Farbrengen Chai Elul - Daven slowly and Articulate the Words during Yomim Noiroim

okay so uh first we say good job today hello it's hi hello the gamer letters of the kurdish founder of the hasidic movement were born in 1645 and 1698 i'm sorry delta 1745 and also this goddess of the belk champion was 17 i think 34. so uh special day that the rabbit did something very said something very interesting wrote something very interesting that surprised everyone about coles ellison worked on the hyundai to find the correlation between the daily how you enjoy and the day the week the pasha you know that he that the work that nicole's ellison spent a lot of time on and sometimes that ever would give him uh a remark an edit a comment and not on everything not on every single you not not in everyone didn't get that probably most he didn't but miss manga was mine from time to time he would get that answer he asked that ebba regarding high yellow he asked him whether chabad whether we don't say mark is the prayer after the ambitious monastery where we say we've sinned so jewish law says that a day when you celebrate a special holiday you don't say it so his question was since the day is a hasidic holiday the birthday of these two great giants torah giants hasidic giants we shouldn't say i think it's pretty brave of him to ask the question like i asked raphael mitchell risen this morning a show whose father was the venerable do you i asked if you think your father didn't say that he didn't he didn't answer he doesn't know i would say that the hasidim of the past did say all of them because those men hug him that the rabbit documented in hygiene beyond that later and safe ramen hug him those are the ones that we grew up with not saying or you know in those days but hail doesn't say and if kyle if if tottenham should have not been said why didn't the rebel write it but zeliksen i don't know what prompted him but he asked a question and to our surprise they never did answer him and did that be answered totally it depends on your feeling now i need you to step back for a second and to think about what the rabbi answered him because it's so contrary seemingly to chabad thought to the chabad approach talib i mean since when you know if one guy wakes up one morning and he decides no we're not saying tachno today or we're doing this i mean he'll be throwing out a shoe i'm you know i'm saying no one pay attention to it but it was a question it was some people brought down that that when they came to chabad that year of that day they would always not say cochlear privately that's that's a personal thing but here also maybe the rivers and sing totally bahar dish you're each individual if you really feel that way then you shouldn't say it yes but as a rob beam he wasn't that's that's my hair dish i know i i understand but but that's the that's the correct explanation you just said but when i'm going to step i'm going to step back that it didn't it didn't no cause it dreamt of of of asking the rev about high elo until now whether but to say everyone said right so why is that what made zelixan ask i don't know but he did ask okay and and and for the rabbit to answer him is also it's a big hidden the the the the average question from that generation would tell you of course you say well that was his question i mean but i don't know i don't think it it it introduced anything new i mean that already knew that you have such a strong feeling it's not the way you're positioning it and the quest to decide no we're talking about a classic it was very serious and he and he he i you and i didn't say when we the first time we came to that but let's let's let's be honest with ourselves that wasn't that wasn't the way we were taught to approach things you you learned in yeshiva is that the way you were taught to approach the whole idea of talking and other such things no so i'm saying that this was a a surprise and and for the rabbit to entertain the surprise i think is is a kiddush is is is special and significant and what and and what did the rebbe say for a second what did the rabbits say totally right now now now you said a moment ago well when a closet came talk these see them that you're talking about and and anyone who wants who emulated them they it was it's a serious matter in other words that who was a muslim who writes it's in you know in the regime it says that he says about himself you ever hear that lotion he got beat he was beat by the most not them for becoming the husset this jew of shmuel basalo his acronym is rajabats so he writes that i got beat and he says i deserved it because i was nugget to become a hostage you need a real refinement you got to get a few pets but you know now now this now such a jew if he doesn't say on the day that he came i understand because he is he went through a transformation but not every tom dick and harry went through that truck goes through that let's let's let's be honest one of the things i learned for abiol even in my older age and his older age is this idea of being pneemi honest i'll give you an example so when gimmel thomas came out of shabbos the bureau would come to borough park that was sure i don't know if he why that's where he came and we invited him of course but he accepted the invitation that means he didn't stay in crown heights he didn't stop in the 770 he didn't go to the oil he came to borrow park on gimbal thomas you know for yo khan that's that's a major thing now she wasn't doing it just because we called him i feel he did it because he felt an affinity to his 50 years of teaching citizen borough park and he saw that as the mission for him and and he found that in boro park so he expressed his connection his discussions to the river but come and give thomas give us thomas marcus that they never passed away 1994. anyway so so um he would say kaddish and he would sit i would sit on the same table he'd say kaddish so i saw that when you have a yard sign you know the rebber when you would say the last kaddish before you would say after uh he would go like this right you know that everyone like this and then he mumbled something they say he mumbled the beginning of bayes and tanya if and that fish hashem his beast okay look at me that's what i heard okay i'm looking over here i was saying this just happened to pick up my head and he doesn't go like this and he started saying college and i was baffled because you know i i'm a student and you know and i i thought you know i'm trying to be on the right page and all my years my mother passed away 16 years ago i say kaddish and i go like this and i saw that ever do it i didn't ask him because it might have opened uh i didn't want to you know discuss it that way he was very older and didn't have as much patience for these type of questions so i didn't i didn't engage but i but i spoke to some other are they all types of mothers who i know and uh they basically said that uh the oil fell that this is the rebel's private thing and not for and for anyone to to to emulate i he did it in public so he did it in public but it's his thing in other words we don't see in this forum a place which explains you're supposed to go like this like you know job you was teaching it says i stopped being a faker you're not a neighbor you don't know what you don't know what he's doing so what are you doing he's saying these things not now for the record what he stopped i stopped i stopped because he's my he he's my musia you know and and and i want to say for the record i'm sure people disagree with him not even a question mush be him and others and and kalakala to them but what it brings to mind is this issue that a mini is a serious issue it's not just small change that that's so when there ever says totally it means as you said hillel but it means what it means is if you work on feeling this great did they say tactum here or they didn't say i don't know 6 30 today they did not 8 30 they did eight there's a mother's minion yes you see and and and he and he's a barbecue of coming from the same place i came right grew up in the same the same bowl of fish why why because there is a lache and and wait and he i i will agree with him even though i didn't say toughness because they didn't say school by us but i'll tell you why tully beheadish means it's up to the individual just like you said so if the individual feels you shouldn't say call a kavod great but to go and standardize it and as a minion i mean that you need i mean you need brought shoulders to the point yesterday in the other gabacho that happened they don't have to mention names they didn't say no at minha you know i i you know i felt like saying this is outrageous but i you know it's not my show and the guy says the rabbi it wasn't a rabbi it was someone who works for the rabbi but it to me it's getting out of hand it's it's against talaka really and you see ravalu's poisic you know if he felt that the whole minion shouldn't say he would i'm sure he's dropped that it would not be done but that's all i'm saying so that the rebbe the at the same time at the same time what is that i was saying by saying totally beheagish what is rebel saying to me and we could all interpret it our own way because the river left it open-ended right no not a person can say i know the answer you're a liar you don't know you know what you think is the answer but but that ebb is saying you know that this is a special day and if you will work on making it a special day by davening in the cities and giving to and and focusing on how lucky you are to be a hostage of the balshemptev and the altered of and to be a hosted then then then there's place for you're not saying tactum because you have this great symbol i'll call you back but can we explain it differently we could try yeah uh when there is a regular day that everybody say and you have somebody who is a hustler the hassan not just he doesn't say that's hello one second one second there's a reason for that what's the reason why he doesn't say because his go ahead it's a day of happiness yeah such great happiness that causes them so even yeah by the way i did say that if it has it there is a because the rabbit in such a way that just the mentioning of right date makes him so happy yes even according to our life we have to do that no but that's a jump well you just said at the end of the jump why because hello i'm going to grant you if you have that personal sim project right but to go and extend that to the rest of the congregation the rest of the show it's a personal thing okay so but so what allah has when it's like says that a question examines everyone that's a different thing but to go and say my personal sempra i mean it doesn't make sense frankly it doesn't make sense my personal symbol of being what if there's a lit there and he's not happy so you're gonna say the whole show's exempt because because of my happiness no but you understand anyway it points to the fact that it's it's a special day so what i'm saying is that i at the end of the day what the re what zelickson did and what the rebbe answered is very significant that that's what i'm saying it it in in other words it went around it it it went around like not the regular way because there but didn't initiate it but now that we that he said it it's um it's a it's a very special thing it's a very special thing and just for another moment you know how particular there ever was with saying right huge fights are yours i defeated karen but it's also the day that i became rebel right so hussein didn't want to say some didn't want to say because right if you didn't say taft in the front of the rabbit they mean you trot probably did he give it to you and once it happened and he looked at groener and groaners ran around and he schlepped the husson to the front in other words rabbit groaner wasn't playing games but the cousin wasn't right there and he went and schlepped him and he showed the rebel the cousin now i'm just saying that you know and i think that this is that's important it's it's very important in our away that whatever said hey tavis that ever said taco was going to say but there was a fuss in there it was about this i mean there's a lot of consonants involved here unfortunately it becomes a lot of consonants involved and people are making up their own hair gestures and feelings that's why when there isn't you have yeah okay okay listen that's why hopefully you have what you have and upon them and and they and they're serious about the issue they're not flippant you know and and that's it i i you know this rough this rabbi just wrote he's not even at the menu on him i don't know where he happens mean maybe that was late or whatever and and he tells the the his other people that they shouldn't say taftan dominion whatever it it's and he's a serious guy and atomic and and he's i'm saying but i don't know what's become like it's a culture like to to accommodate you know maybe they feel that the young lababachers will stay more bovich and connected if we if we go along with the hoo-ha maybe anyway of because he was young yeah he was yeah the year he turned around and there was a discussion back and forth somebody said yes and he is a no but he thought it wasn't yet that he said and you know it says they want to know if they asked if they said and they didn't say and they're not sure and it appeared the devil was asking that there was a huss in there or not and therefore they asked the answer that there was that's it's more telling me about the warning about the romantic this is from right but with this story with mentally this is not a nature this is what's there this is what zelix has said over here i have to ask where he heard that but but i heard that but first of all i think that the red was just trying to avoid the much latest he wasn't rebel yet these people they were telling him just not to say talking they were arguing people once they would say one would say so that ever went just to avoid among lucas and i it's not that he felt that personal way that should be it but he didn't want to avoid him like like he's doing something sure he does like no no no this thing and certain things you can avoid it okay well that's that's here mentally that story i i believe and i understand because i know about other mentally it was my rajashiva also but he was a very big mukusha he was a very big makushir even though he was really the free to grab his talmud but he saw in the web in the 1940s and he already i heard this he he he really and so for him to say i could see it and it's so interesting because he was a he was from poland he was a town he didn't come from that culture but he he had this i guess my transformation and and his kashmir so i could see him saying that but i i i really want to verify it i wish there's no one around there was one person around maybe but he was too young you know everyone's dead already no i'm saying it was a bit you know to verify the yeah because it's different than what it says here yeah yeah yeah yes the physical says that wouldn't yeah no the story was told already nineteen twenty thirty three stars told already earlier in 36 or 33 that's when they knew about it hey there but the future was told about how every rabbit told his son about it and you say he didn't see his secrets his father told him about it told him to keep it a secret and not tell people until the time will come but but he's telling this yes but that but they knew already in the 30s and again who's the story this story yeah about that yeah anyway it it's it's it's an indian that like you said it's it's you can't just you have to take things the way the way it is and not just make a choice you know um because the next thing you'll know like someone said here okay someone wakes up in the morning i i'm i feel special today i'm not saying taco what is this you know a place where they don't say talk to somebody they talk to them when they're never came to america they don't say talking on them okay if they have that hair there's no but they imply well how can you not have that with the point is how can you not fly you can't apply a haircut you either have it or you don't have it to tell somebody you should feel a haircut it becomes all consonants yeah as i've been telling you you're doing it every morning that's what you're supposed to do you're supposed to but not always you do okay but that's what you're supposed to do with that okay listen we're not gonna stop we're not gonna solve it it's we had a discussion about it and now it's totally in every person and if you have you're in a minion and you have a rav and they they pass in a certain way you go along okay let's learn a little bit from page 41. i don't know forget to finish the whole thing anyway between the judgment of rosh hashanah mark compared to the judgment of after death versus the judgment of rosh hashanah is primarily for the body will you survive another year or something he doesn't even want to say it doesn't write what god forbid will your soul survive live another year in your body oh god forbid that in you you'll have a livelihood you know in a broad way in a successful way be disastrous and become wealthy your hospital you'll become poor you'll work very hard and it'll be so difficult etc with all other matters will you experience life with pleasure and comfort being comfortable or god forbid with pain and this is the judgment of rish hashanah of america and the prosecutors argue they're heroin didn't literally they did so the prosecutors argue for the for the negative amelia yates said and they add good advocates and tape michelle adam that which are the good deeds of man tayanin they argue for man's being favorable and meritorious that ever repeats the same the good the primary thing is one's own asking of mercy and bringing the dividends who's the merits that he did another difference between the judgment of roshana the judgment of after passing afterwards today you can put on film after 120 you don't put on film anymore one of the greatest punishments when we come to the heavenly world the rates and losses children want to do they must speak in beyond day you know one of the other things that they do up there says in cabela you say you like playing basketball you play basketball and you didn't learn you play basketball here is a ball play basketball you play basketball and then you get tired no no timeouts this is one of the explanations of one of the the punishments in is that they they stuff you with the the thai nougat the pleasures that you indulged in and and they don't let you rest here's more of the pleasure more sam i'm vomiting i'm disgusted i can't eat anymore too bad mine is [Music] who says this this is that's mine yeah that's great that's great word chet of my robin thank you thank you premise never heard it beautiful the the main punishment that in that is that they don't want to play the basketball anymore not because it's hard not because it's a physical play pain but it's a pain because they want to do the bask in the glory of the lacus there yes yes right that's the main thing and yeah okay dartmouth is veal manchester united they're already in the world of truth we say yeah we want to we we regret what we did we want to do true for when i helped it sorry chap it and good deeds here more than all the world everything in the world to come one hour vancouver one hour of doing a mitzvah here you reach the highest levels of elim haber for abolition when someone comes to purify themselves messiah and they say hashem they help him specially auspicious and god pleads with tears god pleads to you you're the year's brother because hashem top of age 42. hashem is crying for you and saying please come come i want i want to get i want to receive you trouba so open your heart into truth but you from the compliments when a person is aroused to do true for which again in our circles we're not too fond of to dive in out loud to kill it out that's what it says here i'm not making it up a coil goggle now it doesn't mean you have to scream that's not what it means but just say the words instead of saying now sometimes i never understood because if you say it like that everything becomes more nice right i i hear you but i want to say is that also be sensitive i've seen this also when someone says it says because i'm going to say and he summons and he's bothered by it don't make a fight you go elsewhere don't don't say this is my seat you're right and he's wrong but don't make a fight it's not it's not good especially under hashanah so change your seat because you're right in the coil god the kodam for some reason that person is nervous and gets bent out of shape i have this issue one fellow sometimes when the al-qaeda reads i i read to myself and you know and he says yeah you know it's like like what's your problem i'm not keep the peace tone it down keep it more down you know so the coyote goggle i'm just saying because you know something so many that are trying to keep a lot of people very tight and and you want to dive and again screaming is we're not carolina stone if i see them where they scream the top of the lungs the shoe on 16th avenue of borobudur whenever i need a high instead of taking taking marijuana i go into that shoe yeah and mommy should go win everything you want to see an imitation they they go back to gain breath and then they shout it out not every single word but i've seen it and and they're good really good people but and i asked him and they said that about it their first rebels says that that's their and based iron this is safe for base island which is the like the tanya for carlino and he said that the the state that you should do collapse moisture means that type of activity okay this is what he says when the words come out of a person's mouth if they're good words they come out with holiness let me keep it brazil we need to kill shay forget it now mind you we we dive into it but we didn't okay he was far on the beamer but you know we didn't hear it didn't he i i haven't seen of yesteryear david this way i'm not saying they whispered but i i didn't i didn't i don't recall them making a point more out loud i i didn't see it it could be it goes back to chapter 29 and tanya without whatever speaks about screaming at the yates or herders i've heard from puerto rico mothers that learned tanya they said that emma says you have to scream he means scream with the mind's eye doesn't mean right but they don't yeah right okay you know the famous joke they say what what do you scream that god doesn't understand you god doesn't hear you you could speak the same guy he can hear you in a low voice but what i'm saying is that if you if you encounter people doubting this way understand there's a place for it not just but if you could have assassin you know and and and it's fine the main thing is to to articulate the words clearly not rush to each word and and and to think about it let's go further different types of sounds from hahaha different types of crying but i've been obligated here sheifer and the and the and the crying during kia sheikh who can bend not say a kill of if it's like a child who screams to his father abba father father abba abba laying me a vibe save me from my enemies and they are the prosecutors who seek to my my worst goes back to the beginning this is the day of the day referring to the day of creation of men as the beginning of action because the primary purpose and objective of creation is men who are them supreme was the choicest of creatures in a game said this day whose currently your embodiment is a commemoration the heart the character regretting allah over and things that he did in the past with the darkest showmen he accepts upon himself to change his ways to the good you know hashem hears those cries of the jewish people the true and the word true true who who swore him to brag through means brokenheartedness that abrasion and god hears that and god takes it willfully he he enjoys taking those cries to himself for elimination and god rises from the chair of judgment the yeashev and he transfers himself to sit on the chair of mercy or magbear and what happens is that the attribute of kindness overpowers the negative addition he gives the general the jewish people a year of life this is the mimer use it use it this coming rosh hashanah yeah use it it's a good minded to use while you're dabbing and don't rush your david and i told this morning you got to stop this rushing special initiative tipper i have to follow the cousin who says you want to follow the cousin knowing what you're doing what if you need time to i'm just saying like make it meaningful you know we're standing we're sitting we're jumping what i do is i come to shul and i put my towers over my head and i dive in on my pace and you guys can run and you can stand then you could to try to make the darkening now understandably when you have to get up you're obligated to get up for kadusha and this and that you know but it's important of course if you can come an hour and a half an hour before and you started diving before great it's important to make the the the time of trilogy and kipper meaningful otherwise it's invited i have a practical question yes yes so let's say that i want to do that yes for example it says you're not supposed to say it in the athlete yeah so you say that together of course oh you're saying when they say it yes yeah 100 okay yeah and you you stand up a little bit or you stay yeah you say you of course they said and after that you just skip over it when you get to that again um that you should ask robert marlow and i'm i'm not sure i think maybe you should say it again yeah because your name because that's a helicopter if you're say that fella if you don't say what you hit this you don't do it he said that it says by slicker you don't do it really you don't do it even though it says that you do it with the crap and then the old cost yeah you put that and then they took it out because about us not to who told you that's why that's i had a whole discussion here two years ago we had all the discussion here about it and the model said that that's the minute like that i don't know it was in the conference it used to be there and they need they don't put in any more than you say no they took it out of the new they had a new one they took it out the new one they took it okay we'll see after they have to so let's talk to the dog he talked to her off to see you know by the way that the dude had made some mistakes and and and it's not that old upon them agree on everything there that you should know that but um [Music] that's interesting to to ask what whether we don't say the in the say did not feel us he's saying we don't say because they say that i feel it that's why i would think you should say it hashem hashem your middle it's a say that feeler right no it does say her name is saying that you could say it if you want retirement but in kids of suganaka brains are only been again to slick it's not going to get the shot right that that's another thing it's probably slippery they don't say it how do you know how do you know it applies also they don't say in the chakras written for ashkenazi and they don't say hashem oh that's a good point oh he makes a very good point kenzai he's right that makes sense what you're saying here [Laughter] about that with the thing i don't know if he heard it directly from him he says it's alpha cabal and we don't know anything about it so don't worry well i'll be caballo oh that's what the girl says you know okay okay i didn't yeah