Enough with the Excuses

okay we're on page good day we're on page yeah but but the first we didn't learn uh the kisser yet am i wrong we're at the bottom you're right well we maybe alert them but just let's refresh ourselves pay the page 201 bottom of the page the kitchen whose source is the world of void enters man prior to the godly soul whose source is the world of correction and perfection um and it roots itself it takes root in the bodily habits the word over here doesn't mean feet it means how to go for the word hair gel hair gill bodily habits which naturally gravitate towards corporeality towards materialism course materialism so we have a situation that a person has become entrenched his with gashmias and cumbria's that's what he says why because has 13 years ah of work that he did on man before the nephilim kids got a chance to activate itself and to control it yesterday was so how could you say that the deficient kids can overpower and the answer is in the next few words that he elaborated on in the chapter if you look at the real source of the real who's the real jew the real jew is not nefash abbami's the real jew is nefer jello kiss because tikkun olamatikum in the aftermath it comes after touhou but in the in the kavanagh in the intent it's before oil just like yaakov remember what he gave us the marshall of yaakov yaakov who came out first asaph who was the intent yaakov so too who's the intent never shall the kiss who comes out first nephesh obama's and hashem wants it this way because this solidifies free will and again we repeat that free will is at the center and core of godliness not not of manhood of godliness hashem will not re remove a person's free choice because if you remove that you're not a man and if you're not a man there's no creation and there's no god forbid to say this there's no god nothing makes sense it's all a matter of you know playing cards pulling strings at the puppeteer being pulling the strings with a puppet we say no it's not like a puppet not like cards there is rhyme and reason to what's going on here and you and we and man has that choice yes yes the never mind would have no no way get in at all because of the power of magnificent kids say that again it's enough right right right so it makes sense right right hilo you want to say something i just wanted to hear yeah we hear what riotout was saying but i got it okay let's continue and those are his ending words in the kitchen and those are kind of the words that need to stick in our mind for the rest of our life we have the kayak and ability to control energy obama's all the excuses throw them out because they're worthless let's continue now rabbi rabbi j.j hecht who was called like the rebels ambassador of yaakov who um was a powerhouse of a person and a very uh a rabbi and a he was a real proud american and and it became alibaba babies in this youth of the previous rabbi and then the rebel and he would only there's a video of him you've got to find it online where he's speaking either hey dave it's one of the chabad um and he's and he gives it to he gives it he gives it to the crowd he says stop with your excuses with disrespect about our episodes you aren't going to win with any excuses the excuses you could take somewhere else with him you're wasting your time so you might as well get get started now and just take the responsibility okay page 203 my major dalek here we go um this will explain and he quotes now the beginning of tanya so happy so so appropriate because we start tanya again this coming shabbos hashem you does kiss live in the cycle as well says we administer an oath to the summer to the soul to so be righteous when you come down here don't be a jerk don't be a russian the shrew is zoom this [Music] is that what they're is that what they're uh make this the the shaman maker on don't be a jerk essentially don't let me know all right i'm just uh just putting it i'm putting it in terms of how we can relate to it anyway so he says zoo says that the baby the in the fetus is taught the entire torah now here's a question after it's taught the whole torah you would think that when when it has a chance to to to operate and activate and be itself of course it's going to do what tight is and nevertheless and nevertheless the gemara says not like that the mother says that although i know that it it learned all of the torah with the malach nevertheless when it comes here it's going to have challenges and therefore i'm telling you so be careful sometimes the language is all roads are fraught with danger in the olden days you know the travel was very dangerous with the robbers and then and all that the hoot limbs so call of dutch all roads whether you go from bed chambers to your shallow or from today where it's much safer to drive in the shomeron i used to drive through ramallah to get to where she lived in achilles [Music] and it was one friday one uh sorry not right one month that i mean it's scary because the you know the arabs they brought rocks and this and that but there was one month in chaves that there's this when you come when you're going from it's a place called nerium to this talmud area and then there's a huge incline huge incline and you have to go up the mountain and and the car goes very slowly because it's like a huge incline a pack of wild dogs attacked my car this was late mudsay shop is somewhere after 10 11 o'clock at night and while the car is going up really slow i've never seen something like my life like i floored it but they were at our windows and now i see now i understand where the sponsor comes from and how about me uh driving uh being taken by the sleeve in boulder colorado when i went to interview salman shechter so before that the schliak was kind enough to take me for a little bit to show me the lay of the land and before my eyes i saw running um uh what do they call them uh lions uh mountain lions and one of them came down to the car and they said stay put and this was like you know 15 minutes 15 minutes for from civilization okay let's go up good see if it says plural not one soul souls with an s at the end or sisi i have made god says and the altar ever says in tanya is and now he quotes a piece of tanya shay staying the first is here we're talking about two souls never shaka is the first soul from the negative side the he army slapped basha's madame it invested itself a man's blood laughing he said move to enliven the body looks even it says the soul of the flesh is in the blood um and from this soul is called all bad traits come from the the soul you say this associated with the four elements that are in this case negative the casa anger and conceit are attributed to the to the element of fire why should nick villamila because fire rises upward so too when one is angry and one boasts one is in gaiver the one one is is uplifted in the sense of nick lamila number two the taiwan indulgence is associated with pleasures besides from the element of water why am i in because water mats make them come in and i know they sprout they give they give um sprout to all kinds of tyres and pleasures and food and and and then the food yeah number three the high levels frivolity uh laughter uh boasting with whatever talent an idol chatter all for me they come from the element of air because it's all a bunch of air there's nothing there behind it number four the astros viazos laziness and melancholy me say to come from the element of dust why because when one is lazy and when one is god forbid depressed then one is very low okay the gum those are the four issues that that are no good and and therefore they're associated with those elements in in in not a good way but god made this clever shepherd to have a call you slow down the ads also the good attributes that are natural to every jupiter do some from birth we are by nature very merciful people um we are by nature very benevolent people says the balatanya boys me manna my dear friends it doesn't come from the good holy site it comes from the clipper as well why can't be israel because by a jew never saw the clip this animal soul this clipper so hemi clippers it's associated with what's called the translucent clipper yes it also has some good the hemisaid associated with the esoteric idea of the tree of life tree of knowledge that has good and bad it's not all bad there's some good there's an admixture of good and bad so so what's bad what's so bad about rachmanas and and and it's saying that if it's not done in a way that transcends one's nature it's natural to you and anything that's natural is clippers noga it's not shoulders clippers it's not completely evil true but it's not com it's not holy holiness is effort remember that rule and i told you there's a dictum that goes 200 years goes back to the early hasidim if you're confronted with something that's easy run the other way or in today's language if someone probably promises you a 40 return on your money run the other way okay if it's too good it ain't good and you don't see it now but you'll see it later and it's a cloud and it's very hard right because so the same thing here we're talking about rahmanis we're talking about it the question is is it we're saying refined has it been refined so that's what the al-qaeda says the bellatonia says in chapter one of tanya that medis shabbateva israel that's natural that has not been refined boys comes from the clippers but never saying this being let me continue please let me assume i have a lot to cover the netflix hashtag is it's a divine it's a part of god the divine part of god commission this is still from tanya this is now chapter two in tanya come on when someone blows exhales he exhales from within you sir top of next page 205 um exhale comes out through the breath coming out the blower of the coil that's the parable that's the muscle says the altar but now the moral [Applause] [Music] one cannot know him just by being wise god also has the attribute and virtue of wisdom but if you attempt to know him only through wisdom you're going to strike out basically hashem is hashem and in other words it's not a generated but it's he and being that there is he he has all virtues one virtue is called kokomo one called bina one's called das one's called cassette one's called etc this is further from tanyam this is the meaning of the first souls i make the coil net for surely i'm sorry this is not from tanya this is a paraphrasing the shot and tanya so now he goes back to this verse that the bellatonia brings to chapter two that i've made souls this refers to the nephili kiss and the nepheshabamas that's why avi that says plural souls even most because it's two now show the keys foreign cooler who is thought to hold taira the never shirley kiss the oyster must be in teeth and it is he it is it it is she did never show the kiss that's administered an oath be righteous no be wicked seemingly this is this is not understandable it's difficult much better for the ki what kind of business is giving the oath to the netherlands obama's disaster after leaders show them the fact that the nether that the soul can be bad we're giving us an oath that are necessarily kiss about not being bad and it can't be bad it's a little kiss who could be bad that never shall promise so why are you giving the nose to nothing silly kiss is peter talking to peter as peter talking to paul what's going on over here it is from the nephesh obama's that all ugly medals of anger and conceit and indulgences come from the it the highlights what's under spiders from telemedicine if your volatility is coughing and boasting and idle chatter after the oxfords the laziness and the melancholy it all comes when enough being cane if so mao right it's like you're talking and you're talking to the wrong person the netherlands kisses is on the right side is not going to goof up it's only kiss the idea the word oath is also associated with the etymology of the word is so satiated the idea of surveyor is the the power and strength machine learning that's given to man that one has the ability to serve god through fatal mitzvos to maybe gosh means just like in the physical world kishore or themselves when a person is satiated in addition to him being very strong you know the olive he's in good spirits right so there doesn't only mean you only you had a good meal and now you're full no real salve means that of course you're full but you feel content you feel elated you feel happy your spirit has been satiated as well so he says you will be satiated with bread and you will be good so too in spiritual matters [Music] when it says that as an administ oath is administered to the soul above it means the soul above has been given a uh a say it has been satiated the zelda mushrooms being noisy this is the meaning we administer we make it swear that's the literal meaning but if you if you if you translate must be from the word so they are like mosbian is with a shin mash being but if you read it not with a shin but with a sin the dot on the left rather than the right must be in then it means satiated in yiddish hashem makes the soul satiated [Music] that it should be able to overcome so this answers the question the question was why are you giving the north and officially kiss if it's a nefesh obama is that does this and the answer is because the nefesh obama is and it slaps an efficient kiss in so the nephesh of the kids need something to be able to overcome what is that something the oath what is the oath really all about being satiated with powers and abilities to overcome because it really has it as we learned earlier chapter it precedes and has a higher source than the nethersharbamis so hashem says you're about to go into the world you're about to encounter all the titus you're about to deal with all the stuff you should know i am i i'm giving you something that if you tap into it you'll be able to overcome and i'm not only giving it to you i'm satiating with with you so not only are you full you know in the in the practical sense you're for full in the spiritual sense next page 207. this is also the meaning if we look at the idea of an oath in its literal sense the kashida damn is if someone makes a promise i promise i'm going to go here and there at this and this time you let me say even if we'll have issues and i'll have stumbles and obstacles the car will break down this will happen whatever it is nothing will stop him you know why um he's forced into doing it the question is heaven what's the difference between taking ashwa an oath or not what does hamlet say let's talk the answer is that a shura is that aspect of of of halacha that forces you into doing it so no excuse will prevent you from doing it that is the mindset that is created through and it's not just a matter of i promise on a bible it the schwa experience opens up that part of the person that is able to overcome any and all obstacles that's what he says schwa is person opens up what he has which is called hidden recesses hidden cocas and essential cochles right you walk by you see a car under someone you actually muster the strength and you lift the car and the person comes out how did you do it normally you don't have kayak you're a weakling all of a sudden some quakers energize you that you have latently and they come to fruition and you and you you save the person that's called right let's two or two new terms the revealed man of manifested powers that we deal with every day and coincides the inner secretive hidden caucus says that every year that when we take a note we are tapping into kurklas and aluminium and as far as concerned nothing can stop you nothing let's continue [Music] in more conventional words we have a saying nothing stands in the way of the will power if there's a will there's a way unofficially keys so also regarding an efficient kiss that's that receives this oath i knew she is saying to the nephew you should know i'm giving you these crayfish and you your characters precede the studio to the never bombings so i'm satiating you with this and if you tap into it they will be revealed tell your desire will not be able to get in the way it might try but in the end you'll ride right over it he goes back to what we learned a few chapters ago i'm hot blooded i come from this country in this culture these parents what do you want from me my father was a lunatic my grandfather was a lunatic and a nervous man and all of that so what do you want from me so i have some of that guys too who caught them all in my love but it's not an excuse because every person i don't care from where you come and who your parents or grandparents and where you grew up are every person has an officially kiss that's all straight and normal and all-powerful and can overcome any and all cultures this is a very powerful statement it's such a powerful statement because usually we don't think this way right oh we're looking at this family oh but i don't want this family you know why because they come from this culture it's not going to match with my culture you know the rebbe the rebel was very it's very interesting the rabbit didn't accept any of this stuff when it came to shidduchim he didn't i know i know a personal story for several people the parents that the father was a hasidic husset and all that and he was concerned that the the girl that his his son is meeting the mother wasn't froome at the time didn't go to the mikvah the rabbit took his big his little pencil you know they ever used to write till the pencil went down like this right and he crossed out a big line he crusted out and this was a prominent person who worked for the rebel and and he he shared the story with someone who i know like sorry trap they did shuver that means they went to the nick but they didn't go to the midfield or maybe they didn't go says the rabbit they didn't go to the mid because they did chew them true was retroactive but it says in the zoar that if you live with a person who comes from a non-mikveh it's terrible although babachir rabbin knows about that zayar too so the rebel was this is the truth it's something that lots of the barbecues have a problem with you know and and i understand because the culture has set in where the cultural differences um put up these barriers and say oh svard versus ashkenaz vancouver versus from from birth and and and you know everything else that comes along with it if indeed two people are very different the people themselves that's legitimate that's legitimate but what we're learning here is that a person is able to overcome and we've seen this too we've seen people from different cultures who made complete changes in their life and you don't you wouldn't recognize that they come from such a culture that's what we're learning over here because they haven't necessarily kissed and they can transform themselves they for whether it's through negating their culture or just being in the limelight of of of of a heavenly culture and that's who they are without having to wrangle and destroy the the culture that they feel is unhealthy right which of course is a better way what's better yoni they have to deal with the schmutz and come out of the schmutz or to begin with not being the schmutz because you're elsewhere because you're in a holy place of course when you're in a holy place and and and this is important in raising children not to not to educate them with putting down the other but rather showing them the beauty of of that special approach and and derek without you know belittling the other and that's a difficult thing because you know we have habits and bad ones at times but the truth is when you sit back and you learn such a mimer and you think about it and you think that i have the ability i have i i am not i am an efficient the the entire strength that the nephesh has is because of its source in it is i'm sorry the entire strength of the nephesh bombings is because it comes from toyo and from clippers [Music] [Applause] [Music] says the rabbit guess what when you tell me that your natural cultural uh boiling blood gets in the way at the very same time the deficiencies get stronger you understand if you're telling me that your nephew's obama is stronger and strong the definition is even more stronger it's it it's not like the nephilim kisses waiting in the background no it senses that the person is activating enough obama's so enough for sure the kiss goes into its mouth which is the strongest mode and you have to just open yourself up to it [Music] that's what the rabbit says you have to just open yourself up to it and you're saying yeah it's up to your peter your free will [Music] if you truly don't want to separate yourself from hashem how do you make it you do not stand up to the natural boiling uh of the nephew because you didn't take the time to arouse your own powers of the nephilim [Music] free will but don't tell me you don't have it so so this is an answer why this fool was given what was the question at the beginning motion the question was why is this sure given to the nephew shall i kiss if the issues are never bombings the answer is because obama slaps the official kiss into it and then after obama says i'm stronger than you so hashem says you're a liar you're not stronger than officially kissed the nephew kiss is really stronger but you have to access it and if you access it and that's part of the schwa and that's why before the infant the defeatist comes into the world we administer it enough because the titan that it learned i didn't say this earlier but it forgets as soon as it comes out that's the kazal saying in addition to that the toyota's in the spiritual sense when it comes into the world it's all forgotten it's it's an interesting phenomenon right any phenomena you you have a fetus learning with a model of teaching at the entire toyota and as soon as it comes out what happens if i guess it's like it never happened and that's why i think i told you the rebel once said that's one of the reasons why the baby cries why is the baby crying and when it comes out it's crying it's crying but it's missing the trainer that it just learnt i just forgot the entire thing that's so upset hashem says it has to be this way free will and the famous story with the with the husset who came to the belzer rep in the 1950s the father brought him and today he lives in natanya we have to locate him and find him and interview him who knew at two three years old he was uttering torah verses he just was blabbling torah like the mother didn't give him the little zap over here on his lip he brought him to the bells of that but the holy rabbit in tel aviv where you shall lie and wherever he was at the time and the rabbi asked the father i think to leave the room that's what they say whatever he came back in a few minutes and the boy wasn't uttering anymore the verses of tata why why why did the topic perform such a miracle why because you have to have free will and for whatever reason for whatever reason hashem only knows he was born kind of not that way and hashem made it through the sadiq that this gift was taken away and this person they say is alive and well is this probably 70s living in netanya today and whether he remembers it i doubt it because he was you know a little boy i don't know exactly the age but over here that happened the mimer says the same thing any questions comments arguments anything yes jonasson well the truth is that when we learn together uh and then we researched something familiar somehow we had to sound familiar because we learned to do the room even though we forgot that there's like a streamer a trace of a cliff so when we hear it today oh i remember it and then it doesn't happen i i acted on it i i guess you understand you have a better memory than i do because i don't remember learning it in in my mother's womb you understand it reminds me when i was doing um teaching uh a resale on reincarnation and i dabbled a little bit i dabbled a little bit in what's called past life regression therapy which is a whole you know discussion in the uh psychology world and i found the sources and ideas in the arizon so i spent some time on that and you know it reminds me of people asking me so rabbi could you tell me who i was in my previous lifetime a rabbi i think i was in the holocaust in the spanish inquisition or the famous the one that's most famous is the lady called now i'll never forget it was a winter friday it was short right a short shop early shoppers a lady calls me about four or four o'clock or ten minutes before the skier before lightning lift and says rabbi you have to help me i saw that you're a capitalist i said okay what could i do for you my son is possessed by a dybbuk i said why do you think your son is possessed by the book because this is my only son i came out of the holocaust i survived my little yiddish jingle my love and he wants to allow his color and her parents who are jewish thank god to make a wedding that they're getting married but it shouldn't be a kosher meal he must be possessed i sat there my dear uh i hear you but i think we have a common schism between a schwigger you know what a figure is a mother-in-law and a future son-in-law that's what's happening here no the book and no souls and no possessions your son is very normal he wants to marry the girl he's not religious she's not religious he comes from you he would like to honor you and he would prefer having a kosher wedding but she or her parents don't want it what whether costume or whatever the case so you know there's an argument here so it's easy to say i don't mean to belittle what you're saying you're listening at all what i'm saying is that it could be it could be a person you know who am i to say could be something sounds familiar and and and it's you know it's from it's from what you were taught when you were in that stage kevin have a great day everyone we'll see everyone tomorrow tomorrow is still learning this time it's hashem say bye bye take care bye bye