over there to somewhat suka on Carol Street, wherever I was. He knows me from I guess from Carl Springs and tells me this is Faban whoever it must be whoever supposed to come didn't make it and he asked if I can come. I immediately said yes. Is that right? >> Yeah. >> Did I hesitate? I had some conditions but anyway, but what's the point? Here's the point. The point is that when you do something for someone else, you're doing it for yourself. There's a ye in his name is D. He's already probably an 80-year-old man. He's like there. So he once in line with you know and I remember how he start he started off saying he said you know when I wake up in the morning and I think about myself and my family or my family I get very depressed this grandson has this problem this grand this son have daughter has the everyone is anyone doesn't have issues everyone has issues but when I think about >> when I think about what I've what I've done for others. What can I do for others? Then I get fa then I get happy. So when you called me and you're talking about fabanging especially simp even if it's a short fab and there's no real mashka and all that choice the fact that we're sitting together we're getting to know each other. This is just a a beginning of a relationship. Now maybe you don't want the relationship. A relationship works two ways. It's not just I want to get to know you. You we both want to get to know each other, right? Otherwise, it's not a catch. So first of all, to you for giving me the opportunity, but more so it's a lesson. It's a lesson when you do for someone else. when you you know and I'll tell you when I was in laba as a bucker in here in Brooklyn Ocean Parkway you know I was a you know I was a pretty good ber okay and I wanted to learn with a top ber so we could really excel in garb my principal came over to me and he said I want you to learn with this ber came from Italy who was yet raw and ashvak so I said to I said to um you You know, I I've been doing this a long time. Now I I'm coming into B medish. I really want to grow in Tyra. I want I want to know a lot of Tyra. I have a So if I have a strong Kusa who knows a lot, we both you know he says if I promise you he said if you learn with him you'll have to prepare better. You'll gain more. And I listen. And it's true. It's true. doesn't mean to say that at a certain point in your life at a certain time like they have two kabus one who's weaker and one who's stronger but when you do for other people you you're doing for yourself remember that it's so e easy to be selfish self >> the first thing you wake up what's the first thing wake up in the morning >> yes >> you know what Rabbi Castell said he was an older but the end of his life lived I heard this from Yosul Weinberg who took care of him in May and he would take care of him and he said to me once I got up in the morning he says oi right after my oi first thing you wake up who are you you're is yourself you have aid realizes that and takes that seriously and knows that wherever famous story the visit you know he didn't come out cuz he said he said why or it was I forget the why didn't you come out he came out late so his said we made us wait a half an hour an hour he says what can I do he wanted to dance with me or and I didn't want him to dance with me. Who? Shabam is the he said I'm I'm latching on to you and you're going out to dance. I'm dancing with you dance. You stay in your place in Hakushki Chinik. Don't dance with me. What does that mean to dance with the Yates? What does it mean when you dance which like a show when you dance with with that's dancing with the gates when you dance like a you just dance like this you know dance like this like they go I don't I don't want to get a they go around like this in circle okay so even if you're not a from Russia from Neville fromuk or whatever and you dance that way let's say okay but there's a way of dancing and dancing with hey the juice just passed away yesterday battle battle dubski just passed away 96 he used TO COME TO AND DANCE LIKE A MAN SEE THEY SHOULD dance was and another who lived here I saw these guys would come they made a business 5 10 minutes and they left but they came to so the the bomb is once wants to dance. Shimen said it simply, he wants to dance, right? He wants to dance, too. Just say, "You want to dance my way or your way? If it's your way, go to the highway. Get out of here." That's why they believe came late cuz he couldn't get rid within himself of the nephas because tagging along. Tagging along. This is your house. >> No. >> Uhhuh. Anyway, so why are we talking about dancing? Because we're talking about the idea of giving yourself away for another person. It's the hardest thing cuz we always say I I tell you he wakes up in the morning, I'm here. Me, who are you? Who am I? There's a word in Yiddish that they used to say, repeat a lot. Ayacha madame. You ever heard of the word Ayacha madame? What? >> Ayacha madame. A big shot. A big shot. Now, what do you mean a big shot? Someone goes around bragging, I know this, I can do this. No, a yachod means he thinks that he's the center of the universe. I had a teacher once. He would say, "You're not God's gift to mankind." Don't think you're God's gift to mankind. So when you learn and you tie up with and you say a little sing together with slowly slowly this neph says I I I want I want to party. I want to drink. I want to you know just party and just enjoy. There's an expression my father would say it as we were growing up. 11. He wants to live a p a pigish day like a pig. Hello baka there with a tilted hat. This here what's your name? >> Mahi. >> Yeah. >> You want to live a you want to live a pigish day? You know what a kaz is? >> Doesn't speak English. Oh, okay. Yes. Yes. Ani anch bit. Anyway, what did the bakim know? Ladies, what do they know? They look la. Yeah. Sit down. I am I'm High paradise. Sing Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I am in Mama yeah. again. Hi. Hyal. Let it Yeah. Hey yeah bank holder Yeah. Nana yeah. Yeah. Hallelujah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You're Yeah. Time. So I grew up with the Reb since I was born in 1961 and >> I was with the Reb by very many monumental events like Mashia 1970 and many things but I'm not here to tell you you know about myself. The Reb is a ye that is truth. You know, we're looking for truth. You're looking for truth. >> Of course, >> you're going to find it in sour sticks. >> Yes. >> Hopefully. Anyway, >> everyone sour sticks. >> You want truth. We all want truth. Em, >> right? Right. How do you find the truth? >> How do you know if it's the truth? How do you know it's the truth? Maybe you're being sold as kite. So the rebba if you learn from the rebba you learn this and you learn this and you learn this on hogus you see emis I'm telling you I you know I've written and studied about many many people over the last 100 200 years and I haven't found one person who's as em as the now I I'm not saying that as a liab which I am. I'm saying that historically. Who is a person that you can't buy him off with money? Green bills, casheim, mahimal. SOMEONE WHO IS BOUGHT OFF BY MONEY. Give me a few more bucks and I'll say it the way you want it to be said. Well, you know, these things didn't work. The Reba didn't play favoritism. He's my uncle. He's my grandmother. He's my my my from Russia. To the Reb, every yeed, every single yeed is the same a ye. And when you think about this and when you learn it in his and you hear it at his fab and you see it today on so many videos, how can you not want to be the How could you not WANT TO TELL YOUR NEPH GO FLY A kite because the nephis what does it want? It doesn't want amus. It wants fake. It wants bubbises. It wants it WANTS TO INDULGE TYUS. love tyus >> more eating, more sleeping, etc., etc. Like he just said, he loves Tyus. He's saying the truth. And guess what? He's not alone. We all love Tyus, right? So, how do you break out? >> You attach yourself to a ye who's em. And you and you get to know this yeed, this Jew. In this case, it's the Reb. and you you hug him and you kiss him and you learn from him and you emulate him, then you'll creep out of your nonsense. You'll creep out of your yeses, of your ty. That's but for us we're so lucky that each and everyone is sitting at a now learns of the yeshiva in postville which started by I believe the rabbachkins you know and with rab Gurov and people now there's other people there's someone I know from borrow park he's there >> shiml >> iron shiml Okay. Why his son's here? >> You're >> Anyway, the point is the same. >> The the father from Postville. >> Oh, yeah. >> The kids I'm very impressed with you. You washed on a piece of pizza. You think the only one that washed? What's your name? I'm supposed to go to your house now. Take me to your house if I bring in there, right? Yeah, but there my winners there. So I want to go over there. >> So you you'll hop me over there. Okay. After this there I just came from. >> Well, you're going to take it back on your back anyway. >> So kids back space. What is Cabana space? What is that? >> Loft. >> Oh. Oh the Yeah. Right. Okay. Anyway, so you want to know >> you want to know Em you you learn and you live with with the Reb. Now, what does that mean? >> Everyone says I'm I'mab. I'm aid. You have to ask yourself really between you and yourself under the blanket. Am I really am I really living like a And when you start thinking saying not I'm not there yet say no you don't get depressed so what am I going to do about it I'm going to work harder I'm going to learn more you know learning a young it's your best years to learn the the most of my learning were your years going further like you know from 15 15 to 20 21 to learn to learn to learn and to understand not just to say words a lot of people are saying words okay to memorize right memorization doesn't mean you understand it you can be a parakeet you have a good memory so you have to learn this especially is tighter the Tanya and you really learn it well and you don't >> you need you need you need to you need to >> Good morning I woke up >> you need to you need you need to really internalize it >> internalize >> if gentlemen if you want to speak I have no problem but that's time for me to leave so you have a choice gentlemen >> no problem hey man I'm ready to go to Brahmo. >> Oh yeah. Oh yeah. >> So the kids in Emirates. >> The kids in Emirates make a We have to walk away with something. >> We're not done. >> You're not done. >> I'm not done either. >> I'm never done. You're never done. You're never You're never a finished product. >> Over here. >> I'm keeping you here. >> You're keeping me here. Okay. You better change my hands and my feet. Anyway, >> that's going to be hard. >> Listen to me. What's your What are you walking away from? Eating, sleeping. What? What are you walking?