Ego is antithetical to Growth - Every Jew has the tool to be G-dly - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

good morning good day to everybody today we'll finish chapter 25 and Tanya which will be the end of the ideas that he began discussing in chapters 18. and the Mr Shem after um our break we come back and straight to shallow um we'll begin chapter 26 through 34 this I what I call the psychological part of Tanya and I hope you'll encourage other people to join because it's really a lot of psychology and therapy and deals with simha and depression and frustration and happiness all those things are included in chapters 26 through laziness um chapters 26-34 but today we're on page llamic base it happens to be the heart I guess of Tanya on one hand even though it's not chapter 32 but it is page 32 and we are at the in the middle of the page where it says about 10 lines from the top after a DOT just a question what are you taking a break is it in August or today today is the last year the break starts today so it's about three and a half weeks okay okay thank you drama is talking about a Unity that's created each time a yeed prevents themselves from doing a transgression and each time a Jew seeks to cleave to to be the record Hashem this is what we learned yesterday let's continue inside the Mila from God's perspective it is Everlasting this year he needs the justification for a Jew putting on film one time stop him and this engulf and you put on film and the beers come out and say what's the big deal he's going into a bar he's going to sin tomorrow is not going to put on film and the answer is the alternative says it here this Unity that's created through the one time of putting on film is Everlasting that means it's held in this Jew's account for goodness for merit explains his reasoning how is it that a one-time Act is Everlasting he says is because God from his perspective transcends time so we're looking at time Yesterday Today Tomorrow yesterday didn't put on film today I had put on tune with him tomorrow he's not going to put on film says down today but that's your husband that's our husband because we are governed by time God who transcends past present and future it's all the same so the whole idea of time is the creation of God that means god is outside and greater of time so therefore this mitzvah that this Jew does one time is it is from God's perspective is there every day every day it's helping him so too hashem's will which is expressed through his word which is where within the study of Taylor who knits me is Everlasting so if you get my ye to learn tight at one time to come to this tiny class this year one time you have created and given them an opportunity that Tanya now has become I'll use these words abstain on his soul in a positive way it's not that he once learned Tanya he's learning Italian today I is not learning Tanya today in fact he is not interested or doesn't have time for him anymore the because hashem's will of Trader at hashem's will as expressed through Torah and when you study Taylor you identified with the Transcendent God that transcends time if he transcends time whatever he did is still active today this is a a great Kiddush and a very important to think about this is very very important and it explains the whole idea of of doing the midst way even just one time or even learning title just one time so don't dismiss title learning that you do one time and you don't know tomorrow you might get a job you might get busy you might have this you might have that makes no difference right now you're learning that's yours let's go further the word of Hashem is sustained forever and the words existence Etc and they do not get exchanged his religion forever in other words the religion of God vis-a-vis is a truism for eternity and no one ever and even when Michelle will come there's no such thing as the title we once learned is not credited to us or it pales in comparison to mashiach's title which it does but nevertheless the Tater is Everlasting and eternal this is all Dr Pepper says from God's perspective look what he says here now hello Motto below meaning from our perspective we are governed by time and only at the time that he learns China on the midst of it does Mitzvah is he connected else he's separated from the supernal bond from the perspective of us below but I know when does the ehut from our perspective cease to be Kesha Isaac but foreign when one is involved in idle chatter the Gandhi completely Should Abraham says that have no benefit at all for the service of God now you would think that these words is Sir a very are a downer it's negative now Deb is not saying this to be negative Dr Deb is saying that you have to know the score and the score is that when you do a Mitzvah even just one time and you learn Taylor just one time from God's perspective which is the icar it's permanent it's happening from our perspective from our perspective but what I did yesterday and I don't do it any longer and especially if I get involved in idle chatter and just wasting time I've I've cut I've cut a cord yes yes sir there will seem to be logically that it's necessary to be that way because because if it wasn't we would just stop we'd do a Mitzi and say ah now I have what I can rest on I I did I did good yesterday so what do I need to work today good yes that that that is true that is true that is true but it doesn't it doesn't negate the fact that the one-time Mitzvah and the one time and the one time uh Torah learning is yours the Yahoo again the wording of the altariba is Maisha this Unity that's created through the midst of the one time mid swim learning is eternal let's continue nevertheless Hashem the same person who took the time and broke the unity by in involving themselves with Idol chatter which that has no purpose in for God at all nevertheless when this person's closer he returns the show of LifeWay decision returns to the service of God many ask for forgiveness he asked forgiveness from God that he had the ability to learn and he didn't and when he asks Hashem Hashem if you desecrated a positive commandment and you the truth you're not budged from there you're not moved from there until you receive pardoning what do we have from this even from our perspective I'm from when we seize the yehud and we start and we involved an idol chatter instead of the time and it makes us know that you can do truth has a rhetorical remarks it would seem to it would seem that this is Moshe this is what I will say you can break you can sever the connection and tomorrow I asked Michaela and God will granted to you that's what we just learned if that's the case it seems like the logic is let me see it let me do tuba and we know that because I'll say God doesn't accept that if you were the time of the sin say I'm going to sin because later I can do truth of God says go somewhere you ain't getting to it from me if you you you you you you did not favor and and you want and you didn't you didn't have a mind when you did the Avera you really wanted to do that you you want to indulge and later you wake up from your dream and you say hey what did I do I really regret what I did God says I accept that right so now there asks on himself and answers my logic that I just said to you Dr River says is not considered I will say the Usain unless [Music] unless at the very time of the sin you rely on the trooper that you're going to do after and therefore you sin come on so in other words yeah you need to basically say if you do a sin and you really mean to sin you have God is more willing to accept the truth or later if you do a sin and at the same time you say I'm really doing the sin but I'm going to do juva later let me enjoy now because I can always get in canva God says get out of here I don't want to hear from you but if you do a sin for the sake of sin you don't think about God you don't think about later I've indulging now like I told you that you're this expression 11 I want to live a pinkish day now I want to be a pig now I don't want to think about what's going to be tomorrow I want to live it up now enjoy the moment if you think that way what how is that like that's basically like the situation when you have people that come to school like right you see people you've never seen before all of a sudden dozens and tons of people show up by Nila that they never come to show how about them every year how about the JFK people you know what JFK is oh ask the God by myself he'll tell you I don't believe it you guys hey here I am do you see the Yeshiva buffer and you guys don't know what JFK is just for kiddish oh yeah hey they just come for the key dish in every shoe you know 50 people 20 people 30 people just for the kids Dominique what Dominion come I do that but I don't write the same thing [Music] [Laughter] anyway no so the answer or no seriousness is that this yeet that comes he's not thinking throughout the year I'm gonna wait for the ELA I'm sorry find me such a tube shown to me most Jews are not that way they don't think about they just do they live their life and they go about their things they're not interested it comes Nila on the contrary the Eli awakens in them a feeling of true when they come to school when the khazan say active Russia we're talking about an individual who knows better who knows what juva is who understands what truth is and he says hey it's because I'll give me a way to get in by doing chuva and I know about it so meanwhile I can sin and do truva that we say you're not it's not acceptable let's continue it goes on the overall theme of chapters 18 through 25. with this idea that Torah is very near every single person this will explain uh a a enigmatic statement that motion made in this tutorial which we're learning now um next page page 64 is to the generation that went in territory slow specifically to them what did Marshall say I'm commanding you in the name of God licorice you have to reach my twice a day why the capital of markets are meant to accept upon yourself the Yoke of God you see the Snapfish right with all your might with self-sacrifice that's the reason now down to never asks a question however promises the Jews the fear of the enemy when you go into Israel will fall upon you and yet of interfere so if if someone must have to give them specific instruction before they went in Terrace's role when God already tells them that the enemy will fear you is this question says the ultimately you're right for the fear for the enemies to fear the Jews when they went into Eric's Road you wouldn't need to say twice my she wouldn't have to disrupt to say twice a day and let me show them Maisha was telling him that the general idea the Fulfillment of the study of Titan amidstv is totally bizarre it depends upon this concept she is that you should constantly remember not just once a day but every moment that I'm ready to give my efforts for God just like the the cowship of column was ready to give his life and that's about an idol for God's Oneness believe it should be a set in his heart come with Mommy look at how throughout his language constantly actually always night day and night I mean the words he keeps on adding the adjectives Israel adjectives number four at the fourth and it shouldn't never be removed from your memory because that will give you the ability to overcome the Yates said earlier what the algorithm is saying is like this the reason why instructed the Jews when they went in territory to say Krishna twice a day it wasn't so that the goyam should fear the enemy should fear the Jews and the Jews should have a safe haven there to throne it was so that when a Jew puts on fill in he should do it with the with the attitude that is he's giving away in other words that his thrilling is not just an act and an important act and listen to the titles of grunt film but he should feel the attitude of Oneness with God and here you see clearly and that comes to Krishna here you see clearly that the aotearama's entire uh 18 through 25 seven chapters his entire thread and see of of revealing the hidden love is to create this Unity of unity with God and if you're missing Unity which means you're ready to give your life if need be or even if you know in a situation where you're not you know that God is the priority and what God wants the priority therefore that's your focal point and you don't lose track if you don't have that then your tail mitzvous is bereft of Messina's nafish attitude and then it's a selfish tolerance and this and this is the naked of this these seven chapters as we talk to the banani and we say you been in thee you have the potential of such Heights and reaching such such a refinement of character and such a connection but it's predicated on one concept and if you forget for a moment and you and it's about your own trip your own ego your own you know my own thing then it's not it's not holy you you're not the being a need that Tanya wants you to be unless you're not your best you're you're basically living with a with with without with the falseness and this unfortunately this has happened and sometimes you look around and you say how did this person was so grateful how did he fool it was missing this this was never his modus operandi never his motorcycle was one thing you know what that is yes sir self and and self doesn't have any color and self doesn't have any um features you know the ego the yes is is is so smart that it comes in every shape and form the Frida calebra writes in the name of the second the Bible don't bear it says what do you think asaph was Ace of had a helmet and a sword he said ASA was dressed with a strim Olympus and he was asaph how do you like that Lord asaph the hunter the Killer the mom's works right Jew and he was still amazing because he's missing the the code of yehud which means totally selfless you know I remember standing by the Rebels for bringings and we had places you know I remember I sometimes saw people who were sold they wouldn't give an inch and a drop and not let someone else stand in their place and I would I was a Booker young I was saying where where is where is hashidis it's yes it's your place it's not your place yes you you made an effort to come early and and establish yourself there so that you can hear better and see better the fabranging but if another youth wants to hear and see give him your place and let him stand next to you squash yourself go under the bench and put them on top you know you know what I'm saying is it it come like in the name of hasidis in the name of uh of Taylor we justify ego it's wrong and the out there every year if you stay you stay to the text and yesterday as I said it was yard site and the thing that we learned from him was this nakuti was totally I'm telling egoists he didn't know what ego is I'm telling you he did not know what ego is you know I I saw this so many times and and yes he wasn't born into parents who have refined people he grew up in in Tel Aviv with others in the in the 30s and 40s and there was you know could you imagine him thinking about it the Yeshiva was I was called cook I was there I videoed it it's right but the Arcana blocked from the beach right which Yeshiva would have make a use which would make a Yeshiva block from the Tel Aviv Beach okay so it wasn't the television Beach of 2023. it was a Tel Aviv Beach of 1935 38. but the beach is the beach and the Yeshiva was a block away so I spoke to Abigail's cousin maybe well he's still he's alive he lives in New Haven so he said to me we weren't allowed to go to the beach have we listened it doesn't mean that we couldn't see the water and we couldn't make a friend you know have to smell the fresh water and you know they weren't locked up was no one no one locked them up you know there's no locks over here but but the nakuta was could you imagine you have the Yeshiva that's a block and a half from the beach and look what came out from all of these people such a fine Yeadon such fine families because if you live with this you can live next to the beach because you are not impacted by all the stuffs hey you washed your eyes you don't look there and B if you happen to see it's like you're seeing nothing nothing now that's easy to say it's it's not nothing that's why we have to guard our eyes and and not look at things we're not supposed to no question about it but I'm just saying it's it's the the attitude yes my yeah can you just repeat I'm sorry I missed it which Yeshiva was this this was called that the previous rabbit started through his hasidim in 1938 and that time was called hayam right later was it's today called haraf cook number 16 and my daughter has the international gun in that building in that same one-story fat yeah I told you about that that's what that's where the Boyle and his friends learned as little eight nine ten-year-old boys I was there you know I'm just saying is today the fact that Yeshiva shouldn't be there is because we've Fallen not because we're greater it's because we have bigger tivers and we don't control ourselves yes don't make don't make a Yeshiva next to a block away from the beach and it's 2023 it's not 1938. but I'm saying the attitude is that when you when you when you so when you learn with kids I'm not saying they were learning Tanya at eight nine years old but they've had the parents and with their shops has see them Who Came From Russia from the underground and they it was a culture created with these people and I'm not saying just these people there's the Yeshua the Russian over there the spider control I'm not I'm just saying that whoever identifies with without that ever says here that not only is uh do you do you need to will the enemy fear you because you're Jews but you in every Minster that you do what's felt is the Mercedes nerfish the self-sacrifice the unity then wherever you are you're going to be strong you're going to be the same you're not changed by this by the culture the culture can't change you because you know the culture is just saying this is superficial and you're about something else you're a godly man you have a Sharma you have enough for sure the kids you have a Godly soul so the whole equation I've run the whole equation of you know doesn't apply to you I'm a Jew you know kind of gifty you know not that everyone else is great and wonderful but they don't happen to shamba they have a soul on their fish on the charmelly kiss and when you think about that you say no no so what I'm gonna I'm gonna have like a like an animal okay I gotta go have a great three and a half weeks we'll talk to everyone Michelle should come you shouldn't have to fast we should have the base I make the zygous