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Different People Is Opportunity

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okay good morning we're on page 149 in country somalian the kids are at the bottom of the page um the kitchen says that what we learned yesterday as the street of that silos hey meredith's premium when we talk about the ten spheros of vasilis of the world of attilas they are consid they are called and they are inner energies homozygous the calim what does it mean oh it is premium number one there's two conditions one is that they invest themselves into a in an abode in a place we call that a caylee a specific one um that that is specific and fit for the type of energy that's being given number two obeying bistrotios and the manner in which they come into their place is in a progressive way called the statues the ma of potentiality we don't know yet what it is we know that there's potential here rashford and this hashball coming into this caylee comes in an accounted way with the offenhabital based on the amount of beetle that the kaley has and why is that because the beetle cleared his butter because beetle is the suitable and proper vessel for drawing for having hashem's holiness dwell there and we spoke a lot about that yesterday so we'll go on now to chapter three paid a gimbal top of 151. the entire idea that there's din and there's order and accountability that's only when we're talking about the experience known as satanish towsons which i've said many times is the progress progression of the energy from one to the other from level level to the other level step by step in a way that's not overwhelming demands if you're talking about established you can't have it any other way because now four reasons why histaus requires the earth to be mitsumtsum let's see what he says okay we learned that earlier because we're talking about an orphan it's an in it it invests itself so the quality of the energy is one that requires a a scenario that's conducive for creeping in getting in you know plenius base number two there that ebba says that the concept of order requires is is conducive to premiums if you wouldn't have one following the other in an orderly fashion you can have kind of chaos chaos is fine in that realm but when you talk about say there which is the opposite of chaos that's a that's a that's conducive for orpney me number three gomli you say hey kaylee number three is the fact that we're talking here about what's what what's the experience we're discussing here kaylee an earlier in achilles so when as soon as you talk about of a light and energy in a vessel that is already by definition or pneumous number four islam is 151 we're getting on to the second paragraph motion the the fourth point point is that because we're talking about establish we have to take into consideration the the lower the next level you cannot overwhelm the next level you have to take that into consideration call any type of energy whether it's energy coming from intellect whether it's energy coming from oceans how to yeshua tivo hill babasha who it has by its very inherent nature a certain teva a certain style the energy what's its style calmness peacefulness tranquility the neither is what is the energy like coming from me there is spiders it's it's emotional it's it's frictional it's energetic kane will be right up nimi so these so any type of orpney me yes me it has as well based on what it is it's nature it has an inherent inherent makeup and that is order and preciseness so we've said here very important thing you can't have an orphan me if there's not preciseness and orderliness because that is the nature of an orpney me now like i told you yesterday take for example one type of person by by their very nature when they're in an arena and in a situation which is orderly they thrive put that same person in a in an arena which is chaotic they fail and you see there's so much in schools my wife's a special ed teacher you know you see it with with kids in classrooms and that's why some kids will do tremendous in a small school and guess what others will do gevaldic in a large school because by nature they're such children that they get high from being in a large school and let's take another example some people are their best in a small community other people need to are the best in a large community third example some people are gavaldic in a small little school with a few amount of poop people people don't talk people don't mix they that's their comfort zone other people that's comfort zone is disastrous for them and they like to be in a school that there's lots of people lots of talking and lots of mignonim and lots of right and they do their best there all of this these examples are demonstrative of what we're learning here and and what we're learning here is that this is all the oil panini uh experience because if if you want to experience something in a way that's meaningful you need to invest yourself into it and the question is where should i invest myself into what should i invest myself into the answer is who are you who are you that's what the rapper lays out here that is creeping into us and saying find out who you are and understand that depending on who you are that's what you'll do best i so i saw this in my younger in my younger years not that i'm you know an old geezer but i saw this i saw this i really did you know it's hard to the hardest thing i think we can all admit with middle age all of us is to look yourself in the mirror and say i made a mistake that's the hardest thing for a person but at the same time it's the smartest thing for a person it's the smartest thing because if you could look yourself in the mirror and say i made a mistake boy do you have courage boy are you going to be on the right track because you acknowledge your weakness and you acknowledge what you're good at and what you're not good at and you put your energy into what you're good at and you stay far away from what you're not good at now i'm not talking about we discussed once i don't know if you remember based on the arizona teachers that when someone sees they failed in a in a certain area throughout their lifetime when they were a young child when they were a teenager and a young adult and a middle-aged adult and they saw that they failed let's say in friendship or in law in in another area and it always comes back to haunt them so davizo says rather than escaping that issue this is a sign from on high that this is what your instrument needs and you have to perfect it that's true but that that's a different that's a very different analysis and i don't want to i don't want to mix the two okay okay we're not talking about this spiritual calling of the neshama and there's something to it much more than something it's very very very important in other words if you see there's an area in your life in which you you reflect back you say you know when i was a young boy i had the same issue and when i was a teenager the same issue in middle age you know and now you're 75 80 years old and you say why is this happening to me i thought i'm on vacation now at the beach in venice beach or inaudible leave me alone the same issue comes back to play you so obviously you're being called you're the shaman's being called my friend the shama you need a tickle and your neshama needs to go back when it goes back with a ticket and you have to somehow reconcile this but i'm here we're not talking about this okay we're not talking about this what we're talking about here is the idea that an auror pneumonism that a shop here lays out a very important concept that an or he says has four in the first paragraph he doesn't elaborate but he says there are four reasons why an orpneemi comes in his language begins okay you'll reread that later and again there isn't much language verbiage here maybe he'll elaborate soon but i'm just focusing on the overall concept that the aurapneemi is such that it requires an assessment of self and knowing what you're good at what you're not good at and stay focused stay focused and even if you made a mistake right you made a mistake you realize you made a mistake it's never too late you have you have you have we have an entire lifetime to put our energies into what we're good at very very important very important let's continue [Music] the the nature of order is the nature of accountability via duke the commerce of the echoes being particular paying attention to quantity and quality when we talk about energies that invest themselves in a specific place called klim in afghanistan although overall this kali is a fit for the energy for the iris for example hillel the makeup the composition the physical makeup of the membrane of the brain of the brain overall the the actual motion the actual um material of the brain is suitable to handle intellect and the actual homer material of the heart overall speaking it is a vessel of michigan amidos to the the the middles you understand do you not have the place are you lost okay 151 you have the 151 the the the the parrot it's like the third or fourth power depending it's the paragraph begins with ores have a slapshoom but kaelin okay and we're right in the middle like four lines down in middle and middle the fourth line the whole said nevertheless now this is listen to this point that ebb is saying although we've established that the orpnini is guided by its nature which is panemias orderliness exactness preciseness nevertheless and and and wait and it's and it's and it's material it's makeup is such that it can handle either intellect which is for the moah and and emotions for the heart says that nevertheless it still requires a limitation a measurement a limitation of how much intellect should be invested in the vessel in other words what what is that shop saying here hilo you would think that since this has been the inherent makeup of this style of this particular approach so it ca it will never be too much does it shop wrong it might be too much or too little so in other words although it has a preconceived um uh reality which is that it's an rpv nevertheless once the orpneemi decides to invest itself in achilles there needs to be a reassessment of how much of my arm my intellect should go into the caylee so you could let's let's give an example a practical example you make up this morning with you today you made up in the morning that you're going to have a meeting or you're going to do this so you're going to do that and now it's 2 3 4 in the afternoon and you're about to embark on what you made up this morning you have to reassess the situation why why because in the morning it was it was an overall general statement and idea it wasn't concretized in detail now when it comes to put pen to paper or ink to the piece of art or actually getting into your car and driving down to the americas for your counseling here you have to reassess who is my patient where they coming from what am i going to say what am i not going to say what am i going to do it's an entire different assessment this is what the rashaba says let's see more inside says so too with the regarding emotions the inlay king for if this weren't the case which means that you don't have to reassess the situation when it comes to the practicality bottom line hare they wouldn't be able to tolerate the abundance of energy god forbid i think he's saying that if you don't assess your your brain power it can be an overwhelming an overwhelm and you could flip out and crack up there are people who are geniuses i'm not even talking about jesus but you know if there's too much it's it it it the the the what do they call the light the light not the light switches but the uh sockets the sockets that are controlled i forget the name now they they they they flip on they flip off the fuse thank you thank you thank you thank you very much the fuse and the so same is true with emotions i want this i desire this i love this i don't know maybe hilo this would be called the equivalent of of a manic you know the manic high and lows maybe well certainly um certainly there are many psychological correlates to any kind of uh but of an episode a psychotic episode of the manic episode could could be like this sort of basically blowing our circuits right right see this is what i would love for you hitler one day you should you should write and present something that you know that we could put into such into practical terms you know like when this we learned this exidus if we could just concretize it and make it practical to for the average person on the street that would give them a willingness to to to look at the text to go back you know to see anyway okay and the rapper says one second he doesn't stop he looks like the rashaab touched the raw nerve so he says i gotta i gotta i'm gonna give you some more information on the rain but as we see in actuality god forbid become with cert many illnesses mind illnesses until intellectual you know mental illnesses to put it in the vernacular the aleve and emotional illnesses and not having enough vessels to receive it and we have a blowout we have a the circuit breaker problem which its inherent definition is to be progressive and to and to deal with a situation that's beyond it and not beyond it lower than itself so moshe that's why the lawyer has to be exact when you know that you what you're doing now is going to impact someone and something later on then you think so much more about what you're doing take for example in your work in my work writing and art i mean it's like you're not just you're not just i i tell me if this is true but i believe it is you're not just drawing for now you're drawing for eternity you're drawing for someone in 100 years that's going to look at your painting and you hope that he will be inspired she'll be inspired to serve at so you today are making a husband of of and taking that person and that situation into consideration and the same as in writing i always say this i don't write for today and tomorrow i write for after my life of course i'm writing i'm writing for the long bookshelf book you know this short bookshelf and his long bookshelf and i try most of my works to write long bookshelf the approach is long in other words way beyond you know my my time on earth this will be here and i wanted to be inspirational and be and be good for people so i have to think about that i might say something now that is appropriate for now but it's not appropriate for a hundred years maybe you have to say it differently so that our shop says the same thing since the or that we're talking about here ari is such an energy that it it it will it it by definition it it impacts what's lower than it something that's going to be less in other words our children and grandchildren great-grandchildren usually according to hazal and even the way the world you know there's um it gets a little less and less and less okay it doesn't mean bad but different different so the r of that's given here now takes that into consideration the oil says how much energy should be invested only the amount of energy that's based on the capacity and ability of the vessel to receive it the laser is the last line on the page at 151. if not for this in the last shot caleb accomplished earlier not only would the vessel not receive the light 153 on top alois is it's going to like we said it's going to destroy the vessel it's going to blow the circuit as we see in actuality rabbi when a teacher gives over information of in intelligence intellect information to his student if he had a cliche if he overwhelms the vessel the receptacle of the student he knows who will watch out for the macabre as a secretary not only will the student not receive the energy the the information that the teacher gives him eloise secretary he confuses the student and all of a sudden and and this is true and i know for myself it's so important to to know what to say and know what not to say i asked once a a smart person uh who was from the west side and i met him i asked him he was close to a bureau khan and i asked him tell me something about rabio conquest he used to learn together he used to have a sheer in the 70s and crown heights and i just was interested they said i'll tell you one thing it's not what he says that makes that makes him so special it's what he doesn't say we call this i think means to hold back it's very hard to hold back especially if someone is in the you know the type to give and say and speak and to hold yourself back to control your mouth or use that heart but even someone who's not that type of a person i mean that's that's what it says what is your glove so that we literally translate it make a fence around your your your your mouth so you you'll sound like a smart person not like a fool there's another type there's another the the fence the cat the category the definition of espika is silence is is knowing when to be quiet that's that's really when you could tell a person is smart or a person is a smart person the ability to not talk there's so much we can learn from not talking that reminds me of my friend when we came to the action of a rebbe you know in the 2000s and artists role that he wasn't religious at the time and we heard that he speaks english and so i brought him i brought him to him and um is you know most of the time he was talking to me and i was talking to him in in in yiddish or hebrew whatever yiddish i think and and no in english because he wanted my friend to understand but then all of a sudden he like when it came time to give abraha he became silent and this was like uh 6 30 6 6 30 in the morning and by the gun it's quiet it was really awesome i'm telling you it felt like you're in the crater sakadosam on your tipper by yourself talking to hashem and here we are two of us stand all three of us standing right next to each other and he looks into my friend's face and you understand this person didn't you know didn't he wasn't he wasn't a hustler he wasn't a from jewel you know and his eyes are piercing into him and into me and us into them and it's like and my friend starts sobbing starts crying and after the after the rabbit gave the broccoli so my friend said to him thank you rebbe for teaching me the power of silence you understand we are so uncomfortable just give an example what you know when the girls go out sometimes my girls go out to meet someone right so they say the most uncomfortable thing is if there's silence you know like the guy's not talking she's sitting there it's like it's like you want to bury yourself it's hard rabbi yeah rabbi can i can i just just for one quick second it's so amazing you said that so after we got married the first time i i we were kind of let's say alone on shabbos or whatever it was i went to i went to her apartment at the time and i was literally just like 10-15 minutes go by and there was nothing said and my wife's side of the story was she said oh my god like what did i get myself into there's nothing to say he's saying nothing we're not you know how's this going to work and i was staring at the picture with the rebba with the that has the baby in his hand that's that famous picture right she never saw the baby in the red his hand ever she could never actually find it you know some people can't see it so i was staring at that and then i just came out after 15 minutes said you know there's a baby in your rabby's hand and from that moment she knew that it was such breath as there was perfect match that i was able to see and and you know see the the beauty of the red and all this but like it's it's really can be a very scary thing right right don't know how to control you know that and understand that's okay is talking now about iris and caleb and he says the most interesting thing that what we just learned he's saying here is when it finally says here that the the the teacher if the teacher doesn't assess the student and overwhelms them with information not only with the student not know that information it will cause a general mix-up and confusion in the teacher and that's why i said it's so important to know what to say and what not to say let's continue inside first paragraph 153 in the middle um the time and what's the reason because any energy in any experience that goes from level to level shall a mate menu including a lower level a lower situation the amount of information of or of energy given needs to take into consideration the lower level in this case the student who's not a teacher so if you want to succeed with a teacher you have to know what to say how to say it and what not to say next paragraph so using this as a muscle he says now the moral is [Music] this will help us explain this will explain to us how it how how the same is true in spiritual realms the swedish aliens have styles and the spiritual realms that are part of the historicals all this that we discussed till now jonathan is historious but he says now let's look at the perspective of the r and suff of the light of the energy and not just an energy that's that's limited and and and guided and controlled but an infinite light or ain't soft shall my say that establish laws that transcends the satanist [Music] as we said throughout the minor this experience comes in a in an encompassing way venomous lavish becalam it doesn't have a specific kali right you want your one known example the principal walks into the room the principle doesn't have to say anything as long as the students know we're talking about the normal situation that it's a principle that's it there's respect but the principle didn't say anything the principal walked into the room that's a mock if experience okay so the orange self is market god god godliness holiness i don't know anything yet about the holiness what type of holiness what yes what not it's not relevant for the perspective of the holiness the wholeness says orange self let's continue [Music] to the orange self it's not relevant whether this you know to assess the recipient or like i told you the whole time the the sun shines and it makes no difference to the sun who's benefiting from the sun and that's why the sun shines on the garbage as well under schmutz as well because orange self does not need caleb so again arpanemi needs kaelyn orenself doesn't need caitlyn so therefore from orange soft there is energy given to a place that's not suitable just as it's given to a suitable place this goes back to the theme that we've been talking about the entire time that even the negative energy and husks for over it it's certainly and those that desecrate hashem's will why do bad people prosper right here page 155 and 53. they can take and suck energy from that orange stuff after them caleb cloud even though they're not vessels at all suitable for it they're low lives they're good for nothings they're going against hashem so how can you touch tap into the urine itself with fish instead of calam cloud because that perspective over yourself says i just shine anyone can benefit naturally if you're more refined person you're going to take it in a better way but i'm shining i'm giving and i say therefore for the orange self it's not shy look at his word it's not possible for there to be order say there the nimjin there comes an abundance of influence the issue is because our self by its very nature is infinite the urge to say that the the fourth the third paragraph the energy of satan invest itself in a vessel in a special place in a specific place how do you move bullet free or even our calendars limited to that place and that's why it's applicable to that light and energy and experience order and progression but the energy that transcends history abundance you get a lot but you know when you get a lot there's some many times a lot of garbage do a lot of problems so you have to discern and you have to take like we're learning in the rambam and pay to get the yoyo in you have to take the good from the bed or take the bed out of the good you know shabbos know how to do that but we'll talk right last paragraph the zeho course of so this is what the first innovation says in takbi kanesha the prophet says if you rise like an eagle commander just as an eagle pasha mayan that's in the in the heaven the negative energy mcbms they rise the cabin to receive from the supernova believed in the husband because from there the energy gives without accountability even even though these negative energies and husks and extraneous forces don't have humility they don't have bethel they can get there not only don't they have subservience and bethel they actually go against hashem they desecrate the russian ivory is the reason the last few words on the page the success of the the idol worshipers next page top of 155 verde boy oyster that they have lots of wealth recovery and honor in this world and that's why they also dominate over us israel awesome the reason is because where are they getting their energy from the source of their energy um it's not from the order and progression but it's from beyond that from the transcending that only idea comes through so now every one of us asks ourselves well which is better which is better i'd rather have order and normalcy than chaos and issues okay will anyone trade wealth success honor if it comes together with real problems your normal person will say no no i'd rather have less but peacefulness you have lots of properties you have lots of anxiety and worries collecting the rent and paying the mortgage and now with covert people not paying the rent and it's a big bala gun now so how do i you know do i how much of myself do i invest into oh share the cover into wealth and honor the answer as much as it enhances hakadosh baruch's plan to make the world a vessel for god and and if you're honest with yourself you'll know how much yes you listen already you're innocent you want to say something yeah yeah oh no we just learned that that is too much oh mechanical papers right now and now we're saying that the light comes from me [Music] oh no because good question but the answer is when we talk about an orpney me too much r will bust the vessel when we talk about it or market if it doesn't have a kali unison it's it's it's all over that's his point it doesn't it doesn't have a kali that if it had a calendar saying how is that from the from the r itself to get the answer is because the r itself is such a experience such a r that says i don't i don't need a kaylee i i can't achille is antithetical to earn self okay we'll stop here and tomorrow mr sham will uh we'll continue and we'll learn the kit sir you know we went a little fast but but trevor you know you have the english translation and it's it's schmuck i don't know i hope i hope you feel the same way i get animated and i get convinced from learning this it's really it's really gevalting it's really dividing i thank you for giving me the opportunity i haven't learned this in years scigirls and everyone take care thank you have a good day good bye