Don't give platform to disgrace families, allowing ppl to air out their issues - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

Shalom Alim a few minutes of inspiration recently I've been noticing the biters kabad people of various sorts some more intelligent more knowledgeable more religious others a little less regardless hosting podcasts and programs and the attitude is to interview such people who kind of bring their dirty laundry out to the public now in 2001 I believe with the Call of the show for Fiasco our leaders at the time R Khan RAB Rabbi heler called a meeting December 24th I believe it was at alra and they said this is wrong this is not the Jewish way at that time we were talking about people meeting for supposedly self improvement and Men was Men in particular sitting around and um badmouthing their father their their father in particular later on uh a r here I believe K and Flatbush said it was forbidden because it had association with some form of idolatry this idea today of people who are hurting inside and believe me the hurt is real I understand it and what they choose to bring it out in public it's their decision everyone has free will but for a laaber who has a certain mandate as Aid as a ye this is not our approach for the interviewer to give a platform for someone to disgrace their family because the family has a name and it's a stain on the family and I I know the counterargument well this is the way things feel better when you air it out so other people don't get hurt I'm not taking sides now abuse not abuse I'm really not going that direction I just want to talk about this idea I'm I'm really focusing on the one who give who do the interviews and who give the platform please be more careful to conceal the name of the person you're talking to look at uh pictures from from the war in Israel and you see when someone is shot they cover the face you can't see the face there's something called public there's something called dignity human dignity Jewish dignity cidic dignity and to to to to share it with the public and say I don't care is not a good approach it's not the right approach and I think we also had this issue a while ago with these Tech talks where people I remember some women in particularly spoke about the pain that they had growing up and it's real pain but what we walk away with is oh uh your mother did this your father did this you know it's not the yish way when a certain person came out with a book about intimacy I the AP press asked IL wiisel what does he think about it and El wiisel said I could also write such a book with such a topic a hot headline yellow journalism but it's not the yish way it's not the Jewish way to talk about certain things in public intimate issues we don't talk about in public and I say the same thing over here so I I really I'm coming from a good place I'm not coming here to to to you know to put anyone down but I I'm asking for some compassion for the families of people who get hurt by default because they have a son a daughter a relative who's angry at the system or angry at a certain person Etc and therefore they're going to Bear it all they they could choose to do what they want and it's a free country in a free world but the person who's giving the interview who's the interviewer allowing them to come on their show and and in in that form I Ask of them to to not allow that to happen and the name of the person should be concealed at least that thank you very much and I hope this brings some inspiration to us in serving Hashem in a better way thank you