Don't be a Parasite, but Transgressing is worse - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

learning now Tanya we're on Page llamic in the middle of chapter 24. in the outer ever until this point explained the difference between the clipper negative forces and energy who will do their job by causing a Jew to sin versus a Jew who sins himself said that the Jew that sins is a lot worse than the clipper you know initially when you hear such a statement it doesn't make any sense it's like Clipper is the seat of evil and you're saying that a Jew that sins is worse than the Sea of evil says yes and he a very basic rational argument and that is a that the fir if this is the first line on Paige lamott where he quotes this converter without giving the source he says idolatry calls late to God calls God and the wakaya God of all gods that means that avodazara idolatry recognizes that there is a creator the only the only thing is I'm also a player God created the Sun the moon the stars and this particular Idol giving it uh Independence in as far it's influence so as far as its Israel listen to this point as far as its recognition in the Matthias Hotel in the existence of the almighty God the Creator even avoided Zora knows I did not create myself at least this type of Africa that we're talking about here I say that parenthetically because there's a posse in Tanakh which was saying daftarah and brought it earlier with Paris says foreign the river is mine and I created it so there that could be a deeper form of a deserted but overall although the Zara is the recognition of the Creator and the denial of what we call ardus means after from is one there's nothing besides him we call that actus means that you the Stars the moon the sun and the about the Zara you have no Independence at all even in your influence in other words you cannot decide today I want to shine tomorrow I want to Reign no no no that comes from God as well filtering itself through you but you have no say when it should rain and when it should shine about the Zara disagrees idolatry says no God the Creator gave me co-auth gave me power to be able to decide when to Reign and when to shine that the Gomorrah says is idolatry and vodasara says the altered clipper is a form of Avada why is an idol an idolatry it's the the the the the fact that some think and someone says I am an existence as well my ego is important and my ego dominates as well that's the exact same concept as Zara are very closely related to each other right but we just said a moment ago the Kamara says admits that there is a Creator only that I'm also a player to decide when to give God's energy and shining and reigning and everything else to The World God says I'm leaving it up to you oh that's what idolatry is that's one of our desires that's what the call idea of clip is you only turn please mute yourself is a form of clipper okay let me finish out the middle of a thought here please so so that's clipper what about when the Jew commits a sin when a Jew who would think of a Jew committing a sin as a an idol says the out to that but he's worse than an idol she's worse than Idol why because when you go against the will of God you're denying God's existence completely not just his this is the point here in Tanya not just God's but you're denying not just God's but you're denied denying God's existence the Mitzi Utah God forbid that's what you're doing when you commit a sin and that's a lot worse so now let's continue on page Lament smack in the middle of page after the colon he brings you a gamara and he explains it beautifully therefore the sages say I'll posic on the first in the Torah referring to the Isha Sota is when a woman will go astray and seclude herself with another man and and we and the husband accuses her of being inappropriate with another man that's the section of Sota says the Gamora the word sister comes from the word stus foolishness stupidity doesn't bring the last part of the of the statement of the the sages a a person the only time a person commits a sin is when there's when the spirit of folly enters the mind and makes the person cuckoo the sugar and the rule and the doors too says commit the sin the gemara says avram that this is not normal could you imagine the sins that we do were being not normal why of Avi why because the normal state of Aid is to do what Hashem wants when we don't and we go against Hashem we are sister we are going astray and and the Gamora says that's because of the ruachthus of the spirit of stupidity that enters our being our mind our heart commits us to sin says and now in explaining the Isha so even a woman who has relations in seclusion with another man which points to her being um frivolous or uh you know literally means her she she knows exactly yeah but literally means her mind is uh you know she's shallow and of course women get very upset that men should too it's not the shot shallow it means that she allows because of her sensitivity it's easier to convince her so she allows the ruachthus to convince her and she goes and has this affair uh I guess the gamara didn't know what's happening today did it eh let's go on Jose Michelle if she would have not had the spirit of that would enter her consciousness she would have dominated by Nature over the taiva over the Indulgence if not for the spirit of stupidity within her which conceals three different words used for the same idea which hides and conceals it's the innate in inherent love sure that's within this woman holy kiss in her Cup in her Godly soul to attach herself with this in the with the faith of God with his unity and not to separate God forbid from God's Unity I feel a night Limitless the Netflix says even if you kill me no limit which means you would kill her she's ready to jump into the fire for God they tell her you worship idols bow down to the idol or you will kill you she says kill me I'm not bowing down and not just bowing down look at the alternative says next line even just merely to bow down in other words there is any bowing down and really meeting you Buddha Buddha pray for me help me I know you're the best you can help me you've convinced yourself like a damn fool excuse the expression that the Buddha can help you but then there is people many people most people who know that's nonsense and silliness but nevertheless the guy says if you don't bow down I'm gonna shoot you and kill you you bow down but in your heart of hearts you know it's ridiculous says down to them if I feel a bit of olive Cloud even the mere bowing down without any faith in the heart believing that this really can help you this Idol the cold scale and needless to say with the fourth line from the bottom page Lament the coast came and needless to say Yates surely to conquer the evil inclination and the Indulgence of of of inappropriate behavior of seclusion and relate and intimacy with another man yes they are easier if you compare compare that to other availables they're easier prohibitions than the Misa Hashem from Death God forbid so in other words this woman who the Torah says secluded herself she would have never done it and she wouldn't and even and he says another thing a person would never bow even just a mere bow to avoid the Zara and would give away their life we learned this early in chapters 18 and 19 of Tanya but what happened if I have finished look how does she make this distinction Maisha how does she justify secluding herself with another man Etc having an affair and all that versus another prohibition which she won't do says the difference that she makes being insaneal does it make sense the same woman who went and secluded herself possibly have an affair with another man she wouldn't bow down to an idol and even if she doesn't believe in the Isle she wouldn't bow down to it even just a mere bow and even if you're gonna kill her does that make sense she's ready to die for Hashem as long as she doesn't bow to an idol but when it comes to seclusion and a possible affair she don't care how do you justify the two what's going on in her in her psyche says that itself is stupidity that argument and and Heather this is so real this you know you learn the Tanya you see how real it is on one hand we can be the most holy and the most good and at the very same time we can be the most Disturbed it's a kind of a schizophrenia make up your mind who are you well we know the truth is I'm not going to bow down to an idol even if they kill me no but to go and and do an Aveda you're ready to do when you're doing the availa you're doing the same thing you're separating yourself from God you're spiritually killing yourself so therefore this difference that she makes in her mind who campaigned beneficial the kiss the the Clipper grasp grabs her her mind her heart making this ridiculous distinction it captures an efficiently kissable how much of the Clipper can get to the person and this answers those book asked yesterday only till the level of within the woman the light at the clown next page top of page 16 but not Beyond we learned earlier a very very important point that the light of God the energy of God invests itself in and we call that it Munna you see how much of the Clipper can get to a person only till it can't touch that's why we repeatedly say that the ammuna of a Jew is pure not tainted not an iota you know buyer someone who you know studies philosophies and ideologies and becomes you know uh a heretic we're not talking about that even that the river has an entire Treatise where he reconciles the missionar which says which enumerates the people that don't have Olam Haba to the fact that everyone has a Muna it's a very famous treatise wrote in the 1940s because at that time to Frida karebra said my mom I wrote my Ballroom or had my mom published in which he touches upon some basic fundamental issues in giddishkite in in belief in the 13 principles Resurrection good and bad you know the basics you know the the basics uh to get someone to go over from being a non-believer to being a believer one of the issues is this issue the mishna says if you do sin a b c and d you don't have you don't have the world to come and that ever said it's not exactly that and he explained it not only are Pikachu [Applause] medrish Kabula said this it's it's a It's A Treatise today it's been printed over and over and probably in English as well what's the but it's all based on Tanya what does the outdo say and he alludes to it here in the first lie on page 60 that the clip begets but not now but Maisha we don't need a sense of wisdom we mean the sense of faith and Munna so the outdated says here that this woman who makes this ridiculous distinction between not worshiping an idol but secluding herself with another man possibly for you know having an affair and all that is not touched and you're probably wondering well how could that be if you have faith in God and you're from Jew how can you not how can you do such a thing and the answer is very simple like I told you yesterday and Maisha and I kind of had a little disagreement how we see it but that's fine and that is that we all do it we forget we want to forget we make believe it's not happening we pretend we go into fantasy land and we see no this is not happening when I uh speak out talk in middleish Monastery um and if Allah says you're not allowed to which we all do or I could talk for myself I've done that is equivalent to what it says here because that's a transgression and that's a transgression and to go and make a distinction that this transgression is a seclusion with another man it's an affair but this conclusion it's in the basement I have Tylenol big deal but Allah says you're not allowed to talk so when you talk you're violating God's will if you believe that God's will is communicated to us through the rabbis says that as far as their faith of a person the faith is intact then Mundo was never lost and this as you know is definitely the underlying thought process in in chabad's Outreach and at an inreach it's it's not just oh we're going to tolerate my son I saw yesterday somewhere here in the community a son of someone who's prominent walking a dog without a yamaka I don't think that he's religious okay he lives in the house so one argument can be okay why is that I have to put up with him because the other way will be worse if I kick him out of the house you'll end up you know using drugs on and on and on that's not chabad's approach to being the kind of every Jew bad's approach is that that Jew is just as good as the jewel film and you Jew with thrilling could even be worse than him because he doesn't know better and you know better so who's better off you or him so when you talk when you're thrilling on during you're worse than him not keeping Shabbos so in other words it's not a game here I'm better than you you're better than me it's the attitude and understanding that the amount of a Jew is pure and more than below from the Moon and Below that's when we have issues that's we have to work out to doubt the devil says here I wanted to go back to the point aval next line the only please put yourself the truth is look at my look what he says Malaysia the one that desecrates a little tiny Aveda it's the same qualitative transgression over the will of God The Who doesn't miss any words he says it very emphatically The Who and that person that does that this little teeny Aveda is the apps isn't the is is the app so it creates the absolute separation is better from God's Unity more so Clipper that the Clipper honey gods I'm sorry more than the Clipper and idolatry the yes and when a person does any Avera including a very lightweight Avera the person is worse than all that every then everything that comes from the Clipper honeys non-kosher animals and and birds voices that are contamined that are spiritually impure of creepy things and now he could quotes a gamutta or Kamina the as the saying an act the mother says why was Adam addition created after all other creations on the sixth day of creation to Humble man to Humble him you think you're a yaksha madame you think you're a big shot you think you're as we say hard you're a big shot I'm the son of a rabbi I'm the son of a reppi I'm the roscoilo I'm the guy by base kodesh I am the rabbi right says the gamoria hey little hey fellow you're nothing you know why because a little gnat which was created before you was created not on the sixth day Man was created on Sixth Day of Creation you created an earlier day is has more priority than you do why and the ultimate explains Peter look how he says it over here which is it takes in vain Almighty doesn't give out what we call in English a parasite and the worst thing is if you have a parasite may God save us from parasites taking taking but not giving at all right says the outer number this is the the greatest type of clip and it's distant from Holiness holiness gives to everyone shares so why do you why should your children what are you teaching your children and grandchildren share you know why you should share because sharing represents what God does he shares with us the whole idea of giving and sharing is what God wants in a person a person who's just a taker and not a giver is a parasite and I yitosh the nature of this little gnat it sucks in the food and it gives nothing back for the other flies around it right says the good mother even this itush that's so bad off that's a parasite is better than you man why because it does its job God created a net to be a parasite someone that is a parasite then that's doing his job but you man when you go against God you're not doing what God created you for so you're worse than that that's the shot in the Gomorrah back into the Tanya and the other says the ultimate of cadusha is to give and give to everyone anything when you don't give you're so distant he says you're so far from holiness foreign right Holiness gives to something that's very distant always seeking to give so that is called Dennis Lee is priority over the man that sins bestest as the influence of God descends from his will because so the net is as we said needless to say other animals that are not Kosher if I feel as high as lawyers even bad animals you know the dangerous animals that you know seek to tear apart and and kill and all that none of them change their tough kid their purpose is God's purpose and why he created them they keep foreign apart an animal is what God wants of them to do because that's their nature but the truth is that's the way God created them the point being here that the altareb is saying that you men are so much further when you commit a sin than a little gnat and that's a very very humbling thought because you know we we we we think and we we think someone is a parasite terrible I don't want I don't want to be I don't have anything to do with a parasite right guess what sometimes you have a friend if someone you think he's your friend and you realize that that person is a parasite he's always taking and taking and taking and he gives nothing says that's true but what's even worse is what you're doing so you look at your friend and you say I don't want to be his friend anymore this is a parasite you know this is only a a moocher I'm watching a cigarette give me a cigarette I don't have a cigarette give me a moochie a moocher like we have in Brooklyn they used to smoke the cigarettes one guy has a pack of cigarettes the other guy says come out give me a cigarette I need to smoke taking taking taking what are you giving me for it nothing I want a cigarette well what are you going to give me tomorrow nothing and it's not a game I I gave you a cigarette you know which is a bad example because we shouldn't be smoking but but the idea is taking taking doubt that ever says even such a low life is greater the YouTubers than that than the person that commits a tiny little sin because then that does its job the muscle of designer right the prostitute with a prostitute tries to entice this King's son a king hires one prostitute in a second each one to the tenth prostitute doesn't know that it's coming from the king and the purpose of which is what to see if the King's son is loyal and faithful to the king that's the whole purpose of her it's like a a tense prostitute trying to entice you to do something and it really means it's doing its job the eight Sahara is doing its job the eggs are in those very well what it's doing and it wants to do it because that's what it was hired to do that's what Hashem created to do but you the Jew who who is Faith connection to God at the core when committing a sin you're rebelling against all of God even if it's just a little sin and when you think about this thought it should humble a person let's continue just another vasadike mystalgic that the image of God never left never left their face what do we see kohai's rice all bad vicious animals is subjugated to them and you've heard stories how Sadiq him they had lions and other you know animals who would normally tear and kill and they ran away like a little one second myself finished but because in the pit of the Lions and they all faded away why because they saw that salmonella came you know what the message from this is Yoni that when a Jew lives with Hashem with Taylor and Mrs you can go into the heart of the Lion and people will respect you so don't give me khasid spartic a yeet who really conducts himself and refines himself anywhere in any time people will respect that there's a there's there's an Ambiance there's an Ambiance that's created that hovers over this person who has refined themselves that's greater than anything else all the semantics and all the details fall aside yes Maisha what do you want to say he was uh he was in that Caravan and and the the [Music] based on Shabbos they went on Shabbos and so he stayed put He was all alone in the desert and so forth and uh this line came and this massive line came and just sat down next to him the whole Shabbos protected him yes yes it's a long story thank you cabinets so um it's a very important month because the rep explained many times this is the only month when of the father himself Our Father Comforts us traditionally what does it mean we Comfort the father said no no that's also true but there's another concept where the the Comfort the condolences comes from of comes from our father and when condolences and comfort come from a father it's it's more powerful is make make use of it you know and although we're in the middle of the three weeks that but also based on Dalton and other places the importance of simcha now of course that doesn't mean violation of halacha but the the greatest type of comfort is when you break the Clipper with simcha so on one hand we're in a morning period our base amigdas was breached the right the world the walls of Islam were breached and then comes if doesn't come and God when he will come the Tish above so it's a sad time a very sad time until the says one should avoid doing court case with a non-jew during this month because the muzzle isn't great and that's why people won't make weddings from the first of of till after Tish above or you know the 15th of the month but nevertheless as we get closer to the shiach and the reality you know I was listening to I think avicent or isser Rabbi gold and I wrote on the chat even if he disagreed with his um I don't know which word to use but you know it sounds like this passionate mayor Kahani uh stance which he took but the the fact that he was a Jew of fire he had a belief and he lived with his belief and you see that he created people who supported the belief and and and went along with the belief even and it wasn't you know not talking about here at least I don't see it as a violation of you know and at 87 or 88 someone sent me the clip where he's walking with a walker in in the two-way area which I think ISO said his Services you know and they took a clip and what is he's talking about how can it be that the Jews in Muncie and the Jews in Philly and the Jews in Brooklyn are there with why aren't you here there to slow you know he's living he's lit he's living with Paradigm he's living with a parent maybe it's not my Paradigm your Paradigm the rep is Paradigm other represents I'm not going there but the fact is there's a ye that's living with with an ideal and that's very important to to live with an ideal okay you don't want this to be the idea well show me your ideal you have a better one that show me what your ideal is but as we say get this not here and not there it's all papkis you know bubkas is zero let's talk talk is cheap so I think it's important I I never I never knew this man I might have heard his name but you know just the last few days you guys have sent some stuff and continue I'd like to find out more when that whenever there's a chance to meet or read about an interesting person someone who's done for Yiddish kite you know it's it's a good thing you know it's it's a smart thing you know so um Falcon amazing I think or maybe not already after shiv I'm not sure but um you know and it's important to to to teach our children and grandchildren and friends in basement even if the person doesn't have your shita he could still be a good guy and you could there's something to learn from him even if he has a different shita yes you wanted to say something no you felt lost you're here are yours yes I was just a very famous uh it was a video last week where this uh you know he was putting on phone on television he's been doing it for a long time and this woman comes over to him and you know yeah yeah we're all aware of it it went viral no that's such a bad touch to what she did but it's unbelievable because kobat did so many things for people on freedom obviously all over the world [Music] that are not religious but they went to put on phone and they put on phone every single day and they did it on cameras and they did it on camera and then afterwards afterwards the next day hundreds of they brought hundreds of different yeah we have to thank that woman so when someone comes over to you and says exactly when someone comes over to you says you yeah when someone says you're an Antiquated Jew with your beard and your bears and your Yama could say give me more give me more give me more that's what happened over here if this habotnik would have said you foolish woman get out of it you're what's your business and on and on it wouldn't have the same impact if you listen to what the bucker said he says thank you very much thank you for cursing me Imam Israel with shimmy curses David and David says thank you exactly no but you think of it yeah it's a 2000 years ago 2023 Tel Aviv the same thing happened to have a great Shabbos love you all see you all on Monday zydism good cheer bye bye good job