Essence of Chasidus #16- Oil vs. Wine: Chasidus vs. Kabbala - Mashpia: Who, What, Street Smart

so and all the mock locuses are over yeah halaby okay 47. dom chapter 7 let's continue this is now going to be giving a muscle for cities there also for the reason that we mentioned until now that has the the study of considers the teachings of the is an or that's remembered is a new light a new energy is that's why hasidis has been compared with sherman to oil it says that chairman is rosin derozan secrets within secrets there is secrets of the torah and then there is secrets within secrets that quote is brought from a safer called imribena yes i have a safer called him do you know anything about it of course was authored by the second lubavitcher of dave bear it's known to be amongst all chabad hasidis the deepest cities and one that when we were in yeshiva like we we were afraid of it like how can we wrap our heads around embry bitna so imribena yeah that's it you see you're innocent you're innocent gets right into the heart of heart of the issue and he has an english translation of imrabino so look look at note 63 for a moment look at note 63 in india bean explains the difference between wine which is called the secret of theta and oil which is called secret of secrets as long as wine is withheld and concealed inside the grape it gains strength and quality conversely oil does not gain any additional power at all by being contained and withheld in the aleph thus wine is the category of the hidden the the resin and has the numerical value of the word sold secret hence it derives strength from being withheld and concealed conversely oil however transcends the sense of concealment and revelation and therefore the constraint the constraints of concealment do not give it any additional strength thus compared to oil also transcends concealment and revelation and therefore has the power to reveal the hidden as explained above a note is a phenomenal thought wine oil i'm saying wine the more secret the more it is within itself within the grape the better it is kabbalah is by its very nature a study and a realm of being inside to yourself therefore when you say you don't cabal is not made for the public the public eye and the public domain is is is is contrary to the ethos of kabbalah what see this see this is not as people think a a further development of kabbalah that's wrong sidness uses capitalistic ideas and language but siddhis its orientation is just the opposite it's oil oil functions best in the open platform in the revealed state that's why we call oil not just razine we call it razendirazi now if if you understand this if we understand this it really right away tells us yes let's ask jayden and then he'll then yeah uh the oil floats on top of the wine correct but at the same time it touches the wine and everything that touches oil becomes oily right right on the one hand it got two opposite properties on the one hand and floats above the oil and on the other hand makes the wine oily right so and what what so what is that in the nem show what is that in the moral could you repeat it i didn't quite get what you understand said uranus has said that we find the phenomenal thing about oil on one hand oil oil floats above everything else so if you have wine oil is an oil together in a mixture of oils on top of the wine it folds on top and at the same time oil makes the wine and everything else oily so on one hand it's like on one hand it's like a secret right on the other hand this type of secret which we call the secret of secrets doesn't it impacts the wine in other words so the the the nem show you didn't get a chance to say it but the nintendo is that hasidis on one hand it has an element that feels and sounds like kabbalah but at the very same time it makes an impact on kabbalah that that that it's accessible to the human mind and that's a citizen is that a sin would you say that is the correct nimshu yes hillary you wanted to say something well it's sort of along the same lines i think um it occurred to me as we were saying that that and wine mixes with water and oil doesn't you know it is it's distinct and uh uh it remains distinct and in fact wine often really needs water in order to be palatable right right okay okay but again so so that's in the mushroom how is that in the nymphs you have to bring it back home you know and and oil the other use of oil that occurs to me is that oil is used to sort of externally to soften things so often so you might say that casitas has this this element of it's accessible to people where often cabela's not um is you know uh right it's just it's not tolerable so to speak right i like the way you promote it right i like the way you said it you're innocent it makes things oily and it's true it's true it makes things another way and so to put you your comment and pillows in other words together when you learn siddhis you you you become oily you become one take a s a donut that's oily your hands are oily when you put it after you when you learn scissors so it seems to illuminate kabbalah and other things right right right and i'm saying is someone who learns to see this and and learns it properly and and lives with it they're oily you you could you and this is this comes in line moisture what we discussed uh the other day which you you really you know felt uh moved by and commented on siddhis is not just an intellectual study is one that that imbues you that it's noticeable in you you're you're a piece of siddhis and and and and that's that's what we need to get to that when someone looks at a hostage and doesn't make a difference what type of closet any closet they know this is a hostage here goes a hostage you know and that's and that's that's a beautiful thing but it comes to come in other words yes yes you may disagree with it but i i'll say from experience that there are people who can learn hasidis intellectually just as much as they can learn torah intellectually and it does not respect them and impact i know they are i know that you have to go from the head to the heart to the action i'm not disagreeing of course and of course it's not that automatically you learn or you learn gamora you're gonna no of course not but i just said that i i second what you said i wasn't saying not i said that ultimately the the the oil makes it oily said meaning this it needs to make an impact and if it doesn't it if it doesn't you know that then whatever you're not you're not living the the the the the real the real uh the kuda of the bolshev you know it's a certain the kuda it's a certain that that that that expresses itself in every aspect of your being so so you're so is i mean how did you see what i said as a contradiction i'm not contradicting that's what i'm saying yes yes the meditation that he wanted to connect to maya and and and meet her yeah but you have to be willing to meditate you have to be willing to be misbinded you have to be you have to be willing to to put aside your yesh and your ego and your and your you know and everything else and and just live but but it's at the same time if you don't learn if you don't think if you're not misbending it if you then then then you don't have the platform to where to help integrate what you're learning intellectually with the practical yes and and i think that the the failure in some people is they learn it without a mushpia yes and it really well okay that's true but until you get a speed until you're able to go to a sheer you should see this you need to learn you need to learn but ultimately yes that that's why the whole idea of a mashipiya and there ever you should know in the 80s revived something that was done at during the time of the altar ever where they had mashpeem going and coming in and and and and uh you know not just teaching but but offering guidance and working with people and over the second years you know because of all the difficulties we had um you know in the community with the pogroms and everything else communists and all that it was kind of forgotten and the rebbe said and he appointed uh people in crown heights just as an example which is you know the hub of chabad and the river said that you guys and and allah is here you know he says i'm sorry you need mushpm you know i grew up hearing from like this the the the what what a rabbit does and teaches is is on one realm on one level and in a way it's distant from us it's this we need it but it's you need a mashiach that's exactly what you're saying yes sir in other words and in a way what what khasidham said and did and shared was closer to the person it's it's who we are we're in the community you know he's he's he's giving the world or you know and we we look to benefit from it but practically you need guidance and the rep and the rapper in a way more than the other obey him he taught this message you didn't reveal him experts rap on him mush pm in other words uh you want to know how to implement what you're learning that's exactly what you're saying you sir get yourself on my spear and you know there were times see it on the videos where people went over to the rebel sunday for dollars and they said so and so and my mashpeah said and the rebels said to them quietly find yourself another mashbeer so so that that comes from from ireland you know what i'm saying so that that's a that's a soul thing you know what the rabbis says hey uh as as as nice and as yuma spear is i see something about your noshoma that needs a different tickle and a different beer or a different mahalak but that's you know that wasn't except it wasn't but generally speaking um and this is a big issue this issue i'm glad you brought it up is there is a big issue in in the community because since there ever called for it and i know for my my my daughters you know there was a stigma a stigma attached do you have a mashive in other words it was so kind of beaten up that it became a stigma for for a girl or a particular girl or boy to have a mashive someone oh that means i'm something's wrong and it wasn't and that wasn't at all the situation that that ever spoke about it wasn't something's wrong to help you implement the the cycle into the medicine to behavior as we've been discussing is is important and the the issue is who is the mashpiya what is the criteria for mashmi right can anyone take the mantle of being a spear well you know superficially yes but the anemias i mean it's just like you know a social worker psychologist a psychiatrist a person needs to know that what they know and they don't know the other day someone you know was speaking to me a young man about about issues and i felt he needs medicine because he's depressed i right away called to some organizations that that that's not my field i mean i know enough that i think to say that i think he should see a psychiatrist but the one handling it and giving guidance is not high in dolphin not a rabbi but a but a professional and so it's also very important and this is where it gets very very tricky you know you know look we just covered know that right who decides i mean this is an age old machis is different disagreement who decides how and what should be done in the show when you have it or here and there a rabbi or a doctor what's the answer the titus says so a doctor in conjunction with tata comes and gives the final and i think i think tell me if it's different narcissist in america i think the the rabbun and most of the rabbis and also in the hasidic community at the end of the day they sought counsel from the professionals the medical professionals and they then gave their ruling which which i think you know is the right is the right thing but you've had this issue you've had this disagreement throughout the rebber when he wasn't well right it was a disagreement probably so they checked it was a disagreement when when a rat when a scholar do you bring him out do you not bring him out do you show them to the public do you hide them from the public you know yeah you had these issues yes you're innocent i'm sorry you wanted to say something yeah i do i i heard from them about pokey and they said that one of the content of getting out my sphere is you just have to have a little bit more unique surviving uh i i i i would say not just a little more you shamay and lots of more years but but but but also but also you know i have to say this you have to get someone who has smarts you know if you get on a spear was a fool it's it's a it's a bad situation do you understand i'm saying you have to have street you have to be street smart there were certain people over the years that ever sent people to them because they were smart you know like remember foot of us right rabbi hutner these were very smart people streetwise you know what i'm saying where they could put aside their religiosity and their fruit guidance and tell a person this is what you could do i'm going to say something that's outrageous now but but it i just want i want to give you an example someone who's ready leland emma's he told he used to be making bali troopers between bali truva talking about in the 70s and 80s and he said to a fellow he said to him how was your date he set him up and the guy was you know about shuffling he was very froome and he said i didn't care for her so then he said to her did you give her a kiss and the belcher he says what what that's the way i lived and behaved before i was religious before i was from what what was the point he was making you know did he really mean he should kiss her i mean he's from if they're not you know shy by the gear i i don't know what he meant literally you know and i don't want to whatever but i i know that it was a message did you engage in your date in a in an emotional way in a in a you know did you you know the two people are meeting or did you say hey i'm on a date the torah says i should meet someone and here's the script and this is what i'm doing well naturally if that's what you're doing you're going to walk away saying i don't care for her and next that's what i mean by smarts you understand so you go and tell this to someone in lakewood or place in the casino community they'll throw you out like you are the one setting up people where you're telling them to kiss the girl on a date what are you uh this is a fruit community right do you understand you need to have seiko you need to have smarts that's all i'm saying so join us i'm saying [Music] has takes all kinds and you know you can have sometimes a big year to shamayan but he's not shy to being practical uh i don't know such a must be i i i wouldn't go to such atmosphere and uh it's a week before gimbal thomas that ebb is a yard site so it's time for hakana and we should reserve it to the golden slayer we'll see everyone next next monday zeitgeist